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What’s been your worst shopping experience?
Was it the time you paid extra for something you didn’t even want, was it when the online
product turned out to be tragically different from what you had picked and clicked on, or was
it when the payment and product were fine but it didn’t work for you eventually and has been
shoved to the back of the wardrobe?
I’ve been gypped so many times that all three instances above are applicable in my case.
But my worst shopping experience has been none of these. It’s been the one time I had an epic
interaction with a salesperson at a brick-and-mortar set-up. The ensemble I had tried on was
perfect, made for me; the price, though a bit
MY B END-O T TO steep, was right for the brand and value, and yeah,
BRANDS THAT YO R since it was in my favourite colour (read: black)
PROD T AND PRI E MAY there would be no post-purchase disappointment.
BE PERFE T B T THE FEET- Yet, I walked out of the store, wrote a long e-mail
to the brand on my poor customer experience,
N- T EET ME A N and never returned to the outlet.
TA M TANT. The disinterested salesperson at first couldn’t
find the size I was looking for and turned me away; the size miraculously appeared when I asked
her colleague who dug it out and handed it over to me. By then the disinterest had gone into
being prickly and petulant, and the salesperson started throwing some serious attitude. I have
always believed that aggression in temper is due to lack of confidence, so I overcompensated by
being nice to her. Bad move, because now we were at the trial stage. On trying on the dress,
I realised I needed a few tweaks in length, and the salesperson-from-hell figured that she didn’t
have a measuring tape and left me hanging in the trial room for a good 15 minutes. It should say
a lot about my patience that I emerged from the trial room and still asked for her, only to be told
that she had left for her lunch break! I can’t even...
So as a shopping pro (you can call me that for sure), my big send-out to brands is that your
product and price may be perfect but the feet-on-street messaging is just as important. It boils
down to customer experience—treat her right.
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RIGHT
The lights will soon be up, adding a spark of brightness
the already cheerful environment that the festive seas
brings with it each year. At such a time, how can we not
pon the urge to indulge in all things new? Whether it
spruce up your living space, amp up your look, or g
ved one, there’s much you can put your money o
opping Speci l brin o the be t o tion in dif
udgets, so ock
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FASHION SELECTS
ROYAL
STATE
Peach floral embroidered
Splurge
BUDGET
lehenga coupled with a `1 LAKH
plunging neckline spells
elegance and glamour. Go
in for minimal accessories,
strappy sandals (or delicate
juttis), and let your outfit
do the talking
ARPITA MEHTA
BOLD MOVE
If you’re someone who doesn’t like to play by the rules
of fashion, this could be the outfit you’re looking for. A
bralette layered with a comfortable jacket, teamed with
Arabian pants, is sure to make heads turn. Complete
the look with a stylish pair of juttis.
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An A-line printed kurta complemented with
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RAJDEEP RANAWAT
BEAUTY PICKS
YOUR HIGHNESS
Bring in the festivities with a beauty look that is fit for a queen, says Eden Noronha
Why should lavish be synonymous with royalty? Invest in high-end haircare,
skincare, and makeup for a magnificent avatar as you gear up to celebrate.
Aditi Rao Hydari embodies all things regal, with an enviable mane and glowing
skin. Achieve her look using the following products.
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Davines
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Nounou Hair
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Guerlain Lingerie
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OUAI
Texturizing
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Performance Glow
Hair Spray Revival Cream `8,500
`2,700 BUDGET
`1 LAKH
MANE CHOICE
Flaunt some bigger and better
curls this festive season, says
Sanjana Salunkhe
If you are not a fan of makeup, amp up your hair game instead,
to make a statement. How about ditching standard straight
tresses, and opting for curls? Taapsee Pannu shows us how they
can do the trick to uplift a look. The style is minimal, gorgeous
and is super-easy to do. Here, we give you a lowdown on
products you need to achieve the look— all under `50,000.
Innisfree
Camellia
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DÉCOR MUST-HAVES
EN CASA
Jazz up your pad with unique ideas and solutions for every budget.
Anindita Ghosh lists a few options
With the festive season
around the corner, it's time to
redecorate your house to kick
off the celebrations! Give your
abode a cheerful makeover by
incorporating a few key
changes to the décor. One can
opt for soft decoration items
such as furniture, curios, wall
art, quirky artefacts, lamps
etc. since these are easily
available in different price
ranges to suit everyone's
pockets. Don’t stress if you
are working within a budget
since it is possible to make
significant improvements
within your means. According
to Khushi Todi, interior
designer and founder, Cane
Boutique, “One of the best
and easiest ways to spruce up
3
your space is by redoing the
walls. You can paint them
brighter or clad them with
printed wall paper to add
some drama. Other options
4 include adding indoor plants,
changing accessories, using
loose furnishings like cushions
and rugs.” Todi says you don't
need to buy much stuff to
make a statement. If you are
creative then DIY projects can
work wonders, too. “DIY is the
most affordable way to
1
revamp your living space.
Painting your old furniture
pieces in pastel shades,
2 hanging hand-painted plates,
creating a collage of family
pictures and upcycling old
stuff lying around the house
are some interesting ways
of doing it,” Todi adds.
