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THE ART OF MAKING LOVE
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By VILMADOESNT
Love making is an art... It is the art of body expressions of two persons with m
utual feelings and desire to achieve the highest point of sexual glory. The unio
n or intertwining of two bodies that eventually results to formation of a new li
fe is somewhat an amazing fact of life and though we are scientifically aware of
the process of reproduction from fertilization, conception, all stages of foeta
l developments until giving birth, it is still amazing why in the creation of a
new life there is involved an instinct desire and strong urge or energy that man
ifests itself in the process.
Sad to say, some people, restricted by their cultures, strict family orientation
and personal beliefs, are still not open to the idea of having open discussions
about sex. And it is this too much conformity to restricted society that contro
ls the true feelings of a person and sometimes leads to the tension and disturba
nce in the individual.
But too much ego defenses can lead to mental or psychological disturbance since
the inner wants lying in the unconscious state are not met.
Carl Gustav Jung, a Swiss scientist defined libido as psychic energy. Libido or
the sexual urge is contained in the large unconscious structure of the psyche, t
he id. . Well, according to scientists, it is our ego defenses that transforms a
nd dissipates the psychic energy into other forms, thus suppressing our unconsci
ous wants and desires. But too much ego defenses can lead to mental or psycholog
ical disturbance since the inner wants lying in the unconscious state are not me
t.
Huh! I don't want to dwell more on scientific definitions of these energies. I j
ust want to say however, that since these are natural things, people should not
be too much restricted in sexual discussions, as long as it is not obscene, and
it conforms to what is acceptable within moral standards.
Libido is important, it is a hidden energy that keeps someone going, and it is t
his hidden energy that urges a woman to make herself beautiful..
Libido is important, it is a hidden energy that keeps someone going, and I belie
ve it is this hidden energy that keeps a woman beautiful and urges her to feel t
hat she would like to be beautiful. Women with higher libido level, no matter wh
at their body contours are, appear to be sexier and more attractive, because the
aura enhances, thus reflecting an inner glow. .. and there is somewhat a kind o
f energy that manifests in how she acts or behaves, thus making her sexier befor
e the eyes of the partner. And if the partner could not notice this inner glow a
nd no mutual response is generated, oh my gosh, the man has destrudo...
Well, frankly speaking, love making, making love, or sex per se are important to
pics that catch the attention of any mature individual who has the capacity to d
o it no matter what his beliefs, culture and family upbringings are, hypocrisy a
side. Well, it is a natural instinct, and an inner want associated with wonderfu
l feeling that emerges from the innermost part of a person's self.
A person is damned hypocrite when he or she will say making love is a bad topic
to discuss... and to talk about the positions of making love is silly, annoying
and shameful ... My gosh... if you are mature enough and you do it, you should b
e responsible also in understanding it and how well you should do it!!
And I find it ironic, well forgive me for saying this, that in many restricted c
ultures where society talks about strict laws and moral values, ( well not even
the eyes of the woman is seen because of the draperies covering the whole body w
hich is I think is impractical and unreasonable), there are many unrevealed case
s of sexual abuse done by men, and also by women.
Well, my dear grandmommy, I hope you won't be angry with me, as I publish this..
. usually, senior generations are very conservative... .but believe me, if you a
nd grandpa will read this together, you will feel refreshed and grandpa will fin
d you superb as ever... LOL!
Anyway, I hope most of the men who are pretty caring about their mates already k
now these basic things....Maybe you would love to add up on these...
Well, just consider this as reminders on what you should do and what you should
not do, this is basically what we want and what we dont want... Well couples, I
hope you'll find this useful... and if you have more suggestions.. well, I am mu
ch willing to learn more from you...
DO....
THE BASICS.
Basic hygiene is what I mean here. Ensure that all your body parts are clean. Br
ush, brush, brush and floss. Scrub your underarms and make sure that your partne
r will not jump from bed and run out of the room the moment you pull her to your
chest or kiss you on the neck. If your partner is pretty damn crazy over you ,
and you are pretty sure you are clean all over from up to down down there, then
there will be no awkward feelings if ever she's in the mood and crazy enough to
suck your toes.
