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Introduction
Sexual fantasies or daydreams can range from brief thoughts or images to stories with
detailed plotlines. They may deal with actual past experiences, purely imagined
experiences, or a mixture of both (Leitenberg & Henning, 1995). A rape fantasy may be a
mental imagining (a sexual fantasy) about rape, a fictional story about a rape, or an acted
out scene of pretend rape between consenting adults. As Hazen (1983) articulated,” It
does not seen normal that a person should want to imagine rape. The true mystery is why
anyone does’ (p.23).Because real-world rape is a violent crime, the choice of rape as a
subject for fantasy is very disturbing to some people. In contrast, fantasies of forced sex
are often exciting, pleasurable, and sexually arousing (Kanin, 1982).Although women’s
rape fantasies have been a subject of formal study since the 1940s, they are not well
understood. For example, the existence of these fantasies, along with the belief that
fantasies often operate in the terms of wish fulfillment, allows a possible interpretation
that, at some level, women may want to be raped (Deutsch, 1944; Maslow, 1942).
Although many researchers have argued against such an interpretation, their positions
have not been entirely convicting, largely because of gaps, ambiguities, or other
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weaknesses in the explanations given. One of reason why these fantasies may have been
Rape fantasies contain three key elements: force, sex, and nonconsent. Individuals expert
control over the contents of their own fantasies involve sexual activities that take place
consistent with the will and desire of the fantasize, even though these activities are
against the will of her self-character in the fantasy. From the point of view of the self-
character, there is nonconsent, and these are fantasies. From the viewpoint of the
fantasizer, an implicit consent has been given and these fantasies might be viewed as
As awareness of rape as a social problem and depictions of rape in the popular culture
have increased over the past 40 years (Bevacqua, 2000), it is possible that this has
affected the prevalence of rape fantasies. Claims have been made within the academic
and popular cultures that rape fantasies reflect personal and societal pathology (e.g.
Brownmiler, 1975) .Sentiments such as these suggest that many women may be ashamed
of having rape fantasies. For example, research ( Gold, Balzano, & Stamey 1991) has
found that woman who wrote fantasies of forced sex also rated themselves as more
frightened, guilty, and disgusted after writing the fantasy than did women who did not
write about forced sex. Strassberg and Lorckerd (1998) found that 55% of females have
had rape fantasies, and these females estimated that their rape fantasies occurred an
average of three times a month with a median of once a month. Shulman and Horne
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(2006), in an Internet survey, reported that 10 % of women have rape fantasies that occur
once a month or more. Two studies (Person, Terestman, Myers, Goldberg &
who have had rape fantasies within the last 3 months s 20% and 22%.
Kanin (1982) stated that some women have rape fantasies that are exclusively sexual and
erotic, while other women have rape fantasies that are exclusively fearful and exclusively
According to Kanin, erotic rape fantasies contain low to moderate levels of fear with no
dominant and attractive male who is overcome with desire for her, she feels or express
nonconsent and present minimal resistance, he overpowers her and takes her sexually.
Kanin made the interpretation that these were not true rape fantasies, that the described
Participants themselves characterized these as rape situations, however and the self –
character in these fantasies showed nonconsent. As no evidence was presented that the
self-character’s non-consent was insincere, the label of “seduction” does not seem
justified. Certainly, in actual rapes minimal resistance and female sexual arousal do
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sometimes occur (Duddle, 1991: Johnson, 1985) and their occurrence would not render
Aversive rape fantasies come closer to representing realistic rape. In these fantasies, the
male is more likely to be older, unattractive, and stranger. These fantasies contain
coercive and painful violence, and little or no sexual arousal. A typical scenario for an
aversive fantasy would consist of an assailant “grabbing, throwing to the ground, ripping
off clothing while the victim is fighting to keep the aggressor from achieving penetration”
(Kanin, 1982, p.117). Kanin found that women with aversive rape fantasies were more
apprehensive about actual rape and more likely to have dreams to rape than were other
women. The more aversive rape fantasies may operate as attempts to deal with the fear of
actual rape by gaining some sense of control over rape situations and rehearsing how one
might deal with actual rape (Gold &Clegg, 1990: Gold, et al.; 1991).
