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6 Cunnilingus Techniques to Make Your Woman Scream with Pleasure
One of the most rewarding aspects of sex is the pleasure you can give your partner. Do you know
that cunnilingus is the best sexual activity to make a female climax? More than 8o percent of
females regularly reach climax from oral sex when compared to only 30 percent of them from
penetration. That's why a lot of females prefer cunnilingus to penetration.. If you want to make her
scream with pleasure, you need to become skilled at oral sex. To do this, you need to know what
the best cunnilingus techniques are. Here are six great oral sex techniques to make a woman
scream with pleasure:
1) The Labial Hold
The Labial Hold is a simple move. While holding the two parts of her labia (vaginal lips) together
with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
2) Tongue Sex
Most of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple
of inches inside. Target these nerves with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening.
Techniques are somewhat limited unless you have a long tongue, but you can still give her
intense pleasure by gently moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside
of her opening.
3) The Flick
Spread her outer labia with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue
around her clitoris. Feel free to explore around other areas of her vulva, but keep coming back to
her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This movedrives some women crazy with passion, and
others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clitoris, make sure to start out gently until you
can determine how well she likes it. Observe her reactions to your actions and pay attention to
whether those moans are pleasure or pain.
Be cautious with the next three techniques and be sure not to use them until your woman is
completely turned-on. These are intense techniques that may be too intense for some women,
even when they are close to orgasm.
4) The Clitoris Suck
Expose her clitoris by spreading her vaginal lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris
exposed, give it a quick, little suck; pull it into your mouth briefly, and let it go. Treat it as if you are
licking cake frosting off of your pinky. This feels incredible, but don’t overdo it! Do NOT use your
teeth or heavy suction when beginning. Again judge her reaction to your action. As you are doing
the Clitoral Suck, insert your middle and index finger into her vagina with your goal being to find
and stimulate her G Spot. Once mastered, combining these two techniques will leave your
women breathless.
5) The Clitoris Hold

Take her exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your
tongue over and around it. This can be done very gently or quite aggressively, and combined with
expert finger action, will usually quickly produce an intense orgasm.
6) The Tongue Tube

This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her
clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth. In effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's
vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive
orgasm.
Use these six cunnilingus techniques to make your woman scream with pleasure tonight.
However, it's important to not forget that none of these moves in and of themselves will bring your
lover to climax. Combining these techniques is the key to giving her screaming orgasms.
Svetlana Ivanova writes the blog Sex Secrets.
Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. Oral
sex done right can take your partner to new heights of pleasure and ecstasy! However,
cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring technique, practice, and knowledge to get it right. To
discover the forgotten oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she's never had an
orgasm before!, click here.
Posted by Svetlana Ivanova at 5:00 AM 0 comments

