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feared a backlash when his partner suggested the personally of the Anne Frank name. And it’s such a small not constitute a kashrut endorsement. The publishing of a paid
political advertisement does not constitute an endorsement of any
name, but later he found it too attractive to pass up. shop, it’s not like it will make anyone a millionaire.” candidate political party or political position by the newspaper or
“I was afraid the name would cause anger, that people Some tourists, including an Italian family, told De Stentor any employees.
would think I was trying to exploit the name for commer- that they felt uncomfortable at the bakery. But a tourist The Jewish Standard assumes no responsibility to return unsolic-
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Houston after Harvey our money specifically to help the Jewish community there
and to align it with our priorities here,” Mr. Shames said.
“It became apparent to us that one of the biggest needs
North Jersey federation helped in Houston was parents needing help for summer camp.
A lot of people had lost businesses and a lot of income. It
send Texas kids to Jewish camp was damaging not just to institutions but to households.”
Supporting Jewish summer camp is a priority for the
North Jersey federation, which gave out 149 summer camp
LARRY YUDELSON Jewish community lives in the Meyerland area, and that grants to local families this year.
was extremely impacted.” Ms. Ingber said that not only did the hurricane damage
Dana Levy Germain learned about Texas hurricanes in Ms. Ingber said that one in every 11 Jewish families in the homes of thousands of Jewish families, it also dam-
2008, two weeks after she moved to Houston. Houston was affected by the hurricane. aged three major synagogues, the Jewish community cen-
She had lived in San Francisco, where she prepared for Ms. Germain said her family was “luckier than some. ter, and the senior home.
earthquakes by having emergency plans. But preparing Water didn’t come into the house proper. Our roof leaked “Many of the institutions have rebuilt, but not all,” she
for an incoming hurricane — this one was named Ike — was and we had water on the second floor. There were several said. “There are still whole neighborhoods that are almost
different. “The crazy thing about a flood is you know it’s feet in the garage. It flooded a storage unit where we had like ghost towns when you drive through at night. Many
coming,” she said. almost all of my dead husband’s things. We lost 90 per- people are still out of their homes.
She found herself “standing in a grocery store with cent. That was traumatic for the kids.” “While we are looking back from a place of resiliency
people who had 4,000 bottles of water and cans of soup. And they had vicarious trauma too. “We had Facetime and pride in our community, we have a long road ahead,”
You’re listening to the stories about past hurricanes. You access to friends who stayed. We saw friends evacuated by she said.
know it’s coming, you just don’t know if you’re going to helicopter,” she said. “Flooding is a very complicated crisis to deal with.
lose everything or will it be a little wind storm and you’ll The Germains had insurance, “which paid a huge claim. You’re dealing with the complexities of insurance and
rake up the leaves in the morning.” But we still had tens of thousands of dollars of out-of- you’re trying to navigate funding on a county, local, state,
In the end, Hurricane Ike blew through, “and we ended pocket costs we didn’t plan for.” and national level. You’re dealing with post-traumatic
up being fine.” After she paid for a new roof, it didn’t seem like there stress. Middle class families are having to make choices.
But a year ago, with Hurricane Harvey heading toward would be enough money for summer camp for her children, Do you just take the money you get from insurance and
Houston, Ms. Germain and her three children left town, who had gone to Camp Sabra, a Jewish camp in Missouri. rebuild your home? Do you lift your home and raise it,
staying with friends in Mississippi. That’s where the Houston federation, with help from which is not covered by insurance? Or do you move?
“I did not want to be one of those families that — God the North Jersey federation, stepped in. “If you choose to pay to build, what does that mean for
forbid — someone has to come in on a boat and rescue,” “We were fortunate that there was extra funding avail- the funds you would have been spending to send your kids
she said. able for people impacted by Harvey,” she said. “I was able to a Jewish summer camp or an Israel trip?
Ms. Germain told her story to the Jewish Standard last to say to the kids: Guess what! We’re all going back to “That’s why the funds to help pay for camp scholarships
week, on the eve of the first anniversary of Hurricane Har- camp! It was a blessing to be able to say that.” were so critical.”
vey’s devastation of Houston. For Jason Shames, head of the Jewish Federation of All told, the Houston federation received nearly $23 mil-
Hers was one of the Jewish families affected by Hurri- Northern New Jersey, responding to natural disasters is lion in emergency aid from Jewish federations and other
cane Harvey. She was able to send her children to Jewish just something that has to be done. donors across the country.
sleepaway camp this summer because of a special grant “It was not just an affinity for helping out our fellow Ms. Germain said that Hurricane Harvey hasn’t soured
from the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey. Americans and Jews, but a real appreciation for how we her on Houston.
Houston has a Jewish community of around 60,000 were helped when Hurricane Sandy hit us hard,” he said. “This is an awesome place to live and an awesome com-
people, living in about 26,000 households. “It’s a very The federation raised $331,685 for Hurricane Harvey munity of people,” she said. “I have plenty of friends for
close-knit community,” Avital Ingber, the head of the Jew- relief; $98,000 was earmarked for camp aid. whom this is their third major flood. People were gung ho
ish Federation of Greater Houston, said. “Much of the “Some of our donors had expressed an interest in using to rebuild. I don’t know anyone who left.”
The mural now is in place outside Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake.
Scouting
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“It became paint by numbers,” Noah said. “That made
it easier for family, friends, and members of the temple
to follow.” Painting was done in his garage, which was
converted into a workshop. A coating of polyurethane
was used to seal the images and “after the panels were
painted, we mounted them onto the retaining wall by put-
ting an aluminum frame onto the wall and then gluing the
panels with silicon adhesive. “
Noah said that he didn’t expect Ricciardi Brothers paint
store in Lodi to donate the paint, “but when they found
out it was an Eagle Scout project, they did.”
He had expected to do fund-raising for the project, selling
$5 blue and white wristbands reading “Eagle Scout Mural
Troop 334,” the name of his Montvale Boy Scout troop.
“The main aspect of an Eagle Scout project is to make
an impact on the community while showing leadership
in working with other people,” Noah said. His project —
which took about two years from planning to completion
and involved some 57 people — “including boy scouts,
temple members, family, and friends” — took 1,083 work-
ing hours to complete and showed Noah the incompara-
ble value of teamwork.
Scouting has had a big impact on his life, Noah said.
He has been a BSA member for more than 10 years and it
has taught him both how to participate and how to lead.
“Judaism is also a large part of who I am,” he said, noting
that after becoming a bar mitzvah he continued his stud-
ies at the Bergen County High School of Jewish Studies.
What is his take-away from the project? Volunteers install
“Get things done as soon as possible,” Noah said. “If you the panels, above;
leave things until the last minute, it can get very stressful.” at right, Noah
He has also learned how to direct volunteers and “how to Mandelman
delegate and make sure everyone gets involved. cuts the ribbon
“It wouldn’t have been possible to do by myself,” as the mural is
he said. introduced to the
He had other commitments, and also learned how to community.
split his time among various commitments. This summer,
he worked this summer as a camp counselor at Spring
Lake in Ringwood. “It was essential to have a lot of help,”
he said.
