Why Do Good Girls like Bad Boys?

Kimee Luv

Hmmmm…This is a question that many parents would like the answer to! For their entire
childhood, their daughter has been a model of propriety. She’s never caused a moment’s
anxiety and has always followed the rules. Always--right up until the day that she discovered
boys that is – and bad boys in particular.

One of the main reasons for a good girl to be attracted to a bad boy is the sense of adventure
she sees in him. She’s always played it safe. With him, she sees another part of life that
seems fun, and it’s working for him – and if it works for him, she thinks it’ll work for her! There
are however two kinds of bad boys, there are those who like to flirt with danger (perhaps
smoke cigarettes), and then there are those who are just dangerous (do drugs). They sound
similar, but for the girls who love them, they are two very different kinds of people.

Good girls who love the bad boys who like to play hard, the guys who flirt with the flames of
danger but never quite get their wings burned, usually end up with a different kind of
permanent partner. They have a relationship with the bad boy, they have a little adventure,
some experiences to remember when they’re older, and then they return to their good girl
lifestyle. They settle down and conform to the standards and social norms they were raised
to believe in.

The girls who chose to like the dangerous bad boys however don’t have such a pretty future
awaiting them. The problem is that they don’t understand how their reality is until it’s too late.
The bad boy likes to show them off, to use them to impress their friends, and so the girl feels
as if she’s of value to him. She enjoys the fuss. She enjoys the lifestyle. She likes the sense
of unpredictability of walking on the edge of respectability, of showing that she’s not the quiet
mouse that everyone always thought. Unfortunately by the time she’s realized that she’s not
really held in any regard by the bad boy, and that he abuses her mentally, and most likely
physically, she’s usually too addicted to the lifestyle and culture to transition back. Those who
do, seem to have a drug like dependency on this type of bad boy however, and soon find
themselves in a new, but similar relationship.

Personally, I like intelligent guys (geeky guys)!  However, if you’re one of the good girls, and
you have an attraction for bad guys, make sure you choose the one that flirts with danger
because the other type will break not only your heart, but your spirit as well.

Lots of Hot Luv

~Kimee 

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