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OF 5
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QUIRK
3
5 FACTOR
Choose a mix of funky and
brightly-coloured rugs, cushion
covers, and wall art for that
colour pop
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Diamond
Constellation
Flower Brooch
over `1 lakh
Gaurav
Gupta Fine
Occasions
Jewellery
Kaleidoscope
Earrings
Price on
MSI P65 request
Creator
`1.6 lakh
GIFTING IDEAS
PRESENT TENSE
Picking the perfect gift shouldn’t sap your energy. Aishwarya Sati guides you
through the process, keeping different budgets in mind
You are browsing a retail website, and even before that shortlisted item reaches the cart, you find
yourself distracted by another tempting option. What’s more, neither is it on your list nor does it fit in
with how much you are willing to shell out. Sounds familiar? Welcome to the world of online shopping
where one is spoilt for choice. We simplify the dilemma this festive season by bringing you gift options
in different budgets, so there’s something for everyone.
Philips Ambilight
TV `1.39 lakh
Varda Goenka
Fine Jewels by
Diagold Ring
`1.75 lakh
Panerai
Radiomir Pink
Strap Watch
Price on
request
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BUDGK ET
`1 L A H
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Michael Kors
sunglasses
`15,000 WoodenStreet
wall-mounted
study table
`16,000
BUDGETED
BOUNTY Choose a funky gadget,
a unique neckpiece, or even
an eclectic curio to make
your loved ones feel special
Fab India
Matinee Silver
Necklace
Spend WK Life ST900
Twisty
`29,990
12-Seater BUDGET Pro Home Stereo
Bluetooth Speaker
bench
`34,999 `50,000 `45,000
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AMERICAN WOMEN AGED 18 TO 94, BY DR DEBBY HERBENICK, PROFESSOR OF APPLIED SCIENCE AT INDIANA UNIVERSITY.
SOURCE: WOMEN'S EXPERIENCES WITH GENITAL TOUCHING, SEXUAL PLEASURE, AND ORGASM, A SURVEY OF 1,055
WHAT MAKES
WOMEN ORGASM?
33.6% 30.6% 5% 18.4% 12.4%
of women prefer side- prefer feel vaginal of women
PHOTOGRAPH: 123RF
PLEASURE, DENIED!
You may resort to erotica to spice things up between the sheets, but the concept
of orgasm denial is far more exciting than chains, whips, blindfolds, and 50 shades
of kink, says Charlene Flanagan
I
was on the brink of continued. The whole this form of play, orgasm
orgasm!” she exclaimed,
almost flushed when
experience sounded
exhilarating and it was
EROTIC SEXUAL denial, isn’t limited to Bondage
and Sadomasochism (BDSM)
reliving events from the difficult to wait for the story
DENIAL—SEXUAL alone. So what exactly is
night before. “Everything to reach its inevitable climax. PRACTICE OR SEX orgasm denial? The technical
about it was incredible. We “You would think he’d let me PLAYINWHICH term states that it is erotic
met, grabbed a few drinks, peak,” she went on, “but he APERSON IS KEPT sexual denial—sexual practice
there was undeniable repeatedly took me to the INAHEIGHTENED or sex play in which a person
chemistry, so we took things edge, and stopped just is kept in a heightened state
back to his place.” The before I could orgasm. By the
STATE OFAROUSAL of arousal for an extended
conversation between end of it, I begged him to let
FOR AN EXTENDED period of time, without
girlfriends was getting juicy. me finish!” PERIOD OF reaching climax. Simply put,
“I loved that he wanted to get Sounds like something TIME,WITHOUT it’s the practice of prolonged
kinky. He tied me up and straight out of one of the REACHING CLIMAX. teasing and stimulating to
blindfolded me; I had no idea 50 Shades books, but a quick ensure the big O turns into
what to expect,” she Google search reveals that an “oh wow!”
Priti Kedar*, 36, media say…good things come to usual; it has a direct effect of gratification, eventually.
professional, says, “I came to those who wait. on the desire to enjoy the Jessica D’Cunha*, a 24-year-
know about it during stages of arousal before old banking professional
a discussion with friends. Pause and play orgasm, and the want to from Mumbai believes that
The next time my ex and While there’s an undeniable make orgasms more intense. role play has led to some of
I were fooling around, I told kink factor attached to Dr Nagpal elaborates, “It can her most satisfying sexual
him of it, and he was on delayed gratification, it pays have multiple benefits for experiences. “I enjoy
board. It was tough in that to know how this sexual play both partners. Several young dressing up and acting out
moment, since I craved for can help improve your overall men experience anxiety certain scenarios where my
a release after almost intimate experience. For around ejaculatory timing; partner is always in control
peaking, but I wanted to try starters, it allows couples to they tend to last for an of my arousal and pleasure.
it. We let a few minutes pass engage in power play and live average of five minutes. He gets a thrill from making
before he started stimulating out a certain fantasy or Using the orgasm denial me plead, and when he
me again, and I finally fetish; it enables couples to technique can help them ultimately commands me to
reached orgasm. It was enjoy sex for longer than gain control of their climax, it is big and intense,”
heightened in a way I can't ejaculation, and in turn, help she says. “I considered this
really explain.” satisfy their partners better.” merely role play, but it’s nice
Dr Mehak Nagpal, a Delhi- Here are some ways you to know there’s more to it.”
based sexologist, elucidates. WHEN YOU TAKE can use the orgasm denial Going solo: Sometimes,
“When you take stimulation STIMULATION TO technique to take your sex- exploring your body and
to the edge and back, it gives THE EDGE AND capades to whole new indulging in some self-
your whole body time to BACK, IT GIVES heights of pleasure: pleasure is a great way to
become fully aroused, and
YOUR WHOLE Role play: In this know exactly what you’re
the focus is then on the scenario, you and your looking for in a sexual
sensations and pleasure you
BODY TIME TO partner can take on the roles partner. In fact, the longer
are able to experience, rather
BECOME FULLY of master and slave, leaving you go without release, the
than on the orgasm. By the AROUSED. the control of one’s orgasm more intense the experience.
time you finally climax, it can entirely upon the other. This Says Kedar, “Post my
be quite intense.” It is as they is power play with a whole lot breakup, I didn’t want to lose
out on the intensity of this
type of orgasm so I do,
Orgasm denial can help
control release, and make on occasion, resort to this
orgasms more intense while masturbating. The
process and timing are not
too different from sex with
a partner. Usually, I stimulate
my clitoris with my fingers,
and just when I know I will
orgasm, I pull away and
wait a while. Eventually,
I finish myself off with
a vibrator. The orgasm has
always been powerful.”