Providing a project where people could come to social-
ize and meet each other was “profound, beyond my
expectations,” Noah said. He already has received mes-
sages expressing pleasure at having another beautiful
piece of artwork at the synagogue, calling the outdoor
mural “beautiful and amazing.” He is pleased that the
project was completed “just before the chagim, when
most people.
“It will be a great thing for the community.”
F
or years, Neil Simon, who died
on August 26 at 91, was the
Susan Lucci of dramatists —
almost always the bridesmaid of
the Tony Awards.
While the establishment largely over-
looked him back then — his work received
eight Tony nominations for best play
between 1963 and 1983 but he won only
once — the public didn’t. There were years
when Simon had two, three, even four
plays on Broadway at the same time, each
filling theaters to the brim.
I loved his work, because it was funny
and sometimes sad and to me personally
it always was meaningful. Neil Simon was
my playwright, telling my stories.
There may have been a cat on a hot
tin roof, but that roof was in Brooklyn or
the Bronx.
I spoke to Simon in the mid-1990s. By
then, of course, his brilliance had widely
been recognized. Tributes flowed in like
a country stream in the springtime, swol- Neil Simon tells stories during a memorial tribute to Cy Coleman at the Majestic Theatre in Manhattan on
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access to modern technolo�y and their dis- Malessa has now lived in Israel for dependent on the verbally disseminated
hough they are unique, the Jew- tance from other Jewish communities meant more than 30 years, building a family of wisdom of the elders, who were the only
ish New Year festivities in Ethiopia that up until about 20 years ago, many Ethio- eight children in the city of Ashdod and people in the village capable of reading
bear many similarities to the holi- pian Jews lacked some basic knowledge about becoming thoroughly integrated into Jewish texts written in their ancient dia-
day’s observance in the broader major episodes in Jewish history.) Israeli society. lect, Ge’ez.
diaspora. In 1991, the family’s aliyah officially began Because of how small Malessa’s village “The kessim would instruct everyone
Limor Malessa and five of her siblings were when the Mossad, Israel’s intelligence was in comparison to other Jewish Ethi- in the villages on how to prepare for the
born and raised in a small Ethiopian village agency, smuggled the family out of Ethio- opian townships, not many “kessim”— holiday. Villages that had more of the reli-
near the Jewish community of Gondar. She pia’s capital city to the Jewish homeland by elder religious leaders with knowledge gious leaders would have a much deeper
and her family left the village in 1989, when way of Italy. of oral Jewish law and the equivalent of understanding of the holiday and its
she was 13, and traveled to Ethiopia’s capital, The family arrived in Israel just a month rabbis—lived there. This “would make my laws,” Malessa said.
Addis Ababa, in anticipation of emigrating to before the Mossad conducted a massive clan- childhood memories of Rosh Hashanah In Amharic, which is rooted in the Ge’ez
Israel—the promised land for which Ethio- destine airlift operation, dubbed “Operation less vivid than of those who grew up with dialect and is the official language of Ethi-
pian Jews had longed for thousands of years, Solomon,” which saw some 14,000 Ethiopian many kessim in their villages,” Malessa opia, Rosh Hashanah is called “Brenha
unaware that the holy temple in Jerusalem Jews secretly airlifted out of Ethiopia aboard said in Ethiopian-accented Hebrew. Serkan,” which essentially means “the
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before dawn on the holy day, to begin the first prayer “People serve lamb—the most expensive meat available—
service of the day before sunrise. and have special meals to observe the mitzvah of feeding
In Ethiopia, Rosh Hashanah was—and still is— their Jewish brothers and sisters,” she said.
observed during the course of one day, in contrast to Malessa’s mother, Esther Lakau, who lives in the Israeli
the two days observed in the rest of the Jewish diaspora coastal city of Ashkelon, said she “remembers hearing the
y and in Israel. The Ethiopian Rosh Hashanah is com- kessim sound the shofar on the holiday.”
d prised of three prayer services: before dawn, in the “Everyone in the village prepared the food for the holiday
y afternoon, and in the evening. There are four prayer a day in advance,” Lakau said.
g services in the broader Jewish world for Rosh Hasha- “The kessim would read from the holy scripts in Ge’ez
- nah, and none begin before sunrise. and tell the history of the Jewish people,” she added. “They
“The holiday also has another name, ‘Zikir,’ which is would speak of Abraham, Yitzhak and Yaakov, our great
e similar to the Hebrew word for remember, ‘zachor,’” patriarchs and matriarchs, and the lessons we could learn Family members greet newly arrived Ethiopian Jews
e Malessa said. from them in the present. Most importantly, the kessim at Israel’s Ben Gurion Airport in June 2017.
- Similar to the custom in other diaspora Jewish com- would emphasize our long-held aspiration to celebrate Rosh Miriam Alster/Flash90
r munities, “everyone in the village wears new clean Hashanah ‘next year in Jerusalem.’” JNS.ORG
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HAPPY HOLIDAYS
Now what?
events, with live music, craft booths designers with an emphasized effort
and food trucks in abundance. The on infusing the surrounding neigh-
traditional festivities of “Simchat Beit borhood’s unique character into the
HaShoeivah”, which take place during design. When it comes to Sukkot, this RON KAMPEAS perpetuating the refugee status of the
the intermediate celebratory days, cre- service extends to constructing and Palestinian people, and I think that’s a
decorating a sukkah as well. WASHINGTON — President Donald mistake,” he said. “I think it’s a mistake
ates street parties which go on into the
Trump wants to forge an Israeli-Pales- from a humanitarian point of view ... a
wee hours of the night. On the “re- At Sweet Inn, guests have the option tinian peace deal, but he and his top perpetuation of an unnatural status.”
stricted” days, there’s music in the air to customize their stay exactly as they officials appear to be determined first to UNRWA defines Palestinian refugees
from the thousands of families singing choose with a selection of “a la carte” reframe the parameters of the conflict. as “persons whose normal place of resi-
in the sukkahs, which line the pathway additional services, from arriving to a What’s unclear is if the radical changes dence was Palestine during the period
and yards, and which adorn balconies custom stocked fridge, to setting up a in policy, spearheaded by Jared Kushner, between June 1 1946 and May 15 1948,
and occupy parking lots. local smartphone to car rentals, house- Trump’s son-in-law and senior adviser, and who lost both home and means of
As one of the most vibrant holidays in keeping and grocery deliveries through- will bring Palestinians back to the peace livelihood as a result of the 1948 conflict.”
the country, it’s no wonder that it’s the out their stay. Beyond that, Sweet Inn table, or if it will cripple any prospects It serves some 1.5 million people in 58
most popular tourist seasons as well. can arrange for tickets to local events, for peace. recognized Palestinian refugee camps.
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While there is no other experience like
insider tips to the city which gives tour- jettisoned a number of orthodoxies that Kushner wrote in an internal White
the one of sukkot in Israel, there is one
ists an authentic, enchanting perspec- defined U.S. administration policy for House email in January, when he said
element that many tourists crave - the
tive of a foreign city and an access to years, whether it was Democratic or UNRWA “perpetuates a status quo, is
intimacy of gathering with family and
Republican. He retreated from the two- corrupt, inefficient and doesn’t help
friends in their very own sukkah. the Sweet Inn app which provides 24/7
state solution, he recognized Jerusalem peace” and said it was necessary to “stra-
customer care and assistance.
