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Bennett Serchen
Cheri Frey-Hartel
5 May 2017
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Introduction:
Throughout this analysis, I will describe the nonverbal behaviors of the largest ethnic
groups in the United States, then reflect on how these behaviors would be perceived to American
citizens, as well as connect these observations to course content. There are a few instances that I
will summarize two reports of the nonverbal characteristics of one country and discuss the
interpretation in a single reflection. The reason being that these articles will provide mostly the
same information with a few additional points, and it is important to include these articles to
In simple terms, nonverbal communication is the act of sending and receiving messages
in a variety of ways without the use of verbal codes (words). It is both intentional and
unintentional, and most speakers are not conscious of these actions. These behaviors include
things such as touch, eye contact, proximity, gestures, facial expression, dress, posture and word
Often used to accent a verbal message. For example, verbal tone indicates the actual
Regulate interactions, such as nonverbal cues that convey when the other person should
Overall, these behaviors vary from culture to culture, so it is vital to understand how these
different cultures interact amongst one another. If there is a lack of knowledge or lack of
For as long as I can remember, nonverbal communication is something that has always
intrigued me. Until my senior year of high school, I did not fully understand the meanings of the
behaviors of others. During that year, I took a Communication Arts class that taught me the
necessary skills to become more aware of the way that others perceive me, as well as the way
that I perceive others. After taking Body Language and Interpersonal Communication during the
first year of college, I had the desire to continue pursuing communication. I am not saying that I
judge other people based on their nonverbal behaviors, but I have been able to utilize these skills
to my advantage to communicate more effectively with others. It is a skill that can never stop
being improved, and it is a skill that varies greatly from culture to culture. Therefore, there is a
need to understand the nonverbal behaviors of different cultures so we can all become more
Sawe, B. E. (2016, August 17). Largest Ethnic Groups and Nationalities in the United States.
and-nationalities-in-the-united-states.html
Summary:
In this article, a data analyst, Benjamin Sawe reports the findings of U.S. Census Bureau
which illustrates the largest ethnic groups and nationalities in the United States. As Sawe
explains, the United States is a multi-racial and multi-ethnic country that officially categorizes its
population into six groups: Whites, African Americans, Native Americans/Alaskan Natives,
Pacific Islanders, Asians, and Native Hawaiians. Although the United States is split into these
individuals that are German, English, Irish, Italian, Polish or French would be categorized as
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“white.” The figure below shows the percentages of the largest ethnic groups and nationalities in
Throughout the rest of the article, Sawe further explains the six populations and the
different groups that would be categorized in each population, as well as including influential
Reflection:
For the purposes of this analysis, I will focus on the highest percentages of the ethnic
groups and nationalities. As stated previous, this paper will analyze the nonverbal characteristics
of the largest ethnic groups in the United States so individuals will be able to better understand
how people of different cultures interact within our country. It is important to be aware of the
Actions are not always parallel to words spoken. People interpret messages according how you
react, listen, or look at the time of communicating. When verbal and nonverbal signals do not
match, it creates distrust, unclear message, misunderstandings and confusion. The interpretation
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of nonverbal signals is not easy since it can differ from person to person and culture to culture, as
well as the fact that nonverbal communication does not have fixed meanings. Overall, it is
beneficial to properly notice and interpret these behaviors to more effectively communicate with
others. Therefore, it is wise to look at the nonverbal behaviors of other cultures, and compare
them to the behaviors that are expected in the United States, so we can accurately perceive the
Werthmann, A. (2011, April 27). Concepts of the German Culture. Retrieved May 03, 2017,
from http://germanconcepts.blogspot.com/2011/04/nonverbal-behavior.html
Summary:
As shown above, one of the largest nationalities in the United States is German.
Therefore, it would be wise to understand the nonverbal behaviors of this culture. Although I
have German ancestry and I am not a resident of this country, I realize that some of things that I
have been taught are reflective of the actions that are described in this article. In this beginning,
the author defines nonverbal behaviors as actions that include “gestures, facial expressions, eye
contact, gaze, posture, movement, touch, dress, silence, the use of space and time, objects,
artifacts and paralanguage.” These behaviors often communicate the same or more meaning than
behaviors can lead to misunderstandings and possibly insults. The author supports the claims that
how body behaviors may influence the interaction." Werthmann discusses key aspects of the
German culture such as mealtime customs, hand gestures, body language, and directness.
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Mealtime Customs:
When eating out in Germany, it is polite to have both hands above the table at all times, and
elbows should not rest on the table. Additionally, it is considered impolite to leave food on a
plate.
