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Noel
Noel Baltazar Benitez

25 December 1947 - 15 July 2008
Vice President for Institutional Operations,

Campus Development and Resource Generation, PWU
Member, Board of Trustees, PWC Davao
President, Unlad Resources Development Corporation
Member, Board of Directors, Unlad Rural Bank
President, Manila South Coast Development Corporation
Managing Director, Chiron Development Corporation
Managing Director, Sunrise Security
The University is formally informed of the unexpected 6
death of PWU Vice-President Noel B. Benitez
PMO No. 32 SY 2008-2009, July 15, 2008
Noel Baltazar Benitez: A Biography 7
Glimpses of Noel’s Life 10
The University bids farewell to VP Noel 14
The Eucharistic Celebration and Necrological 16
Services at PWU
- The Homily: Rev. Fr. Paul Marquez, SSP 16
- Necrological Speakers:
• Atty. Theuntheth Javier, on behalf of SM Investment 18
Corporation
• Ms. Ma. Loreto Lopez, on behalf of PWC Davao 19
• Ms. Leonor Petra Elepaño, on behalf of Bayanihan 21
• Naomi Isabelle Saguil, on behalf of JASMS Manila 23
• Dr. Dolores Baja Lasán, on behalf of the University 23
• Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes, on behalf of the Family 25
• The Response: Mr. Marco Benitez 29
Interment 31
The 9th Day Eucharistic Celebration 32
- The Homily: Rev. Fr. Tito Caluag 32
- The Response: Mrs. Suzie Moya Benitez 34
V. The University President’s Memorandum 36
on “In Memoriam” – PMO No. 33 SY 2008-2009,
July 21, 2008
VI. Remembering Noel Benitez 37
- From the Heart of His Children
• Marco – Response during the Funeral Mass 38
• Marielle – “My Dad . . . My Coach . . . My Hero . . .” 42
• Marton – “My Father Taught Me About Life” 44
- From his Family
• Dr. Helena Z Benitez 46
• Jose Fil Benitez 47
• Tatti Licuanan 47
• Jet, Justin, Eric, Trevor, Tana and Mara Benitez 48
• Bay Ledesma 48
• Freddie Reyes 49
• Tina Benitez 49
- From his Friends and Colleagues
• Mr. Henry Sy 50
• P/Supt. Frumencio Bernal III 50
• Colonel Roger Luis 51
• From a Friend 51
• Dr. Karen Webb & VP Terrence Barber 52
• Annie Martin 52
• Puri Capistrano Laconico 52
• Alain Giraud 53
• Maritess Alava Yong 53
• Jennifer Peña 54
• Ana Arambulo 55
• Cesar G. Torres, Jr. 55
• Imelda Trillo 56
• Justice Manuel Lazaro 58
• Popoy Magno 58
• Ernest Rufino 59
• Epi Miranda and Roshan Jamir 60
- From the PWU Community
• Jose P. Cabazor 62
• Fr. Tony E. Lazaro 63
• Nilo & Erlinda Chincuanco 63
• Engr. Tadeo G. Claravall 64
• Ms. Tess A. Bernales 65
• Babes M. De Leon 66
• Ms. Marilou Mirasol 67
• Mrs. Beatriz E. Biyo 68
• Ms. Sonia Atabug 69
• From a member of the PWU Community 69
• Ms. Amelia Bonifacio 70
• Dr. Ida Yap-Patron 70
• Ms. Emilie Dalisay 71
• Ms. Juliet Manlapaz 71
• Ms. Geraldine Tiongson Osias 71
• Ms. Helen Marte 72
• Ms. Regina Flores Tercero 73
• Mrs. Loline Adelina Reed 73
• Dr. Eden Kelemen 74
• Mr. Gene Albert E. Velunta 74
• Dr. Lorenzo Lorenzo 75
• Mrs. Diony M. Angeles 76
• Ms. Puritz P. Uson 76
• Dr. Christy Cruz 78
• Ms. Lorraine P. Petalver 78
• Mrs. Remedios H. Cruz 79
• Dr. Ana Cordovilla 80
• Dr. Nenita M. Cruz 80
• Ms. Bing Quintos 82
• Ms. Charito Bitanga Peralta 83
• Ms. Becky D. Yusingco 83
• Aida A. Arrieta 84
• Shirley D. Resumadero 85
• Myrna Alianza 85
• Benny Canlas 85
• Arthur G. Arafol 86
• Albert Miranda, Jr. 86
• Sandro M. Cariño 86
• Rene Parra 87
• Norberto Olid 87
• Raul Encela 87
• Jimmy Parada 87
• Estrelita Jasareno 87
• Claudia Calsena 88
• Leila Cariño 89
• Alejandro M. Mamba, Jr. 90
• Mr. Federico E. Tagailo 90
• Ms. Cynthia Zamora, Ms. Estrella Galia, Ms. Evelyn
Rodica & Ms. Maricel Seva 92
• Ms. Vee M. Andrada 92
• Mira-Nila Staff 93
• Bing Deloria, Larry Villafranca, June Del Prado 93
• PWU NSTP Faculty 93
• Dr. Fiel Nierva 94
• Ms. Lorna Alvarez Salutal & Staff of Multimedia
Publication & University Publishing House 95
• Dr. Zenaida G. Sadiwa 95
• Dr. Leonora N. Panlasigui 96
• Evelyn Pantig 96
• Reiner Suva 96
• School of Nursing 97
• School of Fine Arts and Design Faculty and Staff 97
• Carol Zamora 98
• Raul Santos 99
• Rachell Fernandez 100
• Joe Seguerra 100
• Mr. Arsenio J. Vistro 101
• Mark Joel B. Bernal 102
• Atty. Herminio A. Liwanag 102
• Dr. Nini F. Lim 103
• Donna Casas Robles 103
• Edith Andro 104
• Lynn Cadorniga 104
APPENDICES
i. The Missalette for the PWU Eucharistic Celebration and
Necrological Services 105
ii. Responsory for Noel Baltazar Benitez 114
Years
Treasuring the PWU Legacy
OFFICE OF THE PRESIDENT & Sustaining Spirituality & Quality
President’s Memorandum Order in Building a Global Institution
(PMO) No. 032 SY 2008-2009
TO : THE PWU COMMUNITY
THRU : THE CHANCELLOR, VICE PRESIDENTS

ASSISTANT VICE PRESIDENTS, DEANS,
HEADS OF ACADEMIC AND NON-ACADEMIC UNITS
FROM : THE UNIVERSITY PRESIDENT
DATE : JULY 15, 2008
SUBJECT : NECROLOGICAL MASS IN HONOR OF MR. NOEL B.

BENITEZ, VICE-PRESIDENT FOR INSTITUTIONAL
OPERATIONS, CAMPUS DEVELOPMENT AND
RESOURCE GENERATION
____________________________________________________________________________
You are all enjoined to attend the necrological concelebrated mass in honor of PWU Vice-
President Noel B. Benitez on Thursday, July 17, 2008, 10:00 a.m. at the PWU Chapel with
University Chaplain, Rev. Fr. Artemio Fabros as main celebrant; co-celebrants are PWU
JASMS Quezon City Campus Chaplain, Rev. Fr. Antonio E. Lazaro, Jr., OFM and Rev. Fr. Paul
Marquez, SSP as homilist. The wake will be at Santuario de San Antonio, Forbes Park starting
today, July 15 until Thursday, July 17, 2008.
Mr.Noel Benitez served as PWU Vice-President for Institutional Operations, Campus

Development and Resource Generation from January 1, 2003 until his untimely death. Mr.
Benitez also served as member of the Board of Trustees of the Philippine Women’s College of
Davao from July 28, 2005 and President of the Unlad Resources Development Corporation.
The PWU Community is offering a nine-day Novena mass during the 12:00 noon mass at the
PWU Chapel for the eternal repose of his soul. The PWU Community extends their heartfelt
condolences to Assistant Vice President Suzie M. Benitez, Ms. Marielle M. Benitez, Director,
Sports Development, Tonton, Marco and the siblings: the PWU University President, Dr.
Amelou Benitez Reyes, Immediate Past President, Dr. Jose Conrado Benitez, former University
Treasurer Ms. Maritza Canto, aunt “Tita Helen,” Chairperson of the PWU Board of Trustees
and other relatives.
Let us pray for the eternal repose of his soul.
DR. DOLORES BAJA LASÁN

Chancellor on behalf of the Office of the President
• Remembering Noel Benitez

i s aunt and PWU Board of
Trustees Chair Helena Z Benitez, Tita
Helen, called him “the silent water that
ran deep.”
How deep is amply shown in the listing

of his professional, work and civil society
involvements below. President of seven
corporations; chairman of two, one
corporate the other a civic movement;
managing director of another; member
of the board of trustees of PWC of
Davao and of the parents Board of De la
Salle University. And of course, VP for
Institutional Operations and Resource
Generation of PWU, the only one most
of us know about.
How silent is that we never knew those other things until after we tried to
research who he is (or, alas, was) after his demise. We know how much he was
able to do in the few years that he was our VP for Institutional Operations
and Resource Generation. Reading his curriculum vitae, we can begin to
understand and appreciate how he was able to achieve so much in his brief
lifetime.
Born in Manila on December 25, he was aptly named Noel. He studied at

De La Salle University from elementary through high school, graduating
with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration in 1971. While still
an undergrad, Noel applied his supervision and management skills as Farm
Manager (1969 – 1972) of the family’s mango orchard production and
marketing in Cavite.
40th Day Observance, August 23, 2008 •

As a Senior Research Assistant at the UP Institute of Urban Studies in 1972,
he undertook research work and studies in educational planning, metropolitan
finance, land use distribution for agriculture. As Urban/Regional Planner
(January to September 1973), he provided over-all supervision and control
to a multi-disciplinary group that undertook various economic studies in the
three sectors of the Metropolitan Manila economy.
He obtained a Master’s degree in Environmental Planning at the UP Institute

of Urban Studies in 1973. In the same year, he went for Advanced Training
on Urban Regional Planning at the United Nations Center for Regional
Development in Nagoya, Japan on a UNDP-DPWTC Scholarship.
As a Regional Planner (October 1973 to July 1974), he served as Deputy

Project Director of the National Framework Plan, a joint project of the
UP Institute of Planning, UNDP and DPWTC. He directly assisted the
Project Director in project development, implementation and evaluation
of the different sectoral studies, including management of research studies
and recommendation of alternative solutions to urban-rural problems, and
provided external assistance and coordination with the different government
agencies participating in the national framework plan.
Noel then joined the private sector as an Entrepreneur from 1974 to

1980, and again from 1986 to 1999. As a Licensed Real Estate Broker and
Businessman, he.attained the following business affiliations and posts:
Managing Director (1990 – 1999), Southern Breeze RealtyDevelopment

Corporation. A firm engaged in the management and operation of Taal
Vista Hotel in Tagaytay City, Cavite.
President, Manila South Coast Development Corporation. A member

of the SM Group of Companies, engaged in land consolidation, estate
management, planning and development of a 5,700 hectares for the
purpose of ecotourism estate, land management, land and water
recreation and the eventual creation of a Tourism Satellite City in
Nasugbu, Batangas.
President, Benitez Investment, Inc. A family firm engaged in real estate

development, leasing and management of its properties.
Chairman, Board of Directors, Unlad Rural Bank of Noveleta, Cavite
• Remembering Noel Benitez

President, Unlad Resources Development Corporation
Chairman, Asian Appraisal Company, Inc.
Managing Director, Chiron Development, Inc.
Managing Director/Treasurer, Sunrise Security Investigation & General

Services, Inc.
President, Sunbless Manpower Corp
President, Easy Payment Corporation
President, Fedman Owners Group
Chairman, Camps for Champs
His organizational affiliations included membership in the Philippine Institute

of Environmental Planners, the Cavite Group of Realtors, and the Philippine
Association of Real Estate Brokers, Cavite Chapter.
In the Academe, Noel Benitez was Vice-President, Institutional Operations

& Resource Generation, The Philippine Women’s University, and Member,
Board of Trustees, Philippine Women’s College of Davao
Noel Benitez joined the political arena from 1980 to 1986 as Vice-Mayor of
Tagaytay City. In this capacity, he was Presiding Officer of the City Council;
Head, Zoning Administration; Committee Chairman, Finance, Public Works
& Infrastructure, Land Use Planning, Ways & Means; Committee Member,
Education, Culture & Sports, Social Welfare and Housing.
Noel B. Benitez and wife Suzie Moya Benitez have been blessed with three
children—Marco, Marielle and Marton.
40th Day Observance, August 23, 2008 •

10 • Remembering Noel Benitez
40th Day Observance, August 23, 2008 • 11
L -Family members and the PWU Community await the arrival of the “urn”. R-
Chancellor Dr. Dolores Baja Lasán and AVP Tadeo Claravall carry the “urn” to CB
Hall, with VP Noel’s family and PWU community in procession at the HZB hall.
VP Noel’s remains are placed at the altar of the CB Hall, where the Eucharistic
Celebration and Necrological Services were held.
In grief over the loss of a beloved nephew, husband, father, brother ...

The Benitez family hold hands in prayer for Noel.
The Eucharistic Celebration was offered by University Chaplain Rev. Fr. Artemio Fabros
(center) as main celebrant; concelebrants were (from left) Rev. Fr. Itoy Ignacio, Rev. Msgr.
Jose Clemente Ignacio, Rev. Fr. Paul Marquez, Rev. Fr. Antonio Lazaro Jr., Rev. Fr.
Rolando Garcia, Jr., Rev. Fr. Joel Jason, and Rev. Fr. Ramon Merino.
VP Noel’s children Marco, Marielle and Marton... friends, colleagues at the University
come together to remember VP Noel Benitez.

The Homily
Fr Paul J. Marquez, SSP
Last Tuesday, at half past seven in the morning, I received a text message
from the office of the University President Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes. The
text message relayed the sad and shocking news that Mr. Noel Benitez had
succumbed to a heart attack. I kept hoping and wishing that there was a
mistake in the message, that the attack was not fatal and that Mr. Benitez
was somehow still fighting for dear life. My spontaneous reaction was: “Oh,
no!” and to offer prayers for him and for his beloved wife Suzie and for their
children Marco, Marielle and Tonton.
All of us who have known Mr. Benitez must have quietly uttered a similar cry of
protest. “Oh, no!” He cannot die. He is very much alive. He was just with us on the
birthday of his aunt Dr. Helena Benitez last June 27. He even joined the offertory
procession during Mass and he was all over the place during the dinner party. We
even exchanged “Hi! Hello!” and when we bid each other goodbye, it never crossed
my mind it would be the last time that I would be seeing Mr. Benitez.
Up to this time, it is still difficult for me to think that he is gone because only
last Friday, he asked his secretary Grace if I would be available for Mass on
Friday, which is tomorrow, the death anniversary of his mother Doña Lulu. I
was told to wait for final confirmation since he had to consult with his siblings.

Now we all know the true reason why Mr. Benitez had kept the schedule of
Mass tentative. He was about to embark on a different journey.
I have very fond recollections of Mr. Noel Benitez. I have been privileged to
join numerous family gatherings of the Benitez clan, and Mr. Benitez always
stood out as a quiet and gentle presence. I appreciate so much how he always
went out of his way to welcome me and make me feel comfortable. Every time
we talked to each other, we did call each other on a first-name basis. He was a
most gracious host, deeply spiritual, and also did charity work without fanfare.
During the last party I attended in their home, almost all those present had
gone to confession. Noel and Suzie’s home instantly became a house-church
like the time of the first Christians.
We would also have chance meetings, like during a funeral Mass at Santuario.
Another time, Mr. Benitez saw me along Paseo de Roxas street one rainy
afternoon waiting for a cab and he offered to have his driver bring me home.
But I cannot forget, most of all, that time when he personally drove his car and
brought me home to St. Paul Seminary after a party in Dasmariñas. That night
I gave him a copy of the magazine where his daughter Marielle was cover girl.
I noticed how Noel’s face beamed with pride.
Today I choose to remember Mr. Noel Benitez by his loving acts of kindness.
I am sure that his family—his wife Suzie and their children—have a lifetime
of wonderful memories of this great friend, this faithful husband and this
good father. I am also sure that his siblings and other relatives, friends and
acquaintances would terribly miss such a good person and a real gentleman.
We shall all miss him.
We are not bidding you goodbye, my brother. We say instead: until we all meet
again. Thank you Lord for lending Noel to us. Thank you for the 60 wonderful
years that you had given to him. Thank you for giving him to his family, to the
PWU community and to all of us whose lives he had touched. We thank you
Lord because when Noel lived in our midst, we truly felt the Emmanuel, God
who walks with us.
Eternal rest, grant unto Noel, O Lord. And let perpetual light shine upon him.
May Noel rest in peace. Amen.

Necrological Speakers
A Tribute to My Role Model

by Atty. Theuntheth Javier, on behalf
of SM Investment Corporation
When I was invited to speak this morning I had

certain hesitation to accept. The hesitation comes
from the thought that what I will say may not do
justice to a man whose professional life was worth
emulating and retelling.
However, because of my desire to show my deep gratitude, great admiration and

respect to Mr. Noel B. Benitez, I was able to set aside said hesitation.
I had the privilege of working with Mr. Benitez at SM and at some of his
personal legal concerns. But I will limit my character sketch of the man in his
hat as an Executive of SM.
At the time of his death, Mr. Benitez is the President of Manila Southcoast
Development Corp. (“MSDC”), one of the companies under the SM
conglomerate. Since our respective jobs needed close coordination, I was able to
observe Mr. Benitez up close.
Mr. Benitez was hard working. The last time I spoke with him over the cell
phone was last Friday, July 11. He was inquiring about what happened on a
case I attended for Manila Southcoast, the afternoon before. Last Monday,
July 14, I had a meeting with him which lasted for over one (1) hour starting
at 11:00 A.M and which could have been extended had I not begged off from
Mr. Benitez’ lunch invitation because of a prior professional commitment. Our
meeting was focused on Mr. Benitez’ various concerns on the upcoming projects
of MSDC.
He was a team player. He was a coach, player and manager all rolled into one.
He was always with his team at the dug out: soliciting the opinions of his players;
discussing with them the plans and strategies of the games ahead. You could
sense his readiness to suit up for the game especially when he knew that his
presence was needed. At the victory party, he was never selfish with the trophy.

He was generous with praises and recognition to his players for a job well-done. He
was always looking for the welfare of the whole team including the support staff.
Mr. Benitez was the consummate negotiator. With his breeding and education,
he was able to cross with ease the camps of the privileged and the not so
privileged. He also possessed the character to put everyone at ease- a critical
ingredient in any successful negotiation.
I will remember the participation and performance of Mr. Benitez during

SM’s Christmas parties and company events, perhaps reminiscent of his
old Bayanihan days, and which in some way helped in endearing him to our
officemates.
Mr. Benitez was simple, unassuming and down to earth. And for all of that, we
thank the Benitez family for sharing with SM the time, talent and the person of
Mr. Benitez.
With the untimely passing of Mr. Benitez, the Sy family has lost a loyal and
dedicated business partner.
With the untimely passing of Mr. Benitez, the SM Organization has lost an
effective leader.
With the untimely passing of Mr. Noel B. Benitez, I lost a role model.
Message delivered on behalf of PWC of Davao

by Ma. Loreto Abella Lopez
On behalf of Chairperson Rosa Santos Munda,

trustee Rosario Abella Lizada, Vice-President Amelia
B. Bonifacio and the PWC of Davao community,
together with AVP Amy Rey and Dean Ida Patron,
I would like to extend our sincerest condolences to
Suzie Benitez and her children, Mariel, Marco and
Tonton, to Tita Helen, President Amelou, Conrad
and the Benitez family and the PWU community for
this untimely loss.

Noel Benitez was the newest and youngest member of the PWC of Davao
Board of Trustees. In the more recent years, we fondly remember his visits
to Davao. In July 2005, he attended the installation of Amelou as PWC
President. In August 2006, he participated in the various activities of the 2nd
Global PWU-PWC Alumni Reunion & Congress. In 2007, he twice attended
the meetings of the Board of Trustees. Lastly, in April 2008, Noel went to
Davao for the graduation ceremonies and danced the Rigodon de Honor
during graduation ball. AVP Amy was his privileged partner.
Foremost in our remembrances is Noel’s passion for the development of

sports. In each and every visit, he reiterated the importance of sports in the
personality development of students. It was Noel who insisted on placing a
track and field oval, a softball diamond, 2 basketball courts and a swimming
pool into PWC’s site development plan. He spoke with us administrators, with
our PE teachers, and with the PTA regarding his proposals and got each of us
into also being passionate with sports. For this, we are forever grateful.
Despite the few times shared with him, we very well remember his simplicity,
his graciousness and his sense of gratitude.
During practices for the Rigodon, Noel arrived at PWC on time. He walked
his way or rode the tricycle to and from PWC. He seemed to appreciate and
enjoy Davao and PWC’s provincial environment. He was also a good Rigodon
dancer and coach so much so that VP Mely contracted him to be her Rigodon
partner for the Graduation ball 2009.
Once, Noel told us that he always speaks his mind, voices his opinions and is
firm in his proposals because, to quote his words, “saying naman na pinaaral
ako ni Tita Helen, tapos tatahimik na lang ako.”
Our last meeting with him was during Tita Helen’s birthday celebration last
June. We presented to him, to Tita Helen and President Amelou the final
version of the PWC development plan. He was truly happy that an open
sports complex, his pet project for PWC, had been integrated in the plan. We
also talked about the small PWC lots across the present campus and their
best use. These are the lots near the new Mindanao Folk Arts Museum and
Studies Center. It was also then that Noel proposed that the PWC hotel and
dormitory be built within these lots. When VP Mely expressed satisfaction
and said “ang galing-galing naman ng proposal na ito”, he once again said,
“pinagaralan ko yan sa college.” Only then did we learn he had an MA in
Urban Planning.