Labels: cunnilingus, female oral sex techniques, female orgasm
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Do Women Have More Pleasure during Sex with Circumcised or Uncircumcised Men?
Do women have more pleasure during sex with circumcised or uncircumcised men? Some
women prefer either circumcised or uncircumcised penises over the other. However, this is most
likely due to whatever they are accustomed to seeing. By the 1970s, 80 percent of American
male infants were circumcised though that figure has dropped to 60 percent today. This still
handily outdistances the international average of 15 percent.
There are three common complaints from American women about sex: vaginal dryness, vaginal
discomfort or pain, and difficulty achieving orgasm during intercourse. In my opinion, all three of
these problems are not the woman's fault at all. Those problems exist almost entirely because her
partner's penis is missing its foreskin.
Circumcised sex may cause the vagina to abnormally tense up and decrease its lubrication.
Women report more problems with lubrication when having sex with circumcised men, possibly
because of irritation from the harder tip and involuntary tensing against it, and also because the
longer stroke length tends to remove lubrication from the vagina. Often, an artificial lubricant is
necessary.
During intercourse, the foreskin acts as an effective natural lubricant, and that's very important for
women. The foreskin and the rest of the shaft skin are loose and can move or "glide" up and
down the shaft of the penis. Looking at it in another way, the penis shaft can move and glide
inside the foreskin. During intercourse, the shaft of the intact penis doesn't rub up against the
walls of the vagina like a circumcised penis does. Instead, it slides back and forth inside its own
foreskin. This gives the woman a great sense of motion while almost eliminating the
uncomfortable rubbing friction that is felt during intercourse with a circumcised penis.
The abundant skin of the natural penile shaft further cushions the force of the coronal ridge in the
vagina. In addition, the mobile skin of the penis is "grasped" by the ridges of the vaginal mucosa
and held in place. The bunching and unbunching of penile skin during intercourse enhances a
man's pleasure, but it also excites the woman. The give of the uncircumcised penis allows for
more bend and flex of the organ in the vagina, adding to a woman's pleasure and comfort
As an uncircumcised man thrusts in and out of a woman's vagina, his penis head is repeatedly
being covered and uncovered by the foreskin, and the head contacts both the inner foreskin and
the vagina. The foreskin itself is also being directly stimulated by the vaginal walls, and the
interaction between the vagina, foreskin, and penis head produces intensely pleasurable
sensations for the man.
Because of the sensitivity of the penis head and all the stimulation provided by the interactions of
the vagina, foreskin, and penis head, an uncircumcised man can use more slow and deliberate
thrusts, being able to focus on pleasuring his partner instead of his need to work to achieve
orgasm. During sex with an uncircumcised penis, both the penis and vagina ride on a cushion of
skin, and the vagina experiences pleasure without the soreness that can often accompany
circumcised sex. The foreskin is a natural gliding stimulator of the vaginal walls during
intercourse, helping her to achieve orgasm more easily.
You should be pleased with your penis regardless of whether it is circumcised or uncircumcised.
Both work just fine, and each has its own unique qualities. Some women prefer the hard, fast,
and vigorous technique common among circumcised men, while other women women prefer the
slow, gentle, deliberate style of lovemaking most commonly seen among uncircumcised men.
Though I appreciate the comfort and extra sensation that an uncircumcised penis naturally
provides, my first orgasm from intercourse was with a circumcised penis - and so was my last
one. A man's lovemaking skills have much more to do with a woman's pleasure during sex than
whether his penis is circumcised or uncircumcised.
You're reading this because you want to make your sex life exciting. You want to make it hot.
Passionate. Mind-blowing. You probably want to find ways to please your partner. OPRAH! love
expert Michael Webb reveals how to bring back the fire to your love life. So, if you're ready to add
more heat to the bedroom, click here.
Labels: circumcised man, circumcised penis, female sexuality, male sexuality, sexual intercourse,
uncircumcised man, uncircumcised penis, vaginal sex
Sunday, June 6, 2010
5 Ways for Women to Achieve Orgasm with Intercourse
Sex surveys indicate that only 25-33% of women have orgasms with sexual intercourse.
Recently, some researchers have even suggested that the ability to have orgasms with
intercourse is genetic, which I find extremely hard to believe. That would mean that a majority of
women are genetically unable to perform a basic human function - orgasm from penetration.
What's much more likely is that women who can't orgasm with intercourse are not using the right
positions and techniques. Here are five ways for women to achieve orgasm with intercourse.
1) Strengthen the grip. In my opinion, this is the number one way that women can increase their
orgasmic potential. My post Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for a More Powerful Orgasm
outlines a program for dramatically increasing your capacity for sexual pleasure. During
intercourse, many women flex their pelvic floor muscles to give both partners greater pleasure.
The stronger the muscles, the better you can contract your vagina and create greater friction
against your partner's penis, leading to more clitoral stimulation. Try squeezing down throughout
intercourse.
2) Keep your legs together. This is another simple way to create friction from the penis, which can
lead to a clitoral orgasm. When your partner inserts his penis into your vagina, squeeze your legs
closed and have him place his legs outside yours. Your partner can then squeeze your legs
further closed with his thighs. It may help if he can shift his pelvis forward to cause pressure and
friction on your clitoris.
3) Woman on top. The woman-on-top position allows you to adjust the position of your pelvis so
that you can better control the friction of the penis as it rubs against your clitoris. This position
also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the cervix and trigger an orgasm.
The technique can be performed with your partner lying down on his back or sitting.
4) The missionary position with pelvic tilt. Lie on your back beneath your partner, and tilt your
pelvis upward. It helps to put one or more pillows beneath your buttocks, or have your partner
raise up your buttocks with his hands. This position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the
part of the clitoris that extends into the vagina.
5) Stimulate the cervix. While many women don't enjoy penile thrusting against their cervix,
others find it's the key to orgasm. To determine whether this technique works for you, find a
position that allows for deep penetration of the penis. You might try lying on your back, hugging
your knees to your chest or resting your legs on your partner's shoulders. Or have your partner
enter from behind while you rest on your knees and lean forward on your elbow. For maximum
cervical stimulation, straddle your partner, facing his feet.
Finally, try to avoid focusing on orgasm as the goal of your sexual experience with your partner.
There is no right or wrong way to make love. The point is to achieve intimacy and pleasure, and
there are many techniques towards that end. To learn more about achieving orgasm with
intercourse, see my post How to Get the Best Orgasm.
One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he has finally given his
woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm
with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually
skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted
from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-
blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.
Labels: cervical stimulation, female orgasm, female sexuality, Kegel exercises, sex positions
Monday, May 31, 2010
10 Steps to Great First-Time Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the art of making love to a vulva and vagina with your mouth and tongue. If your
new lover is a cunnilingus virgin, or she has just never received cunnilingus from you, then her
first time may be a little scary. For some women, negative thoughts about their genitals interfere
with their ability to enjoy cunnilingus. A woman may worry about everything from the appearance
of her vulva to issues like genital odor and genital taste.
You can help put your lover at ease by being complimentary and positive about her genitals.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her man finds her delicious, meaning
that you enjoy the taste, smell, and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little
less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate
region. Once she's relaxed an comfortable with you, following these ten steps should take her to
new heights of pleasure and ecstasy!
1) With first-time cunnilingus you MUST be gentle with her. Stroke and kiss her back and legs,
and then only when she is ready, move to the vulva and lick and kiss it gently.
2) Lick around the vaginal opening. Run your tongue around the entrance and caress her gently
with your gliding motions. She may like circular motions or a light licking motion across the entire
opening.
3) Probe her vagina with your tongue. Stick it in as far as you can. See if you can replicate the
thrusting motions that you normally do with your penis. After every few thrusts, bring your tongue
up to her clitoris for a couple of licks, and then resume your probing.
4) Run your tongue up and down the entire length of her inner labia on both sides. Use the tip of
your tongue and then use the full width of your tongue. Make sure that you are grazing over her
clitoris during this process, too. You can also include her perineum area between her vagina and
anus.
5) Apply indirect pressure to her clitoris by circling all around it with your tongue. You may need to
stop holding her labia lips open for this part. Some women, who can’t take direct pressure,
respond better to indirect pressure. When you are holding apart her labia lips, you are making the
clitoris more pronounced, and it could possibly be too much. Ask her.
6) Apply direct pressure by continuing to hold her labia lips open, and licking directly on her
clitoris. Try making quick, flicking motions on her clitoris with your tongue, up and down or back
and forth. You can also change it up and move your tongue in small circles around her clitoris in
one direction and then the other..
7) Another thing to try is to suck her clitoris into your mouth and then gently suck on it as you
would her nipple. As you are sucking on it, you can use your tongue on it at the same time.
8) When you are devoting your mouth and tongue to her clitoris, you can also incorporate your
fingers during this time by fingering her vagina. You will help to stimulate the G-spot if you bend
your fingers gently into a “come here” motion while inside her.
9) You can easily add rimming or analingus to oral sex if she is comfortable with it. There are
many nerve endings at the entrance to the anus, and many women are surprised to find out how
stimulating that area can be.
10) As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast,
rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax. As the moment arrives for her to orgasm,
lick her clitoris hard and fast. Many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm, so
keep it going until she asks you to stop.
After her orgasm, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts.
Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.
Labels: cunnilingus tips, cunnlingus, female oral sex, female orgasm, perform fellatio
Saturday, April 24, 2010
How to Properly Screw a Woman
Does your girlfriend or wife seem less than eager to have sex with you these days? It could be
because she's just not enjoying it that much. Many women find sexual intercourse to be
uncomfortable, unsatisfying, or just plain boring. While a man can put his penis in, thrust hard and
fast, and have an orgasm every time, that won't work for most women most of the time.
For a woman to have an orgasm from intercourse (or even enjoy it), you need vary the
techniques that you use and vary the types, depth, speed, and angles of your thrusts as well as
the positions that you are thrusting in. These eight tips for properly screwing a woman will not
only make sex more exciting and enjoyable for her, but also make it more exciting and enjoyable
for you!
Labels: female orgasm, female sexuality, orgasm through sexual intercourse, sex advice, sex
secrets, sex techniques, sex tips, sexual intercourse, vaginal penetration, vaginal sex
Thursday, October 1, 2009
What Does Sex Feel Like for a Woman?
What does sex feel like for a woman? When men ask that question, what they usually want to
know is what a penis feels like in your vagina. Saying it feels wonderful is enough to put a self-
satisfied smirk on most men's faces and end the discussion, but others aren't so easily brushed
off. They want to know exactly what it feels like when a penis enters you and moves around
inside.
For me, the most exquisite sensation of sexual intercourse is when the head first pushes past the
lips into my vagina. At the very point of entrance, there is a resistance at first, and then a
sensuous, stretched-out feeling as it slides in, though sometimes there's some pain, depending
on the lubrication factor or the size of the penis. When the penis first slides in all the way, it often
sends involuntary shivers up my spine. While it's going in, you can feel the head, but usually (in
my case anyway) you can mostly only feel the shaft. If you've been waiting a long time for it (or
have been teased for a long time), the first slide in feels like such a relief. It's like an increase of
tension and then a release.
Labels: penis in vagina sex, sexual intercourse, vaginal sex, what does intercourse feel like, what
does sex feel like
Thursday, September 24, 2009
How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm during Intercourse
If your woman isn't as eager for sex as you'd like her to be (or not interested at all), it's probably
because she isn't getting much enjoyment from it. It's human nature to want more of what we like
and less of what we don't. If your partner isn't sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she
doesn't want to have sex more often is because she doesn't enjoy it. Period.
Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female
sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don't have orgasm
with intercourse because some sex positions don't provide enough stimulation of these pleasure
spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs
to have an orgasm with intercourse.
Positions and techniques for clitoral stimulation
Woman on top
The woman on top position is definitely the choice of women because she gets direct stimulation
of the clitoris. Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy
and only has to lie back and watch the show. You can remedy this by sitting up against pillows so
that it’s far easier to kiss, and she can feel more engaged with you. The woman needs to set the
pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest possible range of motion. If she
needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her, she can lean forward and
do more of a grinding motion than thrusting so that her clitoris rubs against your public bone. You
can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or
stroking her back door (make sure she’s well-lubricated), or even inserting a finger into her anus.
Doggy Style Sex Position
Sexual intercourse from behind gives a man access to almost every sensitive part of a woman’s
body, allowing you to easily control her level of pleasure. Usually, a woman spreads her legs
during doggy style sex to allow you access in between, making it easy to reach her clitoris while
thrusting. She can arch her back or lower herself toward the bed to change the sensations. Either
one of you can control the motion. You can thrust, she can rock back onto you, or both. Slow it
down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation. If you time it right,
you may well be able to reach your orgasms simultaneously.
Missionary (man-on-top) Sex Position
The missionary position is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate,
but it doesn't allow for a lot of clitoral stimulation. The CAT, or coital alignment technique, is a way
to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to bring her to climax. To
get into position, you slide forward from your normal resting place so that her clitoris is receiving
stimulation from the base of your penis. She can then wrap her legs around yours, trying to
extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of your calves. With this
position she can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her
clitoris and the base of your penis.
When performing CAT, the main thing to keep in mind is maintaining contact with the clitoris. The
overall movement is much less a thrusting than a synchronized rocking back and forth with the
focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis. Here’s the most important part: as she pushes up
on the top of your shaft, you resist with less force than she pushes. Now, on the way back down,
as you push down against her clitoris, she resists with less force than you push. The result is a
series of “small collisions,” rather than the standard friction of thrusting though “collisions” is an
exaggeration.
Positions and techniques for G-spot stimulation
Woman-on-top and doggy style also work great for G-spot stimulation. If she leans forward when
she's on top, it will cause your penis to touch her G-spot. Doggy style can be an effective position
for G-spot stimulation in women because when thrusting from behind your penis should naturally
rub against her G-spot. You need to massage her G-spot before penetration, though, to "wake it
up." The penis, since it puts less direct pressure on the G-spot, can be even more pleasurable
than fingers, but it often takes a lot of thrusting to stimulate the G-spot as much as only a few
minutes of manual massage can do.
The secret for men to add that extra "oomph" for G-spot stimulation during intercourse is
practicing your PC muscle exercises. When a man squeezes his PC muscle, women usually feel
extra pressure on the top part of their vaginal walls, stimulating their G-spots. Every once in a
while, stop the active thrusting and just tap your penis upwards using your PC muscles. You'll be
amazed at the results.
Positions and techniques for clitoral and G-spot stimulation
Combine techniques from both of the above. Stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot may lead to
a powerful blended orgasm for her, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.
Are these the only positions and techniques that will give woman an orgasm with intercourse?
Absolutely not! Don’t be afraid to experiment, especially with a long-term partner. Women love
sex just as much as you do. If you can make a woman feel great and give her an orgasm from
time to time (or often), she will be more receptive to your sexual advances. That will lead to
something both you and she want: more sex.
Making a woman orgasm is almost every man’s dream. Unfortunately, not every man knows what
buttons to touch to give her the ultimate orgasm. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you
can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of
orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms
as if it were second nature, click here.
How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm during Intercourse
If your woman isn't as eager for sex as you'd like her to be (or not interested at all), it's probably
because she isn't getting much enjoyment from it. It's human nature to want more of what we like
and less of what we don't. If your partner isn't sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she
doesn't want to have sex more often is because she doesn't enjoy it. Period.
Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female
sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don't have orgasm
with intercourse because some sex positions don't provide enough stimulation of these pleasure
spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs
to have an orgasm with intercourse.
Positions and techniques for clitoral stimulation
Woman on top
The woman on top position is definitely the choice of women because she gets direct stimulation
of the clitoris. Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy
and only has to lie back and watch the show. You can remedy this by sitting up against pillows so
that it’s far easier to kiss, and she can feel more engaged with you. The woman needs to set the
pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest possible range of motion. If she
needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her, she can lean forward and
do more of a grinding motion than thrusting so that her clitoris rubs against your public bone. You
can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or
stroking her back door (make sure she’s well-lubricated), or even inserting a finger into her anus.
Doggy Style Sex Position
Sexual intercourse from behind gives a man access to almost every sensitive part of a woman’s
body, allowing you to easily control her level of pleasure. Usually, a woman spreads her legs
during doggy style sex to allow you access in between, making it easy to reach her clitoris while
thrusting. She can arch her back or lower herself toward the bed to change the sensations. Either
one of you can control the motion. You can thrust, she can rock back onto you, or both. Slow it
down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation. If you time it right,
you may well be able to reach your orgasms simultaneously.
Missionary (man-on-top) Sex Position
The missionary position is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate,
but it doesn't allow for a lot of clitoral stimulation. The CAT, or coital alignment technique, is a way
to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to bring her to climax. To
get into position, you slide forward from your normal resting place so that her clitoris is receiving
stimulation from the base of your penis. She can then wrap her legs around yours, trying to
extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of your calves. With this
position she can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her
clitoris and the base of your penis.
focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis. Here’s the most important part: as she pushes up
on the top of your shaft, you resist with less force than she pushes. Now, on the way back down,
as you push down against her clitoris, she resists with less force than you push. The result is a
series of “small collisions,” rather than the standard friction of thrusting though “collisions” is an
exaggeration.
Positions and techniques for G-spot stimulation
Woman-on-top and doggy style also work great for G-spot stimulation. If she leans forward when
she's on top, it will cause your penis to touch her G-spot. Doggy style can be an effective position
for G-spot stimulation in women because when thrusting from behind your penis should naturally
rub against her G-spot. You need to massage her G-spot before penetration, though, to "wake it
up." The penis, since it puts less direct pressure on the G-spot, can be even more pleasurable
than fingers, but it often takes a lot of thrusting to stimulate the G-spot as much as only a few
minutes of manual massage can do.
The secret for men to add that extra "oomph" for G-spot stimulation during intercourse is
practicing your PC muscle exercises. When a man squeezes his PC muscle, women usually feel
extra pressure on the top part of their vaginal walls, stimulating their G-spots. Every once in a
while, stop the active thrusting and just tap your penis upwards using your PC muscles. You'll be
amazed at the results.
Positions and techniques for clitoral and G-spot stimulation
Combine techniques from both of the above. Stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot may lead to
a powerful blended orgasm for her, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.
Are these the only positions and techniques that will give woman an orgasm with intercourse?
Absolutely not! Don’t be afraid to experiment, especially with a long-term partner. Women love
sex just as much as you do. If you can make a woman feel great and give her an orgasm from
time to time (or often), she will be more receptive to your sexual advances. That will lead to
something both you and she want: more sex.
Making a woman orgasm is almost every man’s dream. Unfortunately, not every man knows what
buttons to touch to give her the ultimate orgasm. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you
can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of
orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms
as if it were second nature, click here.

