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The Bible and Family Values
lusting after women other than his wife Rosalynn, raised more than
a few eyebrows (Balmer 2011). More damaging, he supported the
ERA and waffled on abortion; personally opposed to abortion, he
defended a woman’s right to obtain one.
The real disaster occurred when Carter made good on his
campaign promise to deal directly with family values. His White
House Conference on Families in 1980 was a failure from the
get-go, when he offended Catholics, in particular, by naming
Patsy Fleming, a divorced mother of three, to lead the conference
(Balmer 2011).3 Even the word, “Families,” troubled family
values of Christians, who worried that the plural term families
communicated the acceptance of more than the traditional family.
Were single-parent and same-sex households included alongside
the traditional American family?
Enter Jerry Falwell, a reluctant political figure, who had already
answered that question for millions of Americans disillusioned
by Carter’s liberalism and the Democratic Party’s secularism.
Democrats had become the party of the feminist movement, the
gay rights community, and the pro-choice agenda (Williams 2011).
Falwell rallied a variety of Christian groups, founded an influential
political organization called the Moral Majority, which championed
family values, and condemned Jimmy Carter’s conference.
With the full-throated approval of the Moral Majority and
other grassroots movements, presidential candidate Ronald Reagan
surged to the top of the Republican ticket. With open arms and an
explicit family values agenda, Reagan welcomed Christians who felt
scorned by Carter and the Democratic Party. The divorced governor
of California assured them, “I know that you can’t endorse me, but
I want you to know that I endorse you and what you are doing”
(Reagan 1980). In one fell swoop, family values’ advocates found
their new home in the Republican Party.
The 1980 party platforms tell the story of the politics of family
values. The Republican Platform includes three straightforward
statements on the “traditional family” and offers specific strategies
for ways to protect the American ideal (Republican Party Platform
1980). The Democratic Platform includes a single ambiguous line:
“The Democratic Party supports efforts to make federal programs
more sensitive to the needs of the family, in all its diverse forms”
(Democratic Party Platform 1980).4 Federal programs and diverse
forms did not appeal to family values’ advocates.
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No defense needed
The topic, family values, is a flexible umbrella term—imprecise,
even—for which proponents offer precious little biblical evidence.
References to family values are often relatively Bible free, for several
reasons.
Families devalued
Still another reason why arguments for family values do not draw
their inspiration from the Bible is the checkered view of family
the Bible affords. For every text that supports the notion of a
breadwinner father, a stay-at-home mom, and two well-scrubbed
kids, there are dozens of biblical texts that attest to a very different
experience of family values (Dowland 2015). In a real sense, what
we discover in the Bible is the family devalued. To put it in biblical
terms—and to invert Hillary Clinton’s quintessential expression of
family values—strong nations do not hinge upon strong families,
at least not from a biblical perspective. Strong nations, rather,
hinge upon the promise of God at work in the world despite—or
even through—the dysfunction of families. Perfect families are not
necessary for a great nation. A faithful God is.
Right from the start, in the first book of the Bible, the ancestor
of Judaism, Christianity, and Islam blunders his way through family
life. Abraham loses his nerve in Egypt and pawns his wife Sarah off
as his sister because he is afraid that Pharaoh will murder him to
get her (Gen. 12:10–20). Later, when he and Sarah find themselves
old and childless, Sarah gives him her servant, Hagar, as a sexual
partner (Gen. 16:1–16). Later still, Abraham takes another woman,
Keturah, who bears him children (Gen. 25:1). A penchant for having
children trumps family values.
Abraham even appears willing to take the knife to his son Isaac
on Mount Moriah (Gen. 22:1–19). There is deep pathos in this
story—but no defense of family values!
Isaac survives but remains, as on Mount Moriah, consistently
passive. He does not search for a wife; instead, he sends a servant
(Gen. 24:1–67). When he is blind and about to die, he blesses his
sons, Jacob and Esau, while lying on his deathbed. Compare Isaac
with his wife Rebecca, a whirlwind of activity when she meets
Isaac’s servant at a well. Rebecca tricks Isaac, on his deathbed,
into giving Jacob, rather than Esau, a blessing (Gen. 27:1–28:5).
Rebecca is the actor—we might call her the male lead—and Isaac
the submissive partner in this marriage. And God works brilliantly
through all of this to bring blessings to the nations.
Isaac and Rebecca’s sons, Jacob and Esau, are hardly paradigms
of virtue—especially Jacob, who compels his famished brother
Esau to trade his birthright for a bowl of soup (Gen. 25:29–34).
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Families displaced
If what Christians call the Old Testament fails to offer a clinic in
family values, surely the New Testament does? Not by a long shot.
Jesus, unmarried and itinerant, demands of his disciples
a disregard for family. When Peter complains about leaving
everything behind, Jesus replaces the family with a worldwide
family of faith: “… [T]here is no one who has left house or
brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields, for
my sake and for the sake of the good news, who will not receive
a hundredfold now in this age—houses, brothers and sisters,
mothers and children, and fields, with persecutions—and in the
age to come eternal life” (Mark 10:28–30; 3:31–35). Wherever his
followers go for the sake of the good news, promises Jesus, they
will discover a hospitable family of faith.
Where they will go is signaled by two words: and persecution.
Jesus drives a wedge between loyalty to family and loyalty to himself
when he predicts, “Brother will betray brother to death, and a father
his child, and children will rise against parents and have them put to
death; and you will be hated by all because of my name. But the one
who endures to the end will be saved” (Mark 13:12–13).
In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus’s demands are harsher still:
“Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife
and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot
be my disciple. Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me
cannot be my disciple” (Luke 14:26–27). The version in Matthew’s
gospel is gentler: “Whoever loves father or mother more than me
is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than
me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up the cross and
follow me is not worthy of me” (Matt. 10:37–38). Gentler, yes, but
still a stiff rejection of family values.
We could say much to blunt the hard edge of Jesus’s sayings. For
instance, that they apply only to followers in Jesus’s day: following
Jesus led to persecution. Or that these are end of time sayings,
which assume an imminent end, with persecutions. However, we
blunt this edge, the conclusion is inevitable: Jesus was no champion
of family values.
Leaders in the early church followed Jesus with an apparent
disregard for family. They were typically either unmarried or
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scriptures (Gen. 2:18; see, e.g., Exod. 18:4; Deut. 33:7; Ps. 20:3;
70:6; 121:1). “Help” communicates salvation rather than service.
The stronger helps the weaker; the liberator rescues the embattled.
In Genesis 2, then, woman is created not for submission but for
salvation; she is man’s liberator, his savior. She is like the man.
She corresponds to him. She alone, then, can rescue him from
isolation.
Third, the man leaves his home (Gen. 2:24). The woman does
not. This inverts the usual order of life, in which the woman joins
the man’s home.
The hierarchical order of life, with woman turning to her
man, who rules over her, occurs only in the curses—not before
(Gen. 3:16). Only after the curses, in fact, will man give woman a
name: Eve (Gen. 3:20). The curses are, then, what is. They are not
what should be.
What should be—ideal family values—is clear only prior to
the first sin and the curses that distort man and woman’s ideal
relationship. They are ish and ishshah—man and woman—two peas
in a pod, naked and unashamed. Woman is man’s savior-through-
similarity, his ezer-kenegdo, so much so that he leaves his home to
join hers. Those are the family values of Eden, which disintegrate in
the differences that too soon come to mark and mar Adam and Eve,
Cain and Abel—the first family.
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