CREATE A DIFFERENCE EVERYTIME YOU DO IT.
Light scented candles create romantic atmosphere. But I suggest you have it whil
e you are in the bathroom since the aroma of the candle blends well with the sce
nt of floral body wash or oil essences.
If you are always doing it on your bed and you feel the monotony, why not try ha
ving it on the sofa, on the couch, on the floor, just behind the door or on the
table? Well, there is no such awkward place or small piece of furniture if you b
oth feel you want to do it over there. But make sure that the furniture is stron
g enough to carry both of you! Otherwise you will both end up with sprain or bon
e fracture!
BE CAREFUL IN HER BELIEF ABOUT PRIVACY
.Yes! You can do everything which both of you agree to do within the confines of
what you believe about sex, or that would satisfy and give you pleasure to the
nth level.
Provided, that you have your privacy and you are in a place where only the two o
f you can see your naked bodies. If she wants total privacy... but...
you may not know unless you ask her, to certain women, having sex in an unusual
place is one of the most common naughty fantasies: maybe it may sound a bit of e
xhibitionism, but the risk/danger factor or just the excitement of taking sex ou
t of its usual context and doing it in a different place may arouse a woman and
take her to the maximum pleasure
To some, it may be sexy or quite arousing that somebody else in that place may k
now what you are doing, but let them die of hardened arteries as they imagine in
their dirty minds who is on top of who. They may suspect, but don't let them se
e, so that you may be given the benefit of the doubt...lol!
TEASE AND MAKE HER HEAD OVER HEELS.
Never, never rush. Believe it or not women like to be teased. We don't care whet
her it is the 99th or 1002nd times, but we want to feel always like the first ti
me. Doing it little by little adds up excitement.
Don't act like a hungry lion , otherwise she will say you don't have to eat her
because she is a vegetarian.. lol!
You can start by kissing her forehead down the cheek, nose, upper lip, then lowe
r lip, gently and slowly. You can give her a light bite if she's cool in biting.
Then tease her with your tongue and give her a little French kiss. Your hands s
hould do their jobs also. You can trace her body line with your forefinger, from
the nape down to her back and you can give a soft squeeze when you reach her bu
m. Dont forget to touch her hair, and if it is long, it would be sexy if you tou
ch it downward up to its full length, passing by or ending up on her humps. Uhmn
, you know what I mean.
You should know her erogenous zones. According to Oxford dictionary, erogenous z
ones are parts of the body which are sensitive to sexual stimulation.
When you know she's already switched on, you can now increase your speed and sho
w a full display of your talents in kissing and touching.
Now here are the DON'Ts..
DON'T go direct to the point.
It is not good to be straight forward at all times, especially when making love.
You know what I mean guys! Don't ever try to aim and hit your target without tur
ning the switch on. Sometimes men just want to finish and shorten the glory by j
umping over the bull, hitting the bull's eye directly and then go down and snore
like a pig. This is what all women hate.
DON'T put on too much lights.
Darkness adds intensity and heightens libido. When you are just tuning up' don't
start with bright lights on.
There is much excitement if you trace her body line while the lights are off. Wh
en her body heat is switched on or when you were able to reach her kindling temp
erature, ( literally, kindling temperature means the degree in which a material
begins to burn), you can increase brightness of the room by turning on lamp shad
es or dim lights.
If seeing your naked bodies shaking and waving under bright lights would both tu
rn you on, then you can wrestle over the bed with lights on. I wish lights on yo
ur room have remote control so you won't have to distract the momentum by turnin
g the lights on and off.
DON'T be traditional.
Don't be the missionary who always do everything in accordance with the traditio
n. I mean, sometimes you have to experiment what will please both of you.
Experimenting on different positions is not bad depending on what both of you be
lieve. Love making as we call it, can be pleasurable as ever if the two persons
doing it are deeply and passionately giving in to one another.
Do not forget that by doing so, you become an artistic and passionate lover.
NO INHIBITIONS.
DON'T forget her erogenous zones.