Labels: CAT, clitoral stimulation, coital alignment technique, doggy-style, G-spot massage, G-
spot stimulation, woman-on-top
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
6 Ways to Stimulate the Clitoris during Intercourse
Many women have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse (if they are able to orgasm
at all) because they don't get sufficient clitoral stimulation. The vaginal opening provides perfect
stimulation to the penis to bring a man to orgasm, but the clitoris isn't inside the vagina where it
would get sufficient stimulation to make the woman climax. Instead, the clitoris is outside, so it
needs direct stimulation. Here are six ways to stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.
1) If you place a pillow under her lower back (not her rear end), this will tilt her pelvis down and
will allow your penis to have a better chance of rubbing against her clitoris as you thrust in and
out.
2) When you are on top in the missionary position, instead of having your legs inside of hers, try
putting them outside of hers. With her legs together, she will get more stimulation than normal
,and you are more likely to make contact with her clitoris as you thrust. You can still thrust the
usual way, but a circular motion like you are stirring a drink with your penis really works well.
3) The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is a sex position combined with a sexual movement
technique that facilitates clitoral orgasm. This technique replaces deep thrusting with subtle,
coordinated rocking.
4) Another thing you can do is insert your penis into her vagina as far as it will go, but don't move
it in and out. Just grind your pelvis right up against her clitoris and keep grinding. Try to really
push against the front of her groin with the area just above the penis. Rocking back and forth or
side to side is a really good way of getting started. You may need to lubricate her first as you
want to pleasure her clitoris, not irritate it.
5) With her sitting on top, lie flat on your back, pelvis tilted upward, and stomach muscles
tightened. You want to arch your hips upwards to improve the quality of “the Grind." This can be
achieved easily by putting a pillow under your hips. You then should put your hand over your
woman’s pubic region, and place your thumb on her clitoris. While she is riding you, you can
simultaneously stimulate her clitoris.
6) Have your woman lie on her back with one leg flat on the bed and the other raised in the air.
Kneel between her thighs, straddling the leg that is lying flat on the bed and supporting the leg
that is up in the air (which is making a sort of right angle to the other leg.) This can be a great
position for deep penetration while. at the same time, exposing her clitoris for manual stimulation.
This double stimulation is very satisfying and can often lead to orgasm really quickly.
A man cannot "make" a woman orgasm, so don't beat yourself up if she doesn't get there.
However, by listening to her and watching for the positive signs, you can fine-tune your
performance to help her achieve it.
One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his
Labels: clitoral stimulation, sexual intercourse, vaginal intercourse, vaginal sex
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Try the Pelvic Slide Position for Maximum Clitoral Stimulation
Many women have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse (if they are able to orgasm
at all) because they don’t get sufficient clitoral stimulation. One thing that has helped a lot of
women learn to be orgasmic during intercourse is experimenting with sex positions. Many women
agree there’s no better sexual position for reaching climax than woman-on-top. The Pelvic Slide
is a variation of the woman-on-top position that adds a sexual movement technique that facilitates
clitoral orgasm.
To assume the Pelvic Slide position, have your man lie on his back and straddle him with your
knees on either side of his hips. Then, with one hand on the bed or his chest for support, hold the
base of his penis with your other hand and slowly lower yourself onto him. Next, lie down on top
of him and straighten your legs so that they are between his. Once in position, slide your body up
and down on him, NOT in and out. His penis should remain completely inside you all the way to
the base, right at the pubic bone as you move. This movement technique stimulates the clitoris
with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region, the area right above the pubic bone.
Positioning your legs inside your man's in the Pelvic Slide also increases the tightness of the
vagina around the penis.
The Pelvic Slide is the woman-on-top version of the Friction Zone Technique. The clitoral
stimulation in both positions helps women to reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse. An
advantage of the Pelvic Slide is that having the woman lying on top of her man is a very
comfortable position for both partners, and it can feel very loving and emotionally intimate. In a
report asking women why they enjoyed sex, the most common answer was emotional intimacy.
The Pelvic Slide provides women the best of both worlds during intercourse: emotional intimacy
and a satisfying orgasm.
Labels: clitoral stimulation, pelvic slide, sex positions, woman-on-top
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Bring Your Woman to Orgasm with the Coital Alignment Technique
The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is a sex position combined with a sexual movement
technique that facilitates clitoral orgasm. Sometimes called the "greatest sexual position in the
world," the "new and improved missionary position," and the "new intercourse," this technique
replaces deep thrusting with subtle, coordinated rocking.
Most women need to have clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Traditional thrusting in the
missionary position seldom achieves this because the clitoris is about an inch (2-3 cm) closer to
the front of the woman's body than the vaginal opening. Therefore, it's possible, even probable,
that thrusting either misses the clitoris altogether, or that clitoral stimulation is indirect or sporadic.
The CAT allows the man and woman's combined thrusting to do the job.
CAT is basically a revised missionary position, with the man on top and face to face with his
partner. What's different is that the man has vaginal intercourse with his partner from a higher
angle than usual, putting pressure on the woman's clitoris while he enters and re-enters her in
response to her pelvic thrusts.
The man enters initially from between the woman's legs, which are apart and slightly bent. but
then he rides up on her pelvis slightly, just enough so that the base of his erect penis pushes up
against her clitoris. The woman can then wrap her legs around his, trying to extend the stretch of
her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of his calves. With this position a woman can
then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her clitoris and the base
of his penis.
focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis.
Here's the most important part: As she pushes up on the top of his shaft, he resists with less force
than she pushes. Now, on the way back down, as he pushes down against her clitoris, she resists
with less force than he pushes. The result is a series of "small collisions," rather than the
standard friction of thrusting though "collisions" is an exaggeration. The movement is subtle,
coordinated, gentle, rhythmic, and slow-building.
She enjoys constant clitoral stimulation and vibration on the nerve-rich area just below the G-
spot. He enjoys the massaging action on his penis shaft, which stimulates the prostatic nerves,
the male counterpart to the G-spot. Stimulating these deeper layers of nerves creates a "warm,
melting feeling" during intercourse, which deepens the experience for both partners.
Though it may take a bit of practice, studies have found that about three-quarters of women are
able to have "no-hands" orgasms with CAT, compared to the well-accepted average of 30
percent. In addition, the coital alignment technique often leads to simultaneous orgasm - the
natural potential of the sex act.
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6 Oral Sex Techniques to Make Your Woman Orgasm Like Crazy

