The Gippsland Anglican is your award winning newspaper: Best Regional Publication Silver Award (ARPA) 2010; Item or Feature that shows the most originality Highly Commended (ARPA) 2010; Best Social Justice Story Highly Commended (ARPA) 2004; Best Regional Publication (ARPA) 2003; Most Improved Newspaper (ARPA) 2001. Bullying - where is youth responsibility? page 4 MU contemplates social responsibility Page 3 Surf movie focuses on youth and faith page 5 Maffra appointment returning to Gippsland By Jeanette Severs MAFFRA parish recently announced the appointment of Reverend Graham Knott as the new priest in charge. Graham and his wife, June, are currently in Watford, United Kingdom, having taken up that post in 2009 after serving in Croajingolong parish. Graham and June returned to Gippsland earlier this year for the ordination of Kathy Dalton and Phyllis Andy as priests and spent some time renewing friendships. They said at the time they would like an opportunity to return to Gippsland, having many fond memories of their time here. When Graham and June were leaving Croajingolong, in early 2009, they reflected on the people they knew and work they had been involved in, in Mallacoota and Cann River (The Gippsland Anglican, March 2009). Then, as now, they believed the hand of God had influenced their journey in ministry. This journey began when Graham was a young child, moving from England to Australia at three years old, with his family. At 18, he left Australia for a year in England, but did not return for 30 years. Travelling in Australia in 1994 and then 2002, the couple believed Australia was the place for them. Initial attempts to move their entire family to Australia was not possible. In 2002, while on holiday, June and Graham drove through Genoa and June said: Do you know, I could live here. A year later, in England, Graham met Brian Roberts, the then National Director of Bush Church Aid. To cut a long story short, Graham expressed interest in the role in Croajingolong parish and in 2006, the couple moved to Mallacoota. This brought to a close 10 years of working in ministry in a coal mining town of 100,000 people in the Midlands, England. In Croajingolong parish, Graham and June brought together the con- gregation to identify their gifts and looked at ways of planting the church in the community. This included developing Christmas Angels which were scattered throughout the locality for locals and the thousands of tourists. Other developments included encouraging visits from Lakes Entrance parish and BCA nomads helping with maintenance to sup- port the local peoples faith. At the beginning of 2009, Graham and June were called to serve in Watford, a town of 80,000 people. They left Australia and Gippsland with heavy hearts but believing they were going where God wanted them to be. That process has now brought them back to Australia and they arrive in Maffra in late October, to be ready for Grahams induction on November 2. The pace of life and the scale of everything in Watford is very dif- ferent to Maffra where we are looking forward to living and serving, Graham said recently. Watford is a large, noisy town full of activity and crowds every hour of the day and night. It can easily be a lonely and isolating experience for people, especially those from another country. Weve only driven through Maffra in the past but we get the sense this is a very special place where Christians are working to share in mission together. There is also something very special about being part of a com- munity where people belong, speak with and care about and for each other. We had a great time serving for a few years in Croajingolong. We think the Diocese of Gippsland is a great place and family to be part of and look forward to not having to drive quite so far to get to things that are happening. It will be great to meet up again with lots of our friends, meet the people of Maffra and celebrate the beginning of the next stage of the journey together, Graham said. The Gippsland Anglican wins awards for excellence EDITOR of The Gippsland Anglican, Jeanette Severs, was recently pleased to receive a silver award and a highly com- mended award for the newspaper. At the recent Australasian Religious Press Awards, Jeanette accepted the Silver Award for Best Regional Publication. The judges commented on the strong focus on local community within the newspaper and the sensitive editing of a wide range of contri- butions. Jeanette was especially pleased with these comments. She has been the editor of The Gippsland Anglican since December 2006 and said her vision for the newspaper is to be the primary communication tool of the diocesan community, reaching across Gippsland and connecting Anglicans and other readers interested in the Anglican Church. The judges commented the category of Best Regional Publication was a very chal- lenging category to judge and the top three publications were very professionally pro- duced. These awards recognised those pub- lications that spoke to the person in the pew, rather than to church officialdom. Jeanette also received the Highly Commended award in the category The item or feature that shows the most origi- nality for a feature titled How will you spend Christmas? in The Gippsland Anglican of December 2010. The judge described the entry as an excellent, original way to ask the question of what con- sumerism is worth, while promoting the work of opportunity shops everywhere. The judges stated that, although this was a popular category for entries, the four publi- cations receiving awards showed original ideas that were creative and exceptional. This was the first time Jeanette has entered The Gippsland Anglican in the ARPA awards for many years and she was pleased with the acknowledgment of the newspa- pers excellence. Her role includes design- ing the newspapers layout, sourcing and writing articles, photography and editing contributions from parish correspondents, advertisers and other articles of interest. I really appreciate the contributions, par- ticularly those from parish correspondents, which help give the newspaper a local com- munity focus. The feedback I get from read- ers is they like to read about what is hap- pening across the diocese. This is balanced against articles which provide a more ana- lytical coverage of issues relevant to our local readers, Jeanette (above) said. ABOVE: June and Graham Knott are looking forward to returning to Gippsland when Graham takes up the role as priest in Maffra parish. 2 Our Diocese - Missions and Ministries October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican The Gippsland Anglican Price: 90 cents each $25 annual postal subscription Member of Australasian Religious Press Association Member of Community Newspapers Association of Victoria Registered by Australia Post. Print Post Number 34351/00018 The Gippsland Anglican is the official newspaper of and is published by The Anglican Diocese of Gippsland, 453 Raymond St, Sale, Victoria, 3853, www.gippsanglican.org.au Editor: Mrs Jeanette Severs, PO Box 928, Sale, 3850 Tel: 03 5144 2044 Fax: 03 5144 7183 Email: editor@gippsanglican.org.au Email all parish reports, all articles, photographs, letters and advertisements to the Editor. Photographs should be jpeg files. Articles should be .doc or .txt files. Advertisements should be PDF files. 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Send details, including contact name and telephone number, to the Editor by 10th of the month prior to publication. Index Awards won by TGA 1 MUs social responsibility 3 Helping youth with bullies 4 Color-in picture 5 MU AGM reports 6 Growing seeds of peace 7 Pioneer women 8, 9 Diocesan calendar 10 Support Defence Sunday 10 NATSIEC National Director 11 Same sex marriage 12 Literary and media reviews 13 Living with fear 14 Stop family violence 15 Desserts for mission 16 Tapestry at Buln Buln 16 The Right Reverend John McIntyre Anglican Bishop of Gippsland GENEROSITY is always rewarded with bless- ing. This is the principle upon which all Chris- tian giving is properly founded. I believe this principle to be grounded in a true understanding of God. God, the generous giver, is blessed by the love and praise of those who benefit from Gods generosity. Of course, it is a complete misunderstanding to see God as giv- ing only to be blessed. The opposite is true. It is because God gives generously that God is blessed. Translating that principle to our lives is sim- ple. When we are generous we find we are blessed by God in all kinds of ways, not least by the love and affirmation from those who ben- efit from our generosity. If, however, we give only to be blessed, we will be sorely disap- pointed. It is because we give generously that we are blessed. This sounds good in theory but it is in fact so little practised in our churches. It is my observation that where churches are generous towards God, each other and others, churches are blessed by God. This is an unself- conscious reality on the part of those churches. Their aim is not to be blessed. Rather, their focus is so centred on the generous God re- vealed in Jesus Christ that their lives reflect Gods generosity as a matter of course. And their lives are blessed. There is joy, love, fulfil- ment, healing and growth. So, generosity is always rewarded with bless- ing. This is the principle upon which all Chris- tian giving is properly founded. The struggle to find the financial resources necessary for ministry to flourish in the life of our parishes is becoming harder and harder. Certainly, the struggle to find the financial re- sources simply to survive in everyday life is also becoming harder. Often this becomes the rea- son we give for our lack of generosity in meet- ing the financial needs for ministry in the church. Sadly, many of our parishes currently suffer from a lack of the financial resources necessary for ministry. Are we prepared to believe this may be an indicator of our lack of generosity? Are we prepared to believe our lack of generos- ity may be an indicator that our central focus has shifted away from the generous God we see in Jesus? Often our discussions about our lack of fi- nances start with a focus on things like the di- minishing numbers in church; the increasing costs of living; the increased costs of providing for ministry and the growing dependence in ageing congregations on people with fixed and lower incomes. It is true we cannot ignore these realities. But perhaps we have financial prob- lems because we start with a focus on them. What would happen if we started instead with a focus on the generosity of God? We will never know until we try. A simple exercise will test our capacity for fi- nancial generosity, just in case we believe we are being generous when we may not be. Con- sider for a moment how much you regularly give in offering to the church. Now compare that with how much you would spend without thinking on a cup of coffee; or a piece of cake in a caf as a treat to yourself; or a newspaper; or a night out, remembering also how much the fuel costs to get you where you need to go to enjoy any of these things. Then get really seri- ous and consider how much you need to spend to buy food for a week. That is a proper and helpful focus on the realities of finances. Now ask yourself if what you offer for the ministry of Gods church is really generous. Remember, generosity is always rewarded with blessing. This is the principle upon which all Christian giving is properly founded. Blessings reward generosity If so, wed love to hear from you! ON CAMPUS COURSES ONLINE COURSES
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03 9348 74788 REVEREND Ken Peters and the Anglican Parish of Yarram have is- sued an open invitation to a Bless- ing of the Fleet, at Port Albert, on Sunday, October 16, 2011. The service begins at 11am. Bishop of Gippsland, Right Rev- erend John McIntyre, will give the blessing during a short service. The blessing of the fleet, an an- cient practice in many cultures, was revived a few hundred years ago in Sicily and has spread throughout the world. It is some years since there has been a service at Port Albert giv- ing thanks for this wonderful asset to our community and recognising those who make use of the sea in so many ways; we intend to bless them and the vessels in which they sail, said Rev. Ken. We hope boat owners will avail themselves of the opportunity to get together and accept the prayers offered for them on this occasion. We are confident this will de- velop into a fun day for those who attend and take advantage of the at- tractions of Port Albert, including the maritime museum and listen to entertainment from local band, The Unusual Suspects. Port Albert for blessing of fleet October 2011 Our Diocese - Missions and Ministries 3 The Gippsland Anglican Col, Pal & Brad Semmens FUNERAL DIRECTORS ~Servicing Gippsland~ Maffra 5147 1954 Sale 5144 1954 Heyfield 5148 3354 24 Hour Service Our Family Caring For Your Family Since 1979 Brad Pal Col PARISHIONERS from St Philips Cowes spent an enjoyable and informative evening with Tavis and Kate Beer during their recent visit to South Gippsland. The Beer family were touring South Gippsland as CMS missionaries who are soon travelling to Katherine in the Northern Territory. They were talking about their mission. It was particularly interesting to see Tavis and Kates novel demonstration of their past, present and future, using a picture of a many-fingered signpost. We will certainly watch with pleasure as they travel further along their lifes pathway following this signpost. We all came to the conclusion that what ever problems they come across in their ministry, their faith and determination will see them through, with the help of all of our prayers. Contributed by Gwen Petersen RIGHT: Tavis and Kate Beer. ABOVE: Members of St Philips Cowes will be praying for the Beer family and their ministry. Photos: Robert McKay Beers serve with CMS Social responsibility in MU is across marriage, chaplaincy and wellbeing By Bev Foster THIS year has given me opportu- nities to be informed of current is- sues through media coverage and time to appreciate newspaper arti- cles given to me by members. I tabled this report on the Social Re- sponsibility portfolio for Mothers Union at the recent annual general meeting. Marriage WE are all aware of the benefits that a stable relationship can pro- vide for children, and the commu- nity as a whole. Same sex unions have been under discussion by the government and many of our pop- ulation either support same sex marriage, believe it is inevitable or are uncaring and oblivious. Miranda Devine, Herald-Sun journalist, has written several arti- cles of interest. One cites a lesbian couple who conceived a child with donor sperm from a male homo- sexual friend. Initially a compro- mise was made, allowing the biological fathers name to be recorded on the birth certificate. He contributed to his daughters up- keep and formed a close relation- ship with her during 10 years. Now [according to the outcomes of a recent court case; Ed.] he has been deleted from the birth certifi- cate and access to see his daughter is denied. What makes it doubly sad is that the birth mother and her lesbian partner are now estranged. The fact a baby is due to the ho- mosexual partner of Senator Penny Wong at the time of the Australian Labor Partys National Conference in December, when same sex mar- riage is on the agenda, makes for an interesting coincidence. Pray for the outcome of any discussion and resulting legislation. Bullying WE can become overwhelmed as we contemplate other things, in- cluding abuse in aged care, bully- ing in all its forms, domestic violence, exploitation of children in various ways, pornography, sui- cide and the plight of asylum seek- ers and refugees. Worldwide poverty and conflict are continu- ing. These are all issues of impor- tance to Mothers Union members. After hearing a recent radio inter- view with sociologist Gail Dines, I was able to obtain, from my local library, a copy of her book: Porn- land: How porn has hijacked our sexuality. School chaplaincy CHAPLAINCY in schools is being challenged and government schools may in the future be funded for a secular welfare