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When You Desire Nothing You Can Choose Anything
By Tania Kotsos in Awareness on March 26th, 2009 / No Comments OK

It may come as a surprise to you that you are attached to everything

you desire. Behind every desire there is a dissatisfaction and resistance Sign Up for New Articles
to what is and as the saying goes, “whatever you resist persists”. Your Your Email Address:
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create the reality of your choice knowing that you are free to choose
any experience. Desire is the source of all attachment whereas choice
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As human beings we are conditioned to seek happiness and avoid pain.
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list is endless. By doing so, we live in the “when I have …. I will be
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Having said this, haven’t you often noticed how when you get what
you once thought you desired you realise that you didn’t really want it
that much after all or that the happiness you gained was very
temporary hence sending you back to the starting block of desiring
something else. Remember this: at the bottom of every desire lies a
wish to be happier in the ignorance that to be happy irrespective is the
only happiness there is.

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Reality creation circles often cite Jesus Christ as having said, “What
things soever you desire, when you pray believe that you receive them,
and you shall have them”. Dig a little deeper though by consulting the
original Greek text of the New Testament and you will find the word
aiteisthe (pronounced etisthe), which correctly translated means “to
ask for” in the sense of requesting that which is due to you. So Mark
11:24 should read “What things soever you ask for when you pray” (not
desire), which brings us back to the element of choice because to ask The Principles of Successful
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Choose Your Reality or Have it Chosen For You

You may have confused choosing or asking for what you want as being
selfish, greedy or unappreciative and so tend to allow others to make
your choices for you, thinking it is the right or selfless thing to do. But
by allowing others to choose for you, you are unwittingly also allowing
others to create your reality. Freedom of choice is really the only
freedom you have so get comfortable with it, embrace it and make it a
part of your daily life. Only then can you become the master of your

In a nutshell, desire is the source of all attachment and whatever you

are attached to drains you of your authentic power to create your
reality. Desire is based on a misconceived need for something or
someone to make you happy and it is that misconception which keeps
you in a state of desire. In contrast, the desireless person is free – free
to choose their reality – not out of any need or sense of
incompleteness but rather in the knowledge that they are and always
will be complete for they are One with the One Universal Mind for which
nothing is impossible. The instant you claim your right to choose then
all desire becomes redundant.

About the author:

Tania Kotsos is the founder and author of Mind Your Reality. She has
been studying mind power and the nature of reality for the last 15
years. After a successful 10 year career as an investment banker in the
City of London, she decided to throw in the towel to pursue her dream
of empowering people to transform their lives using the innate power of
their mind.

Visit her website at: mind-your-reality.com

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