Sunday, November 14, 2010 Labels: cunnilingus tips, cunnlingus, female oral sex, female orgasm
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One of the best aspects of sex is the pleasure you can cause in your lover. Do you know that oral
sex is the best sexual technique to make a female climax? More than 8o percent of women
regularly achieve orgasm from oral sex when compared to only 30 percent of them from sexual
intercourse. It's no wonder that many women prefer cunnilingus to sexual intercourse. If you want
to make her orgasm like crazy, you need to become skilled at cunnilingus. To do this, you need to
learn what the best oral sex techniques are. Here are six great oral sex moves to make a woman
orgasm like crazy:
1) The Labial Hold
The Labial Hold is a easy move. While holding the two parts of her labia (vaginal lips) together
with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
2) Tongue Sex
Most of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple
of inches inside. Target these nerves with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening.
Techniques are somewhat limited unless you have a long tongue, but you can still cause her
intense pleasure by gently moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside
of her opening.
3) The Flick
Spread her outer labia with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue
around her clitoris. Feel free to roam around other parts of her vulva, but keep coming back to her
clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This techniquedrives some women wild with passion, though
others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clitoris, make sure to begin gently until you can
determine how well she likes it. Observe her reactions to your actions and pay attention to
whether those moans are pleasure or pain.
Be cautious with the next three moves Be sure not to apply them until your woman is fully
aroused. These are powerful techniques that may be too intense for some women, even when
they are close to orgasm.
4) The Clitoral Suck
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed,
give it a quick, little suck; pull it into your mouth briefly, and let it go. Treat it as if you are licking
cake frosting off of your little finger. This feels incredible, but don’t overdo it! Do NOT use your
teeth or hard suction when beginning. Again judge her reaction to your action. As you are
performing the Clitoris Suck, insert your middle and index finger into her vagina with your goal
being to find and stimulate her G Spot. Once mastered, combining these two moves will leave
your women breathless.
5) The Clitoris Hold

Take her exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your
tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with
skillful finger action, will usually rapidly produce an powerful climax.
6) The Tongue Tube