Over the edge: Edging is
the act of building a person’s
pleasure by curbing arousal
just before climax, and
waiting a few minutes before
resuming stimulation. This
can be done for as little or as
long as a couple decides.
Orgasm denial, on the other
hand, while often mistaken
ALL ABOUT YOU passion
close only to be teased some used. This may also lead to set a time limit, certain essential for a healthy and
more, and then finally being the person developing playful conditions, and use vibrant sex life. With the
allowed to let go. However, a subconscious resentment a code word when it gets too right partner, or toy, the
as potentially exciting as this for the activity.” much to handle. Dr Nagpal end result will be nothing
may be, a prolonged state However, there is a way explains, “Indulge in self- short of explosive.
ALL ABOUT YOU love
YOU’VE BEEN
WARNED!
Watch out for these tell-tale signs on your first date to save yourself
from the hassle of nursing a broken heart. Says Anindita Ghosh
W
ouldn’t it be wonderful
if you could predict
within the few
first dates if your
relationship is going to be for keeps?
While the equation between partners
is dynamic and changes over time,
experts say that one can figure out
during the first few meetings whether
there is a future.
“I encourage people looking
for romance to think more with
their heads than their hearts. It’s
advisable to make a list of what you
expect from your date. Only when
you have a blueprint, will you
know what to look for,” says
Aparna Samuel Balasundaram,
a psychotherapist, life coach,
and author.
Regardless of whether you’ve
got a guy’s must-have qualities all
chalked out or are still bumbling from
relationship to relationship looking
for the ‘one’, watching out for these
red flags will help you stay away from
unsavoury characters and save you
from heartbreak later.
IF HE SPENDS opinions, belittling your achievements,
talking over you, being rude to the staff
HE’S MOST OF THE TIME at the restaurant, says a lot about his
DISRESPECTFUL
TALKING ABOUT character. According to Dr Seth, “If
he does not give you his full attention
If a man disrespects you on the first HIMSELF THAN TRYING on the first date, then his priorities are
date, there’s little chance that he’s going
to treat you well when you are together.
TO GET TO KNOW YOU, elsewhere. If he spends most of the
time talking about himself than trying
“You can look past things like splitting THEN HE IS CLEARLY to get to know you, then he is
the bill, age gap, political differences,
or a lack of shared interests. However,
A NARCISSIST a narcissist. Also, pay attention to how
he handles himself when something
if a man doesn’t stick to his word, has goes wrong. If he is eager to blame
questionable morals and situational Dr Amoolya Seth, consultant someone else, then there’s a good
ethics, then you would do well to steer psychiatrist, Columbia Asia Hospital. chance that you will end up being the
clear of a second date,” advises Actions like disregarding your scapegoat in the relationship,” he adds.
ALL ABOUT YOU love
PAYS NO HEED
TO YOUR SAFETY
Dr Seth says that if the guy you are
with disregards your safety on the first
date, then he’s clearly not aware of his
responsibilities, and does not inspire
trust and safety. In such cases, you
need to end it right there, if possible.
It doesn’t get clearer than this!
“I met Rahul through a dating app
and he seemed like a nice guy. However,
on the first date, he shocked me by
suggesting that I take an Uber back
home alone, at 1 am! I was appalled
at his disregard for my safety.
I, immediately, called a friend to bail
me out and told Rahul in no uncertain
terms that this was the last time
that we would be meeting,” says
Delhi-based brand executive
Sanchita Sinha, 26.
HAS ANGER
ISSUES
Notice his behaviour
If you suspect from his behaviour that on the first date
the guy has anger management issues,
it may be wise to not pursue it at all. WATCH OUT FOR THESE DISPLAYS TOXIC
MASCULINITY
SIGNS AS THEY
Experts believe, such people tend to
be violent and abusive, and it won’t be
long before it is directed at you. “Does
he grit his teeth while talking to people
MAY HINT AT It is a fact that a sizeable population
of Indian men suffer from a deep-
when angry? Does he have road rage? A POSSIBILITY OF seated patriarchal mindset that rears
Does he swear a lot when upset? Is he FUTURE VIOLENCE its head at the slightest provocation.
usually looking to pick a fight?” asks Right from mansplaining to trying to
Balasundaram. Watch out for these have the last word in a conversation,
signs as they may hint at a possibility a few drinks, however, he suddenly while constantly interrupting your
of future violence. Passive aggressive started coming on too strong. First, I was chain of thought indicates a sense of
threats are warning signs as well. put off when he tried to forcibly kiss me entitlement and male privilege.