offi- cer. R U OK? RUOK? In closing, I mention this day on Thursday, September 15. Initiated in 2009 by Gavin Larkin, whose father took his own life, the program is designed to make us be aware of the people around us. Very often we are hesi- tant to speak when friends seem troubled whereas a concerned Are you OK? could perhaps make a difference. As MU members we are required to uphold our fourth and fifth ob- jects and this means we should be- come Aware, Informed and take Action. Information about Mothers Union and its social responsibility focus is available through the ex- ecutive committee and parishes. ABOVE: Wendy Shiel and Ethel Armstrong consider the jams for sale on the trading table, at the re- cent annual general meeting of Mothers Union. LEFT: Judy Bunting at the Moth- ers Union annual general meeting, held at St Lukes Moe. Photos: Karin McKenzie THE deadline is looming for the opportunity for every Australian to have your say on recognising Abo- riginal and Torres Strait Islander people in the Australian Constitu- tion. The Expert Panel established by the government to manage consul- tations around this history making experience will accept submissions from the public up until 5pm on September 30, 2011. The Expert Panel has been touring Australia and meeting with local communi- ties for input to the words to use. Have your say before time runs out go to http://www.youmeu- nity.org.au/have-your-say Have your say on constitution ABOVE: Mothers Union mem- bers at the trading table, at St Lukes Moe. 4 Our Diocese - Family, Youth and Childrens Ministries October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican THE Australian Human Rights Commission has announced it is partnering with the Child Health Promotion Research Centre at Edith Cowan University and com- munications specialists, Primary Communication, to develop an in- novative anti-cyber bullying cam- paign. Commission President, Catherine Branson QC, said the campaign would focus on helping young peo- ple to take safe and effective action when they witness cyber bullying. We repeatedly hear about inci- dents of cyber bullying involving young people and we know the damage it causes can last a life- time, Ms Branson said. Cyber bullying is a growing prob- lem confronting the nation with the potential for serious mental and physical impacts. The Commission is particularly excited about partnering with the Child Health Promotion Research Centre at Edith Cowan University due to its extensive expertise work- ing in the field of bullying. Ms Branson said cyber bullying was a human rights issue which could affect a young persons right to education, health and the right to be free from violence and harass- ment whether at home, school, work or anywhere else. She said the Commission wel- comed the recent release of the JointSelect Committee report on Cyber Safety Report High Wire Act: Cyber Safety and the Young which makes a range of recom- mendations to tackle cyber bully- ing and identifies the important role that bystanders can have in in- tervening safely when they witness cyber bullying. The role of the bystander, in standing up against bullying and harassment can be an incredibly important and powerful one. We know it is often young people who witness others being cyber bullied. This is why this campaign will be providing young people with the skills and resources they need to take appropriate, safe and effective action, Ms Branson said. The Child Health Promotion Re- search Centre, led by Professor Donna Cross, undertook the worlds first study into strategies being used by schools, families and students to combat the effects of cyber bullying. They also spearheaded ground- breaking research into covert bul- lying which has informed the cyber bullying elements of the revised National Safe Schools Framework. Young people are key stakehold- ers in identifying and implement- ing responses to cyber bullying. This project includes important op- portunities for young people to in- form the content, design and platform for promoting positive bystander actions. This is an inno- vative project focusing on the role of all young people in bullying sit- uations, in which we are excited to be involved, Professor Cross said. Primary Communication will provide their expertise in the field of innovative social marketing campaigns in mental health and ed- ucation. Ms Branson said the cyber bully- ing and bystander project is a pri- ority for the Australian Human Rights Commission as part of its strategy to tackle violence, harass- ment and bullying. This partnership announcement marks the beginning of what we hope will be a major force in coun- tering the adverse impacts and often irreparable damage caused by cyber bullying, Ms Branson said. Stop bullies WHAT you can do to stop bullies: Be a supportive bystander. If you are being bullied or know or see someone being bullied, it is important that you read this fact sheet to find out how to be a sup- portive bystander. If you are being bullied and need help, please con- tact a support service. A bystander is someone who sees or knows about bullying or other forms of violence that is happening to someone else. Bystanders can be either part of the bullying problem or an impor- tant part of the solution to stop bul- lying. Bystanders can act in different ways when they see or know about bullying: Some bystanders take the side of the bully by laughing at the victim, encouraging the bully or by pass- ing on text messages or messages on social media sites like Facebook and YouTube Some bystanders will give silent approval or encourage the bully by looking on Some bystanders may watch or know about the bullying but dont do anything. They may not know what to do or are scared. This group of bystanders knows that bullying is not ok. Some bystanders will be support- ive and take safe action to stop the bully, find help or support the vic- tim Supportive bystanders JUST as we have human rights we also have responsibilities to re- spect and protect the rights of oth- ers. A supportive bystander will take action to protect the rights of others. A supportive bystander will use words and/or actions that can help someone who is being bullied. If bystanders are confident to take safe and effective action to support victims, then there is a greater pos- sibility bullying can stop and the person who is bullied can recover. People respect those that stand up for others who are bullied but being a supportive bystander can be tough. Sometimes it is not easy to work out how to help safely be- cause bullying happens in different ways and places such as online, at work or school. There is no one-size-fits-all ap- proach to being a supportive by- stander. For supportive bystanders to take safe and effective action here are some suggestions: Make it clear to your friends you will not be involved in bullying be- havior. Never stand by and watch or en- courage bullying behaviour. Do not harass, tease or spread gossip about others, this includes on social networking sites like Facebook. Never forward on or respond to messages or photos that may be of- fensive or upsetting. Support the person who is being bullied to ask for help. For exam- ple, go with them to a place they Helping youth deal with bullies Get Help If you have been bullied or wit- nessed others being bullied and need help, contact: Kids Help Line (1800 55 1800) is a free and confidential, telephone counselling service for five to 25 year olds in Australia. http://www.kidshelp.com.au/ Lifeline (13 11 14) is a free and confidential service staffed by trained telephone counsellors. http://www.lifeline.org.au The Australian Human Rights Commission (1300 656 419) has a complaint handling service to in- vestigate complaints of discrimi- nation, harassment and bullying http://www.humanrights.gov.au/co mplaints_information/index.html Other useful resources Download the Cyber-safety Help Button, a free Australian Govern- ment initiative, designed to keep children and families safe online. http://www.dcbde.gov.au/helpbut- ton To find out about cyberbullying and how to get help you can also go to the Australian Communica- tions and Media Authority (ACMA) Cybersmart Program. http://www.cybersmart.gov.au/re- port.aspx National Centre Against Bullying http://www.ncab.org.au The Australian Human Rights Commission has information on cyber racism and actions that can be taken to report cyber racism. http://www.humanrights.gov.au/ra cial_discrimination/publications/c yberracism_factsheet.html Think U Know conducts internet safety programs and provides ad- vice for teachers, parents and car- ers. http://www.thinkuknow.org.au/site / Bullying No Way provides sup- port and information for school communities. http://www.bully- ingnoway.com.au/ This fact sheet was developed in partnership with ReachOut.com, 2011 M MO OR RE E B BA AN NG G F FO OR R Y YO OU UR R B BU UC CK K ! !
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It is great to see some of the young singers performing and de- veloping their confidence. Music teacher, Norman Cottrell, does a great job with mentoring his young students, many who left his primary school programs years ago, but still get together to make music. The audience enjoyed the music, the sense of community at afternoon tea and raised some much needed funds for local school chaplains. The next opportunity to enjoy music from the local community is on Sunday, October 9, at the Music Cafe which is part of the Battle of Trafalgar and will be held at St Marys in Contingent Street. Entry fee $5 includes home-cooked afternoon tea and the music performances. If you are a musician, why not share your love of music, possibly en- joying an opportunity to play with other experienced players. Tele- phone Sue, 03 5633 1021. Kidsplus+ THE Australian GFS Kidsplus+ Chairman, Kate Brewer, made an overnight visit to Moe in Septem- ber, bringing news of her prior visit to Tasmania and plans for the forthcoming Australian Con- ference, being held in Perth, Western Australia. A late after- noon arrival enabled Kate to par- ticipate in the Moe parish program for primary and second- ary aged girls, before fellowship supper in Newborough. Kates visit gave opportunity for some of Gippslands network members from other parishes and GFS Kidsplus+ chaplain, Rev- erend Neil Thompson, an oppor- tunity to meet Kate. The Kidsplus+ network, along with Moe GFS group, are plan- ning a Showcase of Craft on Fri- day, October 7, beginning 7.30pm, at St Lukes Hall. Entry is by gold coin donation. Exhibits include ceramics, patchwork and Sudanese artefacts. All welcome. This activity will be preceded at 5pm until 6.30pm by a family barbecue and childrens activities. Both activities will assist fundraising to enable Gippsland representatives to attend the Aus- tralian Council in Perth. Contributed by Mary Nicholls Youth show music talents October 2011 Our Diocese - Family, Youth and Childrens Ministries 5 The Gippsland Anglican Surf movie for youth groups CHRISTIAN youth groups will benefit from an Australian film collaboration. Heritage HM are handling the national church and school screening program for the inspirational movie, Soul Surfer. Heritage HM and SONY collabo- rated on the theatrical release in May this year, to offer local churches and schools the opportu- nity to show Soul Surfer in their communities. Soul Surfer is for youth groups, Sunday night church services, school events. In fact, the interest in this movie has been flooding in to Heritage HM from all different age groups. This movie can also be used to raise funds. Thirteen-year-old Bethany Hamilton is a champion surfer who was born to be in the water. But after a fun night out, night surfing and what should be a fun day in the water, she is attacked by a shark and loses her arm. Rushed to the hospital, she remains calm and maintains her faith in God. Now she has to learn how to do everything with only one arm, in- cluding how to surf. It will take her friends, family and her Christian faith to get her back into the water, but if that is where she is meant to be, she will find a way to get there. Soul Surfer is rated PG for an in- tense accident sequence and some thematic material. On its opening weekend in America, the movie grossed $10,601,862 in ticket sales. AnnaSophia Robb plays Bethany Hamilton, a 13 year-old girl deter- mined to continue doing what she loves after losing an arm to a shark. Helen Hunt and Dennis Quaid are her supporting parents. The raw display of emotion from herself and the rest of the cast is mes- merising. The film includes great cine- matography and well-done surf scenes which add to the overall ef- fect. The opening sequences to the movie include the real Bethany surfing. The target audience is teenagers but the whole family can enjoy Soul Surfer. You will leave the the- atre feeling uplifted after viewing this great film. The Soul Surfer movie events are being planned for the weekend of October 8 and 9, so grab this op- portunity while it is available. Her- itage HM cannot guarantee how long Soul Surfer will be available to screen like this. This is an op- portunity to unite with people across Australia to bring this film and its inspirational message to your community, all on the same weekend. Contact Kylie Haase from Her- itage HM; telephone 07 5370 2007, fax 07 5438 8792 or email kylie@movieschangepeople.com
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All are members of the Rotary Club of Sale Central. The camp is run annually by Ro- tary and is funded by local busi- nesses. The diocese sponsored two of the children who attended and provided administration support and adult supervision. Contributed by Brian Norris ABOVE left: Kerrie Schmidt and Bishop John McIntyre with some of the children who participated, looking at a local monument while on a bush walk. Staff help at youth camp 6 Our Diocese - Missions and Ministries October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican By Karin McKenzie, President, Mothers Union Gippsland IN March, Mothers Union members throughout the Diocese attended the Anglican Women of Australia rallies at Metung, Yarram, Bunyip, Ko- rumburra and Newborough. Beth Hookey spoke of her work with An- glicord, telling stories of resilient women in Africa and Asia. Thanks must go to the AWA organizers of the inspirational rallies, to the hosting parishes and to Leonie Pryde and Sandra Wagner for providing the MU bookstall at each rally. Lady day, on March 25, was celebrated at St Pauls Cathedral, Sale. The Dean, Don Saines, and MU Chaplain, Reverend Thelma Langshaw, offi- ciated. The Deans message called us to attentiveness and contemplation in the busyness of our daily lives and to give homage to those who have gone before, such as Mary. Along with all the special events of the day, the commissioning of the new Executive was particularly meaningful, signifying the viability of MU in Gippsland. Marilyn Oulds, MU Worldwide Trustee, was guest speaker. She gave us a lively and comprehensive overview of the workings of MU interna- tionally. The June-Join-In, on June 15, was a happy occasion as we joined the congregation of St Marys, Morwell, for the Wednesday service and ex- perienced their wonderful hospitality. Bev Ovens, MU Overseas and Northern Outreach coordinator, spoke passionately about MU projects, particularly the kindergartens on the Thai/Myanmar border and the Par- enting Program in Melanesia. I look forward to attending my first State Council in October. It will be a pleasure to meet other diocesan Mothers Union presidents and mem- bers from across Victoria. Last year, our Quiet Day was held at St Phillips, Cowes. Rev. Greg McGee drew us into meditative mode through the poetry of Ann Weems and studies of corporate worship. He also spoke of our future hope and security in Christ. Thank you to the MU members from St Phillips for your care on the day. This year, the Quiet Day is scheduled for October 15 at St Peters, Leon- gatha. Rev. Janet Wallis will lead us. It would be wonderful to have as many members as possible attending. The day begins at 10:30am, con- cluding at 2:30pm. The MU Gippsland Executive meets four times a year; usually Febru- ary, April, July and November. This year we have met