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Leader A Leader B
A Question Aslier A n Answer Giver
By asking questions, this leader encourages students to Leader B seldom asks questions, and w hen he does he
think, answer their OVVTI questions, make their own wants to answer it himself or wants to be sure the
discoveries, and take more home from the lesson. members answer.it his way. Pauses make him
uncomfortable, so he finds it awkward to wait for a
A Group Guide member to come up with an answer. Members tend to
This leader guides the group through the lesson in a be passive.
way that lets them see the scenery for themselves and
enjoy the tnp personally, Leader A ' s members are A Know-It-All Narrator
active, alert, and frequently make personal Leader B's style resembles someone showing slides
applications m their lives. Leader A learns from the and telling all about a trip. Leader B gives all the
lesson and his members' input. information and does all the describing. Members tend
to drift o f f and appear inattentive and restless. Rarely
A Dialogue Traffic Cop is Leader B concerned about a member's personal
Leader A points members in the right direction application.
without actually driving them there. Members learn to
find the answers themselves and form personal A Doctrine Cop
convictions for what they learn. Members sometimes make w i l d statements and
express unfounded statements. Leader B is quick to
correct all mistakes and disagree with any opinion that
is not like his. He wonders why his members can't
seem to find answers in the Bible - they always wait
for h i m to tell them what to believe. They just won't
think for themselves!.
Adapted from: Discipleship Journal's 101 Best Small-Group Ideas. Colorado Springs, CO: Navpress Publishing Group,
1996,22-3.
Leader A is an effective small group leader since he has learned to ask questions, guide the discussion, and
encourage dialogue among members. Y o u may need to intentionally learn to be Leader A . Circle phrases in
describing leader that you would like to incorporate into your leading style.
Good group leaders work hard in setting a climate conducive to group interaction. The following are aspects o f
the climate that leaders should consciously address:
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• Atmosphere o f anticipation
• Chmate o f care
• Temperature o f taist
Questions:
1. What are actions that add warmth and a breath of fresh air as described by each chmate quahty?
2. What are actions that turn down the temperature for each quahty above?
A l l groups face difficulties, especially in the formation phase o f the groups. Leaders should not be surprised by
problems they face. Neither should they be unprepared. Below is a summary o f typical group problems and
suggested approaches to deal with them.
Members come late • Group habit of starting late • Set a definite time and begin promptly
• Exact time unclear • Discuss with the group: "We're having trouble
starting on time. Is this too early?"
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• Overly opinionated • Talk to the person privately
O v e r l y t a l k a t i v e members • Doesn't like silence • Mention that we need silence after some
• Sees thing quickly questions to look and reflect
• Ask h i m to help draw others into the
discussion
• Verbal people " w i n out" • State ground rules o f openness and acceptance
Issue that caused • Tangents • Stick to the passage and topic
disagreement among the • Not accepting differences » Suggest they discuss the issue after the
group meeting
• Agree that there are differences o f opinion on
this issue, and ask them what they do agree on.
• Think they know the right way for » Talk to the person privately and encourage
everything h i m to be sensitive to the others
A h v a y s - r i g l i t members • Lack o f sensiti\-ity to others and » D o not argue with the person, put the focus
their opinions back on the passage
• A l l o w the group to see the "right" person's
frame o f reference
• Too much time on some parts <• Plan time for each section o f discussion
Pacing slow or fast • Little interaction <> M o v e between the parts ( H B L T ) using good
• Questions simplistic or too transitions
general <> Ask for specifics or clarifications when people
answer.
> Allov,' a number to respond to the question
• Leader not setting the example • Plan group exercises carefully to foster
Superficial s h a r i n g • Application not specific development
• Group not being challenged to • Ask for specifics when they share, don't just
grow accept superficial responses
f
Meet one on one outside the group to develop
- relationships
• Problems dominate group life • Talk individually with the person, suggesting
M e m b e r s w i t h on-going • Member monopolizes group with resources to help h i m
personal problems his personal crisis • Help group see its purpose, support groups are
not therapy groups
Continue to pray and lovingly support the
person
(Source.- Mobilizing Small Groups, session 10, by N e i l T y )
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