Eid ul Adha Khutbah 2006

Eid-Ul-Adha (a.k.a. the Feast of Sacrifice or Day of Sacrifice) is observed after the Hajj
-- the annual pilgrimage to Makkah (Mecca) in Saudi Arabia.

A duty of each Muslim, as described in the Five Pillars of Islam, is to go on Hajj at least
once during their lifetime, unless they are prevented by finances or ill health. "The Hajj
consists of several ceremonies, meant to symbolize the essential concepts of the Islamic
faith, and to commemorate the trials of prophet Abraham and his family...The pilgrimage
also enables Muslims from all around the world, of different colors, languages, races,
and ethnicities, to come together in a spirit of universal brotherhood and sisterhood to
worship the One God together."

It is the second of the two major Muslim holy days. The other is Eid-ul-Fitr which
follows Ramadan.

When is it celebrated?

Eid-Ul-Adha is observed after the conclusion of the Hajj. The first day of this celebration
is held on the 10th day of Dhul-Hijjah, which is the last month of the Muslim year. In
most areas, the Feast of Sacrifice is celebrated over several days.

Due to Lunar sighting, the feast day has always been celebrated on different days in
various areas of the world. Because the date of the Feast of Sacrifice is determined by a
lunar calendar, it is observed about 11 days earlier each year:

Its significance:

"The celebration of Eid-Ul-Adha is in commemoration of the command give by Allah to

Prophet Abraham (may Allah be pleased with him) to sacrifice his first born son Ishmael
to Him. The fulfilment [sic] of this noble command of Allah by Abraham signifies his
faith in Allah...."

This is a victory of Good over Evil (Shaytan) He tempted Ibrahim (AS) 3 times not to
sacrifice his son. Three times Ibrahim (AS) rejected the Shaytan. This is celebrated by
the Hajis in Meena by throwing pebbles at the 3 Jamarat which are the stone pillar as a
symbol of Shaytan.

When I read the story of Ibrahim (AS) in the Qur'an and his arguments with his people,
his father and the King Nimrod, it gave me the impression that he is blessed with an
extremely sharp intellect, comparable to a Noble Prize winner in the Sciences.

His ANALYTICAL THINKING is better than a Professor at any top notch University in
USA.

He respects his father.

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Takes very high risks even at the cost of his own life.

Exhibits self-confidence and courage par excellence.

Bold and Assertive.

Possesses Leadership qualities that we Muslims should emulate. Actually Muslims bless
him Five Times a Day in Reciting “TASHAHUDD OR “ATTAHIYAT”

Consults his son Ismail and Engages in Dialog about his vision to sacrifice him. A Good
Father.

Lived about 4,000 years ago.

Out of more than 720 prizes awarded since 1901, more than 130, or about 18 percent,
have gone to Jewish laureates. Jews comprise only 0.3 to 0.5 percent of the world's
population. Muslims are one-Fifth or 20 % of the world's population, should have won
144 Nobel Prizes, but won only NINE. The reason for the disproportionate number of
Jewish winners is the premium Jews have placed on learning and scholarship.
Ibrahim (AS) was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Hanif.

Most of the Nobel Prizes are won by Americans every year, particularly in Physics,
Chemistry, Medicine and Economics. What is the Reason?

The reason is America has the best Institutions: Educational, Research, Think-
Tanks, Industrial, Government, Military complex and the vast resources to back
these Institutions.

We are blessed that we live in this country with access to these finest Institutions.

Students come from all over the world to get American Degrees. Students from
India are the largest in number about 100,000 of them. Majority of the Ph.D.
students in America are all foreigners.

What makes American Educational system so Unique?

FEW POINTS ARE: They impart: CRITICAL and creative THINKING;
Metacognition (Metacognition refers to knowledge of one's own thinking processes and
products or anything related to them). Scientific Inquiry, Dialectical Reasoning (The
art or practice of arriving at the truth by the exchange of logical arguments), problem
solving, Logical Analysis, Designing and composing. OPPOSING POINTS OF
VIEW; SCHOLARLY DEBATES; EVIDENCE BASED KNOWLEDGE;

IN MANY COUNTRIES THEY EMPHASIZE ROTE LEARNING – mechanical

repetition of something so that it is remembered, often without real understanding of its
meaning or significance. Another word for Rote is By heart.

