How to Compare Two People's Horoscopes

How to Compare Two People's Horoscopes – Part I

It's often difficult for us to know how we truly feelabout the

people around us. The roles we try to make them play for us too easily get in
the way of relating to them as just plain folks. If our parents, spouse, or
children (for example) don't fulfill our expectations and needs, we tend to
condemn them for disappointing us – even though underneath it all we may very
well like them and regard them as good eggs when all is said and done, even
though they may have let us down. On the other hand, it can also happen that we
have superficially cordial and affable relationships with people with whom we
are nonetheless faintly distrustful, or even slightly disgusted.

Astrologically speaking, your true feelings about people are shown

by the cross-aspects which you have with them. For present purposes we will
take into account only conjunctions and oppositions in longitude, and we will
allow an orb of 5 degrees from exactness in measuring these.
For example, Princess Diana's Mercury in 4°Cancer lies within 4°of
Prince Charles' Uranus in 30°Gemini, and within 4°of opposition to his Jupiter
in 30°Sagittarius. Therefore he was a Mercury person to her, and she was both
a Jupiter and a Uranus person to him.
We will not distinguish here between the conjunction and
opposition: the particular combination of planets involved in the contact has
more to do with its basic felicity or infelicity than whether it is a
conjunction or opposition (however Dr. Marc Edmund Jones believed that
oppositions in cross-aspects were more powerful than conjunctions). It must be
noted, however, that certain planets are just naturally ornery and contentious
(particularly Mercury, Mars, Saturn, Uranus, and Pluto), and when two of these
are joined by opposition aspect, the resulting relationship can exhibit
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superficial conflict and trivial bickering as a matter of sport, even though the
combination may be nominally favorable.
Also, there are certain cross-aspects which are powerful sexual
bell-ringers (such as a man's Sun, Mars, or Jupiter contacting a woman's moon or
Venus; the sun-moon and Mars-Venus combinations are particularly Pavlovian.
(note that Ptolemy reverses these significations in Tetrabiblos IV.5, trans. By
F.E. Robbins, Harvard UP 1964 page 399; however I must needs gainsay Ptolemy
here). And there are other contacts – such as Jupiter-Saturn – which favor
relationships such as employer-employee, advisor-client, or doctor-patient (in
this case it really doesn't matter which is Jupiter and which is Saturn; the
point is that Jupiter and Saturn trust one another).
What we are interpreting here is how you feel about the people you
know, not whether you like them or not. For example, you may dislike your boss
because she's impatient, cranky, brusque, and unappreciative. Yet at the same
time you may respect her dedication, industriousness, self-discipline, etc.
Thus although you don't like her, you nonetheless may have good feelings about
her. You may have cast her in the role of your oppressor in this lifetime;
however she still positively reinforces your own assiduous, hard-working side.
What is shown by the analysis of cross-aspects is your feelings
about the people you know (which actually transcend a particular lifetime)
rather than the transient roles – such as parent, spouse, employer, stranger,
lover, tormentor, acquaintance, friend – which they are playing for you in this
lifetime. If what you want is information on how happy or successful your
marriage, for example, will be, then you must look to your natal Venus for
testimony as to success and happiness generally, to your natal 7th house and its
ruler for specific information on marital prospects, and so forth, to determine
how the role-playing features of the relationship will tend to work out.
Analysis of cross-aspects will indicate how you feel about people, but not
necessarily how well they are fulfilling your roles and expectations for you.
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You cannot deduce from the analysis of cross-aspects whether a

relationship will be of major or minor significance in your life. All you can
deduce is what part of your own personality you are mirroring in it. If this
part of your personality is problematical (if the relevant planet is afflicted
in your natal chart), then the relationships which are symbolized by that planet
will have a similarly problematical character.