Suzie, Tita Helen, President Amelou, thank you for bringing Noel to PWC
of Davao. We know that he enjoyed his visits to PWC of Davao as much as
we did. As we say goodbye to him, let us also say thank you for his simplicity,
gentleness, graciousness, gratitude, his vibrance and vigor, and for that
peaceful smile that never left his face.
Ms. Leonor Petra Elepaño,

on behalf of the Bayanihan National Folkdance Company
of the Philippines
Good morning, I am Petra from Bayanihan, I feel

it an honor to be here, to come and say a final
goodbye on behalf of the staff and performing artists
of the Bayanihan. Had it not been for Tito Noel’s
persistence, and talked to my Tita, “tell Petra’s
parents that let her job wait and make her dance first
in Bayanihan,” I will not be an active member of the
company. He knew how much I love dancing and
knowing that I am just >01% of the many people he
was acquainted with, he was very thoughtful to know
what I want. He had his personal touch with people
that make you feel important and give you courage to achieve your goal. I
remember what Yeli once told me, that Tito said, to do what you can do while
you’re still young.
He was everything to everyone who knew him. He was the strength in Yeli that
made her continue to fight in a game where exhaustion was also an enemy. She
will hear his whistle and that’s all it takes to make her adrenaline shoot up. He
was Tonton’s wake up call and tour guide. He told him to try the best things in
every country he was visiting, like the mussels and beer in Belgium, although
the beer was off-limits… Bayanihan rule. He stayed in Ateneo bleachers to
support Marco even if he was a green archer’s alumnus.
I don’t know how he does it but he was able to give encouraging words or
actions to everyone. He once told Ate Annie, our singer, after our three-month
tour in the States, “100% improved!” with thumbs up. Those simple words
were enough to make an eternal mark in her. He even asked Elmer a former

musician, when he was coming back to play music in the company. He knew,
what was in his heart. He watched everybody as if he was trying to know them
better and what it was they were yearning for. He even knew how many times
I had been going back and forth from the buffet table, even those small things
he noticed.
He was so great, but what made him greater than great was that he remained
humble even with all his achievements. He would talk to anyone no matter
what their station in life is, a student, an officer, a child, an old man, or
whoever you are, as long as you approach him, he would willingly talk to you.
And despite the many demands from his jobs, he always had time to be with
Tita Suzie, to watch us rehearse, listen with us during our green rooms, and
mainly, support her and the company.
He knew the importance of living life to the fullest and death was a reminder
that one should not waste time, and better move to reach the goal. Paolo
Coelho, a favorite writer of mine and Yeli’s, wrote:
“Death is possibly the most important thing in life. We are walking towards
death, but we never know when death will touch us and it is our duty,
therefore to look around us, to be grateful for each minute. But we should
also be grateful to death, because it makes us think about the importance of
each decision we take, or fail to take, it makes us stop doing anything that
keeps us stuck in the category of the living dead, and instead urges us to risk
everything, to bet everything on those things we always dreamed of doing
because, whether we like it or not the angel of death is waiting for us.”
That was probably why he was always supportive of the dreams and goals we
want to achieve. Like him, he did everything. He didn’t take time for granted
and achieved so much that he became the Vice-Mayor of Tagaytay, VP of
PWU, a Bayanihan member, an ideal boss, an inspiring officemate, to some
people, may I quote “protector and savior”, the strength of the family, a loving
husband, and most of all, a father to his three great kids and us, who had been
touched by his existence.

Naomi Isabelle Saguil,
JASMS Manila Grade IV Student
VP Noel was not just an official… he was a caring

and thoughtful person. He did most anything to
make JASMS Manila, our school, as good as it can
be. He quietly came to visit us many many times,
any time of the day, any day of the week, just to
check whatever else we needed. We pray that VP
Noel and the angels who surround him continue
to watch over JASMS and guide the living who take on the tasks he had begun.
As we bid you farewell, we would like you to know that JASMS will never be
the same without you, VP Noel. We shall miss you because we at the JASMS
Manila, love you.
Dr. Dolores B. Lasán, University Chancellor

and VP for Academic Affairs, Research and Publications
on behalf of the University
I am truly humbled to speak on behalf of

the University which I know is very close
to the heart of Noel Benitez and that each
and everyone in the University has a very
special feeling for Noel. Yet, like the good
old “Tita” which he usually calls me I
shall in feeble words try to do so.
Beloved family, Assistant Vice President

Suzie Moya Benitez, Marco, Marielle,
and Tonton, and the siblings: PWU
University President Dr. Amelou Benitez
Reyes, Immediate Past President Dr. Jose
Conrado Benitez, former University Treasurer Ms. Maritza B. Canto, aunt
“Tita Helen,” Chairperson of the PWU Board of Trustees, Trustee Conrado
Benitrez II and other relatives and friends of Noel Benitez.

God, in his infinite wisdom and love, called our dear Noel Benitez to His
beautiful garden of blessed eternity. Now, there in one of God’s mansions
reserved for His faithful children, VP Noel or Sir Noel as we fondly call him
at the Philippine Women’s University, now watches over all of us, his beloved
wife AVP Suzie Benitez and children Marielle, Marco and Tonton, siblings,
relatives, friends and I am sure he, too watches over the Philippine Women’s
University which he served with dedication and commitment during the last
years of his life on earth.
The PWU community struggles to recover from the shock over the sudden
death of VP Noel. In his honor, the University flag now flies half mast,
symbolic of this educational institution’s great respect for one of the youngest
of the third generation of the Benitez clan headed by the Benitez family
matriarch, “Tita Helen,” who has taken up the cause of the University among
his many other responsibilities in other fields of endeavors.
We poor mortals at the University could not help but feel the physical void
Noel Benitez has left us. However, his legacy as Vice-President for Institutional
Operations, Campus Development and Resource Generation will always be
part of the University’s history. For VP Noel has touched the lives of all sectors
of the University as he orchestrated and oversaw the continuing development
of the University’s physical facilities and equipment, the institutional services,
campus development and resource generation for the University under very
difficult circumstances and limited resources. With competing requests and
demand for his attention and services from all levels, the elementary, tertiary
and graduate students, faculty, and administrators, VP Noel has maintained
a clear and rational perspective of the University priorities in a caring and
understanding manner. His concern for the students of the University is the
great hallmark of the difficult decisions he had to make as he rallied everybody
for the greater good of the greatest number of people in the University. As
a Sports enthusiast, he was the moving spirit behind the revitalization of
the Sports Program of the University. Indeed, VP Noel has made a singular
significant contribution to the imminently forthcoming official announcement
that the Commission on Higher Education has granted the Philippine
Women’s University an Autonomous Status.
I shall personally always remember VP Noel as a member of the University

Management Committee who has the courage to unravel the hard facts behind
issues and concerns under discussion. His sharp and incisive insights never fail
to set the perspectives for proper decisions and actions.

Above all, what the University will treasure most is the person that is VP Noel
—always approachable, ready to listen and find meaning in both small and big
matters with a subtle sense of humor in putting forth his ideas. A subtle sense
of humor. During one of Suzie’s extended Bayanihan tours I asked VP Noel—
“What do you hear from Suzie.” He said: “I don’t hear from Suzie, I only read
from her.”
Please pray for us VP Noel that we at the University may have the wisdom
and the resources to continue what you have so concretely started towards
our efforts to treasure the PWU legacy and sustain spirituality and quality in
building the global institution.
The JASMS child said it all on behalf of all of us at the University when he
said, We love you, Sir Noel!
In unison from a prayerful PWU faith community, we implore: “Eternal rest

grant Sir Noel, Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.”
Lovingly Remembering Noel

by Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes,
University President
On behalf of the University and the

Benitez family, we wish to express our
heartfelt gratitude to the reverend fathers,
headed by our University Chaplain, Fr.
Artemio Fabros, Fr. Tony Lazaro, PWU
JASMS Quezon City Chaplain, Fr. Paul Marquez, our family friend who
baptized most of my grandchildren, Monsignor Clemente Ignacio, parish
priest of Quiapo and head of TV Maria, also from San Carlos Seminary, Fr.
Ramon Merino, Fr. Rolly Garcia, and Fr. Itoy Ignacio.
I had hesitated to speak today because this is one of the most difficult tasks as
your University President. I felt I would not be able to do this, to stand before you
representing as well the Benitez Family, being the eldest among the third generation.
I have gained strength because I would like to formally acknowledge the great
work that Noel has done for the University since 2003, when I started my

presidency. On behalf of the PWU Board, officials and management, we wish
to formally express our gratitude and heartfelt appreciation, most especially
to Noel’s family, for the numerous achievements VP Noel has contributed for
the University. He was fondly called the “miracle worker” and through Noel’s
leadership, we succeeded in meeting the growing demands of accreditation
and IQUAME requirements and the development in our institutional
structures, the beautification of our campus based on the extensive plans and
endless discussions and disagreements that we have worked out together. It
was Noel’s persistency to slowly but surely improve the physical aspect of the
University to complement the many academic innovations that we have been
undertaking over the past years of my presidency.
We are eternally grateful most especially: to Suzie, his wife, who also serves as
our AVP for Culture, Music, Arts and Sports, and the Executive Director of the
Bayanihan Philippine National Folkdance Company; to Marco (the godson of
my late husband Andy); Marielle, Director for Sports Development; and Tonton.
Noel was the youngest among the siblings, my sister, Ms. Maritza Canto, and
my brother Jolly, the immediate past PWU president. Although the youngest, my
late mother made Noel the President of our closed family corporation, Benitez
Investments, which he effectively managed to be included in the listing of best
1000 corporations of the Philippines. Noel was also the President of UNLAD
Resources and was also working with the SM Group of Companies.
Jesus Christ’ Seventh word: FATHER, INTO THY HANDS I COMMEND

MY SPIRIT. This seventh word provides me with great courage to accept
Noel’s sudden death, to realize that when God Almighty decides, “it’s time to
return home—finished or not finished—pass your papers.” Monday afternoon
this week, we were having our usual MANCOM meeting and I was happy I
was able to convey that Commissioner Nona Ricafort congratulated PWU for
being granted our autonomous status. Most unusual, our beloved Chairperson
passed by on a Monday, and had a long talk with Noel. Since we had another
death in the family, our first cousin, Atty Chit Baltazar, JRU President, we
finished our meeting early. I understand that Noel went around, greeted many
people and held their hands and chatted a while.
Noel’s legacy of building good relationships will of course not be forgotten.

This is also the most difficult aspect of his work in the University that I will
truly miss a lot. No amount of words can express the great loss that I am
now experiencing most especially since NOEL was my VP for institutional
operations, auxiliary services, campus development and resource generation.

Although we had disagreed a lot, I will truly miss our frank discussions and
lengthy consultations which provided insights, analysis, which enriched the
task of making better decisions. One admirable quality was his respect for
corporate discipline: when the President decided, Noel willingly followed
through presidential decisions.
We suffer this loss of missing Noel’s daily presence in our university life. I
personally have suffered the loss of many loved ones—my father Alfredo
Benitez at the very early age of 31, whom we hope to name our School of
Arts and Design after; my own mother Lulu who will be celebrating her death
anniversary tomorrow; my husband, Andy who died at the age of 47, in 1986
after suffering for more than 7 years of cancer; and my son Martin who died at
the age of 37, leaving 3 children.
Both Martin and Noel were directly associated with the University work.
These losses may be difficult to bear but these can make my own daily life an
opportunity to grow and deepen my spirituality. It is only through the eyes of
faith that I gain my strength to continue the work that Noel has started. We
have envisioned an improved physical facility in time for our 90th anniversary.
When I saw his dying face, happily looking, I whispered, please Noel, continue
to help me, make sure that the funding we have been expecting shall come
sooner, so that all the plans for institutional improvement may materialize.
Somehow I feel closer to Noel now because through the eyes of faith, I am
certain, God will show me the way to achieve the many plans for physical
improvement that we have carefully worked out.
My thrust of building a faith community is greatly rooted on the many losses that
I have experienced over the past years. This sudden departure of Noel has a lesson
for all of us gathered here today. We should realize that Noel is closer to God now;
closer to us also in ways that only the heart can fathom. Even if Noel has left us,
and we will surely miss him, we can draw strength from this: “We live in Faith and
the promise of life eternal. God gives us strength that we need to prevail.” The loss
is hard to take but God does not give us challenges we cannot hurdle.
As we mourn and feel the nagging pain, we should welcome this moment
of suffering as an occasion of encountering God in the midst of our sorrow
and grief. We may have known God but experiencing and acknowledging our
powerlessness is putting our complete trust in the Lord’s ways. We need to
believe that God’s ways are better than our own. We must believe that God
loves Noel so much that when his mission was completed and being in a state
of grace, God brought Noel home to paradise.

No doubt there is a great lesson behind Noel’s sudden departure. Who would
have imagined that life will be that short for Noel? This is why we need to
really and truly find God before it’s too late. We have to revisit our own life and
begin preparing for the journey to the afterlife. This has been the cornerstone
of my thrust of building a faith community rooted in spirituality.
For us who are left behind, we will never know when God will call us, too. It is
a wake-up time for all that we continue to refocus and find the true meaning
in our own daily lives through the formation and education with the heart.
We should look towards being more humane rather than cerebral, being
more compassionate and caring towards others, rather than indifferent and
apathetic, as epitomized by Noel’s relationship with everyone in the PWU
community. No doubt we need to remind ourselves of this focus on building
faith community: that the heart of education is education with a heart.
Allow me to end by adapting from a message that my son Martin, who died at
the age of 37, wrote to his friends when he was dying:
“What I would like to share with all of you in this new millennium is that we
should never take for granted all the little things that God gives us daily in our
lives. If we look around us, we can clearly see the blessings that He has been
giving us, the blessings of life, love, family and happiness. Do not wait until a life
crisis hapens to be thankful for all these blessings. Do not wait till something bad
happens to run to God to ask Him to fix it and help us.We can start now with a
relationship with God and be His friend. I had to learn to be His friend and find
Him while I struggled with my illness and it was tough. But I am still glad that
I found God through my illness and have a relationship with Him that will help
me to get through all the rough spots that I have been experiencing and continue
to struggle with. Most of us do not need a bad thing to start a good thing with
God.We can do this NOW!”
Again, my deepest gratitude to all who have expressed their kind words of
sympathy… Let the spirit that embodies Noel’s contribution in touching
our lives grow in our personal commitment, to continue the good works that
Noel has achieved for the University. This is our way of saying Noel’s sudden
demise has not been in vain.

Response from the Benitez Family
by Marco Benitez
On behalf of my family, my mom, Marielle and

Tonton, we’d like to extend our deepest gratitude
to the whole Philippine Women’s University
community, Tita Helen, Tita Amelou, for the
preparations that were made for my dad.
I’m sure my Dad will be trying to hide inside his

urn right now because he was definitely not a man
for fanfare. He was a very simple man. In fact,
sometimes when I visit his office here in PWU . . .
I’m sure you all know his office is located at the second floor, at one corner of
the building, under the emergency fire escape stairs and his table is at the very
end of the long corridor of that room. So my Dad was never one for a lot of
festivities. He just did his work while he reached out to people.
If there were four things he wanted to be remembered for, the most were his
love for family, his value of hard work, his integrity and his compassion.
We all know that Philippine Women’s University has a very special place in his
heart. In fact, many times when we would eat dinner at home, we saw how
much difficulty, how much stress he would have, how much heartaches he
would have in trying to do his best to help the university. There were many
times when we told him, “Dad, maybe it’s time that you prioritize things that
matter the most, don’t overwork yourself. There is the family business to
attend to. There are many things that are probably more important.”
Because that’s how we felt. We felt that he was spreading himself too thin. But my
Dad was always stubborn. He made sure to stick it out with the university because
he believed, number one, in family. He believed that this was the legacy of his
grandparents and sometimes he took it upon himself trying to make the change
that he wanted to see in the university. He knows that there is so much potential in
the university and in his own little way that is what he worked for everyday.
The second value that I admire most about my Dad is his love for hard work.
You say that he’s a miracle worker. But I think more than being a miracle
worker, the miracles were a result of putting in the hours, everyday, of going
through the details of making plans with the people involved. That’s what he

did everyday. Miracles don’t happen overnight. The changes that he brought
about here in the university, these weren’t done overnight. He did it every
single day and sometimes he lost a lot of sleep trying to think about it.
He was never one to back down from hard work. We all know that he was not just
involved with the university. He had other companies that he was attending to and
he put the same effort in every endeavor that he was in. He made sure of that.
The third value that I guess he would like to be remembered for was his
integrity. My Dad always said what he meant and he meant what he said.
Each one of you here—I’m sure, in your own little way—has an experience or
anecdote on my Dad and I’m sure that you can say that he was a man of his
word in the truest sense. He was always ready to back up what he said with
actions. He was a very practical man. It showed in the results of his work.
Lastly, the fourth value that my Dad would probably want to be known for
was his compassion. I remember whenever I would visit him here at PWU he
would introduce me not only to the administrative staff, not only to the deans
but also to the bus boys in the cafeteria and I was very touched at how friendly
and how much gratitude they felt for him.
I guess that was my Dad. And I’m sure he would not want you to name any
hall or place after him or have another painting unveiled for him. That was
how he was. My Dad will be happy if everybody here in the university would
just try to live by those four values that he cherished.
This is a faith community. It doesn’t have to be a faith community. I think

better, it should be a faith family. I’m sure my Dad believed in the solidarity, in
the oneness of the university and that’s what he wanted everybody to believe in
as well: hard work—again, miracles don’t happen overnight, that’s something
my Dad always told me; integrity—always mean what you say, always say what
you mean; compassion—treat everyone the way you would want them to treat
you and fight for people who are being taken advantage of because that’s what
he always did.
I’m sure he is hanging around there in heaven. Maybe as you approach your
celebration in 2020, he will be happy seeing the changes, seeing the sacrifices
being made by the university to continue his legacy.
So thank you very much and my family is deeply appreciative of what you’ve
done for him.

The Interment Mass was held
at the Sanctuario de San Antonio
in Dasmariñas Village on 17 July, 2008.
VP Noel Benitez was laid to rest at the

adjacent columbarium.

Homily
by Rev. Fr. Tito Calauag
Tonight, as we celebrate the final Novena Mass for

our brother Noel, I’d like to invite you to reflect on the
Gospel that I chose for this evening and specially for
those who are very, very close to Noel especially Suzie,
Marco, Marielle and Tonton and the rest of the family
and friends.
I think the Resurrection appearance in the Gospel that I chose teaches us

three things in the experience of the death of a very, very close person to us.
The three words of Christ to the women on that first Easter morning. The
Lord tells the women, “Do not be afraid, go to Galilee, there you will see me.”
I guess for people and especially in this situation for Suzie, for Marco, Marielle
and Tonton, I think no matter what we say, there is a certain fear moving on
with life. In the sense that a certain and major part of our lives is now gone.
There is that fear. What will happen? How will life be after this? And yet it is
not merely a small detail that the first words of the risen Lord to us is, “Do
not be afraid.” The message of the risen Lord is that, with the resurrection of
Christ began the mission of the Church.
Suzie, Marco, Marielle and Tonton, your Dad was given to you so that he may
also form you in your own mission in this world. And now he speaks to you
and tells you, “Do not be afraid. I may not be with you but I have given you
everything that you will need to carry on your own missions in life.”
Second point is, and I invite everybody to reflect on this, the Lord tells
his disciples, “Go back to Galilee.” And as I would always say we have to
remember that Galilee was the place where it all started. Galilee was where
they spent time together. Galilee was where most of them first met. That’s
where they ate, they drank, they worked. They had good times, they had bad
times. They had misunderstandings. In a sense, it was like home. It was where
the heart was shaped and where the heart and spirit were nurtured.

Precisely, during that moment of grief, the risen Lord tells the people closest
to Him, “Go back to Galilee and there you will see Me.” And I’m sure Suzie,
Marco, Marielle and Tonton, the past 9 days, you’ve made your own returning
to Galilees bringing back the most important memories of your Dad. Bringing
back the moments when his special grace and love for you were strongest.
These are the Galilees of your life with your father. These are the Galilees of
your life with Noel, Suzie.
The risen Lord tells his friends, “Go back to Galilee and there you will see
Me.” And I pray that you will see life now with the eyes of faith that Noel had
prepared you to see life anew. Yes, to see life without him and to see life with
the grace and spirit that he had always shared with you in his lifetime. They
say that when we die we always leave behind a particular grace with which we
lived our life.
There is one book entitled The Holy Longing which says that all of us come
into this world to continue God’s love and compassion in a very particular
way. It is precisely that way of living out God’s love and compassion which is
the grace and spirit of our lives that we use to make this world a better place
and to touch the lives of the people closest to us.
I think in the memories of the past nine days, you’ve encountered the Galilees
of your life with your father and now he tells you always go back to these
moments when grace is present. His love for you is unconditional. And now
you will see life without him but always with his love. Go back to Galilee and
there you will see him. Noel has passed on from this life to God but he will
always be present, we will always see him in the Galilees of your life with him.

Response
by Mrs. Suzie Moya Benitez
First, I would like to thank Fr. Tito Caluag. Every Mass that he has said for
Noel has been very meaningful and personal. We’re very grateful. We would
like to thank the family, friends, associates, those who Noel had touched. Your
presence here has assured us that you’ve been touched by his kindness and
that you loved him, too.
When we were growing up, our parents used to admonish us when we would
come home from parties and we had a long list of crushes. And they would
always say that we should never be attracted to men with good looks nor be
lured by popularity or wealth but must find interest in men who would have
strength of character, who valued hard work, who would love God because for
sure he would love his family.
Well, for 33 years God gifted me with someone who had almost all of the
above. Noel was very kind. He was our pillar of strength. He was not afraid
to fight for what he thought was right. And I’m sure those who had worked
with him know that. Everytime I would complain, or whine, or be stressed, he
would always say, don’t strive to be popular, just do what you think is right. He
said he doesn’t really know what is the sure ball for success but definitely he
knows that the key to failure is trying to please everyone.