Dwelling in the sukkah, for many ob- as Israel’s capital, he slashed funding to tegically risk breaking things” to get to a
servant and traditional Jews, is a quint- Sweet Inn is the ideal solution for tour- the Palestinians, and he has trained rhe- better outcome.
essential activity of Sukkot which can ists seeking an authentic holiday expe- torical fire on the Palestinian Authority. It was just the latest challenge to a
lose its magic when conducted in a spir- rience, while being pampered by the Now his administration looks set to long-held status quo: Last week, the
itless dining room style sukkah found city’s local staff who are always ready embrace a much narrower definition Trump administration said it would cut
in hotels. While renting an apartment to meet lodger’s every need. Many of Palestinian refugees than the one $200 million from the $400 million or
Sweet Inn apartments include a balco- accepted by the U.N. agency that deliv- so it was congressionally mandated to
is an option, the logistics of preparing
ny where a kosher sukkah can be as- ers aid to the Palestinians, UNRWA. deliver to the Palestinians (a more recent
it without actually being in the country
Trump’s national security adviser, law passed by Congress allows this). The
can become daunting - and not exactly sembled, providing an intimate setting
John Bolton, told Reuters last week that Trump administration so far has deliv-
the ideal way to start a vacation. with a stunning backdrop for its guests
UNRWA and its definitions were in the ered only $60 million to UNRWA, which
to connect to the spirit of the holiday.
Luckily there is a new lodging option Trump administration’s sights. “UNRWA assists refugees not only in the West
for tourists in Israel who are seeking To experience Sukkot in Jerusalem is is a failed mechanism,” Bolton said. “It Bank and the Gaza Strip but in Jordan,
home comforts without compromising to experience true joy. To experience violates standard international law on Syria, and Lebanon. Last year it deliv-
on luxury accommodations - Sweet sukkot in Sweet Inn in Jerusalem is to the status of refugees. UNRWA’s program ered $368 million to the body, and it is
Inn - and the name says it all! experience the essence of the season of is the only one in history based on the by far its most generous donor.
rejoicing. assumption that refugee status is heredi- Last December, Trump recognized
This new enterprise spanning the cit- tary, and I think it is long overdue that Jerusalem as Israel’s capital, and in May
ies of Jerusalem and Tel Aviv (as well Find out more about the Sweet Inn we have taken steps to reduce funding.” he moved the U.S. embassy from Tel Aviv
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said that the Kushner team appeared see there’s something to lose,” he said.
you to our annual Community Yizkor service on: to be strategically reformulating the “In the case of the Palestinians they’re
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“I don’t think the Palestinian people rative and grievances,” she said. “How
feel like their lives are getting better, and
there is only so long you can blame that
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When the
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FROM PAGE 36 or ritual bath, associated with the synagogue. In some cases, has written about her experience as one of Freundel’s
discussion in the wider Orthodox Jewish community about he would persuade women to perform extra mikvah immer- victims, in a message to JTA. “But this case has a way
how Jews by choice and other women are treated. Freundel sions, under the pretense of practicing for their conversion of reopening itself again and again. The last time was
is in prison, set to be released in 2020, and the settlement to Judaism, which requires the mikvah ritual. The bath also the false alarm about his release, the next time will
says that the synagogue will not be held responsible for any is used by observant Jewish women after the conclusion of likely be the actual release.”
further claims. their monthly menstrual cycles. A victim could receive more than the designated
“In a case this disturbing and sensitive, it’s important to Since the arrest, the case’s fallout has continued to occupy amount if she experienced additional harm in a num-
make the procedures for class members as straightforward the synagogue. The class action suit was filed in Decem- ber of ways. This includes women who were video-
and easy as possible,” said Alexandra Harwin, a lawyer for ber 2014. Freundel was sentenced to six and a half years taped many times or for an extended period of time,
the victims, referring to women represented by the class in prison in May 2015. This April, the District of Columbia or women whose conversion was adversely affected
action suit. “We want to make sure class members have the Department of Corrections mistakenly announced that by the videotaping. It also includes women who suf-
opportunity to participate without aggravating what is obvi- Freundel would be released in August. His sentence has fered sickness or physical or emotional distress, or
ously an extremely distressing situation.” been shortened due to good behavior, and his actual release who received treatment or a medical diagnosis due
Freundel, formerly a leading authority in Orthodox date is in August 2020. to the abuse. Women whose romantic relationship,
conversion, was arrested in October 2014 for secretly “In one way it feels like closure because it’s been out there Jewish practice, or professional or social lives were
adversely affected are also eligible for additional
payment.
“Going to trial, this was really an existential threat to
the synagogue,” said Elanit Jakabovics, former presi-
dent of Kesher’s board of directors. “This could have
bankrupted us and closed us down. That threat was
always there. That it seems like it’s coming to an end
is a relief.”
Jakabovics said that because many of Freundel’s vic-
tims have remained anonymous, it’s hard for the syna-
gogue to provide help to them. She said the synagogue
did reach out to those who have identified themselves,
and has offered counseling and resources for those
seeking help.
Moving forward, she said, the synagogue does not
plan to emphasize combating sexual abuse or place
coping with the scandal’s legacy on the front burner.
She stressed that as part of the settlement, the syna-
gogue did not admit guilt.
“We have to make sure that minyan takes place,”
she said. “We decide whether to run programs based
on what the community wants.
“Combating sexual abuse is always on the fore-
front of everyone’s mind,” she added. “I don’t know
whether I would say that’s a number one priority for
a shul, because the number one priority for the shul
is minyan.”
The class action suit, brought by nine victims,
claimed the synagogue and the affiliated institutions
were negligent in not investigating reports of Freun-
del’s inappropriate behavior.
The other defendants are the National Capital Mik-
vah, as Kesher’s affiliated ritual bath is known; the
Beth Din of America, the Orthodox rabbinical court
system through which Freundel conducted conver-
sions; and the Rabbinical Council of America, the
umbrella Orthodox rabbis’ association affiliated with
the rabbinic courts.
In August 2017, the synagogue hired a new perma-
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nearly everything is forbidden in the bedroom. Both groups past, present, and future — and makes a difference in
were being misled. The Bible makes it clear in Genesis that sex is swiped these words from the August 2018 bulle- the progression of our Universe.”
primarily for intimacy rather than offspring: “Therefore shall a tin of Temple Beth David in Cheshire, Connect- Roz was one of those rare people who always kept
man leave his father and leave his mother. He shall cleave to his icut. These words, which were in in mind that “the now” exists because
wife and they shall become one flesh” (2:24). This pivotal idea is the bulletin’s Ritual Committee sec- there once was a “then.” She was cog-
echoed by the Bible having no word for sex other than “knowl- tion, were written by my late aunt, Ros- nizant of family milestones, sending
edge.” So why were religious couples being consciously misled lyn Croog, who died on Saturday night, wishes of mazel on birthdays, anni-
into believing that passionate sexual expression was mostly cir- August 18. These words, which my father versaries, and major life events. On
cumscribed, and that sex had to take place in the missionary shared in a graveside eulogy, whispered her final visit to Teaneck, three weeks
position in the dark? in my ear as I looked around the cemetery before she died, she brought my
Fraudulent sexual teachings in religion have destroyed count- after the funeral service. daughter a birthday present. It wasn’t
less lives and extinguished countless marriages. Worse, false And so, as instructed, I paid respects to new, but rather a hand-me-down from
and repressive piety may also be the cause of some of the aber- my uncle Jerry, who lay at rest to the right her granddaughter. And it made one
rant sexual behavior we are seeing in otherwise godly men and of the new cemetery plot. Jerry, an inspi- Dena Croog 7-year-old girl ecstatic.
women. Is there a connection between clerical celibacy in the ration to me, served as a planning and I came across a proverb that speaks
church and the painful number of cases of abuse? No one knows policy specialist for Connecticut’s Depart- to me on multiple levels, certainly dur-
for sure. There may be other, stronger forces at work. ment of Mental Health and Addiction Services. As is ing this time of year and in light of the loss of my aunt.