All that other people can ever do or be for us is mirror our own selves. Our
Mars people, for example, will mirror how we are using our Mars energy. If Mars
is well-aspected and strong by sign and house in the natal chart, then our Mars
energy will flow freely, we will be bold and audacious, and we will tend to
click with our Mars people who egg us on; thus the positive interpretation will
apply. Conversely, if natal Mars is afflicted or weak, then our Mars energy
will be timid and inhibited, and we will tend to find our Mars people
threatening or inhibiting, so that the negative interpretation will be more
obvious. Since what we're talking about here is feelings, the interpretation
must be a matter of feeling as well.
If you want to get more specific than this in the analysis, you must
take into account the type of relationship and the astrological correlates
involved. For example, your mother is usually signified by the moon and the
10th house; and your spouse is signified by Venus (for a man) or Mars (for a
woman) and the 7th house. So even though planets in the charts of both your
mother and spouse contact your natal Saturn (let us say), the characters of the
two relationships may be quite different depending upon the conditions of the
respective significators. If the moon and the 10th are natally afflicted, then
your relationship with your mother will tend to emphasize negative aspects of
her planets which contact your Saturn. Whereas if the moon and 10th are natally
strong, then your mother will be more of a positive Saturn person for you. But
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if your Saturn is natally afflicted, then even your positive Saturn people will
bring up certain problem areas in your personality. And so on.

However, it is true that certain types of relationships are

intrinsically more or less harmonious than others. These are symbolized by the
favorable and unfavorable combinations of planets. The table indicates which
planetary pairs tend to combine favorably (+) and which tend to combine
unfavorably (–). En passant, note that the following table can also be applied
to transiting planets, e.g. Transiting Uranus conjunct natal Mars is
intrinsically favorable, whereas transiting Uranus conjunct natal Venus is
intrinsically unfavorable. This factor influences the extended interpretations
given at the end of this article.

Table of Favorable and Unfavorable Planetary Combinations

SU MO ME VE MA JU SA UR NE
MO +
ME – +
VE – + –
MA + – + +
JU + + – + +
SA – – + – – +
UR + – + – + + +
NE – + – + – + – +
PL + – + – + – – – –

The difference between the favorable and unfavorable combinations is

that the former are easier, more intimate, more validating; whereas the latter
are more reserved, cramped, and non-validating. Every planetary combination
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(like every relationship) has both its positive and its negative
characteristics. However we tend to be more aware of the positive features when
the planetary combination is intrinsically favorable; and we tend to emphasize
the negative features when it is intrinsically unfavorable.

Perhaps the most important cross-aspects, hence the first ones to

look at, are those between natal planets in one chart and lunar nodes in the
other. Right off the top this information indicates whether the relationship is
fundamentally progressive or detrimental: ultimately helpful, or ultimately
debilitating. The nodes, more than the planets, reveal karma from past lives
which impinges upon this one.

North Node (SOOTHING): People who have planets in their natal charts conjunct
your North node will appear to you as if they had those planets conjunct the
North node in their own charts. They will be people who encourage you, accept
you for who you are, and respect your feelings and space. They are the people
you instinctively trust and open up to; they are a true blessing to you. They
are candid, open, and accepting of your feelings. Their presence is like a
breath of fresh air. No matter what else may be going on in the relationship,
they have a genuine liking and respect for you, and they help you to tune into
your most prepossessing and gracious impulses in turn – your charitable,
benefit-of-the-doubt side.

South Node (BRUISING): People who have natal planets conjunct your South
node will appear to you as if they had those planets conjunct the South node in
their own charts. They will tend to be manipulative, exploitative, distant, and
unsympathetic. These relationships are jarring rather than soothing: you can't
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really connect with these people because there's too much suspicion,
defensiveness, or one-upsmanship going on. They tend to use you or to be used
by you. Often there's considerable covert manipulation going on in these
relationships, or else strong feelings which are not being openly expressed.
You must take care with these people, be on your guard, since they arouse in you
dubious impulses. Whether you are strongly attracted to your South Node people
or whether you are thoroughly repelled by them, you'll find they indulge their
self-pity in much the same way that you do. Where your north node people are a
blessing, your south node people bring out the worst in you. There's no way
they'll ever be able to help you or fulfill your expectations.

For example, in Prince Charles' natal horoscope, his North node

conjoins the moon and his South node conjoins Mercury, so (judging just from his
own chart) he is natural, relaxed, comfortable with himself and with other
people; and yet at the same time he is a bit of a know-it-all: astute, yet curt
and autocratic.
In Princess Diana's natal horoscope her North node conjoins Mars and
Uranus, and her South node conjoins the moon, so (judging just from her own
chart) she was bold, decisive and determined; also mentally clear and capable of
penetrating insight. However, at the same time, she was huffy, pouty, and
easily offended.
So much for the natal situation. From the point of view of synastry
(horoscope comparison), Prince Charles' South node falls on Princess Diana's
Neptune, so to him she seemed secretive, suspicious, unrealistic, irresponsible,
and disinclined to talk openly about what she was really feeling. At the same
time, her North node widely (7 degrees) conjoins his Saturn, so to her he seemed
staunch, composed, collected, and responsible. He was better for her than she
was for him.
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By paying close attention to the points where our nodes contact the charts of
other people we can get beneath surface images and expectations, and
understand the true karmic lessons we seek to learn from the people we know.
Once the fundamental karmic situation is understood by considering the nodes,
then the other planets are examined.

