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Ask Anjali Any first nite advice?
Nitin says:
Hi Anjali, I am posting my question for the Seventh time hoping to get an answer .
. Please .
You are doing a very good job in helping people solve their problem regarding th
eir sexual desires mentally & physically. Going to all those suggestions that yo
u have given I come to conclusion that you must be a Doctor by Profession. Are y
ou??????? (Please clear my doubt).
I am 26 years old, 5 7 tall & 90 Kgs in weight, will be getting married very soon. I
t is arrange marriage where I do not know much about the girl, we hardly have sp
oken to each other. She is 22 years of age & approx. 5 4 tall. Well I have seen lif
e to the extent that marriages (Love OR Arrange Mostly Arrange) are not successf
ul because of Non satisfaction of sexual desire with your partner, which results
in Extra-marital affairs & problems in daily life.
Well my problem is that I have no experience of sex as I am still a VIRGIN, I eve
n do not care whether my partner is or not a virgin. But, how to satisfy & have
a permanent impression that I am a good husband in all aspect of her life on the
first night itself? If I find that she is a virgin than how should I go about it
, because I know that there is a lot of blood & pain if she is a virgin. I also
have not tried in bringing the top skin of my Penis to fall back, I tried pullin
g it back but it is painful, so I know that it will be painful for both of us if
she is a virgin too!!!!! Please advice ..
My friends tell me that licking Clitoris?????? & breasts make the woman feel tha
t she is in cloud no 9. How to go about it?????????? They also tell me about the
G-Spot??????? Tell me something about the G-spot which I don t know exactly where
it is inside women s pussy How can I stimulate it???????????? How can my Penis rea
ch the G-spot area?????????? Is G-spot very arousing??????????
Please, Anjali advice me on this issue ..
Have a Nice day.
Regards,
Nitin
Aunty Anjali says:
Hello Nitin.
Sorry that I have missed over your question, I thank your for your perseverance.
Well I can surely understand your nervousness in getting married to a woman you
hardly know. It can not be so easy.
I think you are worrying about the situation a little bit too much. Relax and re
member that your wife is just as nervous as you are. If she is a virgin or not s
he will be nervous as you in her love making session and it will not go so smoot
h regardless but it will be a great time. Hopefully you two can smile and laugh
and enjoy each other.
With each love making session you will both learn to please and enjoy each other
s bodies better and better.
Now for some first night suggestions.
Don t rush it at all. Take your time with it and spend a long time in foreplay. Yo
u will get a chance to kiss her breasts and lick her pussy. If you lick her clit
oris for sometime she will surely have a orgasm and that will easy the pressure
of how you will perform in actual sex.
I would suggest that you have a quick masturbation session before your first sex
so that you can last longer and not be so excited.
If she is a virgin there may or may not be some blood. Don t make a big deal out o
f it. Make sure to ask her if she is comfortable but don t do it all the time as i
t will ruin the mood.
I think I have covered all the bases. Maybe my readers in similar situation have
something to add.
Most of all have fun and enjoy the night.
Good Luck,

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18 Responses to Ask Anjali Any first nite advice?
1.
fun rao says:
August 21, 2009 at 4:53 pm
There is no compulsion you have to penetrate her on the first night itself .
. Take your time The most important thing is to be comfortable with each other .
2.
A Friend says:
August 21, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Don t worry brother about the thing about ur pennies the skin will get pulled
gradually . so until then be patient, its not a big deal.
And have a great first night. Mostly u wont spend talking :) but try to ta
lk about her romantic feelings like what she likes to do, don t talk dirty on the
first night itself. May be some gurls like dirty talk but its all later.
Try to feel her don t rip her clothes off when u get a chance. If she is com
fortable allowing u to touch her body, take ur time play with her tits for somet
ime with the clothes on. After that try to remove her jewelery and rest of the t
hings and make her comfortable. And u get relaxed.
after these are done . nothing matters u will do it :) Have Fun brother
3.
Who cares? says:
 August 21, 2009 at 10:36 pm
I maynot be giving the right reply as it seems you all are sure the first
night is the fuck night.
Let the firstnight be special. make her feel comfortable with the years to
come as she has the right life partner. Play some soft music, change to comfort
able dress. Then talk about yourself, ask about herself, non adult jokes, make h
er comfortable by laugjter, and no ques on past love affairs etc.
Firstnight is special, she would remember for ages, dont spoil by jump on
her to show how skilled you are. Everything will come on its due course, you nee
d to be youself and think of her position, if you were a bride what would make y
ou feel comfortable.
one difference between man and woman is, man thinks proving sexual advance
ment as heroic, woman love the feeling of being loved, romantic, mental attachme
nt. Dont spoil her first impression by any advancement by force, if she is not c
omfortable with.
