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‘You’re so immersed in the true story telling of this book that you
forget how much you are learning along the way.’ — Merrick Watts
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RESILIENCE
1. Give Yourself No Other Option 11
2. Laziness Can Quickly Become a Habit 21
3. The Advantage of Fear 31
4. Mateship Is a Powerful Asset 39
5. Be Prepared—and Be Adaptable 47
6. Reset Your Frame of Reference 55
7. Treat Boredom as an Opportunity 65
8. Embrace the Suck 71
OPTIMISATION
9. Organise Your Chaos 85
10. Train Like You Fight 93
11. Habits Reinforce Discipline 103
12. Listen and Observe 111
LEADERSHIP
18. Defining Leadership 157
19. The Eleven Principles of Leadership 163
20. Types of Leaders 171
21. Leadership in Action 177
22. Leading Leaders 187
23. Know Your People 199
VALUES
24. Honesty207
25. Professionalism217
26. Tolerance223
27. Humility231
Conclusion 239
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authentic leader who shares his journey, so that others might become
better leaders themselves. Bram’s experiences range from being a new
recruit, to a young 19-year-old soldier deployed to Somalia and then
to the head of Selection Wing for the Australian Special Forces. He
learnt lessons from the dark jungles of Far North Queensland to the
open dascht of Afghanistan—and he shares these candid experiences
with you so that you can see what he saw, feel what he felt, and under-
stand what he learnt from these profound moments.
The learnings from Bram’s book will help you to put in place
authentic strategies to improve your own life, develop your own
leadership style, and help others on their journey too.
I’m sure this book will become required reading for junior
military officers and soldiers, emergency services and first respond-
ers, and anyone else who has any desire to be better at the elusive skill
of leadership.
It was no accident that the first couple of books I wrote were military
fiction. I made it known to my publisher, the wonderful Rebecca Kaiser
from Allen & Unwin, that I didn’t want to write yet another ex-Special
Forces operator’s first-hand account of his military career. Practically
every member of the Australian Special Forces community—and the
wider Australian Defence Force, for that matter—has a great story to
tell. At least, that certainly seems to be the case at around 10 am on
Anzac Day. I’m not so narcissistic to think that my life, or my career,
have been so noteworthy that they would capture the reading public’s
hearts and minds more than those of any other operator.
Over the years, though, I’ve had many conversations with
Rebecca about my career. We first met when I agreed to check
some of the acronyms and military terms in Chris Masters’ book
Uncommon Soldier. We talked a lot about his experiences working
with the Special Operations Task Group in Afghanistan. Later, our
conversations would turn to the projects I was working on, includ-
ing my mentoring and leadership consultancy, Hindsight Leadership
and Resilience, and my podcast, The WarriorU Podcast. Our conver-
sations invariably led back to me writing a non-fiction account of my
military career.
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to work out what it was I’d written. This wasn’t writer’s block—it
was much worse. I was trying to understand who I had been when
I was in the Australian Army. For nearly a year, it seemed the book
would never see the light of day.
That all changed while I was going for a long run along the
coast between Fremantle and Cottesloe, Western Australia, in early
2019. Perhaps it was a mixture of the hot headwind and the onset of
mild dehydration, but I had to admit to myself, after all these years,
that I wasn’t average (whatever it was measured against). If I could
admit that, then perhaps I could move forward with my book.
I drew from this a new confidence, one I hadn’t felt for years since
leaving the Army. The book I’d written was a series of hard-fought
lessons, I recognised, and some of them were crazy. More than that,
though, I saw that the book was a road map of my personal leader-
ship journey.
This book explores my experiences as a soldier. It starts with
my time as a private soldier and forward scout in Somalia in 1993.
I became a commando team commander in the 4th Battalion of
the Royal Australian Regiment (4RAR), now the 2nd Commando
Regiment (2CDO) after the first regular Commando Selection
Course in 1997. I served as a reconnaissance team commander in
East Timor in 2001. I commanded a sniper team in the first National
Counter Terrorist Team (Tactical Assault Group – East) in 2003,
and then I became a platoon commander in Afghanistan in 2010.
I’d held all the junior non-commissioned officer leadership posi-
tions, as well as being a platoon sergeant, and my career culminated
in my becoming a Special Forces ‘Alpha’—the callsign designation
for a platoon commander in the 2nd Commando Regiment.
Getting to this point had taken years of dedication and applica-
tion. I’d learnt much about leadership, teamwork and resilience, and
been handed plenty of life lessons along the way, both through my
direct experiences and from having incredible mentors. I realised,
on that run between Fremantle and Cottesloe, that I had to share all
these lessons too.
As far as I was concerned, it was settled: the book would be called
The Commando Way.
AFGHANISTAN, 2010
off keeping it for a few more at least. I assumed the fire was coming
from a PKM machine gun, a Russian-made weapon renowned for its
accuracy, its devastating rate of fire and its ability to function even in
the harshest conditions—conditions just like these. They were every-
where in Afghanistan in 2010, and they always seemed to be firing
at me.
I glanced at my own rifle: the end of it was full of dirt from when
I’d slammed it into the deck while seeking cover behind this low wall.
