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By Rabbi Joshua Flug
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e. We often hear the term nivul peh used in association with using words that are
considered "curse" or "swear" words. What is the source for refraining from these
types of words?
i. These words are definitely no better than calling something instead of
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ii. Maseches Derech Eretz Rabbah states that one who is a good person but uses
inappropriate language is comparable to a nice palace that has an open sewage
pipe running through it. {}
iii. Rambam writes that Hebrew is called because there are no formal
terms in Hebrew for acts of sexuality or excrement. Rather the terms that are
used are respectful ways of describing these acts (e.g. connotes entrance,
connotes exit (. Rambam explains that these terms should not be
mentioned unnecessarily and certainly there should no formal name for them.
Therefore, when there is a need to mention these ideas, it is mentioned in a
remez. {}
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Speaking Positively
a. Having a positive outlook on life is certainly a Jewish concept. The most striking
example of this is the beracha of . The Gemara states that one must accept
death with a certain degree of simcha. The Gemara also connects this to R. Akiva's
statement . {}
i. R. Yosef D. Soloveitchik (1903-1993) asks: If we are always supposed to see
things as being for the good, why are there two different berachos? Why not
recite even for death? He explains that we are entitled to see
things as negatively at the current moment, but we must see understand that
any given event will be considered positive at some future time. Therefore,
we recite with the acknowledgment that we might not understand the
future good that will come from it. {}
b. R. Akiva's attitude that we must see everything as being for the best is expressed in a
number of stories involving R. Akiva and his colleagues:
i. The Gemara relates that when R. Eliezer was ill, his students came to visit him
and when they saw him suffering, they started to cry. R. Akiva was smiling
and explained that until now he was nervous that R. Eliezer had such a good
life and that he would lose some of his reward in the world to come because
he was never punished in this world. Now that he sees R. Eliezer suffering, he
is confident that he will get his full reward in the world to come. {}
ii. The Gemara also relates two stories about how R. Akiva had a positive
attitude toward the churban habayis. {}
c. When Yisro hears about the great miracles that happened to the Jewish people, he
states " ' ." {} The Gemara comments that Yisro's statement
makes Moshe Rabbeinu and the Jewish people look bad because they never said
"Baruch HaShem." {}
i. The obvious question is: Why did the Gemara ignore the shirah as a recitation
of Baruch HaShem?
d. R. Chaim Ya'akov Goldvicht (1924-1995) writes that there is a difference between
shirah and hoda'ah. [Click here to access entire piece.] Speech is the bridge between
the physical body and the soul. Just as animals don't speak, our physical essence
doesn't have the ability to speak without introducing some of spiritual (or intellectual)
essence. {} When the Jewish people sang shirah, it was a total spiritual experience.
Their expression was guided totally by their spiritual experience. Yet, hoda'ah is an
expression of gratitude by giving of oneself, by admitting that one is not worthy to
receive those blessings and thanking God for them. It is an elevation of the
physicality to a higher level. The Gemara's comments that Yisro was the first to say
' was a comments that while the Jewish people were able to reach great spiritual
heights in praising God for the miracles, they still didn't elevate their physical beings
to recognize the good in daily life. {}
i. People who constantly express gratitude to God for their wellbeing are
generally more positive people.
e. There is a recent article in Time Magazine on how optimism can actually contribute
to longevity.
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