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JEWISH STANDARD JUNE 15, 2018 3
Noshes “I feel more Jewish and more
attached to the Christian story
than ever. Both. So that’s why I’m bisexual.”
— New York Times columnist David Brooks, explaining what he calls his religious
bisexuality, onstage at George Mason University’s Mercatus Center on June 6.
MIXED FARE:
Something light,
something not
“Tag” is based on dercover, at some risk,
a true story to film some very cruel
about five friends practices.
who have been playing
that schoolyard game Complicated Hedy
“Bombshell,” a Rashida Jones Isla Fisher
since they were children.
As adults, they drop documentary
everything to meet up about the life of
once a year and play tag. actress and inventor
As the film opens, the HEDY LAMARR (1914-
wedding of Jerry 2000) is streaming on
(Jeremy Renner), the Netflix now. The film had
Howie Mandel
only player never to lose a limited theatrical
at tag, coincides with the opening last year. Few
annual tag game. The people under 50 even
other four players figure
he’ll be so distracted that
have heard of Lamarr, but
in her heyday, circa 1940, Animal antics
they finally can beat him. she was a big Hollywood ● Comedian HOWIE MANDEL will host the new Nat
The cast includes star and she was widely Geo Wild series, “Animals Doing Things.” (It premieres
RASHIDA JONES, 42, as considered the most Jonathan Safran Foer Zoey Deutch on Saturday, June 16, at 9 p.m.) The show will feature the
Cheryl, the only female beautiful actress alive. In
best never-before-seen animal videos submitted to the
player, and ISLA FISHER, the last 25 years, another times had great courage. on June 15. ZOEY
side of the actress has popular Instagram account “@AnimalsDoingThings.”
42, as the wife of one of On the other hand, she DEUTCH, 23, and Glen
become known—her Each video is hosted by Mandel, who provides funny
the players. (Opens cast off things that were Powell co-star as
Friday, June 15.) talent for invention. narration and witty commentary before or after
inconvenient, like her assistants to two
The documentary Lamarr, the child of Jewish background, her they play.
high-powered executives
“Eating Animals” opens affluent, assimilated one adopted child, and –N.B.
(Taye Diggs and Lucy
the same day in many Viennese Jews, led an her five husbands. Much Liu) who run them
cities. It is based on a extraordinary, improb- time is spent on her most ragged. They decide to
book of the same name able life, and that alone famous invention: a way wide release. Madelyn, producer/director HOW-
makes this well-crafted orchestrate a romance
by JONATHAN SAFRAN to make radio-controlled who describes the film as ARD DEUTCH, 67.) Last
film worth your time. between their bosses,
FOER, 41 (“Everything torpedoes invulnerable semi-autobiographical, month, Madelyn said this
Via interviews with her hoping that it will calm
Is Illuminated”). Foer’s to jamming by Nazi subs. plays lead character Izzy to the “Jewish Journal”
three children, and many them down.
study of the horrors as- The Navy didn’t use the Klein. We follow Klein as about her bat mitzvah:
others (including MEL A feature film, “The the recent college grad “It puts a lot of respon-
sociated with factory invention during WWII,
BROOKS, 91), a full por- Year of Spectacular suffers through a series sibility and account-
farming so impressed but later her frequency-
actress NATALIE PORT- trait of Lamarr emerges. Men,” is opening the of bad romantic rela- ability on the kid. You’re
hopping idea became the
MAN, 36, that she got But, be warned, it isn’t a same day in many the- tionships and leans on treated like an adult with
basis for the way cell-
Foer’s permission to happy story. aters, and it is available her younger sister and opinions and a point of
phone calls, Wi-Fi, and
turn it into a documen- Early on, Lamarr was as video on demand. It her mother for support view. I think it changed
GPS is transmitted.
tary, which she narrates. interested in science, but was written by Zoey’s (played, respectively, by my life, being able to
(Portman became a that wasn’t a viable ca- The Deutch sisters sister MADELYN DEUT- Zoey and Thompson). stand at the bima in front
vegetarian when she was reer path for women then. The new Netflix CH, 27, and directed by The Deutch sisters, of a congregation and
8 and a vegan in 2009.) Her beauty led her into an comedy series their mother, actress Lea with their mother’s total say what I thought about
Advance reviews praise acting career in European “Set It Up” is Thompson. This film got support, were raised the world around me. I
the way in which the films, and later, in Hol- much more contempo- such good reviews in film Jewish and had bat think it altered the kind
filmmakers went un- lywood pics. She some- rary. It begins streaming festivals that it earned a mitzvahs. (Their father is of adult I became.” –N.B.
Want to read more noshes? Visit facebook.com/jewishstandard California-based Nate Bloom can be reached at
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that this level of psychotrauma can be
hat can a Jewish com- alleviated if it is addressed early on, by
munity in the diaspora strengthening the emotional resilience
offer an elite IDF unit of of discharged combat soldiers. Engag-
released soldiers suffering ing in therapeutic discussion outside of
from psychotrauma? The short answer is Israel, away from the stigma associated
a heaping dose of Zionism and the warm with therapy, and far away from family
embrace of “ahavat Yisrael”— brotherly and work obligations, the soldiers can
love and appreciation. reconnect with their units and begin the
For one week, the community of Congre- process of healing.
gation Ahavat Torah in Englewood envel- In what is a truly unique and ground-
oped a group of mostly secular Israelis with breaking program, nine families wel-
gratitude and appreciation, tending to their comed a group of 18 strangers into
every need, providing creature comforts their homes and treated them like fam-
(food and shelter) as well as fun activities in ily, while the larger community came
the evenings, so they could have eight hours together to organize barbecues, soccer
of therapy a day to process and heal from and basketball games, Shabbat meals,
service-related psychotrauma. and trips to the city. The communal feel-
Some background: Israeli soldiers in ing during the week was palatable.
their 20s are discharged from their mili- What is second nature to us, as Jews
tary service after spending three or more who live by the mantra kol Yisrael arevim Host Ilana Gdanski drives former IDF soldiers to the mall. GDANSKI FAMILY
years in highly stressful and often life- zeh la zeh — all Jews are responsible for
threatening situations. They are expected one another — can appear abnormal or
to return to civilian life easily; often counterintuitive to the unaffiliated. After
there is little attention given to the enor- all, who brings complete strangers into
mity of the horrors they have witnessed their homes?
during their time in the military — they For the IDF soldiers it was simply
might have seen carnage and the deaths astonishing.
of fellow soldiers; they might have had They could not fathom how people
to make life-and-death decisions. While they had never met would welcome them
many former soldiers can resume civilian into their homes so eagerly. They were
life unaffected by the traumas they have surprised to learn how much our com-
witnessed, others struggle with the tran- munity cares about Israel. They were
sition back to everyday life. Some experi- astounded by how focused we are on the
ence difficulty with sleep, concentration, daily events in the Middle East. They said
memory, anger management, and sub- that they had no idea that Israel mattered
stance abuse; those symptoms can lead to this much to the Jews in the rest of the
full blown PTSD if left untreated. world. It was illuminating for the soldiers
The group gathers at Ahavath Torah for a final photo on the day that the soldiers
returned to Israel. TANI FOGER
to learn how much the IDF means to dias- Orthodox hashkafa — our outlook, our
pora Jews. It was equally illuminating for way of life — and lamented that it was dif-
us to see our community through the ficult to find in Israel. They were amazed
appreciative eyes of others. by the sheer size of our synagogue com-
The soldiers seemed genuinely sur- munity and they were touched that so
prised when we thanked them for pro- many of us had come out to meet them
tecting our homeland and allowing Jews at barbecues and shul events — just to say
the world over to feel safe and free. They to them “We support you.” They could
could not grasp the magnitude of our not understand why we were doing all of
appreciation. In the words of one of the this for them, even as we tried so hard to
soldiers, “this is the first time in my life explain it to them.
IDF vets Yair Postolovsky, left, and Guillermo Bellek sit on either side of host that I see Zionism.” One of the host families told them that
Tzvi Small; Reuben Small stands behind his father. SMALL FAMILY Many expressed their admiration for he was a child in Hungary during the war,
the ease and openness of our modern SEE ZIONISM PAGE 36
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S um me
Remembering together
Architects unveil proposals for Teaneck’s ‘Garden of Human Understanding’
LARRY YUDELSON
S
tate Senate Majority Leader Loretta Weinberg of
Teaneck is proud to be “grandmothering” the pro-
posed “Garden of Human Understanding,” which
will memorialize the Holocaust and African slavery
in the green in front of the Teaneck municipal complex.
Ms. Weinberg was among the speakers last month at a
meeting at the Teaneck library, where architects for the
two memorials and for associated improvements to the
library showed off their designs.
The meeting was sponsored by a $5,000 grant from the
New Jersey Council of Humanities, which Ms. Weinberg
had helped obtain.
“The State of New Jersey was impressed” with the
“unique” plans to combine the two memorials, Ms. Wein-
berg said; those plans reflects the uniqueness of Teaneck.
Anita Bakshi, who earned a doctorate in architecture
from Cambridge, teaches in the department of landscape
architecture at Rutgers. She researches “new forms for
monuments, memorials, and other commemorative struc-
tures,” and has written about how the competing Greek
and Turkish communities on Cyprus handle monuments
in Nicosia.
“There are several things that are unique” about the Architect Rodney Leon’s rendering of the Enslaved African Memorial. It will share space on the green in
planned Teaneck memorials, Dr. Bakshi told the meeting. front of the Teaneck library with Alan Hantman’s memorial to the Holocaust.
“The first is the matter of putting these two histories in
communication with each other, the history of the Holo- visitors to learn more about the Holocaust and slavery. A
caust and the history of enslavement of African people display case would show memorabilia, “things that trigger
in the United States,” she said. “These histories are con- thoughts and emotions not just for the garden, but for the
nected in terms of prejudice, exclusion, and diaspora, and They are spaces community.”
also resilience, survival, and continuity. It’s important to
communicate that message of hope and continuity.”
people will move Rodney Leon discussed his plans for the memorial to
African slavery. Mr. Leon has designed two memorials to
The two memorials, on either side of the path leading through. They tell us slavery in Manhattan: one at the United Nations, memo-
up to the town hall, will be “a place of communication,”
she said.
we are here, our rializing the African slave trade, and the other in Lower
Manhattan, at the site of an 18th century African burial
Dr. Bakshi said that some critics of memorials say that histories happened. ground.