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In the Qur’an in The Story of Ibrahim (AS) we find AMERICAN educational
values: Prophet Ibrahim (AS) reminded his people that there was only one God, the Lord
of all creation, who controlled Life, death and resurrection. He told his own father, Azar,
to desist from worshipping idols. He said he had learned from his own experience (that is
using Dialectical Reasoning) that God alone was worthy of worship. He was shown by
God 'the Kingdom of the heavens and the earth so that he might be convinced of the faith
in his Creator.

An Example of Metacognition and Dialectical Reasoning

When the night was dark, Ibrahim (AS) saw a star; he said to himself, “This must be the
Lord.” But soon the star set and his faith was shaken. Then he saw the moon rising in the
sky, “This is the Lord” he said. However, when it waned, he lost faith in it. Likewise,
when the sun rose, brighter than everything, he was convinced that it was the Lord. But
the sun also set, and Ibrahim (AS) cried: “I set my face against all these. I repudiate
every other kind of worship except the worship of God, Creator of all that is in the
heavens and the earth, i.e., The Creator of the Universe ( Surah 6: 76-79)

An Example of Logical Analysis:

Turning to his father, Ibrahim(AS) asked what the images were to which he and his
people were devoted. Azar his replied that they worshipped what their fathers had
worshipped. Ibrahim (AS) said: 'Then assuredly, you and your fathers are clearly in
error.' Here, Ibrahim (AS) is opposing his own father. The Qur’an clearly states not to
obey your parents if your parents deviate from the Qur’anic Guidance.

The following illustrates an example of SCHOLARLY DEBATE , Opposing

POINTS OF VIEW and Logical Reasoning with KING NIMROD

Ibrahim (AS) debates with Nimrod, the King of Iraq, not to forget that it was God who
gave him the Kingdom and power and glory; but the King, in his arrogance, had denied it
and had declared that he determined the life and death of his subjects. Ibrahim (AS) had
then asked him: 'Allah makes the sun rise from the east; can you make it rise from the
west?' The King had no answer. He sentenced Abraham(AS) to be burnt alive.

An Example of EVIDENCE BASED KNOWLEDGE and Scientific Inquiry: the

following Ayah from the Qur'an, Surah Baqarah, 2: 260 : Bismillah ir-Rahman nir
Rahim

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Call to mind the other event also, when Ibrahim (AS) said, "My Lord, show me
how Thou bringeth the dead back to life?" He (Allah SWT) said "Have you no faith
in this?" Ibrahim (AS) humbly replied, "I do believe but I ask this to reassure my
heart."(That is, "I want that peace of mind which is gained by actual experience." )
Allah said, "Well, take four birds and tame them with yourself and then (cut them
into pieces) and place a piece of each of them on each hill. Then call them and they
will come running to you; know this for certain that Allah is All-Powerful, All-Wise."

Surah Ar-Raad, 13: 3

Surah, Ar-Raad, 13: 3:

And it is He Who has spread out the earth, and fixed the immovable mountains in it,
and made the rivers flow on it. He has created in pairs every kind of fruit, and He
covers the day with the veil of night. Surely there are great Signs (Verses of the
Qur'an and Natural Phenomena) in these for those who reflect (Think, Ponder)
upon them. The Qur'an repeatedly provokes and challenges the reader to think and
contemplate the signs of Allah so that she/he can understand.

Give me the name of one Religion that asks its followers to Think, Reflect and
Ponder. Allah (SWT) is challenging the Believers to use their greatest Gift, that is
AQL or the MIND. ISLAM IS NOT A DOGMA.