This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her
clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth. In effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's
vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive
climax.
Use these six cunnilingus techniques to make your lover orgasm like crazy tonight. However, it's
important to not forget that none of these moves in and of themselves will bring your lover to
climax. A combination of these techniques is the key to giving her mind-blowing orgasms.
10 Steps to Great First-Time Cunnilingus
Sunday, May 30, 2010 Labels: cunnilingus tips, cunnlingus, female oral sex, female orgasm,
perform fellatio 1 comments
Cunnilingus is the art of making love to a vulva and vagina with your mouth and tongue. If your
new lover is a cunnilingus virgin, or she has just never received cunnilingus from you, then her
first time may be a little scary. For some women, negative thoughts about their genitals interfere
with their ability to enjoy cunnilingus. A woman may worry about everything from the appearance
of her vulva to issues like genital odor and genital taste.
You can help put your lover at ease by being complimentary and positive about her genitals.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her man finds her delicious, meaning
that you enjoy the taste, smell, and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little
less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate
region. Once she's relaxed an comfortable with you, following these ten steps should take her to
new heights of pleasure and ecstasy!
1) With first-time cunnilingus you MUST be gentle with her. Stroke and kiss her back and legs,
and then only when she is ready, move to the vulva and lick and kiss it gently.
2) Lick around the vaginal opening. Run your tongue around the entrance and caress her gently
with your gliding motions. She may like circular motions or a light licking motion across the entire
opening.
3) Probe her vagina with your tongue. Stick it in as far as you can. See if you can replicate the
thrusting motions that you normally do with your penis. After every few thrusts, bring your tongue
up to her clitoris for a couple of licks, and then resume your probing.
4) Run your tongue up and down the entire length of her inner labia on both sides. Use the tip of
your tongue and then use the full width of your tongue. Make sure that you are grazing over her
clitoris during this process, too. You can also include her perineum area between her vagina and
anus.
5) Apply indirect pressure to her clitoris by circling all around it with your tongue. You may need to
stop holding her labia lips open for this part. Some women, who can’t take direct pressure,
respond better to indirect pressure. When you are holding apart her labia lips, you are making the
clitoris more pronounced, and it could possibly be too much. Ask her.
6) Apply direct pressure by continuing to hold her labia lips open, and licking directly on her
clitoris. Try making quick, flicking motions on her clitoris with your tongue, up and down or back
and forth. You can also change it up and move your tongue in small circles around her clitoris in
one direction and then the other..
7) Another thing to try is to suck her clitoris into your mouth and then gently suck on it as you
would her nipple. As you are sucking on it, you can use your tongue on it at the same time.
8) When you are devoting your mouth and tongue to her clitoris, you can also incorporate your
fingers during this time by fingering her vagina. You will help to stimulate the G-spot if you bend
your fingers gently into a “come here” motion while inside her.
9) You can easily add rimming or analingus to oral sex if she is comfortable with it. There are
many nerve endings at the entrance to the anus, and many women are surprised to find out how
stimulating that area can be.
10) As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast,
rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax. As the moment arrives for her to orgasm,
lick her clitoris hard and fast. Many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm, so
keep it going until she asks you to stop.
After her orgasm, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts.
Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.
Fellatio from a Female Perspective
Sunday, December 6, 2009 Labels: blow jobs, fellatio experiences, give fellatio, perform fellatio 1
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Fellatio is the act of applying your lips and mouth to a man's penis with the purpose of giving him
pleasure. Fellatio, giving head, blow job - call it what you wish - is seldom discussed as an
expression of female sexual empowerment, but rather as a form of male dominance. Taking a
man’s penis in our mouths is traditionally seen as an act of submission. It is assumed we do it
against our will.
However, fellatio can not only give a man immense pleasure, but can also be extremely
empowering for a woman. I view the fellatio as a form of male surrender, something requiring a
mutual degree of trust and self-restraint. It is one of the only times when a man is completely
physically vulnerable, allowing a woman to have total control over his most sensitive organ using
one of her most powerful organs - her mouth. The mouth can be an aggressive part of our
anatomy, and we both know that it could induce severe pain and injury to the penis. This places a
man completely at the mercy of his female partner (and her back molars).
Personally, I love to begin fellatio with a flaccid penis because I enjoy the feeling of his penis
growing bigger and harder in my mouth. I'm extremely aroused knowing that my mouth, my
kisses, my tongue, my sucking, are creating his response. The sensation of his penis literally
tickling the back of my throat with subtle movements is a huge turn-on for me. The fact that he
enjoys it so much makes it all that more pleasurable.
As he approaches climax, his penis grows even bigger and harder than I ever imagined that it
could be. I can feel the hard contractions begin deep in his testicles, and then I can feel the surge
of semen coming through the full length of his penis and shooting and splashing inside my mouth.
The explosiveness of his semen shooting into my mouth can sometimes be a little overwhelming,
but it's also kind of exciting knowing that I caused it.
Then as, his body quiets, I can feel the last little contractions signaling the final release. It is a
very powerful moment. The vulnerability and trust between us is the most incredibly satisfying
feeling.
All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving
good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what
every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.
How to Give Fellatio to an Uncircumcised Penis
Sunday, November 15, 2009 Labels: circumcised man, circuncision, fellatio, oral sex, oral sex
secrets, oral sex tips, uncircumcised man, uncircumciswd penis 0 comments
While circumcision as a religious rite has been around for thousands of years, the practice took
hold in the United States in the late 1800s as a means of curbing sexual diseases and
masturbation. By the 1970s, 80 percent of American male infants were circumcised. Today, that
figure has dropped to 60 percent, but this still far exceeds the international average of 15 percent.
Many American women have literally never seen an uncircumcised penis and don't know what to
do with one when they encounter it, especially when it comes to oral sex. Performing fellatio on
an uncircumcised penis can be a pleasurable experience for both you and your partner as long as
you are gentler with your moves.
The first and most important thing to know is that the foreskin is actually the most sexually
pleasurable part of a man's body, similar to how the clitoris is the most pleasurable part of a
woman's body. Near the tip of the foreskin is an area called the ridged band. This area that circles
the end of the penis contains almost 20,000 nerve endings designed to be sexually pleasurable.
That's over half of the erogenous nerve endings in the penis.
While those additional nerves can create extra feeling, they also create extra sensitivities. When
a clitoris is stimulated too early in a cunnilingus session, a woman will sometimes feel pain. In
order to make your partner enjoy fellatio, you should go slowly at the beginning and warm him up
with your suction. Once he is highly aroused, you can go slightly harder on your maneuvers.
Let me highlight three important things to take note of when your man’s penis is uncircumcised:
1) Because your man's penis is uncircumcised, the foreskin is extremely sensitive to any of your
maneuvers. You need to be extra careful not to scrape your teeth on his penis or suck it too hard
because this may cause him a lot of pain and turn him off completely.
2) When giving fellatio to an uncircumcised penis, you need to be gentler so that your man will
not experience discomfort or pain. Start off with slow strokes and maintain it unless he requests
you to go harder. Even if he asks you to go harder on the strokes, you should always gradually
increase your pressure.
3) Once an uncircumcised penis is fully erect, the foreskin rolls back on its own. However,
sometimes it can stay put, so you may need to move it away from the tip. Be sure to ask for
permission first, and then carefully slip it back a little. Don’t push is past the head and don’t be
forceful.
One fellatio technique that you can only do with an uncircumcised penis is circling the inside of
the foreskin with your tongue. For an added sensation, flick the head of his penis with your
tongue similar to the way he would flick your clitoris with his tongue. If you want to drive him
crazy, try sucking and licking his penis and moving the foreskin up and down on the shaft at the
same time. You can also lightly massage the head with your thumb and index finger, but don’t
press too hard. Some men can’t handle too much attention being paid to their intact tip, so don’t
take it personally if he wants you to back off.
Fellatio on an uncircumcised penis can be like a walk in heaven for both you and him. His
pleasure will be so intense that he'll be putty in your hands, and you'll always know when he's
truly aroused. Giving your man pleasure orally can be a very good experience for your
relationship. When your man is pleased, he'll want to do the same for you.
How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis
Sunday, May 3, 2009 Labels: deep throat, deep throat big penis, deep throat long penis, deep
throat techniques, fellatrix 1 comments
So, you've learned to deep throat a penis, and maybe even mastered some advanced
techniques. You consider yourself quite the deep throat queen. Then you meet a new man, one
thing leads to another, and you wind up in bed together. Once the boxers come off, you can't help
but notice something about your new lover: he has a long penis - a really long penis. It's at least
an inch or two longer than the longest penis you've ever deep throated before, and at that time
you thought you'd swallowed as much as you possibly could.
Are you going to have to abdicate your throne, and settle for being a common fellatrix? Not
necessarily. If your man is exceedingly lengthy, and you just won’t be happy until you can
swallow all of him to the root, here’s the technique you’ll need to penetrate further into the
esophagus. It's not easy for some women, but, remember that most sword swallowers can
swallow swords from about 16" to 22" (about 40 to 60 cm). You can probably learn to swallow half
that length.
When faced with this huge penis, your brain will become alarmed that this massive intruder might
go into your windpipe, so it will create a sphincter in there that closes up. How do you get around
it? Have you ever sucked air into your stomach to make a burp? You do it by opening your throat
and sucking in. That’s the technique you use to get down into your esophagus. When you feel his
penis "hit bottom" around the 7" to 9" mark (18 to 23 cm), do four things right away: (1) open your
throat and suck in; (2) swallow hard; (3) move your tongue vigorously inward; and (4) push gently.
The first few times you may have to push a little harder than you might assume you would
because you are fighting against your own brain here. Also, the first few times there will probably
be a momentary flash of a brand new sensation deep in your throat. This is caused by the
stimulation of thousands of nerves that had hitherto been unused. Your brain is rapidly trying to
sort out whether it’s pain, or heat, or what. Actually, it’s just pressure, which your brain will figure
out in a second or two.
As you gain experience, your brain will eventually recognize the signals, and you will feel only the
pleasure of the penis's surface sliding along the smooth surface of the inside of your esophagus.
Deep throating a really long penis is definitely more difficult than deep throating an average-sized
one, but certainly not impossible if you want to attempt it.
5 Reasons to Swallow Your Man's Semen
Friday, May 1, 2009 Labels: oral sex tips, swallowing semen, swallowing semen health benefits 1
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To spit or to swallow? That is the question. Women are split on the issue. Some act as if semen
is poison while others greedily swallow and suck their man dry. When asked, most men say they
prefer that the woman swallow. Since the purpose of fellatio is to give pleasure to your man, that
would seem to settle the question. However, if that's not enough to convince you, there are even
more reasons to swallow your man's semen.
1) It's polite. After all it's rude to spit. Also, wouldn't you be offended if your man ran to the
bathroom to gargle with mouthwash after going down on you? What sort of message does it
convey to immediately run to the nearest sink to spit?
2) It's environmentally friendly. Spitting out semen wastes tissues and paper towels, destroys
trees, and adds to our landfill problems. Swallowing semen is a form of environmentally-friendly
recycling.
3) It's healthful. Swallowing semen may help prevent depression and lower blood pressure. Also,
those concerned with nutrition and daily vitamins will be pleased to find that the average ejaculate
contains calcium, magnesium, potassium, vitamin B-12, and zinc. Plus, for all you dieters out
there, the caloric content of semen is a measly 15 calories.
4) Your man wants you to. If a man has to worry about ejaculating, feeling that it is an imposition
on you or the cause of unpleasantness, he cannot fully relax and cannot fully enjoy his climax.
Also, continuing to suck through the orgasm - “sucking him dry" - leaves him both physically and
emotionally satisfied. In addition, swallowing semen has deep, symbolic significance to men.
Spitting out his semen is a symbolic rejection to many men. By swallowing, you indicate your
complete acceptance of him.
5) God wants you to. There is nothing in the Bible that forbids engaging in acts of oral sex. In fact,
according to one Bible expert, the Bible specifically encourages fellatio to completion (orgasm),
though only if the female partner consumes or swallows the ejaculate. This prevents spilling seed,
which is an affront to God, and also provides spiritual benefit to the woman. Performing fellatio to
completion and then spitting out the resulting ejaculate should be almost unthinkable to anyone
who believes in the Bible.
A woman who swallows puts her partner at ease and allows him to relax and enjoy one of the
most intimate and pleasurable sex acts she can perform on him. Women who don't swallow
usually blame their gag reflex or the taste of semen for their refusal. If you would like to make
fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, check out these seven
tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste.
Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?
Wednesday, April 29, 2009 Labels: advanced fellatio techniques, fellatio tips, irrumatio 0
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Irrumatio is actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made
between irrumatio and fellatio based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the
penis into the partner's mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around
the penis, but this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English.
Irrumatio gives a different experience to a man than when he is being fellated by a woman
because he's the one moving, he's more tense and active, and he's controlling his experience
much more so than in the regular fellatio. What does a woman get out of irrumatio? As with any
sex act, pleasing the partner is sometimes more important than deriving any innate pleasure from
the act itself. Most woman are not going to "get off" on being still and having their mouths used in
the same way as their vaginas. The benefit will largely be the knowledge that she is pleasing her
partner.
In some cases, however, the woman may enjoy it just as much as the man does. Many women
enjoy rough sex to one degree or another, and some women like to be "degraded" or dominated.
There's nothing wrong with that at all, so long as it is something you do consensually (and
recognize that it has to be confined to the bedroom).
If you and your partner want to try this, lie down on your back with a pillow under your head. He
should straddle you with his hands and knees so that his crotch is over your face, and his head is
above yours. He should move around until he can easily fit his penis into your mouth. You should
make your mouth wet and form a snug ring with her lips around his shaft. Basically, any position
that works well for regular oral sex will work for irrumatio as long as it allows the man to move his
hips.
In fellatio, the woman is the one who controls how fast and deep the penis goes into her mouth.
In irrumatio, however, the man is the one who's in control for the most part. If you can learn to
overcome your gag reflex, then irrumatio will become a bit easier for you. Deep throat is a form of
oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the mouth. If you can’t do that
and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.
You can also use the Stopper Technique to maintain some control over the depth of his thrusts.
Wrap one hand around his lower shaft, to use as a stopper, allowing only as much of his penis
into your mouth as you're comfortable with. If your hand is at the base, this also adds a
pleasurable pressure against his body. You can use your hand to squeeze and stroke the lower
part of his penis as the top part slides in and out, moving the hand down to the base as the penis
slides in.
When he begins thrusting, he should slide his penis in and out with his hips, without moving his
knees or using his hands. He can add things like rocking his pelvis from side to side or circularly
(called "grinding"), or you can rock your head from side to side, or move it up and back to meet
his strokes, or use your tongue if you like.
It is important that he start out slowly, and work his way up in terms of speed and depth. You
should find some way to let your partner know when he's going too deep, especially if your head
is resting against something that doesn't allow you to pull back. Agree to a signal before you get
started. Don't plan on using verbal communication because you'll have a penis in your mouth and
may not be able to speak in time. Using your hands to tap him on his leg (or wherever) when he
starts getting too deep is a good idea. If you are the man, it is very important that you stop the
instant your partner indicates that something is wrong, The more you do this, the more "in tune"
you'll be with your partner, and you'll gradually develop the ability to sense when it is becoming
too much for her.
Irrumatio is another sex act that can be added to your sexual repertoire and enjoyed as you feel
the desire to do it. Some women can get into this second kind of fellatio while others don't like it.
A frequent complaint is that the woman feels abused, that she has no control and the man thrusts
too deeply or violently, causing gagging, fear, or other troubles. This needn't happen if the couple
can talk freely and respect their own and each other's wants and needs.
Penis Enlargement: A Confidence Booster for Men