As I mentioned, erogenous zones are parts of the body that has sensitivity to to
uch and arouses sexual stimulation. There are different types of erogenous zones
, which I will discuss in my future hubs. One basic thing is that you should kno
w how to touch her in fashion that will create sensation to her whole body.
Remember, touching the woman in her erogenous zones boosts up her confidence and
gives a feeling that she is desirable. According to study, when aroused, a woma
n's brain produces oxytocins. These are hormones that fight anxiety, lack of sel
f-confidence and stress.
You can justify it by seeing her good mood and happiness the next morning.
So, don't neglect her erogenous zones!
DON'T forget that you should enjoy also.
Above all of these, bear in mind that you guys have to enjoy the pleasure also.
You don't have to overdo everything and neglect your own pleasure...who's the ma
n who neglects his own by the way...?
In aiming to make her happy don't have it overly done. Remember, you are not her
best friend or therapist, more so, you are not his dad who always give his litt
le girl reassurance about herself. You are there to share your bodies. And you a
re there to ENJOY sex with each other!
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Have you read Kama Sutra?
I was already 90% done with this hub when I happened to pass by a site telling a
bout KAMASUTRA, the oldest book of erotic love. In ancient India, the Sixty Four
Arts of Kama Sutra implies the intimacy and the bond in love making. It aims to
make wife skillful, refined, sexually beautiful and intelligent. While, to the
husband, it expresses his understanding of female nature and the importance of c
ultivating sensual moods and intimacy. The ancient Indians show great attention
to detail of smell, light, music, food, drink and touch before intercourse can b
egin.
For those who have not read articles about this, I suggest you find some time to
read this. It is about art, life, relationships, powerful married life, adulter
y, etc. It also tells about different positions in making love. I was amazed als
o to see the different positions!
Must be enjoyable and fantastic if you do it right!!!
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Comments
lovematch2008 2 years ago
Very good hub, nowadays women are so open about what they want and what they nee
d. Warm applause for you.
artisticwinks 2 years ago
hope you can publish more articles about how to improve relationship between hus
band and wife, and reasons why married people tend to have extramarital relation
ships
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shezz3085 2 years ago
This could be one of the best guides for couples who wants to lengthen their rel
ationship, not just for years but forever...Great hub!
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megamass 2 years ago
nice hub
betherickson profile image
betherickson 2 years ago
Interesting article. This pleasurable feeling will surely keep and help a relati
onship to last. Great hub! :)
betherickson profile image
betherickson 2 years ago
Interesting article. This pleasurable feeling will surely keep and help a relati
onship to last. Great hub! :)
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VILMADOESNT 2 years ago
Thanks Love match, for a woman to be happy, she has to open up about what she wa
nts and what she hates... Its openness that makes a relationship lasting... nice
comment!
Watch out for my new hub, artistic wink, surely, I will post hubs to answer your
requests. Shukran!
yes, shezz0385, when you open up, your partner will open up for you... we have t
o enjoy life forever with the ones we love.. Its my pleasure to hear nice commen
t from you!
Hi, betherickson, me and my husband are now more than a decade living together..
. and still counting !!! Thanks for the comment!
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summerdays 2 years ago
nice hub..carry on..good..
thanks summerdays! And welcome to hubpages.com!!
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Tatjana-Mihaela 2 years ago
Dear Vilmadoesnt, it is great hub:open, interesting, full of usefull advices for
men. I really enjoyed reading every part of it. Lovemaking is art, not the quic
k exercise. Thank you so much for writing that article.
Yes, Tatjana, I see art as positive side of everything in this world, even in lo
vemaking, therefore we should see the beauty and enjoy the most out of it withou
t pretensions, without apprehensions, without inhibitions! Big thanks for postin
g your comment!
NerdyLife 2 years ago
Wow, well done! Good information!
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Scorpion_M 2 years ago
Great HUB...continue the good work
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anime_nanet 2 years ago
Nice hub!
Sometimes I forget the basics :( Thanks for reminding me!
Hublove to u!
hope the information help u nerdylife! By the way I'm curious about your name, i
t seems there's something discoverable that I ought to discover!
Most welcome ! hublove to u also anime!!!