on the dance floor, but the final And while you may be taken in by
DOESN’T straw came when he tried to grope the fake feminism and the ‘protective’
CARE FOR YOUR me between my legs. I managed to concern at first, it won’t be long
CONSENT push him away and went home,” before his toxic masculinity gets to
she narrates. you. “If he orders drinks or dinner
Dealing with a guy’s unwelcome Dr Rachna Khanna Singh, Head without asking your preferences, it
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advances can be a struggle but what of Department, Holistic Medicine & means he’s assuming he knows what’s
is more worrying is the complete Psychology Artemis Hospital, Gurgaon, good for you. In some cases, it can be
disregard for your consent. says, “Nowadays, it’s not uncommon to overenthusiasm, but most of the times,
When Riddhi Seth*, 29, marketing find couples having sex on the first date, it’s plain garden-variety sexism. Also, if
professional met Ranjai* on a popular and it’s okay when it is consensual. he uses derogatory language for an ex,
dating app, they hit it off rather well. If a guy coerces you to cave in to it reflects his feelings about women in
“He was an attractive guy and I was having sex against your wishes, walk general, and that’s a definite red flag,”
excited to meet him. However, after away immediately.” warns Dr Seth.
ALL ABOUT YOU life
I
f you’ve ever watched b) My spontaneity. Now you see I was going to prep for this big are important.
a movie and felt like me, now you don’t. meeting from home anyway. b) You only regret the chances
parts of your life c) I’m goal-oriented. I know you don’t take.
flashed before your what I want, and I won't budge. . What is your take on c) You don’t always have to fit
eyes, you know what it’s love and romance? into someone’s idea of perfect.
like to find the soul sister . You just found out you a) I’m a hopeless romantic.
you never had in a fictional have to work the weekend. b) Learn to love yourself first, . A big project that you were
character. Take this quiz You…? everything else will follow. working on just fell apart. What
to find out who your a) Convince my boss that c) If it’s meant to be, love will do you do?
Bollywood twin is. I need to leave as my pet is sick. find a way. a) Wallow in self-pity for a while
Or is that what I said last time? before picking myself up.
. What would you say is b) Just don’t show up. My . Pick your ideal b) Move on to the next task.
your best quality? weekends are mine, come vacation spot. No rest for the wicked!
a) My confidence. I could sell what may. a) It hardly matters, as long c) I already have a Plan B, C,
water to a drowning man. c) Get some extra work done. as I’m with the right people. and D in place.
fun, lovable, optimistic, and you’re Laila! You’re a true-blue introverted achiever who felt to anyone, anywhere, anytime.
will do anything to cheer the adventure-junkie who is the need for release is basically b) Once I find something
people around you up. Once in constantly high on life. Your your life. You’re loyal and know in common with someone,
a while, take off your rose- ability to live in the moment is the right thing to do and say.
we’re golden.
tinted glasses and see people admirable, but it doesn’t hurt But have a little fun by dialling
for what they are. to lay out a plan ever so often. up the crazy from time to time. c) That’s a toughie. It takes me
a while to open up to people.
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Selfie
queen
Anything but
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Vacations make for the best photo-ops,
and globetrotter Priyanka Chopra sure
Anuja Premika takes notes
knows how to make the most of them.
Case in point, PC puts these poolside
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GO GREEN
With an aim to combine design with
conscious living, the label Refash
is collaborating with brands and events
that promote upcycling. With labels
such as I was a Sari, Inai, and We are
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offers upcycled garments, jewellery,
CELEBRATION
TIME
Contemplating what to wear this festive season?
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BEDAZZLED
Pick an A-line skirt and team it with
a cape for an out-of-the-ordinary look
this festive season.
DANCING DIVA
Swap your typical choli for
a dress, and when the time
is right, ditch the lehenga
to dance the night away without
compromising on comfort.
COLOUR POP
Opt for a colourful piece and
accessorise it with a belt bag
for extra oomph.
DESI GRUNGE
Tired of styling your lehenga
in the usual manner?
Throw on a classic
leather jacket to break
the monotony.
FLOUNCE CRAFT
Team up your choli with
a pair of high-waisted jeans
and a ruffled shrug to bring out
the statement maker in you.
BOHEMIAN
BABE
Feeling the boho vibe?
A chiffon lehenga with boots
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is just what you need.
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Lakmé 9to5
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Foundation
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Clinque
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Dab some blush on the apples,
Waterproof
Mascara moving towards the temples.
The look Use a highlighter to accentuate
FLORAL
FLAIR EXFOLIATE
YOUR LIPS
Wear it to WITH A SCRUB
A BRUNCH FOR A PLUMP-
LOOKING
POUT.
your cheekbones, bridge
Lemonade Craze Eye fervour. With bright bold eyes to amp up the drama. Highlight
Shadow Palette
PixiGlow and a natural flush, it reflects the the inner corners with a metallic
Cake happy, playful, and warm vibe yellow hue. Blend with the
of autumn. help of a brush. Finish with
lengthening mascara.
GET THE LOOK
WAVE Jacqueline
Fernandez
RAVE
This dazzling, almost retro
(but not quite!) take on soft waves
brings fun and festivities in unison,
says Shruti Shukla
Check out the trendiest way to wear
polished waves for the celebrations that
lay ahead. Exuberant, albeit graceful,
this hairstyle revamps the ’60s charm
of a side part with romantic waves,
perfected with a puff. Jacqueline
Fernandez raises the quirk quotient by
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EIMI Shine
Indulge in a hair wrap for intense
Stay Essential System
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a shower cap, and help the nourishing oils Oil Reconstructive
spread evenly across your hair by way of ElixirHair
Conditioner
kneading, leaving it on for 15 to 20 minutes.