“they’re connected with forgetting. We build the memo- He talked about how it important it is to remember the
rial and move on.” Others, she said, argue that “memorials come as the state has made money available for libraries past as we face the future.
can fade into the background. You have plaques every- to renovate. The Teaneck library has hired an architect, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned
where. You have statues. People don’t notice them over Anthony Iovino, to plan the renovations of the library, to repeat it,” he said, quoting philosopher George San-
time. ‘Nothing is as invisible as a monument,’ an Austrian which would play a role as an educational adjunct to the tayana. “It seems as though our society is constantly in
novelist wrote.” two planned memorials. danger of forgetting the lesson. Every day you just need
But she disagrees with those criticisms. “These memo- “The library being on the municipal green is a terrific to turn on the TV and you are tragically reminded of the
rials have a very powerful potential,” she said. “They are natural fit,” Mr. Iovino said. fragility of our institutions.
spaces people will move through. They tell us we are here, The plans he showed featured a glass-walled meeting “It is critical for people of goodwill to act collectively
our histories happened.” space for the groups that come to visit the memorials. “It and form institutions in resistance to the forces of fear,
Dr. Bakshi said she will work with two former students would be a place to sit together and talk where you don’t intolerance, and hate,” Mr. Leon said. Teaneck’s pairing
to develop ideas to better connect the two memorials, have to worry about being shushed,” he said. “It’s a space of the memorials of two communities “shall serve as an
which have been designed separately. we can embellish with technology.” inspiration and example of how communities can come
The plans for memorials in front of the Teaneck library Computers and interactive displays would enable together and act collectively in the spirit of peace, love,
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Mr. Leon displayed a design for his memorial, which
aims to commemorate “the African civilization and
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Alan Hantman, who was the official architect for the
U.S. Capitol complex in Washington D.C., from 1997 to
2007, is designing the Holocaust memorial.
“What drew me to the project is the concept of
having different segments of the community coming Be a part of the change at Touro today.
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Mr. Hantman said there are three financial hurdles
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obody knows exactly why
music has the effect that it
does on the human mind,
body, and spirit. It’s hard to
quantify and it’s hard to define — but it’s
also hard to miss.
It’s hard to listen to some music and
not to be moved — not to be stirred, or
even shaken — by it.
That’s something that Rabbi Tamar
Elad Appelbaum knows. She’s the head
BERRIE FOUNDATION
of Kehillat Zion in Jerusalem, a synagogue
that is Masorti and therefore part of the
worldwide Conservative movement
but also native Israeli, down to its DNA
KEHILLAT ZION
(as she is). She’s also the founder of the
Beit Midrash for Israeli Rabbis, which, Angelica Berrie
as Hartman’s website tells us, is “a joint
project of the HaMidrasha Educational work, and the great oudist Ara Dinkjian
Center for Israeli Judaism and the Shalom will lead the evening; they’ll be joined by Rabbi Tamar Elad Appelbaum leads an evening of music in Jerusalem, as a
Hartman Institute.” singers including Mr. Dinkjian’s father, rapt audience looks on.
It’s also something that Angelica Ber- the renowned Armenian musician Onnik
rie of Englewood, the head of the Russell Dinkjian, and Rabbi J. Rolando Matalan
Berrie Foundation, knows. The Teaneck- of Congregation B’nai Jeshurun in Man-
based foundation has sponsored an hattan, whose passion for piyyutim and
annual program at Manhattan’s Jewish other forms of Mizrachi music run as an
Theological Seminary for years. The pro- undercurrent connecting and powering
gram is co-sponsored by the John Paul II this evening.
Center for Interreligious Dialogue at the The format is based on similar evenings
Pontifical University of St. Thomas Aqui- that Rabbi Elad Appelbaum has held in
nas in Rome and JTS’s Milstein Center for a tent at the picturesque renovated train
Interreligious Dialogue. station in Jerusalem; they’ve drawn “hun-
So that’s a lot of words. A lot of titles. dreds of Jerusalemites, Jews, Christians,
A lot of serious thought. A lot of conso- Muslims, left and right wing, to pray
nants. Not a lot of music. together for our beloved city,” she said.
Until this year, Ms. Berrie said, the The oud player, Ara Dinkjian, lives in
annual program has been a talk. It’s been Fort Lee; for 43 years, until he retired a
a “very frontal affair,” she said. This year, few years ago, he also was the cantor at
ARA DINKJIAN
it won’t be. It will be far less formal, far the Sts. Vartanantz Armenian Apostolic
more emotional. Far fewer words, and Church in Ridgefield.
a great deal of music. And it will be not “This concert centers around Jerusa-
only about interreligious dialogue, but lem,” Mr. Dinkjian said. “When you say Master oudist Ara Dinkjian of Fort Lee will play at “Songs for the Holy City” at
about peace. the word ‘Jerusalem,’ it evokes so many the Jewish Theological Seminary.
It will be “Songs for the Holy City.” (See thoughts and memories and problems and
box.) hopes and fears and history. finding the common language that evokes mellow music, they go into a sort of trance.
Rabbi Elad Appelbaum, Imam Abdul- “I’m a musician; we stay away from poli- the human condition in all of us.” “I don’t know if anybody has any scien-
lah Antepli, who is a chaplain at Duke Uni- tics. But even if you live your life as a musi- How does that work? Where does tific answers about how music works, but
versity and active with Hartman and as cian, you are in a sense making political music’s power come from? “I truly believe I know that it does evoke these powerful,
a leader in Jewish-Muslim interreligious statements by the choices you make, by that it has that power, but I don’t know physical, emotional responses. It is an
what you play and who you play for. where it comes from. No one knows,” Mr. incredibly powerful medium.”
What: Songs for the Holy City: An “Looking back at history, there was a Dinkjian said. Mr. Dinkjian has been playing in public
Interfaith Evening of Music and Prayer time when being a musician was a very “I just became a grandfather to twin since 1964, when he was 5 years old and
Where: At the Jewish Theological low-class thing, but frankly I am just so boys a year ago, and this actually goes to he drummed for his father at the New
Seminary, 3080 Broadway at proud to be part of that long history. Musi- that question. I made sure that my daugh- York World’s Fair. “It was at the Singer
122nd Street in Manhattan, and also cians never had these issues of color or ter listened to music during her preg- Bowl,” he said; ironically, the stadium
streaming online at www.jtsa.edu/live race or faith or geography. Or even gender. nancy, and believe it or not the music that had that name not because of the many
When: On Wednesday, June 20, at If you could play, you could play. We all she listened to then is the music they find singers who performed on its stage, but
7:30 p.m. kind of coexisted. the most familiar and comforting now. because it was funded by the sewing
How much: It’s free, but you need a “And I have to say that the key word “How do you explain these little boys machine family. “They had what they
ticket; for more information and to for the future of mankind is coexistence. who hear dance music and start shaking called Armenian Day in 1964 and again
register, go to www.jtsa.edu, click on It is to learn how to coexist — or not. And their bodies? If they hear something on the in 1965,” he said. “They called it a day,
calendar, and follow the link to Songs
musicians do that. This concert will have radio, they start bouncing. They start mov- but it lasted for several days, with cho-
for the Holy City.
musicians of all faiths and backgrounds, ing their bodies to it. And if it’s more sad, ral groups and dance groups, and folk
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KEHILLAT ZION
On Jerusalem Day, Rabbi Appelbaum organized an interfaith concert in
Jerusalem’s Old Train Station.
KEHILLAT ZION
KEHILLAT ZION
ensembles. I played a hand drum called “Many times enemies — political and
the doumbek — that’s because when I historical enemies — are singing the same
was really young I just started banging, melodies, and therein lies our hope.”
and people said, ‘Give the kid a drum.’ Mr. Dinkjian teaches oud; for the
“I remember the World’s Fair last few years, his students have
ARA DINKJIAN
because all the other musicians were included Rabbi Matalon. “I have got-
one or two generations older than I ten involved in this concert because 900 PALISADE AVENUE, 8D, FORT LEE FOR RENT
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‘Why are you pointing at me?’ that we have to sit down with people
“I have retained the idea that music we don’t agree with.
is an oral, sonic art, not a visual art,” he “We don’t have to agree with them.
said. “I was thrilled to be playing there. But we have to sit down together.”
I was very serious.” That evening will include “Hebrew
Mr. Dinkjian composes instrumental religious music, Arab folk songs, Arme-
music. “My songs have been sung in nian classical music — you will hear
14 different languages, and Hebrew is everything, and everybody will be rep-
one of them,” he said. Many of his com- resented,” Mr. Dinkjian said. “There will
positions are used as liturgical music; be a thread going through it that we are
one of the synagogues where it can be all just human beings.”
heard is Rabbi Matalon’s B’nai Jeshu- Rabbi Burton Visotzky, a frequent
run, on Manhattan’s Upper West Side. presence on television, is the Apple- 1421 HUDSON ROAD, TEANECK SOLD
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Gaming Maimonides
Dr. Owen Gottlieb
makes fun from
the Mishneh Torah
LARRY YUDELSON
O
wen Gottlieb is looking to his
native New Jersey — he grew up
in Park Ridge — to help answer
a question: Has he designed a
board game that only Maimonides could
love?
Or is “Lost and Found” a game that can
find a place in both a school curriculum
and a family game night? Above, a game of “Lost and Found” in progress. Inset, a card from the game.
Now Dr. Gottlieb is bringing “Lost and
Found” to a North Jersey high school class-
room to test that question. Dr. Owen Gottlieb Gottlieb. An ordained Reform rabbi, he And so far reviewers think Dr. Gottlieb
That Maimonides would have loved earned a Ph.D. from New York University has succeeded. “Lost and Found” won a
“Lost and Found,” had it been around needs — which fits with the Maimoni- in Jewish studies and education, focusing bronze medal in the International Seri-
when he ruled on Jewish law in 12th cen- dean principle of the “golden way” of on game design. He now lives in Roches- ous Play Competition, and it is one of 15
tury Cairo, seems pretty sure. The game moderation. ter, New York, where he is a professor of games selected to appear at the Smithson-
revolves around how players deal with “Games are rule-based systems,” Dr. interactive games and media at the Roch- ian American Art Museum’s annual arcade
finding lost objects — do they return them Gottlieb said. “And legal systems also ester Institute of Technology and leads the day this summer, alongside virtual reality
or try to keep them? — based on the details are rule-based systems.” So the question initiative in religion, culture, and policy at games and such video games as “Red Hot
of Jewish law described in Maimonides’ became: “Could we come up with a game the school’s MAGIC Center, which is both Ricochet.”
code of Jewish law, the Mishneh Torah. that models legal cases as a way to look at a research laboratory and a game publish- To be accurate, “Lost and Found” actu-
And the game’s central challenge is for rabbinic literature?” ing studio, with its students providing play ally is two games. There is the original
players to balance family and community If anyone could do that, it would be Dr. testing and design talents. SEE GAMING PAGE 14
Gaming
FROM PAGE 12
game, which, like “Settlers of Cataan” or “Tickets
to Ride,” makes players decide how to use their
resources strategically. But the differences between
Dr. Gottlieb’s game and the classics are deeper than
collecting dinars and funding synagogues rather than
collecting ore and building cities, as players do in “Set-
tlers.” There are events that include the Jewish holi-
days. There’s the chance to act above and beyond the
law, which might earn a bonus, or to transgress the
law by using something that belongs to someone else
מזל טוב — with the risk of getting caught. Luckily, the game
includes a repentance phase.
e North Jersey classroom: How does the game integrate Harvard University
with a curriculum?
As an academic rather than a commercial game
Know from Johnson & Wales University
g developer, this classroom experiment counts as the
where you came, Montclair State University
sort of research that requires approval by an institu-
tional review board to ensure its ethics. Dr. Gottlieb
did not seek permission to disclose the name of the and to where Muhlenberg College
you will go
school where “Lost and Found” is being tested. New York University
The school is not, as you might expect, a Jewish
Ramapo College
school.
