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Purifying the Heart hakra
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The heart is the seat of emotions. This was the one organ which the Egyptians did not remove from the body during the mummification process. They removed the brain but not the heart, since they believed that it was the center of our soul. This powerful symbolism from past ages acknowledges that although we think and act with the help of our brain, it is our emotions which take control over our life. Often times we act driven purely by our emotions against all logic. t is our passions and the cries of our ego which we obey despite the consequences. With each beat of the heart, we welcome life with its joys and sorrows throughout our earthly existence.
When we are calm, out heart beats steady and rhythmically; when we are in love, or loving towards others, it feels as though our heart expands. When we are angry our heart also records our turmoil's within its fast and irregular beats. Sometimes when a person parts with a life-long partner, and dies shortly afterwards, we hear people say that this person has died of a broken heart.
When we forget to be kind to our own heart by allowing anxiety, anger and hatred to dwell in it, we not only suffer psychologically, we can also become afflicted by heart disease and heart attacks. t is the cry of the heart that lets us know that we are not living a balanced life.
Do you need to restore your heart to its original self? The heart is an intelligent organ. t registers your intentions and feelings as you utter both loving and hurtful words. Our heart is not only a part of us, it is also the vehicle that connects us with others and life as a whole. You can see that a loving, caring person with positive intentions emanates a beautiful and serene energy when you interact with that person. On the other hand, an angry and distraught person seems to carry a dark cloud not only around oneself but also contaminates others energy affecting their mood when it comes in contact with them.
Feelings and thoughts create an energy field. What we think we can feel and what we feel can be sensed by others around us who in return are affected by it. The heart chakra in itself is an energy filed that records all of our emotional experiences. When we do not live a healthy life style, when we are mentally and emotionally exhausted, our heart chakra becomes out of balance. t is the heart chakra that connects us with others on the energy level of feelings. That is why feelings seem to be contagious. When a person whose heart chakra comes in contact with another person whose heart chakra is also out of balance, each affects the energetic field of the other. One person's negativity becomes the other one's burden.
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On the other hand, when a person with a balanced and healthy chakra comes in contact with someone who is afflicted, a part of the light from the heart of the healthy person is transmitted to the heart of the other individual. However, the person receiving this light has to receive it with an open heart. Meaning, if that person dwells on negativity, anger and hatred, the gift of light will bounce right off of him. This happens because of the grace of free will that people have. That is why we cannot say that another person's words or actions are the fully responsible for how we feel. Their intent may very well have been malicious, but it is us that allowed their negativity to spread its seeds in our hearts. From that moment on, if we water these seeds with the same emotions, we give life to the negativity in us and allow it to spread its roots deeper and deeper. We become wounded and remain as such until we make changes within.
The heart chakra is what allows us to experience feelings that the physical heart alone cannot do and would remain only a muscle. The chakra allows it to become truly alive. Each time we experience positive or a negative emotions, these are registered by the heart chakra. This chakra also registers all of our emotions which we have had in the past. The chakra as an energy filed has a limitless storage capacity. f we experience negative feelings over and over for a prolonged period of time, the chakra becomes weakened. Our physical heart can also become affected and its afflictions show up as heart disease. On the emotional level, these manifest as depression. We are both physical and spiritual beings and the body is in constant communication with the energetic auric field accessible and influenced by us and others alike. Nothing is ever unregistered no matter how insignificant we may believe it is. There may be times when we are unable to explain why we feel a certain way and despite how hard we think, nothing comes to mind to let us pin point the origin of our emotions or fears.
Since the heart chakra operates on the energetic field level, it can host memories not only form this present existence, but also of our past life memories. Those feelings which we have not resolved in a past lives continue to be a burden in life today. The light or darkness within us is manifested beyond the limitations of time and space. We have the ever present opportunity to restore and utilize our light within. When our heart chakra is open, strong and luminous, we are able to experience Oneness with the universe and connect with others in a harmonious way. We are able to reach and touch others with our light through acts of compassion, love and creativity. When our heart chakra is open, we are free to receive the information that comes to us in a non judgmental way and stay grounded in the present moment. We make promises from the heart, laugh from the heart whole heartedly or say that our heart feels broken when we are afflicted by emotional pain. t is the heart chakra that gives us our intuition in relationship to our interactions with others both on the physical and on the spiritual plane of existence.
