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/ FORGIVENESS
HOLISTIC NURSING / March 2001
Forgiveness
A Concept Analysis
This article provides an operational definition of forgiveness as a first step in the sys-
tematic analysis of the concept. Using the method described by Walker and Avant
(1995), the authors identify the attributes and characteristics of forgiveness and its
theoretical and practical implications for nursing. Sample cases from clinical practice
help illustrate the concept further. Further nursing research needs to test the theoreti-
cal relationships between forgiveness and nursing practice outcomes.
“only the offending party can set the wrong aright and only the
offended party can forego the debt of sin” (Blumenthal, 1998, p. 78).
Drabkin (1993) proposed that God’s ability to forgive is a reflection
of unconditional love that is guaranteed regardless of sin. Thus,
whereas forgiveness in Drabkin’s (1993) model is absolute and joyful,
the harmful event is not necessarily forgotten. As he put it, “there is no
erasing of past sins; there is only rejoicing that the sins are in fact past
and not present” (p. 235). Similar to Drabkin (1993), Jones’s (1993)
Christian account of forgiveness explores the interconnection
between acts of forgiving and the process of being forgiven. He
argued that seeking God’s forgiveness does not undo the past but
helps instead to heal “the brokenness of the past so as to enable new
and renewed community in the future” (p. 356). Thus, he maintained,
“forgiveness is a way of life rather than a simple word to assuage
guilt” (p. 357).
Twelve-step recovery programs for individuals with addictive be-
haviors incorporate both secular and spiritual approaches to facilitate
forgiveness among members. Literature published by Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA), for example, emphasizes identifying and making
reparations to persons harmed as a critical component of recovery
(Alcoholics Anonymous, 1976). As Hart (1999) noted:
The process of making amends to people one has harmed rids the self of
guilt, shame and remorse (forgiveness of self) [italics added], bitterness,
resentment and the desire for revenge (forgiveness of and by others) [ital-
ics added], and fear of God’s wrath (forgiveness by God) [italics added].
(p. 28)
OPERATIONAL DEFINITION
ANTECEDENTS
EMPIRICAL REFERENTS
CONSEQUENCES
MODEL CASE
Walker and Avant (1995) advised using cases to exemplify the con-
ceptual meaning of various phenomena. The model case provides a
clear example of the concept that includes all of the antecedents and
critical attributes of the concept. Created in the form of a scenario, the
model case must be an absolute, paradigmatic, and real-life portrayal
of the concept (Walker & Avant, 1995).
the help of the Alcoholics Anonymous program when Brian was in his
late teens. Since then, he has attempted to make amends to Brian and
other family members. All of his efforts have been spurned, however,
with Brian emphatically stating that his father’s efforts are “too little,
too late.” He punishes his father by refusing to have contact with him.
Brian has abstained from drugs and alcohol throughout his life, deter-
mined not to repeat the past and to be like his “lousy father.” Despite his
efforts, he is frequently rageful, emotionally unavailable, and unable to
sustain intimate relationships. Until beginning couples therapy, Brian
blamed all his life’s troubles on his father. Although Brian has found
therapy to be very difficult, he has stuck with it and has begun to realize
that he must change his behavior to preserve his marriage. He now is
able to acknowledge that his father is not the cause of all of his current
problems. Brian has developed a willingness to change, not only to
save his marriage but also because he has begun to realize the toxic ef-
fects of his unwillingness to relinquish the past. He now is more aware
of the past’s effect on his present life and is willing to work through past
traumas and redirect his energies toward a positive future. Recently,
Brian allowed his father to visit him and his family. He no longer expe-
riences a desire to punish his father and is open to the idea of relinquish-
ing past resentments.
BORDERLINE CASE
Borderline cases contain some but not all of the critical attributes of
the concept (Walker & Avant, 1995). These cases are inconsistent with
the concept such that they provide an example of attributes that the
concept does not possess.
were like when they were active in addiction. He cannot imagine him-
self standing at the podium and relating the events of his past, yet he
sees that the people who do so seem happy and secure in their recovery.
