Native Assignment

By Raefin Hawk (12 Science 1)

1. Social Media Impacts on Relationship

I think that the social media impacts on a relationship are harmful. Although we
all know that social media has made people get in touch with each other for free of
cost and all people are present on social media platform. We can get to know what
people are doing and make new friends through social media. It has given us a lot of
advantage in terms of communication and to help us find new things. Because of all
these the interpersonal relationships have improved through social media.

However, when it comes to an “intimate relationship”, Social media can both

help and hurt real life relationships. People are Tweeting and Instagraming about
relationship status, fights, and so much more. By the ways social media are
sometimes used in the context of intimate relationships.

It seems to me that the lines between public and private have become quite
blurry, sometimes to the point where people are willing to subject their entire
relationships to public scrutiny. Here are the most common problems that wreak
havoc when real-life relationships play out on social media sites:

 Trust. If a trust issue has come up and your relationship is potentially on the
line, both partners should be willing to share text messages, contacts, or any
social media details to provide reassurance but, it should’ve done with
agreements in the first place to prevent any excessing limits of privacy.

 The past. It's flattering when an old flame seeks you out online and sends
notes or pictures. It's tempting to reach out to former partners, especially if
 your life or relationship is in a rut. But this kind of interaction will only
distract, distance and potentially damage your real-life situation. Reminiscing
briefly is pleasant, but that should be as far as it goes.

 Too much information. In the heat of an angry moment, it's tempting to vent
online. But does the world really need to know that your partner is cheating
on you or something that is even more stupid like, your partner is “ghosting”
you and you’re very pissed because of it? Be smart about what you post for
public consumption. Call a friend to unload instead. Disrespecting your
partner in public is never healthy for a relationship.

The power to find, build and maintain a quality intimate relationship lies within
you, the individual. Make your relationship a priority and invest in making it happy
and fulfilling, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day of the year. At the end, you
have to sort it out yourself. It depends upon you, how much you want to implement
the teachings that you are receiving from social media.

2. Does Technology Make People Lazy?

It depends from person to person. Technology only makes a particular thing

easier for us. It has almost no connection to being lazy. The trait of laziness differs
from person to person. Yes, some misinterpreted convenience with laziness, but
that’s quite a different thing.

Its our mind and our thoughts are making us lazy. Suppose you have to turn on
the speaker in your room, and instead of getting up, from a comfortable sitting
position and moving 8 meters, you decide to do this by some app, this is convenient.
That’s smart. But if you have to bring bread from the nearby shop, as asked by your
mother and you don’t do that for some non-sensible reason, and make excuses, that
is laziness.
 According to my personal opinion, my answer is no. It doesn’t make people lazy.
It just has made our lives a bit easier than before, but of course, no human alike so..
it depends from human to human. Every thing has two aspects, a positive and a
negative. Now it depends on you how you are going to use it. If you start misusing
the technology then you are bound to suffer the backlash. But please don't forget
the various benefits you have got from the development in the technology. In
conclusion, we need to learn the proper utilization of the technology we have
without over utilizing it.