in different loca- tions, including Bairnsdale and Mirboo North. These meetings are to organise events, to share information and to strengthen and encourage each other. They are also times when branches can put forward questions, ideas and issues for discussion. Each branch runs its own program for the year and the AGM is a time to share what is happening around the diocese. As President, I would enjoy receiving a copy of the program at the start of the year so I can join branches for special occasions. Also, the information could feed into Gippy News and for sharing at State Council [also into The Gippsland Anglican]. Last year, I attended Australia Council Open Day, at Palotti College, Warburton. There was a buzz as diocesan presidents met with MU Aus- tralia executive and observers. The stimulating program included role plays (inviting others to MU), reports and an informative address by Robin Ray, a nursing administrator and MU member. Robins topic was Journeying with Others and Ourselves. Sub-topics were Journeying with those experiencing Challenging Times; the Benefits of Social Support; and Supporting Others. I look forward to Australia Council, 2012. The new promotional material is both colorful and informative. As we seek to revitalize MU in Australia and attract new members, it is imper- ative we use the material. Please do not let the posters and brochures lan- guish in the bottom of a box or drawer somewhere. The executive is there to assist and support branches in this endeavor. A meeting was held to discuss the future of Caritas. This could be one way to engage with people in our communities looking for a social group to belong to. Jan has a strong interest in re-developing this friendship group and she will tell us more in her report. Society has changed the way it does things and MU needs to embrace change, too, to remain rel- evant in 2011 and beyond. Branches and others are contributing to the Mothers Union Abbey of St Barnabas Family Retreat Fund; thank you. The Abbey administration slotted a MU Invitation Week into its July program this year. Two fami- lies were invited and MU Chaplain, Rev. Thelma Langshaw, along with Casey and Lauren Langshaw, were the host family. It was a worthwhile time for all concerned. Due to weather considera- tions, we have suggested September as a more suitable time for a family retreat. So, this mission is up and running and we can look forward to more families participating next year, as the planning is fine-tuned. Bishop John McIntyre, in his Presidents Report to Synod, called us to be an inclusive church. I see it to be at the heart of Jesus ministry, he said. Bishop John was talking about homosexual people in the church, in particular. As MU supports families and the sharing of the Gospel, we cannot avoid the issue; rather, it is an opportunity to be welcoming and part of the lis- tening process. MU is privileged to be a prayer partner of the Australian Defence Force Chaplaincy Unit, led by Bishop Len Eacott. Each branch has the mini and large versions of the Prayer Diary. Emergency prayer requests are forwarded by email to participating members. Our MU Australia president and her executive are in regular contact and messages are passed on to branches. We appreciate their articles in Mia Mia. Both Mia Mia and Gippy News editors would welcome publicity of our special events. Thanks to Jeanette Severs at The Gippsland Anglican for her coverage of MU news. Our theme this year was Relationship not Rules, and the resource pack gave many helpful suggestions for studies and activities. Next year, we complete our Relationship series with the theme, Faithful Relationships. A Bible Study has been included with the Spring issue of Gippy News for branches to use to kick-start the theme. St Pauls Anglican Grammar School and Gippsland Grammar are ap- preciative of our continuing sponsorship of their music awards programs. Our sponsorship is in memory of Mrs Joyce Erbs. Several milestones were celebrated in branches, this year. Drouin had a 21st birthday and Morwell marked 60 years for MU and 50 years for Car- itas. Four MU members at Morwell received their 50 year certificates and two, their certificates for 25 years service. Congratulations and thank you. It is my prayer that as we seek to fulfil our mission in 2012, we will grow in grace and the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen (2 Peter 3:18). MU looking to now and the future ABOVE: Leonie Pryde helps Mothers Union members make their choice of cards and books at the trading table, at the annual general meeting. IN tabling the Education report at the Mothers Union annual general meeting, held in September, Juliet Bond commended the new Educa- tion Coordinator (Australia), Wendy Mayer. In particular, Juliet commended a mothers prayer for a child facing exams and this has been printed on the following page (page 7), in recognition of the many students facing VCE and other exams. Juliet has also received from Wendy, some cards that can easily be printed from the MU Australia website (for those members with computers). She suggested these be used when visiting someone in hospital or at home, to help switch the conversation from general talk and introduce a Bible reading or prayer. There are five cards in all; Juliet printed two and brought these to the AGM for all to see. The cards will also be available from MU at $1 per card, plus postage. The MU Service Book continues to be a wonderful resource; there seems to be prayers for every oc- casion. Juliet cited, on page 98, The Stewardship of Gods Creation and shared it with the meeting. Juliet encouraged MU members to take every opportunity to help each other grow through each others faith journey and encourage others to explore the values of Christian belief. Outreach about MUs global links MARION Jones tabled the Moth- ers Union Gippsland Overseas and Northern Outreach and Links report at the MU annual general meeting, held at St Lukes Moe in September. This role includes informing the Executive where money from the branches is sent to the diocesan treasurer and then to the Australian treasurer. She has reported on the distribution of funds to the Dioce- ses of Northern Territory, North West Australia, Papua New Guinea and the Islands in the Pacific. This year has been challenging for Marion because both her hus- band and son needed surgery and subsequent recovery time. Marion reported her periodic frustration at not being very suc- cessful in linking branches in Gippsland diocese to branches in Australia or around the world. She cited information which used to come from Mary Sumner House that was very useful, but this help was discontinued some time ago. The Gippsland MU group has strong links with the Bendigo dio- cese and the Diocese of Salisbury in the United Kingdom. Each year, Christmas and Easter she sends cards and information about Gipp- sland to the link groups, on behalf of all members. Marion also re- ported on links with many dioce- ses in Africa. We still pray for these branches in the Wave of Prayer, she reported. This year, rather than the Wave of Prayer service, Marion asked each branch to use the service printed in MUs Prayer and Service Book. Service book helpful to MU October 2011 Our Diocese - Missions and Ministries 7 The Gippsland Anglican V alley F uneral L atrobe S ervices J Qualified, experienced and caring staff J Modern chapels J Refreshments and catering facilities available J Secure, guaranteed, pre-paid and pre-arranged funeral plans J Over 70 years of service to the Latrobe Valley MORWELL 5134 4937 MOE 5126 1111 TRARALGON 5174 2258 Owned and operated by Paul and Katrina McInnes Proud member of the Australian Funeral Directors Association and the Australian and British Institutes of Embalming MARK RIDDLE Consultant JOHN GALBRAITH Consultant PAUL McINNES Director 2002900 A prayer for examinations THE following prayer is provided by Moth- ers Union to be said in behalf of those people facing exams, particularly young people under- taking VCE exams in October and November. (Please replace her with him if you are praying for your son or nephew.) The prayer has been provided by Wendy Mayer, MU Australia Edu- cation Officer. Lord, Im praying for my daughter/son who is facing exams.In the time before exams I ask that you will help her use her time wisely, balancing the need for studying with the need to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Help her to find the way of studying that is best for her and will help her remember what she has learned. Give her de- termination and perseverance, so she puts in enough effort at a level appropriate for the im- portance of the material she is studying. When the exams come, help her to be calm, both beforehand and as she reads the papers. Protect her from jumping to hasty conclusions about what the questions are asking. Help her to take time to read carefully and understand what is actually being asked. Please also pro- tect her from making careless mistakes such as overlooking questions or missing pages. Please help her to recall the work she has learned and not to suffer any mental blocks due to the pressure of the limited time available to answer; and help her plan and use her time well. May she answer clearly and concisely, demon- strating her knowledge to the best of her ability. After the exam, Lord, protect her from need- lessly replaying in her mind. Help her to learn from her experience and move on to the next challenge, whatever that may be. And help her also to realise that, no matter how important she feels this particular exam is, it is only a small part of the opportunities you have provided for her. It will be good if she passes, but there are many other possibilities she can pursue if she doesnt. Help her to keep it in perspective. Lord, there are lots of other peoples sons and daughters facing exams, so Im praying for my daughter and for everyone else who is facing an exam, too. Amen
Anglicare awards THE Chairman of Anglicare Victoria paid tribute to staff and volunteers on Tuesday, September 6, with the Chairmans Awards. Eight new award categories en- abled staff and volunteers to be nominated. The Best Outcome category also allowed the agency to pay spe- cial tribute to people who access Anglicares services, who have set out and achieved their own personal goals. Staff who had reached significant long service mile- stones were also congratulated on the night. Damian Neylon, Chairman of Anglicare Victoria, said the event was the perfect opportunity to recognise the valuable contribution and commitment of our staff and volunteers who tirelessly support the most vulnerable members of our community. The judging panel and I were overwhelmed with the nominations submitted and the exceptional work being carried out across the state, he said. Sarah Gover, Anglicare Parish Partnerships Worker, received the Innovation Award for beginning the mainly music program in Gippsland in 2009. The program pro- vides quality, innovative preschool education and par- enting support while encouraging inter-generational relationships for families within the Gippsland region. Initially piloted in Maffra, attracting around 20 young families, there are now mainly music groups in eight towns within the area, with an average of 150 families attening a weekly session. Benetas wins award NOT-for-profit aged care provider, Benetas, was recog- nised at the 2011 Anglicare Australia Awards in the In- novation category for their Happy Eating project. Last week at the Anglicare Australia conference in Western Australia, Benetas CEO Sandra Hills had the great pleasure of accepting the award for The Buon Ap- petito, Kali Orexi, Prijatno Jadenje Happy Eating Pilot Project. The project was specifically created to improve the lives of older people from Italian, Greek and Macedon- ian speaking backgrounds who receive care services from Benetas. These clients have moderate dementia and live at home with their families. A major aim of this project was to reduce any stigma associated with dementia by demonstrating respect for the person while also providing helpful information for carers, said Ms Hills. By using a familiar activity such as meal preparation and eating together as a starting point, we can share use- ful strategies for families living with dementia to make the overall caring experience less stressful. This ulti- mately improves the overall quality of life of everyone involved, the person with dementia and their loved ones. Benetas trialled the program in north-west metropoli- tan Melbourne with 11 families and their Benetas Care Managers, who volunteered to participate. The Happy Eating Project has addressed a clearly identified need for relevant and culturally-appropriate information about dementia in Victorian communities. Its implications are far reaching beyond the scope of mealtimes and the families and individuals that piloted the program, said Ms Hills. This program has the capacity to positively impact the lives of families from culturally and linguistically di- verse backgrounds across Australia who have a family member living with dementia. Benetas is currently working to make the program available to other organ- isations. ABOVE: Sarah Gover with her innovation award. By Lynne Beaty Mirboo North Parish VISITING Gahini diocese in Rwanda with her husband, Neville, to help further the Seeds of Peace Project, Lynne Beaty went to Kawangire parish, accompanied by Pastor Donat and his wife, Naomi, for a meeting with the students. (Donat has moved to another parish.) Lynne reports on her visit here. IF any of you who wrote letters thought it was a bit of a chore or that you would have rather done something else, read on. About 20 minutes after we ar- rived, the students arrived. Some had a meeting to do with school but eventually they were all there. I wasnt really happy about all the time Id spent following up for let- ter and photos (which started three months ago), but I too had some- thing to learn. The afternoon pro- gram began with a welcome, a song, followed by prayer. Then each student stood and came out in front of where I was sitting, intro- duced themselves, said what school they attended, how old they were and what subjects they ma- jored in. For many, this was a huge task due to their lack of English. As each student came forward, I photographed them and when they finished speaking, I presented them with a letter and photograph from their sponsors. I had no envelopes for the emailed ones, so I placed them all in plastic sleeves. I asked the odd question and gave encour- agement as much as possible. The second student who spoke was Thomas. I had noticed Thomas singing with great enthu- siasm and confidence. His English was good and what he said follows: Before, I just rode a bike around and my life was empty and without purpose and meaning. But now I am able to go to school again, I have a purpose, my life is good. I have a future and I am happy and its all because of you. I dont know how to say thank you enough but when I sing I am happy. I assured him I was very moved by what he said and his happiness did indeed show when he was singing. A couple of students want to go to university; one wants to be an accountant. I caused a chuckle when I said, that was good because I am doing all this bookkeeping for the project and I dont like book- keeping; and I was pleased to hear he liked it. Another student is doing a tailor- ing (dressmaking) course and will finish this year. She produced two little garments she made to pass on to her sponsor for someone they fitted. Violet is excited to find out that two of her sponsors, Denise and Geoff, will actually be here next week and she will meet them. The last student, Divine, a girl aged 18, named some very heavy subjects and I said, goodness that sounds hard do you want to be a doctor? Yes, she said. So, look at the opportunities you are giving these young people with your sponsorship. The students then presented an- other song; I wish I could have piped that back to you. Pastor Silas explained the first song was all about love because that was what all this is about; your love for them. I said it made me think of a song called, Love makes the world go round and God makes us