Bewitching; How to Compare Two People's Horoscopes – Part II

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Bewitching

Magic is a craft. It's something you learn. Magicians usually do have

supernormal powers. However, these powers are learned. There can be inborn
talent, but it takes a lifetime of practice just to perfect one such power.
This is why the terms "occultism", "secret science", "mysticism", and so forth
are silly. There is nothing secret or hidden going on here. Magic is merely a
matter of paying conscious attention to the things which our society has taught
us to ignore.

Magic is what everyone is doing all the time, beneath the surface of everyday
life. Most people just pretend they aren't doing it; or else they don't
consider what they do to be magic. For example, infatuation is a species of
mutual bewitching. Lovers bewitch one another and themselves. But they
wouldn't consider this magic. They consider it love – at least until the
bewitchment, the infatuation, wears off.

Similarly, people who cannot break free of an abusive relationship are usually
bewitched by their partners. Doctors, and all healers, cure people by
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stimulating and encouraging the people's own faith in getting well. Good
salespeople are adept at bewitching their customers. And so on.

Everyone is manipulating everyone else on a magical level all the time. Any
time people command another's attention, or manipulate their feelings in any
way, they are bewitching them. Thus all art is magic, and great artists are
merely great magicians. Artists are highly intuitive people who can tune into
profound feelings in their art and take other people with them.

Magicians are perhaps a bit more psychic to start with than average people. At
least magicians rely upon and trust in their intuition more than average people
do. To most people, psychic events such as precognition, prophetic dreams,
omens, telepathic communications happen now and then unbidden, but are
beyond control. Such things happen to magicians with somewhat more frequency
because magicians welcome, or intend, such things. Or better said, magicians are
more attentive to such things whereas average people tend to brush past them (or
in many cases, reject what they just experienced because it contradicts their
beliefs about what is "real"). With some experience and practice magicians
learn how to control their psychic abilities.

For example, when faced with a problem, one thing many magicians do is to pray
(intend) upon retiring at night for the solution to their problem to come to
them. With a little practice they find that this works most of the time. They
receive the answer in a dream that night, or else it comes in the next day or
two. And as they see this technique work time and time again, it builds their
faith, and as their faith builds the technique keeps working better and better
for them.

Faith, the emotional content of belief, is the key to making magic work. It can
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move mountains. It is the lever by which we create our own realities. The only
reason our thought form world works is because we put our faith in it. If we
believed in magic with the same certainty that we believe turning a key in an
ignition will start a car, then magic would work as well for us as science and
technology do.

That's what faith is all about. There have been societies on this earth which
were based upon magic, such as the Mayan Indians of Central America. These
societies get magic to work for them as well as materialistic science does for
us, because that's where they put their faith.

The reasons why magic often doesn't work as well as the books, and one's own
spirit guides, for that matter, say that it should, are sundry. Sometimes it
just isn't time yet. "To everything there is a season." All the prayers and
spells in the world won't make Christmas happen before December 25th.
Sometimes our prayers and spells are contingent upon the right astrological
influence occurring.

Other times our prayers and spells don't work right away because we have heavy
karma in the way that has to be cleaned out first. This is often the case when
what we are telling ourselves consciously that we want (love, wealth)
contradicts self-esteem issues left over from our childhoods. Moreover, this
karmic barrier to realizing our desires might stem from previous lifetimes, as
well as this one. In my own case it took twenty years of just putting in the
time and paying my dues between when I first made the decision to follow the
magician's path (after reading Carlos Castaneda's books), and when my spirit
guides appeared in my life, which was my actual entry into the world of magic.
From there it was another fifteen years until I started seeing some real results
from magic working on my own, without spirits backing me up. However, I never
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lost faith, and that's why I have succeeded so far.