4.
Ha-ha-ha says:
August 22, 2009 at 1:11 am
It seems people watch a bit too many bollywood movies here. Otherwise who
the fuck will tell you to talk about stupid things on the first night?
Look, the woman married you because she s mentally & physically prepared to
have sex with you. Don t spoil your image & her imagination by acting all sissy.
Most girls already know what to expect from first night, so don t bother thi
nking if she knows about things . Women pass on such things from a friend to anothe
r or from previous generation to later.
So, as you see my friend she expects to be fucked & that s what you are supp
osed to provide her. Don t spoil her dream & risk your reputation as being all que
er.
Fuck her good & she ll remember it for quite some time & have a story to sha
re with her friends (which makes you look like a Greek-god in their eys as well)
Have a rocking time !
5.
anil says:
August 22, 2009 at 4:55 am
Abey chutia,
Tere biwi, aur gaon se advise lagta hai tere biwi bhi jaldi public hone wal
i hai .
also its could be your first night but could also be its not her first tim
e may be she likes putting chilly in you ass and keep you on all night .
so be prepared .
6.
kumar says:
August 22, 2009 at 9:50 am
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7.
kumar says:
August 22, 2009 at 9:55 am
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8.
Sugeesh says:
August 22, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Nitin dude,
first of all its not compulsory that you penetrate your wife on your first
night. Girls do expect such situations, but I feel let her be comfortable with
you in the first place (both mentally & physically) as its an arranged marriage.
Take things slowly . you don t need to hurry to split her up and lick her clit
oris to bring her to an orgasm and fuck her hard for long ;) to show that how lo
ving and skilled you are on the first night you spend with her.
Just talk for sometime, become comfortable with each other, take her in yo
ur arms, kiss her hand as the hollywood king-queen movies ;) n take things slowl
y. Later the lips, don t force as she will respond in a while, then my dude kiss p
assionately maybe for hours and all will happen in a way.
Its your first night, something to be remembered for the rest of your life
, don t try to make it some xxx extreme hardcore movie. She is your wife and you h
ave a lot of time to try all the positions of kamasutra on the coming days, mont
hs and years. Don t ruin it in a single day.
Best thing is to get on the phone dude and talk to her on a daily basis fr
om now on, get friendly as she would be feel more comfortable with you on your f
irst night and talking wont be a problem. Hope she does have a mobile, else buy
her one ;)
And on the bringing the top skin of my Penis to fall back part , dude try it
out with soap on your bath. You need to clean their foreskin in order to maintai
n proper hygiene and avoid infections. Pulling it back is not just for sex.
Instructions (haha) Gently pull the foreskin back so the head of the penis
is accessible. Use soap and rinse on your daily shower.
Try that from today dude, you won t have much pain with water and soap and t
here wont be any in a couple of days. Just don t force (its your tool), so take yo
u time; you ll get it in your first try on your next shower.. don t worry!
Hope this is big enough explanation. Good luck dude
9.
Wanted says:
August 22, 2009 at 2:06 pm
Hi nitin..
Try masturbating from now it could be easy for you when you get married..
Because your foreskin may adjust..
Better you Understand her feelings move further..
Dont be in a hurry..
10.
Wanted says:
August 22, 2009 at 2:07 pm
Hi nitin..
Try masturbating from now it could be easy for you when you get married..
Because your foreskin may adjust..
Better you Understand her feelings & move further..
So Dont be in a hurry..
 11.
fsdf says:
August 22, 2009 at 2:27 pm
sfs
12.
bullshit says:
August 22, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Hey,
Who said that your wife will be a virgin. Mind it NO GIRLS ARE VIRGIN . In In
dia all girls donated their virginity to their boyfriends. so do not think about
any blood sex. I can bet that you wife must had 2-3 boyfriends (or more) and ha
d very good knowledge on intercourse and first second third nights If you have to
take advice and you are new to sex ask her, she will help you. As you are a vir
gin (== Fool), you should make your wife as your GURU.
I have a better suggestion, as you are going to marry soon, that means you
can not have a girlfriend so soon for practice. You may take some hookers or ca
ll girls and practice with them. There will be no fear and confusion after that
and you will be enjoy sex with your experienced wife.
As you already decided for marriage and to be a Backra, welcome to hell li
fe!
13.
lovelelona says:
August 22, 2009 at 11:44 pm
just enjoy your time, contact on lovelelona@yahoo.co.in
14.
lovely says:
August 24, 2009 at 1:04 pm
best is to ask her, whether she is ready and what are her views whether to
penetrate on the first night or not.