The bomb like, the flight of bomb that blasted our almost idyllic lives …
the first hour of July 15 left behind a gaping hole that I think is very hard to
remedy or fill but with your presence, your love, we hope and pray that we
will be able to cover it with a veil of remembrance of a man so loving, actually
he loved so much. He taught us how to love and care. He loved so much. He
loved his family very much . . . too much.
Noel and I met in the Bayanihan. He was the young guy who always offered to
be my chaperon. We went steady for seven years. He was my first boyfriend.
I thought that it would be very fitting tonight to ask the Bayanihan to pay a
short tribute by way of a dance and symbolic act of letting go. Noel loved the
Bayanihan, admired the zeal and dedication of the people behind it – Bong,
Lito, Tita Bils. In fact, they prepared a song which was one of Noel’s favorite
melodies.
Kahit konting liwanag ng pag-ibig

Ang igawad sa pusong may ligalig
Ang pag-asa’y aking nakikita
At ang ligaya’y nadarama.
Kahit konting liwanag ng pag-ibig

Ang sa akin ay ipahiwatig
O giliw ko, kay ganda ng langit
At ang awit kung dinggin ay kay tamis.
Chorus.
Kahit konting pagtingin
Kung manggagaling sa ‘yo.
Ay labis ko nang ligaya
Dahil sa ikaw ay mahal ko.

OFFICE OF THE PRESIDENT
President’s Memorandum Order Years
(PMO) No. 033 SY 2008-2009 Treasuring the PWU Legacy
& Sustaining Spirituality & Quality
in Building a Global Institution
TO : THE PWU COMMUNITY
THRU : THE CHANCELLOR, VICE-PRESIDENTS,

ASSISTANT VICE PRESIDENTS, DEANS, PRINCIPALS
AND HEADS OF THE ACADEMIC AND NON-
ACADEMIC UNITS

FROM : THE UNIVERSITY PRESIDENT
DATE : JULY 21, 2008
SUBJECT : MEMENTO IN MEMORIAM VP NOEL B BENITEZ
On behalf of the Board of Trustees, the Management Committee and the Benitez family, may I
express my deep gratitude for the preparations for the masses and necrological services in memory
of the passing of my brother and our VP for Institutional Operations, Campus Development and
Resource Generation.
For all who have expressed their condolences and kind words of sympathy, I thank you.
We noted that most of you would like to personally share his or her feelings about this sad event. For
all those who wish to express their condolences and anecdotes to further express their affection and
to give tribute to a much beloved co-worker and friend, may I request all who wish to do so to please
send them in soft and hard copy to the Office of the Chancellor on or before Friday, July 25th.
The publication is to be released in time for the 40th day observance of his passing on August 22,
2008.
With this small project, we hope the University can profoundly express its collective grief, and help
the Benitez family, most especially the family of AVP Suzie Benitez, Marielle, Marco and Tonton to
cope with their profound loss.
Let us continue to pray for the eternal repose of his soul.
DR. AMELOU BENITEZ REYES

... What anecdote of Noel Benitez have you
to share? Add all of our anecdotes together,
still I do not think we would come close.
—Marco Benitez, excerpted from his response during the Interment Mass
Response during the Interment Mass
by Marco Benitez
On behalf of our family, my mom, Marielle, Marton, I would like to thank

everyone who has expressed their support and shared our grief with the passing
of our dad, Jose Noel Baltazar Benitez. I would like to thank his siblings, Tita
Amelou, Tito Jolly, Tita Maritza, as well as Tita Marilou Mirasol, who have
facilitated all the funeral services, so that we no longer had to worry about
any arrangements; and who had constantly looked after my mom during this
difficult time. I would like to thank all my cousins and nephews and nieces, who
have been here with us the past three days, especially our kuyas, Freddie, Alex,
Albee, and Ate Marlyn, who now serve as our guides and dispensers of advice.
In particular, I would like to thank our cousin, Dr. Bruce Canto, who never
gave up on trying to save my dad, from the house to the emergency room.
Bruce, there is nothing to be sorry for. Without you, we would not have known
what to do when he had his attack.
I would like to thank the people of Benitez Investments, particularly Grace and
Joy, Chiron Development, Winnie and Rochelle, Sunrise Security, Sunbless
Manpower, and our household staff, who have tirelessly and faithfully made
arrangements and taken care of daddy’s remains.
I would like to thank Fr. Caluag, Fr. Joel, Fr. Nico, Fr. Tem, Fr. Tony, the
priests who have celebrated Mass, blessed my dad’s remains, and prayed for
our family these past few days.
I would also like to thank the people of SM, Banco De Oro, Manila
Southcoast, Asian Appraisal, Philippine Women’s University, Unlad Resources,
and all the companies my dad was connected with. Your presence and support
show us that his work was of great value to your company. I can tell you he
made sure that he performed his obligations to the best of his abilities.
There are so many others I would like to thank. For those whose names I have
not been able to mention, I’m sure you know who you are. Our family would
like to express our deepest gratitude to all of you. You have made these last
three days more bearable. We are humbled by your concern for my dad and
our family, it makes us extremely proud to have had a father like him.

My dad, Jose Noel
Baltazar Benitez, was
born on December 25,
1947, the youngest of
four children of Alfredo
and Lourdes Benitez.
From the stories that I
would hear while growing
up, he was always the
one who got into the
most trouble; played in
the streets, and received
the most spanking from
Lola Lulu. In other
words, he was an underdog in the true sense of the word. I believe that at the
back of his mind, he felt that he always had something to prove, and maybe
unconsciously, that he had to be a father image to everyone since he had never
had a father image for himself growing up.
Growing up and studying in La Salle, I understand he was the typical

“chickboy”, not really known for his intellectual prowess, but probably more
for his mischief and “pagbubulakbol.” However, from early on, my dad was
already known for being a people person; one who would never turn his back
on someone in need. Most of all, he was a loyal friend to those who knew him.
It was in the Bayanihan Philippine Dance Company, that Noel B. Benitez,

chickboy, rebel, and perennial troublemaker, met his match. It was there that
he met my mom, Suzie Moya, who “turned his world upside down”, or so they
say. And after 7 years of dating, the rest was history.
There are so many things to say about my dad, so much so that we would
spend the entire evening here, and not even scratch the surface of who he
really was. But I am sure that every single person right here, and so many
others, have had their own experience of how he helped them in one way
or another, in something trivial, or something very important. That was
my dad, he could never say no to helping someone in need, and very rarely
I think did he let anyone down. My dad was never one to boast about his
accomplishments or the people he had helped, but seeing all of you here the
past few days to pay him respect, wish our family condolences, and share an
anecdote about him, already speaks volumes.

In the end, if I were to make a feeble attempt to encapsulate his life, I would
say that my dad would have liked to be remembered for Four Things, or I
would prefer, Four Values:
FAMILY. HARD WORK. INTEGRITY. And COMPASSION.
His FAMILY was the center of his universe. He loved my mom more than
anything in this world, and he loved us, his children equally. He made it a
point to provide for us without spoiling us; attend as many games as each one
of us had, nourish our interests, push us to achieve our potential, but always
to keep our feet planted firmly on the ground. He believed that the center of
the Family should always be God, and I know that he was a very prayerful
man. Every Sunday, he would always make it a point to spend the day with
us. If that wasn’t possible, even just lunch or dinner. We always had to have
something together.
With his brother and sisters, and even with their extended family, he always
strived to accommodate them. In the administration of their mother’s legacy,
he made it a point that each one got his equal share. With the University,
UNLAD, and whichever family interest, he could never turn his back. Their
grandparents’ and parents’ legacies needed someone to look after them. No
matter the difficulty, no matter the odds, no matter the heartache.
My dad was a firm believer that with HARD WORK, anything was possible.
He was a workaholic to the core. With no regard for personal health and
well-being. In his bathroom, he had a Post It note attached to the side of his
cabinet. It said,
“Let not the comfort of our home and your room make you laggards,
but let it show you what you can achieve with hard work, integrity and
prayers…”
My dad, I am proud to say, was a self-made man. He paid his way through
graduate school by taking photos and portraits and selling them to his friends.
He ventured into various businesses and endeavors, survived politics when it
was suicide to be a politician, and made wise investments with the future in
mind. I’m sure that his biggest motivation for all of this was that value he held
most dearly, FAMILY.
In fact, he was such a workaholic that he would be restless during his free
time. His favorite Sunday reading was the Classified Ads section of Manila
Bulletin. He would highlight listing upon listing, from real estate, to vehicles,

and even business opportunities. It was his form of relaxation. I don’t know if
he ever bought anything from there though. Even up until his last day, he was
still working, having just come from a PWU MANCOM that day. I guess there
was no other way he would have had it.
My dad believed in the value of INTEGRITY, something our society needs

more of these days. He treated everyone fairly, and he never gave his word
unless he was prepared to back it up with his actions. Whether it was the EP
farmer beneficiaries he dealt with, or the University staff, or his colleagues and
principals, he always strived to fulfill his commitments, contribute his share
of the bargain, and make sure that all concerned received what was due them.
From him I learned that no matter your stature, your wealth, or your position
in life, integrity was something that could not be bought; and in the end, it is
usually the most important thing that people consider. His FAMILY, for him,
should be a model of INTEGRITY, and that is why he lived it to the full.
Finally, I believe the reason why most of us will miss him is because of his
COMPASSION. Hardly was there a situation where he did not care. From his
friends’ legal cases, family members’ health concerns, and even the financial
plight of people he hardly knew, he did not have it in his heart to say NO. It
must have been because he too had known what it felt like to have to fend
for yourself, have the odds stacked against you, and have had to swallow your
pride to ask for help. Always treat people the way you would like to be treated,
and don’t abandon those who ask for your help because, according to him, in
life, sometimes you’re up, sometimes you’re down. You can never tell when it
will be your turn.
I started writing this last night wanting it to be the best thing that I had ever
written. I wanted to show everyone how great a father and a husband he was,
and how much he means to our family. Sadly, I know that I have barely given
you a shadow of who Noel B. Benitez really is. There are no words that can
capture his true worth.
I will just have to rely on the experiences of each of you who have known my
dad at one point or another in his life. Look at the person beside you, ask
him what anecdote of Noel Benitez he has to share, add all of our anecdotes
together, still I do not think we would come close.
Dad, journey’s over. Time to pass your paper.You don’t have to prove anything
to anyone anymore. Actually, you never did. We will strive to live our lives as a
reflection of yours, as a testament to YOUR legacy. We promise to take care of
mom and of each other.You’re my hero, Dad. I love you and will miss you always.

My Dad… My Coach… My Hero…
by Marielle M. Benitez
As far as I can remember,

Sunday was always a family day.
Growing up, we would spend
the day together. We would go
to Mass, eat lunch or dinner out
and attend games for our various
sports. Be it in Basketball,
Football, Baseball or Tae Kwon
Do, Dad and Mom always made
sure that they were around to
cheer for us. Dad supported
all our teams, from school varsity to club level, even the Philippine National
Team. He was always the “unofficial” manager of the team. I remember,
back in college, Dad would always provide my team with cold towels, frozen
oranges and Gatorade. He was sponsoring and hosting dinners to celebrate
our wins or even to comfort us when we lost. He and Mom, or either one,
would follow us to where our competitions would take us—ULTRA, Cebu,
Bacolod, Thailand, Vietnam or even Europe—nothing was ever far for them.
Dad always believed in the importance of sports. His grandfather was an

Olympian. He, himself, was an outstanding NCAA swimmer, a potential
Olympian had he not chosen Bayanihan over swimming.
Dad emphasized the importance of sport as character-building and value

formation. Fair play, Discipline, Hard Work, Team Work, Commitment and
Passion. Values, I am sure, he learned from the rigorous training he did as an
athlete that he applied in his life. He believed in the spirit of competition. He
never backed down on challenges; in fact, it motivated him. He would tell me
never to get intimidated… to fight back when I was pushed around.
I remember one time, I was purposely fouled in a football game and literally
flew and rolled on the ground… I was in pain and could not get up right
away… I looked to the sidelines where Mom and Dad stood. Mom had her
hands clasped together and was worried for me because she saw that I was
hurt. Dad, however, had his fingers on his mouth blowing his trademark
whistle. As soon as he saw me looking at him, he shouted, “Get Up and Get
Even!!!”.

He always believed in me. He made me feel that I was strong and that I could
fight my own battles. He gave me the confidence to believe in myself. And I
knew he was proud to see that I could defend and protect myself, even when
he joked that I would tackle anyone who was in my way. So every time I was
on the field, either scoring goals, lying in pain on the ground or having an off-
day, he would just blow his signature whistle and I would instantly know that
he was watching me and I would be all fired up and playing my best. He was
my coach… my motivator… my hero…
Dad believed in celebrating every success, small or great, his children achieved.
He was very, very proud of each one. He would always say that “Winning was
the result of the hard work put in during training and preparation.” So for
every medal, trophy, photo or feature any of us received, he would have them
framed and displayed as a proof of our hard work and success. He took pride
in making his home a “little museum” of all our achievements and proudly
gave a tour to show off to all our houseguests. He would proudly tell us that
they were investments he made to showcase our achievements and we will
eventually be able to share these with our children in the future.
Dad, you have truly lived a life worth emulating… you have lived and loved
to the fullest, unknowingly changing the lives of people. You did everything
wholeheartedly without expecting anything in return… our success is yours
and mom’s success… I am who I am today because of you and Mom. I thank
you for all the lessons and values you have taught us… for all the opportunities
and experiences… I thank you for all the stories and memories we made… I
thank you for your inspiration and support… for all the love and guidance… I
thank you for our family and for the life you have given me…
I will miss seeing you in my games and hearing your whistle when I am on
the ground in pain… I will miss telling you how many people I was able to
tackle and showing you my wounds and bruises… I will miss you in all my
performances… I will miss hearing your insights in everything that I do…
I will miss seeing you at work or telling you how my day was… I will miss
showing off to you my new toy or answering your questions about a boy…
I will miss sleeping beside you in your bed and tickling you when you are
asleep… I will miss you blowing on my ear or just holding your hand when we
walk… I will miss you so, so, so much everyday of my life… you are forever in
my heart… I love you… :D

My Father Taught Me About Life
by Marton Benitez
As of the moment I lack the capacity

to be able to convey my thoughts and
memories of my father into words that
may at the slightest be able to give
justice to his life. I am flooded with
snippets of memories and experiences
that I want to share yet it frightens
me that they may only dilute your
own memories of him, as there is no
comparison to having experienced it
first hand.
I also believe that all that was needed

to be conveyed by the family has
already been wonderfully written and
eloquently shared by my mother, who
keeps strong all through out this ordeal,
my brother who has taken charge and
my sister who lovingly cares at my
father’s absence.
I just want to say that my Father taught me about life not through words but
by the way he lived his. I’m sorry he never had a father as great as mine.

Tita Helen on VP Noel
by Dr Helena Z Benitez
Chairperson, PWU Board of Trustees
Noel was the silent water that ran deep.
In late afternoon of that fateful Monday, July

14th, we had a long talk – which turned out
to be our last - during which I realized how
deeply committed he was to the educational
legacy of Mama and Papa that is PWU.
He updated me on what he was doing to
align Unlad Resources Corporation, the
family corporation that is managing assets
and resources of the Benitez family that are
not directly employed in the educational
endeavor, with PWU’s destiny. Previously
he had told me that he envisioned Unlad to be a resource bulwark that would
be used to support and sustain the University. That Monday he said he was
getting close to accomplishing that vision as Unlad President in addition to
being PWU VP for Institutional Operations.

I knew this was what Mama and Papa had intended. I did not realize that
Noel had taken that to heart and in his quiet and unassuming ways was
working hard to make come true. Suddenly I realized why he was so dedicated
in making the many projects he was doing to improve the University—new
seminar halls, expanded computer laboratories, etc.—all of which were
instrumental in the University’s becoming autonomous.
Maybe by taking Noel away that suddenly,

the Lord is telling us that we need to be
involved more resolutely in the vision of
Mama and Daddy B; that we have that
legacy to work on; that Noel had begun
well and it is now our turn to determinedly
pursue and measure up to that legacy.
jose fil benitez
“Death is an endless night so awful to contemplate that it can make us love life
and value it with such passion that it may be the ultimate cause of all joy and all
art” —Paul Theroux
We, my family and I, miss Noel. A gentle kindred spirit, Noel was always there
for us. When I needed to make a business decision, I would call Noel and he
would invite me for coffee. Sometimes, without asking, he would come across
like when Arnie ran for public office. Yes, I will miss Noel.
From Tatti B. Licuanan
I hardly knew Noel. He was younger than his siblings who were more my
contemporaries. But he was always there---gracious, pleasant, charming and
cute. I last saw him a couple of weeks before he passed away, at Tita Helen’s
birthday. He showed us around the newly renovated administrative offices
at PWU, obviously pleased with the work he had supervised. I remember
thinking to myself how lucky PWU was to have him actively involved in the
institution.
I hardly knew Noel. But I will remember him well and miss him.

From Jet, Justin, Eric, Trevor, Tana and Mara Benitez
Dear Suzie, Marco, Marielle & Marton,
We were very saddened to hear the news of Noel’s passing.
We will always remember him for his wise counsel, having worked with him on
the Board at the Rural Bank, his quick wit and wonderful sense of humor. He
is in a better place now.
Thoughts of our Dear Noel –

by Bay Ledesma
He was no doubt a man of virtue, values, principles, priorities and

achievement in his quiet, simple and humble way, without fanfare or publicity.
Very warm and loving, his family was his priority, next to God, of course.
With great determination and disposition and his very softspoken way,
he probably unconsciously desired to be the father he hardly knew. Yet he
reminded us so much of his father in faith and trust in God, in values and
principles, in generosity, even in mannerisms and sense of humor.
Very firm but in a gentle way;

Very sure of himself but in a humble way;
Very generous in a sincere way;
Very kindperson, sharing his time and treasures, his services and resources;
Very hardworking and fair – business minded but not money conscious;
Relationship for him was more important than making money;
He was a good man—aside from being a good husband, father, brother-in-law,
he was also a good cousin, good friend.
He was like a brother to us in his warm, loving, caring ways. He made you feel
like you had his full attention, always around for you. Always competent, he
was a “jack of all trades”, successful, good in everything.
But most of all to me he was a gift to be with and blessing. We who love him
know he will always be around and more so, no barrier of time or space.

Tribute to Noel B. Benitez
by Freddie B. Reyes
One of my earliest memories of tito Noel was in their home in Pina St, Sta. Mesa.
Whenever we would visit lola Lulu, tito Noel was there with his trusted German
Sheppard, appropriately called Hitler. We would join him throwing a stick or a ball
that Hitler would run after and pick up in their garden. We also grew up together
in the Dasmarinas compound. I saw Marco, Marielle and Marton grow up from
the time they were babies to the adults they are now. As tito Noel was a godfather
at birth, we also invited him to become a ninong at our wedding.
I also have features very similar to tito Noel. Years ago, when he was
campaigning for the vice-mayorship of Tagaytay, people would wave to me
when we went up there and I knowingly waved back, otherwise they might
think that the vice-mayor was snubbing them. We even have a few relatives,
who in their embarrassment use to mistake me for him. I didn’t know whether
to take it as compliment or not, but tito Noel was amused that people thought
he looked younger than his age. Later on, he would jokingly introduce me as
his youngest brother, but I would retort and say that I was his son.
Tito Noel was very practical in all his dealings and most importantly, very fair.
He would go out of his way to help you out. But more importantly, when it
came to business, the same rule applied to everyone, as it should be, whether
a business partner, an employee or a family member. It should not come
as a surprise that people relied on him for a lot of things, especially in the
numerous businesses ventures that he had.
One very important thing tito Noel was committed to was PWU. In spite of
his busy schedule with the SM Group and all their projects, he gave as much
time as he could to PWU. His involvement went beyond the job and touched
the personal lives of the people who worked for him. His experience and
practical way of handling situations is such an asset in dealing with difficult
situations. We will all miss him.
From Tina Benitez
Dear Noel,
Thanks for the quiet, thoughtful support. In the void and sadnesses you have
left behind we will find the strength and spirit to continue the legacy at the
PWU that you so firmly upheld.

From Mr. Henry Sy,
Chairman, SM Group
of Companies
Dear Suzie,
I was deeply saddened to

learn of the sudden death
of Noel. He was greatly
admired by his peers and
colleagues not only for his
brilliant mind, but for his
charming personality as well. Noel played an essential part in the growth of
the SM Group of Companies and will surely be missed.
During this difficult time, I know that your great strength, family and
friends will help you at this time of loss. My family and I extend our deepest
sympathies and prayers to you and your family.
From P/Supt. Frumencio Bernal III

MPD Station Commander PS-6
I met Mr. Noel Benitez in Quiapo regarding some problem besetting the
family business there; during that time I was the Police Community Precinct
Commander in the area and that started our mutual correspondence until
his untimely death. In my police work, Mr. Noel Benitez was one of my
benefactors. To cite an example, when I was the Chief of MPD Police
Community Relations Office, he facilitated the release of medicines worth Php
15,000.00 from SM Foundation which we distributed during the medical and
dental mission held at Parola, Tondo, Manila last April 2006 that benefited
more or less 500 indigent families. He was also one of the godfather, of my
nephew Gabriel last September. The day prior to his death, he called me
inquiring about the status of Mark Joel Bernal, whom I am forever grateful
to him for giving the boy the chance to be accepted in that prestigious school
(PWU) as working student. And to summarize, with almost eight years we
have known each other, I came to realize what kind of a person Mr. Noel
Benitez was. He was simple, hardworking and a good provider.

