swamp = rawa

seething = gelora

elation = kegembiraan

yearning = kerinduan

besotted = dibodohi

prowess = kecakapan, keberanian

frugality = kesederhanaan

apalled = tercengang

meander = berliku-liku

tedious = membosankan

stile = menahan

flattery = rayuan

fondness = kesukaan

poigant = pedih

delving = menggali

poise = sikap tenang, confidence

ploy = way, cara

Brag = membual, menyombongkan diri, sesumbar

courtship = pdkt, pacaran, masa saling mengenal

shimmering= berkilauan, berkelap kelip

fervor = semangat, passion

impediments = halangan, obstacle

perturbed = gelisah, enxious, nervous

exquisite = sangat indah, sempurna

smooching = kiss and cuddle

woo = merayu

caress = membelai, fondling

potent = ampuh

fondling = cumbuan
ADVICE from NATURE

THE EXPOLORER

Go Slow, dont get too fast into relationship

Dont give anything too fast unless you are interested in it

dont make promises you cant keep

DOnt miss a calm and thrustworthy person

dont tell about the past

Respect a date who is careful with cash, she might help you to pay your future children'education

Use creativity with Negotiator

Be patients with Builder's question

Ignore competitive comments from Director

Playful with another explorer

If you are interested in long term relationship, make sure your partner also interested, if not, depart

Avoid unneecessary routines and stay flexible

Never moralize, emotionally expressive, playful, enjoy freedom

THE BUILDER

Even the wisest men and women can be fools when it come to love

Stay with your plans and schedules but be ready to change your routines

Get a new way of trying thins on a date

Dont offer too much help too fast

The right partner will respect your boundaries

Dont let your friends negative view of budding romance interfere with your relationship

Let your date know your achievements, impress her

Dont be too judgemental

Be playful, if dont youll seen as boring

Spend some money for relationship

Develop your romantic side, a spontaneous word of gesture of affection

Take the risk

TO explorer, ask detail and listen to ideas and theories

to director, ignore her tendency to make quick decision

to Navigator, make personal connection with her by talking about yourself, including your private
feelings.

to builder, respect her traditional value. Be orderly, calm and make plans

THE DIRECTOR

Go slow, relax

Dont get so absorbed in your work that you neglect your search for love

Go out, love is like busines, if you want to be succeed. YOu must show up.

Leave your competitive and debating spirit in the office

Express your emotions. People will find you more interesting if you show some feeling

Two ways communication, in courtship, ideas must be exchanged

Humor please

To explorer, enjoy exploring ideas

to negotiator, let her examine all the angles of the discussion, dont push

to builders, answer question in details,

to director, dont cancel dates in order to stay late

if you dating director, lean back casually. director admire

THE NEGOTIATOR

stop thinking too much about possibilities and problems in the future
Negotiators can read avery subtle motion from partner

Try to be more straight forward

it never does any harm to ask for what you want.Ask

you can be so diplomatic that potential sometimes unclear

Challange your partner. FIght for your point of view

Develop healthy skepticism

Dont listen to everything your friend and family say about her

Set limit that your partner will respect

Dont overact, dont be drama queen

Accept compliments

Dont apologize unless you are really sorry

ACT confident

dont settle for anything except a deeply meaningful, authentic relationship

explorers feel intimate when doing something adventurous

builders intimacy when sharing social event

director intimacy is in intellectual discussion

IF you dating a negotiator, dont endless analysis of "the relationship"

Talk about ideas to negotiator, avoid chit chat. Engage his or her though

Listen actively, personal, authentic, warmth

avoid being competitive and aggressive with them

Courting is not, foremost, about honesty;

it’s about winning.

Brag carefully (nyombong dikit)

The five steps Pick up

1. Men and women set territorial

2. Draw attention to them 'I am here'

3. Talking. men with deep and low sound. women high sound

4. Touching, usually women touch first

5. Keeping time, the sync to every details. Mimic each other

Courtship always give and take

Negotiators like story about people.

Three types of love

- Sex drive

- Romantic Love (the most powerful power)

- Attachment (to stay longer with our partner and raise our children)

Find soulmate rather than help mate, mind mate and playmate

1 Cheerful you

2. Kalo ketawa merem mulu

3. Hobi makan

4.Imaginatif

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