If you are dining in a busy restaurant and there are empty seats at your table, and no other
tables available, then the host may seat other people at your table. There is no obligation to
speak with the other people at your table, unless you feel inclined.
Hand Gestures:
It is impolite to shake someone's hand with your other hand in your pocket. It is seen as a
sign of disrespect.
If you are in a group situation, and wish to express your thanks, clasp your hands together
To wave goodbye, raise your hand upward with your palm out and wave your fingers up and
down. Do not wave side to side because this would symbolize the idea of "NO".
Body Language:
Germans value direct eye contact, particularly during face-to-face conversations. It is a sign
Smiles are used with discretion, typically reserved for close friends and family. Germans do
Directness:
Verbal communication in Germany tends to be clear and to the point. For example, when
Germans answer the phone, it is common to simply give their last names rather than a
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greeting such as "hello," which might be expected in the United States. This directness is
sometimes difficult for foreigners to understand and this short or blunt communication style
Overall, the communication style for Germans is mostly similar to the style in the United
States, but there are several differences that can cause issues if it is interpreted incorrectly.
Reflection:
As I stated in the summary, I have never lived or traveled to Germany; however, I realize
that I have very similar nonverbal behaviors to this nationality. It might be that I have German
ancestry, or that these behaviors are similar to the United States, but most of the findings
described above are things that I consider appropriate. While there are some things that are
specific to the region such as raising your hands above your head to express thanks or using
smiles with discretion, there are some things that I relate to. For example, Germans value direct
eye contact, particularly during face-to-face conversations, seeing it as a sign of honesty and
interest in the discussion. When I am speaking to someone from the United States, it is
frustrating when people do not make eye contact. Most of the time, people will be scrolling
through their phone or looking around the room like they are either trying to find a way out or
thinking of something else to do. To me it is a sign of disrespect and a lack of interest in the
conversation. Through this course, I have learned that I need to be more understanding of the
value of eye contact in different cultures, but overall, I expect that people should try to make eye
On the other hand, I understand that the lack of eye contact can be attributed to the
different values of power distance between cultures. For cultures with a low power distance, it is
seen that people are equal and there is a mutual respect for one another; therefore, it is acceptable
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to maintain eye contact. For cultures with a high power distance, people need to show respect to
those at a “higher standing,” so eye contact is avoided to demonstrate this respect. Even in a
culture like Germany that is very similar to the United States, it is important to understand the
nonverbal behaviors that are typical of the nationality. If I was in a group of people and a person
clasped their hands and raised them above their head without an explanation, I would have
thought that it was odd. However, I now understand that this is how people from Germany show
Nonverbal Communication in Britain. (n.d.). Retrieved May 03, 2017, from http://www.expats-
moving-and-relocation-guide.com/nonverbal-communication.html/
nonverbalcommunicationinunitedkingdom
Summary:
The following article is from a website that reports the most common nonverbal
behaviors of a long list countries. As stated at the beginning of this analysis, there are a series of
short articles that I will summarize, then write a single reflection. The next two summaries will
o When two people are of similar age and rank, introduce the one you know better to
Hugging, kissing and touching is usually reserved for family members and very close friends.
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If you hold up two fingers in a V-sign and the palm is facing inward it means “up yours.”
These are the common nonverbal behaviors that are needed when meeting people from Britain.
northern-europe/uk-business-culture/business-communication/
Summary:
Although the following article discusses the nonverbal behavior for the professional
setting in Britain, there are a number of these behaviors that people use outside of the workplace.
There is a warning at the beginning of the piece that states it is crucial to realize that these
observations are general behaviors and are subject to contextual and regional variations.
The first section addresses the style of face-to-face communication. A handshake is the
typical greeting for a new introduction, but it is not expected at subsequent meetings. When
neutral topic, such as the weather or something about the immediate situation. Another difficulty
in verbal communication is that that English people tend to use understatements often. For
example, what might be described as “a bit expensive’” can really mean “very expensive,” and
“a little problem” can really mean “a big problem.” These expressions can cause confusion for
A person should not be offended if addressed by a different term such as “love”, “pet”,
“duck”, “mate” or “darling” – these terms vary across the country. Overall, there is no deep or
hidden meaning. People in Britain usually address each other informally using their first names.