“I was at a game development conference in San Rochester Institute of Technology
Francisco, talking with a colleague in Hungary who
has a game that overlaps with Jewish issues,” he said. Rutgers University
“He had a game in competition. I met a teacher who
SUNY Albany
had collaborated on that game. We started talking and
he said was doing a section on the 12th century in his SUNY Stonybrook
class. We hit it off.”
The focus of the research in that teacher’s Bergen Syracuse University
County classroom will be on “developing an optimal The Technion
curriculum to use with the games” as the teacher
“melds the games into his own curriculum. We’ll University of Florida
apply that data, and then shift the curriculum based
on what we learn.” University of Hartford
This whole process will take “three to five years, prob- University of Michigan
ably, depending on whether we get funding or not.”
Meanwhile, Dr. Gottlieb and his team at the MAGIC University of Texas - Austin
Center are working on an expansion set for the strat-
egy game. This will focus on Islamic rather than Jew-
ish law. Israel Defense Forces
“We know Maimonides was clearly reading the great
Arabic jurisprudence like Averroes and Al-Ghazali” Dr. Nativ
Gottlieb said. “We’ve found sections of the law where
Maimonides was making decisions on public health United States Marines Reserve
based on antecedents of what he read in Islamic law.
It’s interesting to see the cross-pollination.”
The two “Lost and Found” games are not yet sold
in stores, but they can be ordered from www.lostand-
foundthegame.com.
O
“The issue is that you have people with
n Tuesday, U.S. Representative festering anger — that’s also where the rise
Josh Gottheimer (D–5th Dist.) in hate crimes is coming from — and you
convened a group of security have them sitting in their living rooms, in
experts at the offices of the Jew- their boxers, watching Isis on YouTube
ish Federation of Northern New Jersey to talk and getting trained. Both the FBI and
about security in general — and synagogue Homeland Security pointed this out as
security in particular — to rabbis, synagogue their top concern.
directors, and other community leaders. “And so is an increase in white suprema-
The experts — the director of the New cist activity,” Mr. Gottheimer added.
Jersey office of Homeland Security and Pre- The rabbis and other communal leaders
paredness Jared Maples, FBI intelligence ana- asked what they can to protect themselves;
lyst Carly Rasiewicz, and FBI Special Agent Mr. Gottheimer talked about the “nearly $4
Anthony Zampogna — were in Paramus for million in grants that we clawed back for non-
what they called a synagogue security sum- profits and other religious institutions in Sep- From left, Jared Maples, director of the New Jersey Office of Homeland
mit. They agreed that the trends they see tember to use for security, for active shooter Security and Preparedness; Representative Josh Gottheimer (D-5th Dist.); FBI
include a growing number of hate crimes in training, and for fortifications. Some grants intelligence analyst Carly Rasiewicz, and FBI Special Agent Anthony Zampogna
New Jersey and also a significant increase of for this year closed this week, but there are participate in a panel discussion on synagogue safety on June 12 in Paramus.
bias and hate crimes — both anti-Semitic and others that are available through the GSA.” JOSH GOTTHEIMER
FIRST PERSON
A different mindset
When teachers care, students notice — and they learn
ESTHER KOOK and failure is the end of the line. Whereas whose demeanor was utterly intimidating.
B
a growth mindset allows you to see possi- Her face bore no signs of cosmetics except
efore you know it, we will be bility for learning and growth, and failure for a slash of harsh red lipstick, and a short
submitting final report card is viewed as a juncture in the process. no-nonsense haircut. With eagle eyes she
grades and packing this aca- Remember when we were students too? quickly assessed who among the students
demic school year into files Once upon a time, sitting behind desks, met her high expectations — and good luck
and memories. playing with our chewed-up pencils, we if you didn’t share her passion and procliv-
During the last days of school, teach- learned new information from a variety ity for algebra.
ers typically take stock and reflect upon of teachers. Among those teachers there Teaching just to the top of the class, she
lessons taught throughout the year, both were some with fixed mindsets and those engaged only with those who caught onto
successes and failures. When we focus with growth mindsets who impacted us the algebraic equations quickly. The stu-
on the principles of the growth mindset, daily and often profoundly. dents who needed repetition and some
described by Dr. Carol Dweck, author of As a student, reading and writing came extra help, like me, were relegated to
“Mindset, “we learn that growth comes not naturally to me, while math was like a the back of the class and the back of her
just from successes, but also from failures. foreign land, and an ongoing struggle. mind. One day, when I complained that
While taking stock, it’s also important to Before educators provided multisen- I couldn’t see the board, she responded
acknowledge how we viewed our students. sory methods, there I was counting on sharply: “You need to get glasses!”
Did we evaluate and praise the process, my fingers under the desk. I envied my Oh, and this teacher had a scary reputa-
and not just the result? Did we give them friend Bonnie, who was breezing through tion among all the students in the school.
our best shot? In a 2012 study in mindset. her math assignments with her fingers Esther Kook We knew that golfing was also one of her
com, “It was found that educators with a wrapped around only her pencil and passions, and it seemed entirely in the
fixed mindset about students’ ability were paper, as I was trying to hide my count- wearing dull brown or gray shift dresses, realm of possibility that one day she’d
more likely to judge students as having ing fingers from view. and a don’t-mess-with-me-or-you’ll-be- take one of her golf clubs and clobber us
low potential than their growth minded Then came high school and algebra sorry attitude. The floor shook when she if we’d ask something stupid. So, for self-
counterparts.” A fixed mindset is when and a teacher I’ll never forget, but not in entered the class — or was that just us? Our protection, I tried to stay under her radar
you feel there is no potential for growth, a good way. She strode into class each day algebra teacher was a large-boned woman SEE MINDSET PAGE 36
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JCRC visits state Senator Nellie Pou
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Northern New Jersey visited state Senator single district in its catchment area each
Nellie Pou (D-35th Dist.) at her office on month. Small groups will meet with the
May 30. The group discussed relations and legislators face-to-face to advocate key
concerns about Israel, homeland security, issues affecting the community and the
anti-Semitism, and senior care with Carol state of New Jersey. For more information
Cuadrado, Ms. Pou’s chief of staff. or to attend the next Legislative Advocacy
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and the Lander College deans, Dr. Robert rian for the School for Women at Lander
Goldschmidt of Lander College of Arts & College of Arts and Sciences in Flatbush, Norpac hears Congressman Mast
Sciences in Flatbush, Dr. Moshe Sokol of will start a doctoral program in physical Last week, Rochelle and Phil Gold- awarded the Bronze Star, Purple Heart,
Lander College for Men in Queens, and therapy at Touro’s School of Health Sci- schmiedt hosted a Norpac pro-Israel meet- and Defense Meritorious Service med-
Dr. Marian Stoltz-Loike of Lander College ences this fall. Betzalel Krasnow was the ing with Congressman Brian Mast (R-Fla.) als, along with the Army Commendation
for Women — The Anna Ruth and Mark first second-generation student valedic- at their Teaneck home. Medal for Valor.
Hasten School in Manhattan. torian for the School for Men at Lander Brian Mast represents Florida’s 18th Earlier this year, Mr. Mast collaborated
Dr. Kadish, who gave the commence- College of Arts and Sciences in Flatbush; Congressional District, which ranges with Representative Stephanie Mur-
ment address, told the graduates, “We the father of two will start dental school from the northern portion of Palm Beach phy (D-Fla.) to introduce the bipartisan
— the Jewish people — have a job to in the fall. Ayelet Schwerd, valedictorian County through Martin and St. Lucie coun- “Deterring and Defeating Rocket and Mis-
do in this world. We must project our for the Lander College for Women, plans ties. Before being elected to Congress, Mr. sile Threats to Israel Act.” It is a bill that
greatest and most humane values out- to begin a Psy.D. program at Rutgers Uni- Mast, a double amputee, spent 12 years in would allow more funds, beyond the $500
ward into society, leading the culture versity; she wants to specialize in child the U.S. Army, including the elite Joint Spe- million a year that now goes to Israel, for
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at the Jewish Home in Rockleigh ace Mann High School, and then from the Univer-
sity of Pennsylvania, and then from law school at
Fordham University, where he met his wife. He
JOANNE PALMER forgets what it felt like — until the next time, worked at two law firms and then as an in-house
I
when once again it’s far too late to change your lawyer at three companies. All very impressive
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is a point in most second or subsequent So why is this the opening to a story about when he was 39, “I was diagnosed with Parkin-
labors when you remember how very running a marathon? son’s,” he said.
much it hurts. Because Bret Parker, a lawyer who will talk It was a very early diagnosis. His symptoms
You’ve managed to forget what it feels like, about running, faced that oh-NOW-I-remember- were slight and easy to hide, and for five years
and as your body feels like it is about to be riven moment seven times in more or less seven days. Mr. Parker hid them from everyone but family
into two unattached parts because it is simulta- Mr. Parker ran seven marathons on seven con- and the closest of his friends. The disease “pro-
neously being cut apart by a hacksaw and singed tinents in seven days. gressed slowly,” he said. “I could see the symp-
by a welder, you remember. And you curse your That’s as in SEVEN marathons on SEVEN con- toms; sometimes other people could see them —
idiocy in forgetting. tinents in SEVEN days. tremors in my hands, some stiffness — but they
And then you have a baby. And Mr. Parker has Parkinson’s disease. didn’t know what they were.
And your endorphins kick in, and your joy, It is an extraordinary story of courage and “But then, after five years, I outed myself,” he
and your body makes sure that your mind endurance and will, and Mr. Parker will talk said. At first, he’d just tell friends, one at a time.