Dialog – Communication. LESSONS TO LEARN:

I give high marks to Azar the father of Ibrahim (AS), because he engaged in dialog with
his son. There was Communication between father and son. The father did not SAY TO
HIS SON ‘SHUT UP AND JUST OBEY ME” OR “GET LOST AND DO NOT SHOW

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YOUR FACE TO ME AGAIN” OR “DON’T ASK QUESTIONS, JUST FOLLOW MY
ORDERS” The father was truthful in his answers as he never lied to his son.

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO RAISING CHILDREN.

MANY PROBLEMS WILL BE SOLVED IF THERE IS COMMUNCATION

BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN, TEACHERS AND THE TAUGHT,
EMPLOYERS AND EMPLOYEES, RULERS AND THE RULED. INTERNATIONAL
PROBLEMS CAN BE SOLVED BY COMMUNICATION. IRAQ WAR, THE
PALESTENIAN PROBLEM, NORTH KOREA’S AND IRAN’S NUCLEAR
AMBITIONS, ETC. Communication is the key to Conflict Resolution, but with Justice
to the parties.

Communication is a major part of Diplomacy and in the Profession of Psychiatry.

There are Three types of parents: 1. Dictatorial like a dictator- just obey – no questions
asked.

2. Permissive or liberal : Do whatever you want. Just do not bother me.

3. Authoritative: Discipline with words or ORAL DISCIPLINE: Say No, NO, NO when
they are young. Explain to them why you are saying NO. No physical abuse.. THERE
WAS A TIME WHEN THE RULE WAS SPARE THE ROD AND SPOIL THE CHILD.
SPANKING CHILDREN IS ILLEGAL IN AMERICA.

Engage in dialog, debate or hold discussions with children. It is best method of rearing
children. Treat them as friends. Never insult them in front of their friends and others
present.

Ibrahim ( ) bore all the hardships but remained firm and steadfast in his loyalty to
God. One day he broke all the idols one by one, except the largest. As soon as the people
heard of the destruction, they rushed to the temple and Ibrahim (AS) was brought
before them, they asked him: 'Who has done this to our idols?' 'Not I; it is that
big idol over there. Why don't you question him?' They replied that idols did
not speak. Ibrahim ( ) said: Isn't it strange that you should worship these idols
which can neither speak nor do anything. They can neither help nor harm
anyone. Shame on you and on your idol worship. How foolish of you to
worship them. [21:60] Then the people were very angry and they seized Ibrahim ( )
and threw him into a blazing fire. But Allah was with Ibrahim ( ) and made the blaze
feel cool to him. Ibrahim ( ) emerged from the fire unharmed.

The Quran clarifies in Surah 3: 67-68: that Ibrahim (AS) was neither a Jew nor a
Christian. He was a Hanif,(an upright man) a man of pure worship, he was not an
idolater but a believer in One God; only those who follow him are entitled to claim

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relationship with him. Muhammad and his followers are nearer to him. Allah is the
protector of all believers. [3:67-68]

The term Hanif is used 12 times in the Quran; 8 times in reference to Ibrahim (AS)
who is the only person to have been explicity identified with the term

Allah admonishes, In Surah Al-Baqarah, 2: 135-136:

Tell the people, O Muhammad! that to be rightly guided one need not be a Jew or a
Christian. The righteous belong to the community of Abraham, who was pure in his
worship of God. So were Ishmael, Jacob and the tribes, and Moses, Jesus and the rest.
They are all Our messengers; We make no distinction between them. [2:135-136]

SACRIFICE

We Read in the Noble Qur’an, 3:92,

3:92 “You can never attain piety unless you spend (in the way of Allah) of what you
love; surely Allah will have full knowledge of what you spend.

As the door of virtue is shut against anyone who loves any worldly thing more than
Allah, the one who is not ready to sacrifice his or her beloved thing for the sake of God's
love, cannot attain to real virtue. The observance of rituals without this spirit of love is
like the paint on worm-eaten wood. It is possible that a human being might be deceived
by such an outward paint, but it is impossible to deceive God by such devices.

Udhiyah or animal sacrifice is an act of worship which reminds us of the great act of
sacrifice that Prophet Ibrahim(AS) and Isma'eel (AS) were willing to do for the sake
of Almighty Allah.

