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Introduction: In her book ‘Service Etiquette’ Oretha Schwartz observes that ‘good
manners are the rules of the game of life’. Even though to many people good manners
mean proper etiquettes, it is much more than that. Etiquettes may help us gain social
acceptance but they are just a small mechanical aspect of life and it depends a lot upon a
person’s upbringing how he approaches people and treats them with kindness and
compassion. This essay shall focus on etiquettes in United Kingdom. Etiquettes followed
United Kingdom, the very word is enough to evoke images of royalty, pomp, splendor
and a populace that supposedly looks upon the rest of the world with a feeling of
contempt. The United Kingdom consists of England, Wales, Scotland and Northern
Ireland. The country has had a very violent past, after been pillaged by the Romans,
Norse invaders and the Normans there was a period called the Middle Ages. This itself
was a period of constant war with conflict between the English, welsh, Scots and the
Irish. After a lot of political turmoil, the Treaty of the Union was signed in 1707 leading
to some stability. In the 1900s the country was the leader in technical developments and
in 1922 a quarter of the land mass of the world was under British rule. (Great Britain)
In spite of the fact that the country had a violent history, there are many things on the
lighter side worth mentioning. It is one of the most popular tourist destinations in the
world. The most popular fast food in the country is ‘fish and chips and the most popular
drink is Tea, not coffee. UK has benefited from its colonies in many ways. Hundreds of
words have found their way into the English languages from these colonies. Words like
curry, verandah, sepoy, teapoy, bungalow, cheetah etc have come from Indian languages.
(Yule, C and Crooke) According to a recent survey ‘butter chicken’ an Indian dish was
considered by the locals to be one of the most popular dishes. Many words and usages in
the English languages have interesting stories of origin. The word ‘sirloin’ was originated
by James I. he was a guest at the Houghton towers in Lancashire and when a succulent
leg of beef was placed before him he knighted it with his dagger saying’ Arise Sir Loin’
representatives. More respect is given to people who have come up in life the hard way
than fresh graduates even though they might be efficient. Even though team work is
given importance a hierarchy is usually followed. Enough visiting cards must be taken as
Business and operational hours: Britons work an average of 48 hours a week. Working
hours are normally 9 am to 5 pm. But executives stay longer. It is considered better to
finish off work as opposed to taking it home. Lunch hours are from 1 pm to 2 pm.
Government offices work till 5.30 pm. The UK has the lowest number of national
Phone fax and email etiquette: It is very important to complete sentences, and not stop
halfway. People must be addressed by their titles if any. Using first names is considered
normal but it must be done only when person says so. It is the same in any form of
communication. Letters must be addressed formally and first names must be used only
when the sender signs off with his first name in the reply. But usually writers continue to
it is better to arrive five minutes early. It is better to make a phone call and inform if one
is running late. If it is a meeting with just one person, getting late may not be a big issue
but when there are many people involved it will be frowned upon. However for social
Language and the barriers it may cause: the English spoken in the UK differs from what
is spoken in the US. Many words and usages are different. For example, ‘how do you
do?’ is considered a greeting and must be replied with ‘how do you do?’ Asking someone
‘what do you do?’ is considered rude. While communicating Britons do not use many
hand gestures, their modulations in the voice bring out the emphasis. In the UK French
Business dress code: Conservative style and dark colors are favored here. Not much
importance is given to latest trends but there is a lot of emphasis on quality. Civil
servants, accountants and lawyers wear double breasted suits while people belonging to
different occupations like the media or advertising dress more stylishly. Women wear a
suit with trousers. I.T professionals usually wear casuals. There is a casual Friday policy
in many companies but it is not overdone. Certain clubs and restaurants require that
guests wear tie and a dinner jacket. If an invitation says that it is a formal dinner then it is
expected that the guests will come in formal attire. Pin striped suits may be worn but ties
with stripes are not worn. Pens or pencils are not put in jacket pockets; a silk
with a cordial ‘pleased to meet you’. Too much of eye contact must be avoided. Eye
contact is only used to emphasize a point or during a conversation between good friends.
While taking leave it is important to shake every person’s hand. Waving at the entire
Women in business: Even though women have been working for many years in Britain,
equal salaries are not paid. ‘There is currently a 19% pay gap between men and women in
the UK’ (BBC). It is accepted that not many women are in top management because once
they become mothers they find it difficult to contribute to the workplace. According to
the Equal Opportunities commission ‘75% of women worked in the five lowest paid
sectors’
difference. Arguments or opinions of senior members are respected. Britons are men of
very few words and they usually take their own time in making decisions. Company rules
and policies are considered all the time before making decisions. Usually the quietest
person around the table is the one who is the real decision maker. Though they take a lot
of time in taking decisions, once their mind is made up, they can be very frank and to the
point. (Dray)
Gift giving practices: Even though giving gifts as a part of a business meeting is not
usually a norm, a not-so- flashy gift like a paperweight, a pen or a book might be
considered. Sending cards for festive occasions is also appreciated. When visiting a
and fork do not change hands, the fork remains in the left hand and knife in the right.
Soup bowls are not tilted and no sound must be made while eating soup. After finishing
the meal the cutlery must be placed on the plate as a signal to the waiter to clear the
plates.
Standards on self introduction: Britons usually will wait for someone to introduce them.
Especially when meeting someone for the first time they will wait for third party
introduction.
Social customs: Social customs include practices that are accepted as proper public
behavior. Some of these are covering the mouth while yawning, apologizing after
burping, sneezing etc. other customs include respecting women and their privacy, waiting
till everybody around the table has been served. These customs are not exclusive to
Britain; most of these are the same the world over. A reason for this could be the fact that
the British colonized a quarter of the world and the customs they followed have been
Conclusion: Etiquettes may not be essential for human existence, but they have been
present in the fabric of our society for a long time. Following these norms give people a
sense of being civilized and well mannered. Teaching children table manners and proper
etiquettes instill in them the idea that they belong to a society. These are usually the first
rules of the society that they learn. And since the United Kingdom has ruled a large part
Swartz, Oretha D. Service Etiquette. Maryland: United States Naval Institute, 1988.