個案討論：生涯抉擇親子衝突

故事摘要：Helen 因為高中聯考不佳，父親協助選擇念五專的科系選擇。因

Helen 的爸爸在銀行擔任高階主管，很希望女兒未來能在銀行工作。而母親卻

希望女兒能念護理的專科，未來可以成為兼顧家庭的護理相關行職業，也好找

工作。

Helen 因為不知道自己要什麼，雖在父母意見不同之下，選擇爸爸的建議。而

在銀行保險科系讀書期間，發現對商並沒有最大的喜歡，在班上喜歡助人喜歡

鼓勵別人。在專三時，看到科刊校友資訊，有一位學長念某大學的輔導系。

Helen 直覺判斷可以讀輔導將來當救國團的張老師。

Helen 的爸爸建議，還是考高普考與插大均可。雖然母親不反對女兒的決定，

但因不確定輔導系將來是否好找工作而不免擔心。Helen 好困惑如何與父母溝

通自己的想法？

討論：

1. Helen 高中聯考考試不理想的當下心情？

2. Helen 為何選擇讀五專？

3. Helen 的父母的期待是什麼？

4. Helen 的興趣是如何發現？期待的工作是？

5. Helen 如何與父母溝通自己的想法？
 相關影片的觀賞『貝禮的一家人』

 影片劇情介紹

 如果我是貝禮這位女主角，你會如何與父母溝通並走自己的路？

 Assignment:

收集自己「有興趣」系科與「有興趣」工作的相關資訊
Case discussion: Career Choices parent-child conflict
Story Summary: Helen’s story! Because Helen’s High School entrance
exam was poor, Helen’s father assisted her in choosing a five-year college
to the business specialized, the Department of Banking and Insurance
selection. Helen 's father, who was in charge of the bank, hoped her
daughter would work in the bank in the future. But Helen’s mother wanted
her to be able to study the nursing specialized, in the future may become
the family nursing related line profession, is good to look for the jobs.
During that summertime, Helen didn’t know what she wanted, and she was
confused with her parent's different opinions. Anyway, finally, Helen
chose his father's advice. And in the Bank Insurance department reading
period, Helen found that the business major was not her most favorite; in
the class, she likes to help others and like to encourage others. In the third
year of the five year-college, Helen saw the alumni information in the
journal, and one of them went to a university counseling department. Helen
's intuitive judgment can change a major and to be a counselor in the future.

Anyway, Helen’s father still suggested, taking a government test or taking

an entrance examination for other universities. Although Helen’s mother
did not object to her daughter's decision, she was not sure whether the
counseling department would find a job in the future. Helen is so confused
about how to communicate her ideas with her parents?
Discussion:
1. Helen’s High School Entrance examination is not good, try to
describe and guess that disappointment emotion?
2. Why does Helen choose to read five-year college?
3. What Helen parents ' expectations?
4. How is Helen finding her interest? What is her dream job?
5. How can Helen communicate her ideas to her parents?
Watch the movie, "The Belle Family."
 Introduction to the film's story
 If you were the actress, how would you communicate with
your parents, then making your decision and go your own way?
 Assignment:
Collect information about your own "interested" major or
"interested" work.