Noel As I Knew Him
by Colonel Roger Luis
Noel was a man driven by a strong desire to succeed in whatever endeavor he

sets his mind to. The Herculean task of upholding a tradition of excellence
became almost an obsession with him coming from a clan of achievers; I can
only admire but at the same time sympathize with his effort.
I met and got to know Noel only in the late eighties but did know and have been
friends with his siblings Amelou and Joly way back in the seventies. While I was
a friend to him much later, I probably go to know him more intimately and went
on to become his business partner for almost fifteen years up to the time of his
untimely demise. We have an and/or joint account and that says more beyond
words the respect, trust and confidence we have for and in each other.
I will miss Noel, a true friend, a kind–hearted soul, a business partner, a

trusted associate and my younger brother – farewell.
From Msgr. Hernando Coronel

Rector, San Carlos Seminary/ PWU Spriritual Adviser
Sir Noel is the perfect gentleman. Gentleness has two senses. The first is
a certain facility to get along with everybody, being affable, courteous, and
respectful. Sir Noel is most sensitive to the feelings of others and therefore,
deep in his heart is a concern for people and their welfare. The second sense is
a strong manliness, meaning a cavalier demeanor rooted in a kind of chivalry.
Hence, Sir Noel is firm and of strong mind, will and character. A true
combination of strength, of will and a compassionate heart resided in Sir Noel.
We will miss him. I feel sorry for Mom Suzie. As Sir Noel is the perfect
gentleman, so Mom Suzie is the perfect lady. They complement one another
and make the perfect couple.
Sir Noel passed away still with a lot of promise and a bright future ahead of
him. We will remember him in our hearts and prayers. PWU will never be the
same again after his demise.
We commend him to the loving embrace of God.

From Dr. Karen Webb, Dean, Graduate School of Education
and VP Terrence Barber, Vice President and Chief International
Officer, Alliant University
Dear Dr. Reyes,
On behalf of Alliant International University, we extend our condolences to

you and your family. May God bless you and grant you the gift of peace.
Your loved one has left behind a thousand moments that will live in your heart
forever….
Please know, at this difficult time, that you are in so many thoughts and
prayers.
From Annie Martin
Dear Suzie,
I am so sorry to hear from friends Susan Abaya, Lu Salvador (she and I and
Amelou were in school together) and Epi Miranda of Noel’s early demise. I
still remember the few times that those close to you would comment on how
good you looked together and how so in love you’ve been with each other.
Please accept my deepest sympathies and kindly convey the same to my dear
friend Amelou.
From Puri Capistrano Laconico
Everyone who knew him are in total shock. It was like a thief in the night. It’s
hard to fathom this one.
He was beside me for a long time at my mother’s wake and again at the Social
Hall at the reception by Tita Helen also for my mother. We were engaged in a
long conversation like there was no tomorrow and indeed that was the last. He
was full of plans and big dreams that I wont forget. I’m sure he will find it in
paradise above and watch over all of you.
Our prayers are with you and your family.

A Nice Evening with Noel
by Alain Giraud
Dear Suzie,
When Lito told me about what happened, I felt so empty... I met Noel only
twice during the 50th anniversary Bayanihan’s festivities. I didn’t know him
very well and I was very eager to meet him again. Why ? Maybe just because
of that dinner time we all spent together and the common views we shared on
various topics.
I feel very and deeply sorry for Marielle & her two brothers, but I know they
have a strong MOM that will stay on track and courageously continue what
ever their father stood for.
Please do accept on behalf of the Giraud family our condolences.
From Maritess Alava Yong
I have had so many fond memories of Noel. He is my very dear friend, Suzie’s
loving and devoted husband. We have known each other for more than 35
years. He has been a guiding influence in my life in my earlier years when as a
young, carefree and you may even say frivolous girl like me growing up in the
70s, needed guidance.
I would address him as “Tito Noel” even if there was very little difference in age.
He was the only one who would dare to correct, reprimand me and even put me
in my place if need be. All this done in a caring way that made me feel I mattered.
Karilagan was our life then, which Suzie and I was a part of. Our favorite
hangout before and after the shows was the Benitez home. It was the most
convenient place to unwind. We did Luigi classes, of all places in Noel’s
bedroom ( much like pilates class today). Noel practiced his photograpy
using us as his models, again done in his bedroom. Eating potato chips while
indulging in idle gossip was done in the most comfortable of places, Noel’s
bed with crumbs that he had to clean after.That place was like our second
home and Noel and Suzie would be the ever gracious hosts even if we would
over extend our welcome.

When I excitedly broke the news to Noel and Suzie that I was getting married
after a whirlwind romance, I was surprised that rather than being happy for
me, Noel became somber and his reaction was that of concern. Noel knowing
my “c’est la vie” mentality, sat me down to help me think more deeply about
what I was getting myself into. He wanted to make sure I was doing the right
thing and I don’t end up getting hurt in the process, something that my own
father did not talk to me about because my father knows too well that I would
do as I please anyway....Well, I am happy to say that Noel was there when my
husband Micky and I celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary last year. When
I saw him I said “Tito Noel, see, I am on my 30th year and counting”. I got
the warmest hug that evening from a true and dear friend.
I will miss Noel and I know that anyone who had the honor being his friend
will feel the same.
Treasuring the Times with Noel

by Jennifer Pena
Much has been said about loving husbands and fathers and true friends. Noel,
of course, is all of the aforementioned but certainly almost one-of-a-kind as far
as I am concerned. Just how many guys out there will show genuine affection
and maximum tolerance to his wife’s posse of friends of which I happen to
be one? He made us feel always welcome at all hours at their house which
actually has been our “official clubhouse” for over three decades. He made
sure that a wide selection of snacks was served as the group reminisced over
the “good old days” over and over again. He was a quiet reassuring presence,
never failing to laugh with us over the same jokes and anecdotes of our
carefree, glamorous past. And when the situation called for it, he was there to
advise and to help sort out problems and broken hearts.
When I think of him, I always remember happy times. Every night in the 70s
he would patiently wait for Suzie at the Top of the Hilton as the maitre d’hotel
would insist that he should wear a coat and tie to enter the place. That was the
young and dashing Noel with his long sideburns a la Tom Jones. Through the
years the sideburns would become shorter until most of his hair would vanish
but that did not in any way diminish his charm. Face to face with him, you are
struck by the sincerity of his smile, his kindness and humble ways.

Rewind the movie of the times of our life and I will always see a young man
happily walking with us, Suzie’s friends, to the site of the house that he was
building for his family and meticulously poring over construction details. I
will always smile at the memory of his being roused from sleep just so we can
have our after midnight snack of corned beef. It was a pleasure to shop for his
camera accessories in Hong Kong and to pose for his camera. I will always
treasure the gift of his friendship. Knowing him has made me a better person.
Till we all meet again in that “clubhouse in the sky”, Noel, make sure that
there will be a lot to munch on because we’ll have all of eternity to talk about
any topic in the universe and yes, laugh over the same jokes too!
My Thoughts and Prayers are with You

by Ana Arambulo
Suzie, I just found out about Noel from Frannie. I am so sorry to hear the
news. Noel was a good and kind person. You are very fortunate to have shared
so much with him, He is now with God and will forever watch over you and
your children. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Noel Benitez
by Cesar (Pitchy) G. Torres, Jr. (w/contributions from other
batchmates in the DLSU NROTC MOCS 66)
Noel and I were not really “barkada” during High School at De La Salle
College (H.S. batch 1966). He was from another section. But, we knew each
other enough to recognize each other as batchmates if ever we would meet
outside the school. And, how could I not know Noel? I knew that he was
part of the well-known Benitez clan (politicians and owners of the PWU),
yet, he was a good natured soft spoken and unassuming person. He was
also a member of our NCAA (Jrs) Swimming Team during our High School
years and this was prestige enough for High School students, who were more
interested in “lakad” and our forthcoming weekend “tipar” rather than sports.
And yet, in spite of all these, Noel was very down to earth.
I was surprised when Noel joined the DLSC NROTC Cadet Officers
Candidate School or COCS in the summer of 1966, just as I did. I just did
not think that this rich but good natured person would go for the rough and

austere life of the Officers training. But, I was more surprised when he did so
well during training that he was assigned as a platoon leader of the elite model
company when we finished the summer training.
As a member of the NROTC Corps of Officers, his good natured yet firm
characteristic still showed. The only way for a leader to be able to train his cadets
very rigidly and almost daily after school, especially when preparing for competition,
is to have that strong leadership quality that will motivate them even when they are
tired and lift their spirits in the desire to win. Noel, the soft spoken person, had these
qualities and he led them to accomplish their goal. Noel was also a very good leader.
It is unfortunate that Noel did not proceed with his Advance NROTC and get
his commission. I guess he had other plans for himself. Unfortunately, that also
meant that the Philippine Navy would lose another good leader to civilian life.
As the organizer of the DLSU NROTC Officers Annual Reunion and as

his classmate, I would send text messages to Noel, by August or September,
to remind him of and invite him to the reunion, which is usually being held
during the 3rd Saturday of October. And he would text back saying that he
was busy doing something. In short, he has not attended any of our Officers’
Reunion for the last 5 years. About 6-12 months ago, I had the chance to talk
to Noel, on the phone, and encourage him to be more active in joining our
reunions, the NROTC Officers and especially our High School, since most of
us were now Senior Citizens and some are starting to be called by our Creator.
Noel told me that he had to be present for his daughter’s football game. But
he also added, “Oo nga, dapat sumama na ako sa mga reunions natin. Marami
nang nawawala sa atin”. Little did I know that this would be the last of my rare
conversations with Noel. Dapat pala, dinalasan ko ang tawag kay Noel.
Noel, my High School batchmate and fellow NROTC Officer, wherever you
are, I salute you. May you be happy with our God, forever!
Memories of Noel B. Benitez

by Imelda Trillo
I first met Noel when he was still courting Suzie - and the friendship grew and
flourished through the years as we ( Suzie and our group) all got married and
started our own families.

Throughout these years, which spans several decades, Noel and Suzie were
(as a couple) the fulcrum of the group, with Papa Noel “adopting “ us girls
(including our spouses and children) as part of his extended family.
Their first home (previously Noel’s bachelor pad and office when he was
single) in Dasma which was part of Tita Lulu’s house, was baptized the
“headquarters” of the group and this designation carried on to their second
home,which was officially and unanimously declared as the permanent venue
of our annual Christmas group reunion.
Noel became the confidante, “surrogate” father, brother, protector ,adviser of the
“gang”, which included myself, Maritess, Tech, Erlyn, and Jenny. We all have fond
memories of Noel patiently listening to someone’s woes ( whoever was the one
undergoing a crisis at the moment) and quietly dishing out “ his 2 cents worth”—
which to all of us now, in hindsight, was proven correct and the right thing to do ,
had we followed his advice. He wasn’t really much older than any of our spouses,
but somehow, it seemed he had the “wisdom” of an old man when he gave his
much sought after opinion to us - Suzie’s friends. Although quiet most of the time,
he was more of the “listener” in the group - even when it came to the “joke and
storytelling time” part of the reunion, the other spouses contributed their share but
Noel was most of the time the polite and appreciative”audience” - laughing at the
jokes and sympathizing /empathizing with the topic of the speaker.
But on the few occasions when he did speak , his message was always well
accepted as it was straightforward , practical and simple. I could write so many
chapters made up of anecdotes and happy incidents about Noel but to encapsule
his worth in a few sentences is an impossible task. At best, I will attempt this:
“Noel was many things to many people that were part of his life - but one thing stands
out - he was first a FAMILY MAN , even while he gave of himself selflessly to others. He
was deeply spiritual, even while appearing to be a “regular guy”. His reputation remained
untarnished till the end and his values solid and intact in whatever dealings his limited
lifespan brought him. He led a life that exemplified meaning and true worth -
The legacy that he left behind to Suzie, Marco, Marielle, and Tonton can only be
measured in the endless stories of people he helped and whose lives he touched.
It is ironic that it was Noel who came to me 32 years ago, with tears in his eyes
when he thought Suzie had bone cancer - saying he didn’t think he could cope
with the idea of losing Suzie. In the end, we didn’t realize he would be the one
that would end his journey ahead of all of us.
Noel has left us quietly, just like he was as a person - but his impact on all of
us was and is actually a “BANG”.

From Justice Manuel Lazaro
Noel was a man of strong conviction, whose loyalty to and concern for his
friends were genuine and inimitable. I knew Noel personally and professionally.
The family and the Benitez clan are my neighbors. Professionally, Noel and I
had business dealings which we tried to initiate. Unfortunately, there were legal
impediments that aborted the success. But this notwithstanding, we became
closer friends and had plans for other endeavors. His untimely death is not
only a great loss to his family but also a terrible loss to his friends and business
associates. Had he lived a little longer, he would be one of the captains in the
real estate development industry. Still his death is not the end but the beginning
of an endless life of happiness and tranquility. Noel has finally received, in
Million’s melodic phrase, “the golden key that opens the place of serenity.”
As a father and humble businessman, Noel was a reservoir of singular wisdom,

embellished with copious practical understanding of the nuances of business.
Noel was highly principled – generous with kind and gentle words if you were
right and a ferocious critic if you were wrong.
He never lacked the conviction for his beliefs, nor the ability to express them
in clear and simple language. If his beliefs were challenged, it was only after
he had articulated rational and acceptable reasons that he would admit his
mistakes if he was wrong. That was Noel. He was hard to convince and yet soft
in accepting the contrary beliefs of others.
Noel was loving and loveable to his family and friends. He had the ability to
understand. He was an ideal and supportive father to his children and a loving
husband to his wife. Noel is gone but his presence, work and memories will
remain. He will be terribly missed not only by the members of his family and
loved ones but also by his friends.
Jose Noel B. Benitez

by Popoy Magno
Noel Benitez was my student when he took his postgraduate courses towards the
degree of Master in Environmental Planning from the UP School of Environmental
Planning in the 70’s. He proved to be a very conscientious and intelligent
student,which was not surprising since he came from a family of academicians.

Moreover, it was pretty obvious
back then that Noel charmed
his classmates not only for his
handsome looks but also for his
humble and gentle demeanor.
During that time, Noel worked

with me as my Deputy Director
in the Physical Planning
Strategy for the Philippines,
a joint undertaking of the UP,
DPWTC, and UNDP. I was happy to have him on board the project for,
besides his able support in the technical and managerial aspects, he provided
the charisma that complimented what others viewed as my strict disciplinarian
style.
Yet, I managed to establish a more personal relationship with Noel 32 years ago
when my wife, Tessie, and I immediately picked him to be one of the baptismal
godfathers of our firstborn, Santi. None of those who knew him closely would
doubt that we had made the right choice for an amiable “ninong”for a much-
awaited child who was God’s gift to us after seven years of marriage.
Having been blessed with the pleasure of knowing a kind soul and gentlemen
of the Benitez clan, my family solemnly and gratefully gives back to the
Creator His son, Noel.
From Ernest Rufino
Noel was a quite a few years younger, so we didn’t really have too much interaction
as we were grew up. All that time, for me, he was always Amelou’s kid brother.
Then, we were both elected to the boards of family corporations of close

relatives. It was there I realized that Noel had grown up to be an exemplary
individual. He was knowledgeable, mature, fair, patient, soft-spoken, imbued
with a sensitive conscience, always willing to listen and ready to help. I really
appreciated the man he had become and now sincerely regret that I did not
spend more time with him.

From Epi Miranda and Roshan Jamir
I just tried to google the PWU and I saw your university’s website.
Amelou, first of all, congratulations as President of this prestigious university.

I can never forget the kindness that your family has shown me. I don’t think I can
ever repay in any material way, but rest assured that you are always in my prayers.
I saw a butterfly, small and black last Sunday night. I don’t know how it got
into our bedroom. It was on the wall above my pillow. I already had a bad
feeling. Two days after I got an email from Susan P. Abaya, a co-worker at
JLMRC with Suzie.
It was nice of Noel to visit me and say good-bye. I’m sure he’ll be praying for
us all. We have an angel in heaven watching over us. Praise the Lord!
God looked around His garden,
and found an empty space,
He then looked down upon this earth,
He saw his tired face.
He put His arms around him,
and lifted him to rest.
God’s garden must be beautiful,
He only takes the Best.
He knew that he was weary,

and He knew he was in pain...
He knew that he would never be well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough,
and the hills were hard to climb,
So He closed his weary eyes
and He whispered, “Peace Be Thine”.

The Quiet Guy Who Just Does It
by Jose P. Cabazor,
Assistant Corporate Secretary and
Director, Corporate Communication
Off and on I have been involved in

work where the late VP Noel also was in
something like 30 or so years.
In 1974, during the working merger of the

Task Force on Human Settlements with
the Project Planning and Development Office of the Department of Public
Works. I was with TFHS, he was with PPDO. In 1978 when we organized
a campaign team to support his successful bid for the vice-mayorship of
Tagaytay City. In the 80’s when on various occasions then Deputy Minister
of Human Settlements Joly Benitez, with whom I was working, asked him to
help out in some HS activities. And in the last few years both in his capacity as
PWU VP for Institutional Services and in his other occupations (that is right,
occupations) as head of various companies and corporations.
My dealings with him in his other occupations were primarily about

environment and sustainable development. I was trying to get him, and he was
very sympathetic, to support migrant farmers in the Mts. Palaypalay Mataas na
Gulod National Park by engaging them as suppliers of seedlings of indigenous
plants and trees from the Park for his land development projects in Nasugbu
adjacent to the Park. He actually went to visit their seedlings nurseries in the
Park and talked shop with the farmers in his informal, comfortable way.
Looking back at the years now, I realize and have come to appreciate his utter
lack of airs and genuine sincerity in his dealings. I do not know if his people at
PWU-IS share this impression but I have a feeling they do.
With Noel, what you see was what you got.You did not have to worry about
endangering your case by wounding his ego. He was completely non-egoistic. So
you could work very comfortably with him. He actually shied away from public
attention. The best way to work with him was quietly and away from the limelight.
For all that, however, and as his people would undoubtedly attest, he got
things done. It may be that Nike could have been referring to his work style
when they say: “Just do it.” That was how it was with him. He just did it.

From Fr. Tony E. Lazaro, Chaplain, PWU JASMS Quezon City
Noel is indeed someone who has left beautiful memories to each of us. He
is someone worth emulating, as he exudes the characteristics of brilliant and
dedicated supervisor and administrator. In my work as the Chaplain of PWU-
JASMS, Quezon City, I experienced him to be comforting, accommodating
and sincere.
Through he is gone, I could still feel his presence. He really left us with a great
legacy. The legacy of professionalism, hard work, and strong dedication to service.
THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU, MY DEAREST NOEL.
Remembering Noel and His Cup of Life

From Nilo and Erlinda Chincuanco
He held his cup of life simply and with humility, loved generously as a
husband, father, brother and son, cared deeply without expecting anything in
return. Gave and shared unselfishly, spoke gently and kindly, treating everyone
as a blessing. And, most of all, he had a grateful heart. Having filled and drunk
from this cup of Life, Noel left the rest to God in quiet piety.
He was like a “Daddy B” Junior in the way he carried himself in and out of the
campus.
As a worker, VP Noel was passionate and focused and had his mind and heart
in the right place. I remember one of his first undertakings for the PWU was teh
improvements of the PWU Chapel, the treasured legacy of the PWU alumni.
With Noel’s eye for details and beauty, he had the interior of the Chapel
repainted, the narra pews revarnished with the help of alumni and the Chapel
Volunteers Group, of which he and Suzie were the chaircouple.
He breathed new life into the chapel, the sanctuary of the PWU Community
of many answered prayers and where little miracles strengthened one’s faith...
He also had a hand in the innovation of the Prayer Room. VP Noel brought
nature within the walls.

With all these simple but appreciated changes, praying in the Chapel has never
been so inviting. In our more than 5 years’ working relationship with VP Noel,
the PWU Chapel Volunteers Group gives one a glimpse of his “simple piety”.
Thank you Noel, for being a blessing to us.
VP Noel, whisper PWU’s and our own special intentions to Jesus, Mary and
Joseph.
From Engr. Tadeo G. Claravall, AVP for Institutional

Operations and Campus Development
I have been very fortunate to work under the leadership of VP Noel B. Benitez.
Although we seldom met, on occasions we did so, I was able to observe his
admirable managerial skills which were reflected in the way he made decisions.
He always cared for the welfare of the students, faculty and staff. Constant in
his mind was the University’s financial difficulties, thus was quite strict in the
evaluation of requests for projects/purchases. Only those badly needed passed
his scrutiny and approval.
VP Benitez always saw to it that his subordinates were well taken care of. In
return, he demanded a corresponding work output from everyone. He was
generous in praises for good performance, but reprimanded those who did not
meet his expectations.
After the successful completion of a project, he would congratulate each

and everyone for a job well done, passing the credit to his subordinates and
none for himself. He was fair and firm in his dealings with other members
of the PWU community. He would not waiver on positions he thought to be
the best options for the University. He once told me that despite his many
commitments, he chose to still serve the University, for it is the legacy left to
family by his grandparents which he is bound to continue; besides, he added,
the PWU supported him in his studies.
Lastly, VP Benitez was fond of using black and red ink in his marginal notes
to us in the office. Black was to give routine instructions, approve requests
and to recognize good performance, while red was to demand explanation or
immediate action, deny requests or reprimand people. Luckily, most of the
marginal notes addressed to me were written in black ink.

Si Sir Noel
Ms. Tess A. Bernales, Institutional Operations
Ilan lang ito sa napakaraming memories na iniwan sa amin, lalo na sa akin ni

Sir Noel.
Isa na rito ang pagdiriwang ng kaarawan ko (my 46th bday) na kasama si Sir
for the first time na kung saan siya pa ang nagbigay ng salo-salo para sa akin.
Pinagka-abalahan nyang ipaghanda ang isang ordinaryong empleyadong
katulad ko. Pakiramdam ko nakaapak ako sa ulap. Salamat po, sir.
Nong nagkasakit ako, walang isa man sa mga naging boss ko ang dumalaw o
pumunta sa amin kahit nong namatay ang tatay ko. Si SIR NOEL lang ang
nag-iisang taong gumawa noon. Panay ang contact niya thru his cellphone sa
hindi ko kilala kung sino ang kausap niya. Yon pala ay ang doctor na kapatid
ni Ma’am Susie. Ipinakausap niya si Dra. sa akin kase gusto ni Sir Noel na
kumuha ako ng second opinion bago ako magpa-opera.
Masarap, masakit alalahanin at nakakaiyak na ang taong nagbibigay halaga sa

tulad naming maliliit ay wala na. Di kita makakalimutan, SIR.
At ang pinakamagandang ala-ala na nakatatak

sa puso ko ay nang inihabol niya ako para
bigyan ng special award noong Feb. 15, 2008.
Ang award na di kayang tumbasan ng kahit
anong halaga. Napakalaking karangalan po nito
para sa akin lalo na at ito’y nanggaling sa isang
kilalang tao—isang BENITEZ ang kumilala at
nagbigay importansiya sa mga ginawa o ginagawa
ko. Di ko masabi sa kanya ang taos puso kung
pasasalamat kaya dinaan ko ito sa text at ito
ang sagot niya (in all caps thru text) “ TESS U
DESERVE IT, U WORK QUIETLY N EFFECTIVELY N NEGOTIATING
4 D BEST BUY 4 D SKUL. U HAV SUBSTANTIALLY
CONTRIBUTED 2 D FINANCIAL SAVINGS F D SKUL”
Napakasarap pakinggan. Nakatataba ng puso. Up to now hindi ko ito inaalis o

ini erase sa cellphone at mananatili ito hindi lang sa cp ko kundi sa aking puso
habang ako’y nabubuhay.
Walang puedeng pumalit sa kanya. Nag–iisa siya sa mundo. WALA KANG

KATULAD, SIR NOEL.