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kefka40 2 years ago
I have to thank you for this article, being a virgin waiting until marriage (so
that me and my future spouse will share something truly special that I will have
never shared with anyone else), my knowledge of making love has to come from st
udying information like this so thank you very much. I see you are from the Unit
ed Arab Emirates, it's cool meeting people from different countries, in fact my
long distance girlfriend is in the Philippines (relationship carried primarily o
ver the phone, sometimes email).
For sure I will, Scorpio!
Kefka, I'm a bit shocked knowing you are a virgin at 28, and my salute to you. Y
ou truly have reserved yourself and you have well respected the sanctity of marr
iage and sex. For sure you and your future wife shall have pleasurable moments
of bonding and tasting everything (lol! naughty me) after your marriage.
I believe also in long distance relationship..in fact, me and my husband are now
in different parts of the globe, but the flame is there whenever we meet.
I can hear the wedding bells from not-too-far a distance !
kits 2 years ago
nice hub..I hope these could help especially to those who are closing their mind
s for the so called "REALITY".
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pcdriverupdate 2 years ago
great hub, thanks for the info. :D
Hopefully Kits! Our world is real so we have to be realistic.
thanks for passing by pcdriver update. keep on hubbing!
mr. desmond, you're totally out of context, anyway you know that many people are
reading my hubs and tis an opportunity for you to advertise, hahaha! thanks for
passing by!!
Poppa Blues 2 years ago
Good information! Don't forget lovers, it is important to communicate your desir
es, and your fantasies without fear. Open and honest communication is sexy and b
esides, us guys don't like to have figure things out!
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laflat7 2 years ago
this is great hub! i will print it and paste on the wall in my room :D
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TravelMonkey 2 years ago
It's an art which once mastered, can achieve wonderful things.
Great Hub. TM
reply to poppa blues 2 years ago
u r right poppa blues....women are usually shy of letting even their husbands kn
ow what really pleases them sexually...and what more, us guyz don't like to figu
re things out. i am going to have open talk with my wife tonight...thanks to Vil
madoesnt. you're the best, vilmadoesnt.
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ahmadnaim 2 years ago
Great hub! ur hub is number2 and karmasutra is no1
poppa blues -
its always the truth that will set us free, so we should not be afraid to tell t
he truth about what we feel... open and honest communication really bonds a rela
tionship.
laflat - great! so it will remind u of the do's and dont's, hahaha! i will post
it too to remind my husband, lol! Much more, cheeseburger is not good without ch
eese as i read in one hub, so is relationship without freedom to talk about sex
with the partner!
reply to poppablues -
i appreciate very much your comment, thanks a lot!
ahmadnaim -
nice to see you on my page ahmadnaim, now im more inspired to write more hubs ab
out sex and marriage!
artisticwinks 2 years ago
i came back to your page to refresh what i read before!!! really its nice readin
g your hubs!! you're great VILMADOESNT!
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mushy_mai 2 years ago
the only interesting part is the foreplay. Play. Play and Play. *wink*
seriously, how it begun and how it ended is all that matters esp. if done out of
love not just for the sake of doing it.
the rhythm. the chemistry. the marital consent.
that means im not allowed =(
kasheer 2 years ago
and dont forget it's all mind game!
@ kasheer:Mind games are kinda disturbing,i prefer the real thing.
@sandee:Did u ever get to read the last part, it should be under marital conditi
ons otherwise it is not allowed or you'll have to face whatever the consequences
may be in the long run. You never know.. =)
again @ sandee:
on the other hand i was thinking, were you my husband? if you are why not? lol.
wait, do i have spouse? im confused =)
[BL0WM3] 2 years ago
IF ONLY YOU WOULD...
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jewels1977 2 years ago
Great hub! It is so important to talk openly about sex and love. Gone are the da
ys when everyone had to tip toe around the subject. The key to a lasting relatio
nship, in and out of the bedroom, is equal fulfillment for everyone involved! If
my husband were not an open and responsive lover we would never have had a futu
re.
francess fenn , uk 2 years ago
i love having sex with my boyfriend matt farnell, oomff give to me baby !!!