In the Annual
A pilgrimage of Hajj in Makkah, Muslims remember and commemorate the
trials and triumphs of the Prophet Ibrahim(peace be upon him).

Allah says further in (Al-Hajj 22: 37)

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"It is not their meat nor their blood that reaches Allah; it is your piety that reaches Him."
(Surah Al-Hajj 22:37)

The symbolism is in the attitude - a willingness to make sacrifices in our lives in order to
stay on the Straight Path. It is this strength of heart, purity in faith, and willing obedience
that our Lord desires from us.

It's the sacrifice of the Sahaba that made Islam spread in the East and in the West. It was
the sacrifice of the early Sahaba (ra) that established Islam in Syria, Iraq, Egypt and
Persia, Africa and the Far East. It is the sacrifice of those men of Allah and champions of
truth that made Islam enter China and the Far Eastern countries like Indonesia and
Malaysia. Now our and our children’s sacrifices in the post 9/11 era that is establishing
Islam in North America. Islamic History of North America will remember us.

SACRIFICE- AN INTRODUCTION

What does the word sacrifice mean? In a wider sense, 'sacrifice' means giving up things
which are valued or desired. Those things may be tangible, countable like time, wealth or
life, or intangible that is immeasurable like feelings, attitudes, opinions or aspirations.
They are given up for the sake of something that is more worthy or more important or
more urgent. It is important to bear in mind, though, that primarily sacrifice means
slaughter of animal (Udhiya) or person as offering to God, and, hence, surrender to God
of some possession.

It may be difficult to find in the Quranic vocabulary an exactly equivalent word for
sacrifice, which also has as wide a literary usage. Nearest in meaning perhaps is nusuk:

The Qur'an says in Surah Al-An'am, 6: 162

'Say, my Prayer and my nusuk (sacrifice), my living and dying - all belong to Allah, the
Lord of all the worlds' (al-An'am 6:162).

In one place in the Qur'an, 'giving', along with taqwa (refraining from doing wrong) and
tasdiq (accepting the truth), is all that is required to characterize a good life.

The Qur'an says in Surah, al-Layl 92: 4-10:

"Surely your striving is to diverse ends. As for him who gives, is God-conscious and
believes in the Truth - for him shall We make easy the path towards ease. But, as for him

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who is niggardly (or miserly), behaves as if he is self-sufficient and denies the Truth - for
him shall We(Allah-SWT) make easy the path towards hardship (al-Layl, 92: 4-10).

Sacrifice is the stuff of which good and successful, ordinary human lives are made.
Without sacrifice, life will be devoid of peace, harmony and co-operation, full of conflict
and discord, a prey to self-centeredness, covetousness (greediness or materialism) and
immediate gratification of desires. Moreover, neither families nor communities can exist
or achieve cohesiveness and strength without some sacrifice on the part of their members.
Also, no human endeavour (attempt or venture) can, succeed in reaching its goal unless
one sacrifices things valued or desired. A Mother feeds her baby with her milk, she is
a symbol of sacrifice. She sacrifices everything so that her children can become
something. A mother starves so that her children can eat. She sacrifices her sleep
and comfort.

The status of a mother is very high in the Qur’an. Prophet said “ Paradise lies under
the feet of your mother” This is a metaphor. Example of my mother …

"Islamic life is a life of sacrifice par excellence". It entails a struggle that must be
ceaselessly waged, to actualize Islam, inwardly and outwardly, to make it a living reality.

To Quote the Qur'anic Ayath, "Sacrifice is the nourishment without which the tiny seeds
of Iman will not grow into mighty, leafy trees, providing shade and fruit to the countless
caravans of mankind (Ibrahim 14:24-25). For the loftier (exalted or high-ranking) the
goal and more arduous (difficult or hard or strenuous) the way, the greater the need to
sacrifice, and sacrifice more and more.