However, it is more appropriate to use surnames when meeting someone for the first time. For
example, Mr. (for men), Mrs. (for women) and Miss or Ms. (for unmarried women). If you
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would like to address a man without mentioning their name, use “Sir.” If you would like to
Reflection:
in the United States. It seems that most of the characteristics are quite similar besides a few
different nicknames and hand gestures. Unfortunately, it is difficult to reflect on this culture
since it is similar to our own country. It is understandable why England is the top study abroad
destinations that students chose since it is not too different than our own understanding of
culture. Personally, I would want to travel to a place that was different than my own to gain a
deeper understanding of myself. Even though it is not included in this analysis, I felt that I was
able to grow immensely when I traveled to Italy for the Franciscan Pilgrimage. I was in another
country that I did not speak the language, I did not understand the hand gestures, I did not
understand the beliefs, and I did not understand the layout of the city. I was truly in a new world.
The experience forced me to step outside of my comfort zone and learn more about myself, and
without using words. It seems that I was doing a pretty good job fitting in since a handful of
Britain to experience the culture, it would be a difficult place to grow as an individual since it is
A Look at Irish Language, Culture, Customs and Etiquette. (n.d.). Retrieved May 03, 2017, from
http://www.commisceo-global.com/country-guides/ireland-guide
Summary:
The fourth largest nationality in the United States is Ireland. The following article
provides information about the languages, culture, customs and etiquette of the Irish people, and
it is relevant to note some of the values and beliefs to have a greater understanding of the culture.
Most people in the country are Roman Catholic, and until the early 1990s, the church had a
strong voice in society as well as politics. Although the role of the church has diminished,
religion still plays a big part of society’s view of family, marriage, and abortion.
The Irish have a reputation for their wit and humor – which is called having “the craic”
(pronounced crack). It is common for the Irish to trade insults and tease one another with close
friends. If you are teased, it is important to take it well and not see it as personal.
Meeting Etiquette:
The basic greeting is a handshake and a hello or salutation appropriate for the time of day.
If giving flowers, do not give lilies as they are used at religious festivities. Do not give white
Be on time if you are invited to an Irish home (chances are food has been cooked and being
Communication Style:
The way that a person speaks will say a lot about a person in Ireland. The Irish have
turned speaking into an art form due to their tendency to be lyrical and poetic. The Irish
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appreciate modesty and dislike a superiority complex of any sort. There is an overall cultural
tendency for people to view politeness as more important than telling the absolute truth.
Additionally, it is vital to listen closely in conversation because there might be things that are
implied beyond what is actually being said. For example, if someone becomes silent before
agreeing, they have probably said “no.” Generally speaking, the Irish do not like confrontation
and prefer to avoid conflict, which they attempt to avoid by using humor and showing good
manners.
Reflection:
While the Irish culture is also similar to the United States, there are some differences to
note. One of the key differences it that the Irish do not like confrontation and prefer to avoid
conflict, which is different from what we experience. The stereotype in the United States is that
the people are extremely confrontational. We are not afraid to say what is on our mind and we
will argue and argue some more to prove that our opinion is the right one. While there is a good
amount of the population that tries to avoid confrontation, it is not the norm. However, I do feel
that there has been a shift over the past few years due to political correctness. As I have stated in
previous course reflections, it is difficult to express your thoughts or opinions in today’s society
without being called a racist, sexist, or privileged. In addition to that, I do not think that people in
the United States would not appreciate the humor that comes along with the Irish communication
style. As stated above, it is common for the Irish to trade insults and tease one another with close
friends. If you are teased, it is important to take it well and not see it as personal. Although I
have a similar communication style where I joke around with close friends, I cannot act this way
towards everyone since others will take it personally. It is difficult to joke around with others
Overall, I did not discover any major differences between Ireland and the United States,
besides a few key differences in the communication styles. Most of the mannerisms and style of
greetings are similar, which makes sense since the last few nationalities described (Germany,
Britain and Ireland) make up a large portion of the population in the United States.
Dunker, E. (2012, October 23). Nonverbal Communication in Mexico. Retrieved May 03, 2017,
from https://ericadunker.wordpress.com/2012/10/23/nonverbal-communication-in-
mexico/
Summary:
In this article, Dunker reports the key nonverbal behaviors that are typical in the Mexican
culture.
In Mexican culture, a man will shake another man’s hand as a greeting or farewell as a sign
of respect; however, a man will wait for a woman to offer her hand to him, he will not offer
his first.
Many women greet other women by kissing them on the cheek or touching their arm or
shoulder.