The difference between magicians and average people is that magicians

have infinite patience and a willingness to confront any danger and endure any
pain necessary in order to realize their desires. Average people, on the other
hand, always seem to be looking for a free ride or handout in life. Average
people's decisions don't have enough power behind them to accomplish anything
worthwhile because they back down and reverse their decisions the minute the
going gets a little tough. What helped me a lot in my own quest, I see now in
retrospect, was that my situation was truly desperate and miserable. I had
nothing to go back to, so I had no choice but to press forward.

The Spirit always plays little games on our heads to test us in our
resolve. It always makes it as difficult as possible to stand by our
decisions. Things never happen the way we fantasize them or rehearse them.
Average people are ready to throw in the towel and weep in self-pity at every
little disappointment. Magicians know that once a decision has been made,
there's no going back unless the Spirit itself grants release. The basic
principles of magic are to make absolutely irrevocable decisions; and to go to
any extreme necessary to stand by those decisions.

Power is the same thing as luck. True power involves leaving

nothing to chance. Average people, if they believe in magic at all, believe
that magicians control chance. This isn't correct. Magicians, at least white
magicians, don't dominate chance or enforce their own will on the universe.
Rather, they are wholly dominated by it. They give up all personal desires of
their own, cease caring whether they win or lose, or get their own way or not.
In this way magicians become one with chance and merge themselves with it.
Then
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their will becomes unstoppable.

Magicians will to accept the Spirit's will as their own. They give up all their
own images of what they think they desire and let the Spirit's desires for them
prevail. When magicians synchronize their own desires with those of the Spirit,
everything becomes possible for them. The great enemy of magic is doubt.

I happen to have the power to bewitch women to fall in love with me (okay, no
snickering out there, this happens to be true). My spirits taught me how to do
this to show me that magic does indeed work – that it is possible to make
impossible things happen merely by willing it. They also wanted to teach me to
hold my attention fixed upon a single object, moment-to-moment, all day long
every day. They know me pretty well: they knew that the only thing that would
motivate me to put out the effort and discipline needed to do this was the
promise of sex.

I'll save the details of my experiences with bewitching women for my

autobiography, except to say that the last time I tried it, it backfired on me
in such a way that I'll never do it again. Besides, although you can get sex by
bewitching, you can't get love that way, so why bother?

Psychic healing works the same way that bewitching does. The healer visualizes
the patient as being well, and thus overrides the patient's doubt and
self-pity. Any form of ensorcellment involves substituting the magician's will
for the subject's will. This can only take place if the subject is willing,
consciously or unconsciously. That is to say, no one can be bewitched, or
healed, against their will.
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Bewitching is really no different than Creative Visualization. Magicians know

to keep their Creative Visualizations within the realm of reasonable
possibility. Thus they don't try to bewitch famous movie stars to fall in love
with them, or to win the lottery. These sorts of outcomes are too unlikely. In
order to make magic work it is necessary to overcome doubt, and wishing for
something that's way out of one's league, or too improbable, starts off with too
big a doubt debit.

When bewitching for love, for example, magicians start out with someone with
whom they already have desire lines in place. This means someone with whom
they
have already shared feelings; someone they've already looked directly in the eye
and flashed with. That flash doesn't necessarily have to have been one of
love. The flash could have been anger, disgust, humor, or sadness as well as
attraction. It doesn't matter. If, for an instant, two people look in each
other's eyes and some emotion passes between them, then at that moment they
stuck lines in each another. They bewitched one another. If there is any
feeling at all between two people, whether positive or negative, then they can
be bewitched through that feeling.

What passes in brief moments of direct eye contact is very powerful sexual
magic. It is so potent, in fact, that it scares most people. They immediately
get flustered, avert their eyes, and pretend that nothing happened. Even when
the emotion that is being shared is humor or gaiety, there is a polite limit to
how long direct eye contact can be engaged before it becomes threatening, i.e.
sexual. Even if the emotion is anger or disgust, that just means that the
feeling is so sexual that it has to be hidden by its negation.

Sexual feeling is the matrix of all feeling. Sexual feelings are actual lines
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which people shoot into one another, like arrows, whenever they flash on each
other by sharing a feeling. These lines appear to people with psychic vision as
fibers of living light. It's through the light fibers which join people that
they pass emotional information, such as the psychic knowledge that the other
person is hurt, or dead, or having sex with someone else. It's also through
these light fibers that bewitching takes place.*
In short, if two people have ever shared any direct feeling, then there's
already a sexual bond between them. Magicians can use this bond to bewitch, or
to heal. They force energy through that desire line by intense visualization of
their desire coming true. This brings pressure to bear upon the interpersonal
barrier. This barrier is the pretense that there's nothing going on between the
participants.

