INTRODUCTION

1. 4 Chapters

a. LDR Basics
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b. Pre-relationship
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c. In-relationship
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d. Troubleshooting
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2. Homeworks
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3. Discuss with Partner
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 LDR BASICS

1. Tantangan LDR

a. Faktor Jarak
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b. Faktor Kecemburuan
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c. Sumber Kehangatan Lokal

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2. Keuntungan LDR
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3. Syarat Dasar LDR

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 PRE-RELATIONSHIP

1. Prinsip PDKT

a. Multi Gebetan
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b. Multi Channel
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c. Build up for Meetup

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2. Selection Process
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 IN-RELATIONSHIP LDR

1. Setting Grounds

a. Konsep Relasi Cinta

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b. Building ritual
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c. Honeymooning
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2. Communication & Fights

a. Strategi Menata Komunikasi

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b. Easy talk
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 c. Deep talk
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d. Handling conflicts
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3. Problem Dalam LDR

a. Insecurity
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c. Perselingkuhan
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4. Kejenuhan

a. Menghadapi Kejenuhan
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 b. Memperkaya Hubungan
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5. Visits

a. Frekuensi Visit
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b. Visit Planning
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c. Strategi Mengelola Perpisahan

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 POST-RELATIONSHIP

1. Tanda Keretakan Hubungan

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2. Bubar Dengan Elegan

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NOTES
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