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“We trained for about seven months; have to worry about breaking your legs,
we went from zero to the New York City he added.
marathon in seven months. And then I “I raised money with that one,” he
didn’t exercise again for six years.” said. “And I tell people that this was the
How was the New York marathon? easiest thing I’ve done, because you
“Amazing,” Mr. Parker said. “It was tir- don’t have to train. You just have to jump
ing. I was sore. But it was exhilarating. out of the plane.” (As if…)
It is the most amazing New York City Mr. Parker’s next feat was an Olympic-
experience. length triathlon, the 2014 Mighty Hamp-
“Ironically,” he added, “I was always tons race. “That one was a bucket item,”
inspired by Zoe Koplowitz, who would he said. “When I was 2 or 3 years old,
always run the marathon, and would I fell into a pool, so I never learned to
always finish.” Ms. Koplowitz has multi- swim right,” he said. “I was terrified. I
ple sclerosis; she’s run 23 New York mar- couldn’t dive. When I went to camp I
athons and finished last in all of them, never got beyond advanced beginning in
once taking more than 33 hours to get swimming. I would hide during instruc-
to the finish line. “The Guardian Angels tional swim.” So the triathalon was an
would protect her, and she would crutch important hurdle for him to surmount.
in,” Mr. Parker said. “It was terrible,” he said. “I got a
Mr. Parker and Mr. Samson ran again trainer to teach me to swim. I started
in 1999 and in 2002; the two trained with the men,” who go first as the swim-
for seven months both times, and ran ming third of the race begins, “but I fell
together for the whole course. In 2007, right back past the women, and fin-
Mr. Parker was diagnosed, “and then in ished second to last. I don’t know what
2010 we ran again,” he said. “I hadn’t I was thinking.
outed myself then” — Mr. Samson was “After that you bike and you run, but
among the few people who knew — I was so beat up by the swim… When
“and I didn’t do it for charity. I just did I finally finished, it was such a great
it to see if I could.” This time, he took feeling.”
about 15 minutes longer that he had Mr. Parker and his wife, Katharine,
before his diagnosis. did the triathalon together; “and then
Then, in 2012, after his blog post, Mr. the next year she and I did a mountain
Parker ran one leg of Mr. Samson’s dou- hike up Mount Elbert,” Colorado’s tall-
ble marathon. “I was fine,” he said. “It est peak. Like all his other adventures, it
was a short run, it was in Florida, and it was a fund-raiser; “and that also makes
was fine. And David got a lot of attention it harder to back out,” he said.
for the fund-raising. In 2016, he ran the New York City mar-
“At that point, I said to myself that I athon once more, to be sure that “I could
had to be more out there. I had to be still run one, before I tried to run seven.”
more visible. So I did a series of events, Then he and Mr. Samson decided to
one per year.” tackle the world marathon. “We saw a
The first was a sky dive. “Part of the video of a guy, a British schoolteacher,
awareness I wanted to bring to Parkin- Ted Jackson. ESPN did a documentary
son’s was that I will not let Parkinson’s about him. He was really heavy, not in
hold me back,” Mr. Parker said. “I want good shape, and I said that if Ted Jackson
to live life as big as I can. I will not let can do it, I can do it too.
Parkinson’s define me.” “It was not my smartest move.”
Instead, he willed himself to be The World Marathon Challenge began
defined by courage. “I had always in 2012; it’s been run every year since
wanted to sky dive, so I asked myself then. Since it began, 100 people have
what was I waiting for,” he said. As he run it. “The first year there was just a
and his family — he and his wife, Katha- handful, and then every year there were
rine, have two sons — would drive out to a few more,” Mr. Parker said. This year’s
eastern Long Island to relax, “we would race, in February 2018, had 50 entrants.
pass a skydiving place. It’s at Exit 69. It’s He was part of a group of 16 who did
a place I had passed a million times. I it together. “We were all connected in
would always say that we should pull off some way, friends or friends of friends,”
and sky dive, and they’d call my bluff.” he said. “One of them has a prosthetic
So they’d drive on by. leg” — her name is Sarah Reinertsen —
Not this time. “she has done all sorts of big events.” All
“It was great,” he said. “It was terri- of them raised money for the Michael
fying. I had imagined that it would feel J. Fox Foundation and a few other phil-
like a roller coaster, when you go up and anthropic causes, including cancer-
down, but when you sky dive you only fighting organizations. “There were five
feel that for the first second or so. You women, and the rest of us were men,”
hit a consistent speed after that,” so that Mr. Parker said. “Some were in their
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Mr. Parker’s friend Mr. Samson. never been there before, and going there
The race charges $40,000 per person; also was on my bucket list, so I got to do
that buys everything, including transporta- both things at the same time,” Mr. Parker
tion, food, staff, and everything else. “We said. “We landed on an ice runway at a Rus-
had an anonymous donor who paid for all sian research station. For the marathon,
of us,” Mr. Parker said. they shaved down a path that goes around
Mr. Parker is Jewish; he is a member of the runway; you’re running on flattened ice
Central Synagogue in Manhattan. “One of and snow. They rough up the surface a little,
the rabbis had me there for Friday night but it’s still a little slippery. We ran in trail
services before I left,” he said. “I didn’t fully shoes, which are a little heavier than normal
understand how big a deal this was for Cen- running shoes.”
tral until that night.” The runners also wore warm clothing,
Then, finally, it was off to the races. long pants, long-sleeved jackets, and snow
The group flew to Capetown, South goggles.
Africa, spent a few days settling in, meeting “We went round and round the track, but
each other, getting ready. Then they took it was not at all boring, because it was shock-
the six-hour flight to Antarctica for the first ingly beautiful. It was all loops, so we saw
race; races there can be run only when the each other all the time.”
weather is right, so the times for the entire Most of the runners finished long before
seven races are dependent on it. “You want he did, though, and “when I was one of the During the second marathon, Mr. Parker runs on a sunny beach in Capetown,
to start the clock running when you can start few people left on the course, it got colder South Africa. WORLD MARATHON CHALLENGE
the first race,” Mr. Parker said. and windier and lonelier. My iPhone battery
It was summertime in Antarctica. “I had died from the cold. “And the sun never went down, which that brought runners in and out of con-
was sort of eerie. It felt alien, almost like tact with each other. “It was not boring,
we were on another planet. although by the end there were long
“It took hours after I finished before stretches when I was alone,” Mr. Parker
we could leave,” he continued. “We said. “It was too dark to see anything.” It
waited in a big tent; there might have was not a scenic run.
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Lisbon remains hard for Mr. Parker to talk about. He
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where all the hookers congregate,” drugs in them.” Finally they convinced
he said. “There was a lot of business the police that they in fact were mara-
going on there. I ran through that thon runners, not drug addicts. “And then
square maybe 20 times.” He was very I ended up almost stepping on a rat. And
lost. “I am sure they thought I was then I finished.
shopping. “This was not a conventional marathon.”
“By the last time, they sent the They laughed about it, but Mr. Parker
race director out to walk with me wasn’t feeling particularly good. “The blis-
and we got lost again, and then the ter on my foot was really bad,” he said.
police stopped us. We were asking “The skin had completely ripped off the
for directions, and they thought we bottom of my foot.” It had to be bandaged,
were getting drugs. I was about to and he needed Advil.
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- “The end was great,” Mr. Parker said. “I finished
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d to be done with a race.
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There were some repercussions. Doctors feared that
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Have his experiences changed him? Yes, he says.
He’s taken on a three-word mantra; unfortunately, we
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People are behind you, whether you finish or not. This
is not your job. Just go out and do your best.’
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own runs, whatever their own runs might be,” Bret
Parker said.
pledged to strike back in response to the kites “when far fewer fires than Nahal Oz, and the fields that burned residents of the region. While the state has pledged repara-
it is convenient for us.” The army is testing two types already had been harvested, says Buki Bart, a member of tions for farmers who have lost crops, local representatives
of drones for use against the kites as “part of a compre- the kibbutz administration. While expressing frustration, also have been pushing hard for additional payments for
hensive response, which includes cooperation with Bart says he understands that “everybody is doing the best those forced to harvest early, thus losing part of the value
firefighting forces and the activity of combat forces on that he can” and that the damage thus far has been minor of their produce, as well as for those who have lost agricul-
the ground,” an IDF spokesman said. enough that he doesn’t feel he has to report every small fire tural equipment.
According to police spokesman Micky Rosenfeld, to the kibbutz members. Residents have come under fire for Aside from the financial side, Meiri says the constant
bomb disposal experts have responded not only to years, he says, especially during the last three wars in Gaza. fires have caused stress for residents, especially children,
kites dragging alcohol-soaked rags but also to explo- According to Adi Meiri, a spokeswoman for the Shaar many of whom are receiving help from psychologists at
sive devices, “which is a much more serious threat to Hanegev Regional Council, whose territory includes a local “resilience center.” She describes how she has
both soldiers and civilians.” Sderot, extinguishing the fires is not the only struggle for SEE KITES PAGE 36
“Every day we have at least 30 firefighters with 10
fire engines to deal only with fires near the fence,”
Israel Fire and Rescue Services spokesman Yoram
Levy says. “In order to respond quickly, we opened
five temporary stations in kibbutzim. We have a volun-
teer unit at Kfar Aza with a fire truck and equipment,
and we are about to establish two more units. When
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we receive intelligence that there might be mass dem-
onstrations, we are reinforcing our staff as needed.”
Levy says the fire service has used airplanes twice,
near Kibbutz Or Haner and Kibbutz Karmia, after
receiving permission from the Israeli Air Force.
One resident of Nahal Oz sees the attacks as an
opportunity to give something back. Only weeks
before the fires started, Raymond Reijnen immigrated
to the kibbutz with his family; they’re from Rotter-
dam in the Netherlands. A 16-year veteran of his city’s
fire brigade, Reijnen — a tall, thin blond with tattooed
arms — says he saw no future in Europe and decided
to make aliyah so his children could grow up in a Jew-
ish state.
Assigned to the kibbutz dairy, where he tends cows,
Reijnen threw himself into agricultural work and
learning Hebrew. Teams of firefighters from across the
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mong the most cherished honors and most fulfill- Kibita Yosef’s application to settle in the Jewish state as a citi-
ing endeavors of my 30 years in the rabbinate was zen under the Law of Return.
the privilege of serving on the bet din — the rab- Yosef has been ordered to leave the country or risk
decreed that a person had to change into clean binic court — that traveled to Uganda in 2002 to deportation.
clothes before eating. The food itself had to be supervise the formal conversion to Judaism of hundreds of I am convinced (and ashamed to say) that the ill treatment
washed before being eaten or cooked, all uten- members of that East African nation’s Abayudaya community. of this passionate, loyal son of the Jewish people is racially
sils used had to be clean, and the food prepa- The circumstances of the conversions were certainly motivated, injurious to the unity of the Jewish People, legally
ration area had to be clean. unusual. The Abayudaya had been leading lives of Jew- untenable, an egregious halachic error, and ultimately a scan-
Reliance on medical science, a healthy diet, ish piety, learning, and identification for five generations dalous desecration of God’s name.
avoidance of harmful substances, clean living in many cases; the community adopted Jewish practice en In a telling incident, the bet din in Uganda was faced with
— to this list, let us add this: The body needs masse beginning in 1919. Members of the community appear- a halachic dilemma. To honor the occasion of their conver-
regular and adequate rest. The Torah pre- ing before the rabbinic panel recounted long family histories sion, a number of Abayudaya women had their hair elabo-
scribes just that: one day of perfect rest every of devotion to kashrut, Shabbat, holy days, and family purity rately braided, just as, in the spirit of hiddur mitzvah — adding
seven days, Shabbat. This idea of everybody observance. Parents and grandparents proudly detailed their beauty to Jewish religious observance, they appeared before
and everything getting one day of rest out of children’s Jewish education, religious commitments, and facil- the bet din in their finest attire. The professional braiding
every seven was unheard-of 3,500 years ago. ity with Hebrew language. was done at significant expense; it is a rare indulgence, well
It is not just Shabbat, though. Especially in While the background of those Abayudaya who were aspir- beyond the means of the Abayudaya community. The bet din
an agricultural economy, the three most labor- ing to conversion was indisputably atypical, the halachic pro- ruled, however, that braids constituted a “chatzitzah” — a dis-
intensive times of the year are the beginning of cedures the four rabbis (three Americans and qualifying impediment to full immersion — as
the planting season, the first harvest, and the one Israeli, all members of the Conservative they are considered to form a barrier between
final harvest. The Torah insists we get extra Rabbinical Assembly) followed in conducting the water and the body itself. (As is standard
rest during those periods — on Pesach, Sha- the proceedings were familiar, exacting, and practice, those people who were immersing
vuot, and Sukkot. In fact, at the end of the har- stringent. Candidates for conversion appeared were instructed to remove all makeup, lipstick,
vest period, when things are liable to be the before the bet din individually or in family units, nail polish, jewelry, and clothing.) We broke that
most intense, the Torah adds even more rest: requiring many successive days of early morn- news to the women, who, without complaint
On “the first day of the seventh month” (Rosh ing-to-dusk court sessions. Aspiring converts or objection, compliantly spent hours unbraid-
Hashanah), and on the 10th (Yom Kippur). were questioned about their motives, beliefs, ing each other’s hair. (The rabbis subsequently
Because the Torah emphasizes rest, the Tal- knowledge, and observance. Nearly all identi- provided funds to cover a later braiding session.)
