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who sometimes buy and sometimes don’t.We’ll not only share our
observation with you, but we’ll also connect them to a real Covert
Persuasion Technique that you can use to help each situation turn
Great Questions
You know that most people have a hard time asking great questions.
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back to Chapter 8 and spend some time working on the quality and
your attitude on how you view any event in life. It’s critical.Your
target person is the same way. His bad attitude will cloud his current
experience.
How to Covertly Persuade: Injecting a powerful state-breaking question
into your conversation can alter the other person’s view of the
the same time using all you know to improve the attitudes and
You know that people are actually very good at visualizing. It’s just
the word that sometimes throws them off. Questions help your target
customer is very familiar with. This will help the picture become
clearer.
Become aware that most people will be quick to say what they don’t
want. The reality is they do know what they want. They just aren’t
know you don’t know, but if you did know, what would it be?” A
your target person at this point will help you (and your target) understand
they want will line up perfectly with what you need them to do.
Sometimes what matters most often is “How quick can I have it?”
Speed is key.
How to Covertly Persuade: Look closely at the way you’re doing things
now. Ask yourself some powerful questions like: “What are seven
ways I can get it done faster?” Force yourself to come up with seven
answers. Chances are very good that if you can provide it faster,
you’ll win more cooperation, trust, respect, and more business. The
you can truly provide faster service, then the two alternatives will be
very close, both closer than he or she expects, and very impressive.
The unfortunate truth is that most people would rather leave without
be their advocate. And, of course, you must make every upset customer
them you value their business and would like to make things right
for them. However, before offering what you think is the solution to
the problem, ask the customers what they think would make the situation
puts him or her on the defensive and the situation can get worse.
Your clients are every bit as busy as you are every day. Therefore,
they don’t have the time to study your products and services and
figure out how they can best be used to solve their problems—that’s
your job.
Use it.
People habitually fail to ask fresh questions.You also heard the old
their own internal gauges.The goal in selling is to get all the internal
gauges, and asking questions is the only way to make sure each person
concerned, most people are like a commodity.They are like pigs, oranges,
about to do the same. Developing a USP will add clarity to your life
and help you to become successful faster. Once you know what
makes you unique, you are no longer like all the rest.You are no
longer a commodity.You stand out from the ordinary and have more
The 80/20 rule is the core lesson here.The harsh reality is that many
customers aren’t worth spending your valuable time with; send them
to each other. Unfortunately, it’s all too common that customers have
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How to Covertly Persuade: Step up to the plate with real, honest treatment
The way you see the world is the world (as far as you’re concerned).
Your prospect or customer also views the world from his vantage
it means.
with others will depend on how well you can see the world
from the other person’s point of view. This will clear up the
communication.
It’s basic human nature to take the easy road. If it’s easier not to do
most likely that the person will not do it.This could mean that if it’s
easier not to buy from you, or if there are no consequences for not
require your prospects to do many things, they will very likely never
become your customers.
Do to Gain Pleasure
the person will absolutely lose if he doesn’t take action now. Conversely,
show him how buying your product or service now will not
only avoid that pain but will give him some bonus pleasure.When
you do this, you’ll be much more likely to get the sale. Sometimes,
do; you’ll be amazed at the very profitable results if you actually get
People have an amazing ability to make one hour’s worth of work fill
an entire afternoon or to make a full day’s workload fit into one single
You’ve learned how most people do not actively listen to all of what
system and actually shortens your life. So, “lighten up” and
“laugh it off.”
or whether or not it’s politically correct to laugh. No, they just burst
around kids more. Learn from them. On this point, they’re the experts.
This can be a difficult lesson to learn. Some people never learn it.
You must disassociate yourself from those people who are chronically
How to Covertly Persuade: Take a hard look at the people who are in
your life on a daily basis. Are there any constantly negative people
It can be like a life sentence. The difference is you hold the keys to
the cell.Words are the keys.Words are powerful.Words can set you
Find new words. Buy a good dictionary and thesaurus and refer
You learned that companies might have good intentions but usually
entice you to do business with them, and then they deliver far less,
How to Covertly Persuade: Commit to running your life the way this
That will serve you well, and you’ll be very successful. Word of
The lesson here was simple. People like to be like the people they like.We
How to Covertly Persuade: This is where we can use the law of association
Show others that by doing what you suggest, they will be like someone
of energy and anxious to meet the day and do fun things and make a
streamline your life and give you direction and purpose.You’ll begin
to see things clearly for the first time. People, situations, and
events will either be in line with your selfish goal, or clearly a distraction.
your plan B before you need it.You may never need it, but if you do,
How to Covertly Persuade: Use paper and pen and think ahead to the
next step. Next week, next month, next year . . . think of all the
You learned that the devil’s advocate is a person who does not create
questions. Ask them for their ideas on how to make the project
How to Covertly Persuade: Buy the books. Listen to the tapes. Attend
the seminars. Learn. Soak it all up. Become more curious with every
the same thing over and over and expect the results to be different.”
—Albert Einstein