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YS BEAR IN MIND THE BASICS, YOUR PARTNER SURELY WILL LOVE U MORE... U'RE ALWAYS
WELCOME TO PASS BY!
4MUSHY_MAE: GREAT COMMENT MUSHY, I REALLY HATE GOING STRAIGHT TO THE POINT WHEN
IT COMES TO SEX! FOREPLAY IS IMPORTANT TO SWITCH US ON!! BY THE WAY, HAVING SEX
DEPENDS ON ONE'S BELIEF, AND WITH A PERSON WHOM YOU LOVE AND TRUST...IT SURELY H
APPENS EVEN TO UNMARRIED COUPLES... DEPENDS ON ONE'S VALUES AND HOW YOU LOOK AT
IT..
4KASHEER : PARTLY IT'S A MIND GAME, BUT REMEMBER U HAVE TO CONDITION BOTH YOUR M
IND AND BODY FOR MAXIMUM PERFORMANCE...LOL!
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ME!
4FRANCESS FENN, UK : YOU SHOULD KNOW YOUR LIMITATIONS TOO!! EVALUATE WHAT'S GOOD
AND BAD FOR U... HAPPY HUBBING!
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gamerguy 2 years ago
Wonderful info I havent made love in years to a woman and now Im Im in love with
this awesome lady and Im waiting till we get married thanks for all the wonderf
ul info keep up the great work it help me with my new life !!! look foward to mo
re of your great work!! please keep the topic on relationships God Bless you!!
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Juliet Christie 2 years ago
Realy good artice . good advice. should help many slam bam thank you madam relat
ionships.
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R. Martin Basso 2 years ago
this is presented as a 'how to'?
Didn't realize sex was so "official".
The sad fact is that BOTH have to be 'game' fo rnot being 'traditional' or else
nothing else matters and ultimately its all just the same old thing... you seem
to imply that the whole world is receptive to an 'open boarders' approach to sex
, when in actuality people figure out what their comfort zones are and then cons
ciously live only within them AFTER they have snarled the person they end up wit
h. Yeah, you read that right.... The sad fact I have discovered after 2 mqrriage
s and over 70 lovers in my life is that in dating, or in courting, sex in the be
ginning is all about "hey, I'm gonna blow (the other person's) mind and be 'ALL
THAT'..." But after we 'get' the object of our affection, we revert to some safe
'comfort zone' known only to us. It's sad but true. True love is a metaphore fo
r our 'hope' that ultimately the person we are with will not discover just how f
ull of bullshit we really are and then split.
True love is really just the 'act' we put on either to (1) get someone into bed
in the first place or (2) to impress them once we have them in bed for 4 or 5 ti
mes in the very beginning stages.
The rest is just maintenance.
TheArt of Making Love?
Oh PLEASE.
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Angelexiz 2 years ago
Your hub makes me......uuuhhhmmmmm want to discover more!
That was good!
That is an art! A sacred art.
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JustTyler 2 years ago
Good hub...it always puzzles me why people are so uptight about sex as well...
Another Tip: Don't forget to add some scented candles and romantic music to the
scene for a really romantic night.
RAVI 2 years ago
LOVE IS SORCE OF MONEY BECAUSE E
gamerguy - mabrook (congratulations)! I wish you and your wife a really healthy
relationship full of love and passion!
I refer to love as something special that two people share in matrimony. I refer
to passion as the drive for sexual intimacy which is the deepest form of sharin
g for two persons in love.
Juliet Christie -saying 'you're sexy' in a poetic manner can be added up too! I
like your poems Juliet!
R. Martin Bassco - You write books according to your points of view, how you see
life and how you feel life is seeing you. If we are reading a book, it doesnt n
ecessarily mean that the things written are facts or truth, because we are readi
ng according to the writer's points of view.
I respect your point of view.
But this is how I understand the difference between love making as an art and pl
ainly sex for release. These are two different things although both are into sim
ilar activities involving union of two bodies. Others may look at having sex as
just the physical pleasure, or just the fucking thing, forgive me for the word.
