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Emma Spickard
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Ramayana in Comparative Perspective
Due: June 2
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Sita. Janaki. Vaidehi. Maithili. Wife to Lord Rama. The Ideal Wife. The Ideal Woman.
All names and identities by which Sita of the Ramayana is known. It is rare to find Sita
considered as a feminist ideal, or even beyond her identity as the ideal of womanhood. Many
validity in this critique: many individuals point to Sita’s passivity as evidence of Sita’s
subjugation by Rama, her husband. There are instances throughout Valmiki’s Ramayana in
which Sita is maltreated, and her voice silenced. A poignant example is the Agni Pariksha, Sita’s
trial by fire. There has been effort by some individuals to create Ramayanas that center Sita: for
example, Sita’s Ramayana of Samhita Arni, a comic book which retells the story through her
lens. Similarly, Sita Sings the Blues is an animated exploration of Sita’s story by Nina Paley.
While I applaud these new versions of the Ramayana and their attempt to better center Sita as the
Interpretation of the Ramayana extends beyond questions that only interest academia:
instead the Ramayana has a lasting reach on Indian culture. From household norms to legal
proceedings, the Ramayana impacts women living in India today. In an often cited example, it
was ruled that a wife must follow her husband during his relocation for work. The Bombay High
Court made their decision based on the idea that “a wife should be like Goddess Sita who
followed her husband Lord Ram into the forest and stayed there for 14 years” (Hindustan Times
2012).
Given the cultural relevance and authority bestowed upon The Ramayana, it is
worthwhile to examine the text for evidence of a stronger Sita practical to women today. My
purpose in this endeavor is not to claim the Ramayana as a feminist text, nor state that Sita is the
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ultimate feminist heroine. My aim instead is to carve out space into the Valmiki Ramayana from
which women of today can look to Sita as more than just an ideal wife and an ideal of marriage. I
will argue that Valmiki’s Sita is a complex character who demonstrates defiance in the face of
constrained choices, and who can be interpreted as an ideal beyond her role as a wife.
easier for me, due to my cultural background, to reinterpret the text of Valmiki and his words.
My reinterpretation is limited due to the fact that I am not Indian, nor do I have strong
background in interpretation of Indian text. I am also constrained by the fact that I am utilizing a
translation to highlight episodes of Sita’s defiance, which could vary from the original Sanskrit
text. I would also like to acknowledge that I will only be looking at Valmiki’s Sita for a variety
of reasons. Firstly, this is the version of the Ramayana with which I am the most familiar. I have
also selected it because it is commonly upheld as the original Ramayan, and has wielded large
Today, when young girls in India are asked to cite role models, they suggest names like
Mother Teresa or Gandhi. However, many women closer in age to marriage view Sita as an ideal
(Kishwar 2001: 286). This points to the common narrative of Sita: she is to be admired through
her context to Rama as a wife, and not through any actions of her own. Feminists have rejected
Sita for her passiveness and deference to her husband, often choosing to uphold Draupadi of the
Mahabharata as the preferable model due to her more active protest against her husbands
(Kishwar 2001: 304). However, Draupadi lacks the popularity held by Sita, suggesting a missed
opportunity to imbue a more culturally regarded figure, Sita, with a more positive light, rather
As I mentioned above, in lieu of claiming her as the ultimate feminist heroine, I hope to
highlight a more pragmatic feminist use for Sita for women of all ages and relationship statuses.
This is not to say that the episodes I highlight are the only applicable strengths of Sita for today.
Examples of Sita’s strength though will focus on her actions even in the face of constrained
acknowledge that in India, the ism of feminism carries less positive connotations compared to
the West (Kishwar 2004: 35). Upon the arrival of feminism to India, the upward mobility it
offered was really only an option for western educated women (Kishwar 2004: 44). Feminism
has not offered many women in India tangible avenues to improve their lives. Instead, gender
equality has been longer understood in India through the concept of “individual women’s
assertiveness” and “the tradition of goddess worship, of seeing the feminine as shakti (power) to
be feared and revered” (Kishwar 2004: 35). While the previous instances in which I have used
feminism in this paper reflect its core definition based upon political, social and economic rights
for women, from now on in the discussion of Sita I hope to instead view her through the lens of
I will use Valmiki’s text to highlight shakti wielded by Sita and how in many instances
she portrays defiance and individual assertiveness. Of interest is when Sita’s defiance is in the
face of limited choice. Many women have to operate within a framework of constrained
freedoms within marriages, and society, today. One example of constrained freedoms is that “the
outcome of marriage in India depends not just on the attitude, but as much on the kind of
relationship a woman has with her marital family and extended kinship group” (Kishwar 2001:
305). In this context, the Sita I will present as an ideal does not rebel in large or risky ways.