go round the world so we can show His love to each other; and with Gods en- couragement and a leap of faith thats how we come to be here. There was a bit more talking, with Donat interpreting, followed by the famous Fantas. I thought they had not prepared a meal or anything; famous last words. I was wondering where the moth- ers were and when I asked Donat, he just said, quite vaguely: oh, theyre around. They certainly were, they were all out back cook- ing a meal. While all this was hap- pening, the students were looking at their letters and photos. They read and re-read, they passed them to each other to read. I explained about a few of you and Peter and Margaret Down, you got applause. I told them how hard you had both worked to raise the money for us to be here doing this project. Take a bow. We know God encouraged you to take risks and stick at it. Wait until you see how God has worked with those funds. So, greetings to the mothers, an- other prayer and a final little farewell song they always sing, more farewells to the children and we left. It was worth every minute in the preparation of the letters and photographs to see how it has af- fected these young and a few not so young lives. ABOVE: Lynne Beaty (back row) with the students. Growing seeds 8 Our Diocese - Celebrating Ordained Women October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican Sally a pioneer woman of Gippsland By Jeanette Severs THE first woman to be made priest in Gippsland is Sally Boothey, who served a number of years in the diocese and is now Archdeacon in Adelaide diocese. Sally, who served a number of years as lay reader in Bruthen parish, was made deacon on De- cember 17, 1995 by Bishop Arthur Jones and then ordained priest on December 21, 1996, alongside Warren Smith. Sally, her husband Denis and their young family settled in Tambo Upper in 1983 and wor- shipped at Swan Reach, Bruthen and Tambo Upper. Our family was blessed with an experience of friendly, easy, happy country church where an ordered service didnt mean a rigid service and where children of all ages were warmly included, Sally once re- called (The Gippsland Anglican, February 2007). In 1988, Sally became a lay reader and recalled recently the in- fluence and leadership of the vari- ous clergy of the time being significant in influencing and shap- ing her future ministry. These clergy included bishops Colin Sheumack, Arthur Jones, Jeffrey Driver and John McIntyre, alongside John White, Ron Chidgey and others. I always had a strong spiritual- ity, a strong relationship with God, Sally recently recalled. In 1978, after I was married, I sought confirmation in the Angli- can church, mainly because Denis family were Anglican. This was in a charismatic church. After a few years, we moved to Tambo Upper and I met John White, who was the priest in charge of Bruthen parish. I also went to Cursillo and about that time John asked for lay read- ers. Part of the expectation of Cur- sillo is to be more involved in church, and that lent influence to me putting my hand up to be a lay reader. With Johns support, I began taking the readings, then sermons. I then began studying theology so I could write better sermons and better understand scripture. I really immersed myself in my studies and became passionate about theol- ogy. Sally was studying theology by distance, working as a teacher and raising her family when Ron Chidgey, then rector of Bruthen parish, suggested she attend a dis- cerning conference. I had begun to feel God was call- ing me to greater work in ministry. I wondered if that was youth work or something else, Sally said. Bishop Sheumack spoke to me and explained if I wanted to be or- dained, I would have to settle to be a deacon. I thought I wanted to be a lay reader rather than a deacon. At around this time, the question of ordaining women came up in Synod and was lost. Sally was sur- prised how disappointed she felt she could not become a priest. At the next Synod, the motion was put and passed. I felt jubilant I could become a priest, Sally recalled. I took some time for internal re- flection and then stepped up to be- come a priest. Its a life changing decision and I realised it was going to be a huge responsibility. But by then I knew that was what God was calling me to. Sallys path took her through se- lection in Gippsland, then Mel- bourne, then discussion with Bishop Arthur Jones. At this time, she was studying and living full time at Trinity College, during her year as deacon, and serving at St Pauls Cathedral, Sale on the week- ends. After Sally was priested in De- cember 1996, she took on the role of chaplain at Gippsland Grammar, the second woman in this role. [Caroline Nancarrow was chaplain from 1988 to 1996.] Sally held this role for four years, with many op- portunities to assist in the Cathe- dral parish. In 2001, she took up her first role as priest in charge, in Westernport parish. In Gippsland she was also, variously, Spiritual Advisor to Cur- sillo, Rural Dean and a member of Bishop in Council. In August 2005, Sally was made Ministry De- velopment Officer for Gippsland diocese, with a focus on discerning and sharing new ways of enabling ministry, particularly in outlying areas, under Jeffrey Drivers strate- gic vision of developing ministry in remote Gippsland. On July 30, 2006, Sally Boothey took another step into the unknown and became the first woman in- stalled as Canon in St Pauls Cathe- dral in Sale. She was installed in the seat of St Priscilla, sharing the roles of Canon with Keith South and Don Crewe. Then Adelaide diocese beckoned and in January 2007, Sally became the rector of Plympton parish, a role she still holds. In 2008, she was made Archdeacon and says this has enabled her to learn an enormous amount about Adelaide diocese and the various centres. Reflecting on her path, Sally said she didnt feel like a political trail- blazer but she did feel like a pio- neer and hoped she was a good example to others, as she was in- fluenced by good people. TOP: Following her ordination as priest, Bishop Arthur Jones asked Reverend Sally Boothey to bless him. ABOVE: Bishop Arthur Jones with Greg Jones, Janet Wallis, Thelma Langshaw and Sally Boothey, after they were each awarded their Diploma of Theology. SUBSCRIPTION to The Gippsland Anglican Get The Gippsland Anglican posted direct to you Name ...................................................................... Address .................................................................. ................................................................................. Telephone ............................................................... Yes, I would like a one year postal subscription to The Gipps- land Anglican, costing $27.50. I enclose a cheque/postal order, made out to the Anglican Diocese of Gippsland. Send to TGA subscriptions, Anglican Diocese of Gippsland, PO Box 928, Sale, 3850. Enquiries, telephone 03 5144 2044. ABOVE: Sally Boothey on De- cember 21, 1996, after being or- dained priest at St Pauls Cathedral, Sale. Sally is the first woman to be ordained priest in Gippsland diocese. By Jeanette Severs THIS year, 2011, marks 25 years since the first women were ordained deacon in the Anglican Church in Australia. Two priests in Gippsland, Archdeacon Heather Marten and Reverend Canon Amy Turner, were among the second group of women or- dained deacon in Melbourne in 1986. They were also among those first women who were or- dained priest in 1992. In this and future features, The Gippsland Anglican pays homage to the pioneer women of ministry. In preparing this feature, there is no doubt that Archbishop Jeffrey Driver of Adelaide, past Bishop of Gippsland, was instrumental in appointing a number of women to the roles of deacon and priest. He recently reflected it was not so much about appointing women, as about appointing the best peo- ple for the roles, and among those were many women. When I came to the Diocese of Gippsland, I faced the challenge of a diocese in which about a third of the parishes were either vacant or soon to be vacant, Archbishop Jeffrey said. I have been a supporter of the ordination of women since I first began to think seriously about these matters in Ridley College in the mid 1970s. However, I must confess, I was not conscious of the fact that I was ordaining a lot of women. I was conscious that I was ordaining a lot of very good people for ministry. While I was always grateful for the opportunity to bring good people into the diocese from else- where in the Australian Church, I quite quickly came to realize we also needed to look for capable people from within. These were people who understood Gipps- land, who had chosen to live there and often had a deep love of the area and its people. It was a privilege to contribute to the journey and growth of these people, female and male, and to see them develop in ministerial leadership in the diocese, he said. Ordaining women about leadership October 2011 Our Diocese - Celebrating Ordained Women 9 The Gippsland Anglican
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The Anglican Diocese of Gippsland does not tolerate any harassment or abuse in its church community. By Bishop John McIntyre THE delightful reality about those women who are now or- dained in our church is that their ordinations pass without so much as a murmur. Of course, each per- sons call to ordained ministry is rightly affirmed with much joy and celebration, but the matter of gen- der is now rightly understood to have nothing to do with the call to ordained ministry. This is how it should be. I have been delighted to find since my time in Gippsland that God is slowly redressing the previ- ous imbalance in gender in the or- dained ministry of the diocese. Of late, more women than men have responded to Gods call to ordina- tion and have been affirmed in that call by the church. I like to think this is Gods way of affirming it is not gender but voca- tion and giftedness which is the basis of ordained ministry. Of course, God has been telling us such truths since the ancient sto- ries of creation were first re- counted, long before they were even written down thousands of years ago. It is both women and men who participate fully in the image of God and it is both women and men who were called to exer- cise respectful and accountable do- minion in Gods creation on Gods behalf. Women and men have always been called by God together to ex- ercise power and authority in Gods world and among Gods people. It is a travesty we took so long to listen. Now that we have, we are able to celebrate the fullness of our humanity, male and female, in every aspect of our life together as the people of God, including in ordained ministry. I give thanks for the wonderful way in which God ministers to us through the ordained ministry of the women whose stories are told in these pages. Gi ppsl and r ecogni sed womens role in ministry By Jeanette Severs MORE than half a century before it became one of the divisive and controversial issues within the An- glican church, Gippsland pio- neered the way with the ordination of women. From as early as 1918, the Reverend Deaconesses took their place among the Gippsland clergy, ministering to the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the people in a very selfless and dedicated way. The Deaconesses were pioneers, breaking new ground in every sense of the word, for not only were their status and authority a departure from Anglican tradition, but their appointments took them to the remote outposts of East Gippsland, then still largely unex- plored. Gippslands second Bishop, George Harvard Cranswick, was consecrated in 1917, a young fam- ily man who quickly perceived the need for a ministry to women by women. Within a year of his con- secration, he had recruited and li- censed his first Deaconesses. Their status was exactly equivalent to Deacons. These women were employed to minister to women, to families, to be involved in mission work and, for some, also to minister med- ically in remote areas of Gipps- land, in often hard working conditions. Their duties included conducting funerals, baptisms, morning and evening prayer, preaching, preparing and present- ing candidates for confirmation, presiding over parochial council meetings and assisting with Holy Communion for a visiting Bishop or Archdeacon. In 1920, Bishop Cranswick trav- elled to Lambeth (in England - the site of international gatherings of bishops and archbishops). Cran- swick advocated on behalf of the status of women in the church and in November 1922, he hosted the first conference and retreat of women workers. The pioneer Deaconesses led to the early establishment in Gipps- land Diocese of many groups that fostered a sense of Christian com- munity. They set up the Battalion of Gippsland Mothers, an affilia- tion of British Mothers Union. They established the Sunday School Mail Bag Scheme, provid- ing Christian material for the chil- dren of isolated families. They set up Girl Guide groups and the Lone Guide network. In 1924, it was to the Order of Deaconesses that Bishop Cran- swick gave responsibility for the establishment of the first Anglican Primary School in the diocese, which became St Annes Church of England School and eventually the primary school campus of Gipps- land Grammar in Sale. The Dea- conesses also introducted the girls diocesan camps to the diocese, on land donated by Mrs AH aBeckett at Raymond Island (now the Abbey of St Barnabas). One Deaconess, Sister Winifred Holton, spent some years at St Annes before eventually being given pastoral oversight of Nowa Nowa, serving the Lake Tyers Aboriginal Settlement, ministering to many of the women there. Deaconess Nancy Drew was also a missioner to the Lake Tyers Abo- riginal Settlement, ministering in particular to the children. She eventually was the first woman minister made a Rural Dean, lead- ing the Morwell Deanery from 1973 to 1976. The author, Mary Grant Bruce, herself a Gippslander, wrote about the fascinating and important work of individual Deaconesses. Bishop Cranswick, on establish- ing the Deaconess order, sanc- tioned them to be known as The Reverend Deacon. In 1949, Bishop Donald Burns Blackwood also a keen supporter of the work of the Deaconesses, supported a Bill at Synod elevating the role of Dea- coness to a status enabling them to sit in Synod as full representatives of the House of Clergy. In October 1989, the Diocesan Anglican Women of Australia rally witnessed Bishop Colin Sheumack dedicate a memorial Cross to the role of Deaconesses in Gippsland. This cross hangs in the side chapel of St Pauls Cathedral in Sale. TOP: The first conference and re- treat of women workers, November 2, 1922. Bishop George Cranswick with Deaconess Winifred Shoo- bridge, Sister May Lambert, Sister Marie Sundell, Miss Warden (the first diocesan youth organiser) and Sister Dorothy Almond (the first bush missionary nurse). ABOVE: Deaconess Nancy Drew, the first woman to be appointed Rural Dean in Gippsland, pho- tographed in Morwell, 1973. [Extracts and photographs from Elliot, Ray (1996) The Dea- conesses of Gippsland; Sale. Give thanks for the ordained ministry of women LEFT: Caroline Nancarrow is the first woman made deacon to serve in Gippsland following the vote in Synod to ordain women. She was made deacon in 1993. She was the first ordained woman in the role of chaplain at Gippsland Grammar and was ordained priest in 1997. Caroline is another pioneer 10 Our Diocese - Missions and Ministries October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican Diocesan Calendar 2011 TBA Blessing of Ena Sheumack House; Abbey of St Barnabas at ABeckett Park, Raymond Island October 1 Street stall, St Johns Metung 1 International Day of Older Persons 1 2 Bruthen Parish Country Craft and Art Fair 2 Opening of memorial garden, St Johns Metung; dedication by Bishop John 3 6 Annual clergy retreat; Pallotti College; with Reverend Peta Sherlock, Dean of St Pauls Cathedral, Bendigo 7 Family barbecue and childrens activities, St Lukes hall, Moe. 7 Gippsland Kidsplus+ network and Moe GFS Showcase of Craft; 7.30pm; St Lukes hall. Entry, gold coin donation. 