But making love is something different, it is having sex with deepest intimacy,
with sharing of thoughts and emotions. It is expressing your desire thru bodily
contact and sexual union with a person you care for. making love is different fr
om plainly sexual intercourse.. I find your definition of 'true love' as shallow
and as the way i see it you use your bed as an arena for you and your partner,
where you just boost your ego... not to satisy or love your partner...
For you it's just the act of (1) taking your partner to bed, or (2) impressing y
our sexual partner about how good you are in bed.... but impression is aimed and
set only within the beginning stages?? If you love or if you ever loved, no mat
ter how many relationships you've been into, you dont have to stop at the beginn
ing stage... because relationship is unending exploration and discovery of thing
s about your partner..not only about yourself.. then you say maintenance... soun
ds just like cycle...a monotony...sounds dull...and if we believe in that, then
our subconscious mind will dictate us that everything no longer works, its just
a cycle that you have to repeat. Then there will be no glow at all. Its like you
're giving the relationship a natural death. The keyword is 'revitalize'. Enlive
n the spirit and don't stop discovering within the context of mutual definition
of boundaries, of course with passion, intimacy and feelings. Art of making love
is worshipping each other's body, making each other feel special, focusing ener
gy, making woman feel beautiful, making a man feels that he is a man, trying new
positions while respecting boundaries, and... simply but unexplainably...it is
LOVING.
Whew!!Seems i have written another hub Martin! Justtyler - I like your website..
. and you're such an amazing writer, really! Angelexiz- discovering things is re
ally an endless process... It is a manifestation of growth and the key to succes
s! Ravi - Hope you'll complete the thought in your comment...love can be source
of money??? i agree, but has a long way to go for an explanation...
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JustTyler 2 years ago
Thanks for the kind words.
R. Martin Basso - Life is all about pushing that comfort zone over and over agai
n. If you're not prepared to do it then I feel sorry for you. Good luck "maintai
ning" your life... the rest of us are trying to live ours.
A dude 2 years ago
JustTyler - Is that what life is about? "pushing that comfort zone over and over
again". Okay, now I know why so many people are starving, and why addiction is
so prevalent, and why society is so immersed in competitiveness, and why the med
ia controls us, and why people get murdered, and why all the enchantment has lef
t us, and why my daughter will be paying rent to an already wealthy landlord for
the rest of her life!!! Gee, thanks JT; I'm glad you cleared that up for me.
shahidul 2 years ago
wildlife
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Herry 2 years ago
Its too good hub for life
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Candace Morgan 2 years ago
Bravo. Thanks.
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Veira 2 years ago
Interesting Hub, sometimes we don´t look at tthings the way we should, well done..
.
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hsofyan 24 months ago
nice hubs 2 be applied
Anurag 23 months ago
thats really good & very important for a men to know
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babarushe 23 months ago
VILMA,
This is a great hub for couples to explore and understand their sexual demands,e
ven God demands the satisfaction of each other in marriage to prevent the tempta
tion of unfaithfulness.
It helps to keep the married together- soul and spirit.
Good work.
AmazingCom 23 months ago
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Laurence 23 months ago
Greetings fellow thespians,
As a mere male,its been my observations that mere male often times confuses sex
with making love.It appears that far too many men regard God's finest creation a
s a kind of receptical for his stuff and his main objective seems to be too let
it all go as soon as possible;if not sooner?
Cos if he values his partners need for a 'moment of wonder and intence pleasure'
he will focus all his attention on ensuring she has an explosive 'orgasm'......
..cos IF he can create such a moment he will find she will adore him with an int
ensity of feeling wonderous to behold............believe it or not
May God's magical healing force be with you always
Laurence
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EmeraldGrace 23 months ago
Oh if only everyone could see that this is the best way. I know that usually wha
t's good for one person is not always good for another, but I believe that pract
icing this method (Kama Sutra included) would make for a lot more happy people a
nd a happier world.
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chillingbreeze 21 months ago
Great hub!!! Good Stuff!!
When I read your articles I remembered my past years. That's really romantic.
Free Online Exams 20 months ago
Feelings are high
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Superior321 19 months ago
very nice and great hub.
Here are romantic sms for your lover
http://www.sms9.org
crisb 19 months ago
great article! should be applied...