Malcolm X (Al-Hajj Malik Al-Shabazz) said, “Revolutionaries are the children and
young people…" "The young people are the ones who most quickly identify with the
struggle and necessity to eliminate the evil conditions that exist.” [Malcolm X]

Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “Whoever is not concerned with the problems of
Muslims is not one of us.” [Hadith]. In Louisville our urgent problem is to attend to
our children who have reached marriageable age. We are not providing opportunities for
them to meet or Halal Dating. We are segregating them. The result is they are marrying
outside our community.

Indeed, today we take Islam for granted. Do we really treasure Islam as a gift? Islam is
not just one gift among many; it is the choicest gift of God! Out of all the countless
bounties of Allah, none can be greater than His gift of guidance and knowledge to us.
How blessed and comforted we are to have certainty of the true meaning and purpose of
our mundane life, while we see so many around us in our own communities, struggling
with hopelessness, depression, and hollowness in their lives!

Not much comes to us in life without endeavour (attempt or venture). We gain only what
we earn by our strivings

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It is obvious that while walking on your personal way to God, you will need to attain
greater and greater heights of sacrifice and self-discipline to succeed in seeking His
pleasure. Similarly, the most valuable bricks or stones will have to go into the
foundations below ground, never to be noticed or appreciated by anyone. Yet they are
bearers of the greatest load, and without their sacrifice the building can not even begin to
rise. The Taj Mahal is a very beautiful building and one of the seven wonders of the
world. It is built on foundation stones which are not noticed or appreciated by anyone.

ISLAMIC ACADEMY TRINIDAD TOBAGO

A few years ago I sent an article written by me to my friend who is a physician from
Bombay and settled in Trinidad. He is the President of the Islamic Academy in Trinidad.
He wrote me back WITH A DU’A “ BLESSED ARE YOUR PARENTS WHO GAVE
BIRTH TO YOU” He changed my Thinking. He has recognized my foundations.

Our achievements in life (terminal degrees, social and economic status, political
power, affluence, creature comforts, etc. ) are due to the foundation stones which
are not recognized nor appreciated. These foundation stones are: parents, teachers,
spouses, siblings, friends.

BEHIND EVERY MAN’S SUCCESS THERE IS A WOMAN. SIR ISAAC NEWTON

SAID “ I AM STANDING ON THE SHOULDERS OF GIANTS”

Similarly, without the help of the individuals in the Muslim community, through their
unique and creative skills, their time for counseling of those in need, their activism and
financial contributions, Islam cannot be expected to survive, let alone spread to the hearts
of individuals of other communities. Every single one of us has something exceptional to
offer to Islam and our communities, no matter how little it may seem, and whether we
recognize it or not. Ask yourself today: “What little can I do to make a difference in the
life of others?”, “What is so unique about me, my skills, and my personality that could be
of benefit to Islam?”, “When was the last time I did some good action that truly required
sacrifice on my part, which may be known to Allah alone?”, “What have I done to thank
Allah for all His blessings, the greatest of which is the guidance of Islam?”

WOMEN:
Many verses in Surah Al-Ahzab are addressed to the wives of the Prophet (SAS) and
not women in general. Surah, Al-Ahzab,33: 33

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The word qarna in the original is derived from qarar according to some lexicographers
and from waqar according to others. In the first sense, it will mean: `Settle down, stick
firmly;" and in the second sense: "Live peacefully, sit with dignity." But he extremists
translated it as “Stay Home”

Several meanings;
If they stayed home how could they answer their calls of nature. They never had
attached bathrooms. They went to the fields to answer the calls of nature. They
never had servants, hence they went to the market to buy groceries and daily necessities.
Furthermore, the noble verse did not prevent the Mother of the Believers (Ummil
Muminoon) and most knowledgeable of Muslim women, Hadrat Ayesha (RAa) to go out
from her home.

Mufassireen (Commentators of the Qur'an) are three types: Liberal, Moderates, and
Extremists.

Several Restrictions are placed on the wives of the Prophet: WHY?

33:32 Oh Wives of the Prophet, you are not like the other women. If you are God-
fearing, do not talk in a soft voice lest the man of the diseased heart should
cherish false hopes from you, but speak in an unaffected manner.