Kanin (1982) found that 29% of his subjects reported having aversive rape fantasies. No
other studies have classified rape fantasies in this way, and his methods were unique and
Researchers and clinicians have created a number of theories for explaining rape fantasies
at the same time, it is clear that some of these theories are incompatible with one another,
and some stand on stronger ground than do others. An acceptable explanation should
address the three defining features of erotic rape fantasy: sex, use of force to obtain sex
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Masochism
Deutsch (1944), which states that rape fantasies are an expression of women’s innate
masochism, i.e., their unconscious desire for suffering and pain. Deutsch speculated that,
because girls are physically weaker and more in need of protection than are boys,
movements toward independence from the parents and expression of natural aggressive
impulses are more strongly inhibited in girls than they are in boys. To help induce this
renunciation of independence and aggression , parents offer their daughters the reward of
being loved and care for: “ In this renunciation the aggressive forces that are not actively
pent must find an outlet, and they do this by endowing the passive state of being loved
The empirical evidence does not support masochism as a general explanation of rape
determine if, in the fantasy, women appeared to be deriving sexual pleasure from the pain
and suffering of rape, and he found no evidence for masochism. Most women, over 99 %
by one assessment ( Layman, Gagnon, Micheal & Michaels,1994),clearly state that they
do want oto be raped in reality, and considerable evidence supports the demonstrated fact
that they would be repulsed and traumatized by actual rape (Bond & Mosher,1986; Gold
et al., 1991; Resnick & Acierno,1997; Wilson,1987).Some research (Gosselin, Wilson &
Barret, 1991) indicates that women who engage in masochistic sex are more likely than
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Sexual Blame Avoidance
It has been well documented that, across nearly all cultures, female sexuality has been
actively suppressed (Allgeier & Allgeier, 2000; Baumeister & Twenge, 2002, Bronmiller,
1975).Researchers have inferred from this theory is women who are raised in sexually
repressive environments, women who are high in sex guilt, and women who have
negative attitudes toward sexual stimuli would be more likely than other women to
engage in rape fantasies. Some studies have found that rape fantasies were more likely in
women with high sex guilt ( Moreault & Follingstad,1978 ) and in women who were
reared in sexually repressive families ( Hariton & Singer,1974) ,Thus studies that have
provided the most direct tests of he sexual blame avoidance theory, taken as a whole, do
not support it as a general explanation foe rape fantasies. Other research on rape fantasy
and personality suggests that sexual blame avoidance may be applicable for some
women. Hariton and Singer (1974), in a community sample of married women, found
that having rape fantasies during intercourse correlated with marital contentment and
erotic arousal leading to orgasm. Overall, the evidence for the sexual blame avoidance
theory is not strong, but it would be premature to conclude that this theory is not helpful
for understanding rape fantasies. Based on Hariton’s (1976) analysis, it is possible that
blame avoidance will have validity for women who use rape fantasies often. But her
research also suggests that if the level of sexual repression is too high, there may be
shutdown of all sexual fantasies during intercourse. Thus individuals with high sex guilt
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may show a higher proportion of rape to non rape sexual fantasies than those who are low
in sex guilt.
In direct contrast to sexual blame avoidance is the openness to sexual experience theory.
Instead of being driven by repressed sexuality, this theory states that rape fantasies may
just be part of a woman’s generally open and accepting attitude toward sex ( Gold
interpreted this to mean that as women have more sexual experiences, their diversity of
fantasies also increases, including rape fantasies. The connection between experience and
fantasy has not yet been elaborated on in this theory. The authors concluded that rape
fantasies seem to be “just one more expression of a generally open, positive, unrestrictive
and relatively guilt –free expression of one’s sexuality” (p.413).The openness theory
avoids and thus fails to explain the most central, paradoxical aspects of rape fantstasy.