Let your hair dry fully before you move onto ikoo Infusions
the next step. Thermal
Treatment
Spritz a heat-protectant spray to the Hair Wrap
lengths. Opt for a large-barrel curling iron to
create loose curls. Apply a high-shine serum
for a glossy finish and run your fingers
through your hair for an effortless wavy
texture. Turn up the drama with a deep side
part for an extra voluminous sweep. Separate
a section at the
top of your head
and comb it to get USE A SHINY
rid of any knots. HAIR SLIDE TO
Leave a chunky
strand at the
ACCESSORISE
front. Roll the YOUR The Dyson
Airwrap
latter half of the LUSTROUS Styler
front section to MANE.
get a grip, then
push it slightly so
it puffs up; secure with pins to keep it intact.
Now take the loose hair at the front and twist
Kiehl's Olive
it upwards into a wave, and secure the look
Fruit Oil
with a bobby pin. Set the style with Nourishing
a texturising hairspray. Shampoo
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BEAUTY mandate
Ombré lip colours are The most significant Excessive stress and
a mix of two or more effect is premature an inadequate intake of
shades that complement ageing. You need an essential vitamins, minerals,
each other giving lipstick antioxidants-rich diet and other nutrients can
application a new to help scavenge free cause premature greying.
dimension. Stick to matte radicals. Establish Moreover, premature
shades; red and orange, a good skin care regime. greying is a hereditary
red and fuschia, or red Use sunscreen followed condition, which means,
and maroon will work by a serum containing if your parents greyed
well for your complexion. peptides, ferulic acid, early, it’s likely you will too.
Warm tones (over cool vitamin C, vitamin E, and Meditate, exercise, and
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LUXE
A glamorous lifestyle replete with exotic food and
travel destinations, flaunting designer fashion labels,
and zipping around in luxury cars, is what many
desire. So, why should one stop at just that? The beauty
industry, too, has taken on luxe ingredients sourced from
far-flung corners of the world, which are not only ritzy but
also offer miraculous benefits. Those with a penchant for
grandeur will love the idea of beauty regimes infused with
precious metals, rare minerals, and gourmet elements.
FACTOR
Discover the world’s most extravagant beauty ingredients for gorgeous skin and hair, says Eden Noronha
I t's popularly worn
as jewellery, but if
GOLD Cleopatra's beauty is
anything to go by, this
LEAF precious metal also
makes for a valuable
skincare ingredient.
History states that the Egyptian beauty used
gold in her nocturnal ritual for radiant skin.
The uses of gold in medicine and skincare
can be traced back to ancient Egyptian,
Roman, and Chinese alchemy. Today, gold
leaf is used in many facials and in cosmetics.
So, lend your skin the Midas touch by adding
this luxe ingredient to your beauty regime.
BENEFITS
Reduces signs of ageing
Selenium, potassium, and omega-3 and
omega-6 fatty acids, make caviar an amazing
anti-ageing skincare ingredient. It is known to
boost collagen production, blur fine lines, and
protect against UVA and UVB rays.
DIY NOURISHING
HAIR MASK
What you need:
z Organic coconut oil (2 tablespoons)
z Honey (2 tablespoons)
z Caviar (1 ounce)
Method:
z Melt two tablespoons of organic coconut
oil in a bowl.
z Add two tablespoons of honey and mix well.
z Crush one ounce of caviar and add it to this
mixture. Stir well.
Directions:
A sumptuous
delicacy CAVIAR Apply this mixture to the scalp and hair
associated with the
POSSESSES GREAT lengths immediately after shampooing and
CAVIAR rich and famous,
caviar is made by NUTRITIONAL
drying your hair. Let the mask sit for 30
minutes. Rinse with cold water to reveal shiny
preserving eggs of
the sturgeon fish in VALUE AND IS and moisturised tresses.
Minimises pores
Ideal for all skin types, saffron has toning
properties and reduces pore size, without
drying the skin and causing an imbalance.
THE QUALITY OF
SAFFRON IS MEASURED
BY ITS COLOUR;
THE DARKER THE RED, THE
HIGHER THE VALUE.
BEAUTY blast
Calms troubled
skin
Pearl powder
features powerful
anti-inflammatory
and brightening
properties. It
can effectively
treat pimples, cysts,
boils, acne, and eliminate
blemishes, dark spots, and scars
with regular use. It also slows down the
ageing process and protects the skin from
free radicals.
T he lustrous
beads are more
PEARL POWDER The finely milled pearl powder is grainy
enough to gently exfoliate the skin without
PEARL than just pretty FEATURES causing redness. It can easily replace
POWERFUL ANTI-
little jewellery microdermabrasion treatments and creams
POWDER components. When that are slightly harsh on the skin.
finely milled to attain
a powder consistency,
INFLAMMATORY DIY REVIVING FACE MASK
these pearls make for an invaluable ingredient AND BRIGHTENING What you need:
that can take your beauty game to the next
level. For centuries, pearl powder has been PROPERTIES. z Argan oil (2 teaspoons)
z Pearl powder (1 ½ teaspoon)
used in Chinese and Ayurvedic medicine as it z Mixing bowl
contains over 30 traces of minerals, calcium,
copper, iron, magnesium, amino acids, Method:
selenium, and silica, all of which are beneficial z Pour two teaspoons of
for the mind, immune system, hormones, and argan oil into a small mixing bowl.
skin. While this powder can be ingested for z Add one-and-a-half teaspoons of pearl
your overall health, take a look at why it is powder to the bowl.
great for topical skincare usage. z Mix both ingredients well to form a paste.