9 Bishop John McIntyre in Mirboo North parish 9 Music Caf, Battle of Trafalgar; St Marys, Contingent St; entry $5 each, includes afternoon tea and entertainment. Telephone Sue, 03 5633 1021 9 ICC Hymn-fest at St Georges Wonthaggi; 2.30pm; spend time together singing hymns, bring a plate of afternoon tea and a retiring offering for the hospital chaplaincy program. 11 Anglican Women of Australia Gippsland Rally and AGM; 9.30am to 3pm; guest speaker Mike Hansen, on the Camino pilgrim walk; enquiries, Pat Cameron, 03 5147 1990 11 14 The Abbey of St Barnabas, Raymond Island; Environment Week A. Exploring an understanding of the interdependence of all life and our role in its nurture and practical aspects of living a sustainable lifestyle. Led by Dr Ann Miller and Environmental Taskforce. 14 16 The Abbey of St Barnabas, Raymond Island; Environment Week B. Exploring an understanding of the interdependence of all life and our role in its nurture and practical aspects of living a sustainable lifestyle. Led by Dr Ann Miller and Environmental Taskforce. 15 Mothers Union Quiet Day, Leongatha, 10.30am to 2.30pm; led by Reverend Janet Wallis 16 Blessing of the Fleet, Port Albert; 11am; Reverend Ken Peters and Bishop John McIntyre 16 Diocesan Ultreya, St Nicholas Lakes Entrance; 2pm to 4pm 17 20 Anglican Women of Australia bus trip to Mornington Peninsula; contact Pat Cameron, tel. 03 5147 1990 18 21 The Abbey of St Barnabas, Raymond Island; Work and prayer working together. Leader, Brian Turner. 19 Mothers Union State Council, Melbourne 19 Vocational Training Day, Growth in Ministry Training Day, Clergy Professional Development Training (Supervision Training); Bishopscourt, Sale 20 Vocational Training Day, Growth in Ministry Training Day, Intentional Pastoral Practice Seminar; Bishopscourt, Sale 21 Faith in Jazz concert with Reverend Greg Jones, Bob Sedergreen and Matt Kirsch; 8pm; Lotus room, Warrandyte; for bookings, telephone 03 9844 5155, email info@earthharmony.com.au 21 22 Growth in Ministry Intensive; Bishopscourt, Sale 21 23 The Abbey of St Barnabas, Raymond Island; Work and prayer working together. Leader, Brian Turner. 23 Bishop John McIntyre at St Pauls Cathedral, Sale 23 Concert for Bush Church Aid with Reverend Greg Jones and local musicians; St Nicholas Lakes Entrance 26 28 The Abbey of St Barnabas, Raymond Island; Intellectual Disability, Spirituality and Community; Led by Eileen Glass and the LArche Community. A workshop, by invitation, for those people involved or interested to be involved in ministry with people with intellectual disability. Expressions of interest to Edie Ashley, edieashley@bigpond.com 29 Ordinations at St Pauls Cathedral, Sale 29 The Abbey of St Barnabas at ABeckett Park; Celebration Day for people with intellectual disability, their families and carers; led by Eileen Glass and the LArche Community; a day of fun, community and spiritual reflection. 29 Diocesan administration and insurance seminar for parish councillors, with Richard McDonald of the Anglican National Insurance Program and Brian Norris, Registrar of Gippsland Diocese; 10am to 2.30pm; Warragul; RSVP Registry 03 5144 2044, email kerries@gippsanglican.org.au 29 31 (Mixed) Womens and Mens Lay Retreat; Palotti College, Millgrove November 2 Induction of Reverend Graham Knott as new priest in charge of Maffra parish; St Johns Maffra 5 Enthronement of new Bishop of Ballarat, Bishop Garry Wetherill; 11am; Christ Church Cathedral Ballarat 6 Defence Sunday; remember the ministry of the Anglican Church among defence personnel and their families on this day; contact Bishop Len Eacott, len.eacott@defence.gov.au or visit www.defenceanglicans.org.au 15 16 Emergency Chaplaincy training course, Level 2, for clergy and pastoral ministers; Victorian Emergency Chaplaincy Network; 9am to 4pm; $25, incl catering and manual; email emergencies@vcc.org.au or telephone 03 9654 1736 19 Bairnsdale parish fair, St Johns church grounds 20 Diocesan Ultreya, 2pm to 4pm 24 25 Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training; Latrobe Valley; $275; contact Sarah Gover, 03 5144 1100 or 0458 450370 27 Advent Sunday 29 Mothers Union Gippsland Executive meeting, Morwell; followed by lunch at Gastronomy December 3 Annual diocesan clergy family end of year gathering, Bishopscourt, Sale; 11am to 5pm 4 Emergency Services Sunday, St Johns Bairnsdale 25 Christmas Day 25 Community Christmas Lunch, Cowes Dec. 28 Jan. 3 Summer in Seaspray, Sale parish Dec. 30 Jan. 6 Scripture Union Theos beach mission, Lakes Entrance Dates and events as provided to The Gippsland Anglican by date of printing. ABOVE: Young people regularly have opportunities to practice their per- formance skills and musical ability in front of appreciative audiences in Trafalgar parish. The next opportunity is on October 9, at the music cafe during the Battle of Trafalgar, at St Marys, for an afternoon of enter- tainment and refreshments. See Diocesan Calendar. Support Defence Sunday SUNDAY, November 6, 2011 has been set aside as Defence Sunday, an opportunity to remember the ministry of the Anglican church among defence personnel and fam- ilies. Bishop Len Eacott, Anglican Bishop to the Defence Force, en- courages parishes to invite a de- fence chaplain to address the service on that day. The Defence Anglican Mission Plan places a high priority in mak- ing connections, particularly en- couraging a shared ministry of parishes with chaplains, Bishop Len said. Defence Sunday is an important occasions to affirm this. In the past, where defence chaplains have vis- ited parishes, there has been re- newed mutual understanding. Liturgical resources and prayer points will be forwarded to parishes. Further information is available from the Bishops office, email len.eacott@defence.gov.au or on the internet, www.de- fenceanglicans.org.au Mothers Union has recently added the Defence Force to its Wave of Prayer and information is available from MU chaplain, Rev- erend Thelma Langshaw, in Omeo parish. ABOVE: Mothers Union Morwell group meets monthly at St Marys. In August, the group remembered their history. MU was started in Morwell early in 1950 and Mrs Phillips was the first MU leader at St Marys. At the recent meeting, two of the orig- inal members from that time, Mollie Burney and Marge Dickson, received their 50 year membership badges and certificates. Two other members, Doreen Smith and Dulcie Harris, received their 25 year certificates. Another longtime member of MU, Lila Crowe, moved to St Marys from St Johns Yallourn. Lila was hon- ored for her long mem- bership of MU. She is now leaving to live in Melbourne. October 2011 Our Diocese - Clergy Ministry 11 The Gippsland Anglican RIDLEY Melbourne is working on empowering workplace chris- tians. Christians in the marketplace need help answering complex questions as they lead people, make decisions and manage organ- isations. Professor Ian Harper, author of Christian Book of the Year, Eco- nomics for Life, says he is privi- leged to serve Jesus through his professional life, but it isnt always easy. Christians who spend their wak- ing hours in the marketplace en- counter opportunities as well as challenges every day. They strug- gle with the Sunday-Monday di- vide, wondering how the gospel calls them to respond to impossible situations, he said. Professor Harper (right), who is also CEO of Access Economics asks: Who is reflecting on these challenges? Where can we find re- sources to help marketplace Chris- tians think through them, not just tempted by the sights that daz- zle? Ridley Melbourne has a strong desire to better equip Christians in the marketplace, and is launching its Marketplace Institute to facili- tate this vision. Ridley Melbourne is a leading theological college with a vision to bridge the gap between Sunday and Monday, says Acting Princi- pal, Tim Foster. In particular, Ridley wants peo- ple to see how their everyday lives are not a distraction from ministry, but the very context in which they can be a transforming presence. Chair of Ridley Melbourne, Claire Rogers, a senior executive with ANZ bank, always wanted her faith in Jesus to be a part of the way she served at work. She be- lieves there has never been a more important time to engage and sup- port Christians in secular employ- ment to be salt and light. Its time we had a deep under- standing of the theology of work to help all of us grapple with faith and the Sunday-Monday connection, she said. Ridley is building an institute that provides the rigour and theo- logical depth of training, engage- ment and influence to support Christians in secular workplaces, ministries to workplace contexts, and fulltime Christian workers to gain an understanding of the place of work in Gods plan for the daily lives of those they serve. Ian Harper agrees. Ridley Melbournes Market- place Institute promises to be an oasis of theological reflection and discussion on precisely the issues I want to talk and think about. It is not just marketplace Christians who need help, Prof. Harper said. Ridleys new initiative will en- sure pastors are given frameworks to equip the saints for every good work. Heaven knows theres plenty of good work to do in the modern marketplace! This ambitious vision, to be launched in October, will have a significant impact on churches and the everyday lives of Christians. For further information, visit www.ridley.edu.au/marketplacein- stitute Empowering Christians i n t he wor kpl ace Congratulations CONGRATULATIONS to Jenny Ram- age who has now completed all the work necessary to be awarded a Master of Di- vinity through the Melbourne College of Divinity. A New Canon REVEREND Barbara Logan (above), of Lakes Entrance and Metung parish, has been elected by Bishop-in-Council as a Clerical Canon. Her induction to the canonical seat and the announcement of the saint will be at a future date. Clergy Moves MALCOLM Wilson has been ap- pointed Priest-in-Charge part-time for the congregation of Nar Nar Goon. Mal- colm was ordained for the Diocese of Bunbury and has been living in Gipps- land while taking a break from stipendi- ary ordained ministry for some years. Traralgon ordinations FOLLOWING from the past two issues of The Gippsland Anglican, regarding ordinations at Traralgon. Robert Chris- tensen, of Berwick, writes that in the late 1960s at the old St James Church, Bishop David Garnsey ordained Peter Rickards (priest) and John Harvard Lit- tleton (priest). At the time, Geoffrey Ross was rector of Traralgon. Peter died about 10 years ago while priest at St Thomas, Bunyip. John Lit- tleton is the grandson of the second Bishop of Gippsland (George Harvard Cranswick) and served in the Diocese of Adelaide. Octobers lay retreat FATHER Fred Morrey is the leader of the Gippsland diocesan mixed lay retreat at Pallotti College, Millgrove, from Oc- tober 29 to 31. This year, women and men will together participate in the lay retreat, rather than the diocese hold two separate retreats. The topic of the retreat is Soul Food. The cost of the retreat is: double $300, single $170. Send your deposit of $20 by October 7, 2011, to Retreat Registration, 11 Growse St, Yarram 3971. Cheques should be payable to Gippsland Dioce- san Retreat Account. THE National Council of Churches in Australia (NCCA) and the National Aboriginal Torres Strait Islander Ecumenical Com- mission (NATSIEC) are pleased to announce Kerry Charlton has been appointed as the NATSIEC National Director. Kerry has a background in education and training. Her skills and experience have been further developed through employment with TAFE and work with Government departments and the church, particularly the Christian Brothers. Kerry is held in high regard as a consultant on Aboriginal issues. She is well known for her leadership to the Gathering of the Voices Conference: a National Ecumenical Gathering for Abo- riginal and Torres Strait Islander Peoples. Kerry is keen to con- tinue working cross culturally with indigenous and non indigenous groups. I am thrilled Kerry is joining NATSIEC and look forward to her energy and enthusiasm guiding the churches work, said Reverend Tara Curlewis, NCCA General Secretary. I believe Kerry will quickly fit into NATSIEC and contribute much to continuing the journey of reconciliation and healing here in Australia. NATSIEC is the peak Indigenous ecumenical body in Australia, a commission of the NCCA, which organises the Make Indige- nous Poverty History Campaign and is an advocate for the rights of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. The NCCA has a membership of 19 national churches, includ- ing Anglican, Catholic and Uniting Churches, seven Eastern and Oriental Churches and a range of Protestant Churches, the Sal- vation Army and the Quakers. New NATSIEC National Director Proposal to explore ministry education options in diocese By Jeanette Severs THE Dean of St Pauls Cathe- dral in Sale, Don Saines, is pro- posing the Cathedral be a hub for ministry education in the diocese. Dean Don (right) tabled a pro- posal before St Pauls Greater Chapter that analysed the deliv- ery of theological education and ministry training and the over- sight of clergy and lay people across the diocese. He noted the need to develop a comprehensive summary of programs offered throughout the diocese. For instance, ALPHA has been delivered in a num- ber of parishes, but how many parishes still deliver that min- istry and how many have not updated information about its delivery? Dean Don also noted the large number of gifted lay and clergy in the diocese, who are experienced preachers and teachers and able trainers of women and men for ministry. He proposes developing a process within the diocese to pro- mote and strategically and proactively develop a well trained and theologically informed and ministerially trained church. Among the courses delivered in the diocese are aspects of Growth In Ministry (St Marks): The Diploma in Anglican Orders, including Intentional Pastoral Practice. Dean Don has noted people in the diocese are studying, or have studied, other distance education courses available through St Marks NTC, Trinity College Theological School and Ridley Theo- logical College. Education for Ministry is another resource already under- taken by people in the diocese. Reverend Marilyn Obersby is currently the diocesan contact for this program. Dean Don cites the Trinity College Certificate in Theology and Ministry as an ideal base for an ongoing Christian edu- cation program. The course is run in small groups locally in a parish Dean Dons proposal is to invite the Greater Chapter of the Cathedral to become a group that, with the Bishop, gives consideration and oversight to the development of the teach- ing and training ministry of the diocese. He cites a cathedral has been the symbolic centre of the Bishops teaching min- istry. The Greater Chapter could help coordinate, encourage and resource clergy and lay leaders across the diocese. This could mean encouraging the take-up of any of the above mentioned courses and possibly a way of formally estab- lishing connections for TEMT. However, Dean Don also believes there is a need for basic introductory theological education and ministry training for church members across the diocese and possibly a more co- ordinated training of lay people (lay readers, pastoral assis- tants and liturgical assistants). The Greater Chapter could be a coordinating and action resource for TEMT in the diocese. This could include support for the current chaplains for lay ministry by either offering or arranging training days across the diocese by establishing some basic training modules. The basic training modules could include liturgical skills (Know AAPB; leading worship; sacramental ministry, writ- ing intercessions; reading aloud in the liturgy; inclusive lan- guage in the liturgy; preaching in the liturgy); pastoral skills (visiting at home or in hospitals; basic pastoral care; where to refer); basic Anglicanism; Anglican approach to ethics; basic biblical overview; thinking theologically. Dean Don also suggested opportunities for teachers of RaVE in local schools who would value some professional development. I am sure we have people around the diocese gifted and able to develop small learning communities or groups who we could help mentor as teachers and learners, he says in the proposal, tabled in September last year. He proposes initially to offer some basic training days per- haps at the Cathedral in one or two areas and determine needs, training modalities preferred, what is already offered and available in the diocese, develop local learning groups in the Cathedral parish and explore possible ways to inter- face more with the programs available through St Marks NTC, Trinity CTS or Ridley TC. Youth ministry role at Cathedral THE Cathedral congregations and Chapter plan to employ an assistant minister for youth and community work from the beginning of 2012. This person would also work in a diocesan role, but principally in Sale parish. 