mud also emphasized the need for sleep. fied Sabbath observance as the most defining Rabbi Joseph This episode is emblematic of the attention to
Thus, “Sleep...is as important for the body element of their religious life. All described the H. Prouser detail and stringency practiced by the bet din,
as a steel edge is for iron” (BT Berachot 62b). carefully discriminating pattern of their kosher both on shared, sacrosanct halachic principle
So seriously did the Sages consider the need diets. “What would distinguish yours as a Jewish and in prescient anticipation of future skeptics,
for sleep, that if someone takes an oath “not home?” we would ask. “Judaism is the most important part of reflexive naysayers, and hostile, politically motivated critics.
to sleep for three nights, he should be flogged,” our family life,” we were repeatedly and earnestly told. Clearly, our concern for such untoward eventualities was
after which he should be made to go to sleep Though the Abayudaya long have practiced brit milah — well placed.
for a while (BT Shevuot 25a). ritual circumcision — all male candidates for conversion will- In light of the current Israeli politicization of conversion, and
Our Sages also insisted on the need for ingly (in fact, with remarkable joy!) submitted to hatafat dam as I reflect upon our rabbinic ruling on the Abayudaya women’s
exercise. For example, the Talmud says (BT brit, the additional drawing of blood from the site of the cir- braids, I am reminded of a closely related discussion in the Tal-
Shabbat 41a): “If one eats without [afterward] cumcision, to remove any ambiguity about their covenantal mud. Tractate Yoma, the Talmudic volume dealing with Yom
walking four cubits, his food rots,” because compliance. All conversion aspirants immersed either in the Kippur, cites a rabbinic finding in its opening pages (8A), that
the food will not digest properly, the person community mikveh (the very existence of which in this impov- is, significantly, repeated verbatim in its closing passage (98A):
will deteriorate physically, and eventually will erished, rural African area speaks to the lofty level of religious “One who has a Divine Name written on his skin may not
become ill. observance) or in a local river, in every case with careful and wash or anoint himself (lest he erase the Divine Name in vio-
On the other hand, the Sages warned against accurate recitation of the requisite blessings. The immersions lation of the Torah’s prohibition); nor may he appear in a
overdoing exercise (see BT Pesachim 113a). (conducted, especially in the case of women, in a manner filthy or indecent place (where texts including a Divine name
The Talmud also warned against eating that discreetly preserved their privacy and modesty, while may not be brought). If he must undergo an obligatory ritual
fried foods and anything that was hard to assuring their precise execution) were a time of enthusiastic immersion (“tevilah shel bitzvah”), he should cover the Name
digest, and it suggested drinking bran diluted celebration, singing, and ululation. I have never seen greater with a soft reed poultice and immerse. Rabbi Yossi says: He
in water (BT Gittin 56b). It also suggested that “simchah shel mitzvah” — absolute joy at the service of God should immerse in the usual manner, so long as he does not
we should drink plenty of water during meals and the fulfillment of God’s commandments (kabbalat ol mal- scrub the area with the Name.”
(BT Berachot 41a). chut shamayim and kabbalat ol ha-mitzvot). Maimonides (Yesodei Ha-Torah 6:6) adds that if a reed poul-
I could go on, but I am already way over my Each and every Abayudaya conversion case was deliber- tice is not available, a person should wrap an article of cloth-
word limit. Here, then, is the takeaway: The ated, weighed, and painstakingly documented by the mem- ing around the area of the Divine Name, loosely enough so
Torah commands us to live healthy lives, and bers of the bet din. With “all the oaths of the Torah,” I stake that it allows water to reach the skin (avoiding chatzitzah), but
it prescribes just how to do that. It is great to my reputation, career, and personal integrity not only on securely enough to cover the Divine Name and so prevent its
know medical science is catching up. the technical legitimacy of the Abayudaya conversions, but desecration through the bodily exposure of the party under-
on the conviction that the faith, piety, knowledge, and com- going immersion.
mitment to Jewish peoplehood demonstrated by the Abayu- What an odd halachic dilemma! Why would a pious Jew write
daya far exceeded any reasonable, normative standard to be God’s name (the Tetragrammaton or, perhaps, Elohim, Shaddai,
demanded of those aspiring to join the covenant of Israel. Tzevaot, etc.) on his body? This is no tattoo, as is clear from the
The opinions expressed in this section
I am proud and overjoyed to count the Abayudaya among concern over erasure, as well as from the explicit command-
are those of the authors, not necessarily
my fellow Jews, and I am humbled to have played a role in ment against such permanent body modifications. Perhaps
those of the newspaper’s editors,
the historic process that made it possible. It is with a deep a devotional henna design? A craven practical joke, specifi-
publishers, or other staffers. sense of dismay and personal affront, therefore, that I have cally intended to prevent someone from bathing? A classroom
We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to followed the actions of the Israeli Interior Ministry in refusing note written on palms or arms after the manner of millennia
jstandardletters@gmail.com. to recognize the Jewish status of the Abayudaya, and specifi- of resourceful students? More likely, the case represents an
cally in rejecting Abayudaya member (and current kibbutznik) SEE CONVERSION PAGE 34
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he New Jersey Jewish commu- The highest-profile campaign is, of to the Jewish people. From again, and defend the coun-
nity is at a political crossroads. course, the race for Senate, with GOP can- the experience of his father try from foreign adversaries
One path is that of doubling didate Bob Hugin taking on the ethically being shot by a domestic such as the expansionist mul-
down on ever-increasing taxes, plagued career politician Bob Menendez. terrorist, to introducing the lahs of Iran.
the always-rising cost of living, and a party Both originally are from Hudson County, idea that New Jersey should The choice is clear. The
that has been walking away from the pro- and this tale of two Bobs is an exercise have a property tax cap, and Jewish community can dou-
Israel consensus. That is the Democratic in contrast. It’s about an upstart busi- his work on the Cresskill City ble down on failed policies
Party’s path. ness leader and self-made man, Hugin, Council, McCann is on the that make life harder, educat-
The road less traveled — the road that running against the senior sitting senator right page for the community ing children more expensive,
the Jewish community should pursue — from New Jersey, who was censured by a and all voters. From Bergen Joshua and undermined Israeli and
is the Republican way of decreasing the bipartisan bunch of his Senate colleagues County Executive candidate Einstein American security, or we can
taxpayers economic burden, lowering the for receiving “gifts” far in excess of what is Norman Schmelz, currently vote Republican.
cost of living, allowing entrepreneurs to legally allowed. More important than the the mayor of Bergenfield, to
create jobs, supporting school choice, and corruption charges Menendez faced from Assembly candidate in legislative District Joshua Einstein is a founding member
working for the unconditional safety and an administration of his own party — Presi- 36 Marc Marsi, a police detective, GOP of the Hudson County Regional Jewish
security of the Jewish state. dent Obama — is Hugin’s background as a candidates are advocates for the average Council, an elected member of the New
Across New Jersey, GOP candidates for former officer in the Marines, a father, and man on the street in our state. They are Jersey Republican State Committee, sits
offices, from city council to state Assembly a job creator. pursuing policies that allow people to keep on the executive board of the New Jersey
to county executive to Congress, are running The 5th Congressional District candi- more of their paychecks so they can grow State Young Republicans, and has been
campaigns in sync with the values of the Jew- date John McCann is another common- their families, trim bloated government published in more than 14 newspapers and
ish community and all New Jerseyans. sense Republican running on values close programs so New Jersey can be affordable websites on Jewish and political topics.
Conversion
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heated brouhaha rocked my shul and yoetzet halachah, and keep us informed rabbis to congregants as well. that R. Adler didn’t convince
recently. The specific dispute is of our friends’ and neighbors’ important life- Sloughing off a disagreement me, and I’m willing to bet half
not important for this column cycle events and celebrations. or criticism with a light, and my IRA that I didn’t convince
(okay, okay, it was, shockingly, And there’s still more. When people move often pat, comment or joke too him. But both of us understood
related to Trump). While I had, as you might into a new community, often the first friends often is substituted for a genu- the other side better, I think,
imagine, a strong opinion, which I voiced to they make are their neighbors, parents of ine, thoughtful, and respectful and realized that there truly
the appropriate people, what particularly their children’s classmates — and the peo- response. were two sides (even though
struck me afterward were two more general ple they sit next to in shul. And we continue Here’s a story I’ve told many I still think I’m right). He lis-
questions: first, why do shul disputes often to make friends as shuls expand and seats times that illustrates this point. tened to me carefully, took me
get so hot and heavy? And second, what can change. Indeed, when my shul built a new My rabbi, R. Yosef Adler of Con- Joseph seriously, didn’t make an argu-
be done to lower the temperature? sanctuary a few years ago and I chose a dif- gregation Rinat Yisrael, once Kaplan ment based on authority or
I could answer the first question glibly by ferent location in which to sit, I soon made delivered a sermon in which position, and I felt respected.
applying Sayer’s Law (the bon mot about aca- friends with a group of young men (young he explained an idea from his And so, while we often agree
demic politics) to shul politics, and say that being relative in that I’m at least 25 years rebbe, the Rav, Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik. I about important matters, we continue to dis-
they’re so heated because the stakes are so older than the oldest of them) who sit in my thought, however, that his explanation wasn’t agree from time to time in like manner while
low. But I don’t really believe that. Rather, I row and the one behind, and whom I didn’t correct. Now, let me hasten to say that in retaining what I am proud to believe is a gen-
think the opposite is true; we have a high per- know before. This has helped me emerge matters of Torah knowledge, and especially uinely warm and friendly relationship.
sonal stake in these issues because shuls truly from my age echo chamber and see impor- knowledge of the Rav’s thought, if R. Adler I must add one caveat, however. There are
are central to many of our lives. tant issues from a new perspective. (Hi guys! belongs in the Hall of Fame (which he does) some extreme positions, some radical argu-
Thus, although a primary function of a This is the shout-out you asked for.) I’m only a minor leaguer (to use an analogy I ments, that we can’t respect and to which we
shul is to provide a location for prayer, the So I understand why we care deeply about think he’ll appreciate). But in this particular may not be able to maintain a sense of civility
Hebrew phrase for synagogue is not beit tefil- an institution that is so important to us indi- case, I had, in fact, previously spent a good (although we still should try). All will agree
lah, a house of prayer. Rather, it’s beit knes- vidually, familially, and communally, and deal of time thinking about and studying about some of them (for example, racism or
set, a house of assembly, because we assem- thus why we sometimes can get unduly riled very carefully both what the Rav wrote about anti-Semitism), although undoubtedly there
ble in our synagogues for so much more than up. Nonetheless, too much heat isn’t good this issue and all the sources he referred to. I will be disagreements about exactly where
prayer. We assemble for shiurim, lectures, for us, and it’s certainly not good for the shul. therefore felt a certain confidence about my to draw that line. But rarely, if ever, do shul
and other programs; we assemble for rites of And I first thought that there’s a one-word understanding of the matter at hand. arguments cross these boundaries.