BENEFITS Directions:
Plumps up the skin Apply this paste to your face and let it sit for
Apart from its rich nutritional about 20 minutes. Rinse with warm water.
value, pearl also contains This mask will instantly revitalise dry and dull
a unique protein, conchiolin, skin eaving it with a glow.
Born to lead
Doctor-sarpanch Shahnaaz Khan believes in leading by example. She talks to Nikita Sawant
about how she’s bringing about change in education and sanitation in a tiny village of Rajasthan
I
t was her drive to
help people that
made Shahnaaz Khan
study hard to become
a doctor. Since receiving
her MBBS degree from
Teerthanker Mahavir
University, Moradabad,
Khan has been interning
at the Civil Hospital in
Gurgaon. But she didn’t
stop at that. She went on to
also become the youngest,
most educated sarpanch
of Garhazan village in
the Bharatpur district
of Rajasthan. “The residents of my village had my evenings are free for
Before becoming
a sarpanch, her life
'32æ()2')-21=-()303+=%2(*%-8, any managerial problems
as sarpanch.” Khan spends
included a lot of buckling that I would execute my ideas.” her weekends in her village,
down and studying for says Khan of being elected are illiteracy and poverty. and the rest of the week in
the exams she had to as sarpanch. It is common for children, Gurgaon for her internship.
take for medical school. One of the first actions especially girls, to only be She is, however, always
When the opportunity to Khan took as sarpanch educated till class 8 or 10. on call, whether it’s an
enter politics and do good was to ensure the proper Khan elaborates, “I hope emergency at the hospital
for her hometown came administration of hygiene to be an example that they or an urgent matter in
knocking, she decided to within her jurisdiction. For can follow. The fight for her jurisdiction.
give it a go. While politics this, she sought permission empowerment is long and Being a sarpanch has
runs in the family, with her from the government to arduous, but it’s a fight been a learning experience
mother, father, and both construct toilets in every I am extremely passionate for Khan. The people who
her grandfathers being house. “Sanitation is about.” As far as poverty earlier opposed her have
prominent political figures essential, and although it is concerned, Khan has come around, because they
in Garhazan, she held her may seem basic to many, it helped create hundreds have realised that when she
own. “Surprisingly, has made a big difference of jobs throughout her says she cares, she means
I had a lot of support. in the quality of life of the jurisdiction in construction. it. “I plan to continue the
The residents of my village people in my village. Also, The Gurgaon-based work I have been doing,
had confidence in my as a doctor, I focussed doctor has, so far, managed both as a sarpanch and
ideology and faith that on health issues. I set up to balance both her worlds a doctor. Earlier, it was
I would execute my ideas. various health camps which without tipping the scales difficult to adjust, but I like
That being said, I also people could visit to avail on either side. She says, to think I hit the ground
faced those who believed good healthcare for free,” “A regular day in my life running, and have focussed
I was too inexperienced for says the 24-year-old. revolves around me going on important issues. It has
the job; some even believed Among other issues to my internship at the been extremely rewarding,”
that I didn’t care enough,” plaguing Khan’s jurisdiction Civil Hospital, after which she concludes with a smile.
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You play perfect father to Hrehaan and struggle, as well as in your joy. Plus, I was inspired
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a d
unf z CLARITY OF THOUGHT IS PROBABLY THE
FIRST QUALITY THAT STRIKES YOU ABOUT
VAANI KAPOOR. SHE TAKES US THROUGH
HER JOURNEY IN FILMS, AND HER LIFE
BEHIND THE CAMERA
good things come to those who wait. Destiny had its plans. Even as a kid when
ni Kapoor, this seems to be working, I would think about career options, nothing
ut steadily. The actor, who made her apart from acting would click me. I was
od debut with Shuddh Desi Romance, fortunate enough to meet Shanoo Sharma
n went on to feature in Befikre, is (casting director, Yash Raj Films), get a chance
up for War alongside Hrithik Roshan to audition, and eventually be associated with
er Shroff. Despite featuring in a limited the production house.
of films, she knows the path she wants
, and admirably, isn’t perturbed by the Did you sense hostility when you first
fast-paced nature of the movie business. came to the glamour industry or were
you accepted with open arms?
In an interview you had said that you I am still trying to make it on my own, to get
grew up in a farmhouse. Tell us about good projects, and that’s all that I expect from the
the time. industry. It will be amazing if I find some friends
My father ran an NGO, a lush,green space along the way, but I am not looking for a family.
across acres of land in New Delhi’s Gujranwala
Town. My sister and I grew up with a host of Fans have only seen you in Shuddh
animals such as dogs, cats, monkeys, rabbits Desi Romance and Befikre in the six
and ducks. Till about 14 years, that was our life. years that you have been part of
Whenever friends came home, we offered them Bollywood. Why?
a mini zoo tour (laughs). It’s not that I don’t want to be part of a number
of films, but I cannot compromise on quality.
Why did a girl who loved her life back If a project doesn’t excite me, I wouldn’t sign
home turn to Mumbai? it for the heck of it.
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to decide who you are, you know yourself better.