From Babes M. De Leon (Noel’s admin chief in Tagaytay City
when he was Vice Mayor in 1980)
Dear Suzy, Marco, Marielle, and Marton:
It’s hard to lose a loved one, and though this is really a sad moment in your
lives, I’m sure Noel is there and making sure you are well taken care of,
and will guide your decisions, particularly the major ones. Remember that
everything has a reason, even death.
I will always remember Noel during the time we were in Tagaytay, the time when
he reluctantly said yes to run for Vice Mayor under the KBL and Mayor Maglabe.
It was a trying, exciting and a new venture for all of us. I’m sure he felt excited
with all the trips and the meetings we had in all the areas covered by the city.
He was a very good man, listening to every woe, every problem, every need.
The only thing is that he can’t seem to say NO..He was always there, even in
the middle of the night, having coffee, drinking a slug of “bilog” or going to a
wake, a fiesta, or a bday of a Kapitan.
One time, I was invited to a birthday in another town, and I forgot to make
paalam to him and his security. I just went there and did not notice it was late.
And since we did not have cel phones, I could not call him. Buti na lang may
nagsabi kung nasaan ako, he went to the place and picked me up and said, “babes,
next time, magsasabi ka, hwag ka pupunta kung saan, saan, answerable ako sa
Daddy mo kung may mangyari sa iyo dito”. Such was the man who took time to
take care of his staff, his friends, and more so those who helped him in his duties.
We had a great time also when we built and constructed the Provincial Action
Center in Picnic Grove, under the MHS. It was a contest, which action center
can be built first. It was a huge project, and our nemesis (ha,ha) was Maritza,
who was doing the Pagsanjan, Laguna PAC. I’m sure we could have won it
but materials did not come on time and it was Boysie Laureola (may he rest
in peace) who was holding the payment. No check, no delivery…but we tried.
It was so much fun to see a structure with our own eyes to become one of the
most endeared buildings in Picnic Grove. By the way, it was Pagsanjan who
won the contest and they got a ticket to HK!!! (Maritza and Rosie).
Noel is a dear boss, a true friend, and always there when you ask for help,
favor or what not. Our personal encounter is more than just a boss, it was a
good friendship with trust and loyalty combined. He even gave me some ideas
on my creation, the Pinoy Ka Ba board game which is now in the market.

We will miss Noel, but his legacy will live forever, he is now at Home to take
his rest until we all will meet again in the heavenly beyond.
God bless you, Noel. May you rest in peace. And your family be blessed and
showered with love.
From Ms. Marilou Mirasol, AVP for Auxiliary Services
His departure is difficult to get over with because I’ve known him most of
my life. His family is my family; we worked together for the business and we
respected each other and got along well. Everyday, I miss my friend.
He gave me a chance to make a

contribution in the academic world, to
be part of an organization that shaped
Philippine History. And through his
work, and the many projects he started,
the countless initiatives and strategies
he devised of which he made me a part
of, I found a sense of accomplishment,
pride in myself and in what I could do and what I was capable of. He was the
process and I was the execution. He shared his entrepreneurial wisdom to
help me bring my operations experience to the table. Together, we managed a
profitable family business and through it all he taught me so much.
I will miss his texts, his calls to chat. After the shop talk, he would ask me
about my family and all that he knew meant something in my life. He always
had something good to say, something positive to share and always the genuine
and sincere concern in his eyes.
Noel is gone now, but the work of his hands is still here. And there is more
to be done—now more than ever. I don’t see him walking the halls anymore,
and his seat is empty in the room where we met. Noone can take his place but
while I am here I will continue to be a team player to those who will be tasked
to finish what he started, to pursue in the direction he intended because he
always wanted the best for the University and its legacy, his family, his siblings,
and his friends and associates.
Everyday I miss my friend, my mentor, my boss.

I Remember…
by Mrs. Beatriz E. Biyo, Director, General Services
Gone…Is it true?
My heart refuses to believe my eyes. It refuses to believe what my eyes have

seen thru the messages that were texted to me very early in the morning of
July 15, 2008 – that you were gone, gone beyond recall, irrevocably.
I feel what everybody felt the unconscious that tugged our hearts when we
heard the sad news. How you must have seen us & felt the same depth and the
sincerity of our grief.
When we lost you, we lost a good Administrator. For me, you were not perfect,
but one of the best.
I remember my first encounter with you during Martial Law days & the Residence
College then was still existing. Only well-trained student assistants manned all the
gates with one guard stationed at main gate. They knew how to handle visitors
coming inside the University.You came one day & introduced yourself as Mr.
Benitez & wanted to see the Chairperson Ms HZB. After confirming from the
office of the Chairperson, the SA asked you to please leave your ID for visitor’s
pass.You obliged but inquire if it is an order or a policy for everybody. The girl
politely answered, “yes, Sir, as per instructions from our supervisor”. Later, when
he retrieves his ID he approached me that he commended the girl for the “job
well done”. Many years had passed until one day you came & in a short time the
situations changed.You became our immediate head.
I remember how happy the student assistant assigned at the Information as

operator received an allowance for the extra hours they rendered after their
regular working hours.
I remember your concern when you learned that one of them will have a concert
show at Paco Park; you instructed me to take care everything for her from the
costume, make-up & transportation. Busy as you were, you supported her thru
your presence from the beginning to end, “How Kapamilya”.
I remember how angry you were to see employees doing nothing during office
hours. But were also quick to give compliments, your appreciations when you
were satisfied with our works.

Sir Noel, you loved the University so deeply & sincerely not because you are
connected with the Benitezes simply because you believed that hard work with
faith will bring miracle in one’s life.
I remember the smile on your face for the last few weeks before you left us.
You smile in answer to my request to vote Laarni in PDA.
You smile when I refuse to go up to the 5th floor to get the frames & told you
the next morning na lang. You smile & nod to my request for an additional
maintenance—and the last smile was during the birthday of Dr. Maligalig
where you tapped my back & said, “nandito lang pala kayo”.
The night was lit by stars, everybody was sound asleep. In the silence of the
night God called your name. He came & he found you watching. “Here I am
Lord, you said.”
You are gone to your Maker. There also we hope to be one day as one of your
“faithful soldier” under your command in our department it is now my turn to
say: “Thank you, thank you & thank you Sir Noel for the “Job Well Done.”
I say not goodbye Sir Noel but God rest you.
From Ms. Sonia Atabug, PWU Media Relations Director
I remember Sir Noel as a firm administrator whose love and concern for
the University stemmed from the Benitez legacy of exemplary and good
educational governance.

He remained true and faithful to this belief and conviction to the very end
of his life.
From a member of the PWU Community
Mr. Noel Benitez is very respectable and a man of action.

In Memoriam of Noel Benitez
Ms. Amelia Bonifacio, VP & Chief Operating Officer, PWC Davao
That was a sudden departure and regrettably, I did not maximize my

private moments with you amidst PWC of Davao business to express a
great appreciation and admiration for your staunch support and inspiring
encouragement to do more. I will not fail you.
A pleasant hello and hi!

by Dr. Ida Yap-Patron
This is VP Noel. Very simple and ordinary greetings, but extraordinarily

touched people in the workforce.
When I worked for the SAS PAASCU Accreditation, I was deeply worried
of some areas under Physical Plant. But his assurance that things would be
delivered and done in time were magic words. He spoke very little, but he just
acted on your requests. VP Noel was a man of action.
To me, VP Noel had an awesome sense of obedience -- as a grandson, as a

nephew, as a brother and as VP Noel. He took seriously the vision and the
legacy of the family. I believed that this was because he wished that all things
may go well for everybody.
You will be missed. But God loves you more than we do!

From Ms. Emilie Dalisay, PWC of Davao
A very unassuming person, Tito Noel will always be remembered as simple

and caring. Staying at an economy hotel like Lispher Inn was never an issue
with him even if the well-known Marco Polo Hotel is an option. And being a
PWC Board member, he is very much entitled to avail of the PWC vehicle in
and out of Lispher Inn. However, he would just be walking towards PWC or
take a tricycle instead of asking us for such need.
A very vivid memory I have of him was during the PWU-PWC Global
Congress in Davao City. He waited for hours for Tita Suzie to arrive at the
Marco Polo Ballroom before he even took a bite of the sumptuous dinner,
when almost everybody else in the said ballroom had finished eating. He
was very much concerned that Tita Suzie & the Bayanihan group were not
at the appointed venue even way after dinner had been served & consumed.
But he never raised a voice nor pestered anyone in the host committee dur-
ing that time. That made a lasting impression on me of who he is as a man, a
husband,a school official and a tito.
Tito Noel, thoughts of you will always be cherished!
From Ms. Juliet Manlapaz

and Washington DC PWUA Charities Inc advisers, board
members and officers
Bubbles,
Pls extended our deepest sympathies to Suzie and her family for the loss of
Noel! It was indeed a shock to learn of the untimely demise of Noel. We
will offer a mass for the repose of Noel and also for Suzie & family for their
strength to carry on and live the legacy of Noel!
Ms. Geraldine Tiongson Osias

President, PWU Alumni Association
Low profile but highly profiled, behind the scenes, yet seen by many, one
great “helluva” guy! Great loss to the PWU family and definitely to Suzie and
children.

A Long Distance Conversation With Noel Benitez
by Ms. Helen Marte
I called Noel on July 14, 2008 from San Francisco, California because I
wanted him to meet an architect using “Green technology”, in Manila,
also to alert him for a San Francisco/Manila Sister City Committee trip
sometime in February 2009, with the Mayor and California Governor Arnold
Schwanegger. The project is focused on solar and other alternative energy
technology including waste management systems, and other infrastructure
systems experts in the field from California.

Our series of conversations started in PWU Davao Congress in August, 2006.
Noel, Susie and Bayanihan dancers and I stayed at the Lispher Inn Hotel. It
was during our daily breakfast together that I had several conversations with
Noel regarding Solar Power technology. As San Francisco Public Library
Commissioner, I had advocated using solar power for new buildings. S.F.
Public Library has built several new libraries using solar power and green
technology since 2002. Noel was most interested due to high cost of electric
power usage in several PWU campuses as “runaway budgetary cost.” I
promised him to find a “possible project study demonstration” at the Taft
Avenue campus. He was most ecstatic.
Among the topics during breakfast was the container—load books the San
Francisco Public Library donated to De la Salle Bacolod, as I became a SF
Library Commissioner in 2000. Noel immediately requested a shipment to
PWU Library and to expedite the transaction, he paid by his credit card in
2006. The donation was completed in October, 2006.
I found Noel so much a “doer against all odds” individual and admire him
most for forging a modern beautification of PWU Taft Campus that has been
so outstanding. A visionary to adapt a “sense of Campus pride” in the Paseo.
He was a man of action and generous and very sincere in his dealing with me.
I will miss him and all his unfinished business. May God give his children his
great gift of friendship.

From Ms. Regina Flores Tercero, Immediate Past President, PWU
JMDIAA 2006-2007, Past President PWUAASC, PWU-JMD 1969
This is a shocking news. So sorry to hear about Noel Benitez’s untimely

passing. I had a good chance to meet him over breakfast with Helen Marte in
Davao at the PWU homecoming.
Helen Marte, who just left last Monday for the Philippines originally scheduled
for Tita Helen’s 94th birthday, must also be in disbelief over this sad news. Helen
was my house guest prior to her Philippine trip and we reconnected in our good
friendship, as we were roommates in Davao. Now this sudden twist of fate.
Bubbles, please extend my personal condolence to the bereaved wife Suzie

and family, Tita Helen and Amelou and relatives of Noel Benitez. Without a
doubt, PWU-JMDIAA officers and members feel the sadness of this sudden
passing of Noel and send prayers and expressions of sympathy. There’s no easy
answer why, we only have our deep faith, as we entrust Noel into God’s loving
embrace and say “Amen.”
From Mrs. Loline Adelina Reed
I have heard from Nina Lim Yuson about Noel’s demise and have asked her to
forward my condolences to Suzie and Amelou, to Joly and to Maritza and of
course to Tita Helen.
Noel is one of the nicest members of the Benitez clan I have met and become
friends with. When I was still in High School, I used to see him with his mother
still in his uniform, when he visited PWU. I used to see him under the High
School quadrangle’s mango tree, chatting happily to the janitors having a break.
He was so approachable and thus so much liked by the lower staff at PWU.
Noel did not have a chink of snobbery about him. He was charming and had
a kind heart. I am not surprised that he is very much missed by all at PWU.
To be missed and remembered for himself and for the wonderful memories he
left in people’s hearts and minds will be his legacy. I hope that Suzie and their
children will be comforted by these thoughts.
They have all been very blessed, for Suzie, to have had Noel as a loving husband
and for their children to be fortunate to have him as their wonderful Dad.

My memories of Noel …….... as a friend
Dr. Eden Kelemen, AVP for Academic Affairs, PWU-JASMS QC
He and Suzie were instrumental in my being part of the PWU Community.

Actually, he was the one who interviewed me.
There were times when we would text each other and end up exchanging
messages till late at night. He shared with me some of his frustrations and
also how he became part of the Henry Sy Company. In one of our chats I told
him that my family is my priority and he replied “Eden, I agree.” One time I
got a message from him asking me why I always texted him twice, that it will
be expensive on my part. Since then, I was very careful in texting him – that I
don’t repeat any of my messages.
In one of my parties at home, I invited him and Suzie. Although Suzie could
not make it, he came and gelled very well with my other guests.
When we were preparing for the celebration of our Silver Wedding

Anniversary, my husband and I decided to ask Noel to be one of our sponsors.
Remembering Sir Noel...

by Mr. Gene Albert E. Velunta
Much has been said about Sir Noel’s compassion, his being a hard worker,
and his faith among others. But what I cherish most about him was his ardent
desire to keep the legacy of his grandparents going. In most of our meetings,
he never failed to mention that more effort should be exerted to keep the
legacy going—PWU must go on.
His by-line was usually about raising standards, being competitive, and
trimming down excess fats. I believe Sir Noel and his ate, the University
President, Dr Amelou Benitez Reyes, both believed to keep the legacy going.
In the final meeting between us, he shared with me a grand plan where
satellite PWU units would be situated around the Philippines delivering
quality education in areas where major mall operations are located. Sir Noel’s
grand plan may still be down the future lane but we will get there. The PWU
was granted Autonomous Status just prior to Sir Noel’s journey to the great
beyond. This could be the beginning.

From Dr. Lorenzo C. Lorenzo
I will always remember Sir Noel for his simplicity and kindness, professionalism,
integrity and respect for people.
My last conversation with Sir Noel was during the concert of Jose Mari Chan in
Manila Hotel, Friday, July 11. He shared with me some of his recent thoughts and
feelings about the University. It was short but very meaningful and inspiring.
Sir Noel, through his words and actions, has taught me very essential things in
carrying out my function as Human Resource head. I learned from him some
techniques in negotiation, effectively handling employee cases, and becoming more
consistent in employee discipline and decision making.
Sir Noel is a man of action. He knows how to keep his promises. He produces
results especially when it matters the most. He will even go out of his way just to
make sure that desired results are achieved.
Sir Noel is a good role model for all employees. He walks the talk. He is even more
consistent in wearing his ID every time he enters the university premises than me.
Sir Noel is a good listener and mentor. He listens not only with his ears but also
with his heart. If you consult something with him, be it work related or otherwise,
he makes it a point that what he told you was clear and you are comfortable work-
ing on it.
On a personal note, Sir Noel is a friend and like a father to me. I can be very com-
fortable sharing with him some of my personal concerns, especially about looking
for my “One True Love”. In fact, he has invited me several times to visit him in
SM Corporate Office to meet my potential partner in life. In my last conversation
with him, he mentioned this again and jokingly told me that had I gone there the
first time he told me, I could have found the woman that I have been searching for
by now.
I remember on father’s day, I warmly greeted him and we exchanged several text
messages about choosing a lifetime partner and family life. Just like a real father,
he was consistently guiding me on my discernment and personal decisions in life.
And for this, I am very grateful to him.
You will always be in my heart, Sir Noel. You will always be kept in my prayers.
Wherever God leads me, the life that you lived and the good example that you
have shown me will always serve as a constant reminder of God’s call to love and
serve others.
May the Soul of our dearest brother Noel through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Sir Noel, it’s time to experience the eternal joy of being with the Risen Christ!
Enter the joy of everlasting life!

In Loving Memory of VP Noel B. Benitez
by Mrs. Diony M. Angeles, University Librarian
The sudden passing away of VP Noel B. Benitez was really a very sad event
for most of us...
We, from the Library Department will always remember him for all his
support to the innovations and improvements in the PWU Main and
departmental libraries. Majority, if not all of our requests were supported and
approved by VP Noel. At times, he sent back our request with some notes or
question mark (?), but after I explained and justified, most of the times he
considered my justifications for such request.
VP Noel was a very approachable person. We could approach and talk to him
anytime we met him even along the corridor. If he called for me in his office, I
did not feel afraid to see and discuss matters with him.
Last June 27, during the 94th birthday celebration of “Tita Helen”, PWU
Chairperson of the Board of Trustees, Dr. Helena Z Benitez, he was very busy
entertaining the guests. When he came near the table where I was seated, I
stood up and thanked him personally for all his continued support to the
library needs and improvement. I never knew that this will be the last time
that I will be able to thank him in person. I was sure at that moment that he
appreciated my sincere thanks and recognition of all his support because of the
bright smile on his face and his sign of UPRIGHT THUMBMARK. We shook
hands and I sat down while he continued entertaining the other guests.
Much tears have been shed for VP Noel’s departure from this earth. He was a
profound loss to his family and to the Philippine Women’s University. He led a
life well-lived. We will surely miss you VP Noel… We are praying for the eternal
repose of your soul. May God grant VP Noel eternal rest…
Anecdote on Sir Noel B. Benitez

by Ms. Puritz P. Uson
Aside from flashing his radiant smile as we occasionally crossed paths along
the PWU corridors, I had the rare chance of meeting with Sir Noel in the
office of Ma’am Suzie M. Benitez sometime in the past. Present in that

meeting were Sir Noel Benitez, Dean Harold Galang, Ms. Helen Marte-
Bautista, PWU alumna and one of the Commissioners of the San Francisco
Public Library, and myself.
Mrs. Dionisia M. Angeles, our University Librarian, was not around during
that time due to a previous commitment, so Sir Noel called for me. Sir Noel
discussed about the possibility of documenting and reproducing all the works
of Dr. Lucresia Kasilag. He also mentioned about archiving them for security
purposes. Moreover, he talked about the shipping of book donations from the
San Francisco Public Library.
That was my first and last meeting with him. He registered to me as someone
who had deep concern and support for the library, which he continued to
show until he was called in the Final Roll Call.
But what struck me most about Sir Noel was when my colleague and myself
watched a performance of the world-renowned Bayanihan Dance Troupe at the
Conrado Benitez Hall about 2 years ago. We were seated at the back, right side
of the hall. On the left side were Dr. Amelou B. Reyes and Sir Noel. They came
in a little late. As expected, the Bayanihan dancers gave a superb performance
and each time a dance number is
finished, Sir Noel would clap his
hands vigorously and whistle. The
loud sound of the whistle resounded
inside the hall. In complete
astonishment, Dr. Reyes looked at us,
looked at Sir Noel, pointed to him,
then laughed as if telling him, “Hey,
you look like a child.”
Sir Noel just laughed it off and

continued with his playful gestures.
We were amused at the way he showed his deep admiration and appreciation
for the wonderful dances and the great performers that were very close to his
heart, he being a former Bayanihan dancer, along with his wife. My colleague
and I looked at each other and smiled as we witnessed the other side of him. I
just said to myself that here is one person who acts and speaks with so much
dignity and can truly be himself and be childlike in some light moments.
Surely, those scenes will forever be etched in my mind.

The Magic of VP Noel
by Dr. Christy Cruz
Every accreditation period in the past, we always managed to write VP Noel all
our concerns on physical facilities. Never did CBIBE experience a difficult time
coordinating with VP Noel on the necessary requirements for our accreditation.
Personally, I felt that here I am talking to a man who’s dignified stature and
bearing would go around the CBIBE area, scratch his shoes on the old floor
pavement, check the cracked windows, the leaking air conditions, the dilapidated
chairs, the old black boards. Without promising anything – just like magic, the
physical improvements were accomplished in time for the accreditors’ visit.
CBIBE learned to value VP Noel’s efforts in helping us during accreditation.

We made sure we reported to him the updated status of the facilities that
would need improvements. We commended the good service of his janitors
while also reported those who were remiss in their duties.
VP Noel in his quiet ways had a subtle manner of showing his temper. Once
while making the rounds, he noticed that an air condition was left running in
an empty classroom. He called my attention and I was alarmed. Before I could
explain, he turned his back and left. It was a lesson learned and this incident
will be forever in my mind. I didn’t feel bad but more so, I managed to use this
as a warning precaution to all the faculty members to do their share in taking
care of our facilities. I told them, “Don’t be caught by VP Noel…”
Now that VP Noel is gone, nothing will change. His magical presence around
CBIBE will always be with us.
In Memory of Sir Noel

by Ms. Lorraine P. Petalver, Chief Accountant, Finance Department
We did not have the opportunity to work with Sir Noel eight hours a day, five days
a wekk but during his term as University Vice-President, we had the occasion of
getting a glimpse of his personality—Sir Noel to us was a very hard-working person.
He made use of his time and appeared not to waste it in unnecessary things.
We had the honor of being with him in one Board of Trustees meeting about two years
ago and he was so accommodating. And of course, there was his disarming smile!