But this much is certain. Sexuality strikes to the very heart tradition, I placed a stone on his tombstone, symbolic The proverb is translated from Hebrew to English in a
of the human condition. A healthy, positive, and fulfilling sex of his lasting presence in my life. few different ways, but the most common version is:
life in marriage is not a luxury but a necessity, which the Bible In a row close by, I paid my grandparents a visit. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings
recognizes in innumerable instances and that forms the basic They, too, paved a path upon which to follow. Both of silver.” (Proverbs 25:11)
narrative of so many biblical marriages, like the famous story of were hands-on involved in their community; my Bubby Maimonides, in “The Guide for the Perplexed,”
Isaac being “sexually playful” (metzachek) with his wife Rebecca. served as sisterhood president of the Young Israel of explains that the settings of silver refer to a silver fili-
I do not claim any expertise as to the historical and theo- New Haven, and my Zaidie at various times served as gree overlay. Superficially, from afar, the apple looks
logical reasons that the Catholic church made clerical celibacy both shul president and gabbai. Upon their tombstones valuable like silver. When looked at from beneath the
obligatory rather than an optional encouragement about a mil- I placed another stone, and then another, recognizing overlay, the apple is revealed to be golden, which is
lennium ago. Less so is my purpose to preach to another faith how — like my uncle Jerry — they, too, have made a last- even more precious. So, too, with words. A word “sea-
about what its basic tenets ought to be. But it is my purpose ing impression on my present and future. sonably spoken” or a “phrase well turned” — two other
to make clear that any religion that bases itself on the Hebrew On the day of the funeral, I paid my respects translations of the Hebrew text — has a double mean-
Bible cannot escape the Bible’s healthy encouragement of car- to Aunt Roz not in the cemetery but in an apple ing, both the literal (silver) and the figurative (gold).
nal intimacy as the central staple of a husband and wife’s loving orchard. Shiva was being held that first day at her I understand the proverb as relating to other art
connectedness. ranch house in Cheshire, a town in New Haven forms, as well. It’s interesting to me that Roz, an avid
When “Kosher Sex” was first published I experienced consid- County, and the house bordered the orchard. Since photographer, used photographs as her medium of
erable criticism from some rabbinical colleagues who thought I was hanging out there for a few hours, I was fairly choice. Like words, photos can relay a message with
the subject unseemly. But where were people supposed to learn certain that my aunt would have been upset at me a double meaning — the message’s surface value, and
about sex? From the Torah or the internet? From biblical and if I didn’t take the opportunity to go apple picking, the deeper interpretation within. At the same time,
Jewish sources or outlets that degrade women? especially since apples are an integral part of the the deeper meaning of the image only exists because
It is essential that religion, rather than secular society, serve approaching new year. there is an image at all. The extent of the golden
as the source of sexual teachings as to the sacredness of the car- So I did. Roz and I had a little conversation — apple’s value only exists in relation to it being more
nal connection between husband and wife. A society that daily though it was pretty one-sided — about what I loved valuable than its silver overlay.
witnesses sexual exploitation yearns for examples of a more and admired about her. I also told her how it was Aunt Roz had a way with relaying messages,
spiritual sexuality. pretty dumb that she passed away without warning, whether that was through her photography or via an
While we Jews are not here to pass judgment on Catholic celi- not giving me enough time to tell her these things in email with well wishes. I wonder, though, if people
bacy, what we can say is that it would never be allowed in Juda- person. And that’s when it occurred to me: are sometimes hesitant to relay their own messages
ism, where marriage is not just a sacrament but a mitzvah, a Why didn’t I tell her these things in person? for fear of their words not achieving the level of being
divine commandment. Moreover, the obligation of spouses to There’s something about being outside among “fitly spoken.” I wonder if people might be so con-
please one another sexually is a cornerstone of both Jewish law nature that makes it easier to reflect on the impor- cerned about finding the “right words” that they may
and even the ketubah — the marriage contract. tant things in life. Being in the apple orchard, it wasn’t not try to relay their messages at all.
A couple who are in love with each other and concentrate lost on me that Roz played an integral role in the res- I tend to worry about not finding those “right
their fullest erotic attention on one another are living a holy life. toration of New Haven’s Orchard Street Shul, home of words.” As of late, though, I’ve decided that some-
The 10th commandment makes it clear that we are not to covet Congregation Beth Israel, which opened its doors in times it’s more important to speak imperfect words
our neighbor’s wife, which, by direct implication, means we that location in the 1920s. presently than to spend too much time trying to fig-
sure ought to be coveting, and lusting after, our own. This endeavor was one example of how much of ure out how to turn a phrase just so. I think that peo-
The time has come for religion to stop demonizing sex and a role tradition and personal history played in Roz’s ple should speak to others in the now. If you appreci-
promote its sacredness for the human condition, based on con- outlook on life. Another example is when in July 2013, ate someone for their existence in your life, tell them
sent, intimacy, and commitment. now, not when you’re stealing their apples and their
Dena Croog is a writer and editor in Teaneck and words. People should know that they matter. And
the founder of Refa’enu, a nonprofit organization people don’t express that enough.
The opinions expressed in this section are those of the authors, dedicated to mood disorder awareness and support. Aunt Roz died on a Saturday night during those
not necessarily those of the newspaper’s editors, publishers, or Learn about the organization and its support groups ambiguous moments that we call “nightfall”—when
other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to at www.refaenu.org, or email dena@refaenu.org with Shabbos is over for one Talmudic scholar and not
jstandardletters@gmail.com. questions or comments. SEE CROOG PAGE 43
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n its simplest form, it goes like this. unequivocally praising the man at every Center before Trump was declared his isolated. Just 19 percent sympathized
Donald Trump is hated by a sig- turn, milking this rare opportunity for all party’s nominee, 75 percent of Repub- more with Israel than with the Palestin-
nificant portion of the American it’s worth. licans and 43 percent of Democrats ians in 2018, versus 33 percent in 2016. In
people. Many of those who don’t And who can blame him? It’s clear responded that they were more likely to fact, nearly twice as many liberal Demo-
like him automatically reject anything he that Netanyahu’s strategy has paid off in be sympathetic with Israel than with the crats now show more of an allegiance to
favors. Trump’s policies and actions make spades. Palestinians. Those find- the Palestinians, with the remainder sym-
him the most pro-Israel president since For now. ings were almost identical pathizing with both, neither, or simply not
the Jewish state was formed. Therefore, While Trump’s pronounce- to results in an earlier 2014 having an opinion.