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Instead, the Sita I hope to elucidate serves a more pragmatic purpose and models ideal behavior
Persuasive Rhetoric
Sita’s persuasive language is one method by which she exerts her power in the
Ramayana. A poignant episode is when she convinces Rama to let her join him upon his exile.
Her argument shows a strong progression that employs persuasive techniques and leads to Ram’s
ultimate concession that she may join him. Sita’s persuasion utilizes three approaches: firstly,
she invokes dharma and the idea of both Rama’s duty and her wifely duty. “In this life...a woman
follows...only her husband” (Sitar 2010: Chapter 5, p. 139). It is strategic of Sita to use customs
around marriage and wifely expectations to convince Rama, particularly due to the weight Rama
places on dharma, as evidenced by his acceptance of his exile based on it being his dharmic duty
(Sattar 2010: Chapter 3, 126). In this sense, Sita uses Rama’s own values and logic in her
Sita’s second approach attacks the heroic and masculine identity of Rama: “how did my
father...get you, a woman disguised as a man, for a son-in-law! The world is wrong when they
say that there is no one greater than Rama who blazes like the sun! What could possibly have
made you so depressed and frightened that you wish to leave me here” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 5,
p. 140). Rather than leveraging Rama’s values against him here, Sita leverages Rama’s own
identity. She equates his decision to not bring her into the woods with being a cowardly decision,
Sita’s third approach is her threatened suicide: “I am yours now and I am devoted to
you...otherwise I shall kill myself” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 5, p. 142). Within her limited power,
this is something that Sita can leverage against the men in her life. It is interesting to see that Sita
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repeats this threat throughout The Ramayana. Once when Sita forces Laksmana to follow the cry
of Rama and leave her alone (Sattar 2010: Chapter 5, 274), and the second time upon refusing a
second Agni Pariksha when Sita returns to her Mother Earth, effectively a suicide in that her
Another instance of Sita’s persuasion is upon the couple’s arrival in the wilderness when
Sita warns Rama about not committing violence needlessly: “The inflicting of violence and
cruelty upon other beings without reason or enmity, that weakness appears to be present in you
now. You have promised to kill the raksasas...it disturbs me a great deal when I see you like this”
(Sattar 2010: Chapter 1, 233-234). The word choice used by Sita is not passive but instead direct,
and serves to put blame on Rama. Firstly, Sita presents that the inflicting of violence is a
weakness, and takes it a step further and actually accuses Rama of presently demonstrating this
weakness. She also directly states her feelings about the situation: “it disturbs me”, which gives
her an active voice regarding how the scenario personally affects her. Sita goes on in her
argument to remind Rama of the story of Indra who provided an ascetic with a sword: leading
the ascetic towards a life of violence. This is followed by a strong bargaining line: “I am
reminding you of this tale not because I presume to instruct you but because I love and respect
you” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 1, p. 234). By paralleling the story of the ascetic with her accusation
of Rama’s violent nature, Sita serves to put Rama into the shoes of a man renouncing all that he
finds important. For Rama, this is dharma, instead of austerities specifically. Sita also wields her
role as a wife creatively here. Rather than appear overbearing in her lesson, Sita suggests that her
message is coming from a place of love and respect. This is a ‘soft power’ she can wield, and is
something that makes Rama more susceptible to the message she is trying to accomplish.