12 Our Diocese - Features October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican By Dr Don Edgar PRIME Minister Julia Gillard in- sists that her conservative up- bringing will not allow her to accept marriage as anything other than the union of a man and a woman. Presumably her conserva- tive upbringing was put on hold when she decided to live in sin with Tim Mathieson. She cites no religious reason for opposing gay marriage, being a professed atheist, merely the conventional past. She seems not to understand marriage under the Act is already a civil union not a fixed moral law or a re- ligious sacrament to be preserved. The looming Labor Conference debate on gay marriage will be a defining moment not just for the Labor Party but for the whole of Australian society. Already several States recognise what they call civil unions giving same-sex part- ners equal rights to medical deci- sions if one is ill, to state superannuation and property distri- bution rights if they split up. The Marriage Act is under the purview of the Commonwealth and Prime Minister Gillard is being called upon to allow a conscience vote in Parliament to test the waters. That is what should happen. Marriage has a long and varied history, of which opponents of gay marriage seem to be ignorant. With very few exceptions, mar- riage has been monogamous, secu- lar and personal. It was an arrangement between two families for the purposes of regulating the natural sexual instincts of young people, consolidating and manag- ing family property, ensuring pro- creation and passing on of a legitimate family name and pro- tecting the rights of both partners (though more the males than the females) and the rights of children born or raised within the marriage. Gay marriage threatens none of these traditional goals. Indeed, it may make for greater social stabil- ity and certainly ensure the equal rights of all partners who agree to accept marriages legal obligations and responsibilities. In early Greek and Roman times marriage was virtually compulsory, the single man being ridiculed and denied important public roles. Even the Spartans who openly practised homosexuality had to marry and have children. It was good for society. As Demosthenes put it: We have prostitutes for our pleasure, concubines for our health and wives to bear us lawful off- spring. The word lawful is the key word here. It was St Paul who wrote: Better to marry than to burn. (1 Corinthians 7:9) Marriage still serves important legal and so- cial purposes. Islam enjoins its ad- herents to marry for the greater community. Early Christianity accepted Roman law, with marriage seen as a civil and private arrangement, but stopped penalising singles because celibacy came to be seen as a de- sirable state. It stopped the barbaric northern European practice of sale marriage (which gave us the wed- ding ring as a down payment on the full bride price paid on delivery) and thus improved the status of women and gradually civilized marriage customs. Indeed in Eu- rope, even after the Catholic Church declared marriage was a sacrament, it was still seen to spring from the free consent of two partners. Most marriages throughout his- tory were not religious, but what we call common law marriages; some consensual, recognised sim- ply by living together for one year; others marked by a commitment ceremony with witnesses. Up to the 10th century, most such cere- monies took place outside the church door and it was not until the 13th century the priest took charge. It was a practical, economic affair, a union of convenience improving the capacity of an individual man or woman to survive and thrive and joined two families in mutually ad- vantageous kinship. To say mar- riage was not yet a romantic matter of love and personal choice ignores both the sexual urges of youth and the reality that even inti- macy after rather than before mar- riage can lead to love. But the 16th century Protestant Reformation set the cat among the pigeons. Luther declared marriage a worldly thing that belonged to the realm of government. Calvin agreed. So the Catholic Churchs response at the 1563 Council of Trent was to denounce all common law marriages, insist on having unions ratified by a priest and two witnesses. It imposed complex im- pediments to marriage (through the banns) such as blood relations to the seventh degree, family affinity and godparent relationships and it abolished divorce. The Catechism of 1566 spelt out the definition of marriage as a union between a man and a woman and indissolubility for life, until death do us part. This is the bottom line for those who oppose homosexual marriage. The Church hung on for cen- turies, losing the battle against sec- ularism and the power of the state, but not against a broad acceptance of that basic definition. The French Revolution made civil marriage compulsory, regardless of whether a church service was held. Bis- marck imposed state control over the institution of marriage in the 19th century, returning marriage to its traditional status as a legally binding economic and social con- tract between two consenting adults. This was an important step in the bureaucratic rationalising of modern society. The poet John Milton argued divorce was a must when mutual love was lacking and marriage had become a sham. It was that sentiment informing the no-fault divorce laws of the 20th century, based on the breakdown of an agreement between two equal partners. It is the quality of the re- lationship that matters. This left the protection of part- ners and childrens civil rights as the main reason for having a legally recognised marriage of any kind. Today, sex is easy to have outside marriage and long-term sexual partnerships take the place of formal marriage for many. In countries with an over-population of male youth, social instability threatens with bride kidnapping and hormonally riotous youth hav- ing no ready outlet. The problem then is no longer the regulation of sexual behavior but the legal rights and responsibilities of the partners and the care of chil- dren. The economic value of mu- tual care and financial support through marriage is clear from the growing cost of welfare support for single mothers. Research clearly supports the view two parents are better than one in the raising of children. A violent or unhappy marriage is not good for children but divorce often involves ongoing conflict, unstable housing and schooling, poverty and disadvan- tage. Australias marriage rate has declined by a quarter since the 1980s. We should be encouraging and supporting marital stability, re- gardless of the sex of the parents. Marriages are no longer arranged between families. If gay couples want to marry and declare a life- long commitment, to make their love and mutual support public, what harm can there be in that? Far better to have a publicly declared commitment than an unstable sex- ual relationship lacking any legally binding and reciprocal responsibil- ities and social obligations. In Australia, we have already rec- ognized that de facto couples are virtually the same as legally mar- ried couples, with equal rights to shared property, finances, superan- nuation. Their children (natural, step or adopted) have rights of care from both parents in the same way as children of married parents and those parents have a shared re- sponsibility to care for them after separation. It is ironic the law recognises this more unstable form of relationship but denies recogni- tion to same-sex couples who want to take on the legal obligations of formal marriage. Significantly, in recognising the social reality of couples living together, the law insists on their responsibility to children and on the economic equality of the partners. There is no reason why this should not hold with homosexual couples, but the law currently does not recognise the rights of gay part- ners; or the rights of children who may be born of one natural partner, with a donor parent; or even a sur- rogate parent; in the same way married couples can become par- ents through adoption, surrogacy or in vitro fertilisation. The law pre- vents married or de facto couples denying the other parent access to their mutually agreed-upon child. Being a parent is not just a bio- logical fact; it is a social status car- rying responsibilities to the child. There have been traditional soci- eties where several visiting un- cles have sex with a woman who conceives; then one visiting male is nominated as the social father, re- gardless of whether genetics would prove him to be the biological sire, and he carries that responsibility to help raise the child for the rest of its life. That form of social parent- ing is, in our society, made legal parenting where a child is adopted or artificially engendered and any child whose family is so dysfunc- tional they cannot act as responsi- ble parents is made a ward of the state as the legal parent. While we might argue that no adult has the right to become a parent, every child born through whatever technique, has the right to have two parents; we designate two par- ents as responsible for each childs upbringing. That is why it is of more import to resist single-moth- erhood or single-person adoption than it is to resist homosexual adoption, same-sex marriage or mutually-agreed conception. So the remaining objection to same-sex marriage is religious and moral. Given that church and state are supposedly separate in a secu- lar democracy, to continue insist- ing on a religiously-derived definition of marriage is an histor- ical anomaly. The law long ago took control of the marriage con- tract away from the Church, but it left intact the notion only a man and a woman could legally be mar- ried. Legislation should keep up with changing social norms. In Australia, we have legislation pre- venting discrimination on grounds of sexuality, yet this is a clear case of sexual discrimination. Social norms around sexuality are much more fluid and despite some con- tinuing homophobia there is wide- spread acceptance that sexual preference is no-one elses busi- ness. More than half the population supports same-sex marriage; three- quarters believe it will eventually become a reality. Australia is out of step with most of the western world. Countries such as Sweden and Norway have long recognised same-sex mar- riages. The British Civil Rights Partnership Act covers virtually all the rights of marriage. Several US states have legislated for marital equality, the federal government under Bush moving rapidly in its 1996 Federal Defense of Marriage Act to deny federal recognition of those state laws. No US state has to recognise same-sex marriages rati- fied in other states, but the new Act did not forbid states to allow gay marriage. Same-sex marriage is still discriminated against through taxation and social security. Similarly in Australia, the Howard Government moved to consolidate the man/woman/for life definition of marriage, despite the fact, for 100 years after federa- tion in Australia, marriage re- mained undefined. As Justice Alisdair Nicholson pointed out, even the Family Law Act (S43) in- junction for the court to have re- gard to the need to preserve and protect the institution of marriage as the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others vol- untarily entered into for life was not really a definition at all. It harks back, he says, to Lord Pen- zances 1866 definition which con- flicted with the 1857 provision legalising divorce. Nicholson is un- equivocal in stating discrimination against same-sex marriage is in contravention to the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights provisions relating to non- discrimination and to arbitrary in- terference in privacy and the family. And the High Court of Australia in 1996 observed the concept of marriage was never frozen in time. Nor, it must be noted, was the acceptability of ho- mosexuality, even within the con- fines of religion. Social practices and norms change and, in time, the laws must recognise that change. Finally, it must be noted in those countries that have already recog- nised gay marriage, the evidence is clear: it does not undermine social morality or lead to undesirable ef- fects. On the contrary, in Sweden, heterosexual marriage rates have increased 30 per cent; similarly in Denmark, with the added result of lower divorce rates and fewer chil- dren born out of wedlock. Canada reports a lower divorce rate for same-sex couples and the Ameri- can Academy of Pediatrics reports children with gay parents fare as well as those with heterosexual parents on all measures of emo- tional, social, cognitive and sexual functioning. Studies repeatedly find marriage benefits the health and wellbeing of the partners too. It is the nature of the relationships within the family that matter, not its formal structure or type. The Churches (and Australias Labor Government) have to accept marriage serves secular needs, not spiritual goals. Marriage is a fun- damental social institution recog- nising and regulating adult couple relationships. In the Canadian de- bate about same-sex marriage, Ot- towa Justice Laforme held a civil union is still an alternative sta- tus, equivalent to the segregation of black and white students in pre- Brown vs Board of Education US civil rights times. The State already controls the institution of marriage as a secular institution; it is the states responsibility to guarantee the rights and responsibilities of all adult partners and of children born from or being cared for within that partnership. As a matter of individual choice, couples with religious beliefs can already opt for a church marriage though more than 60 per cent today choose a non-church ceremony using a registered civil celebrant. The church could still insist on not conducting or recognising any same-sex marriage (being immune from anti-discrimination laws) but that would be irrelevant to same- sex couples who simply want full legal recognition of their commit- ment to one another. Where the state must continue to be vigilant is in the area of mutual care and re- sponsibility for children who may become part of that same-sex mar- riage and in ensuring gay partners have the same financial and legal rights as those already granted to heterosexual and de facto couples. Legal recognition is not the same as moral approval. The current law is out of step with changing social norms which, history shows, are never immutable as human rela- tionships adapt to new circum- stances. Indeed, recognising same-sex marriages as equal in the law to heterosexual marriages may reinforce the ongoing historical re- ality that marriage is an honorable estate which should not be en- tered into lightly. What harm would same sex marriage do? IN light of the ongoing debate in secular media about same sex marriage and the Anglican Church in Australias commit- ment to a listening process, The Gippsland Anglican strives to offer considered ar- gument on this topic as it does with other issues. It does not offer an opinion of the Editor or the Bishop on this topic. About the author: Dr Don Edgar was founding Director of the Australian Institute of Family Studies and is a mem- ber of the Victorian Childrens Council. See www.patrici- aedgaranddonedgar.com This article is printed with the per- mission of the author. October 2011 Literary and Media Reviews 13 The Gippsland Anglican By Dr Muriel Porter Ogden S (2011) Love Up- side Down: Life, Love and the Subversive Jesus; O- Books; $24.95 DR Steven Ogden, previously Dean of St Peters Cathedral, Ade- laide, has