Desirability
The essential idea here is that the rape fantasy portrays the woman as so attractive,
seductive, and desirable that the man loses control breaking core expectations of civil
decency in order to have her (Hariton,1973; Heiman et.al., 1976: Kanin1982; Knafo &
Jaffee, 1984).In this way the rape becomes a testament to her sexual power.Kanin (1982)
suggests that such a fantasy not only enhances the female’s self-esteem, but also
generates excitement as she feels the extent of the man’s desire.Women often mention
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& McBride,2004 ).Strass Berg and Lockerd ( 1998) found the folwwing themes to be
simililar in prevalence to rape fantasies : “ I imagine myself delighting many men,: and “
I pretend tat Iam another irresistibility sexy female,” Desirability theory could be tested
by deterring whether women who have rape fantasies are also more likely than other
Brownmiller (1975) argued that woman’s rape fantasies are a pathological manifestation
of male0dominated culture. She maintained that, “the rape fantasy exists in women as
observed that American culture is saturated with fantasies of men as the conquering
sexual hero and sexual aggressor, while women’s attractiveness to men is predicated on
showing vulnerability and playing the victim. She argued that, as women have not been
given the opportunity to explore and create their own sexual fantasies the fantasies they
do have are a product of male conditioning. In her view, rape fantasies are a pitiful effort
on the part of young girls…..to find their sexuality within the context of male (desires)’
- 20 % of men also have fantasies of being forced into sex ( Hunt,1974:Person et al.,
consistent with the view of a monolithic male culture that forces ideas of rape into
women.
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In contrast to Brownmiller’s cultural explanation for women’s rape fantasies, this theory
suggests that underlying biological factors play a role in the attractiveness of rape as a
fantasy theme for women. Helen Fisher (1999) suggests that females may have a natural
desire to surrender to a selected, dominant male. Fisher maintains, however, that the
Sympathetic Activation
Recent work on the physiology of sexual arousal suggest that the interaction of both
( Motofei & Rowland, 2005).Palace and Gorzalka (1990) state that anxiety may enhance
sexual arousal though the direct instigation of sympathetic activation (i.e., increased
blood pressure, heart rate, respiration, and muscle tension), which prepares the way for
genital arousal and vaginal lubrication. As previously discussed (Kanin, 1982) during
erotic rape fantasies women typically envision an attractive male overcome with passion
that uses mild to moderate force to overcome her nonconsent.The level of violence used
is typically inimal, resulting in little pain. During the fantasy the woman may experience
some anticipation anxiety, fear, tension, and anger, along with images of strolling against
the assailant. In addition this fantasy is often experienced as part of consensual sex with a
would be expected to increase sexual arousal and to increase sexual attraction to an actual
partner. In other words, this theory provides a physiological basis for understanding how
rape fantasies can enhance sexual experience. In the case of aversive rape fantasies, the
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presence of an unattractive fantasy rapist and the level of violence employed may
Adversary Transformation.
In essence both romance novels and rape fantasies are created works of fiction. Sexual
fantasies are self-generated erotic intentionally initiated to provide enjoyment and sexual
arousal. Romance novels are structed erotic fantasies that individuals intentionally expose
themselves to ,typically for emotional satisfaction and sexual arousal. In a rape fantasy
women create an imaginary scenario and they participant in the fantasy through the rape
experience of their self-character. In a romance novel that includes rape, women identify
with the lead female character and vicariously experience rape. Hazen (1983) notes that,
although the hero in romance novels must be handsome, he may also be cruel. Gorry
(1999) in a content analysis of male romance heroes found that these men are strong,
masculine, muscular, sexually bold, and dangerous. According to Slamon and Symons
(2003), romance heroes are not gentle and sensitive; they are men with the physical and
temperamental qualities of warriors. In sexual fantasies, both consensual and forced, men
typically see themselves as doers and women see themselves as the ones to whom sexual
acts are done ( Ellis & Symons, 1990; Leitenberg & Henning, 1995 ).