if and when a new president is swept into ments are a huge breath of poll, which showed 73 per- Those numbers appear to be getting the
office on the promise of reversing every- fresh air for most support- cent of Republicans and 44 attention of the progressive wing of Con-
thing Trump believes in, Israel could be in ers of Israel, to say they are percent of Democrats favor- gress. In May, for the first time since the
for a rude awakening. being delivered by an imper- ing Israel. In 2018, however, 2006 blockade of Gaza, a group of Dem-
But it’s not that simple. fect messenger is an under- after Trump had served for ocratic senators signed a letter assigning
There’s no denying that President statement of major propor- nearly a year, Republican blame to Israel along with Hamas for the
Trump’s support of Israel has been breath- tions. Frankly, if you employ support for Israel edged up suffering of Palestinians. The effort, signed
taking. Moving the U.S. Embassy to Jeru- all the terms currently being Robert Isler to 79 percent, while Demo- on to by 13 senators, not surprisingly was
salem, shredding the Iran deal, allowing used to describe John McCain cratic backing plummeted to spearheaded by Bernie Sanders. In a July
nearly unfettered construction throughout — “Principled, a man of char- just 27 percent. This was the follow-up, 70 Democratic members of the
Israel, withdrawing funds from UNRWA acter, integrity, and honor, a truth-teller widest divide in 40 years, and doubtless House of Representatives signed a similar
and voicing his intention to reject its who puts his country first, a statesman is troubling to AIPAC, which always boasts letter demanding humanitarian relief for
strange policy of allowing refugee status who attached himself to a higher cause” — that support for Israel is bipartisan. Gaza, again pointing to Israel along with
to be inherited, fully backing Nikki Haley and flip them on their heads, you get Don- Add to the mix the low ratings for Netan- Hamas as the cause.
whenever she lambasts the hypocrisy of ald Trump. yahu in the same 2018 poll, with barely Although it can’t be said with certainty
the U.N.’s Middle East policies…. The list Had a man of John McCain’s moral clar- over half of Republicans (52 percent) and that these unprecedented shifts in poll-
goes on and he deserves full credit. ity been similarly championing Israel’s less than one in five of Democrats (18 per- ing and in actions by progressives in
For his part, Benjamin Netanyahu has cause as commander-in-chief, the mes- cent) having favorable impressions, and Congress are a direct result of Trump’s
been all in for Trump, consistently and sage might have moved the needle favor- the images of Trump and Netanyahu get- overwhelming support of Israel or his
ably, but when voiced by Trump, often the ting along grandly are not particularly bellicose attitude towards foreigners,
Robert Isler is a marketing researcher and a opposite occurs. advantageous to Israel’s cause. the timing strongly suggests some con-
freelance writer who lives in Fair Lawn. He Consider the following. It gets even more troubling when the nection. Additionally, at least one media
can be reached at robertisler23@gmail.com. In a 2016 poll by the Pew Research sentiments of liberal Democrats are SEE ISLER PAGE 44
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y first experience with Sena- Republican nomination for president. staff. I was immensely impressed at the the senator said, he would win both New
tor John McCain was about Soon after the dinner I was invited to ability of the senator, then in his late 60s, Hampshire and South Carolina, and that
12 years ago, when Yeshiva become a member of Senator McCain’s to answer multifaceted questions he got historically, the candidate who won two
University asked me to finance committee for his presidential from the audiences he addressed. Having out of the first three state primaries would
request his attendance at its annual dinner run. Although most of my political advo- gone through medical school with the help succeed in becoming the party nominee.
as a keynote speaker. cacy work was for members of a good memory, it was astounding to me At that point, young Megan McCain
I had met Senator McCain of Congress, working for this to realize how much trouble I would have expressed a very strong (and loud) opinion
in the past at events promot- presidential candidate was had following complicated questions. But at the dinner table about who her father
ing U.S.-Israel relations, but I compelling. His life story and even though he was 15 years my senior, should not pick for the VP candidate. I
had few personal ties to him the way he conducted him- Senator McCain easily fielded them. I was will leave the name out for discretion, but
or his office. I knew that he self were personally inspir- also impressed that he was willing and the entire table fell silent, including the
was interested in running ing. Early in the primary proud to have a Jew wearing a kippah senator. It was a good lesson for me that
again for president, as did YU, process many of my friends accompany him around New Hampshire even someone who could face five years of
and that it would be very good worked on the candidacy of in a tight election campaign. POW captivity and torture and fly jets into
publicity for the school and then-Democratic primary One of my most memorable moments combat had something in common with a
his campaign if he could fit the Dr. Ben candidate Hillary Clinton. in the 22 years I have been working in short Jewish doctor from New Jersey.
date into his schedule. Senator Chouake She also was well known and citizen political advocacy was when John, We were both afraid of our daughters.
McCain, however, because of respected in the community, Cindy, and Megan McCain joined a couple I had thought that Senator McCain would
his fame and the upcoming and also received much sup- of us having dinner together at a local res- win the presidency until the economy
presidential election, was in great demand. port from Jewish citizen advocates. taurant on the campaign trail. It was the tanked shortly before the election. In my
After speaking with some of my contacts I was invited to travel with Senator evening of the Iowa primary, and Sena- typical child-of-survivors paranoia until this
around the country who were close with McCain when he was campaigning for the tor McCain’s main competition was Mitt day , I have felt that the timing and severity
the senator, he did agree to come, and primary in New Hampshire. About 10 of us Romney. Senator McCain told us he per- of the financial crisis were manipulated to
there was much favorable publicity both for would ride on the bus named the “Straight sonally had no shot at winning Iowa, since favor the Democratic candidate, who would
the school, which had a successful dinner, Talk Express,” including Cindy and Megan he was against subsidies for using corn to be much more disinclined toward a strong
and for Senator McCain’s campaign for the McCain, the senator, and some campaign make ethanol for the gas tank. When the military and foreign policy. So respected
news came in that Huckabee won Iowa, was Senator McCain by our foreign adver-
Dr. Ben Chouake, M.D., of Englewood is the national president of Norpac, the largest pro- the senator confidently smiled at the saries that the Russian invasion of Georgia
Israel political action committee in the United States. He runs a medical practice in Cliffside table and told us he felt he would win the essentially was halted by his criticism and
Park and is a board member of several Jewish organizations on the local and national level. nomination. With Romney’s loss in Iowa, SEE CHOUAKE PAGE 44
A Neil Simon play that helps explain how we got to Donald Trump
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never thought of Neil Simon as a and milk from his neighbors. the right-wing conspiracy theory whose and experience lower levels of self-worth
political writer, unless you agree And then, seething that Edna has followers show up at Trump rallies. It’s relative to a control group.” Globalization
that all politics are personal. become the family’s bread-winner, Mel the far-right grumbling about the “deep also “contributed to a sense that white
“The Odd Couple” got a lot of its goes on a rant that, four decades later, feels state,” a cabal of civil servants who oper- Americans are under siege by ... engines of
juice from the nascent feminist movement, positively eerie in the way it anticipates ate independently of elected officials in change.”