When people of the Mexican culture are engaging in a conversation, they will talk at a close
distance. If you take a step back from someone, it can be taken as unfriendly. Additionally, it
is considered insulting if you withdraw from someone that tries touching your arm or
shoulder.
If a man is making direct eye contact with another man it is considered to be aggressive, and
if a woman makes direct eye contact with a man (or vice versa), it is considered as flirting.
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In Mexico, time is very flexible and lateness is accepted and a normal occurrence. Usually a
time frame will be given, but they will not give an exact time.
Spanish Culture and Nonverbal Communication. (2017). Retrieved May 04, 2017, from
http://www.spanishprograms.com/spanish-culture.htm
Summary:
As the article points out, the Spanish culture can differ greatly from other cultures. It is
more enjoyable to travel in different countries if you understand the culture of the place you want
to visit. For this purpose, the authors compiled helpful tips about Latin America that will help
In Latin American, it is considered impolite to toss things to each other. If you need to give
something to a native, make sure you walk over and hand it to them.
Do not be offended when Latins call you a "gringo." To them, the words simply describes
someone as foreign and it is not meant to be degrading. The word originated from the times of
war when American soldiers wore green uniforms. The Mexicans knew enough to say "Green,
go!" to express their wishes for the American soldiers to leave. Eventually, the term became
“gringo” and is used for any stranger, especially if you have light hair and eyes.
Latin Americans will usually greet friends and relatives more personally than do Americans.
Men usually greet woman with "besitos," which means the touching of cheeks while making a
kissing noise with their lips. These little kisses are purely friendly and have no romantic
meaning.
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The hand gesture in the United States for "come here," which the hand is palm up with the index
finger is extending in and out, has a different meaning in Latin America. It means that you are
To motion to someone in Latin America "come here" extend your hand palm down and move all
Reflection:
According to the largest ethnic groups and nationalities in Figure 1, Mexico is number 5.
The country has an incredibly rich culture that is quite different from the United States and it
shows in the nonverbal styles. For example, people will greet one another with “besitos” on the
cheek, which would be odd for people in the United States. Although my family will typically
hug one another as we leave, it would be strange if we gave two kisses on the cheek when we
greeted one another or said goodbye. One of the most notable differences between Mexico and
the United States is the concept of time. While the United States has a monochronic sense of
time, which means that schedules and deadlines are implemented, Mexico has a polychronic
sense of time, which means that time is not valued. It is widely known that Mexico follows
polychonic time that it has the name “Mexican-time.” Even for people that live in the United
States, but have Mexican family, follow this value of time. For example, Rico usually follows
polychronic time. Just the other night, Cardinal Stritch organized the Leadership Dinner to
recognize graduating students and campus leaders for a dinner celebration and the check-in time
was between 5:00-5:30pm. We had planned to eat together, so I arrived at 5:15pm to save some
seats. Around 5:40pm, Rico came late to the dinner and I was not able to hold onto the seat
because other people were on time. Obviously I was frustrated because I showed up early to save
seats, but it boils down to the concept of time. I grew up with a family that has always followed
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monochronic time and I was taught that it is important to be on-time, whereas Rico grew up with
a family that followed polychronic time. It does not mean that one is better than the other, but it
worth realizing that these differences can cause issues. As I have stated a handful of times, it is
communicators.
Hampton, R. (2013, February 4). Nonverbal Communication Differences between USA and
2013/02/04/non-verbal-communication-differences-between-usa-and-france/
Summary:
While it is one of the lower rankings in the top 10, there is a number of students that
attend Stritch that reside in France. Due to this, I feel that it is significant to include this culture
in the analysis. Throughout this article, the author reports the differences in the nonverbal
behaviors between France and the United States. If a person travels abroad for business or
pleasure, they will want to ensure that they are not offending people that they will meet. Below is
a chart that shows different interpretations of nonverbal communications between USA and
France:
The Handshake The French shake hands upon meeting In the USA people great one
someone for the first time, particularly in another with a bold, strong
the business world. The handshake is gripped hand shake.
quick and light – no pumping up and
down or strong grips.
“Bicep Flex” Motion This motion is the equivalent of holding Flexing the bicep or simply
up your middle finger. Hold your arm out showing of your muscles.
with your hand in a fist, then smack your
other hand onto it the crevice of the
elbow. The action is also known as “le
bras d’honneur”
Facial Expressions The French are very reserved, which is People generally express
often interpreted as being rude. The their feelings and emotions with
French do not smile frequently because the use of facial expressions. One
they feel it is necessary only to smile can usually tell if a person has
when there is something to smile about. angry, sad or happy.