15.
HS says:
August 26, 2009 at 3:32 am
Hi Anjali,
I read your Q? and Anser daily, realy its intresting.
Now I am posting my question for the first time hoping to get an answer .. P
lease .
i m 47 years old and my dick is to small e.g. about 30mm and erection imme
diately i.e. with in 3 to 5 minutes.
Before 3 to 4 years back my erection about 30 to 40 minutes.
my wife and my self enjoy at that time very much.
Now above problem please help me.
Regards
H.K.
16.
Dude says:
August 30, 2009 at 6:56 am
hmm dude . c ek bat bolta hu i am not married but yes i had sex wth my gf n
d still i hve .. . so i wl help u out .
ur penis fore skin dosnt goes back best thing start masturbating ok .. in
1 month u wl c d difference ohk . now u are going to have first time with her thn
 i wld like to say b gentle dont b harsh otherwise she wl thnk he is bhuka of se
x lolz haah . first thng is foreplay kiss on her cheeks lips .. forehead at tht m
oment try to put hands on her back k now kiss on d neck give some love bits .. no
w start kissing on her neck nd upper area of her breast nd cleavage ohk put both
hands on back . now try to kiss on cuts of d boobs nd move ur hands on her stoma
ch nd back .. u wl c tht she is feeling sensitive . now unhook d blouse ohk b slow
nd steady dnt b in hurry now kisss on her boobs some soft bites now remove d cl
othes of her step by step .. nd apne bhi k .. hehee . ab u both r in undergarment
s .. now d main thing tum uske upar ajao .. means uske dono legs ke bich me ajao
tum .. jaise ki missionary postion hota hai . ab jo hai tum kya karna uske vagin
a nd clitrosis wale area pe khud ke penis wale area ko rub karna abhi undergarme
nts mat hatana ohk . nd rub karoge to dekhna dono hi ek dum mood me ajaoge ab boo
bs ko kiss karo jo bhi tumhe acha lage . heeheh ..now u wl c her pantis geting tot
al wet ab tumhe total undress ho jana .chaiya ohk puri body pe uske kiss karo ..
ohk nd phir uske thighs pe kiss karna dheere dheere clits pe kiss karna
do it around 5 mins . phr tum upar ajana phir dekhna she wl touch penis nd
shake it coz unko bhi thoda knowldege hoga na .. now do romance 10 mins ab tum do
no hi ek dum peak time pe ajaoge ab start fingering lickng do it jst dnt shy k nd
jub finger karo do it wth 1 finger dekhna tum jaise jaise andar finger kaaroge
inside me ek ballon type ka wall jaisa feel hoga woh gspot hota hai usko touch k
arne pe woh ek dum arroused hogi phir put ur second finger thn use a condom nd s
lid ur penis inside dheer dheere agar ni gaya to . usko kehna woh upar ajaye . thi
k hai phir dheer dheere chala jayega bus jo bhi karo aram se karna ,,, thts wht
i cn say . love nd sex r b best combination . ny help needed thn coment here k tc .
anjali aunty maine sahi bola ya galat :)
17.
sayang says:
August 31, 2009 at 2:00 am
hello anjali aunti my name is sayang in code word.i am 20yrs guy old i am
staying in my aunti home still 8 years.because my uncle is working in usa 5 yrs
1 time he come back.in the home me & aunty 2 persons only stay i am maintain unc
le office here.aunty very young 21 yrs only.when uncle go usa aunty showing her
sexy figer everynight to do sex with her because she see my cock (12inch) one ti
me i am bathing.when she see my cock put her mouth & suck my cock till 15 minits
.i was very thrill feel & continue the sex with her in bathroom.everyday we cont
inue the sex day&night also.when i do sex with her continue 2-3 hours she not ha
ppy i do kisses her body top to bottom and i do like kamasutra & doggy style als
o.when i enter my cock inside pussy 1 hour i can continue.i kiss her cheak,breas
t,booms,hip,pussy also.when i put my finger in pussy she give me a tight hug and
then she suck my cock until the wight thing coming(inside the cock drop)each ti
me we join the sex nude only we dont want the clothes.every day we join the sex
4-5 times.she is not happy .she satisfy my cock (12inch)when i fuck her she shou
t bigger and then said i want more.i want to continue sex with her when she said
i canot get ur cock how much bigger inside my pussy.i am asking 12inch cock i h
ave this is not enough for women she was trill.pls reply soon
18.
rahul says:
September 16, 2009 at 6:36 am
chudaikhane ke,agar english nh aati to maa kyun chuva rha hai usme
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