passage from brit or simchat bat to funerals; solution to calming things down — civility. So when davening concluded, I went up We want, indeed we need, our shuls to
we assemble for social and communal activi- But as I thought some more, I realized civil- to the rabbi and, after wishing him a good be diverse and vibrant. And disagreement
ties, book readings, scholars in residence, ity is necessary but not sufficient, and that shabbes I briefly voiced my objection. And and argument, if and when done right,
and sometimes, political evenings; we assem- another quality of character is required. he responded essentially as follows. “Joseph, often enhance these qualities; they make
ble after Shabbat davening to schmooze and That’s respect; respect both for the people we don’t have the Rav’s essay in front of us, a shul a vigorous and vital organization, a
socialize at a kiddush and after yom tov dav- on the other side as well as for the positions nor do we have the sources he referred to. large tent where many can feel wanted and
ening for a meal in the sukkah, a commu- they hold. So it won’t be too productive to discuss this comfortable.
nity seder, or a Shavuot barbeque (sorry, no Respect doesn’t mean agreement, of now. Why don’t we meet in the beit midrash So let’s do it right.
cheesecake). course, nor does it mean that you should after ma’ariv one evening this week, when we
There’s more. Services our shuls offer be less passionate about your own position. can look at all the materials together and then Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is
often provide emotional comfort and practi- Rather, it means to listen — sincerely listen discuss them.” a longtime resident of Teaneck. His work
cal assistance in times of grief, give our chil- — to the other side, and to take the other And so, one evening later that week we also has appeared in various publications
dren a place to meet with their friends and side and its advocates seriously. This applies spent about 30 minutes doing just what he including Sh’ma magazine, the New York
make new ones, arrange support for other not only to behavior between congregants suggested, and quite passionately reviewed Jewish Week, the Baltimore Jewish Times, and,
community institutions like the eruv, mikveh, and from congregants to rabbis, but from and debated the Rav’s ideas. Now I admit as letters to the editor, the New York Times.
LETTERS The president’s behavior and policies Charlottesville last year struggled to find the right words
Trump is not good for the Jews are not consistent with Jewish values to say, indicating there were some good people marching
As an American Jew I would beg to differ with Rabbi Bote- in their contingent?
Rabbi Boteach, have you no shame? ach’s rationale and conclusion as to why our president is The biblical matriarchs are revered in Judaism as pillars
In praising President Trump, Rabbi Boteach sees no evil good for the Jews. of the home and family. Should not American Jews be con-
(“Is Trump good for Jews? It’s an easy yes,” June 8). Trump, Although Talmud and Torah may not be my strength, for cerned about a president who demonstrates no respect
after all, began his political career with a five-year crusade me, as a secular American Jew, it is plainly apparent that the for women and in fact boasted on tape of sexually assault-
to delegitimize an American president, even reassuring us president’s character, behavior, and policies are antithetical ing women, along with paying off an adult film actress to
that we wouldn’t believe what the researchers he allegedly to core values of Judaism. conceal an affair?
sent to Hawaii had discovered. Then in the heat of the cam- Let’s provide some historical context. For centuries, Jews Prior to the founding of modern Israel, Jews who were
paign, he abruptly changed his tune — without explanation have been victims of heinous canards and conspiracy theo- persecuted and fleeing their homelands were barred from
and without apologies. ries — for example, Christian-inspired blood libels, and the entering many countries, including our own. Should not
Obviously, he is either a titanic liar or utterly delusional. “Protocols of the Elders of Zion.” Should not American Jews American Jews be concerned about a president who habit-
He followed that up by denigrating an authentic American be concerned about a president who was one of the original ually insults immigrants and offends people whose ethnic
hero, Senator John McCain, which coming from a five-time founders and proponents of the discredited birther claim backgrounds are different than his?
draft dodger gives chutzpah a bad name. Should such a per- regarding President Obama’s birth certificate? Should not In medieval kingdoms, the ruling king could designate a
son be allowed to serve as dog catcher, let alone president? American Jews be concerned about a president who has court Jew as a cover to pretend that the ruler was tolerant
Rabbi — if I may quote a famous lawyer — have you at last publicly embraced a radio host well known for asserting of Jews. Although the president may have Jewish family
no shame? that the Sandy Hook school shooting was a hoax? Millions members, it provides me no sense of comfort.
Manfred Weidhorn,
of European Jews were murdered by Nazis as a consequence I, as an American Jew, will not be an apologist nor an
Fair Lawn
of state-sponsored lies and falsehoods. enabler of this president.
The author is the Emeritus Guterman Professor Should not American Jews be concerned about a presi- Marc Sapin,
of English at Yeshiva University dent who is a serial liar, and when neo-Nazis marched in River Edge
Zionism Songs
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and he never could have dreamed that one day there gone to Rabbi Elad Appelbaum’s
would be an Israeli military to defend Jews. Being able synagogue, he said, and he loves it.
to host two soldiers, he said, is his small way of saying “Because it is very Israeli, they play
thank you. a lot of Mizrachi music. Before the
As the mother of four American sons who were not davening starts, they do Mizrachi nig-
required to serve in the Israeli military, how could I not gunim,” the wordless melodies that
open my home to two soldiers who fight for the safety seem to come from deep inside the
of Israel and Jews everywhere? It seemed like the least Jewish experience, fly through your
I could do. bloodstream, and penetrate your
On the final morning, after many hugs and photos, heart. “You really feel like you are in
the soldiers boarded the bus to return to the airport and the Middle East,” Rabbi Visotzky said.
back to Israel, leaving behind a community that was “She has drawn not only on the Miz-
greatly affected by their presence. rachi musical tradition but also on the
After a full week of intense therapy, they were now piyyutim” — Jewish liturgical chanted
fully ensconced in creating pathways of discussion to poems, some of them ancient — “and
allow for the healing process and a healthier re-entry it is extraordinary.
into civilian life. As a community, we had further “Tamar is a charismatic leader,”
cemented our connection to the Israeli people. The he added. When she told him about
eighteen strangers had become lifelong friends. her Jerusalem evenings, he asked her The tent in Jerusalem mirrors the interreligious composition of the
The soldiers thanked us for hosting them. We tried if she could do a similar night in New audience and the music. KEHILLAT ZION
hard to find the words to thank them for giving us the York. She agreed; he just had to figure
opportunity to do so. The Peace of Mind Program was out how to fund it. everyone to be engaged.”
life altering on both ends. It was so successful, in fact, “I appealed to Angelica,” Rabbi Visotzky said. “I asked her The program is “Songs for the Holy City,” he said,
that many more families are asking to be on the host list if this could be our John Paul II Interreligious Dialogue eve- “because God knows the Holy City needs our help. And
for next year. ning, and she laughed. She told me that she had been fund- we are calling it the Holy City because we all have our
ing what Tamar was doing in Jerusalem.” own names for Jerusalem, but the name Holy City fits
Dr. Tani Foger, Ed.D., LPC, of Englewood is an On Wednesday night, “We will have songs in Hebrew, for everyone.
educational consultant and psychologist. She and her Armenian, Aramaic, and Arabic. We are going to give “We all have deep ties to the Holy City, and we all have a
husband, Soli Foger, are active members of Ahavath everyone who comes a songbook, translation, and trans- deep yearning for its peaceful future. We want to empha-
Torah and the parents of four sons. literation. We want everyone to sing along. We want size that we all share that same prayer.”
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patients the opportunity to receive novel treatments, nancies. Valley-Mount Sinai Comprehensive Cancer Care offering novel skin cancer based clinical trials.
some of which are available at only a handful of sites is organized around multidisciplinary disease-specific pro- Q: What is the best way for people to find out if they or a
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As the physician liaison between the two cancer cen- gastrointestinal cancers, such as pancreatic and colon can- A: I encourage patients and family members with any
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the program, with a focus on trials that align with the phoma, and multiple myeloma. We are bringing together (201) 634-5792 or e-mail oncologyclinicaltrials@valley-
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potential for a dramatic improvement in their clinical know and trust, is proud to announce the expansion personalized, comprehensive care close to home.
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ising innovative treatments, without having to travel
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Ten leading cause of blindness worldwide, sec- a single layer. Identification and clas- of experiments in space. It is the first
FROM PAGE 43 ond only to cataracts. As many as 30 million sification of the cells is achieved using company in the field, and though com-
a beacon of excellence for the well-being people are affected, with around two million machine-learning and machine-vision petitors are now beginning to emerge,
of humanity.” new cases each year. algorithms superior to present methods. Samburski says SpacePharma, which is
Here we take a more in-depth look at “Unlike previous devices, which attempt headquartered in Switzerland with R&D
the 10 Israeli startups chosen as the best of to integrate optics into the native cornea, SpacePharma in Herzliya, is two to three years ahead.
the year. CorNeat’s implant leverages a virtual space Swiss-Israeli SpacePharma will democ-
under the conjunctiva that is rich with fibro- ratize the process of doing experiments NovaSight
blast cells, heals quickly and provides robust in space, according to Guy Samburski, Two and a half-year old NovaSight has
CorNeat Vision long-term integration,” said CorNeat’s CEO the company’s head of chemical and developed a technology based on eye-
CorNeat Vision was one of the joint winners and VP R&D Almog Aley-Raz. pharmaceutical technologies. tracking to help children with vision
of the startup competition at Biomed, and “NASA has made huge efforts to disorders. The company’s first prod-
for good reason — the technology is just so PixCell Medical enable commercial companies to carry uct is a system called EyeSwift, which
cool. The company is developing an artificial PixCell Medical is the second winner of this out experiments in space, but it’s too it claims can revolutionize diagnosis of
cornea implant, the CorNeat KPro, which year’s Biomed startup competition. The slow and expensive. SpacePharma strabismus — a misalignment of the eyes,
could offer a remedy to millions of people company is developing a breakthrough low- makes the same science available to CI (Convergence insufficiency) and read-
suffering from diseases of the cornea. cost portable hematology analyzer that per- everyone — universities, pharma compa- ing disorders.
The early-stage technology is a patented forms a complete blood count (CBC) at the nies — at a much, much cheaper price,” Strabismus is treated by corrective
synthetic cornea that uses advanced cell point of care. he sats. surgery, but its success is dependent
technology to integrate artificial optics With just a tiny drop of blood, PixCell’s Experimenting in microgravity is an on the accuracy of the misalignment
within resident ocular tissue. It can be HemoScreen can analyze 20 standard CBC essential tool for many pharma and measurement — until now a laborious,
transplanted in a simple 30-minute surgery, parameters, including red blood cells and research companies today. Taking grav- inaccurate, manual process that has not
according to the company. Ra’anana-based five different white blood cell types, and ity out of the equation simplifies the changed for decades.