I suppose, but the typical Simon character the paranoid style of the internet and talk Washington. It’s Trump’s closing presi- Mel and Edna aren’t broke. She has her
would rather rant about the weather and radio, the anger of displaced white men dential campaign ad, which asserted that job, they talk of savings, and Mel’s brother
the traffic than the economy or the welfare and the disenchantment of the middle- “Hillary Clinton meets in secret with inter- is happy to pitch in. Mel’s complaints are
system. class — essentially, the forces that helped national banks to plot the destruction of not about money but about status: “You’ve
“I don’t write social and political plays land Donald Trump the presidency. U.S. sovereignty in order to enrich these never walked into your building and had
because I’ve always thought the family Here’s a taste, from the screenplay: global financial powers, her special inter- an idiot doorman with beer breath. gig-
was the microcosm of what goes on in Mel: Now, you tell me, why do you think est friends and her donors.” gling at you because he’s working,” he
the world,” Simon said in his 1992 Paris I’m out of work? Simon wrote the play during a recession, complains to Edna. It’s perhaps telling
Review interview. Edna: I don’t know why. and the movie came out after Watergate that on his visit to the unemployment
But then I decided to watch Because you can’t find a and the 1973 oil crisis. In 1974 the country office, the clerk behind the desk is a black
“The Prisoner of Second Ave- decent job. experienced one of its worst economic woman, and Mel’s sense of humiliation is
nue” as a tribute to the leg- Mel: That’s why? That’s crises, with high unemployment and soar- obvious and profound.
endary playwright, who died why? You haven’t the ing inflation. Nixon had recently resigned “The Prisoner of Second Avenue” didn’t
last Sunday at 91. It was my slightest inkling of what’s under the threat of impeachment, and the predict how the Jewish middle and upper
first time seeing the 1975 film really going on, do you? country was still feeling a deep sense of class would vote in 2016. Mel and Edna’s
adaptation of the play, which You are so naive, it’s ridicu- disillusionment and distrust with politi- voting district — Yorkville — went for Clin-
ran for a respectable 789 per- lous ... You have no suspi- cians and the government. ton over Trump by a margin of 79 to 18.
formances on Broadway from cion of the truth. This was also New York on the brink New York City eventually would get over
1971 to 1973. Jack Lemmon Andrew And from there he is of bankruptcy, when living on the Upper its own breakdown of the 1970s, although
plays Mel, a depressed 48-year- Silow-Carroll off to the races, describ- East Side was neither an extravagance nor it, like Mel, would need a few more crises,
old ad executive recently fired ing “The Plot” — a “social, a guarantee that thieves wouldn’t ransack some professional help, and a few lucky
from his job. Anne Bancroft economic and political plot your apartment in broad daylight. Nixon breaks to get there. Let’s assume that Mel
is his doting stay-at-home wife, Edna, to undermine the working classes of this was gone, but the city still felt like the got a new job, and he and Edna moved
who goes back to work so they can make country.” It’s practically invisible, he says crime-plagued hellhole he described in into a comfortable dotage. Essentially
ends meet. It’s set during a heat wave in a of “The Plot,” and “maybe only a hand- his cynical, successful appeals to the coun- liberal, they’d go on to vote Democratic
smoggy, gritty New York, with obligatory ful of people in this whole country know try’s “silent majority” — a phrase and tac- in most races (but siding with a law-and-
jokes about getting mugged in Central Park about it.” It explains why 6.7 percent of the tic Trump revived on the campaign trail. order guy like Rudy Giuliani when he ran
and the so-called junkies who are always working class is unemployed, why wages A number of pundits have suggested for mayor, and perhaps voting for Ronald
ready to pounce. are low and inflation out of control. that Trump rose to power not just with Reagan when Jimmy Carter let them down
It’s a typical Simon set-up: middle class, And what’s the goal of “The Plot”? the support of poor whites, but from white on Israel and the whole malaise thing).
middle-aged, Jewish-ish people under “They’re after you, our kids, my family, middle-class voters who felt their preroga- But what Simon did get right was a
stress, spewing one-liners about lazy every one of our friends,” he says. “They’re tives were disappearing. strain of anger, born of economic anxiety
doormen, unreliable supers, and noisy after the cops, hippies, the government, In a paper released in May, Diana C. Mutz and the fear among whites that they are
neighbors. women’s lib, the blacks, the fags, the whole of the University of Pennsylvania stud- losing their privileged status, that would
But “Second Avenue” takes a dark turn military complex and even more.” ied polling data to conclude that the key animate a large segment of Trump’s
that sets it apart from most of the Simon Mel has no proof for this plot, because motivation underlying support for Trump “base.” He also portrayed the insidi-
hits I am familiar with. Stuck at home with “they” won’t let him get to the bottom of was not economic anxiety but the feeling ous attraction of conspiracy theories to
no job prospects, Lemmon’s character it. Ultimately, all he can blame is “the dete- among “high-status” groups — men, Chris- explain forces beyond our control. As a
begins to break down, taunting his loving rioration of the spirit of man. Man under- tians, and whites — that their perceived feverish Mel explains to Edna, in a line
wife, skulking about his apartment in paja- mining himself, causing a self-willed, self- status was under threat. The high-status that reads like the latest tweet from your
mas and bathrobe, stealing newspapers imposed, self-evident self-destruction.” groups experience these threats psycho- least favorite alt-right troll: “If you’re too
Of course, Simon plays this paranoia logically. When confronted with evidence lazy, ignorant and uninformed to find out
Andrew Silow-Carroll of Teaneck is the for laughs, but 43 years later the joke is on of racial progress and increasing diver- what is going on then you deserve exactly
editor in chief of JTA Wire Service. us. Mel’s “Plot” is straight out of QAnon, sity, for example, “whites feel threatened what you’re gonna get.” JTA WIRE SERVICE
Isler The trend is troubling not just for that exhibit “bad behavior.” A few years Chouake
FROM PAGE 42 Israel, but for Jews in the United States. ago no one even would have thought to FROM PAGE 42
personality heavily involved in this Throughout the 200-plus years of U.S. pose such a question. Were such a sug- by his expressing American support for the
arena seems to think so. history, several factors led to its Jewish gestion to become law, our democracy as people of Georgia in his statement “Today
In an article in the Forward after the citizens enjoying unprecedented free- we know it would cease to exist. we are all Georgians.”
Senate action, noted writer and relentless doms. One was the system of checks and Historically, when moderation disap- It was a lost opportunity to have a most
Israel critic Peter Beinart wrote a piece balances among government branches pears, the ramifications for Jews are not extraordinary person at the helm of our
called “Trump has Freed Progressive that ensured that none would accumu- good. We may even be getting a taste country. The enthusiasm for electing
Democratic Senators to Finally Criticize late too much power. The other is that of it already. According to the Anti-Def- the first African-American president was
Israel.” the pendulum of control never swung too amation League, the number of anti- great, however, as was American fatigue,
What cannot be denied is that Trump’s far left or right before correcting itself. Semitic incidents in the United States especially with the economic downturn,
ongoing blunt talk and divisive messages Voices on the extreme didn’t hold sway rose by 57 percent in 2017. That is the with continuing Republican leadership
certainly are not leading to an atmo- for long. largest single-year increase since the in the White House. Fortunately for our
sphere of understanding. Revenge, of That pendulum appears out of control tracking began in 1979. Even if you back country, Senator McCain continued his
course, is a strong motive in politics, and of late. Barack Obama took us farther out the large number of bomb threats work in the Senate, as perhaps the sec-
it’s easy to envision a ratcheting up of left than perhaps we’ve ever been, with against U.S. Jewish Institutions made by ond-most influential politician in the
payback to Israel as it’s lumped together Trump, ever the populist, veering sharply an 18 year-old-Jewish man arrested in nation after the president, for the last 10
with some of Trump’s less noble causes. right to counter it and satisfy his base. Israel, the year-to-year increase still was years of his Senate tenure.