Conclusion
Current research indicates that from 31 % to 57 % of woman have had rape fantasies
with from 9 % to 17 % reporting that rape fantasies are either a frequent occurrence or
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favorite fantasy. Because rape fantasies are perceived as socially unacceptable or
potentially embracing, these are most likely underestimates. Although rape fantasies are
not most prevalent or most frequent sexual fantasies, they are among the most popular,
and they plan a major role in the fantasy lives of one or two women in 10.Current
theories of rape fantasy represent researchers’ best attempts at answering the question of
why many women would want to engage in erotic rape fantasies. Eight major theories
have been identified. Six of the theories are psychosocial in nature, and biological
predisposition could be classified with these six, as its main implications are behavioral.
sense, sympathetic activation does not compete with the other seven theories, and it could
physiological grounding for its psychosocial effect. The remaining seven theories
potentially compete with one another, but some theories overlap or show compatibilities
such that they could be combined into broader. Other theories appear to be logically
inconsistent with each other, such that support for one would tend to disconfirm the other.
avoidance and openness, and male rape culture and biological predisposition. At the same
time, incompatible theories may identify separate, valid, but competing influences on
rape fantasies. To the extent that one of these components makes a greater contribution to
rape fantasies, the other components would have less of the phenomenon left to explain,
Sexual blame avoidance is not supported as a general explanation, but it may apply
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to women who have rape fantasies with high frequency. Openness appears to describe
women who report having occasional rape fantasies, but, by itself, it is deficient in
explaining why they have these fantasies. although male rape culture generally is not
and women as vulnerable sex objects may influence the pervasive media depictions of
males as conquering heroes and women as vulnerable sex objects may influence the
but the details of this position have not yet been elaborated, and this theory has not been
explanation for the biological basis on which a fantasy about an aversive event, such as
rape, can lead to heightened sexual arousal and possible increased attraction to an actual
partner. Adversary transformation however has not been tested empirically .An
transformation should be explored. These theories are not only mutually compatible, but
they also seem to fit together and complement one another, despite being developed in
widely different contexts. Biological theory sets the stage by identifying ritualistic
displays of male dominance and female surrender as important parts of the courtship
ritual in many species. The display of male dominance may function as a way for females
to assess genetic quality and the ability to protect. Sympathetic activation provides the
physiological basis for understanding how fantasies that generate feelings of fear and
anger may enhance sexual arousal. Adversary tarn formation suggests that in rape
fantasies, the idea of rape, because of women’s inherent fear of actual rape, functions as a
powerful means for producing the danger and excitement that gives the fantasy sexual
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and emotional impact. Future research should explore the generalizability of prevalence
variables such as gender of assailant. Future research also should focus on samples from
cultures that are both more andocentric and more egalitarian than that of the United
States, as these will provide valuable evidence as to the relative biological and cultural
I think that the most important part of desiring this type of fantasy is completely trusting
your lover that he wouldn't hurt you. According to Kanin (1982) fantasies of forced sex
are often exciting, pleasurable and sexually arousing. On the other hand, a healthy fantasy
about rape would only be with someone you trust and admire. I think this fantasy is an
extreme form of the man's role in a sexual relationship. The ultimate form of "taking
control”. I think that based from a rational psychology, it can be a very erotic form of
experience his passion (and/or love) as a physical force. For example, think of the
common picture of a woman who is standing, leaning perhaps, back onto a car; the man
is facing her. It's as if he's backing her into the wall of the car. To be the lady there, with
the right man! Note that when this works, it's because the woman is safe in every way:
the man knows and respects her limits. Oftentimes, that doesn't need to be communicated
verbally. Meanwhile for some who have actually been sexually abused, rape fantasy may
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be a way to heal past wounds by exploring in a safe environment with a sense of control.
Infact most woman , over 99 % by one assessment ( Laumann, Gagnon, Michael &
Michaels, 1994) cleary state that they do not want to be raped in reality, and considerable
evidence supports the demonstrated fact that they would be repulsed and traumatized by
Beside that rape fantasies occur in both the male and female sexual fantasy realms, and
their contents range from unwilling seduction to violent, forceful sex but these fantasies
are not rexperiences of past adult sexual aggression ( Gold et.al;1991, Gold & Clegg,
1990; Kanin, 1982). It should not, however, be assumed that a rape fantasy is a wish to
actually engage in the act in reality." It can also represent an outlet for sexually
submissive men and women, and also sexual dominants can imagine themselves as
having sexual control or power without actually committing an illegal or immoral act.
Many people assume that people aroused by rape fantasies must be more likely than
others to commit the actual act, or that victims with rape fantasies actually want to
become victims of sexual assault. This does not correspond with observed scientific
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