The festive season is in full swing. What’s
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From the current lot, whose career graph your idea of a celebration?
do you admire? I celebrate with family and friends. My parents are
Ranbir Kapoor, Ranveer Singh, Varun Dhawan and enthusiastic when it comes to festivals, and ensure
Ayushmann Khurrana. I give festivities as much importance today as I did
when I was a kid. There are times when we can’t
What is Vaani Kapoor like off screen? be together, but we make sure we are in touch,
I am chilled out (laughs). I like watching Netflix, and promptly wish each other.
and eating good food. I have a few close friends,
and we connect every day on the phone. I also Do you go all out with the celebrations or
spend time with my cats. I lead keep it simple?
a normal life. Sometimes we feel like going all out, dressing up,
and celebrating with a lot of people. But,
What should we expect from your on some occasions, it’s just me, my parents,
character in War? and cousins.
I can confidently say that I have a great part. You
will see a different side of my personality; Have things changed ever since you
I loved playing it. became an actor?
Nothing has changed. I look forward to festivals;
From the trailer of War, it’s evident that it’s a sense of happiness all around, and they uplift
you worked hard on your body. Were you your mood.
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WHEELS
of
HOPE A para-athlete, an entrepreneur,
and an advocate for disability,
Devika Malik is the young leader the nation
deserves, finds Charlene Flanagan
T
wenty-eight-year-old Devika Malik encouraged her to start Wheeling Happiness
has always worked hard for what Foundation in 2014—an organisation that
she wanted, no matter if the odds advocates for better access to opportunities
were in her favour or not. Born for people living with physical and mental
premature with acute neonatal disabilities. It supports and enables them,
jaundice to paraolympian Padma Shri Deepa provides access to sports equipment, and helps
Malik and Kargil veteran Colonel Bikram Singh, them overcome other challenges, including
Malik’s development was slower than normal. emotional, social, and financial problems. “Most
Tragedy struck yet again when, as a toddler who people tend to assume someone isn’t capable
had only just begun walking, she wandered into of accomplishing certain tasks because of their
the street and was hit by a motorcycle, owing to physical or mental dispositions. A change in
which she grew up with the left side of her body society’s outlook, mindset, and attitude towards
paralysed—hemiplegia. persons with disabilities is imperative,” she says.
“As a child who was differently-abled, The biggest campaign Malik and the
I was constantly mocked and ridiculed in foundation has put into motion is their
school. I remember crying to my mother collaboration with the government, housing
about it and she would pacify me, saying that societies, and other private facilities to make
she could come to my school and speak to roads and spaces inclusive and accessible for
my teachers and classmates. But it wouldn't people with disabilities. In 2016, Rights of
help in the long run since we changed schools Persons with Disabilities Act was ratified and
every two years. Mum explained that my safest replaced the Persons with Disabilities (Equal
option was to explain my medical condition to Opportunities, Protection of Rights and Full
my classmates.” Participation) Act of 1995, to reflect the Indian
As Malik grew, so did her confidence. contextual realities of disability, as well as
Over time, she realised that laughing with the the United Nations Convention on Rights of
perpetrators ensured smooth sailing. “When Persons with Disabilities. “What we need now
I fell, instead of being conscious, I would laugh is successful implementation. I believe it should
it off. Hemiplegia affects the nervous system so first start at an individual level—in our homes.
I struggled to keeping pace with the class. I just Make sure you are willing to extend help when
accepted these challenges and moved forward.” required, after all, we’re no different than the
Malik’s experiences while growing up rest of you, just differently-abled,” she signs off.
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CROONING GLORY
New kid on the block, Dhvani
Bhanushali, is a storehouse of
talent, and has found her feet
as a singer with some power-
packed performances to her
credit, finds Aishwarya Sati
A
t 21, Dhvani Bhanushali
has already carved
a niche for herself
in the music industry.
She shot to fame last
year with Dilbar from
Satyameva Jayate. The track became the
first Hindi song to secure a spot on the
Billboard YouTube Music Charts. This
was followed by solos, Leja Re and Main
Teri Hoon, which went on to become
chartbusters. Incidentally, pursuing
music as a career happened by chance
for her. “I was 17 when I met Himesh
Reshammiya, and performed a couple “I rarely read right during playback. “Since I don’t get
of numbers at his studio. I was always comments on my to see any clips, I have to imagine the
interested in music, but never thought song through the director’s vision, and
I was good enough; he encouraged social media. picture myself in the actor’s situation,”
me to train seriously. I paid heed, People can be she says.
and at 19, got my first break with mean, but you So, which number has been the
Ishtehaar (Welcome to New York). most challenging? “I try to overlook
It was a dream come true to sing
can’t please the difficulty levels of a song, and bank
with Rahat Fateh Ali Khan,” exclaims everybody.” on my instincts before any recording.
the singer. However, Laila from Notebook was the
Bhanushali is currently learning toughest. It’s about a woman declaring
both, Indian and Western classical her love; certain intricacies in the
music, but does not want to limit herself composition took time to perfect,”
to playback and desires to dabble in the she says. Her wishlist includes a
indie music space as well. collaboration with AR Rahman, Salim
While her success story seems rather and Sulaiman Merchant, and singers
smooth, Bhanushali says it’s not been Jonita Gandhi and Arijit Singh.
easy. “If you enjoy working towards your One would assume this millennial
goals, it’s bound to get you somewhere. must be tracking the online space
I took things in my stride, learned religiously; after all, that’s where she
whatever I had to, and am still in the found fame, but Bhanushali chooses not
process of becoming an accomplished to get swayed. “I rarely read comments
singer,” says the artiste. She reveals that on my social media. People can be mean,
her musical influences include Taylor but you can’t please everybody. However,
Swift, Beyonce, Ariana Grande, Shreya constructive criticism is welcome. I just
Ghoshal and Lata Mangeshkar, but she want to focus on my work, and learn and
keeps her ears open to all genres. This, improve to maximise my potential,” she
helps her get the emotions and punches signs off.