In particular, many progressives reflex- Extremists on both sides have emerged nearly 50 percent. Our country is stronger, safer, and bet-
ively look at the Palestinian situation as a to voice their intolerance, and it’s now A website I inadvertently discovered ter respected because of Senator McCain’s
simple human rights issue, ignoring the the moderates who are being silenced, recently sums it up. It disgustedly spoke leadership. His conduct in putting his
many layers of context. As they continue or even worse, adjusting their views. of “Trump doing everything his Zionist nation before self and politics truly exhib-
to grow in power, their leaders may be A recent Ipsos poll revealed that more handlers demand of him.” The sentiment ited his motto, “Country first.” He has
forced to move farther and farther left in than 40 percent of Republicans believe just as easily could have been from a far served as an inspiration to his colleagues
an effort to survive, just as the Tea Party that President Trump should have the left website as one from the far right. and to our entire nation.
movement has done on the right. power to shut down news organizations And that’s the point. He will be missed.
D
uring my formal inter- There is, on one of the many small
view for U.S. citizen- Holocaust commemoration sites on
ship, not so long ago, the Internet, a list of the SS men and
I remember the inter- their Ukrainian allies at Trawniki.
viewing officer looking me in the The list begins with the leading per-
eye and asking if I’d ever had any sonnel at the camp — SS officers like
affiliations with the Nazi German Franz Bartezko and Karl Streibel —
regime. “Um, er … no,” I replied, and ends with the names of more
smiling a bit awkwardly. “Y’know, than 50 Ukrainians who served as
I’ve gotta ask,” she replied, shaking guards alongside the Nazis, includ-
her head gently. ing Jakiw Palij. He may have been
But 70 years ago, that was a low down in the camp hierarchy,
deadly serious question — and yet but he was present when, to cite
it wasn’t taken very seriously by Eli Rosenbaum again, that “ghastly
the authorities. At a time when paroxysm of genocidal mass murder
thousands of Holocaust survivors occurred.”
were denied entry to the United During the 15 years he spent in
States, thousands of Nazis and Queens after he was stripped of
their allies — from leading regime Former Nazi labor-camp guard Jakiw Palij DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE his citizenship but before he was
scientists to petty (relatively speak- deported, did Palij ever show any
ing) local collaborators—gained entry to this in Poland. But deportation did not follow, remorse for his crime? Not likely. In his view, he was just
country. because no country was willing to take him— as much a victim as the Jews in whose deaths he assisted.
Something of a line was drawn under that until last week, that is, Germany stepped up ‘“I know what they say, but I was never a collaborator,” he
scandal last week, when the 95-year-old man to the plate. told the New York Times in 2003. Had he not worked in
known as “the last living Nazi in New York” By 1943, when Palij was deployed at Trawniki, he insisted, the Germans “would [have] kill[ed]
was removed from his home in Queens by Trawniki, the place had evolved from a train- me and my family. I did it to save their lives, and I never
FBI officers, who carried him by stretcher ing and prisoner of war camp into a slave even wore a Nazi uniform.”
onto the plane that deported him to Ger- labor center, producing mattresses and furs Ten years later, Palij was saying much the same. “I am
many. The American sojourn of Ukrainian- for the German company F.W. Schultz and not SS, I have nothing to do with SS,” he told two reporters
born Jakiw Palij began in 1949, when he Ben Cohen Co. The SS criminals running the camp even from the New York Post in November 2013. The report-
arrived in this country falsely presenting set up a holding company to manage their ers were there to cover one of the several demonstrations
himself as a “Polish farmer.” He was granted contracts with Schultz and other clients. But outside Palij’s house organized by the local Jewish com-
citizenship in 1957, and it finally was revoked in 2003, after later that year, an uprising of Jewish prisoners in the Sobi- munity. He even played the sympathy card. “My wife, she
U.S. investigators established that Palij had served as an bor death camp accelerated the murder of Jewish inmates passed away two months ago,” he said. “She told me not to
armed guard at the Nazi-run Trawniki slave labor camp in other parts of Nazi-occupied Poland. On Nov. 3, 1943 blame these children coming here and calling me a Nazi.
— in what the veteran U.S. Justice Department pursuer of They are just doing what they are taught to do. But the
Ben Cohen writes a weekly column for JNS on Jewish affairs Nazis, Eli Rosenbaum, this week described as “a daylong grown men? They talk nonsense.”
and Middle Eastern politics. His work has been published in killing spree of unfathomable ruthlessness and horror” — Palij’s excuses, of course, have been heard hundreds
Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street 6,000 Jewish women, men, and children were massacred of times from other Nazi collaborators in Europe, who
Journal, and many other publications. at Trawniki by the Germans and their local auxiliaries. SEE COHEN PAGE 52
R
emember the olden days, else playing this game, the animal game.
when there would be com- How do you play? you ask. Here is an
mercials for board games? example. “I am thinking of an animal
And board games aren’t to that has a long neck,” you say to the first
be confused with what most kids today child. If he or she answers correctly, they
would call “bored” games, because they get to give the next clue about another
aren’t played on a phone animal. If they aren’t old
or tablet or television using enough to ask these ques-
remote controls or goggles tions on their own, you
or whatever the kids are will quickly learn that
doing these days…. when the question they
These board games were ask is the same one you
used to promote quality just asked them. You ask
time and bonding. Fami- the next child a question.
lies gathered around the “I am thinking of an ani-
game “Operation,” where mal that is black and white
the goal was to remove Banji and very smelly.” I am
that funny looking guy’s Ganchrow hoping you get the point.
organs without hearing that Feel free to use this game
annoying buzzing sound at your next party.
if you touched the side. Or Monopoly, Hopefully, your children grow up, get
the game where future embezzlers more mature, and are able to wait on
were first known to hone their craft as lines without you needing to entertain
the “banker.” Young real estate moguls them. The animal game is only effec-
(possibly our current president) would tive for so long. But what can be really
buy up properties and build houses and wonderful is when your child is turning
hotels in the hopes of having everyone 18 and the two of you, together, come
having to pay up when they landed on up with a game that entertains both of Across Down
Park Place. you (and any other family members 1. Israeli juice chain 1. Rule opposed by Gandhi
6. Locale of 38-Across 2. Showing excitement, e.g.
I still remember trying to have fam- who might want to play). The other
11. Place for some “me time” 3. What a teen might “die” of
ily game night. I had fond memories day, son #3 and I were at a Mets game. 14. Whack-___ (it’s often next to 4. “Bridge of Spies” actor Alan
of my “original” family playing games. Yes, I spend a lot of time with him (one 60-Down) 5. Provides new weapons
Chutes and Ladders comes to mind, more year and then he is off to the Holy 15. Words before breed or treat 6. Canal zone?
but my memory isn’t what it used to Land.) Yes, the Mets lost. Yes, there 16. ___ in “Ulysses” 7. 1912 painter of Picasso
17. 42-Across used the 49-Down to cross it 8. Where Torah survived and
be. I thought that I could incorporate was almost two hours of traffic getting
19. See 17-Across thrived after 70 AD
those memories with my own kids. This home. Anyway, at the game we are look- 20. Big lobby in D.C. 9. Green shampoo
was almost as successful as “new food ing around, and of course, we see sev- 21. They often accompany a hot mess 10. Guam, e.g.: Abbr.