A Letter to VP Noel
by Mrs. Remedios H. Cruz
Dear VP Noel,
Every place in JASMS-Manila evokes memories of you. At the quadrangle on

the ground floor are the big round garden sets which you thoughtfully sent
after seeing the children sit on the cold floor waiting for their classes to begin;
the colorful canteen which you ordered to be remodeled, even asking us for
the colors we favored; the beautiful comfort rooms for the children and guests
and our own which you said should also give us comfort and pride; our very
presentable conference room which you personally designed which hopefully we
can call NBB room even if Marco said you may not even want it. We know you
would understand.
On the upper floors, the Library sports the new and uniform bookshelves
ordered by you which you did not get to see; a separate Library area for the
High School and an internet corner awaiting the computers which you were
going to provide for us; the HE Practice House that you painstakingly had
constructed; the Science laboratory that is now at par with others and of
course, the rooftop for our students to have for physical activities. When we
told you that we were beset by a problem of no room for our additional HS
section, how pleased you were when you said that it was a “pleasant problem”.
We remember the time when our student delegation could not afford to hire a
coaster for the Baguio convention and were told the school vehicle could not
be used; we ran to you and without hesitation you made available the school
van, anything for the children!
We shall miss your quiet visits which came very often even on weekends and
holidays. We shall miss the unassuming official who would not hesitate, in his
crisp barong Tagalog, bend down to repair a broken fixture in the comfort room
tank that persons of lesser stature might even call their underlings to do! You were
sensitive to our needs, we did not have to say nor ask. We admire the sincerity you
exuded and have felt the genuine appreciation that only you can give.
May the Good Lord grant the rest you richly deserve, VP Noel, watch over
your loved ones and help those who fill in your shoes that they may work
towards the realization of your dreams.
We thank the Lord for allowing you to come our way, brief as it may be and
for having known you. JASMS-Manila sorely misses you!

Memento for Sir Noel
by Dr. Ana Cordovilla
Mr. Benitez being one of the highest officials in the school was thought of not
feeling people. To my surprise he is so different, very humble and down-to-
earth. One time, as early as 7:45 a.m. I was sweeping the floor in the office. A
man approached me from behind and said “ Bakit ikaw ang gumagawa niyan?”
Without looking at who asked, I answered him. “Wala namang ibang gagawa
e, this is multi-tasking”. After which, I looked at him then to find out that he
was Sir Noel, who just smiled and walked away. After a few minutes one of
the janitors came and helped me clean the area which covers both School of
Environment & Habitat and PSSW.
One afternoon, he saw my youngest son Buboy whom I asked to wash the
dishes after lunch. Sir Noel saw him coming out of the CR with all the stuff
washed and said, “Uy child labor yan ah.” Of course, he was just joking and
later he told Buboy “very good, buti yan very obedient”. When he saw me, he
congratulated me for having Buboy whom he said is cute and good. Buboy
then offered the Mass in his honor where he served as altarserver.
These incidents were just some of the many unforgettable associations with
him. We will surely miss a person who is abundantly blessed and yet very
humble in dealing with people whom he treats as friends.
Noel, a Peer, a Colleague and a Friend

by Dr. Nenita M. Cura
The very PERSON of Noel invited one to address him by his first name
because to him the person is more precious than his position. He valued
“being” more than “having”. This is how I had felt and dealt with him, a
peer, a colleague and a friend. My close association with him started with the
Nasugbu Project of SM. He asked us to submit a proposal on Rapid Rural
Assessment of 4 barangays in Nasugbu where a full blown hotel and other
facilities for tourists had been started, similar or even better than Boracay. The
result will be the basis of a sustainable development project in 4 communities.
To have a feel of the area, he and Jojo Joson invited us (PSSW & UNICORP)
to spend a day on the beach—the place was paradise! There was clear blue

water with mountains surrounding the place reminiscent of the movie
“Blue Lagoon”. This was the setting of our “picnic” lunch with food galore,
nice exchanges of ideas and jokes in between. We then proceeded to the 2
barangays where we met the barangay captain and some women leaders. We
had a glimpse of the physical setting as well as the interaction of the women
and male leaders. We went home with mangoes given to us that would last us a
lifetime. What a day! And what a pleasant way to start an RRA project!
As promised and on the basis of SM’s expectations, we submitted the project

proposal that was subsequently approved. The approval of the proposal came
a bit early as we have not found a male community organizer. So I frantically
texted Noseñas, John whose name preceded Noel in my phonebook with the
following text messages – I’m desperately in need of COs—meaning Community
Organizers. This message accidentally entered Noel’s celfone, who mischievously
interpreted “CO as company! He called up Cynthia Zamora from UNICORP,
another friend of his and said – “Biruin mo si Dean sa kanyang text sa akin!
Hurriedly I texted Noel and said: Sorry for the miss sent text message – I needed
community organizer! He texted back – “No explanation is needed!” when we
met in the Council meeting, there were no words, only laughter! Ay….happy is the
man who sees humor in the small errors of life….
And now to the more serious part of our work… our interaction with the 3 big
bosses of the SM project—Noel, included. The agreement was for the two teams
to meet once a month for the progress report. At first, Noel tried to decline his
membership in the SM Team. He said Dean Cura is already there. It would be a
case of conflict of interest. But he was asked to stay as part of the SM team. How
he played his part in the whole RRA process as the President of SM Investment
and as VP for Institutional Services of PWU is something for the books.
The SM team was quite formidable. During monthly meetings, we would always
come prepared with powerpoint presentations. The questions were direct to the
point and reflected a very corporate orientation. Somehow, we felt we were in a
thesis defense. But we managed with “flying colors”. This was how we did it. We
requested Noel to be our sounding board prior to the submission of our reports
especially the interim and final reports. Come to think of it, he never corrected
our draft reports. He asked us to go ahead and make the presentation. Either
our reports were good or he had a tremendous respect for professional efforts.
I’d like to believe, the latter is true. In meetings he kept quiet but his supportive
presence and non-verbal expression of his whole being was empowering. Indeed,
his characteristic smile of approval made us carry on and move on. By being
himself, he empowered us! – Intuitively, Noel brilliantly balanced the corporate
mind and the common good.

The SM remarks on the presentation of our final report said it all….”we are
pleased with your report!”
This remark was a signal for the 2nd phase of the project - the actual
community organizing for empowerment and sustainable development. Here
the lines were drawn. SM was for immediate skills and project development.
Our team was for value formation and leadership development as a principle
of social work. Noel’s intervention was to do both but with emphasis on the
strengthening of families, to which we agreed, a true Philwomenian. At this
point the Lord intervened. The Lord has taken Noel back to Him!.
As the song goes “Quite a play you did your act so well, quite a play until the
curtains fell! Paalam Noel, isa kang huwaran ng tunay na TAO….”
Brief and yet Unforgettable…

by Ms. Bing Quintos, Director HRDMD
... That is how I would describe my encounters with Sir Noel when he was still
here with us in the University and had shown me the following traits of a person
that is spiritually guided and a born gentleman.
1. DISCIPLINE
• He was a member of the Revision of the Code of Conduct Committee, which
was my first encounter with him. During meetings and deliberations, he had
elicited compassion and justice in his desire to put order and proper decorum
for employees’ behavior within and outside the university premises.
• During CBA negotiations, he manifested fairness that would harmonize the
goals of management and the union for mutual benefits.
• In conducting investigations, he had been firm and fair to hear the side of
erring employees vi-a-vis the University Code that had to be implemented.
2. WISDOM
• There is always a solution for him in every situation presented to him
• He had guided and suggested to us ways to approach and resolve HRD
issues
3. LIGHTHEARTEDNESS
• Inspite of all the trials and difficulties we are encountering, he had a ready
smile and hello when I cross path with him in the premises

… up to now he seems to be just around as if he is attending a meeting outside the
University. His presence can be felt through all the areas that he had “touched”
in the university, from entrance and exits, from walls to the floor that we walked
in every day; he had been instrumental to all these transformation. I will miss
you Sir, but the good that you left behind would always be remembered.
From Ms. Charito Bitanga Peralta

Dean Emeritus, SFAD/ Concurrent Director, University Museum and Gallery
He is one of the PWU officials who had an understanding of the problems of

my office and who acted accordingly.
Farewell Salute
by Ms. Becky D. Yusingco
On 14th of July around 6:10 p.m,. I saw Sir Noel at Taft exit gate. As I usually
do every time I met him, I saluted him. That moment I saw him, he had
unusual glow in his face. Little did I know that it was my last salute and honor
to him.

From the Office of the VP for Institutional Operations
A Thank You Letter

by Aida A. Arrieta, Administrative Assistant

I was very fortunate to be one among the staff of VP Noel B. Benitez. When
he asked me if I wanted to be transferred to his office, I immediately said yes,
because the big boss was the one requesting for my services. Who am I to
decline his offer? I joined the IS family last November 2006 and since then I
had so many unforgettable work experiences with him.
Sir Noel was very generous in giving

praises whenever you have done
something good in your work. That’s why I
was inspired to do better in every task that
he gave me. I will see to it that I will not
commit mistakes because I do not want
him to get angry with me. True enough, he
would always say, “very good, well trained,
keep it up!” For me, those were the
sweetest words that I would always want to
hear. If all the bosses were like him, more
people would be productive because they
would be inspired by his leadership. He
was the best boss!
I also considered him as my adviser because he would always give time to

listen to your problems even if you cry in front of him, he doesn’t mind as long
as you tell him all your worries and he would assure you immediately that he
was ready to give you words of wisdom so you can overcome those problems.
He was the best life coach!
Sir Noel was a big loss for many of us who were touched by his “larger than
life” personality. He could still have helped, inspired, challenged many people
by his remarkable examples. I promise that I will always bear in mind your
advices and teachings and share them to others so that they will be inspired,
too. For us, your legacy will not be forgotten.
Thank you very much for your trust in my little abilities I shared with you.You are
one among the people who believe in me. Goodbye Sir Noel, we will miss you!

Maraming Salamat, Sir Noel
by Shirley D. Resumadero, Secretary, Institutional Operations
Kung hindi kay Sir Noel siguro sa ngayon, wala na kaming bahay na tinitirhan.
Siya ang tumulong at nag-indorso sa akin kay Sir Joe Cabazor upang hindi
bawiin ang lupa’t bahay na hinuhulugan ko thru PAG-IBIG at nang dahil sa
kanya kami ngayon ay nasa maayos na tirahan at wala nang pinangangambahan
at nakakatulog na nang mahimbing.
Sa lahat ng naging boss ko, MR. NOEL BENITEZ is the BEST. Kahit na
may kapalpakan akong nagagawa, sa halip na pagalitan ako, itinuturo pa niya
sa akin kung ano ang tama na dapat kong gawin. Napaka-systematic niya at
napakatalas ng memory. Minsan nga, siya pa ang nagpapaalala sa akin sa mga
bagay na aking nakakalimutan.
SIR, bakit naman maaga ninyo kaming iniwan?
Myrna Alianza
Administrative Assistant, Institutional Operations
Sa dami po ng nagawa ninyong kabutihan para sa akin ay kulang po ang isang

aklat upang maibahagi ito lahat.
Maraming-maraming salamat po, Sir. Lagi po kayo sa aking panalangin.
I miss you, Sir!
Benny Canlas
Senior Mechanical/Lab Works Coordinator
Napakalaking inspirasyon para sa akin ang pagiging boss ni Sir Noel dahil
walang mataas o mababa, kahit sino puwedeng lumapit sa kanya. Kapag may
nagawa kang maganda sa trabaho, pupurihin niya kaya naman nakakataba ng
puso.
Thank you po, Sir Noel.

Arthur G. Arafol, Senior Civil Work Coordinator
Maraming salamat Sir Noel sa lahat ng aking natutunan sa larangan ng trabaho.

Paalam, Guro!
Albert Miranda, Jr., Mech/Lab Works Coordinator
Napakabait na boss ni Sir Noel dahil pinapahalagahan niya ang bawat

empleyado niya lalo na sa IS. Naalala ko pa noong nagkausap kami ni Sir,
nabanggit niya na, “Albert, kung sakaling mapaangat natin ang PWU,
malaking bagay ang tulong mo kasi ang laki ng natipid natin dahil hindi na
tayo magpapaayos ng mga aircon sa labas”. Natuwa ako dahil pinatunayan
niya na mahalaga din pala ang gawain ko para sa kanya. Noong namatay ang
tatay ko, pinahiram pa niya yung sasakyan niya sa mga officemates ko para lang
makapunta sa amin sa Pangasinan para makiramay. Hinding-hindi ko talaga
makakalimutan yun. Marami pa siyang nagawang kabutihan sa akin kaya naman
malaki ang pasasalamat ko sa kanya. Salamat po sa lahat, Sir Noel.
Sandro M. Cariño, Electrical Works Coordinator
He was an abettor in doing such good things in works as what he had done and
shown to us. (The best leader and as a second parent)

Rene Parra, Leadman, General Services
Si Sir Noel parang Tatay ko na. Birthday, siya ang unang taong makakaalala.
Papuri ang sagot niya sa bawat magandang trabaho. Pasasalamat sa bawat tulong
na binibigay mo. Kaya ako ngayon nagdadiet, lagi niya akong sinasabihan,
“lumalaki ang tiyan mo, Rene, sabay tapik sa tiyan”. Salamat, Sir.
Norberto Olid, Driver, Institutional Operations
Hanggang sa huling sandali para sa kabutihan ng unibersidad ang kanyang

iniisip, sabi po ni Sir Noel, “Ingatan mo ang ating mga sasakyan”. Salamat po sa
pagtitiwala ninyo sa akin, Sir.
Raul Encela, Institutional Operations
Naalala ko na sinabi ni Sir Noel sa akin na kapag may problema kami, “I’m
just a text away”. Ganun siya ka-approachable kasi hindi siya namimili ng tao.
Salamat po, Sir Noel.
Jimmy Parada, Head Carpenter
Sa panahong buhay pa si Sir Noel ay marami rin akong natatanggap na

papuri mula sa kanya bilang isang manggagawa dito sa PWU na siya naming
nagbibigay sa akin ng sigla at saya sa mga gawain ko dito bilang isang Jr. Civil
Works Coordinator at higit sa lahat madali siyang lapitan at tumulong sa
financial na pangangailangan at yan ang hindi ko malilimutan habang ako ay
nabubuhay at naririto sa PWU.
Maliit ka man na manggagawa kikilalanin ka ni Sir Noel

Benitez by Estrelita Jasareno, General Services
Bilang isang maliit na manggagawa dito sa Philippine Women’s University,

ako’y kilala ni Sir Noel B. Benitez.

Taon 2003 paupo si Sir Noel B. Benitez, VP for Operation sa Admin. Services.
Nagkaroon nang despedida si Dir. Jose Seguerra. Ako ang naatasan ni Ma’am
Mitzie Castor na magluto ng pagkain sa nasabing okasyon. Ginanap ito sa Multi
Purpose Hall, lahat nang matataas ang posisyon dito sa PWU ay nasa long table.
Si Sir Noel naman ay nakatayo at nagtatanong kay Myrna Alianza, “Myrna, sino
ba ang nagluto ng pagkain? Ilang beses na akong pabalik-balik ah…”
Kapapasok ko lang ng pintuan ng Multi Purpose Hall at bigla kong

hinawakan ang kamay niya at sabi ko, “Sir, ako po ang nagluto ng pagkain. Si
Mang Perto ang tagapaghalo ko, asawa po ako ni Perto”.
Inilapit niya ako sa long table at ipinakilala sa lahat lalo na kay Ma’am Suzie,
“kay Lita na ikaw magpaluto ng pagkain ng Bayanihan Dancers. At ako nga
ang nagluto nang pagkain ng Bayanihan Dancers. Taon 2003 hanggang 2005,
rehearsal at final shows sa Cultural Center of the Philippines.
Mahilig si Sir Noel sa mga pagkain na masasarap. Minsan, birthday ko

binigyan ko siya ng isang bote ng dinuguan at iyan ay di niya malimutan,
“Thank you, thank you Lita sa take home na dinuguan”.
Natatandaan ko pa rin Aug. 23, 2005, kaarawan ng isang anak niya, nagpaluto
siya sa akin ng beef caldereta, dinuguan, pancit, bbq. May tanong si Sir Noel
sa akin, “Lita, anong parti ng baboy ang ginamit sa bbq? Ang sagot ko sa
kanya, Sir, lomo po. Ay, naku! Kaya pala ubos lahat”.
Kahit ikaw ay maliit na manggagawa, binibigyan ka ng pagpapahalaga,

uunawain ka sa mga daing mo.
Parati ko siyang ipinapanalangin makarating ang kaluluwa niya sa kaharian ng

Panginoon.
Claudia Calsena, Food Laboratory
Noong bata pa po si Sir Noel, student na po siya, hindi ko po alam kung

Grade 3 or 4. Ang cook pa namin ay si Aling Ilang at Rody, naging husband
ko po si Rody. Tuwing lunch po umaakyat na po si Sir Noel dito sa kitchen kay
Aling Ilang dito po may manga sa itaas tawagin ako ni Aling Ilang, “Odiang,
ipaghanda mo na si Noel ng pagkain. Kaya naghanda po ako pero walang table
cloth ordinary na baso napakabait po ni Sir laging walang imik kahit sabihin

ko na dalian niya at pagkatapos sasamahan ko na siya sa ibaba. Lagi po ganon
paghumingi ng inumin hanapin niya ako kung minsan naman ipagluto ko ng
itlog, porkchop, meryenda.
Kaso po nang dito na siya sa IS, kinuwesyon niya ako ng umakyat siya dine
sa kitchen sabi dito mo ako pinakakain pangit ang baso hindi goblet walang
mantel. At saka sabi niya kinukuha kami ni Mang Rody, asawa ko po cook po
kasama po ni Aling Ilang doon na daw po kami sa Cavite tumira, magpagawa
ng bahay pero tumanggi po kami kasi po malayo. Vice Mayor po yata siya sa
Tagaytay noon. Kung minsan po pinapupunta niya ako sa Dasma sa bahay
po nila Ma’am Suzie sabi ko po hindi ko alam puntahan, ganito sabi niya
sumakay ka ng taksi sabi niya may guard bago pumasok ako po ay nakarating
din sabi niya paano ka matuto kung hindi mo pupuntahan. Nitong Dec. 25
kasama niya si Mariel at Marco dine po sa may manga, ipinakilala po niya si
Mariel at Marco sa akin at kung minsan po sabi niya kung tapos po ang aking
mga anak sabi ko po ang iba ay hindi, oh bat mo pinabayaan? Hindi ko po kasi
kaya na magpaaral silang lahat.
Sabi pa niya Odiang tingnan mo si Mariel ha, sino ang kamukha, ako ba o si
Ma’am Suzie? Sabi ko po siya, tumawa siya ng malakas, sabi niya hindi, ka-
yumanggi kaya sa ina kamukha. Sabi po niya mahal na mahal ko ang aking mga
anak, titingnan mo sila pag diyan sa PWU, kaya mo pa ba? At nitong birthday
ni Ma’am Helen inutos sa janitor na magdala ako ng isang table cloth hindi po
ako pumunta dahil duty po ako panggabi sa HRM, ibinigay ko na lang sa jani-
tor. Malaking pagsisisi ko po dahil yon na pala ang huli naming pagkikita ni Sir
Noel, Marami po siyang mga bilin, yung susi ng mga pinto ako po ang kanyang
binilinan lalo na po ang pinto pababa sa papunta sa Nakpil gate.
Salamat po, Sir Noel.
Leila Carino, Sunrise Security Agency
Sa 11 years ko pong pagtratrabaho dito sa PWU (Sunrise Agency) wala po

kong masabi sa ugali ninyo, napakabait at madaling lapitan sa oras ng ka-
gipitan. Pagdating sa trabaho napakaistrikto at madaling umaksyon pag may
inireport. Sir, saludo po kaming mag-asawa sa inyo. Marami pong salamat sa
mga kabutihan at tulong na ibinigay sa amin.

Alejandro M. Mamba, Jr., OIC, Sunrise Security Agency
Since my employment in Sunrise Security Agency eight years ago, I have

never encountered any bad comment from Agency’s owner, my Boss Sir Noel
Benitez. Year 2005 was when I was assigned at PWU main. During my first
week of assignment as OIC of the detachment, a ransacking incident hap-
pened. Sir Noel told me to study the case carefully and submit necessary sug-
gestions to avert the repetition of the same. Thereafter, all my suggestions were
approved by Sir Noel. “Doon ko nalaman na basta sa kapakanan ng lahat at
ikabubuti ng University gagawin niya lahat.”
He is a very kind and down-to-earth boss to his subordinates but very strict when
it comes to work. He was a role model for me. When my child was confined at a
hospital, I thought of Sir Noel for help. I texted him and he replied immediately
and asked me how much do I need? But I did not go to his office because I was
shy. But then I learned that he waited for me to come to his office. The next day,
as early as 5 a.m. he called me up and said that he could hardly sleep that night
because he was thinking about the medicines that I will need for my child. Then
he said, wait for my driver, he will bring the money to you.
Sir Noel, I salute you for having a generous heart. You have touched even the
ordinary employee like me. I am very proud of you because I had a very kind
boss like you and I know I will not find another boss like you.
Thank you very much for everything, Sir Noel.
Mr. Federico E. Tagailo, Deputy Security Officer
My relationship with Sir Noel goes back to fifteen years, ten years with Sunrise
Security and five years with the University. Sir Noel has been my personal
boss and mentor. I have observed him to be a hardworking person and learned
much on the manner he handles people, always caring and like a father to all
his subordinates. He is very accommodating to people who seek his advice
and assistance in both personal and financial problems. He always remembers
birthdays, and sees to it to be with his people during such occasions, bringing
with him gifts. In special events, he goes out of his way to greet me and my
family, a kind gesture which I will never forget.