Therefore, they do not just smile as they
are walking down the street as Americans
do, which is often interpreted as rude.
Figure 2: Nonverbal Communication Differences between France and the United States
The author notes that without being properly informed, it is possible to offend someone
when traveling abroad with the simplest hand gestures. In France, many gestures that might be
offensive in France could be a compliment in the United States, which could cause problems
with interpersonal communications as soon as you meet someone. If you do not greet a person
that aligns with the accepted customs of the country, it could lead to awkwardness and a bad first
impression.
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Reflection:
As stated before, there are a number of students that attend Stritch that reside in France,
so I felt it was relevant to include in this analysis. One of the big differences that I have observed
is that the French do not smile frequently. There have been a few times that I have walked passed
some of the French students in the hallways and I will get a slight wave, but there is no smile
accompanied with the greeting. Additionally, my girlfriend’s mother studied abroad in France
when she was in college and the host family has come to visit a few times since I have known
Sara. When we first met, I was initially met with a handshake, which I expected; however, I did
not get many smiles during the week, so I thought that I had made a negative impression. When
the host family was leaving, I got two kisses on the cheek which is usually used for close friends
and family. Sara’s mother told me that they did like me and thought I was a great kid, but I did
not get that impression because they did not smile often or interact with me. Now, I realize that it
was not that they did not like me, but it was part of their nonverbal communication style. With
this new knowledge of France, I will be able to communicate better with the host family by
Leese, C. (2013, February 5). Nonverbal Communication of India vs. United States. Retrieved
COMMUNICATION-OF-INDIA-VS-UNITED-STATES/
Summary:
Although India is not one of the top countries listed in Figure 1, it is relevant to include
since a large amount of technology specialists are from India, as well as the country being on the
other side of the world. Throughout this article, journalist Casey Leese discusses the nonverbal
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behaviors of the people of India. The interest initially started when her mother traveled to India
three years before and she talked about the experiences that she had, such as that the people have
respect for everyone, even people they do not know. However, the second that another person
does something to offend them is when they will lose all respect they had for you, and it is
incredibly difficult to gain that respect back. Before Leese discusses the nonverbal behaviors, she
explains the reasons that she is qualified to make these statements. She has not only completed
extensive research, but also has first-hand experience and observation after hearing the stories of
her mother and traveling to India herself. Below are the main and most important comparisons of
India and the United States that anyone should take into consideration before traveling there.
India:
Never touch anyone’s head in India, since it is considered the “seat of the soul” and it is very
offensive.
A head shake means yes while a head nod means no (mostly southern India).
Avoid use of the left hand. It is considered the “unclean” hand. Also accepting items and
To call someone with your hand, your palm must be facing downward toward the ground.
Pointing your feet or showing the bottom of your feet is offensive since the feet are also
United States:
A head pat or head touch is an affectionate way of saying “well done” or “good job.”
Hand shake or any sentimental touching is acceptable (ex- handshake, hug, kissing) Waving is
The Americans have a one arm length along with the Indian culture.
In America, pointing is also a very rude gesture and could initiate confrontation.
In her conclusion, Leese explains that there are many ways to offend people when
communicating with the Indian Culture. It is imperative to educate oneself on the culture since it
will beneficial to understand the communication style and avoid showing disrespect. When doing
business or just simply greeting an Indian person, the last thing you want to happen is offend
them or their culture. Lastly, knowing there are different ways of communicating between
cultures will have a positive outcome from a business aspect and also a social aspect.
Reflection:
As I have stated seventeen other times in this analysis, we need to understand the
nonverbal behaviors of other countries. Even in countries that are on the other side of the world
and we do not have many interactions with, there are possibilities for intentions to be
misinterpreted. On a quick side note, I had the opportunity to speak with my physics professor
that is from India and she acknowledged that most of the nonverbal behaviors described in the
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article were true. However, she said that some of the behaviors were regional, which make sense
since India is such a large country. Also, my girlfriend traveled to India this past December to
January and there have been several times that I was scolded for doing something that was
considered disrespectful in India. After reading about these nonverbal cues in India, I understand
that some of the things that we do in the United States would be considered offensive in other
Unfortunately, we have not had an in depth discussion about the nonverbal characteristics
of other cultures. Although we have touched upon it in some class activities, we have not had in
depth conversations about the behaviors of other ethnic groups and ethnicities. One of the most
impactful experiences that we had this semester that introduced the nonverbal interpretations was
in the Rockets and Sparklers activity. Through this, we were able to take on the roles of another
culture that behaved a certain way. For example, the Rockets were very mellow and did not
flaunt their wealth. It was a culture that valued relationships over material wealth and the
nonverbal communication displayed this. There was a number of times that the Sparklers
attempted to trade with members of the Rockets and were completely ignored, which eventually
lead to the two groups being isolated once again at the end of activity. As an outsider and a
person that is absolutely fascinated by nonverbals, it was amazing to witness the two groups
interact with one another. There were clear differences between the groups, and even though the
people did not see it themselves, it was quite evident. Through this activity, we were able to
understand how the different nonverbal behaviors can be perceived by people of another culture.