Sexual desire can exist from previous lifetimes and realities – this is usually
what's behind the phenomenon of love at first sight. If there's an underlying
sexual attraction (which can in fact be read from the natal horoscopes of the
people involved – e.g. the man's sun or Mars conjunct or opposition the woman's
moon or Venus), then there's fertile ground for bewitching even if the two
people have not yet met face-to-face.

On the surface, the magicians act cordially but disinterestedly. They keep a
poker face and they do nothing on their own account. Eventually that pressure
brings about a moment in time when the Spirit itself opens the floodgates and
the other person's defenses evaporate. If and when it's time for an overt move,
it comes on its own in a moment of power.

In everyday society most of the actual sticking of desire lines into other
people is done in the state of dreamless sleep, although the intent is set up in
waking. If you have ever had a dream war with someone, that person was trying
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to stick a line into you, but you successfully fought them off. If you hadn't
successfully fought them off, you wouldn't have had that dream. It would have
remained unconscious, on the level of dreamless sleep.

Magicians, both black and white, sometimes rely upon spirit helpers to cue them
on what to do and when. These messages come across as sudden ideas or
inspirations. But magicians don't act unless prompted.

In other words the magicians' superficial behavior betrays nothing of what they
are actually thinking or feeling. Contrast this with how most people try to
make their desires come true. Most people get caught up in making obvious
moves, polishing their self-presentation, trying to somehow flag other people's,
or God's, attention: "Yoo-hoo! Here I am! Over here!"

This approach will work sometimes, but it's really inept. This is what the
dating game is all about, which is why people find it so boring and
predictable. There's no sport to it. Besides there's no true feeling to it,
much less love. It's all phony.

When magicians bewitch, all their energy is held rigidly in check. Desire is
inflamed by visualization, which is why magic is basically a matter of
bewitching oneself. Magic is hypnotizing oneself into an intense,
single-pointed desire. Magicians first have to bewitch themselves to be madly
in love – they go first. Then they impose that feeling on the subject of their
desire. Better said, they give the subject a powerful option.

No one can be forced to do anything against his or her own will by magic. It's
quite possible for the person being bewitched to block the ensorcellment by
detaching his or her light fibers from the magician. This is felt as closing up
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to them emotionally. What magicians, particularly black magicians, count on is

that most people's wills are so weak and confused.

Magicians may use some object symbolic of their desire and pour all of their
attention on it. They imagine the face of the person in it and talk with it and
make love with it and cuddle with it at night. For example, in the movie Bell,
Book and Candle, Kim Novak bewitched Jimmy Stewart with a cat. In the book
The
Witch's Dream by Florinda Donner, the protagonist bewitched his love with a
devil's mask. The symbolic object can be charged like a charm.

Thus bewitching is like normal daydreaming or fantasizing, carried to an extreme

(visualized in the here-and-now rather than projected to a future which will
never come). When bewitching for love, the magician visualizes him or herself
in the physical presence of the beloved – holding hands, kissing and caressing,
having fun together – as if the person were actually there. In bewitching you
look the other person (the lover you desire, the boss you want a raise from, the
jerk you want out of your life, whomever) directly in the eye. In normal
daydreaming and fantasizing, by contrast, you're usually not making eye contact
at all. In bewitching the focus is on the other person and how enjoyable it is
to be in their company (or to be rid of them, depending upon what you are
bewitching for). In normal daydreaming the focus is on yourself. Other people
serve only as mute witnesses to your own glory and vindication. This is the
difference between bewitching and fanning the breeze with idle daydreaming.
When you bewitch someone you're right there in front of them
eyeball-to-eyeball. You let them do the talking and make the moves. In
daydreaming they're fawning over you while you carry on a monologue.

This is another difference between Creative Visualization, what magicians do,

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and fantasizing and daydreaming, which average people do. Visualization is a

matter of feeling, of longing, of reaching out for the object of desire.
Daydreaming is a matter of thinking, imaging, distancing oneself from the object
of desire. Daydreaming is actually reaching out towards self-pity, not towards
the realization of one's true desires.