VILMADOESNT 18 months ago
shahidul,harry, candace morgan,veira,hsofyan,anurag,babarushe,laurence,emerald g
race, chillingbreeze, free on line, superior321,
million thanks guys for visiting my pages and commenting on my hub..
its really great to know that still many people are open about intimate and resp
onsible sexual relationship... making love as an art is really different from pl
ain sex...
Happy hubbing!!
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manujkhera 17 months ago
Excellent post. Keep it up..........Thanks for sharing.
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Neil Sperling 17 months ago
Good points - your lover will learn a lot about how you perosnally like it by re
ading this - however there those you simple differ on some points you mention.
1- as long as it is not obscene, and it conforms to what is acceptable within mo
ral standards. You need to qualify that statement becasue everyone has different
moral standards and beliefs. Although it is rare and may seem impossible to you
(me as well) but there are those who are very liberal and swinging and swaping
are NOT taboo.
2- Light scented candles create romantic atmosphere. -- there are both men and w
omen who prefer the animal aspect of a good romp in the sack. Romance to those t
ypes of people may follow a completely different apporach - such as role playing
...... that wont be rompantic to you (or me for that matter) but there are those
that any act that creates a build up of desire "IS THERE ROMANCE". They wont un
derstand you - nor will you understand them.
3- Never, never rush. Believe it or not women like to be teased. That's true, bu
t some women respond more willingtly, excitedly an easily to little more aggresi
on. They seem to need to know they are so desiredable they bring out the animal
in their mate. (personally I prefer the tease and long pampering secessions - bu
t I have lost good women to my nice behavior that they interpreted as marshmello
w and did not show them that I desired them as much as I did)
4 - DON'T put on too much lights. --- that is totally a personal preferrence - s
ome peopel prefer to be able to watch everything nd look at their lover in the s
pot light of the moment.
5 - Bath shower or what ever to be extra clean --- again - some people of both s
exes are turned on by sweaty bodies right after a work out in the gym. (personal
ly I like both)
All in all - good article on how you like it. My question is "what are you doing
tonight?"
Love - Light - Laughter
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apple87jane 16 months ago
I'm agree that sex without love is not entitle to call make love. Shows cares,un
derstanding to your partner and lots more of elements add together brings love.
Remember that having sex with love,we call make love.
naturekute 14 months ago
This is really a great work hub. I must say that I am totally informed and educa
ted right now that I wish I were married. I came across your page accidentally(w
ell if that's how I should best describe it) and the information I got from this
page I think is going to lead me through even when I finally settle down. I kno
w that this page isn't ultimately meant for young people like myself, I just cou
ldn't help but read it through, so for that, I crave your indulgence. Hub I beli
eve that you mission is not only to show people the right path towards a better
life, but to also guide them through it. I don't know if it sounds odd to you hu
b but if it will be possible, I wish that you contact me in private cos there's
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h. Once again great job hub and keep it up.
Bright(naturekute)
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mic.b1 11 months ago
great hub
Masreka 6 months ago
wow...that's what all men need to read out..!
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meharkarim@hotmai 6 months ago
itsss favourable
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dawnM 5 months ago
great sexy article, I loved all of the advice and it is true women love to be te
ased and they also like to be mentaly stimulated as well!
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yyn1221 4 months ago
Very good hub, nowadays women are so open about what they want and what they nee
d. Warm applause for you.
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buryshane 6 weeks ago
This is my first time i visit here. I found so many interesting stuff in your hu
b especially its discussion. From the tons of comments on your hub, I guess I am
not the only one having all the enjoyment here! keep up the good work.
Ramuongiwa edwin.@ RSA 5 weeks ago
This hub realy rocks. It also gave me great advice and encouragement. Infact i l
ike this hub at all.i'd like you guys to keep on telling us your views. That pow
erful at all. Hub..... Hub...... Lol....;-D it really rocks.
Ramuongiwa edwin.@ RSA 5 weeks ago
This hub realy rocks. It also gave me great advice and encouragement. Infact i l
ike this hub at all.i'd like you guys to keep on telling us your views. That pow
erful at all. Hub..... Hub...... Lol....;-D it really rocks.
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