Wednesday, August 18, 2010 by Svetlana Ivanova · 0 comments
Labels: natural penis enlargement, penis size, sex advice
Many men are unhappy with their penis size. In fact, some men are so unhappy that it affects
their relationships with women. They are nervous about becoming intimate with a woman
because they are afraid she will be disappointed or, even worse, laugh when she sees their
penis. Their lack of confidence is a turn-off to women, many of whom wouldn't be that concerned
about the size of their penis unless it was really small.
The first thing we women notice about a man is his confidence level, and, in my experience,
nothing gives a man more confidence than a big penis. Even a no-job, no-car- no-woman man
still seems to feel good about himself when he has a big penis. Fortunately, natural penis
enlargement can give a man who isn't naturally well-endowed the confidence he needs to attract
women and get them into bed.
Natural penis enlargement is based on the idea that the cavernosa and spongiosum, the two
pieces of spongy tissue in the penis, can be expanded to hold more blood. The fact is that natural
penis enlargement really works. Your penis could grow up to 1-4 inches bigger when using proper
exercising techniques. However, natural penis enlargement is not something you can buy. It's
something you need to work at.
Penis Advantage offers all the exercises required to help you achieve a longer, thicker
penis..They have been online since 2001. The exercises are presented in video and pictures to
enhance the user experience. In their members area, you will find all the exercises required to
help you achieve a longer, thicker penis. You can access their program anywhere as long as
there is an internet connection.
Stop wasting your time and money on disappointing pills, plastic pumps, useless exercises, and
other pie-in-the-sky fantasty gimmicks. Any man of any size can use these powerful techniques to
permanently enlarge his penis by effectively targeting the seven-critical aspects of penis
development. To find out how to enlarge your penis (and your life), click here!
4 Penis Enlargement Methods to Avoid at All Costs!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010 by Svetlana Ivanova · 0 comments
Labels: big penis, penis enlargement pills, penis enlargement pumps, penis enlargement surgery,
penis enlargement weight hanging, penis size, small penis
Are you happy with your penis size? Many men are not. Men with small penises are often the butt
of jokes and may even fear rejection from women. If you've decided to do something about your
penis size instead of just suffering with it, good for you. However, you need to know that there are
NO LAZY WAYS to enlarge your penis! Surgery, penis weight hanging, penis pumps, and penis
enlargement pills DO NOT WORK! Avoid these four penis enlargement methods at all costs! Find
out why.
Penis Enlargement Surgery
Blades near your penis? Need I say more? Surgery is expensive and dangerous. Numerous
newspaper articles and court cases have arisen from penis enlargement surgery when it's gone
wrong. It costs thousands and can cause a host of related sexual problems. Surgery is painful
and no guarantees can be made as to the results or your overall safety. Cutting the penis can
cause irreversible damage and should be avoided at all costs.
Penis Enlargement Surgery
Very expensive and unsafe