I owe my designation as Deputy Security Officer of PWU to Sir Noel. He has
nurtured and trained me for the position, something that not all bosses would
do to a then lowly employee of Sunrise. My loyalty to him will live forever.
To you, Sir Noel, I will never forget the words you once said to me, “Kapag
tayo ay magtulong-tulong, ay malayo ang ating mararating.”
To our beloved Sir Noel, our HERO….

From the UNICORP Family (Ms. Cynthia Zamora, Ms.
Estrella Galia, Ms. Evelyn Rodica & Ms. Maricel Seva)
It took a couple of days for us to write our message for Sir Noel……. We all
know that He is one of those people who’s so sincere in all the things he did.
The most memorable thing

that we could remember
about Sir Noel was when
we attended the 2nd Global
Congress of PWU-PWC in
Davao. During our picture
taking with our President
Dr. Reyes, she said “ Oh
tawagin niyo si Sir Noel ang
inyong HERO”, the three
of us: Chay, Evy and I were
so amazed upon hearing that
phrase from our beloved President.
He’s our HERO, at UNICORP…. Why?….Because Sir Noel spent time with
us hearing our requests, to upgrade the UNICORP facilities, he recognized
what we have done at the Outreach and most especially believing in what we
are doing to contribute whatever we could do to help the different schools in
passing the IQUAME, PACUCOA and PAASCU accreditation.
Hindi po kayo napagod at nagsawang makinig at iapprove ang aming mga

request. You spent time with us to hear our sentiments for that time, we
felt that nobody recognized us. Naaalala lang ang UNICORP kapag may
accreditation. We invited sir Noel to the UNICORP Dormitory at Dasmariñas

and with his busy schedules, he still gave his time to visit UNICORP and
even plan with us on how to renovate the dormitory….That on February 14,
2003, we will never forget for he was our valentine date…(sabi pa namen….
nakszzz, Sir Valentine’s Day ngayon kami ang iyong ka-date..) and he replied
“di bale mamayang gabi special din ka-date ko si mam Suzie ninyo”. Akalain
nyo yun!!!! Sa Max’s Restaurant pa kami nagmeeting at ang pinaka di
makakalimutan sa kanya ay ang pagbati niya sa aming mga kaarawan kahit sa
pamamagitan ng text message na di namen inaasahan na ang isang tulad mo
Sir Noel ay bigyan kami ng kagyat na pagbati at pansin…
Then, the renovation happened with the construction of additional quarters

for males. After the renovation, we then again invited him for the blessing of
the UNICORP building but he said that he may not able to come since he
has an early commitment, but exactly 12:00 noon, he arrived and we all had a
simple lunch together eating fried tilapia, pakbet, pancit and etc…
Yes…. He is a simple man…a man with a BIG BIG BIG HEART…..
To you Sir Noel, we will never forget you!! You are our HERO….
From Ms. Vee M.Andrada, Office of the Vice President,

Development and International Affairs
Sir Noel is one among the few people that will be missed by almost everyone
in the PWU Community.
A handsome and a soft spoken Boss, down-to-earth, easy to approach and a

shoulder-to-lean-on guy (especially in times of crisis). He is one person who
listens to what you want to say, and never seems to get angry or cranky no
matter how difficult life at PWU. He is generous with his smiles. When you
smile and greet him he greets and smiles back at you ... yan si Sir Noel!
I remember during his Tagaytay time, he was not yet with PWU then, I always
approached Sir. Noel regarding rents of their LBB Bldg at Tagaytay and
their houses at KM 61 which were used for seminars. I bargained with him
regarding the rents and often received discounts. Talking with Sir Noel doesn’t
make you feel intimidated, he makes you feel at ease. Conversing with him is
so easy and he listens to what you want to say.

Sayang! He left us too soon. We know God has his reasons for doing this. Our
very own Sir Noel – the boy-next-door image and handsome boss at PWU! We
will miss you deeply. Your memory will remain alive in our hearts.
Till we all meet again!
Noel B. Benitez
From Mira-Nila Staff
From boyhood, Noel showed remarkable simplicity. His first business venture
was into piggery at the Mira-Nila backyard. He shared time and jokes with
workers and showed his joy at being with them.
Even the PWU helpers/ guards during his high school days at De la Salle had
their share of his friendly traits that endeared him to all of us.
Noel’s stint at SM Makati at his buko stand and his vegetable contract-growing
in Tagaytay molded him into the good provider that he was. The value of hard
work was his shield at getting his simple needs met.
Noel was never known to have pretended what he was not. He kept his dreams
and his goals to himself – he got there!
From Bing Deloria, Larry Villafranca, June Del Prado

Miranila Security Guards
In behalf of Miranila guards, we thank you for your trust, faith in us for your Tita
Helen’s security and being one of the best boss we had. Thank you so much.
From the PWU NSTP Faculty
Worth Remembering as a man of compassion to serve others, full of wisdom,

and humility.

Para kay SIR NOEL
by Fiel Nierva
ANG AKALA KO
Noong aking makilala si Sir Noel
Ang AKALA KO ang ice cream nya ay Haagen Das

Ay sus… sorbetes pala….
Ang AKALA KO pang himagas nya, ay blue berry cheese cake…

Sus.. turon pala.
Ang AKALA KO ang gara ng opis ni Sir Noel…

Ngek… luma, ang lamesa, tapos halos mauntog ka sa baba ng kisame.
Ang AKALA KO sa Sala Thai lang sya kumakain ng lunch…. Nakita ko sya isang
araw sa lumang canteen pa ng PWU kumakain.
Ang AKALA KO sa gandang lalake ni Sir Noel….ma chicks…

Napag alaman ko dalawa nga ang chicks nya… si Suzie at si Marielle
Ang AKALA KO… sa sobrang busy ni Sir Noel….

Wala na syang panahon sa mga anak nya..
Pero kung may game si Marielle or si Marc lagi nyang nai kwekwento sa akin…
Pag may sayaw si Marielle sa Bayanihan lagi syang andun.
Ang AKALA KO pag nag text ako sa kanya hindi nya sasagutin…alam ko naman
na busy sya. . Pero kahit late na, mag tetext sa akin si Sir Noel… kahit mga birong
text sasagutin nya..
Ang AKALA KO… puro lang din dasal si Sir Noel,

Pinag dadasal pala nya, na sana tama ang mga ginagawa nya.
At basbasan ng Dyos ang mga gawa nya. Puro pala gawa na may dasal…
AKALA KO, pag masiwal at aktibo ang isang tao,

mahaba ang buhay nya… Yun ang AKALA ko….
Ang AKALA KO noong July 16, sasagot sya sa tawag ko, sasagot sya sa text
ko…Kaso … wala ….laging “cannot be reached”
Noong pumunta kami sa Heritage at nagtanong sa guard kung may Noel Benitez,
Ang AKALA KO sasabihin nya “walang Noel Benitez dito, baka nagkakamali kayo?”.
Ang AKALA KO may first Friday mass lang sa C.B. Hall

Yun pala para kay Sir Noel yun.

Ang AKALA KO makikita ko pa ulit sa Sir Noel sa may gate hawak ang phone nya
at may kausap..Yun pala wala na talaga sya….
Kaya noong Araw ng libing nya, sa huling pagkakataon, nag text ako sa kanya….
AKALA KO hindi na mag aapear ang pangalan nya sa cell ko.
Pero may nag text… SIR NOEL .. ang lumabas…
AKALA KO matatakot ako… Pero hindi… agad kong binasa ….

Sinagot ng kanyang anak…. Nagpapasalamat…..
AKALA KO wala na talaga si SIR NOEL…. Hindi pala, buhay sya sa mga
anak nya, kay Ma’am Suzie at sa mga puso ng mga taong
mapalad na nakilala si SIR NOEL.
We’ll Be Missing a Special Person

by Ms. Lorna Alvarez Salutal & Staff of Multimedia
Publications & University Publishing House
We were so touched when we learned that Sir Noel Benitez went with God
that day, July 15, 2008. The humble person we knew, disciplinarian, strict yet
fair. Sensitive, sincere and honest, listening to negative opinions to become
better.
A man of action, but we are sure that his real joy is to be alone and being at
home with loved ones. And letting go of Sir Noel, only God knows the reason.
Expressed in reality, that all of us who knew him must reflect “why”.
We pray to the Lord, to take care of him and to shower him with divine love.
To his family, Ma’am Suzie, Marco, Marielle and Tonton, we pray for God’s
loving embrace to protect them. May the good Lord give them strength and
courage to go on with life.
From Dr. Zenaida G. Sadiwa
I will always remember VP Noel B. Benitez, as a man of few words. He was

very generous, and acknowledged people with respect and sincerity.

From Dr. Leonora N. Panlasigui, Dean, School of Nutrition
The short time I have known Mr. Noel Benitez he struck me as a humble and
compassionate person. This is very humbling especially I know that he belongs
to a wealthy and well known family. The very first experience I had was when
I was very new as Dean of School of Nutrition, I made an appointment to see
him. He said you don’t have to make an appointment just come to my office.
When you discuss matters pertaining to the school, you get a better grasp of the
issues and you get a better understanding of the situation.
Memento in Memoriam VP Noel B. Benitez

by Ms. Evelyn Pantig
I started my stint with the Philippine Women’s University as Dean of its

newly-launched School of Tourism on July 1st, 2006. Thus, on the day that
VP Noel passed away, I just completed my two years at the University and am
commencing my third year. Within this relatively short period, I must have met
him a number of times that could easily be counted among my ten fingers.
Nonetheless, these few times were instances that I will always look back to
with fond memories of him. Not much was said, if ever there were words
spoken, but each encounter was occasioned by warm, friendly smiles that
made me feel welcome at PWU and, perhaps I should add, much more than
anybody else did. I am certain everyone else is missing the reassuring presence
of such a compassionate person.
The Low-profile....Sir Noel

by Reiner E. Suva
My weekdays will never be complete without a note from Sir Noel. Meticulous
and perfectionist as VP Noel was, he will prompt me to check the designs of
ad materials e.g., signage’s, brochures, banners as well as streamer for tarp
printing. His note will usually end with the phrase.... “Please review designs,
make sure it conform to our standards.”
I knew Sir Noel as a very private person, who would rather stay away from the
limelight to have a private conversation with a select friend or two.
He is a very passionate man who will usually open up a discussion with a very
firm grip in my arm, as a manifestation of his inherent sincerity.

His electrifying gesture will surely make everybody feel comfortable. I felt it
last July 14 when I received a call from info to see him at Nakpil gate. With a
firm grip in my arm, he said.... “Reiner, tingnan mo nga kung ano magagawa
dito sa painting na ito....” We were supposed to meet again the following day.
It was around half past 6 the following morning at the parking lot when I was
aghast to receive the message of Sir Noel’s untimely demise.
How will I ever forget the very simple respected man who has been a mentor,
a friend and a father rolled into one?
Sympathizes with the family of our beloved

VP Noel B. Benitez, from School of Nursing
Sir Noel will always be remembered as a man of action. The concerns and issues
that were brought to his attention were immediately acted upon and always
with positive results. He was always accommodating, jearal and exuded an
aura of conpetence. Perhaps, his kindness and openness attracted too many
problems that could have been a burden. Yet it was never reflected in his spirit.
He remained calm and steadfast, a consoling and refreshing figure during times
of crisis. He was always generous with his praises, always appreciative of one’s
good deeds, though never judgmental nor vindictive. The academe will surely
miss his strong and towering presence. He will always a father or a brother to
most, a friend to all and a guiding spirit in good and bad times.
Testimony For Sir Noel Benitez

from School of Fine Arts and Design Faculty and Staff
We are most grateful for being able to contribute to Sir Noel’s unrelenting effort
of providing a comfortable space for different departments. Mr. Reiner Suva
usually asks us to help Sir Noel by providing floor plans for the HE department
of JASMS and other areas in the campus. We at SFAD gave all our support as a
way of helping Sir Noel in his endeavor of beautifying the campus. We will never
forget the smile he gives everyone as his way of acknowledging our support
for all his work. We always pray for the repose of his soul and, with the Lord’s
mercy, Sir Noel has accomplished his mission here on earth.

From Carol Zamora
When Mr. Noel was appointed VP for Administration, he sent me an email

asking me if I would like to work with him. At that time, I was already leaving
for the US so I didn’t get a chance to work with him directly. But we both
served in the PWU Chapel Committee where I was appointed coordinator.
He was always present during our luncheon meetings. More often than not,
he pays for those luncheon meetings.
He’s full of life during those meetings. He was himself—jolly, friendly and
approachable. He offers food to everyone on the table. After the meeting,
he will take with him whatever food is left to take to his staff.
I also got to know Mr. Noel better because of Ms. Suzie. I worked as Sr.
Special Asst. at Special Events where Ms. Suzie was the Director. A lot
of times he will pass by our office and look for Mrs. Suzie. I remember an
incident when Mrs. Suzie was not in the office and Mr. Noel dropped in. He
ended up talking to me.
He sat on the chair in front of my table and asked me about my family. We had
a long chat about our respective families. He enjoyed talking about his family
He told me that by the time Ms. Suzie wakes up, he has already walked around
the block in their neighborhood. He shared how proud he was of his children
and their accomplishments: how Marco excels in his class, how Mariel is
doing well in her soccer games (he even teased that he is very careful around
Mariel because she kicks real hard), how Tonton is good in fencing. Then he
added that his children inherited all these good qualities from him. I asked
him what his children got from Ms. Suzie. And he jokingly said they got very
little from her. Then he stood up and teased me that he will tell my boss that
I wasn’t really doing my work —that I just chatted with him. He laughed,
thanked and bid me goodbye and left the room.
One other time, he came to the office at lunchtime and he saw me doing my
cross stitch. He asked me what I was doing. I thought he was reprimanding
me so I told him that it was my lunch break already. He said he knew and
that he was just interested to know what I was doing and why I was not taking
a nap or rest instead. I told him that cross stitching is my rest time. That it
relaxes me. He shrugged his shoulder and said that a better design would be
running horses at sunrise (because my design was 3 horses in a barn) then he
walked away and we both laughed.


If you know Mr. Noel, you know that he is really a “down-to-earth” person.
I never imagined he would talk about his family to an ordinary person like
me. He even told me funny stories about him and Mrs. Suzie. What is best
about him was that he was a friend
and like a brother to me. He gave
me advices about my family and he
even offered his help.

Another good trait is that he
remembers the names of even
the littlest people. Whenever he
goes around PWU, , he will be
the first one to greet the non-
teaching employees and even the
maintenance staff. He would smile and say a compliment like “good job, this
area is so clean”. He always compliments you for even the smallest thing you
have done.
I am saddened by his untimely demise. He is a big loss to everyone.

Nakakalungkot, wala na siya, malaking kawalan sa lahat. But i know that he is
happy in the company of the Lord. That is where he is now. Goodbye Sir, I
will miss you.
From Raul Santos
I’ve been the piano teacher of the three kids of Mr. Noel B. Benitez and Mrs.
Suzie Benitez namely Marco, Marielle, and Tonton in the early 90s. Mr. Noel
Benitez is not just a boss, a friend, a mentor, but also a father to me. Sir Noel
which I always called him is always giving me advice, reminders and with all those
experiences I become a much better person as I am today. I will always remember
Sir Noel’s smiles when sharing jokes in their house. Sir Noel is happy to be with;
he is an open minded person and always listens if you have a problems and he
often gives good advice to me. Sir Noel is a person who always remembers and
cares for his fellowmen and all those happy moments we shared also with sir Noel
and his family is treasure for me that will be in my heart and in my mind. I am
surely missing Sir Noel. We know that Sir Noel is in God’s grace now, I would say
thank you Sir Noel for the precious times that we shared together in this world. I
will always support your family and kids as well as our institution.

From Rachell Fernandez, 1st Year BS Food Tech student
(Scholar and friend of VP Noel Benitez)
I still remember the day I stepped into your office. I thought talking to you
would make me faint. Knowing our differences in our status in life, I couldn’t
imagine how I would deal with it. But my impressions were wrong. Because
talking to you was like talking to a father. I was amused when you still knew
my nickname. Even though you are a superior you manage to keep your line in
mine. We had a simple short conversation. It was warm approach that touches
me.
I regret the day I saw you from afar. I wished I’d come to you just to say hi.
Because that day would be the last day I’ll see you. Until now it makes me cry
remembering those things. I was hurt when I found out that you’re gone already.
Sir Noel, I’m really thankful to God that I’ve met you. You are really kind and
down to earth person. It’s really an opportunity to be your scholar. Thank you
for the trust you’ve given me. I’m quite annoyed at myself because you haven’t
seen yet the outcome of me being a Food Technology student. It’s hard and
I’m ashamed to give you a failing grade. But don’t you worry because I will
give my best in studying.
I know you are happy and comfortable wherever you are. I know you hear me
whenever I talk to you. Hope you’ll guide me in pursuing the career I’ve chosen.
Keep my mind to study much harder.You may not see it anymore, but I hope
someday I could also share the outcome of your blessings just like what you’ve
given me and my brother. We may not be that close enough and it may be too late
but I want you to know you’ve become special to me and one of my inspirations.
I hope I’ll make you proud someday. And whenever that day comes I’ll look back
and reminisce the day you lighten me up. Thanks a lot, Sir. God bless you.
From Joe Seguerra, in Montreal
Dear Suzie,
Our sincerest sympathy and prayers.
Parang walang kapaguran, si NBB, sobrang masipag for a Boss. But one trade-
mark I will always remember him is for his ready smile and a steady handshake
everytime, anywhere we met.

Tribute to Noel Benitez
by Mr. Arsenio J. Vistro, PWU Financial Consultant
“NOEL” is an International expression of “Happy Greetings during

Christmas”. Whether in the Philippines, USA, or Europe, in fact almost
everywhere “NOEL” is a “Happy Greeting” during the month of December.
But on July 15th this year, the sound “NOEL” caused tears flowing from the
eyes of family members, relatives and friends of our dear friend “Noel” B.
Benitez – Noel was suddenly “called by our Lord”.
Noel B. Benitez is a member of the Benitez Family, owners of The Philippine

Women’s University (PWU). He is a nephew of the former PWU President
and former Senator, Dra. Helena Z. Benitez, and brother of PWU President,
Dra. Amelou Benitez Reyes, PhD. At the time of his death, Noel was PWU’s
Vice-President for International Operations and Campus Development.
Noel’s staff in The PWU confirmed the personal impression that I have about
him. He is very “systematic” in his work, frugal (matipid) always advising his
Office Staff to “shut-off” air conditioners and other electrical appliances when
NOT being used. And while he is sometimes out of his office, he advises his
staff to send to his house all pending matters that require his decision / action.
A really “industrious”, “systematic” and “work devoted” Executive.
There are also a lot of other outstanding traits for which Noel is well known.
Let me cite just one (1) personal experience that I encountered with him.
There was a personal favor that I wanted to request from him, but at the time
I went to his Office, he was not “In”. When he learned from his Secretary that
I wanted to see him for a personal favor, he tried to contact me in The PWU
where I was doing some assignment then; but I was not in The PWU at the
time. He then asked his Secretary to try and contact me anywhere. When I
learned of these unusual efforts of Noel to contact me I was so embarrassed
– instead of me to contact him, he was taking efforts to contact me!! So, quite
embarrass I gave my celfone number to his Secretary for transmittal to Noel.
But on the next day I learned that our good friend “NOEL” met his Creator.
How do you express a feeling of SINCERE SADNESS for a devoted

Executive and a Very Good Friend??

by Mark Joel B. Bernal, Student Assistant/Scholar (BSHRM)
We spoke the day before Mr. Noel Benitez died; we talked about my studies and
my status in the school (PWU). I’ve learned many things about him, he always
reminds me that I must finish my studies, be a good follower and strive harder
to finish my goals in life. He also shows to me how to be a good example to my
brother and sisters. He is hardworking, kind and I admire most of all his profes-
sionalism. That day I don’t have enough time to express my gratitude to him but
I will never forget that he is a wonderful and kind man to other people. He is
and will be my inspiration for my studies and to overcome any obstacles because
Mr. Noel Benitez’s principles are my guide to have a successful life.
On Noel Benitez
by Atty. Herminio A. Liwanag
Noel has always a sparkle in his eyes.

He is focused, determined but always amiable.
I recall my first meeting with Sir Noel. I was designated as legal counsel of the
management panel to assist in the negotiation for a new collective bargaining
agreement with the maintenance Union. Sir Noel, came well prepared for the
CBA negotiation having read the Union proposals and with his own set of counter
proposals. In the negotiating table however, it was evident that he has no patience
for long winding discussions, which unfortunately, is very common in CBA
negotiations. Thus, he eventually decided to send his alternate to attend the next
negotiations. His absence proved to be a great loss to the management panel.
Our second encounter was during the investigations conducted in view of
serious charges against senior administrators of the Quezon City campus.
Again, he was meticulous, assisting in the study of documents to be presented
and ever inquiring on the sufficiency of the evidence but never exerting any
pressure or influence on the investigating panel.
Of course, we all know that he became in charge of the University physical

plant and again he showed not only dedication but his ability to use old hard
wood making every piece a work of art.
We surely will miss him but more importantly, a great loss to the University.