The enemy fire was coming in bursts, and possibly from multiple
locations. I couldn’t hear the thumps from the points of origin, just
the cracks as the rounds zipped past. Angry hornets buzzed above
me, over the roof, around the corners—seemingly everywhere. I could
hear Taliban voices every now and again too.
The bullets were slamming in at around one each second just
above my cowering head. Sometimes they grazed the top of the small
wall a few centimetres above my face—the very definition of suppress-
ing fire. I took a deep breath and calmed myself. Lying helpless on my
back, and with my impotent rifle beside me, I looked up at the clear
blue sky. Every now and then another series of bullets would hit the
low wall instead of the compound, and the impact would reverber-
ate through my helmet. The enemy was telling me that my presence
was known, and that for the moment he had my measure. This was
man on man.
A mountain range dominated the building we had taken refuge
in. To the north and east the ground rose up into sharp rocky outcrops
that spied over our position. To the south and west another mountain
range further out intersected the plateau. In effect we were located on
a small pimple, smack bang in the middle of enemy heartland. The
compound we were in overlooked smaller buildings running further
down the valley and there was a complex mess of creek lines all
coming together in the Green Belt providing excellent covered access
to any enemy brave enough to want to close in on us. Given all of the
bullet to the brain. Fortunately, at that exact time the Taliban firing at
my position was conducting a reload.
You stupid prick, I grinned to myself. Gotcha!
My tormentor wasn’t using a PKM machine gun after all, I
realised, but its older brother, the AK-47. First designed by Mikhail
Kalashnikov not long after World War Two, its basic design has stood
the test of time: even today it meets the demands of many armies and
fighting groups. In the hands of a skilled adversary, it can make your
life quite uncomfortable.
Well, this skilled adversary wasn’t up in the mountains, as I’d
suspected; he was virtually on our doorstep, lying in the rocks less
than a hundred metres from the edge of the ravine. His mates were
moving around in there too. We’d been firing up into the hills, way
over their heads, and they’d been slowly creeping forward through
the complex rock structures that jutted out of the deep creek lines.
We were in trouble.
I rolled back and lay flat; I didn’t have enough time to get a shot
off as he’d already resumed firing at my position. I looked across at my
signaller and told him we were about to move. That’s when I noticed
his 12-foot radio antenna still poking up in the air. ‘Jesus Christ, Barns,
put it down,’ I shouted, gesturing at the offending item, as I adjusted
my body armour. More rounds slammed into the wall. ‘Yeah and fuck
you!’ I screamed back at them, kicking my feet up and down like a
petulant child. Somewhere up on the roof of the compound, one of my
soldiers laughed, finding the sight of his boss pinned down out in the
open a right craic.
‘Shit, sorry, boss,’ said Barns. He lowered the antenna and folded
it up, rolling a rubber band off his wrist and wrapping it around the
indelible pointer.
I removed a grenade from its pouch on my body armour. Initially,
I’d thought about using coloured smoke to cover us, but decided on
High Explosive (HE) instead. The Taliban fighter was out of range,
but it would make me feel better—and maybe the blast would make
one of them poke their heads out and I’d blow it off.
I waited until Barns was ready and then threw the grenade out
over the wall. It went about 6 metres and made an almighty bang.
I jumped up to my knees and followed it with half a magazine of
double-taps, firing through the dust at the enemy’s known position,
and then at positions in close proximity that looked likely.
As Barns ran to the edge of the next building, I followed behind
him, expecting him to cover me. I had a plan, now that the lads had
their radios back on. We would only fire back at the enemy with the
occasional double-taps, until we were all ready. Then, with commu-
nication checks complete, I would give a rolling call over the radio
and we would unleash punishment on them—just like we’d been
receiving.
I had several different weapons in the platoon to fight back with.
Most of my guys were equipped with an M4A-1 assault rifle, whose
unique capabilities made it our weapon of choice. It could be fitted
with a suppressor, making it harder for our enemy to locate us. It also
reduces noise and overpressure in confined environments, making
the shooter more combat-effective. Its handiest characteristic was
that it had a Rail Adaptor System (RAS), or Picatinny Rail, which
allowed a host of accessories to be attached to it. These included
sighting systems and laser pointers, as well as the M203 4 0-millimetre
grenade launcher and a variety of shotguns for shooting off door
locks and hinges when you really needed to get into a bad guy’s house.
It was pretty much like Lego for soldiers!
Each six-man team, of which there were four, had a 7.62-milli
metre Mk 48 machine gun, which was basically a beefed-up version of
the 5.56-millimetre Minimi machine gun. Every second or third man
carried an M72A6 66-millimetre rocket launcher, which was extremely
useful against fortified structures, to create secondary fragmentation
against the enemy, or to create a shock action—as I was about to do.
How did a guy like me get himself into this calamity? And what did
I take away from the experience?
Well, that’s what this book is about. I’m going to share with
you stories from my career as a soldier and an officer, but I’ll also
be describing what I’ve learnt about resilience, optimisation, leader
ship and values, and how to create high-performing teams. Some
of the lessons were hard won, and others were thrust on me by my
superiors. Together, they made me the man I am today.