You should not daydream or have romantic or sexual fantasies about someone
whom you are bewitching. They will feel this through the light fibers you have in
them as a sleazy vibe, a sexual expectation, coming from you. They will raise
defenses against it. Creative Visualization, true bewitching, usually doesn't
have a context of sexual or romantic excitation at all. It's too here-and-now,
too spontaneous and unpredictable. It has a light, joyous feeling to it as
compared to the obsessive and directed intensity of most daydreaming.
Daydreams are about control, whereas Creative Visualization is about joy.

When bewitching to get rid of someone, magicians don't visualize bad things
happening to that person. Rather, they visualize themselves happy, relieved,
joyous, now that said person is gone. Psychic healing is done by visualizing
the person as well. The point is that the visualization has to be done as if the
action is unfolding in the here and now, unlike normal daydreams, which take
place in the future. One has to feel all the feelings – joy, relief, health,
whatever – that would be felt if the visualization were actually true. It's
those feelings which are being felt which attract the object of desire; which
make the visualization come true.
My Mayan teachers showed me some techniques for bewitching to overcome. I
really think this whole thing is childish; but since it does it indeed work; and
since it has helped me out a few times (e.g. when I was subjected to a nuisance
lawsuit); I'll pass the information along here. If you can obtain a photograph
of the person you wish to overcome; or a hair or fingernail cutting from the
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person – great. If not, just make a small drawing of the person by hand. Make
a little cross of sticks (my Mayan teachers use jocote – flat pine sticks oozing
sap and used for fire starters). Wind a red thread around the sticks to join
them into a cross. Then place the photo or artifact of the person you wish to
overcome in the center of the cross. Fasten it to the cross by winding the red
thread around it (my teachers said not to pierce the photo, since that would be
definite black magic and result in physical injury to the person being
bewitched. The idea is to overcome the person – not incur bad karma which will
have to be paid in other lifetimes). After performing a "Scat" ritual over the
cross (Choose a Saturn hour for this and follow instructions in the BOS in the
Magic 101 folder
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MagicalAlmanac/files/How%20to%20use%20Magi
cal%20Almanac/),
place the cross in your shoe (I wrap these crosses in duct tape first to keep
them intact); and imagine grinding the person you wish to overcome into the dirt
with every step you take (as Nancy Sinatra crooned). As I said, it's childish;
but it does indeed work.

Conscious awareness is where all links ultimately have to be made. A magician,

however, never makes links through direct intervention, by acting on his or her
own accord. This is how most people blow things or trip themselves up. They
fail by acting on their thought forms, by being impatient and pushy, by being
unwilling or unable to trust in the Spirit to bring them what they want in the
fullness of time.

This shows lack of faith. Only the Spirit can move the wheel of chance.
Therefore the basic principle of magic is patience. Conscious awareness can
only exist if there is also unconscious awareness – something which is being
hidden. The trick of magic is to take in everything so that nothing is any
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longer hidden. Another way of saying this is, we must become aware of our own
prejudices and taken-for-granted assumptions, since it is our own images and
expectations which blind us to the truth.

Everybody already knows intuitively how to make magic work, but they don't do it
much since if they succeeded they'd scare themselves silly. This is another
difference between daydreaming and Creative Visualization. In the former the
person doesn't really want the desire to come true. He or she is just playing
games, fanning the breeze with self-pity. Therefore it usually takes an
intense, overwhelming desire or desperation to activate average people's true
magical powers. Miracles do sometimes happen, when people are 100% clear in
their intent – when they permit their higher self to surface and take command.
Magicians strive to make every moment a miracle.

Creative Visualization, is the same thing as prayer. Everyone intuitively

understands the efficacy of prayer, but most people don't call upon it unless
they're desperate. However, desperation isn't the best motivation for prayer
since people create their own realities. They wouldn't be in that situation in
the first place unless they created it for some reason, to learn some lesson.
If that lesson happens to be learning the power of faith, that prayer does work,
then their prayers will save their butts; but not necessarily otherwise.

The problem with magic as a spiritual path, and bewitching people in particular,
is that it hangs us up in all the same stupid games of winning and losing that
average people play in normal, everyday society. Witchcraft is like capitalism
– it's really pretty slimy and distasteful, but it's the name of the game; so if
our decadent, degenerate society forces us to play such games, then let's at
least play to win. Magicians – like capitalists – aim to be winners; whereas
average people aim to be losers – to wallow in helplessness and self-pity.
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Fundamentally magic is as much a dead-end street for an aspirant on the

spiritual path as is seeking the validation and glory of society. The only
value to magic, which seems baffling at first but which is learned through
experience, by making lots of mistakes, is understanding the difference between
when one is acting on one's own impulse, or when one is truly being prompted to
act by the Spirit. This is the crux of the matter, and the reason why learning
magic is worthwhile.