Dom does not know if the day will come when he will share his past
with others in the NA program, but he has agreed with his sponsor to
adhere to the program admonition to “just keep coming.”
RELATED CASE
The related case does not contain the critical attributes of the concept
but may reflect similar ideas (Walker & Avant, 1995). Thus, it is con-
nected in some way to the main concept but differs from it when ex-
amined closely.
Cheryl is a 35-year-old unemployed office worker. She lives with her el-
derly parents and spends most of her days watching television and eat-
ing. She is 5 feet, 4 inches and weighs 250 pounds. Cheryl’s blood pres-
sure has recently been elevated such that she was prescribed an
antihypertensive medication. She does not take the medication regu-
larly because she reports an inability to remember to take it. When
Cheryl was between the ages of 10 and 11, her parish priest sexually
molested her. Cheryl eventually told her parents about the abuse.
When they reported this to the pastor of the church, he rebuked them
for spreading false rumors about a man of God. However, shortly after
this conversation, the priest was transferred to another parish. No fur-
ther mention was made of the incident, and Cheryl’s parents hoped it
would be forgotten. When Cheryl recalls the events of the molestation
she is filled with feelings of remorse, guilt, and disgust. Recently, old
classmates approached her to reveal that they too had been molested by
the priest and were in the process of filing criminal charges against him
and also bringing civil suit against the diocese for ignoring the problem
for so long. Cheryl is thrilled with the idea of the priest being brought to
justice and hopes that he is sentenced to jail for a very long time. She is
happy too that the diocese is being held accountable for its dereliction
of duty and hopes to see the case succeed in court. In talking with her
classmates, Cheryl is beginning to learn that many have suffered from
long-term effects of the abuse. Several of her classmates struggle with
addictions, failed relationships, and employment issues. Hearing these
Brush et al. / FORGIVENESS 37
stories, Cheryl has begun to wonder if the abuse she endured in the past
has had an effect on her life. For the first time in many years, Cheryl ex-
periences a glimmer of hope that her life could extend beyond the con-
fines of the television set and refrigerator.
CONTRARY CASE
Mary has recently discovered that her husband of 10 years has engaged
in yet another extramarital affair. Joe’s cheating has been a chronic
problem throughout the course of their marriage. Each time his infidel-
ity is revealed, Joe is contrite, begs for forgiveness, and promises he will
never stray again. Mary is terrified of the prospect of divorce and can-
not envision life independent of Joe. She has dismissed her friends’ sug-
gestions that she and Joe seek marriage counseling, stating, “There is
nothing to discuss, he has admitted he was wrong and I forgive him.”
CONCLUSION
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Dr. Barbara L. Brush is an assistant professor and director of the family nurse
practitioner program at Boston College School of Nursing (BCSON). Since 1998, she
has directed the Expanded Care for Healthy Outcomes (ECHO) Project, a fac-
ulty/student practice that integrates spiritual assessment into the primary health care
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of homeless men recovering from substance addiction. This article and numerous
journal publications and book chapters highlight this work.
Eileen M. McGee, R.N., M.S.N., is a doctoral candidate at Boston College School
of Nursing and the director of Health Care Services at the Pine Street Inn, Boston. She
was also the project director of the Expanded Care for Healthy Outcomes Project.
Bonnie Cavanagh, R.N., M.S.N., is a family nurse practitioner at the Woburn
Medical Associates in Wilmington, MA. A 1998 BCSON graduate, Ms. Cavanagh
practiced as part of the ECHO project team for a year before taking her current clinical
position.
Mary Woodward, R.N., M.S.N., is a family nurse practitioner and coordinator of
program development in parish nurse ministry at St. Joseph Parish in Needham, MA.
A BCSON graduate in 1999, Ms. Woodward provides spiritual and primary care to
individuals and families across the life span.