been principal of St Francis Theological College, Bris- bane, and an academic associate of Charles Sturt University, since 2009. Now he has embarked on a second simultaneous career as the author of theological works. But his are not the usual tomes that might be expected from some- one of Dr Ogdens academic pedi- gree. He has dedicated himself to writing theology for that ubiqui- tous person, the man or woman in the street. Yes, the street; not pri- marily the pew. For the sake of the people outside our doors, he wants the Church to grapple honestly with the questions that agonize so many in modern so- ciety. In his first book, I Met God in Bermuda: Faith in the Twenty First Century (2009), he identified what he believes is the key question that concerns modern people, even if they do not ask it directly: How can we reconcile suffering with a God of love? And if we cannot, then how can we believe in a God of love? In this latest book, he returns to the theme of love with a wide- ranging exploration from a dis- tinctly contemporary perspective. It is, he says in the preface, an ex- ploration for 21st century thinkers and lovers. At the heart of his exploration is Jesus, but not the meek and mild Jesus of Sunday school fame; but the subversive Jesus of the first century, who caused great scandal in the name of love, as he puts it. He continues: The problem with Jesus is that for him, people were more important than venerable in- stitutions, governing principles and religious dogma this is not the kind of love we expected. This is love upside down. Not surprisingly, Dr Ogden ar- gues for a Christian understanding of love that is courageous, big- hearted and inclusive. It means accepting people as they are and valuing difference, with a new gen- erosity of spirit. It means, quite simply, rejecting a Church based on harsh legalisms, with adherence to principles over people. Dr Ogden has a refreshingly frank, readable prose style. Inter- spersed with numerous anecdotes and reflections, his writing is in- tensely personal. While that will no doubt make it attractive to young post-modern people outside the church, it makes it hard to pin down a clear well-argued theolog- ical basis for the authors passion- ate appeals for a more generous and inclusive Church. Dr Muriel Porter is a Melbourne author and journalist. This review first appeared in The Melbourne Anglican August 2011 issue and is reprinted here with permission. The subversive Jesus of the first century not about harsh legalism Singers star rising fast A GIRL NAMED BEL sounds a bit out of the ordinary, but this artist is different, so it fits. Bel Morrison is an Australian singer songwriter who is not easily la- belled, which is clearly how she likes it. Since graduating from the Queensland Conservatorium of Music in 2003, Bel has landed gigs at Easterfest, World Youth Day, New Zealands Parachute Festival and toured throughout Australia. On You Are My Destination, her third CD release, Bels expressive and poignant songs show off a voice that will stop you in your tracks. Josephs Song, her first radio sin- gle, has already made people sit up and take notice. In Time With You garnered first place in the 2010 Na- tional Australian Songwriting Competition. But it is Morrisons ability to let her songs do the talking, untram- meled by the niceties of pop pro- duction, inspirational, yet grounded in real life, polished but never overwrought. It is this that distinguishes her pop/country/folk inspired melodies. Very simply, You Are My Desti- nation is about the songs, stories and prodigious voice of Bel Mor- rison. You can see and hear Bel perform at Warwick, Queensland, on Octo- ber 23; Logan City, Queensland, on November 5; and Dalby, Queensland, on December 18. For details about these performances, please visit www.belmorrison.com Forest Edge announces 2012 festival lineup POPULAR US rockers Ivoryline, plus a huge line up of Australian talent, will perform at the Forest Edge Music Festival 2012, at Neerim East, next March. The four-piece Texan band, Ivoryline, has toured with Auto- matic Loveletter, Family Force 5, and Emery and been a part of the historic Vans Warped tours across America. Australian headliners include Jonday, The Calling Of Levi, Have You Seen This Boy, and Vita Adam. Festival organiser, Luke Martin, said the three-day annual event aims to create a stress free envi- ronment where people can im- merse themselves in positive alternative music and culture. Forest Edge is an opportunity to listen to relevant bands, hear influ- ential speakers, meet incredible people and bring your friends, he said. Young people can explore their creativity and enjoy the excitement of a music festival without alcohol being served. It celebrates youth in a safe en- vironment, he added. The festival will feature a wide variety of music genres, including hardcore, hip hop, folk, pop and indie-rock. Forest Edge Music Festival is on March 9 to 11, 2012 at Forest Edge CYC camp site, 405 McKenzie Rd, Neerim East, Victoria. For infor- mation, ticket prices and registra- tion, visit www.forestedge.org.au or Facebook www.facebook.com/ forestedgemusic Exploring creation and culture in Australia Hobbins T (2011) Above Help: The Intercessions; Sid Harta Publishers; $39.95. Distributed by Dennis Jones and Associates. Released September 28, 2011. AUSTRALIAN history with a twist; inter- woven with tales of bravery, sacrifice and a Saint-in-waiting, plus a small dose of the supernatu- ral, is tantamount to the birth of Australian culture as we know it today. Or is it? How will the historians, academia and reli- gious zealots react to this book by Tom Hob- bins, Above Help: The Intercessions? Tom Hobbins heavily researched writings are part-religious and non-fiction, highlighting Aus- tralias past, both historically and culturally, while acknowledging Australias first saint, Sis- ter Mary MacKillop and the contribution made by her, the Josephite Order and other educators in the mid-19th century. Their work heralded the commencement of the birth of a unique Australian culture that would become reality as Australians fought in the trenches of Gallipoli and the Western Front dur- ing World War One and in the jungles of New Guinea during World War Two. The Intercessions followed; an interesting rev- elation regarding possible influence brought to bear on events and persons by a Saintin-wait- ing, plus all the political and social pursuits that were important contributors to Australia be- coming a nation. I was told by a high profile actor not to at- tempt such a story as thered be too much re- search and work involved, said Tom Hobbins, undeterred by the criticism. In fact, the book hangs together in a miracu- lous fashion buoyed by stories of bravery and sacrifice about the scallywags who went to war. Just like my great uncle, a machine-gunner who was never the same after his return. This is a detailed and precise grand expose of some magnitude about the land down-under, its progression from a penal colony to eventually establishing its own identity and cultural her- itage borne out of courage, sacrifice and plain hard work. Let the critics and sour-pusses have their say! Hobbins said. Above Help: The Intersessions was launched at The Frances Rush Centre, St Stephens Cathedral in Brisbane. A Saint in Creation, A Nation Built, A Culture Established Opportunity for young people ARE you interested in jour- nalism? Are you still in sec- ondary school? Do you want to be published? Submit a re- view of music, film or book to The Gippsland Anglican and if it is published, you will see your writing in print with your byline. This can form part of your portfolio in your application to university. Send to editor@gippsangli- can.org.au If possible, in- clude a pdf picture to illustrate the review. 14 Our Diocese - Parishes October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican By Carolyn Raymond Morwell parish THE Sudanese congregation of St Marys in Morwell held a special service to mark the creation of the worlds newest state, the state of Southern Sudan. St Marys people joined with the Nuer speaking con- gregation to celebrate that after all the bloodshed and the dislocation of the people, the State of the Southern Sudan has hope to build a life for its citizens within their own control. Archdeacon Heather Marten and Pastor Stephen Riek led the serv- ice. Several people from the com- munity were invited to come and to speak at the service. The principal from Traralgon secondary college and a representative from Centre- link spoke to the congregation. Reverend Lyn Williams led the congregation in prayer. There was a mens and a womens choir who sang of the joy of this new state. Pastor Stephen Riek prepared a written letter which was handed out to everyone who came to the service. With Pastor Stephens per- mission I quote from this letter. All of us here today have lost people and been severely hurt and disadvantaged by this. As for my- self, I have been witness to four wars. I have seen and tasted death. Today I am here by the grace and holiness of God. I dont know how I survived. The wars have cost me my parents, my wifes parents, brothers and sisters. The war and turmoil drove us into the refugee camps in Ethiopia. The camps were just a space, some- where to go. They were not safe places and food and water were scarce. Many days my family was with- out food and water. The water was contaminated. We were forced to drink our own and other peoples urine. I remember the day when I left the camp to gather wood for cook- ing. I walked perhaps the distance between Traralgon and Morwell. The journey took me from 6am to 6pm. It was dangerous to leave the camp but we needed the wood. One day I had collected a bundle of wood and was ready to return to my family in the camp. Suddenly I heard people behind me. I froze, standing very still. I heard them have a discussion about shooting me. When I turned, one of them had a gun pointing at me. He said: I will shoot him now. Others were saying: No, you are not a good shot! You cant kill him with that gun. He argued that yes, he could. I dropped my bundle of sticks and walked over to them. I forced my- self to smile, although I was terri- fied for my life. I greeted them in their own language. Shali, or hello, I said. They were surprised. They looked at me. I tried it again: Shali gori or hello, how are you? At last they said to me: Shali These men were naked. I thought quickly, offering the shirt I was wearing. It was my only item of clothing. I offered them the sticks. They said No to this. They told me to go. I walked away expecting a bullet in my back. This is one time among many when my life was spared. I know many people here have had similar experiences. Today I still carry the mental and physical scares of those days of war. They will never go away. But we are the lucky ones. We have our lives and live in a peaceful land. We have opportunities. Independence will mean South Sudan can grow and prosper. Peo- ple must put intolerance behind them. Our people must learn to live as one. The only way forward is for tribal tolerance. At the same time the situation in South Sudan is desperate. There is the worst famine for 60 years. Peo- ple are surviving on nothing at all. A parent does not have the ability to put food into the stomachs of their children. They watch their children dying. We are the lucky ones. We are safe, We are warm. We have food. We have hope. Let us celebrate independence. Let us not forget our brothers and sisters who are suffering because of the famine. This was a moving and powerful service. For those who can support the people of the Horn of Africa suffering such a terrible famine, please donate through Anglicord. TOP: The mens choir sings at the celebration, at St Marys Morwell, to honor declaring the new State of South Sudan. ABOVE: A member of the Su- dance congregation speaking dur- ing the service. Photos: Carolyn Raymond Living with fear of being shot By Reverend Neil Thompson, Newborough Yallourn North parish I WAS interested to read two responses (The Gippsland Anglican, September 2011) to my letter (The Gippsland Anglican, August 2011). Both respondents seemed to think I opposed Christian med- itation, but a fair reading of my letter would show I could not see the value in Buddhist meditation. Let me categorically state my opinion that Christian meditation may be part of anyones Christian journey and I commend both writers for making that point. Both respondents have made the mistake, however, of taking the last two words of my letter out of context. That people have certain experiences (Reverend Bruce Charles at university), that people in authority support Buddhist meditation (the Archbishop of Canterbury according to Dr Colin Thornby) does not overcome my objections. Buddhist theology cannot lead us closer to the God and Father of the Lord Jesus Christ. Nor can yoga nor transcendental meditation (which is based on Hindu beliefs and neglects the Lord Jesus Christ, replacing resur- rection with reincarnation and grace and faith with human works), by itself, bring us to God. Our Saviour is the Lord Jesus Christ, the cross of Christ is our means to God. He is the one who transforms us. Here is where we find our peace, our protection from distractions. Paul in his letter to the Philippians gives us clear advice about meditation (and, I believe, thinking in general): Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things [Philippians 4:8] Christian meditation is meditation with content (Lutheran pas- tor Keith Gerberding). Biblican passages include psalms 63:6, 77:11-12, 143:5, 119:27, 147-8; Philippians 4:6-7; Matthew 6:31, 33. Let us enrich our faith by Christian meditation, not dilute it by other forms of meditation. This means to contemplate the great mercy of God, which in Christ sets us free to be real people, serv- ing His love to one another (quote from Rev. Gerberding). Yours in Christ, Neil Thompson Rector of Newborough Yallourn North parish Perspective ... on meditation WARRAGUL parish recently celebrated the opening of the Dulcie Harris Centre, with Bishop John McIntyre (left) and musical entertainment (right). Elizabeth Dulcie Harris (above) after whom the original kindergarten building was named. Photos: Rod Foster ABOVE: The congregation during the celebrations at St Marys Mor- well to recognise the State of South Sudan. Opening of Dulcie Harris Centre October 2011 Features 15 The Gippsland Anglican THE International Anglican Fam- ily Network has released an action plan for the Churches to tackle Abuse: Report of IAFNs Oceania Consultation. The Consultation was based in Aotearoa New Zealand and brought together dele- gates involved in Anglican family ministries across Oceania, includ- ing Australia. It focused on one issue: violence within the family, especially domestic abuse and child abuse. Step 1. Meeting and sharing Beginning in our own world EFFECTIVE work on the issue of violence has to be rooted in the cul- tures and communities where it is occurring. The consultation re- flected this by beginning with a Powhiri, a Maori ceremony of wel- come. This is concerned with the establishment of right relationships and with bringing cultural and spir- itual protection to the people who are there. A second important ele- ment is that the delegates were sup- ported in their work by local church leaders. Understanding our strengths THE delegates accounts of their community and their work repeat- edly emphasised the centrality of cultural traditions, the extended family and the community. There are long-established processes for disputes to be resolved with fami- lies or, if necessary, involving tribal elders and community leaders. In many communities, clergy still have a high status and are able to use this as a force for good. Naming the problems IT is uncomfortable to face the re- ality of domestic abuse, so it often becomes an issue tacitly acknowl- edged but never named. It is par- ticularly difficult to do this when you are sharing your nations prob- lems before other nations and com- munities. The strength of this consultation was people did name the problems in the confidence they would be received with un- derstanding. So it was acknowledged