How to Compare Two People's Horoscopes – Part III

Jupiter people reflect your own generous, disinterested impulses. They hold you
in benevolent regard, so you feel you can relax and take your ease in their
presence. They accept you for yourself, withholding judgments and criticism.
As a result you find it natural to overlook their little foibles and frailties;
to offer them the same broad-minded consideration and avuncular bonhomie they
give to you.
On the other hand, you are inclined to over-indulge them, to play up
to their little idiosyncrasies and vanities, to curry them. Relationships can
become a bit too cozy and superficial. To disagree with them is to lose their
interest – to run up against their stuffy, huffy sides. There's not much
tolerance in these relationships for divergence or conflict: where you
harmonize you can meet, and where you don't the relationship stops right there.
Favorable (sun, moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune): You share
genuinely benevolent feelings of good will with these people: they help you
expand yourself and your horizons. sun radiates self-confidence and calm pride.
You esteem his uncompromising integrity and outfront common sense.

moon elicits your warm, gentle feelings. She soothes you with her calm presence
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and makes you feel at home.

Venus strongly attracts you; she awakens your most refined impulses. You are
charmed by her graciousness and delicacy of feeling.

Mars is boisterous and rough around the edges, but you are captivated by his
drive, his gutsiness, and his cocky faith in himself.

Jupiter is very simpatico. He is most generous with you and he arouses your
most charitable and compassionate instincts.

Saturn feels personal concern for you: he is protective and takes a parental
interest in you. He is a sober, steadying influence.

Unfavorable (Mercury and Pluto): The good feeling is present in these

relationships but not the good communications. There is a sense of running on
different tracks.

Mercury is mental, stiff, inhibited. Albeit quick and perceptive, he seems

trapped in his own rationalizations, too sure of himself to appreciate your
viewpoint.

Saturn people mirror your sense of discretion and discreteness – your need for
private space and solitude. You respect their determination and grit; their
self-sacrifice; and their ability to steel themselves against adversity and to
bear up under life's burdens. Yet relationships with your Saturn people are
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rarely warm. These people are brisk and aloof; they take things (including you)
in their stride. Although they are genuinely interested in you, you can't
expect them to go out of their way for you. They offer you understanding and a
model of forbearance rather than enthusiasm or intimacy.
In some sense they reflect your need for protection and distance.
They openly enact certain features of your own personality which you tend to
repress or inhibit. In other words, you see in them some immovable,
intransigent, pig-headed quality which forces you to erect your own boundary
lines which are not to be crossed. You must be careful that you don't overstep
yourself with them, and you must watch that they don't presume too much of you.

Favorable (Mercury, Jupiter, and Uranus): have a friendly interest in you, of a

"ships that pass in the night" sort. There is a feeling of impersonal good will
and comradeship.

Mercury buttresses your own thinking and helps you to put your feelings into
words.

Jupiter gives you a poignant, heartfelt compassion. You touch them and they
touch you on a deep, unspoken level.

Saturn gets down to brass tacks with little wasted emotion or effort. You admire
his sharp, no-nonsense, businesslike approach to life.

Unfavorable (sun, moon, Venus, Mars, Neptune, and Pluto): These people make
you put on your brakes. Somehow you have to restrain yourself with them, or
draw back into yourself.
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sun preempts your own demand for special consideration. You respect him, but
find him overly magisterial or dominating.

moon is likable but circumstances are such that it's hard to really get together
with her – there are too many obstacles to connecting.

Venus is sweet but overly vulnerable. You tend to hurt her without meaning to;
or else you find her touchy and easily offended.

Mars is too brash and demonstrative for your taste. He mirrors a wilder side of
yourself that you may be repressing.

Uranus people are your role models of rugged individualism and emotional
independence. You admire their unflinching determination, their scorn for
assistance or succor, and their willingness to stand proudly on their own feet
to uphold their principles. They have a quixotic charm and happy-go-lucky
naivete which calls to your own freedom of spirit and heightens your confidence
in your own personal power and effectiveness.