High failure rate
No guaranteed results
Penis Enlargement Weights/Hanging
Practiced for many years, some men claim weight hanging has actually enlarged their penis. An
inch in two years isn't unheard of. Unfortunately, weight hanging can sometimes stretch the
ligaments too much and can cause serious problems and possibly even permanent impotence.
Also, weight hangings cannot help the girth of your penis (which is what's most important for
female sexual satisfaction), so you are likely to get a thin, stretched-out, weak-looking penis, and
this is after many years.
Penis Enlargement Weights
Potential scarring
Risk of stretch marks
Too much usage will actually decrease size.
Permanent impotence
Penis deformation
Nerve damage
Lack of proper circulation
Loss of sex drive
Decreased sensitivity
Penis Enlargement Pumps
The theory behind pumps is that the vacuum created inside the pump will induce greater blood
flow helping to stimulate growth. However, pumping simply doesn't work. At best you may get
temporary enlargement, but it soon shrinks back to its normal size. Also, there is a risk that you
could burst capillaries, get blisters or even worse, develop improper circulation leading to possible
impotence and a whole host of other problems. Regular use, could lead to Peyronies disease,
tissue scarring or penis deformation leading to an ugly penis and a very unhappy you.
Penis Enlargement Pumps
Temporary results that fade after a few minutes

Over pumping can lead to various problems.
Risk or Peyronies disease
Risk of blisters
Risk of circulation problem
Risk of burst capillaries
Penis Enlargement Pills
Can penis enlargement pills really make your penis bigger on their own? No, of course they can't.
The pill companies normally give away a basic exercise program, and it is the workouts that
actually give any growth. unfortunately, their exercise programs are poorly written, lack detailed
advice, and are extremely ineffective. The herbs in some of the brands may help to increase
blood flow to your penis and maybe give you slightly stronger erections, but not permanent penis
enlargement. Also, what risks do the pills carry? Many of the pills contain ingredients the Food
and Drug Administration has specifically issued warnings about!
Penis Enlargement Pills
Ineffective for real penis enlargement

Slightly harder erections are not the same as a bigger penis.
Very expensive!
No permanent gains
Potentially dangerous herbal ingredients in some brands.
FDA warn against some of the ingredients!
If the above four methods are ineffective, unsafe, and expensive, what about penis enlargement
exercises? Does natural penis enlargement REALLY work? In a word, yes. Your results may
vary, as the saying goes, but at least it's safe and inexpensive. I personally know men who have
used penis enlargement exercises to gain as much as two inches in size.
Are you really happy with your penis size? Just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can
make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you
can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking
new techniques, click here.
Why Do Some Women Like a Big Penis?

Sunday, April 25, 2010 by Svetlana Ivanova · 0 comments
Labels: big penis, female orgasm, female penis preference, female sexuality, large penis, penis
size, small penis
If you ask most women whether penis size is important to them, they will probably say it doesn't
matter and mean it. Of course, a man's looks, personality, intelligence, and character are more
important than the size of his penis, and his sexual skills have more to do with bringing a woman
to orgasm than his penis size. After all, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean,
right? However, what women say isn't always how they instinctively feel. Why do some women
like a big penis?
A big penis has always been seen as a symbol of manliness. (A common way to disparage a man
is to insinuate that he is under-endowed.) When a man with a bigger penis is erect, he is seen as
a more powerful and stronger man in the eyes of women and is, therefore, perceived in our minds
as potentially a better lover. Women also tend to think that a larger penis is more attractive than a
smaller one due to its being more visible in comparison to rest of the body.
The truth of the matter is that some women don't so much like a big penis as they dislike a small
one. A small penis isn't visually stimulating and doesn't get you excited about the lovemaking to
come. Also, many women complain that a small, slender penis doesn't "fill them up," or, even
worse, that they can't feel anything when the man is inside them.
On the other hand, a big penis does give that "full" feeling that women desire. During foreplay,
there is something exciting and fascinating about being able to wrap both hands around a
throbbing, pulsating, and continually expanding piece of male flesh. Large men also have the
advantage when doing it doggy style or in a scissors fashion. Length is necessary in several
sexual positions where the distance between them and the depths of a woman’s vagina is
expansive.
Actually, most women who desire a well-endowed lover are not looking for length as much as
girth. Women tend to want a penis that is very thick (at least six inches around), heavy, and rock
hard more than they are concerned with length. The ideal penis is one which is thick enough to
stretch a woman's vaginal opening and which can be felt inside her body each time she has sex.
An extremely thick penis creates more friction against the vaginal walls and also can stimulate a
woman's clitoris better, which helps her to achieve orgasm.
A big penis, however, is not a panacea for sexual dissatisfaction. In fact, an ignorant, selfish man
with a big penis is liable to cause a woman a lot more pain than pleasure during intercourse. On
the other hand, a big penis wielded by a skillful lover can take a woman to undreamed of heights
of sexual pleasure and fulfillment. That's why some women like a big penis.
What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

