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MATRIMONIUM
INTRA MISSAM
THE ORDER OF CELEBRATING MATRIMONY
WITHIN MASS
THE ROMAN MISSAL
Renewed by Decree of
The Most Holy Second Ecumenical Council of the Vatican
Promulgated by Authority of Pope Paul VI
and Revised at the Direction of Pope John Paul II
THE ORDER OF CELEBRATING MATRIMONY
WITHIN MASS
When he has arrived at the altar, after making a profound bow with the ministers, the Priest venerates the altar with a
kiss and, if appropriate, incenses the cross and the altar. Then, with the ministers, he goes to the chair.
When the Entrance Chant is concluded, the Priest and the faithful, standing, sign themselves with the Sign of the Cross,
while the Priest, facing the people, says:
Amen.
Then the Priest, extending his hands, greets the people, saying:
Then, after the Sign of the Cross has been made, the Priest greets those present, using one of the formulas provided in
The Roman Missal. Then, in these or similar words, the Priest addresses the couple and those present to dispose them
inwardly for the celebration of Marriage:
The Gloria in excelsis (Glory to God in the highest) is said according to the rubric of the Roman Missal, Ritual Masses,
V: For the Celebration of Marriage.
However, on those days listed in nos. 1–4 of the Table of Liturgical Days, the Mass of the day is used, retaining the
Nuptial Blessing in the Mass and, if appropriate, the proper formula for the final blessing.
If, however, during Christmas and Ordinary Time, the parish community participates in a Sunday Mass during which
Marriage is celebrated, the Mass of the Sunday is used.
COLLECT
A
Or:
When the Ritual Mass is not said, one of the readings may be taken from those provided in the Lectionary for that Mass,
except on a day listed in nos. 1–4 of the Table of Liturgical Days.
Readings that particularly express the importance and dignity of Marriage in the mystery of salvation are provided here.
Have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air,
and all the living things that move on the earth.”
God looked at everything he had made,
and he found it very good.
R/. (see 1a) Blessed are those who fear the Lord.
or:
R/. (4) See how the Lord blesses those who fear him.
Blessed are all who fear the Lord, Indeed thus shall be blessed
and walk in his ways! the man who fears the Lord.
By the labor of your hands you shall eat. May the Lord bless you from Zion
You will be blessed and prosper. R/. all the days of your life!
May you see your children’s children.
Your wife like a fruitful vine R/.
in the heart of your house;
your children like shoots of the olive
around your table. R/.
A reading from the Letter of Saint Paul to the Ephesians 5:2a, 25-32
The Gospel
What God has united, man must not separate.
After the reading of the Gospel, the Priest in the Homily uses the sacred text to expound the mystery of Christian
Marriage, the dignity of conjugal love, the grace of the Sacrament, and the responsibilities of married people, keeping
in mind, however, the various circumstances of individuals.
THE CELEBRATION OF MATRIMONY
If two or more Marriages happen to be celebrated at the same time, the Questions before the Consent, the Consent itself,
and also the Reception of the Consent must always take place individually for each Marriage; the remaining parts,
however, including the Nuptial Blessing, should be spoken once for all in the plural.
With all standing, including the couple and the witnesses, who are positioned near them, the Priest addresses the couple
in these or similar words:
Dearly beloved,
you have come together into the house of the Church,
so that in the presence of the Church’s minister
and the community
your intention to enter into Marriage
may be strengthened by the Lord with a sacred seal.
Christ abundantly blesses the love that binds you.
Through a special Sacrament,
he enriches and strengthens
those he has already consecrated by Holy Baptism,
that they may be faithful to each other for ever
and assume all the responsibilities of married life.
And so, in the presence of the Church,
I ask you to state your intentions.
The Priest then questions them about their freedom of choice, fidelity to each other, and the acceptance and upbringing
of children, and each responds separately.
I have.
I am.
The following question may be omitted, if circumstances suggest this, for example, if the couple are advanced in years.
I am.
THE CONSENT
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If, however, it seems preferable for pastoral reasons, the Priest may obtain the consent of the contracting parties through
questioning.
I do.
Next, the Priest asks the bride:
I do.
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I do.
Next, the Priest asks the bride:
I do.
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May the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, the God of Jacob,
the God who joined together our first parents in paradise,
strengthen and bless in Christ
the consent you have declared before the Church,
so that what God joins together, no one may put asunder.
The Priest invites those present to praise God:
All reply:
Thanks be to God.
He sprinkles the rings, as the circumstances so suggest, and gives them to the bride and bridegroom.