On the other hand, you can also find your Uranus people to be
thorny, supercilious, and irascible. They are petulant and given to tiffs.
They can have an abrasive emotional reclusiveness which rejects even common
politeness and social niceties, which in turn arouses your own cool detachment
and brusqueness.
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Favorable (sun, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and Neptune): You enjoy their
vivaciousness and gameness – their willingness to fly with their impulses.
sun encourages you to try new activities and to strike out in new directions.
He is a ready enthusiast or mentor.

Mercury has bright ideas and a cheerful, optimistic outlook. He woos you with
his pixiesque charm.

Mars is a model for you of resolution and alacrity – willing to stand his ground
and take responsibility for his decisions.

Jupiter takes a benevolent (if detached) view of you and your projects. He
gives you intellectual and moral encouragement.

Saturn is a toughie who challenges you to keep alert and on your toes. You
enjoy his masterful sense of authority.

Unfavorable (moon, Venus, and Pluto): These people are admirably staunch but
also maddeningly independent. You may suspect one another's motives.
moon is rather emotional, private, and overly sensitive. Although you genuinely
like her, you are puzzled by her, and she finds you too brusque or forward.
Venus appeals with her effervescence and freedom of spirit, but you find her
overly delicate; she holds you at arm's length. You can never get down to brass
tacks with her, or get her to commit herself.
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Neptune people mirror your own vulnerability and defenselessness. You regard
these people as being naïve and unsophisticated, trying to live up to high
ideals. They may be a bit eccentric or spaced-out, but they charm you with
their spontaneity and derring-do. They approach you with a ready openness
which calls forth a corresponding openness on your own part. These are the
people whom you want to believe you can trust, since they seem to be laying all
their cards out on the table. You tend to see in them what you want to see in
them.
Actually, these are often the very people whom you are asking to
deceive or disappoint you, since they tend to be the ones you idealize or upon
whom you pin unrealistic hopes and expectations. The precise extent to which
you lack faith in your own motives (distrust yourself) is the extent to which
you'd better keep a close watch on your Neptune people

Favorable (moon, Venus, Jupiter, and Uranus): These people inspire you. You
have an intuitive trust in them and they put you in touch with your open,
innocent side.

moon and Venus offer you a strong sense of emotional bond and kinship – an
understanding which transcends words and disarms your customary reserve.

Jupiter and you share a basic philosophy or outlook on life. He calls forth
your better instincts and benevolence.

Unfavorable (sun, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, and Pluto): You tend to overlook your
own manipulativeness in your dealings with these people, hence you can't quite
trust their motives either.
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sun can be annoyingly distant due to his dominating personality and

presumption.

Mercury has a lot of spirit and elan, but you find him flighty, equivocal, and
hard to pin down.

Mars has admirable firmness and courage, but you tend to run into his cold and
aloof side.

Saturn has a lot of inner strength and self-certainty, but you find him too
controlled and inhibited to really be able to relax with him.

Pluto people reflect your own clear-minded self-sufficiency. They are shrewd
and headstrong, possessing a piercing intelligence and a commanding,
dominating presence. They have themselves under tight control, and thus come
across as being both intent and intense. They animate your own spirit of jaunty
hubris.
On the other hand they are self-willed, gratuitously defiant, and
constitutionally incapable of compromise. They are quick to take umbrage and to
gear up for the attack. Your frustration with their self-obsessiveness shows
the unmoved and unmoving parts of your own personality. You find yourself
either in awe of their faith in their own impulses and willingness to blast on
ahead; or else thoroughly revolted by their bumptiousness and preening.

Favorable (sun, Mercury, and Mars): You have a feeling of camaraderie with
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these people, and a mutual respect as equals. You encourage one another to
reach beyond your normal limits.

sun has admirable courage and independence of spirit. He unabashedly follows

his own impulses and encourages you to do the same.

Mercury and you think very much alike. You learn from him how to articulate
your thoughts and feelings.

Mars directness captivates you: he minces no words but gets down to business
smoothly and cleanly.

Unfavorable (moon, Venus, Jupiter, and Saturn): These people have an energy
level much lower or slower than your own. You feel held back by them.

moon has a dark, soft, indulgent side which plays up to your own vanity or
self-reflectiveness.

Venus is magnanimous but also emotionally remote. You find her overly delicate
and fastidious.

Jupiter is broad-minded and genuine, but you dislike his intransigence and
stick-in-the-mud complacency.
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Saturn affects you on a profound level; yet there are too many unspoken
vibrations going on to allow you to relax with one another or to feel at ease in
the other's presence.

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