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The most important thing I learned about my partner is that in his home country, men and
women aren’t friends, and that they only speak when they are wanting a relationship. This was
important for me learn because when we first started speaking, we were talking over social
media afterwards and I considered all our interactions as friendly, but I later learned that he
considered it more than friendly because of his home culture. I realized in one of our later
conversations that the only time men talk to women in his country is when they are seeking a
relationship, not a friendship, which I haven’t experienced before here in America. That was a
concept we differ on completely, and I’m very glad I learned that from him. I had always
assumed before that any interactions I have with someone start as friendly and can turn into a
relationship later, but after talking to him I know that I should make my intentions clearer when
interacting with people from different cultures. I also learned from this that Franck stopped all
communication when he assumed I had a boyfriend, which was very interesting as well, but a
After my discussions with Franck, I learned that I communicate a lot more openly about
harsher or more uncomfortable topics than other cultures might be comfortable with. I openly
talked about politics and controversial topics with Franck with ease, and it was sometimes more
uncomfortable for him to share his opinions on those topics. I have also discovered that I hold
some biases that I was unaware of about Africa in general. I also grouped Africa together as a
whole and assumed that it was a war-torn continent that had starving children because of what I
saw on the media. I have grown as a person since talking to Franck and I have realized my biases
and have since removed them from my life. I now know that there are all types of people from all
different places, and I shouldn’t have any biases for anyone before I meet them.
Franck and I’s conversations linked with our talks about intercultural communication and
culture. Franck and I’s conversations were the definition of intercultural communication, and we
were similar in all aspects of communication, only differing in how we would communicate with
different sexes and what we would talk about. Franck and I also linked our conversations with
culture because we discussed largely about how much our cultures differed. We discussed how
his funerals differed from the ones in America and how their grieving process would be
considered “dramatic” in America, because they grieve very largely and openly while Americans
hide their grief to look strong. I really enjoyed our talks and it made the class easier when our
The theories we learned in class helped me be more aware of how I spoke to someone of
a different culture, so I wasn’t offensive or rude to him. I was able to understand and be more
accepting of Franck’s cultural practices after we spoke about culture in class and intercultural
communication.
Talking with my partner didn’t challenge anything we learned in class, but our
discussions sometimes challenged my own beliefs. Franck and I discussed the topic of LGBT
couples and marriage in his country, and he said that being LGBT was punishable by death in his
country. This is a very different view from my own, and he didn’t share his opinion on the topic,
but it angered me at first. I came to realize that other countries have different beliefs than my
own, but I don’t believe people should be punished with death for being a certain way. Although,
I’m glad Franck and I talked about this because it again showed me the differences in cultures
I have become more open minded since talking to Franck and more culturally aware. I
have also taken another course this semester about Somali culture, so that has contributed as
well. I think that before I had a good understanding of different cultures I was exposed too, like
Mexican culture, but I never knew of any cultures away from North America. I am glad I got to
learn from Franck about his culture because it makes me want to learn about as many cultures as
I can, and I’m glad I got paired with such a great partner.