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L
atika Nath, who is said to be the
first woman wildlife biologist in
India to work on tigers, says she
lives “multiple lives”. She works
in extreme temperatures and
braves tough terrains across the
globe to work on her wildlife projects. While
she has spent over 25 years working for tiger
conservation, she is also a passionate traveller
and diver, and has been photographing tigers,
leopards, lions, snow leopards, and other
members of the cat family over the past few
years. When she is out in the field, she works for
16 to 18 hours a day, lugging around equipment
weighing close to 30 kg. She says she will soon
be spending time at the North and South Pole,
studying the impact of climate change. Come
June, she will be going to Patagonia, Chile,
where one can walk with pumas on foot and
photograph them. “The only big cat I haven’t
seen so far is the puma,” says Nath, who has
done her DPhil on Tiger Conservation and
Management from the University of Oxford.
Excerpts from a candid chat with ‘The Tiger
Princess’, which is actually the title of
a National Geographic TV documentary on
her life and work:
ALREADY
me leave for Oxford, which was an equal- Why wait for 10 or 15 years? We need special
opportunity place of study and work. Oxford courts that deal with only such cases and can
taught me how to engage in good scientific work HAVE.” fast track justice. We need specially trained
and produce my best. wildlife wing within the government as well.
BEE GOOD!
It might be an overreaction,
but there is a buzz around biologists
talking about colony collapse
disorder. The world’s bee population
is being threatened by pesticides,
climate change, and pathogens,
and, consequently, many food
watchers believe honey is now
an endangered commodity.
If you love honey, the time to use
it, and use it well is now!
Honey Dip
Ingredients
1 cup honey
½ cup peanut butter
½ cup cream cheese,
at room temperature
½ tsp cinnamon powder
Method
Mix all the ingredients
in a medium-sized bowl
until well blended.
Remove to a serving
bowl and chill for a day.
Serve with sweet
biscuits and
cut fruit dippers.
PHOTOGRAPH: VICTORIA SHIBUT/ 123RF
LIVING food
ATASTE
OFTHEHILLS
Bring home a slice of Uttarakhand with these recipes from
Chef Chetan Rana, Executive Chef at The Roseate Ganges, Rishikesh
KUMAONI
BADA
Calo
counrie
445 t:
(per scalories
ervin
g)
SERVES: 2 > PREP TIME: 10 minutes + two hours soaking time > COOKING TIME: 10
0 minutes
i t
1. Soak the split white urad dal for at least two hours. Strain and grind to a rough paste.
2. Add the green chillies, asafoetida, and salt. Shape into badas,
flat with a hole in the centre, like medu vadas.
3. Roll gently in the sesame seeds to coat.
4. Heat the oil in a frying pan over a medium-high flame, and deep fry the badas.
Remove, drain on kitchen paper towels, and serve hot.
Calo
counrie
102 t:
(per scalories
ervin
g)
SERVES: 2 > PREP TIME: 20 minutes
1. Squeeze the grated cucumber to remove the excess water.
Set aside.
2. Grind the mustard seeds into a paste with a mortar and pestle,
add the green chillies and turmeric, and grind again.
3. Add this paste, the cucumber, and salt to the yoghurt.
4. Garnish with the coriander leaves and pomegranate seeds.
5. Chill until ready to serve.
BHATT KI CHURKANI
Calo
counrie
250 t:
(per scalories
ervin
g)
SERVES: 2 > PREP TIME: 20 minutes > COOKING TIME: 45 minutes
1. Heat 5 ml of oil in an iron wok over a medium-high flame. Add the soya beans and roast until brown. Set aside.
2. Bring the water to a boil. Add the coriander, red chilli, and turmeric powders. Add the soya beans and boil till they are cooked through.
3. Heat the remaining oil in a large pan. Add the jakhiya and garlic and fry well.
4. Add the rice flour and mix well.
5. Add the cooked black soya bean and salt, and mix well.
6. Garnish with chopped coriander and fried red chillies and serve.
TIP: FOR MORE FLAVOUR, TEMPER WITH THE MUNSIYARI JAMBO HERB.
LIVING quick bites
Zucchini soup
INGREDIENTS
2 tbsp extra virgin olive oil
2 medium onions, chopped
coarsely
800 g zucchini, cubed
3 cups vegetable stock
3 tbsp cream
Salt and pepper, to taste
METHOD
Heat the oil in a pan over
a medium flame. Add the
onions, and cook for five
minutes until softened.
Add the zucchini, and cook
until it sizzles. Add the stock,
bring to a boil, and simmer
for 10 minutes until
the zucchini is tender.
Blend the soup in small
batches.
Rewarm in the pan, season to
taste, and whisk in the cream.
Chill for an hour before
serving.
COLD COMFORT
As the temperature rises after the rains, this trio of soups will keep you cool
Cherry tomato
soup
INGREDIENTS
5 cups cherry tomatoes
1 tbsp olive oil
½ cup onion, chopped
1 tsp dried oregano
3 tbsp chopped fresh basil
Salt and pepper, to taste
4 cloves garlic, minced
METHOD
Oven roast the cherry
tomatoes for 15 minutes.
Heat the oil in a pan over
a medium flame. Add the
onion, oregano, and salt,
and pepper. Cook for four Watermelon
minutes. Add the garlic,
soup
USED FOR REPRESENTATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY
METHOD
Blend all the ingredients
together.
Chill for two hours and
serve cold.