A. The husband places his wife’s ring on her ring finger, saying, as the circumstances so suggest:
The wife takes the arras and hands them over to the husband, saying:
The Universal Prayer then takes place in the usual manner (examples are provided in nos. 216–217). After this, the
Symbol or Creed is said, if required by the rubrics.
At the words that follow, up to and including and became man, all bow.
and by the Holy Spirit was incarnate of the Virgin Mary,
and became man.
Instead of the Niceno-Constantinopolitan creed, especially during Lent and Easter time, the baptismal Symbol of the
roman church, known as the Apostles’ Creed, may be used.
I believe in God,
the Father almighty,
Creator of heaven and earth,
and in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord,
at the words that follow, up to and including the Virgin Mary, all bow.
Then follows the universal prayer, that is, the prayer of the faithful or bidding prayers.
2. For fruitful love, that N. and N. will share in God’s creative work and enjoy the gift
of children, let us pray to the Lord.
3. For the parents of N. and N., that they will continue to support them on the journey
which begins at this altar, let us pray to the Lord.
4. For those preparing for their marriage day, that they may understand well the dignity
and responsibilities of the marriage covenant and family life, let us pray to the Lord.
5. For married people everywhere, that they will live in love and faithfulness, for better,
for worse, in joy or in sorrow, all the days of their lives, let us pray to the Lord.
1. That their married love may reflect God’s saving love for the human family, let
us pray to the Lord.
2. That they may be united in love and fidelity as Christ is united with his church,
let us pray to the Lord.
3. That, through the Holy Spirit, they may grow into a community of love and
show that Christ’s Church is present in their home, let us pray to the Lord.
4. That, through loving one another in Christ, they may come to love Christ in
their neighbor, let us pray to the Lord.
5. That the Church will bring salvation to the world by expressing Christ’s love
for all people, let us pray to the Lord.
6. That all Christians may radiate the joy of living in Christ, let us pray to the
Lord.
1. That, through the gift of the Holy Spirit, their lives may be lived in love, let us pray
to the Lord.
2. That God will help them to make a home together, and grace it with hospitality,
friendship and prayer, let us pray to the Lord.
3. That God will make their love an expression of his creative love, and bless them
with children, let us pray to the Lord.
4. That God will make their love an expression of his saving love for all people, let
us pray to the Lord.
5. That they may minister the grace of marriage to each other in their joys and
sorrows, in their hopes and disappointments, let us pray to the Lord.
6. That the Church may reveal to the world God’s love for the human family, let us
pray to the Lord.
7. That the grace of marriage will be renewed in all Christian families, let us pray to
the Lord.
A. A commemoration of the husband and wife in the Eucharistic Prayer is made with a formula provided in nos. 202–
204.
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The lazo (or the veil) is held by two family members or friends and is placed over the shoulders of the newly married
couple.
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When all this has been done, the offertory chant begins. Meanwhile, the ministers place the corporal, the purificator, the
chalice, the pall, and the Missal on the altar.
It is desirable that the faithful express their participation by making an offering, bringing forward bread and wine for the
celebration of the Eucharist and perhaps other gifts to relieve the needs of the church and of the poor.
The priest, standing at the altar, takes the paten with the bread and holds it slightly raised above the altar with both hands,
saying in a low voice:
If, however, the offertory chant is not sung, the priest may speak these words aloud; at the end, the people may acclaim:
The Deacon, or the priest, pours wine and a little water into the chalice, saying quietly:
The priest then takes the chalice and holds it slightly raised above the altar with both hands, saying in a low voice:
If, however, the offertory chant is not sung, the priest may speak these words aloud; at the end, the people may acclaim:
If appropriate, he also incenses the offerings, the cross, and the altar. A Deacon or other minister then incenses the priest
and the people.
Then the priest, standing at the side of the altar, washes his hands, saying quietly:
Standing at the middle of the altar, facing the people, extending and then joining his hands, he says:
Then the priest, with hands extended, says the prayer over the offerings, at the end of which the people acclaim:
Amen.
PRAYER OVER THE OFFERINGS
A
PREFACE
A
The dignity of the marriage covenant.
B
The great Sacrament of Matrimony.
For in him you have made a new covenant with your people,
so that, as you have redeemed man and woman
by the mystery of Christ’s Death and Resurrection,
so in Christ you might make them partakers of divine nature
and joint heirs with him of heavenly glory.