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A man covets in his heart, speaks out from his heart, and it is in his heart that he keeps his feelings of the past and the present. The heart chakra is like a bouncing ball. t attracts to itself those feelings which it sends out. This chakra assists us in expressing our self emotionally and creatively when it is open. When the chakra is closed or clogged up by negative emotions, we act out destructively to ourselves and others. When it functions without any obstructions such as negative emotions or unhealthy attachments, it helps us create things that are beneficial to others such as art, literature, music, architecture and other self expressive mediums in the physical world. On an astral level, it allows us to be compassionate, altruistic, loving and peace creating.
When energy does not flow freely within the heart chakra, one can remain stuck in a state driven by anger, fear, resentment, hatred and destructive or addictive behavior. What consumes ones existence are those things which he harbors in his heart. n order to move into an abundant life full of love and acceptance, the heart chakra needs to be purified. We must take responsibility for our feelings and then consciously and purposefully decide to take charge of our life and actions. After the decision is made, we need to initiate the purification process. First, we will have to examine and take into account what had caused us to experience such negative feelings. The self inventory can be assisted by meditation, journaling, self introspection, counseling or yoga. f we are able to identify a specific person or event in this life, we will need to work on letting go of the blame. We have to own our feelings after the fact of what so and so may have done to us. Second, we will have to send out thoughts and feelings of forgiveness to that person mentally if they are diseased or actually if they are still living. f uncomfortable with directly letting them know that they've been forgiven, these can then be directed mentally. Let go of the negativity completely. This means that after you've decided to forgive, any time memories flood your mind of the past wrongs, you do not experience negative emotions all over again. You can mentally experience the events in the form of memories but without labeling or attaching negative feelings. When you catch yourself ruminating over the past consciously strive to send out thoughts of loving kindness and understand that experiences are lessons of the heart and nothing more. We must not become attached to our feelings but rather stay objective and acknowledge that everything in life is a passing phenomenon from our anger to our laughter including to the beating of our heart.
When we purify our heart chakra and welcome others in, we are in return ready to receive their gifts of love, peace, and mutual understanding. The expression "two hearts beating as one refers to the synchronistic life that we share with others. As we nourish our hearts, we extend our love to all around us.
The problems in society today comes up as a result of our over identification with our ego-self and what we perceive as ours such as children, family, community, heritage, and earthly possessions. The heart is like a vessel. n it, we collect feelings as well as pour our feelings out. When the heart chakra itself is blocked, this exchange becomes hundred. The more the chakra is blocked, the more difficulty we have in expressing ourselves in a healthy way. Just like muddy waters have a residue on the bottom; our heart chakra is tarnished by anger, resentment, hatred, fear and envy.
The emotions of our heart can lift us to the highest grounds and plunge us into the lowest depts. When our hart chakra is open it carries us on its wings to ecstasy and liberation. When it is blocked, it drops our psyche to the darkest self made purgatory. The heart is our doorway to the higher self and to others. t assists us on our journey in the physical world as well as the emotional one. How do you purify and heal a wounded heart? How do you pick up where you have left off? One step at a time, filling oneself with awareness and purposeful intent to forgive, accept, learn and just continue to move on and share your gifts with others. The more you give out of yourself lovingly, the more space you open to receive love. f you open your heart chakra but do not follow through with acts of kindness towards other sentient beings, the more you remain emotionally empty and psychologically stuck. Take a moment to reflect from the bottom of your heart on how you can allow the purification of your heart chakra to begin starting today. What are you willing to give up in the process? What are you willing to do in return?
What has prevented you thus far from giving a clear voice to your heart? t is not uncommon for us to become entangled in the dramas of our mind with which we are bombarded constantly. Then it is easier to start to find less and less time and willingness to listen to the desires of our heart. t is easier to become angry or hateful because often those feelings are in reaction to the outside influence in our life. t seems like it takes more on our part to forgive and love. At times our heart feels empty. You may wonder why? Because we have missed to fill it up with those feelings which are fulfilling on an emotional and spiritual level.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR Dr. Rossi Davis is a Licensed ounselor and ertified Hypnotherapist. She's the author of: Couple's Communication Made Easy, My Kid is acting out and I am about to shout: Effective Parenting Made Easy, & Guru in Jeans: Inward Journey to Psychospiritual Awakening and Curly & Grandpa and other titles. Rossi was a story contributor (pages 85-86) to Spot of Grace (paperback, 2008) by Dawna Markova, co-creator of Random Acts of Kindness. Dr. Davis is a native of Eastern Europe and immigrated to the USA as a political refugee in the early 90's. www.rossidavis.com