Monday, June 29, 2009 by Svetlana Ivanova · 8 comments
Labels: big penis, cervix, female sexuality, G-spot, large penis, long penis, penis size, thick penis
My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about
their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very
long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt
because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you
too much. Since I'm among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I'll
explain why I do.
It's been said that the brain is the body's largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a
sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential
pleasures of feeling "full, " which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The
"vaginal ache," a desire to be "filled up" that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied
by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a
big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.
So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and "filled" with a big
penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That "good" feeling comes from the friction of the penis
rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my
vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse
can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned
on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.
Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her
vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat
against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too "bony," women
often enjoy the feeling of having that penis "beat" against the back walls of their vagina. However,
some women don't like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.
I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but "cervical sex" is only
really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be
completely devoured by the man I'm with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking
on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.
Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a
thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is
because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in
their vagina. Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to
capacity. In addition, since it's able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick
penis is more likely to stimulate the G-spot.
Does my preference for a big penis mean that I'll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No,
the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of
sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides,
certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is
both a masterful lover and well-hung... ooh la la!
How to Have Anal Sex with a Big Penis

Labels: anal sex, big penis, first-time anal sex, penis size
Can a penis be too big for anal sex? Probably not, though size does matter. However, a big penis
doesn't have to be a deal breaker. With proper preparation, enough lubrication, the right position,
and relaxation techniques, having anal sex with a big penis can be comfortable and pleasurable.
1) Preparation. One way to prepare yourself for anal sex with a big penis is butt plugs. Get one
butt plug as large as the diameter of your partner's penis and one or two smaller ones. Use the
smaller ones as "trainers," if necessary, and work up to being able to insert the largest one. You
can wear a butt plug during the day to prepare for anal sex that evening, or wait to insert it prior to
foreplay. If you wear it while having vaginal sex, he will love how tight it makes your vagina feel.
Once you're able to insert and wear the large butt plug, penetration with his penis should then be
fairly comfortable.
2) Lubrication. Since the anal region is not self-lubricating, lubricants are essential to reduce
friction and discomfort during anal sex, and even more so with a big penis. A good choice for anal
sex is Astroglide, a super-smooth, long-lasting lubricant that can be found at many neighborhood
pharmacies. Use as much lube as possible. You really can’t use too much.
3) Position. Though doggy-style may be the most popular anal sex position, it’s not necessarily
the best one if your partner has a big penis. Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom)
allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. Another good position
is side anal or "spooning." The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear.
The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.
4) Relaxation. If you have pain when his penis is inserted, have your partner stop, but not pull out.
He should just hold his position while you take several slow, deep breaths and relax the anal
muscles. Pushing out (as you would for a bowel movement) will help to open those muscles and
allow them relax against the penis. The pain should subside though you may still might feel some
discomfort from having something pushing into you and being stretched open. Try to stay relaxed
as he continues to push his penis in further. Any time it hurts, have your partner stop while you
take slow, deep breaths, push out, and relax until the pain subsides.
If the man exercises patience and control, most women will be able to accommodate any size
penis using the above techniques. The incredible sensations of fullness for a woman and
tightness for the man make anal sex with a big penis worth the extra time and effort.
What to Do If Your Man's Penis Is Too Big

Labels: big penis, large penis, personal lubricants, sex lubricants, sex positions
For a woman, a big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. However, many women
find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis
can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it's
stretching you too much. Below are three suggestions for dealing with both size issues.
1) Extended foreplay
As part of female sexual response, arousal brings with it physical changes that help deal with a
bigger penis. The vagina can expand by up to 200 percent during sex, so size is seldom an issue
unless a woman isn’t fully aroused. To accommodate an erect penis comfortably, some women
need up to 20 minutes of stimulation. If you’re used to intercourse with a partner who has a small
or medium-sized penis, you may have been able to comfortably have intercourse before you were
fully turned on. If your partner is bigger, you may need to wait until you’re very aroused before
moving to penetration. Also, anticipating discomfort causes your muscles, including your vaginal
muscles, to tense up, making penetration more difficult. If he gives you a long, sensual massage
before intercourse, it will help to relax your muscles and also turn you on.
2) Add lubricant
If you don't already use lubricant during vaginal intercourse, now is the time to start. There are
dozens of different brands of lube, and they all make sex more comfortable by making it more
slippery. Some women say they don’t need additonal lube because they lubricate a lot on their
own. However, if you’re having intercourse with someone with a big penis, using extra lubricant is
always recommended. Experiment with a few different kinds to see if a thicker or thinner lube is
best for you, and, if you’re prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin. Don't forget
that lubrication can come and go, so be sure to keep adding the slippery stuff as needed.
3) Sex positions
Sex positions are another way to deal with discomfort due to a partner who has a large penis.
The best sex position will be one that allows you control over the depth and angle of penetration
and offers as much movement as possible. Avoid positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g.,
rear entry) and favor positions that give you more control.
The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of
penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and crouch over him on your hands and knees while
sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only taking
as much of his penis as you can handle. Another position you can try is to have him sit on a chair
with no arms. Then straddle his lap, facing either toward him or away from him, and use your feet
and thigh muscles to pump away. If you do use a position that allows deep penetration, such as
rear entry (doggy style) or man-on-top (missionary), remember that the farther apart your legs
are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from
plunging in too deep, it can also make for some amazing clitoral/penile friction.
During sex, tell him how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels good. This doesn't mean
carrying on a full conversation while having sex; simple words, such as "deeper" or "not so deep,"
"gently" or "harder," "faster" or "slower,"are usually enough to get the point across and make sex
more enjoyable for both of you.
How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis

Friday, June 12, 2009 by Svetlana Ivanova · 0 comments
Labels: deep throat big penis, deep throat long penis, deep throat techniques, eep throat, fellatrix
So, you've learned to deep throat a penis, and maybe even mastered some advanced
techniques. You consider yourself quite the deep throat queen. Then you meet a new man, one
thing leads to another, and you wind up in bed together. Once the boxers come off, you can't help
but notice something about your new lover: he has a long penis - a really long penis. It's at least
an inch or two longer than the longest penis you've ever deep throated before, and at that time
you thought you'd swallowed as much as you possibly could.
Are you going to have to abdicate your throne, and settle for being a common fellatrix? Not
necessarily. If your man is exceedingly lengthy, and you just won’t be happy until you can
swallow all of him to the root, here’s the technique you’ll need to penetrate further into the
esophagus. It's not easy for some women, but, remember that most sword swallowers can
swallow swords from about 16" to 22" (about 40 to 60 cm). You can probably learn to swallow half
that length.
When faced with this huge penis, your brain will become alarmed that this massive intruder might
go into your windpipe, so it will create a sphincter in there that closes up. How do you get around
it? Have you ever sucked air into your stomach to make a burp? You do it by opening your throat
and sucking in. That’s the technique you use to get down into your esophagus. When you feel his
penis "hit bottom" around the 7" to 9" mark (18 to 23 cm), do four things right away: (1) open your
throat and suck in; (2) swallow hard; (3) move your tongue vigorously inward; and (4) push gently.
The first few times you may have to push a little harder than you might assume you would
because you are fighting against your own brain here. Also, the first few times there will probably
be a momentary flash of a brand new sensation deep in your throat. This is caused by the
stimulation of thousands of nerves that had hitherto been unused. Your brain is rapidly trying to
sort out whether it’s pain, or heat, or what. Actually, it’s just pressure, which your brain will figure
out in a second or two.
As you gain experience, your brain will eventually recognize the signals, and you will feel only the
pleasure of the penis's surface sliding along the smooth surface of the inside of your esophagus.
Deep throating a really long penis is definitely more difficult than deep throating an average-sized
one, but certainly not impossible if you want to attempt it.
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