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The psychology of why you can’t look away — and how to do it anyway
Catherine Price
Aug 2, 2018 · 9 min read
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Pop quiz: On average, who do you spend more me thinking about?
A. Your best friend
B. Donald Trump
A. Your mother
B. Donald Trump
A. The person you love the most in the world
B. Donald Trump
If you answered all Bs, you’re in good company: America is obsessed with Donald
Trump. With our smartphones as our enablers, we’re reading about, listening to, and
discussing Trump from the moment we wake up in the morning un l we lay our heads
down at night. It’s an unhealthy rela onship, and for the sake of ourselves and our
country, it’s me for us to take back our lives.
The argument against limi ng one’s exposure to Trump usually goes like this: Donald
Trump is the important news story right now, which means that if you don’t keep your
eyes on him at all mes, you’re being complacent. It’s like the bumper s cker maxim:
“If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying a en on.” And it’s true. We need to keep
reminding ourselves, over and over again, that from his sympathy toward white
supremacists to his reluctance to call out Russia for its a acks on our democracy, this is
not normal.
But I’m not sugges ng we pretend the president doesn’t exist. I’m simply sugges ng
that we cut back on the me we spend on him — for example, by refreshing our news
feed five mes a day instead of 50, or reading ar cles for 10 minutes instead of two
hours. This need not be an all-or-nothing affair.
Also, trust me: If you stop deliberately seeking out news about Donald Trump, it will s ll
find you. The man is impossible to fully escape. And this, in turn, means that if you cut
back on your exposure, you won’t stop being outraged. You’ll just have some energy le
over to actually do something about it.
How do we strike a balance between performing our civic du es and maintaining our
sanity? Trump himself has provided some useful sugges ons.
Build a wall. Not between the United States and Mexico, but between yourself and the
media. Decide how much me you want to spend per day on the news. Then, ask
yourself: When and where do you want to consume it, and for how long? (For example,
I feel less bad about Trump through the filter of Stephen Colbert.) Just as important,
iden fy places he is not allowed to enter, such as the dinner table or your bedroom.
Lock [him] up. I don’t mean that literally (yet). I mean preven ng Trump from
disturbing you without your consent. Disable news-related no fica ons on your phone.
Be er yet, delete your news apps en rely and only check from a web browser, which is
less user-friendly and thus less likely to suck you in. If you want to go further, buy a
newspaper (remember those?). And, for God’s sake, stop following Trump on Twi er.
Make America great again. Every hour we spend rumina ng on Donald Trump is an
hour not spent making anything great. But if we want to break the habit, we have to
give ourselves something construc ve to do instead.
Give yourself a minute to write a short list of things that you think make America great.
Like our na onal park system, for example, or the fact that I won’t be arrested for
wri ng this ar cle. Then, when you no ce that you’re about to dive into a Trump spiral
(or that you’re already in one), do something to support one of the items on your list.
Invite your friends and family to volunteer with you at a local charity. Do something
nice for a stranger. Donate to an organiza on you believe in. Call your congressional
representa ves — and be polite to the person who picks up the phone.
And in your darkest moments, the mes when the fallout from Trump’s elec on causes
you the most fear, remember the thing about America that has always — and will
always — make us great: the fact that we can vote.
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