C
Matrimony as a sign of divine love.
a) In Eucharistic Prayer I, the proper form of the Hanc igitur (Therefore, Lord, we pray) is said. The words in
parentheses may be omitted, if the occasion so suggests:
b) In Eucharistic Prayer II, after the words and all the clergy, the following is added:
c) In Eucharistic Prayer III, after the words whom you have summoned before you, the following is added:
He joins his hands and makes the Sign of the cross once over the bread and the chalice together, saying:
In the formulas that follow, the words of the Lord should be pronounced clearly and distinctly, as the nature of these
words requires.
at the time he was betrayed and entered willingly into his Passion,
He takes the bread and, holding it slightly raised above the altar, continues:
He shows the consecrated host to the people, places it again on the paten, and genuflects in adoration.
Then he says:
or:
or:
Therefore, as we celebrate
the memorial of his Death and Resurrection,
we offer you, Lord,
the Bread of life and the Chalice of salvation,
giving thanks that you have held us worthy
to be in your presence and minister to you.
Humbly we pray
that, partaking of the Body and Blood of Christ,
we may be gathered into one by the Holy Spirit.
He takes the chalice and the paten with the host and, raising both, he says:
Amen.
After the chalice and paten have been set down, the priest, with hands joined, says:
After the Our Father, the prayer Deliver us is omitted. The Priest, standing and facing the bride and bridegroom, invokes
upon them God’s blessing, which is never omitted.
In the invitation, if one or both of the spouses will not be receiving Communion, the words in parentheses are omitted.
In the last paragraph of the prayer, the words in parentheses may be omitted if it seems that circumstances suggest it, for
example, if the bride and bridegroom are advanced in years.
The bride and bridegroom approach the altar or, if appropriate, they remain at their place and kneel.
The Priest, with hands joined, calls upon those present to pray:
Then the Priest, with hands extended over the bride and bridegroom, continues:
R/. Amen.
Text with music, no. 205B.
The prayer Lord Jesus Christ is omitted, and The peace of the Lord is said immediately. Then the bride and bridegroom
and all present offer one another a sign that expresses peace and charity.
The priest, turned towards the people, extending and then joining his hands, adds:
And all offer one another a sign, in keeping with local customs, that expresses peace, communion, and charity. The priest
gives the sign of peace to a Deacon or minister.
The bride and bridegroom, their parents, witnesses, and relatives may receive Communion under both kinds.
Then he takes the host, breaks it over the paten, and places a small piece in the chalice, saying quietly:
The invocation may even be repeated several times if the fraction is prolonged. Only the final time, however, is grant us
peace said.
And he reverently consumes the Body of Christ. Then he takes the chalice and says quietly:
After this, he takes the paten or ciborium and approaches the communicants. The priest raises a host slightly and shows
it to each of the communicants, saying:
Amen.
And receives Holy Communion.
If any are present who are to receive Holy Communion under both kinds, the rite described in the proper place is to be
followed. The bride and bridegroom, their parents, witnesses, and relatives may receive Communion under both kinds.
While the priest is receiving the Body of Christ, the communion chant begins.
When the distribution of communion is over, the priest or a Deacon or an acolyte purifies the paten over the chalice and
also the chalice itself. While he carries out the purification, the priest says quietly:
Then, standing at the altar or at the chair and facing the people, with hands joined, the priest says:
Let us pray.
All pray in silence with the priest for a while, unless silence has just been observed. Then the priest, with hands extended,
says the prayer after communion, at the end of which the people acclaim:
Amen.
Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her, to present her as a holy and spotless
bride for himself (E.T. alleluia).
I give you a new commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you, says the Lord
(E.T. alleluia).
I will bless the Lord at all times, praise of him is always in my mouth. Taste and see that the
Lord is good; blessed the man who seeks refuge in him (E.T. alleluia).
May the Holy Spirit of God always pour forth his love into your hearts.
R/. Amen.
R/. Amen.
When the Mass is concluded, the witnesses and the Priest sign the Marriage record. The signing may take place either
in the vesting room or in the presence of the people; however, it is not to be done on the altar.
Then the Deacon, or the priest himself, with hands joined and facing the people, says:
Thanks be to God.
Then the priest venerates the altar as usual with a kiss, as at the beginning. After making a profound bow with the
ministers, he withdraws.
If any liturgical action follows immediately, the rites of dismissal are omitted.
ON THE ANNIVERSARIES OF MARRIAGE
On the main anniversaries of marriage, as for example, on the twenty-fifth, fiftieth, or sixtieth anniversary, whenever
Masses for various Needs are permitted, the Mass for giving thanks to God may be used with the prayers given below.
The same prayers may also be used, if appropriate, at Mass on a weekday in ordinary time. In these celebrations, a special
remembrance of the Sacrament of Marriage may appropriately be made, using the forms which are indicated in the roman
ritual (Order of Celebrating Marriage, nos. 272-286).
A
On Any Anniversary
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