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leave this relationship was a decision that was terrifying to me and took
daughter, I knew that I had to make that move because I did not want her
to grow up thinking it was ok for a man to treat her abusively. I had to go. I
believed that if I made it to the other side of the proverbial fence that all
would be ok. I found the opposite. I never thought it was possible, but my
real nightmares had not even begun. My ex had yet to discover his best
violence, they all leave out a vital piece of information. None of them
mention to you that when you leave you are endangering your child to
more risk than if you stay. If I would have known then what I know now, I
would have stayed. I can handle the hits and kicks. In the family court is
by the source that was put in place to protect children, if not the mothers,
daughter to hurt me and the court gives him full permission to do it. If I
Professor Morean
22/July/2018
We are one in millions of the same story. Many have had worse or even
fatal fates. This is the family court system in our world today.
The family court system is a very old and established branch of the judicial
system. This is not a new concept, nor is it a radically new idea that is
emerging.
Although the precursor of family court was really child or juvenile court, the
framers of family court probably could not have fathomed it would become a
The concept actually arose in the late nineteenth century when the first separate
Indiana, under the auspices of the "common law doctrine" also set up a separate
court to try children. It is here where the seeds of parents patriae, or protection for
children against themselves or their parents began. With the common law system,
the law is made not by legislators but by the courts and the judges. It is often
referred to as the "unwritten law." In substance, common law lies in the published
court decisions. This offered judges within this system wide discretion to shape
family law.
Tina Ingram
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22/July/2018
By the 1960s, Family Court became firmly established and as Justice Potter Stewart
stated in Parham v. J.R. (1979) "issues involving the family are the most difficult
that the courts have to face." Hence, it is no surprise that family law cases are some
of the most disputable. Family cases actually placed state and federal regulations
children. (Belou).
It became a controversial issue that demanded attention over the past few
and corruption within the court system. With the advances of technology
and social media, people have been able to reach out to one another and
have realized that they are not alone. This event that happened to them,
Twenty years ago, a Pennsylvania attorney predicted that the court was
wide open for corruption and the potential to abuse power was right under
the people’s nose. He warned the people about laws being enacted
They are in every court and we rarely realize that this law being used for or
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against us was never passed through the proper channels to become law.
It is a discretionary power of the judges and used by the lawyers the make
In 2009 the family court was commissioned to enter into a feasibility study
in Ohio by the Supreme Court. The results proved several problems, but
nothing was done to rectify these problems. The report stated “There is
There is even less agreement concerning the best vehicle for family”
(Effort) The court was detailed as to have one leadership with a common
purpose, working as a unit, with one set of family records in one place,
under the direction of one judge. This opened the door to a system with no
court judges wide discretion of power to use in whatever way they see fit.
rule 48. Which is supposed to give a separate voice or watchdog for the
the case so that they can report a best interest of the child finding to the
judge. Sadly, it has been a position that has abused authority, left parents
in financial ruin (due to billable hours for service), and guardians have
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earned a reputation of doing little to earn the pay. The list of guardians
available for cases is kept at the judge’s desk and the judge assigns the
each side of the case. If you do not have the money to pay the guardian,
you better find it. It does not matter if the rent is paid or the children starve,
in the court’s eyes, the guardian can and will be paid NO MATTER WHAT.
It is a role of picking a party for the child and many experts feel that this
For domestic violence victims this can pose a genuine issue. Sometimes
the act of getting out was all they could do. Financially, they are in ruins.
The abuser has them at a disadvantage and the courts allow this to go on.
Women report feeling victimized all over again after leaving court (Patillo).
Their abusers are often revered while they are belittled and pathologized
by the courts. The system trusted to protect them is now the perpetrator.
suicide. In a study done by Joan Meier on the family court system, she
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found that 59% of mothers who reported abuse were sanctioned for
reporting it, courts were highly suspicious of mothers’ motives for being
concerned with abuse. 2/3 of mothers were pathologized for advocating for
withhold the child from the other parent for her own selfish reasons and
that is abuse. It has taken root in the courtrooms despite proof that it is not
claims of abuse. If a child resists seeing the father, the mother is thereby
an alienator.
This is not to say that there are not cases where women do not use the
child as a weapon toward the other person, however, these cases are the
exception not the rule as fathers’ rights activists would have most believe.
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22/July/2018
The women’s coalition is a group of women from all over the world that
have united fight the blatant corruption in the family court system that has
put their children in the arms of abusers, or worse for some, have killed
their children. They work hard every day toward reform and awareness.
Having been previously silenced during the court battle itself, they were
unable to take a public stand and be heard. (Family court comes with a
gag order that has very harsh consequences if violated). Now, they are
free from the binding court order and the destructive hands of the abuser.
They live in fear for their children every day, but they never stop fighting.
Every story is unique but has the same core. The courts did not have their
back when they got the courage to leave and they were penalized for
speaking up.
Why do the courts do this? As early as Karl Marx, experts have been
shunned for bringing to light issues of abuse toward children. It is the ugly
that no one wants to see. While they know it is there, it is hard to reconcile
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the worst about mothers, a good or even adequate attorney easily closes
the deal.
In 2016, Ted Poe, House Rep for Texas introduced legislation that would
stop abusers from having access to survivors and their children. This
would elevate the coercive control they have over the survivor. In his
still awaiting approval and he hopes to see it pass by the 115 th House in
Jan 2019.
Where are the sanctions for the abusers who diligently look to control and
hurt the ones that left? Coercive control is more than a physical beating. It
includes harassment, financial abuse, stalking, all these the court allows
the will of the abuser out of lack of funds and the family court does not
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chance.
in dire need and a system in place that is fair and impartial. One that
mirrors the criminal system. Judges are elected by ballot each term, no
more appointed magistrates that have never ending terms, and severe
sanctions for both parties if they behave immorally towards the future well-
sheer laziness on the part of the court. Court experts need not be
For cases of domestic violence, women (or men) should not have to be
alone in the court. There should always be a support person just as with
keep the court staff in place. Let the people have full access to govern the
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their life. It is not necessary to claim that they have no say because they
And finally, for all the corrupt judges and staff that have engaged in the
heinous act of putting innocent children behind their selfish ego or greed,
prison time should only be the start of a sentence for them. Each
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Works Cited
Balogna, Jason. "This US Attorney Nailed It 20 Years Ago : Potential For
Meier, Joan. Empirical Study Into Family Court. 2017. Dept. of Justice.
2018.