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How many friends have you made? And how did you make them? When I
was young, I could not make friends well because I was so timid and shy. I always
waited until anybody approached me first. When nobody approached me, I was
lonely that year. After this experience, I tried to approach others first. And I
started to have my own friends. Other friends came closer to me first when I
Approach makes human relationship and there are various approach methods.
Among these various methods, many people use communication. I used it too
and made many friends. If I wanted to be familiar with someone, I found her and
tried to talk with her. Communication is the start of relationship. Other ways also
There are many movies and cartoons about making friends. For example,
there is a movie <Good bye my friend>. Erik and Dexter are the main characters
of that movie. In that movie, Erik moved neighborhood of Dexter who had AIDS
and lived a time-limited life. Erik visited Dexter’s house and Erik tried to
communicate with Dexter. So they became the best friends. One day, Erik got to
know the existence of AIDS medicine. They got into adventures to cure Dexter’s
disease. But Dexter’s illness got worse. At the end of the story, Dexter died and
Erik revered his memory sincerely. In this movie, I can realize a real friendship.
And I want to become a person who can care a friend heartily. Erik approached
person’s information and make a judgment if I can be a friend with her or not.
couples are broken because of long distance relationship. Why long distance
couples are broken easily? That is because they cannot talk with each other often.
They only can talk with each other through messages and calling. If calling and
and then broken. Friendship is same as love. Although they were very familiar,
consensus when we communicate with each other. Also, face to face interaction is
does not work well. That communication happens in the restricted situation.
Imagine how you lost your friends. Fighting may be the cause of losing friends
among many reasons. But you lost your friends unintentionally because of lack of
communication too.
I made many friends and had funny time with them. But most of my
could not talk to each other like before. That situation made us contact hard and
we made other new friends respectively. I experienced this repeatedly and I only
retain high school friends until now. A high school student’s life was so harsh
time and was so terrible. This made stronger feeling of solidarity. Students were
busy and were dependent on each other more. Dependence made more
communication and this consensus remains until now. Of course, I try to contact
with them and make a promise regularly. Because I know the rule that without
lack of information of how they live and makes less interests in them. Many
adults say that high school friends maintain forever. I did not agree that opinion
but now I can agree it. High school friends have strong friendships than
elementary and middle school friends. Because we grow enough to know how
important friends are and how retain them when we are high school students.
Humans are the animals who cannot live alone. Because humans are social
animals. This modern times say humans become independent more and more.
For example, many restaurants that can eat alone are increasing. But most people
think the person who has no friend is strange. That awareness is not a right thing
but this is the proof of humans’ instinct. Humans need others’ helps to retain
their lives. A baby needs parents’ helps and students need teachers’ helps.
Employees need a good relationship with boss if you want to be promoted.
Humans enter into a connection with others continually. Making friends is one of
the various processes of humans’ life. This process is important so we learn and
practice this at school first. We realize the importance of existence of friends and
know how make and retain them as we grow. The main method is
retain them.