On another note, it is necessary to point out that there are clear opposites in the behaviors
between both the United States and India. For example, a head shake means “yes” while a head
nod means “no” in India, while a head nod means “yes” and a head shake means “no” in the
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United States. Even in this small instance, it is clear how these two actions can be misinterpreted
if a person from India is interacting with someone from the United States. Throughout these
competent.
Through extensive research and increased intercultural interactions, I will be able to more
effectively communicate with people from other cultures. Completing this project has been a
tremendous opportunity to learn more about the different ethnic groups and nationalities that I
would likely interact with in the United States. Since our country is referred to as the “Melting
Pot,” there is a blend of a large amount of cultures that have different values and beliefs. It is
communicate with one another. Additionally, it will allow these people to feel comfortable
interacting with those that understand the actions. If we remained oblivious to these styles of
nonverbal communication, we could interpret certain behaviors as rude and disrespectful, even
though it is a sign of respect in one’s own culture. I hope that this analysis will help teach others
about the nonverbal behaviors of other cultures so we can be more accepting and understanding
of one another.
One day, I would love to apply these lessons by traveling to the countries listed and
interacting with these residents. Even if I do not speak the native language, I feel that I would be
able to travel without any issues if I am able to understand and comprehend the nonverbal signals
that others are sending. There is so much information that is communicated when words are not
With an extensive knowledge of nonverbal behaviors, individuals can apply these lessons
was able to identify several instances where my findings either accepts or refutes the Franciscan
value. One value that is accepted is showing compassion. As defined, compassion is the feeling
of sympathy and sorrow for another. Based on this definition, if an individual felt sympathy for
another person, it could motivate him/her to protect the feelings of another. After thorough
research, I understand that some of the concepts can be utilized to achieve this goal to protect the
was constantly implemented into our minds that if we do not have anything nice to say, then we
are not to say anything at all. With a greater understanding of the characteristics of other
cultures, we can be aware of our snap judgments and train them. Rather than assuming that a
German is rude and blunt, we can take a step back and realize that this group tends to have a
direct style of language. While the idea of controlling our snap judgments is not a direct example
of compassion, the ability to change how we analyze individuals to suppress any negative
In our society today, we are constantly judged based on looks, clothing, skin color, etc.
Sadly, this prejudice will always be around, but an understanding of cultures nonverbal
snap judgments, we can learn to train them and be aware that our judgments are not always
correct. I can speak for myself when I say that I know that snap judgments are not always
correct. I have been on the other side where I make judgments of others which turn out to be
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incorrect. There have been a number of times that I speak with people from another country that
do not make eye contact while speaking, and I assumed that it was a sign of disrespect and
insincerity, when in fact it was a sign of respect to avoid eye contact. However, I made a snap
judgment that these people were rude and inconsiderate, rather than understanding that we have
different teachings of appropriate communication. Through the concepts learned in this analysis,
we can learn to the findings and learn to control our judgments of other cultures or groups.
Aside from showing compassion, the findings indirectly addresses the Franciscan value
of making peace. In the time of Francis, he was born into wealth and he grew up with the
materialistic privileges associated with it. As he grew up, Francis felt that there was more to the
life he was given. After a time, it became clear that Francis was to live his life as one of God’s
“poor ones” – those who have been alienated, oppressed, and helpless. One day while riding
through the countryside, Francis came face to face with a leper. Although he was repelled by the
appearance and the smell of the leper, Francis kissed the hand of the leper. When his kiss of
peace was returned, Francis was filled with joy. This story of Francis and the leper can be
compared to the accepting those that are different than us. An understanding of the nonverbal
behaviors of other ethnic groups or nationalities will help us accept others, much like Francis
accepted the leper. While these examples are not a directly associated with the Franciscan values,
we are able to connect these concepts to values found in the Franciscan tradition.