CorNeat plans to move to human implanta- identify anomalous cells and hemoglobin physics and removes many obstacles to EyeSwift uses eye-tracking technology
tions sometime this year, and to begin clini- levels, in just five minutes. bacteria growth and stem-cell research. as well as self-designed active glasses to
cal trials in the US. HemoScreen relies on a new microfluid- Already companies like Merck, Procter diagnose visual disorders quickly and
According to the World Health Organiza- ics technology that causes cells to migrate & Gamble, and Eli Lilly have conducted reliably while patients watch a short
tion, diseases of the cornea are the second to the center of flow and perfectly align into tests on the International Space Sta- animated video. The system has already
tion over the last decade. However, received CE approval.
these experiments are hugely expensive NovaSight, which is based in Air-
and have to be extremely well vetted port City in Israel, has also developed
because they need to be carried out by another product called CureSight to
Brightview. the astronauts themselves.
SpacePharma creates minilabs that
treat amblyopia (lazy eye) and CI.
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e read Parshat Korach this served in the Tabernacle of the eponymic founder of attributed to the sons of Korach. True to
year on the eve of Father’s the Tent of Meeting and then Israel and progenitor of the their Levitical status, they, too, were sing-
Day. Honoring our fathers in Solomon’s Temple. Among twelve tribes, is a father to ers: They understood the critical impor-
— showing them rever- them was Heman the Son us all. The two genealogies tance of harmony. More significantly,
ence and deference — is, of course, a daily of Joel, who traced his lin- of Korach (in Numbers and they selflessly acted on this conviction
obligation, not to be reserved or limited to eage all the way back to “… Chronicles) combine to teach when Jewish national unity was at its low-
formal or ceremonious occasions alone. Ebiasaph, the son of Korach, us that we most effectively est point.
Parshat Korach and its traditional exposi- the son of Izhar, the son of honor “Jacob our Father” The University of Notre Dame’s iconic
tion offer us some timely counsel, not only Kohath, the son of Levi, the — that we are truly worthy president, Father Theodore Hesburgh,
on how to celebrate on June 17, but on how son of Israel.” Rabbi Joseph to be associated with his famously said, “The most important
to comport ourselves as worthy sons and Israel is the sacred name H. Prouser name — when we embrace thing a father can do for his children is
daughters throughout the year. bestowed on Jacob, who Temple Emanuel harmony as our sacred task, to love their mother.” By asserting the
of North Jersey,
In the opening verse of our Torah is conspicuously absent Franklin Lakes,
eschewing partisan politics, pain of Jacob in the Book of Numbers,
portion, its title character is identified from the lineage in Parshat Conservative dissension, angry words, and and suggesting his justifiable pride in the
as “Korach, the son of Izhar, the son Korach. It was an honor for Jewish communal infighting, Book of Chronicles, Rashi, the father of
of Kohath, the son of Levi.” Rashi asks Israel ( Jacob) to be men- even when we “know” we three daughters, offers us (as it were) a
why the geneaology stops with Levi and tioned when describing the service ren- are in the right. corollary to Father Hesburgh’s wisdom:
excludes his father, Jacob. Rashi explains dered God by his distant descendants. Yalkut Shimoni states that the sons of “The most important thing that children
that Jacob asked mercy of the Divine The “harmony” which was their sacred Korach were deeply concerned with hon- can do for their fathers (and grandfa-
Author, not wanting his name associ- task certainly compared favorably with the oring their father, yet also managed, on thers and more distant forbears) is to love
ated with the “machloket” — the dispute, jealousy, the family feuding, the mutual principle, to show proper deference to each other.”
the fateful conflict which divided his two hostility, the partisan infighting, the angry Moses, his antagonist. It is for this reason This Father’s Day, and every day from
descendants. words, and the bloody rebellion described that “the sons of Korach did not die” in this Father’s Day to the next — not just on
Rashi points out that a different method in our Torah reading: the ignominy which the calamitous aftermath of their father’s special, formal, or ceremonious occasions
of identification is employed when Jacob found so painful. Little wonder the rebellion (Numbers 26:11 –- this, in appar- — may we lovingly strive to be worthy sons
I Chronicles 6:23 lists the Levites who were patriarch “asked” not to be mentioned in ent contradiction to the account in our and daughters of Israel. May we strive, not-
appointed by King David “to be in charge Parshat Korach. parshah). It is no coincidence that a num- withstanding the diverse voices among us,
of song in the House of the Lord” and who Yaakov Avinu, “Jacob our Father,” ber of chapters in the Book of Psalms are to live in harmony.
I
have always wanted a dog. Well, maybe not all of them.
When I was little, and I would We once had a scary and sad-looking
stay at my maternal grandparents’ coyote limp through our backyard. My
apartment in the city, my grand- boys were little at the time, and I called
father would walk me over to American the police. He said, “Ma’am, is the coy-
Kennels, which always had the cutest ote eating anyone?” I replied, “No.” And
puppies in the window, and we would the officer very apathetically said, “Then
conspire about how to acquire a dog call us when he is eating someone. Oth-
without my grandmother ever finding erwise, it isn’t an emergency.” Well that
out about it. We would hide it in the wasn’t very nice!
closet, feed it when she was sleeping — it Needless to say, when there were
was all planned out, but of course, the reported sightings of bears in our area, I
plan never came to fruition. My mom got very excited. I walk all over Teaneck
didn’t like dogs, so we never had one. — granted, not as quickly or as often as I
But now that son #3 is about to embark used to because of my knee, but I still try
on his senior year in high school, so he my best. And the fact that I could see a
has only one more “official” year at cute and cuddly bear was even more of
home, I am beginning to an impetus to get me out of
think that I am going to the house. So I put on my
need an emotional support TABC reflector, I took my
pet in the house — and that flashlight, and I went Face-
isn’t a euphemism for hus- book live, which means that
band #1. I became a reality television
When you do things show for just a few minutes
for your kids, they show for a few nights. My family
appreciation and affection thought I was even crazier
Across Down (sometimes — ok, rarely than usual. I actually think
1. Former show of 29-Across 1. Israel’s General Israel — but work with me here) Banji they thought I was drunk,
6. Jews 2. Settlers of Catan resource and if I got a puppy, I hear Ganchrow but how cool would it have
10. Malka brews them 3. Black bird
that they also show appre- been if I found the bear!
14. Sukkot branch 4. Made like Howard Hughes or Amelia
15. Fertilizer chemical Earhart ciation and affection and, That would be my reward
16. Castle defense 5. “Az ___ Moshe...” most importantly, they do not attend for walking all over this beautiful, albeit
17. He was Anger in “Inside Out” 6. He played Pharaoh yeshiva day school!!!! Or sleepaway boring, town. My own bear!
19. Heavenly glow 7. Author Levin camp! They don’t talk back! They don’t Well, I wish I could tell you that I found
20. “Bingo!” 8. Order by 6-Down as Pharaoh
get a driver’s license! The only things it, but all I found were some deer and a
21. Observing (Shabbat) 9. “For Pete’s ___” (1974 Streisand com-
23. Simon’s “The Wire” setting edy) they do do, is, well doo doo. And they skunk. And it wasn’t even a live skunk.
28. “Steppenwolf” author 10. J.J. Abrams when he started making can do that in the house, on your nice And then I heard on the news that
29. Matt that got #metoo-ed films carpet. Gotta say, that really is the only some poor lady was walking her two
30. Ken, to a pirate? 11. An M in MGM thing holding me back. Oh and the fact dogs in Florida and she got eaten by an
31. Massage 12. Brings in
that husband #1 keeps saying, “It’s a dog, alligator trying to defend her dogs! Oy,
32. Like the Negev 13. “Fiddler on the Roof” setting?
33. Rachel or Leah 18. “Kapow!” or me, but you can’t have both.” Really? that is a very bad ending. Does this mean
34. Akin to skin? 22. Rip up An ultimatum over a dog? Does anyone that if I get a dog, I am supposed to put
37. Trigonometry abbr. 23. 9th Plague color want to take in a 48-year-old lawyer who my life before his? Like I would do for
38. New York rock icon who passed in 24. Amram’s oldest son knows how to make his bed and doesn’t any of my children? Ya, I am just not
2013 25. Two-time Oscar winner discovered by
eat a lot? seeing that devotion. So maybe I should
40. Central or 5th 11-Down (who lived to be 104!)
41. Prepares challah 26. Hawaiian island Animals always have been a passion of rethink the dog thing. Because I would
43. Text letters 27. Annoying Ned in “Groundhog Day” mine. Even when I was 6 years old and definitely get eaten by an alligator to pro-
44. ___ Hara 33. “Help!” my parents took me to the Turtle Back tect my boys.
45. Where Israelis won bronze in judo 34. ___ Moines, Iowa Zoo, and one of the monkeys reached In any event, we still have to respect
46. A Stooge 35. “Our Father,” in Hebrew
through the cage and took the red rib- all creatures, even if they can eat you, or
47. V.S. Naipaul’s “___ in the River” 36. Advances
48. Line of cliffs 38. Rx for Parkinson’s bons that were tied to my pigtails. (Yes, say mean things to you. (An angry par-
50. Protective software 39. It’s the truth in Sderot that is quite the visual.) But that didn’t rot perhaps?) But if you ever see a bear,
52. A teenager might ask for “a little” of it 42. Cooling conduit stop me from loving going to see ani- give me a call, because that would be
54. Nada 44. Skill mals. The Bronx Zoo is one of my favor- really cool!
55. Russo of “Outbreak” 46. Bloomberg and Koch, once
ite places in the world and I often stop
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The solution to last week’s puzzle is on page 55. and beautiful. year.
Piraeus.
“A higher proportion of the Jewish com- York, returning to Crete in the 1970s was
munity of Crete was deported by the Nazis not a quick or easy decision. “People who
toward a death camp than of any country do what I do, selling religious art, live in
in Europe,” said Rabbi Nicholas de Lange, places like New York or Switzerland,”
a professor emeritus of Hebrew and Jewish he said. “But I wanted to be close to my
studies at the University of Cambridge who friends, the people I grew up with.”
conducts High Holy Days services here. One of the challenges that comes with
None of the prisoners would make it to operating a first class gallery in a place like
Piraeus and onto a train bound for Aus- Hania is the flood of bargain hunters arriv-
chwitz. When the ship left Heraklion as ing by plane and ship. Many of them are
part of an announced “civilian” convoy, a Germans. “Customers are used to looking
British submarine captain, certain that the at knockoffs,” Papadopoulos said. “When
Tanais was piloted by a German military Kostas Papadopoulos they see real art, some believe the prices
crew, targeted it near Santorini. Unaware was one of the few are too high.”
of the human cargo below deck, which survivors of the 1944 After cultivating his reputation as an art
also included Christian Greek and Italian British attack on the and antiquities appraiser, Papadopoulos
prisoners of wars, he ordered the crew to ship Tanais, which was has little patience for customers who try
blow the ship up. carrying Crete’s Jews. to talk him down on valuable icons and
A direct hit with two torpedoes killed Roger Rapoport jewelry. Several years ago, when a tower-
nearly everyone on board. The sole sur- A view of the Crete Holocaust memorial on the har- ing Chinese tourist made a ridiculous offer
vivors were half a dozen Cretan Jews who bor of Hania. Etz Hayyim Synagogue of 10 euros for a valuable icon worth far
escaped the Germans in May 1944 by hid- more, Papadopoulos stood his ground.
ing with Christian families. entombed. Papadopoulos, a dealer and “My mother knew the Nazis were com- The angry customer knocked him down.