In Surah, Ahzab: 33: 53, we read:

“O you who believe, do not enter the prophet's homes unless you are given permission to
eat, nor shall you force such an invitation in any manner. If you are invited, you may
enter. When you finish eating, you shall leave; do not engage him in lengthy
conversations. This used to hurt the prophet, and he was too shy to tell you. But GOD
does not shy away from the truth. If you have to ask his wives for something, ask them
from behind a (Hijab) barrier. This is purer for your hearts and their hearts. You
are not to hurt the messenger of GOD. You shall not marry his wives after
him, for this would be a gross offense in the sight of GOD”. 33: 53.

HIJAB

In lran, Imam Khomeini first insisted that women must wear the veil and chador, but in
response to large demonstrations by women, he modified his position and agreed that
while the chador is not obligatory, MODEST dress is.

The Quran does not specifically mandate veiling, but simply speaks about modesty,
respect, and the covering of the body. In fact, male modesty is more frequently referred to
in the Quran than female modesty. In most Muslim societies veiling is not enforced, but it
is a choice. Because there is no punishment in the Shari'ah if a woman is not veiled.
According to some scholars the Koran says: "Allah has given you clothes to cover your
shameful parts, and garments pleasing to the eye. But the finest of all these is the robe of
piety."

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KAREN ARMSTRONG ON HIJAB

Karen Armstrong writes in her book, Islam A Short History, on page 14:

"The Quran prescribes some degree of segregation and veiling for the Prophet's wives,
but there is nothing in the Quran that requires the veiling of all women or their seclusion
in the separate part of the house. These customs were adopted some three or four
generations after the Prophet's death. Muslims at that time were copying the Greek
Christians of Byzantium, who had long veiled and segregated their women in this
manner; they also appropriated some of their Christian misogyny.(hatred of women) ..
The women of the first ummah in Madina took full part in its public life, and some,
according to Arab custom, fought alongside the men in battle. They did not seem to
have experienced Islam as an oppressive religion, though later, as happened in
Christianity, men would hijack the faith and bring it into line with the prevailing
patriarchy." (P. 14) (MALE DOMINATED SOCIETY). Patriarchy means :

1. A social system in which the father is the head of the family and men have
authority over women and children.
2. A family, community, or society based on this system or governed by men.

The Quran often emphasizes that women should be treated kindly and with much respect.
It says: 4:19

“O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should
you treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the dowry you have given
them - except when they have become guilty of open lewdness. On the contrary live with
them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that
you dislike something and Allah will bring about through it a great deal of good.” (4:19)

Forgotten Queens of Islam

Muslim history is full of independent women: warriors, poets, wealthy businesswomen
and efficient administrators. Many women had considerable political power.

Hadrat Khadijah (R Aa) was the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (SAS) and the first of
the believers. Being a business woman and having acquired great wealth, she held a very
high social status amongst the Arabs. The voice of Khadijah was the first; the only and
the solitary voice which supported the mission of Prophet Muhammad. She was a true
Minister and a sincere Adviser of the Prophet in his mission.

Hadrat Ayesha,(R Aa) a prophet's wife was an eminent scholar who excelled in learning
about the Noble Quran, injunctions, legality and illegality of things, poetry, medicine,
history of ancient Arabia, and pedigree. She was a scholar, an educator, and a narrator of
2,210 traditions and teachings of the Prophet. She even used to issue legal decisions
under Islamic jurisprudence. There are many more women who have impacted Islamic
history in one way or another. Women were companions to the Prophet that took part in
battles by taking care of the wounded, transmitted and compiled traditions of the Prophet,

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made monetary contributions for the development of mosques, were orators and
poetesses, and became scholars of Islamic knowledge and so on.

For centuries, Muslim women in different struggles and communities have joined men on
the front lines of war, and have died alongside them. The Prophet’s own female relatives
took part in battle; his wife Ayesha led the Battle of the Camel, and his granddaughter
Zaynab bint Ali fought in the Battle of Karbala ( Iraq ). Other women were recognized
for tending to the wounded, donating their jewelry for the battles, and encouraging their
male family members to fight to ensure the survival of Islam.