In Memory of VP Noel Benitez
by Dr. Nini F. Lim, Dean, School of Medical Technology
We will always remember VP NOEL BENITEZ whom we fondly call VP Noel,

for the untiring support he extended to the School of Medical Technology
especially to the faculty and students of Medical Technology degree programs
and its projects. He was kind, generous and understanding of the problems we
encountered in the planning and implementation of the different activities. He
was a “hands-on” administrator by seeing to it himself that necessary changes
were instituted as planned and the people concerned were satisfied and happy
with the changes. He loved PWU so much. His passion to make PWU great
is strongly evident in his all-out support for new programs and projects by
personally helping us find ways by which these could materialize. On one
occasion, we saw how happy he was when news was released that PWU has
been granted “AUTONOMOUS” status by CHED. We knew then that for all
of us this will be the beginning of an exciting milestone for PWU.
How VP Noel touched our lives will always be an inspiration to all of us in the
School of Medical Technology. We pray for the eternal repose of his soul.
From Donna Casas Robles
“Ma”am, wala na po si Sir Noel” these were the words I heard one morning as
I entered our University.
I brought myself to the Chapel – as I do everyday – but this time, I felt so

numb that I couldn’t think of anything at all.
That was a very, very sad silent day as felt by the entire PWU community.
For someone who has touched my life so deeply, you deserve nothing but my
sincerest gratitude. Sir Noel, Thank you very much.
“Thank you very much for the fatherly words, for taking time to listen.”
It may have saddened the University with your leaving, but the good memories
you have left us will always be treasured.
You will be missed, Sir Noel……

A Memory from my Heart…
Edith Andro, Career & Placement Officer
Personally, I can never forget someone like Sir Noel Benitez.

“He is one in a million” that I’ve known.
I’ve shared every ups and downs of my life and he guided me to conquer it
all. Every one knows that “He is the man” because of his undying care and
kindness for everyone. And he showed me the true meaning of life, showed
me how to handle everything and gives me strength to pass all the stones that
might came thru.
Of all the man that I’ve known he is the only man, friend, father that gave me
knowledge to be a stronger person in my own way.
Sir Noel Benitez, you’re memories will be staying here in life and heart
forever…
From Lynn Cadorniga
I had the challenging task of assembling all the testimonies for Sir Noel, who
was much admired and deeply loved. I read them all with some heaviness of
heart and a deep regret that he is no longer with us, because we all know that
he could’ve done so much for the University.
Sir Noel was to me a silent but strong presence in the University. Whenever I
encountered him we would just exchange pleasantries but now at his passing
those moments are cherished because he is no more. He was friendly/fatherly
in his rapport with us girls at the Office of the President; you know his smile
and greeting was from the heart.
He was a person who embodied the ideal qualities of a husband, father,

community leader, friend, boss and colleague. He was many things to
many people. He really showed his true quality and I feel blessed to have
encountered such a person in my life.
Though he is sorely missed, we know his life’s work and personal example
shines through and will endure.

INTRODUCTORY RITES & GREETING:
Commentator : Good morning, brothers and sisters in Christ. Today, the Philippine Women’s
University and its Affiliate Schools for Men and Women offer this Eucharistic
celebration for the eternal repose of the soul of our dear colleague VP for Institutional
Operations, Campus Development and Resource Generation, Mr. Noel Benitez.
Let us all rise to welcome our main celebrant, Rev. Fr. Artemio Fabros, University
Chaplain; Rev. Fr. Antonio Lazaro, Jr., PWU JASMS Quezon City Chaplain; Rev.
Fr. Paul Marquez of the Society of St. Paul as homilist; Rev. Msgr. Jose Clemente F.
Ignacio, Rector/Pastor of the Minor Basilica of the Black Nazarene/ St. John the Baptist;
Rev. Fr. Ramon Merino and Rev. Fr. Rolando Garcia Jr. of San Carlos Seminary as
concelebrants. Let us join the PWU Chorale in singing the Entrance Song.
ENTRANCE SONG: CANTICORUM JUBILATE
Celebrant : In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
All : Amen.
Celebrant : The grace and peace of God, who raised Jesus from the dead,
be always with you.
All : And also with you.
PENITENTIAL RITE
Celebrant : Gathered us together in offering this Holy Mass to reflect the Paschal Mystery
of Jesus. Today, in one voice, we offer our dear NOEL to God for his eternal
repose. Unworthy as we are, let us ask God’s mercy and forgiveness, to make
this Eucharistic celebration worthy.
All : I confess to Almighty God, and to you, my brothers and sisters, that I have sinned
through my own fault in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done, and
in what I have failed to do; and I ask blessed Mary, every virgin, all the angels
and saints, and you, my brothers and sisters to pray for me to the Lord our God.
Celebrant : May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to
everlasting life.

KYRIE
Celebrant : Lord Jesus, you raise the dead to life in the Spirit: Lord, have mercy.
All : Lord, have mercy.
Celebrant : Lord Jesus, you bring pardon and peace to the sinner: Christ, have mercy.
All : Christ, have mercy.
Celebrant : Lord Jesus, you bring light to those in darkness: Lord, have mercy.
All : Lord, have mercy.
Celebrant : May Almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to
everlasting life.
All : Amen.
OPENING PRAYER
Celebrant : Let us pray. Almighty God, our Father, it is our certain faith that your Son, who
died on the cross was raised from the dead, the firstfruits of all who have fallen
asleep. Grant that through this mystery your servant NOEL who has gone to his
rest in Christ, may share in the joy of his resurrection. We ask this through our
Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
All : Amen.
LITURGY OF THE WORD
First Reading: Revelation 21:1-5a, 6b-7
Areading from the Book of Revelation:

I, John, saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former
heaven and the former earth had passed away, and the sea
was no more. I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem,
coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride
adorned for her husband. I heard a loud voice from the
throne saying, “Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human
race. He will dwell with them and they will be his people
and God himself will always be with them as their God. He
will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no
more death or mourning, wailing or pain, for the old order
has passed away.”
The One who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all
things new. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning
and the end. To the thirsty I will give a gift from the spring of
life-giving water. The victor will inherit these gifts, and I shall
be his God, and he will be my son.”
The Word of the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God

RESPONSORIAL PSALM: Psalm 23:1-3, 4, 5, 6
Response : Though I walk in the valley of darkness, I fear no evil, for you are with me.
The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want. In green pastures he gives me
repose;Beside restful waters he leads me; he refreshes my soul. Response
He guides me in the right path for his name’s sake.Even when I walk in the dark valley,
I fear no evil; for you are at my side;With your rod and your staff that give me courage.
Response
You spread the table before me in the sight of my foes;You anoint my head with oil; my
cup overflows. Response
Only goodness and kindness follow me all the days of my life;And I shall dwell in the
house of the Lord for years to come. Response
Second Reading: Rom 3-4.8
Are you unaware that we who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?
We were indeed buried with him through baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised
from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might live in newness of life. If, then, we have
died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with him. We know that Christ, raised from
the dead, dies no more; death no longer has power over him.
The Word of the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God
Alleluia (sung)
Commentator : If we die with Christ we shall live with him, and if we are faithful to the end,
we shall reign with him.
Gospel Reading: John 11-17-27
Celebrant : The Lord be with you.

Celebrant : A reading from the Holy Gospel according to John.

All : Glory to you, O Lord.
Celebrant : When Jesus arrived in Bethany, he found Lazarus had already been in the tomb
for four days. Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, only about two miles away.
Many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them about their
brother. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went to meet him;
but Mary sat at home. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my
brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever you ask of
God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise.” Martha said
to him, “I know he will rise, in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus told her,
“I am the resurrection and the life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will
live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe
this? She said to him, “Yes, Lord. I have come to believe that you are the Christ,
the Son of God, the one who is coming into the world.”

The Gospel of the Lord
All : Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ.
Homily REV. FR. PAUL MARQUEZ, SSP
GENERAL INTERCESSION
Celebrant : My dear friends, let us join with one another in praying to God, not only for
our departed brother NOEL but also for the Church, for peace in the world,
and for ourselves. That the bishops and priests of the Church, and all who
preach the Gospel, may be given the strength to express in action the word
they proclaim. We pray to the Lord as we say: Lord, hear our prayer.
Leader : In baptism, NOEL received the light of Christ. Scatter the darkness now and lead
him over the waters of death. In your mercy, Lord, hear our prayer.
All : Lord, hear our prayer.
Leader : Our brother NOEL was nourished at the table of the Savior. Welcome him into
the halls of the heavenly banquet. We ask you, Lord:.
Leader : Many friends and members of our families, in particular Mama B and Daddy B
and other members of their families have gone before us and await the kingdom.
Grant them an everlasting home with your Son. We ask you, Lord:
Leader : Many people die by violence, war, and famine each day. Show your mercy to
those who suffer so unjustly these sins against your love, and gather them to the
eternal kingdom of peace. We ask you, Lord:
Leader : The family and friends of NOEL seek comfort and consolation. Heal their pain
and dispel the darkness and doubt that come from grief. We ask you, Lord:
Leader : That God may call him to happiness in the company of all the saints, we pray
Leader : That God may welcome into his glory those of our family and friends, who have
departed this life, we pray.
Celebrant : Lord God, giver of peace and healer of souls, hear the prayers of the Redeemer,
Jesus Christ, and the voices of your people, whose lives were purchased by the
blood of the Lamb. Forgive the sins of all who sleep in Christ and grant them a
place in the kingdom. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All : Amen.

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
OFFERTORY SONG: LOVE IS THE ANSWER
Preparation of the Gifts:

Celebrant : Blessed are you, Lord, God of all creation. Through your goodness we have
this bread to offer, which earth has given and human hands have made. It will
become for us the bread of life.
All : Blessed be God forever.
Celebrant : By the mystery of this water and wine may we come to share in the divinity of
Christ, who humbled himself to share in our humanity.Blessed are you, Lord,
God of all creation. Through your goodness we have this wine to offer, fruit of
the vine and work of human hands. It will become our spiritual drink.
All : Blessed be God forever.
Celebrant : Lord God, we ask you to receive us and be pleased with the sacrifice we offer
you with humble and contrite hearts. Lord, wash away my iniquity; cleanse me
from my sin.Pray, brethren, that our sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the
almighty Father.
All : May the Lord accept the sacrifice at your hands for the praise and glory of his
name, for our good, and the good of all his Church.
Prayer Over the Gifts:

Celebrant : Lord, receive the gifts we offer for the salvation of NOEL. May Christ be
merciful in judging our brother NOEL for he believed in Christ as his Lord and
Savior. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All : Amen.
PREFACE

Celebrant : Lift up your hearts.

All : We lift them up to the Lord.
Celebrant : Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
All : It is right to give Him thanks and praise.
Celebrant : Father, all-powerful and every-lasting God, we do well always and everywhere
to give you thanks through Jesus Christ our Lord.
In him, who rose from the dead, our hope of resurrection dawned. The sadness
of death gives way to the bright promise of immortality.

Lord, for your faithful people life is changed. not ended. When the body of our
earthly dwelling lies in death we gain an everlasting dwelling place in heaven.

And so, with all the choirs of angels in heaven we proclaim your glory and join
in their unending hymn of praise.
SANCTUS: SANTO, SANTO, SANTO (sung)
EUCHARISTIC PRAYER
Celebrant : Lord, you are holy indeed, the fountain of all holiness.
Let your Spirit come upon these gifts to make them holy, so that they may
become for us the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Before he was given up to death, a death he
freely accepted, he took bread and gave you
thanks.
He broke the bread, gave it to his disciples,
and said: TAKE THIS, ALL OF YOU, AND
EAT IT: THIS IS MY BODY WHICH WILL BE
GIVEN UP FOR YOU.
When supper was ended, he took the cup.
Again he gave you thanks and praise, gave
the cup to this disciples, and said: TAKE
THIS, ALL OF YOU, AND DRINK FROM
IT: THIS IS THE CUP OF MY BLOOD, THE
BLOOD OF THE NEW AND EVERLASTING
COVENANT. IT WILLBE SHED FOR YOU
AND FOR ALL SO THAT SINS MAY BE
FORGIVEN. DO THIS IN MEMORY OF ME.
Celebrant : Let us proclaim the mystery of faith.
MEMORIALACCLAMATION: Si Kristo ay namatay … (sung)
Celebrant : In memory of his death and resurrection, we offer you, Father, this life-giving
bread, this saving cup.

We thank you for counting us worthy to stand in your
presence and serve you. May all of us who share in the body
and blood of Christ be brought together in unity by the Holy
Spirit.
Lord, remember your Church throughout the world; Make us

grow in love, together with Benedict XVI, our Pope, Gaudencio,
our bishop, and all the clergy.
Remember NOEL whom you have called from this life. In baptism he died with
Christ: may he also share his resurrection. Remember our brothers and sisters
who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising again; bring them and all the
departed into the light of your presence.
Have mercy on us all; make us worthy to share eternal life with Mary, the virgin
mother of God, with the apostles, and with all the saints who have done your
will throughout the ages.
May we praise you in union with them, and give you glory through your Son,
Jesus Christ.

Through him, with him, in him, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is
yours, almighty Father, forever and ever.
All : Amen. (sung)
COMMUNION RITE
THE LORD’S PRAYER
Celebrant : With longing for the coming of God’s kingdom, let us pray:
AMA NAMIN (sung)

Celebrant : Deliver us Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day. In your mercy, keep
us free from sin and protect us from all anxiety as we awaits in joyful hope for the
coming of Our Savior Jesus Christ.
All : (with hands raised) For the kingdom, the power and the glory are yours, now and
forever. Amen.
SIGN OF PEACE
Celebrant : Lord Jesus Christ, you said to your apostles: I leave you peace, my peace I give you.
Look not on our sins but on the faith of your Church, and grant us peace and unity of
your kingdom where you live for ever and ever.
All : Amen.
Celebrant : The peace of the Lord be with you always.

Celebrant : Let us offer each other the sign of peace.
BREAKING OF THE BREAD
LAMB OF GOD: KORDERO NG DIYOS … (sung)

Celebrant : May this mingling of the body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ bring eternal life to
us who receive it. Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in your love and mercy I eat your body
and drink your blood. Let it not bring me condemnation, but health in mind and body.
COMMUNION
Celebrant : This is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world.
Happy are those who are called to his supper.
All : Lord I am not worthy to receive you but only say the word and I shall be healed.
Celebrant : May the body and blood of Christ bring me to everlasting life.
COMMUNION ANTIPHON
Celebrant : Lord, may I receive these gifts in purity of heart. May they bring me healing and
strength, now and for ever.
COMMUNION SONG: HOW GREAT THOU ART
PRAYER AFTER COMMUNION

Celebrant : Lord God, your Son Jesus Christ gave us the sacrament of his body and blood to
guide us on our pilgrim way to your kingdom. May our brother, NOEL who shared
in the Eucharist, come to the banquet of life Christ has prepared for us. We ask this
through Christ our Lord.
All : Amen.

Commentator : We shall now have the Necrological Service with Mrs. Olivia M. Villafuerte, Director,
Alumni Relations, Presiding
NECROLOGICAL SPEAKERS
Atty. Theuntheth Javier Assistant Vice President, Corporate and Legal Affairs
SM Investment Corporation
Ms. Ma. Loreto Lopez Director for Development & Logistical Statistics
Philippine Women’s College of Davao
Naomi Isabelle Saguil JASMS Manila Grade IV Student
Dr. Dolores Baja Lasán PWU Chancellor, on behalf of the University
Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes University President, on behalf of the Family
Mr. Marco M. Benitez Response
Intermission Song: AMAZING GRACE
CONCLUDING RITES
FINAL COMMENDATION AND FAREWELL

Celebrant : Let us continue praying for our brother NOEL. May our last farewell express our
affection for him; may it ease our sadness and strengthen our hope. One day we
shall joyfully greet him again when the love of Christ, which conquers all things,
destroys even death itself.
SONGS OF FAREWELL
(Priests bless the urn with holy water, followed by the members of the family, relatives and friends)
SONG: NEARER TO THEE SOLEMN BLESSING AND DISMISSAL

Celebrant : May almighty God bless you, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
All : Amen.
Celebrant : Go in peace and hope for the resurrection of our brother NOEL.
All : Thanks be to God.
RECESSIONAL SONG: THE LORD BLESS YOU

V. Do not remember my sins, O Lord
R. When you come to judge the world by fire.
V. Direct my way in your sight, O Lord My God.

V. Give Noel eternal rest, O Lord, and may your light shine on him forever.
V. Lord have mercy.

R. Christ, have mercy. Lord have mercy.
Our Father…
V. And lead us not into temptation.

R. But deliver us from evil.
V. From the gates of Hell.
R. Deliver Noel’s soul, O Lord.
V. May he rest in peace.
R. Amen.
V. Lord, hear my prayer.

R. And let my cry come to you.
V. The Lord be with you.

R. And also with you.
Let us pray.
Lord, welcome into your presence your son Noel whom you have called from this
life. Release him from all his sins, bless him with eternal light and peace, raise him
up to live forever with all your saints in the glory of the resurrection. We ask this
through Jesus Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
V. Give Noel eternal rest, O Lord.

R. And may our light shine on him forever.
V. May he rest in peace.

R. Amen.
V. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God
rest in peace.
R. Amen.

Prayer of the Faithful Novena Prayer for Noel Benitez
Leader: Dear friends, we are gathered to pray to To you, O Lord of Life and Death. We humbly,
God for our deceased brother, Noel. Let us not commend Noel. In this earthly life, you loved him
forget to pray also for the church, for peace in the with great love. Now that You have called him
world, and for ourselves, and let us say to him; back, we are confident that he is fully alive and
Lord of mercy, hear our prayer. happy within Your sacred embrace.
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer
We pray for our beloved Noel. During his quiet
L: For our brother Noel, that God may set him free celebration of life, he was a source of great faith,
from all the darkness and punishment; let us pray devotion and strength. He was truly a holy man.
to the Lord. We love him dearly and will miss him greatly.
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer
We remember in prayer the members of his family,
L: That the merciful God may forgive his every sin; let who are most in sorrow at this time. Support them
us pray to the Lord. with your Holy Spirit and grant them the courage to
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer embrace the mystery of death as a part of the plan of
life.
L: That God may take him up forever into his own
light and peace; let us pray to the Lord. Gracious Lord, as we remember the passing away
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer of Noel, make us mindful of our death by being
grateful for our life each day, by living a good and
L: That God may be his Happiness in the company holy life and by loving and serving You our God,
of all the saints and give him the heavenly with all our heart and strength.
inheritance; let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer Leader: Lord of compassion, we lift up to Your
Divine Heart Noel.
L: For all our deceased relatives and friends and All: We ask that you grant him eternal peace in the
for those who were good to us in any way that perpetual company of Your Saints.
God may welcome them into the light of His
presence; let us pray to the Lord. L: May he rest in peace.
All: Lord of mercy, hear our prayer All: Amen
L: Lord our God, Creator and Redeemer of all L: And may his soul and souls of all the faithful
your holy people have mercy on our deceased departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
brother Noel. In his human weakness, your
forgiving kindness was always his strength. Hear All: Amen. Our Father….
our prayers and grant him Your unconditional
pardon. We ask You this through Christ Our Lord. (Sprinkling of holy water by priest and family
All: Amen. members)
L: Give Noel eternal rest, O Lord.

All: And may Your light shine on him forever.
L: May all the faithful departed rest in peace

All: Amen.
Remembering Noel: A PWU Tribute is published

by the Office of the Chancellor and Vice President for Academic Affairs,
Research and Publications of the Philippine Women’s University
Design and Layout: Lynn Cadorniga / Vivian Mangahas
Editorial: Ms. Rexi Cruz
With thanks for photos from Ms. Lorna Alvarez Salutal, the Multimedia Office;
and the personal collections of Ms. Suzie Moya-Benitez, Marton Benitez
and Dr. Amelou Benitez Reyes
When I am gone release me,
Let me go—
I have so many things to see and do.
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears.
Be happy that we had so many beautiful years.
I gave to you my love,
You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness.
Thank you for love that each has shown,
But now it’s time I traveled on alone,
So grieve for me a while if you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It’s only for a while that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on,
So if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near.
And if you listen with your heart,
You’ll hear all my love around you soft and clear.
And then, you must come this way alone,
I’ll greet you with a smile and say: “Welcome home!”
Photograph by Tino Ley
A PWU Tribute
This Memento is lovingly dedicated
to the Benitez Family
by the PWU Community

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Noel

Noel Baltazar Benitez

Vice President for Institutional Operations,

TO : THE PWU COMMUNITY

THRU : THE CHANCELLOR, VICE PRESIDENTS

FROM : THE UNIVERSITY PRESIDENT

DATE : JULY 15, 2008

SUBJECT : NECROLOGICAL MASS IN HONOR OF MR. NOEL B.

Mr.Noel Benitez served as PWU Vice-President for Institutional Operations, Campus

Let us pray for the eternal repose of his soul.

DR. DOLORES BAJA LASÁN

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How deep is amply shown in the listing

Born in Manila on December 25, he was aptly named Noel. He studied at

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He obtained a Master’s degree in Environmental Planning at the UP Institute

As a Regional Planner (October 1973 to July 1974), he served as Deputy

Noel then joined the private sector as an Entrepreneur from 1974 to

Managing Director (1990 – 1999), Southern Breeze RealtyDevelopment

President, Manila South Coast Development Corporation. A member

President, Benitez Investment, Inc. A family firm engaged in real estate

Chairman, Board of Directors, Unlad Rural Bank of Noveleta, Cavite

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Chairman, Asian Appraisal Company, Inc.

Managing Director, Chiron Development, Inc.

Managing Director/Treasurer, Sunrise Security Investigation & General

President, Sunbless Manpower Corp

President, Easy Payment Corporation

President, Fedman Owners Group

Chairman, Camps for Champs

His organizational affiliations included membership in the Philippine Institute

In the Academe, Noel Benitez was Vice-President, Institutional Operations

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A Tribute to My Role Model

When I was invited to speak this morning I had

However, because of my desire to show my deep gratitude, great admiration and

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I will remember the participation and performance of Mr. Benitez during

Message delivered on behalf of PWC of Davao

On behalf of Chairperson Rosa Santos Munda,

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Foremost in our remembrances is Noel’s passion for the development of

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Ms. Leonor Petra Elepaño,

Good morning, I am Petra from Bayanihan, I feel

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VP Noel was not just an official… he was a caring

Dr. Dolores B. Lasán, University Chancellor

I am truly humbled to speak on behalf of

Beloved family, Assistant Vice President

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I shall personally always remember VP Noel as a member of the University

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In unison from a prayerful PWU faith community, we implore: “Eternal rest

Lovingly Remembering Noel

On behalf of the University and the

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