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It is indubitable that women have the right, and need, to challenge their husbands, fathers
and friends. To look to Sita in her moments of persuasion reveal effective techniques of
argument and additionally show that this ideal woman does not hold her tongue and instead
Sita’s abduction is the epitome of her losing her freedom of choice, and still Sita uses her
limited tools to assert herself during this scene. One of the largest critiques of Sita is her passive
nature and how she does little to protect herself from her abduction by Ravana, however, this
detracts from the powerful wit and rhetoric with which she reproaches the antagonist of The
Ramayana. In the following passage, Sita asserts herself as not going without a fight even in the
face of imminent danger: “How can a jackal like you covet a lioness like me? I am as far from
you as the shining, golden sun!... If you think you can carry off Rama’s beloved wife, you might
as well pluck out your eyes with a needle, or lick the edge of knife with your tongue” (Sattar
2010: 279). What stands out in this passage of Sita’s retort is the levels of hierarchy with which
she taunts and belittles Ravana, even though she risks further angering him. Despite being
unarmed with weapons, Sita’s words equate her kidnapping with Ravana physically harming
himself. While not tangibly effective to save her, this passage still evokes vira rasa through the
strength of Sita’s conviction in her own status- “a lioness like me” (Sattar 2010: 279) and
through her courageousness in attempting to defy Ravana even when her chances of escape are
so slim. What is powerful about this passage is that vira rasa tends to convey images of an
unbeatable hero. However, Valmiki’s text juxtaposes the courageousness of Sita with her own
physical fear: “Even though the chaste woman spoke so fearlessly to the wicked raksasa, she was
trembling like a slender banana plant in a high wind” (Sattar 2010: 279). By doing this, Sita is a
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more relatable image of vira rasa for women today. Often, it can be hard for women to assert
their own rights and ensure their personal safety. This scene of retort against Ravana can be
looked at as a scene that is acted out as women walk home alone at night: in India and here in the
United States. When facing unwanted advances or attention by men, women face the decision if
they retort or stay silent for fear of further provoking attention, or worse, violence. In the case of
Sita, we see that she does not stay silent but instead uses her words to give her power: she speaks
“fearlessly” (Sattar 2010: 279) even when her instincts force her to tremble.
Reinterpretation of the Agni Pariksha reveal Sita’s defiance and strong self-conviction
once again in a situation where her choices exist beyond her control. One of the most criticized
episodes in the Ramayana is the Agni Pariksha when Sita’s purity is put into question by Rama
and must be proven. There are two avenues by which one can approach the Agni Pariksha in
order to interpret the behavior of Sita. Firstly, one can look at the Agni Pariksha similarly to how
we have looked at other specific scenarios of Sita: as Sita defying within the constraints of
society. “You have surrendered to your anger and acted like a common man and you have treated
me like a low and vulgar woman!... The fact that we are married and that I am devoted to you is
of no consequence to you at all!” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 13, p. 635). Through this passage Sita
calls out Rama for making her go through this test. She goes so far as to describe his actions as
those of “a common man:” an ironic insult since in mere moments Rama’s divinity is revealed to
him (Sattar 2010). For a character like Rama who represents the ideal King and follower of
dharma, Sita’s insults that he has allowed emotion to drive his actions and that these are actions
atypical of a disciplined man carry great weight and serve to attack his very identity as a dharmic
character in The Ramayana. Sita also uses her words to assert herself: “my conduct has always
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been impeccable” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 13, p. 635) and further elucidates the injustice of the
test.
So strong is her conviction in herself though that it is Sita herself who demands the
building of the pyre: “Build a funeral pyre for me, Laksmana! I cannot bear to live under these
false accusations! Despite my virtues, my husband has rejected me in front of all these people.”
(Sattar 2010: Chapter 13, p. 635). These words provide evidence that Sita is not undergoing the
Agni Pariksha to please Rama or to clear her name. She enters the trial by fire asserting that the
accusations are “false” and fully places the blame onto Rama that he has “rejected” her. While
Sita is forced socially to undergo the trial, it is Sita that ultimately demands the pyre’s
construction, and she actively points out the flaws of Rama through the ordeal.
Many modern individuals in India view Rama as being more flawed than Sita (Kishwar
2001: 304), and in reading the text of Valmiki, it is clear that Rama is painted in the wrong and
Sita in the right. Upon her survival, Agni, the God of Fire, even asserts “I will not tolerate any
criticism of her!” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 13, p. 638) showing even a divine support of Sita.
Similarly, Kishwar supports this viewpoint: “Sita does not signify an act of slavish surrender to
the whims of an unreasonable husband; instead it is an act of defiance that challenges her
husband’s aspersions, a means of showing him to be so flawed in his judgment that the gods
have to come to show up Ram for his foolishness” (Kishwar 2001: 306). By this lens of
reinterpretation, the Agni Pariksha transforms into an episode where Sita emerges victorious in
her conviction with herself, and Rama is left flawed, even in the eyes of the divine.