When Benazir Bhutto became prime minister of Pakistan in 1988, many claimed that it
was a blasphemous assault on Islamic tradition since no Muslim state, critics alleged, had
ever been governed by a woman. But Fatima Mernissi (author of Forgotten Queens of
Islam) examined fifteen centuries of Islamic history and discovered that the critics were
wrong. Fatimid Princess in Egypt, Sitt al Mulk ruled Egypt. Two Muslim women ruled
India, Razia Sultana and Chand Bibi. Another queen Shajarat al-Durr, gained power in
Cairo in 1250 C.E. like any other military leader. In fact, she brought the Muslims a
victory during the Crusades and captured the King of France, Louis IX.

There were 15 or more Muslim Queens who ruled Muslim countries. (The Forgotten
Queens of Islam by Fatima Mernissi).

In modern times, at least five Muslim women became heads of state or Chief Executives,
like President or Prime Ministers. Benazir Bhutto of Pakistan was elected twice as Prime
Minister. Begum Khaleda Zia of Bangladesh was elected twice as Prime Minister of
Bangladesh. Sheikh Hasina Wajed was elected Prime Minister of Bangladesh. Dr. Tansu
Ciller became Prime Minister of Turkey and Megavati Sukarnoputri was elected
President of Indonesia- the most populous Muslim country in the world. It is ironic to
note that no Muslim woman in the Arab countries was ever elected as head of state. It is
also true for the Champion of Democracy- the USA had never had a woman president for
the last 230 years. It is predicted by political pundits that either Hillary Clinton or
Condoleezza Rice might change the history of United States in the 2008 elections.

Today Louisville native, Muhammad Ali's daughter Laila, is a Boxing champion.

Recently Iran's Shirin Ebadi won a Noble Prize for Peace. Another Iranian, Anousheh
Ansari- the first Muslim woman ever to return to earth after a successful space flight.

Muslim women have become pilots, army generals, taxi drivers, police chiefs, mayors of
metropolitan cities, police academy chiefs, spy agents, surgeons and have broken the
glass ceilings.

In Kentuckiana three are at least one dozen Muslim women who are physicians.

Muslim women have the right to education and the right to express creativity,
innovation, inventions, intellectual pursuits and opportunities for achievements.

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Women in Paradise
HADITHS and comments:

(1) "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise."
This Hadith was narrated by Um Salmah/ recorded by At Tirmidhi.

The truth is clear, God never said in the Quran that obeying your husband is a criterion to
enter paradise. Relations between the wife and the husband comes from the mutual
respect and love that God talked about in the Quran. If going to paradise involves
cooking the favorite food of the husband, massaging his feet , and allowing him to take a
second or third wife, this could be an easy way out of all the religious duties. That is what
Satan wants to put in the minds of those who do not want to follow the Quran. If it is
good enough to please the husband to enter paradise, then there would be no need for
doing salat, fasting, zakat or Hajj. Why go the difficult and un-guaranteed way?

(2) "Had it been permissible that a person prostrates before another, I would have ordered
that a wife prostrate before her husband." ( Narrated by Abu Hurairah/ recorded by AT
Tirmidhi)

That is another criterion to get to paradise as Hadith books claim. You can see the
discrepancies between the greatness of God and the inferiority of man when you compare
this statement that is claimed to be what the prophet Muhammed said and the words of
God in 30:21

"Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order
to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts LOVE
and CARE towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who
THINK."

Did they forget what God teaches in the Quran:

"...do not reverence human beings; you shall reverence Me (God) instead...." Quran
5:44, 9:18

Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar!

(3)"If a man orders a woman to lift a mountain she should be ready to lift it." (Musnad
Ahmed)

That means to enter paradise, ladies…. be ready to lift a mountain otherwise your
husband would not be happy with you. What this has to do with Islam, where the
submission is only to God, and where God is telling us that He is treating the women
equal to men. What is this about the weaker sex ?!