Papadopoulos is the last of the survivors appraiser of fine Christian art, spoke at ing,” Papadopoulos said. “Fortunately my The art dealer is still recovering from
still living, Jewish historians working at Etz Daedalou Gallery, his elegant shop in the family name was Greek, which helped us the attack; he says that it has limited his
Hayyim believe. heart of an upscale shopping neighbor- escape the Germans. It also made it easier mobility and made it impossible for him
I recently met Papadopoulos in Her- hood where tourists love to haggle. to find a family willing to take the risk of to return to Hania, two hours away, for this
aklion, Crete’s largest city, after a short His survival traces back to his Jewish hiding us. week’s memorial.
drive from the ship that brought me to mother, Xanthippe, who decided to marry “Some of the Greeks who heroically While Heraklion’s defunct synagogue
Crete from Piraeus. My overnight jour- a Christian during the German occupation. hid Jews were executed as collaborators, was destroyed by the Germans at the
ney crossed the same waters where the After Papadopoulos was born in 1942, his but fortunately that was not the fate of beginning of the Battle of Crete in May
Tanais and its hundreds of victims remain Christian father moved to Athens, leaving the family that protected us. They even 1941, Papadopoulos has connected eagerly
his young son with his mother and grand- returned special paintings we had given with Etz Hayyim in Hania.
Roger Rapoport is the producer of the mother. In 1944, when it became clear that them to hide.” The Nazis looted the historic sanctuary
feature films “Waterwalk” and “Pilot Error” the Nazi roundup was imminent, the three For Papadopoulos, who grew up in and it fell into disrepair after the Holo-
and the forthcoming “Coming Up For Air.” of them moved into hiding with a Greek Greece and learned his trade as an auc- caust. Graves were robbed, and eventually
Reach him at rogerdrapoport@me.com. farm family outside Heraklion. tion house apprentice in Europe and New See Crete page 55
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Palisades in Tenafly sings at the annual Bernie and Ruth Leaders: Did Moshe
Thursday Saturday
Lambert Castle Concert
Series at Lambert Castle, Artist’s work displayed in Manhattan
5 p.m. with a June
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Road. Limited seating. at the Prince Street Gallery, 530 West 25th St.,
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The Jewish Home Family The Jewish Center lambertcastle.org. Manhattan, through July 7. It is part of a group
continues a monthly of Teaneck holds its show, “Art and Soul,” sponsored by the New
support group for annual graduation York Society of Women Artists, a professional
people diagnosed with kiddush after services, Monday
association of painters, sculptors, and graphic
Parkinson’s Disease, honoring graduations JUNE 25
their families, and from nursery, pre-K, artists. Ms. Weisberger is a member of the
caregivers, with chair kindergarten, elementary Lunch and learn: Rabbi group’s board. Her work has been exhibited
yoga at the Jewish Home or high school, college, Aaron Katz leads a lunch in leading galleries in the tristate area and is
at Rockleigh, 10 a.m. or graduate school. discussion on current
At 10:30, Mary Ann Sponsorships welcome. represented in private collections.
topics at Congregation
Grommisch, neurology 70 Sterling Place. B’nai Jacob in Jersey Ms. Weisberger also is the author of the
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People with Parkinson’s.” Jacob holds Shabbat
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Wendy Federman wins more Tonys
at Hogan’s Diner in
JUNE 24 Orangeburg, N.Y., 6 p.m. Wendy Federman of Alpine was a win- Itamar Moses adapted “The Band’s
Individual checks. 17 ner at this year’s Tony Awards. She now Visit” from the 2007 Israeli film of the
Music in the Hudson Dutch Hill Road. Gene, has eight, adding two as a co-producer same name. In it, the Alexandria Cer-
Valley: Singers/ (845) 356-5525.
songwriters Lydia Adams of “The Band’s Visit” and of “Angels emonial Police Orchestra gets on the
Film in Wayne: The
Davis, Pat Lamanna, and in America.” wrong bus and ends up in the middle
Chabad Center of
Passaic County screens Jim Pospisil perform Thursday Her co-productions received 17 Tony of the Negev, and the musicians try to
“1945,” an award- handcrafted historical JUNE 21 Awards for the 2017-18 Broadway season. explain that they are scheduled to per-
winning Hungarian film, ballads at the Gomez
Foundation for Mill “The Band’s Visit” garnered 10 wins for form at the new Arab cultural center.
released in 2017, about Widows and widowers
the reverberations of the House in Marlboro, N.Y., meet: Movin’ On, a best musical and performance by an Since there are no more buses out of
Holocaust, 7:30 p.m. 194 1:30 p.m. Free tour of monthly luncheon actor in a leading role in a musical, Tony town, they are invited to spend the day
Ratzer Road. Tickets, the Gomez Mill House group for widows and Shalhoub; performance by an actress in and night with some of the townspeople.
(973) 694-6274 or follows. Refreshments. widowers, meets at
The Gomez Foundation a leading role in a musical, Katrina Lenk; “Angels in America” won three Tonys
Jewishwayne.com. the Glen Rock Jewish
for Mill House works Center, 12:30 p.m. 682 performance by an actor in a featured for best revival of a play; performance
to preserve the 300 role in a musical, Ari’el Stachel; book of by an actor in a leading role in a play,
Friday year-old Gomez Mill
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standing Jewish dwelling
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Temple Beth El has Mill House Road, off musical, Tyler Micoleau; sound design The Federman family belongs to Cha-
Route 9W, Marlboro,
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of its new board, N.Y. (845) 236-3126 or
Gomez.org. musical, Michael Cromer; and orchestra- led by rabbis Jack Bemporad and Nat
6:30 p.m., followed
by a barbecue. 221 tions, Jamshied Sharifi. Benjamin. Ms. Federman celebrated
Music in Paterson:
Schraalenburgh Road. According to a November review by her bat mitzvah at the Kotel in Jerusa-
Award-winning
(201) 768-5112. virtuoso pianist Sophia Miriam Rinn in the Jewish Standard, lem last year.
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nthony Bourdain was quick — and often willing
— to publicly offer his own flaws.
“Until 44 years of age, I never had any kind
of savings account,” Bourdain said in 2017.
“I always owed money. I’d always been selfish and com-
pletely irresponsible.”
Despite or maybe because of such flaws, Bourdain would
stumble into fame, parlaying his latent talent as a writer
into hosting three increasingly sophisticated variants of
the same food-oriented travel show — first on the Food Net-
work, then on the Travel Channel, and finally on CNN.
“For a long time, Tony thought he was going to have
nothing,” his publisher, Dan Halpern, told the New
Yorker. “He can’t believe his luck. He always seems
happy that he actually is Anthony Bourdain.”
In his professional ascendance, Bourdain developed a
unique journalistic voice, demonstrating an underlying,
at times seemingly innate ability to acquaint viewers with
foreign lands and cultures divergent from their own with-
out mocking his subjects. Instead he humanized the local
tapestry of individuals, implicitly encouraging his view-
ers to do the same. It is for this reason that various com-
munities, including the Jewish community, trusted Bour-
dain with their respective cultures and heritages — and
mourned deeply the news of his death, at 61, last week.
In the opening of the 2013 episode in which he visits
Israel, the West Bank, and Gaza Strip, Bourdain notes Author, chef, world traveler, and TV host Anthony Bourdain brought his viewers fresh cultural and political
that the region is “easily the most contentious piece of perspectives from around the globe.
real estate in the world. And there’s no hope — none —
of ever talking about it without pissing somebody, if not that approach.”
everybody, off.” Throughout his time on television, Bourdain repeatedly
And yet, still simply happy to be here — happy to have forced his viewers to readdress their own biases. In this
accidentally secured the reverence now attached to his By the end of this particular episode, he renders it difficult for viewers to
name — he does not worry about angering partisans, descend into their own communal extremism. It’s hard
instead focusing on his task: telling individual stories episode, I’ll be seen to imagine watching the episode without empathizing for
through food. by many as a terrorist both, rather than choosing between, the Palestinians and
“By the end of this episode, I’ll be seen by many as a the Israelis.
terrorist sympathizer, a Zionist tool, a self-hating Jew, an sympathizer, a Zionist It is for this reason — his ability, through food, to pres-
apologist for American imperialism, an orientalist, fas- tool, a self-hating Jew, ent on-the-ground, real-life theater in aims of humaniz-
cist, socialist CIA agent, and worse. So here goes noth- ing its players — that Israelis, Palestinians, Colombians,
ing,” he said. an apologist for Georgians, Malaysians, Cambodians, and Hungarians,
In addition to addressing his own internal struggles, American imperialism, among countless others, welcomed Bourdain into not
by wrapping himself in tefillin at the Western Wall only their locales and cultures but also into their own
and praying, as a Jew, for the first time in his life (he an orientalist, fascist, homes. He did not glorify conflict nor local struggles,
described himself as “hostile to any sort of devotion”), socialist CIA agent, but yearned to understand and talk about individuals
Bourdain interrogates his subjects, who span the cul- within their midst.
tural, ethnic, and political spectrums. He coaxes them and worse. So here Floating above the ocean of biased or one-sided media
to explicate the extremism of their own communities. goes nothing. coverage that only serves to reinforce pre-existing com-
Over a meal in a Jewish settlement, Bourdain asks a munal extremism, Bourdain was a lifeboat of, and for,
resident about local graffiti reading “Death to Arabs”; humanity. He made us all a little more interesting, a little
the settler admits that it should “probably” be expunged. for peace, not for any particular ideological reason, but smarter and a little more tolerant of others.
At the Aida refugee camp outside Bethlehem, he prods a in the hopes of a future in which children neither wor- A chef and accidental journalist, Bourdain did the type
local children’s theater director, asking why communal ship armed gunmen nor are killed by missiles and sui- of reporting that all within the field, particularly in the
heroes are armed gunmen, hijackers, and suicide bomb- cide bombs. midst of a global expansion of attacks on the free press,
ers rather than TV stars or singers. The director, like the Although ever ambivalent about politics, Bourdain should aim to emulate. His suicide, ominously follow-
settler, offers a moderate apology, acknowledging that allows this episode, likely inevitable due to its focus, to ing news of a CDC report indicating that suicide is rising
the situation is not healthy. become deeply political. Yet he navigates the regional ide- sharply, shows perhaps how deeply he suffered from his
In Israel proper, Bourdain speaks with Natan Galko- ological complexities with ease similar to his canoe junket own flaws and contradictions. It was these contradictions,
wicz, who lost a daughter in a missile attack from Gaza. into Borneo’s jungles. however, that made Bourdain so quick to recognize and
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