People have also chosen to look at the Agni Pariksha in an entirely different light. If we
isolate and look at Sita’s actions alone--outside of the context that Sita must prove herself against
patriarchal accusations--then Sita’s actions become incredibly active and powerful. As Nina
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Paley, creator of Sita Sings the Blues interprets: “Sita’s walk through fire is actually an active
expression of a heartbreak experience. In this way Sita is far more active than most of us” (Paley
& Lal 2000: 125). Nina’s analysis is also personal: the Agni Pariksha became a metaphor for
grief she looked to upon her divorce with her husband. In this modern light, Sita’s actions during
the Agni Pariksha become an active expression of pain which women of today can look to. Sita,
the ideal, suffered similar to themselves. Through both interpretations, the Agni Pariksha
Sita repeatedly acts within patriarchal contexts in order to garner as much freedom as she
can. Upon her reunion with Rama, Rama makes it clear that he will only “be able to love her
again” if she undergoes a second trial to “prove her innocence” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 2, p. 677).
Sita’s final poignant act of defiance comes with her refusal to participate in such a trial; and to an
even more powerful degree, her refusal to participate further in the story of Rama: “Sita, wearing
an ochre robe, joined her palms. Her head was bowed... ‘If I have never thought about any other
man but Rama, let the goddess Madhavi create a chasm for me!” (Sattar 2010: Chapter 2, p.
677). Rather than proving herself once again, Sita returns to where she came from: the furrows of
the Earth, and finally leaves her corporeal body behind. While some may criticize Sita for ending
her own life, this is her final act of asserting her own right to choose.
It also prevents Rama from being absolved from the guilt he had incurred from exiling
Sita since there is no future for the couple to reconcile this action. Instead, Sita removes herself
from the context of Rama and the world on her own terms. While Sita threatens suicide in earlier
episodes--like her persuasion of Rama to take her on his exile-- she had previously explained this
from a place of love and not wanting to exist without Rama. However, in this scenario, Rama
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explains his love is only achievable if she undergoes a trial: Sita’s final exit rejects the love
Rama offers her. As Sonal Mansingh, an Indian classical dancer and social activist, claims:
“Asked to prove her purity for the second time, [Sita] despairs at the limits of masculine
strictures on women, and prefers to return to her mother Earth. Sita asserts her choices but in the
context of social interactions” (Mansingh & Tripath 2000: 94). Sita’s character must make
choices and exist in a hyper-masculine context always in relation to Rama: for her to defy his
wish and define her exit from The Ramayana elucidates a Sita who makes the most of her limited
By extension in modern times, women can draw the parallel that they are justified in
removing their own corporeal body from the decision making of their husbands. Gandhi pushed
for women to resist being only an “object of man’s lust” (Kishwar 2001: 298) stating that he
could not “imagine Sita even wasting a moment on pleasing Rama by physical charms” (Kishwar
2001: 298). Gandhi’s claim is supported by extension if one looks at Sita’s actions in refusing a
second Agni Pariksha: rather than permitting Rama to dictate how her corporeal body is tested
for purity, Sita removes her corporeal body from The Ramayana.
Conclusion
Through this endeavor, I hope to have complicated the image of Sita as the ideal wife
alone. Sita’s story is one of limited freedoms and choice. Rather than blame her for such
conditions, it is important to examine how she maneuvers her way through the Ramayanas.
Today we can applaud and learn from Sita for her creative use of persuasion, her ability to speak
even in the face of danger, her defiance and conviction through her trial by fire, and her
autonomous removal of herself from the narrative. In a study in Uttar Pradesh in 1957, over 800
children aged 9-22 years old predominantly chose Sita as the ideal woman from a list of 24
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prominent figures (Kishwar 2001: 303). It is clear that Sita, and all that she symbolizes, still
carry immense weight in India today. It is important then that scholarship gives attention to
Valmiki’s Sita for more than her role as a wife, and that we do not entirely abandon the Sita of
400 BC for more emboldened Sitas. It is important that we complicate the vision of Valmiki’s
Sita as passive alone, for we have lessons to learn from her beyond her identity as the wife to
Lord Rama.
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