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(4) "A woman should not fast except with her husband's permission." (Narrated by Abu
Hurairah/ Recorded in Sahih Bukhary, Vol 7 #120)

Where in the Quran is this order. Where in the Quran does God say that a wife would not
be responsible for her own sin if she listens to her husband? The order for fasting in the
Quran goes to both men and women. God holds every mature person responsible for
his/her deed. God told us repeatedly in the Quran that on the day of Judgment people will
always blame somebody else for their fall, but this does not help. see 2:166-167

While these alleged Hadiths are trying hard to degrade women and make them a
lower class than men, while claiming that is what will get these women to Paradise, God
completely protected the women and made them equal to their fellow men. Read and
meditate on 9:71

"The believing men and women are ALLIES OF ONE ANOTHER. They advocate
righteousness and forbid evil, they observe the Contact Prayers (Salat) and give
Zakat and they obey God and His messenger. These will be showered by God's
mercy. God is Almighty, Most Wise."

These are fabrications in Hadiths books as they are against the Qur’an. The
prophet Muhammed (SAS) will complain to God on the day of Judgment as we read in
25:30.

"The messenger said, "My Lord, my people have deserted this Quran."

Dear Muslim Youth: Take the opportunity of Eid to be kind to your parents, and know
that obedience to your parents is obedience to Allah, provided your parents are free of
disobedience to Allah. Stay away from addictions, like alcohol, cigarettes, drugs for they
destroy the heart, the intellect and the society. Make your parents the Blessed parents by
becoming the Great Scholars, Great Physicians, Great Scientists, Great Generals, Great
Political Leaders. You have a Galaxy of Heroes in the Islamic History.

Part II
American Muslims have the opportunity to demonstrate that not only is Islam a religion
for all times and all places but it is not a threat or trial for others. We can prove that
Muslims can live in harmony with non-Muslims and that the thesis of the clash of
civilizations is bogus.
America, in spite of its faults, its limitations and even its sins and sinners, is easily the
best place to live on earth. If you do not believe me, then ask the millions of Muslims
desperate to leave their countries, their families, their societies to come to America.
The thing that is most precious about America is not its capitalist nature or its wealth, it is
the first amendment. (Monroe, Thomas Jefferson, studied Qur'an, Seerah, Muqaddimah
by Ibn Khaldun, Administration of Hadrat Umar (RA) before US Constitution was
written).
The ideal of freedom of religion and thought in America has allowed it to become a
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freedom of religion allows Muslims to practice Islam. In essence there can be no faith
without freedom; it must therefore be guarded very jealously.
A vast majority of American Muslims are highly educated, enlightened and have for
decades performed their jobs with dignity, integrity and excellence. The Qur’an really
teaches: Where Muslims are allowed to practice their religion and there is no one trying
to drive them away from their homes, Muslims are required to deal kindly and justly with
all non-Muslims [Qur’an 60:8]. Muslim scholars have a name for places like America –
Dar-ul-Aman [house of peace].
We, and by we I mean all Americans, Muslims and non-Muslims must not allow, a few
rotten apples, to impose their thoughtless understanding of Islam on others, subvert free
societies, distort Islamic teachings and undermine the hope for a harmonious relationship
between America and its Muslims.
Every nation has its celebration, and today is our celebration. Today is Eid Al-Adha, the
greatest day of Hajj. It is a day that is preceded by a glorious day which is the day of the
standing on Arafat. Eid Al-Adha is linked to the Hajj which is a journey that every sane,
adult Muslim must undertake at least once in their lives if they can afford it and are
physically able. And of the main themes and messages of hajj is submission and
obedience to Allah.

While celebrating the joy of this Eid-ul Adha celebration, we need to recognize our
fellow believers who are completing their Hajj. Let us pray that Allah accepts their Hajj
And for their safe return to their homes.

CONGRATULATIONS AND EID MUBARAK. THIS CONCLUDES THE

KHUTBAH. JAZAKALLAH.

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