that for all its strengths, traditional culture, as currently practiced, can be toler- ant of violence against woman and child which is no longer accept- able. Delegates said the following of their own communities: Violence is often tolerated; there is a high tolerance of wife beating and verbal abuse against women. Violence is a long-established part of society and respect between children and parents is fading away. Violence is inter-connected. So family violence sits in the cen- tre of circles of violence; ecologi- cal, international, national, local community, religious and cultural. Violence is very common. Most common are land disputes and do- mestic violence. When the husband pays the bride price, he thinks he owns his wife and expects to be the boss. Rape is all too common; even of girls travelling to school. Fol- lowing colonisation, some indige- nous people continue to suffer trans-generational trauma and as- sociated problems of family vio- lence, substance misuse and self-destructive behaviors. Recognising achievements THE creative response to this problem has been to use the libera- tive cultural traditions, symbols and language to challenge and change some of the current estab- lished attitudes to women and chil- dren. In the Solomon Islands, there is one refuge for victims of domestic violence, the only one in the is- lands. It is run by the church. The Association for Anglican Women in Fiji developed the House of Sarah project concentrating on pre- vention, for example, offering self- esteem programs for women and raising awareness. Step 2. Theological Reflection AS Christians, our response to vi- olence needs to be rooted in a deep theological understanding of the is- sues we face. A superficial under- standing is not sufficient if we are to tackle the deep issues that face us. During the consultation, we re- flected on Gods Word, guided by skilled theologians who focused on a theology of stopping violence. The full versions can be read at http://iafn.anglicancommunion.org /resources Step 3. Resources AT this stage there can be a frightening moment when we think we face these problems alone. However there are many skilled or- ganisations, both christian and sec- ular, able to provide support and encouragement. Six organisations with particular expertise in the field of violence and the family made presentations at the consultation. Each of these organisations was also chosen for their skill in work- ing with the various indigenous communities in Oceania. For further information about the presentations see http://iafn.angli- cancommunion.org/resources Step 4. Separate groups for men and women WE reached the stage in the con- sultation where it was important to meet in separate groups. This was not because of any conflict, but be- cause the issue of violence is expe- rienced very differently by the different genders. These separate groups enabled us to talk openly about our own experiences. The Womens Group THE women formed themselves into a yarning circle and passed around a message stick. Whoever held the stick was given time and space to speak without fear of in- tervention. Gathering as women in their own space, which is the Pa- cific way, afforded a character to the meeting that was clearly differ- ent from that of the previous group discussions. In this space of safety and confi- dentiality and assured of each others empathy and co-passion, the women were able to speak openly and honestly from their ex- perience. As the women shared their experience of family life and community life, they spoke of their own encounters with violence in its many forms; physical, sexual, emotional, spiritual, psychological and institutional. Even within and among church leadership, church families and *whanau, in Christian communities, there are incidences of spousal and child abuse and other forms of violence, to the ex- tent of murder. As the women passed the mes- sage stick, the group was inspired by stories of strong Pacific womens leadership and tremen- dous courage, where women have led the way to family and tribal reconciliations, thus bringing an end to spirals of violence. In difficult, highly dangerous and often isolated situations, Pacific women have literally taken physi- cal steps to end violence, even in one instance lying on the ground between opposing groups. In in- carnational ways that witness to Christ-like leadership, they have put their lives on the line. *An Australian Aboriginal term for extended family. The Mens Group THIS group began speaking ob- jectively about the issue of vio- lence but as the discussion continued there were more per- sonal reflections on our own in- volvement in abusive relationships. There was a conscious recognition of the sheer awfulness of violence perpetrated on women and girls and the way it has ruined lives. There was also an open acknowl- edgment that, as men, we can name violence because those elements of the ability to abuse power lie within each of us. We shared reactions to the con- sistent messages from the women about the extent of abuse within the Church and beyond and deter- mined among ourselves to do something about it. During the dis- cussions, it became very clear the problem of violence has to be ad- dressed within our churches and in- cludes the whole Church, clergy and laity. While many men are re- sponsible and loving fathers and husbands, there are too many ex- ceptions. This is unacceptable for an institution that proclaims the love of God. We need to act. We acknowledged women have often carried the pain of violence in the Church and called for change while we, though sometimes ac- knowledging it, were slow to act in a systematic sense to end it. Dur- ing the latter part of the discus- sions, we brain-stormed various strategies to help our churches grasp the significance of these is- sues and begin an educative and mission approach with the goal of making violence in all its forms un- acceptable. These were prepared in a form for discussion with the women. Step 5. Coming together THE two groups came together and shared their insights. The womens group recorded its deliberations, not simply as words on a page, but in images. One image was of a glass house, where family life could be observed. A second image was a cooking pot, with children, women and men stirring the contents together. The glass house was descriptive of fam- ily and community life as it is ex- perienced, both good and bad. The cooking pot contained those ele- ments and strategies needed to en- sure the safety and flourishing of all. Faith, hope and love, as trans- formative and restorative, were es- sential ingredients. The mens group began by stand- ing together, acknowledging and accepting responsibility and apol- ogising for the violence that is still experienced in the Church. They committed themselves to work to stop violence. Ending violence on the part of men means: Stepping back and stepping down. Escalation leads to escala- tion. De-escalation invites de-esca- lation. Recognising we make mistakes, too; we are vulnerable. It is often very difficult for us to say we are wrong. Starting within and with our families. Challenging leaders to lead the transformation. The Archbishop of Polynesia made it clear violence is wrong and he will engage with oth- ers to help move the issue forward. Do not fear the question, but ask: How are you going to follow through? Training men of differ- ing cultures to become educators to overcome resistances. The men saw they could apply this to their home situation by: Respectful discussion looking at these problems as a whole family and giving each member of the family a chance to contribute. Taking personal responsibility for this issue as individuals and ex- pressing this in ways that supports leaders. There must be no denial of the reality of violence. Making a commitment to staying connected to women and seeking restorative justice together. Seeking out what is life-giving and life-enhancing; non-violent and safe for women and children in our own cultural group and work- ing on this with our leaders. Step 6. Taking action AT the end of the consultation, each national group worked to- gether on developing a specific ac- tion plan for when they left the consultation. These action plans built on the previous five steps but were each unique to the local situ- ation in which people worked. The delegates included people who were at a senior level in their church and others who were based in a local community and some- times quite an isolated situation. All of the delegates were con- vinced that they could make change happen. The essence of the plans is that they are ambitious but they are also realistic. They do not compromise on the view that violence must stop but they present practical ways in which this issue can be tackled. The plans recognise that changing attitudes is a long-term process but that every step will improve the lives of some women and children whose lives are devastated by do- mestic violence. The Consultation jointly will ask the Primates together to commis- sion liturgies for November 25, which is both the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women and White Ribbon Day and is the first day of the global 16 days Activism for the Elimination of Violence against Women. Provincial leadership CENTRAL to all the plans is the support of their Archbishop or Bishop. In some cases this is al- ready in place. For example, Arch- bishop Winston Halapua has declared he will only grant licences to clergy and lay workers who commit themselves to consistently spreading the message that domes- tic violence is unacceptable. The New Zealand, delegates will be seeking a commitment from their archbishops and bishops to establish a national strategy for stopping violence. They want this message to become part of training for ministry, at every level; from training for clergy through to Bible studies to be used in parishes. Their target is to have 50 per cent of the bishops approving the delivery of non-violence programs in their dio- ceses in the first year. In Melanesia, the Bishops and Standing Committee will be asked to make a church-wide commit- ment to a network for stopping vi- olence. After consultation across the Church, a detailed plan will go to the General Synod in November 2011. In Hawaii, the Bishop will be asked to be a spokesperson on this issue and to implement a training program on stopping violence for all ordained people. In Australia, there will be a Re- port to General Synod Standing Committee in mid November with the aim of having the Australian members of the International An- glican Womens Network facilitate a session at the Bishops Confer- ence in March 2011. Indigenous leadership IN Australia, there will be a re- port to the National Aboriginal and Torres Island Straits Council and to the Northern Territories Diocesan Synod. This will be linked to the discussions with the Bishop of the Northern Territory about the way forward. This will lead on to report back to urban/indigenous ministers at St James Darwin and all indige- nous ministries in Darwin. For delegates from the Tikanga Maori of the Anglican Church of Aotearoa New Zealand and Poly- nesia, the watchword is Not one more death, our children are sa- cred. They note there is no evi- dence Maori were violent to their children traditionally. They will use Maori models of practice to get the message across: using narra- tive, identity and connection. Training The delegates from Polynesia diocese planned non-violence training programs for clergy, laity, youth and Sunday schools ready for pilot programs underway in January and a roll-out in the churches in February. Tonga already has the support of their Bishop and will be rolling out a similar training program. In Papua New Guinea, training on ending violence will be extended to all deaneries within 12 months with strong women being recruited to take the training forward. Samoa will have anger-manage- ment training and non-violence awareness, including womens and mens groups, youth leaders and Sunday school teachers. In the Solomon Islands, a nation- wide network to stop violence within one year. In particular, look- ing at support from religious com- munities and developing advocacy by men against violence. Fijis training program will in- clude activities for clergy, men and women, plus a youth rally or camp and educational and awareness ma- terials aimed at families. Other activities IN Australia, there will be further encouragement of involvement in White Ribbon Day with the aim of getting giant white ribbons on all churches and cathedrals. Not one more child or woman subject to family violence 16 Our Diocese - Parishes October 2011 The Gippsland Anglican ABOVE and below: After the September meeting of Maffra parishs com- bined Guild and Mothers Union group, members of the parish family took afternoon tea to friends at Stretton Park. This is a happy time for residents and visitors alike, with plenty of cream cakes and sponges to be had. Photos: Jean Heasley Ted and women of history ARCHDEACON Ted Gibson has been visiting parishes this year, providing instruction to congrega- tions about the garments and roles of men and women of the church. In a recent service at St Johns Maffra, Archdeacon Ted spoke about Christian history and the women who have made a differ- ence through the ages. Jean Chap- ple portrayed a Deaconess, Gloria Baker was Susannah Wesley, Jenny Toma was Mother Therese, Deirdre Crawley was Florence Nightingale. Pat Cameron was Sis- ter Hilda, Fairlie Kermode was Martha and Jean Heasley dressed as a Lay Reader. RIGHT: In Morwell parish, Moth- ers Union members said goodbye to Lila Crowe, who has moved to Melbourne. Photo: Carolyn Raymond ON Sunday, August 14, St Marys Morwell celebrated its Pa- tronal festival. We selected the Sunday which was closest to the Feast of the Assumption of the Vir- gin Mary. Reverend Heather Marten preached a thought-pro- voking sermon on our knowledge of Mary from the Gospels. Rev. Heather spoke about Marys life as we know it, from her ac- ceptance to be the Mother of God to standing before the cross and seeing her son die a cruel and painful death. Even later how she, with other sons, became active in the early church. Rev. Kathy Dal- ton celebrated the Eucharist. It was a wonderful service to par- ticipate in, in worship with other women and men who are uphold- ing Mary. St Marys has been working all year to raise money for our mission project. This is to improve educa- tion in the Southern Sudan. We held a Desserts for all Diets evening. This was great fun, eating by candlelight with wonderful music provided by two of our parishioners. The desserts were de- licious and everyone had several helpings. In the previous weeks, we col- lected dessert recipes. These were printed in an attractive book with the names of the contributors under each recipe. The book has the de- lightful title of Just Desserts. Janet Harris officially launched the book. Many people bought the book, some buying several copies. We very quickly sold out. All money was contributed to the mis- sion project. Contributed by Carolyn Raymond ABOVE: The recipe book, Just Desserts raised money for mission dur- ing the Desserts for all Diets evening at St Marys Morwell (below). Photos: Carolyn Raymond Just desserts for mission and honor i ng Mar y ON Sunday, September 25, a tapestry worked by Isobel Simon titled Hands Clasped in Prayer was dedicated to the memory of Stella Trew- ern and Dorrie Stoll and unveiled at St James Buln Buln, in the cooper- ating parish of Neerim South. In a short ceremony during the morning service, Isobel Simon spoke of the gentle dedication and service to the church at Buln Buln of these two women. Stella played the organ and set up the communion table for many years until failing health forced her retirement. Dorrie quietly encour- aged all worshippers with her thoughtfulness and loving care during a lifetime of devotion to her Lord. Members of both families took part in the unveiling of the tapestry which is now hanging in the church. Contributed by Joy Andrews Tapestry honors women ABOVE: Some of the attendees at the opening of the Dulcie Harris Cen- tre in Warragul parish. Photo: Rod Foster