Wednesday.” We would start off hope- eral people wearing yarmulkes. This is 22. Longtime NBC show 11. Float alternatives
ful, but after a few minutes — sometimes an entertaining pastime for my family, 23. Radical group of the 60s, for short 12. There’s a new one almost every week
24. ___ hanasheh (forbidden nerve) 13. King of Israel until 870 BCE
even seconds — there would be scream- especially when you are in baseball sta-
25. Nuts 18. US security org.
ing, pieces would get scattered, direc- diums in various parts of the country, 27. Divider of 17-Across 23. Many are not for 61-Across
tions were lost, someone started crying when seeing a person with a yarmulke 30. Pledges 24. Tribal land to the east of
(usually me) and all of those good inten- is a total anomaly. So out of my mouth 32. Jew ending 17-Across, once
tions were sent to their room (also, usu- comes, “Hey, let’s play Spot the Yid!” 34. Daniel interpreted one 26. Early Pierre Cardin employer
35. She played Jane in 1997 28. Doing nothing
ally me). Good memories. If you ever see and without missing a beat, son #3 said,
36. Item in a bucket 29. Thurman of “The Avengers”
the closet in my family room, it is filled “Sponsored by Liebers.” (Liebers being 37. Divider of 17-Across 31. On the rocks
with dreams of board games past — and a company that makes kosher snacks.) 38. 71-Across led the Israelites through it 33. All tuckered out
the actual games, most of which are After the game was named, every time 41. See 38-Across 36. “Give ___ minute”
missing several pieces, but I just can’t we would see one of our Jewish breth- 42. Divider of 17-Across 37. Sixth sense, for short
45. Shabbat (in)activity 39. “Not another word!”
bring myself to throw them out. Espe- ren or sisterthren (what is the female
46. Challenger org. 40. Hoover and Boulder, e.g.
cially now that Toys R Us is out of busi- equivalent of brethren?) we would make 50. “___ Hashem” 42. Write hastily, with “down”
ness. Not sure what one thing has to do a “ding” sound. Ok, maybe we spend too 51. 20’s dispenser 43. Burdensome
with the other, but I digress. much time together (NEVER!!!!) but we 52. Not allowed in Israel? 44. Where Starbucks was founded
Back to games. As any parent knows, did have a lot of fun playing the game, 53. 71-Across to 42-Across and 27-Across 47. Afro-___ languages
to 37-Across 48. Backyard basking spot
it is important to keep your young chil- especially since the game the Mets were
55. Wear wool and linen together, e.g. 49. See 17-Across
dren occupied, especially when wait- playing was not as much fun. 57. Octopus’s defense 51. Leafy shelters
ing on lines — lines in the supermarket, Wishing all of you a wonderful last 58. 1 or 66, abbr. 52. “Jeopardy!” “question”
lines waiting for doctors’ appointments, weekend of summer, and may all of 59. Weight abbr. 54. “The river,” in Mexico
lines waiting for tickets for the merry go your game nights be more successful 61. Current civil war president 56. Kinsler who recently joined the Sox
63. “Just kidding!” (sarcastically) 60. Kind of ball
round. Whatever the line is, if you don’t than ours!
64. Sign of labor...or a hint to this 62. Indian dress
keep those monkeys busy, it could end puzzle’s theme 63. Pricey Big Apple sch.
very badly. Especially for the strangers Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck hopes no one 67. He played Pharaoh 64. A Rubble, when squared
around you. is offended by the name “Spot the Yid.” If 68. Ran, on TV 65. Harris and Burns
So I invented, and I say invented anyone wants to help us develop an app 69. Scholarly Dr. Brown 66. Beam of light
70. Bring into play
because I have never heard of anyone for it, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
71. Divider of 17- Across
72. Role for Desi
reception, at 9 p.m.,
honors Rabbi Avram
Kogen. Rabbi Kogen
has been the shul’s
Torah reader since
2010. Dessert reception
Piano sale in Tenafly: The follows; services are at
Thurnauer School of Mu- 10:30. 304 East Midland
sic at the Kaplen JCC on Ave. (201) 262-7691 or
the Palisades and Forte www.jccparamus.org.
Piano of Paramus hold Selichot in Teaneck:
its annual sale of upright, Congregation Beth
grand, and digital pianos Sholom hosts a panel,
at greatly reduced prices “It’s a Long Time
over Labor Day weekend Coming: Reflection on
at the JCC. Manufacturers Injustice and the Will
include Kawai, Bosend- to Overcome,” where
orfer, Schimmel, Baldwin, four CBS members talk
Steinway, Knabe, Yamaha, about their trip to the
and Roland. Friday and Deep South and look
Sunday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; at the evolution of the
Monday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. civil rights movement.
411 East Clinton Ave. Panel at 9 p.m., Selichot
(201) 265-1212 or (800) services at 10:45.
PIANO-55. 345 Maitland Ave.
(201) 833-2620 or www.
Saturday cbsteaneck.org.
SEPTEMBER 1 Selichot in Tenafly:
Lubavitch on the
Shabbat in Paterson: Palisades hosts a pre-
The Paterson Shul at Selichot farbrengen
Federation Apartments (chasidic gathering) with
has Shabbat services at
AUG. Manhattan’s Jewish Museum has added a small-scale their rabbis in residence
9 a.m. Kiddush honors — Rabbi Mordechai
version of Deb Kass’s sculpture OY/YO to “Scenes from the
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Phil Kestenbaum (a Shain, Yitzchak
regular Torah reader Collection,” on exhibit for the first time. “Scenes from the Gershovitz, Yossi Katz,
at the shul) on his bar Collection” transforms the museum’s third floor with nearly and Yossi Gluckowsky
mitzvah anniversary. — and a light dinner,
Groups in Fair Lawn 600 works, divided into seven different sections. Kass uses New York 10 p.m. They will discuss
meet at the Morlot City’s universal lingo to communicate the pride and exasperation of “ Give us 22 minutes,
Avenue and Broadway living in New York City in her sculpture “OY/YO,” originally conceived as we’ll give you the world.”
bridges at 8:30. 510 E. Midnight service follows.
27th Street (corner of a monumental sculpture that was installed for a short time in Brooklyn 11 Harold St. rabbi@
12th Avenue). www. Bridge Park. It became an instant New York icon and photo op for tourists chabadlubavitch.org or
PatersonShul.com or
email JerrySchranz@
and residents of all backgrounds, for whom the pluralistic spirit of the (201) 871-1152, ext. 501.
gmail.com. double-sided interjection resonated deeply. Fifth Avenue and 92nd Street.
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