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others, we can be in touch with our divine spirit and we can be grateful for that enlightened part of all of us. Comments This is a wondrous statement. We have all heard of the law of attraction, espoused by Rhonda Byrnes in her famous book and film, The Secret. However, Dyer goes beyond The Secret in many of his thoughts. We do not attract what we want to attract; we attract what we already are. We must be focused on who we want to be as if we are that thing or person already. If we want peace in our life, we must see ourselves already as the embodiment of peace. Similarly, if we want a peaceful relationship with someone else, we must see that person as a peaceful individual. When we say we want peace, that is not enough because wanting is a state of absence. That is the very definition of want. We must visualize that we already have it and that we are already there. In short, we set our intention for where we want to be. When we set our intention toward a goal, our unconscious mind drives us toward completion of that goal effortlessly and at the appointed time. We follow forward toward our destination without labor or hardship. Whatever we want to be or want to become, we should see ourselves as a finished image of that self.
Sixth Secret: You Cant Solve a Problem with the Same Mind that Created It
This is something that we have discussed in a previous blog series dedicated to Eckhart Tolles work. This beautiful paraphrase of a quote by Carl Jung is worth repeating herein. When we are petty and angry, we cant solve the problem facing us by remaining petty and angry. In fact, being petty and angry probably caused the problem to arise in the first place. When we raise our consciousness, we may at once extinguish the current problem and limit the intrusion of future problems. Dyer talks about three levels of consciousness. The first level of consciousness is ego. When we are enamored with acquiring more toys and being better than our neighbor, we are fully ensconced in our ego. When we must have a certain reputation that defines who we are so that we can flaunt our egoistic self, we are a victim of ego mentality. The ego level is consumed with self. I like Dyers idea that ego really stands for Edging God Out. In the second level of consciousness, we are entrained to think like a group, or a clan. We are Democrats so we think a certain way, and I am proud that I voted for I work for a bomb-making factory. I dont believe in bombs but that is what my line of work tells me to believe. I am part of a gang. I follow their commands. I am Asian so I think in a certain way. Group consciousness moves beyond the self but is a very similar level of consciousness since we are beholden to a certain groups mentality no matter at what price. The third and highest level of consciousness is known as mystical consciousness where labels like Asian, Hispanic, Republican, American, Southerner, etc. fall away and we are left with more universal associations like human. We disavow separateness and are joined by our commonality. When we approach this level of consciousness, we will see the petty desires and foibles of our lower conscious selves begin to melt away.
The opposite can also be true of our past. Well, it was certainly a happier time for me then. I long for the good ol days. I was happy then. Today not so much. We cannot and should not be our past. When we live in our past, we are a product of a deathly present. We must see the glory of right now, this moment, the very breath that we take, the shining time of now of where we are today, thats it. Dyer says when we are eating our appetizer, we should not be thinking of dessert. When we are eating dessert, we should not be thinking of what we just ate. We are too often all over the place because our minds are not still but hurried and preoccupied. Be here now and relinquish your past, all of it.
Third Secret: You Cant Give Away What You Dont Have
When we think of giving something away, we think of a finite repository of items where what we give will deplete us. For example, if we have 10 oranges and we give 10 away, we will in turn have none. However, that is not the case with love, passion, and compassion. When we give those away, we get a lot more in return. However, those of us who are empty cannot give anything away. If our lives are filled with hatred and misery, that is the best that we can do for others. When we realize that when we fill our own cups, that cup will spill over to others then we can do so much more than we could have imagined in our lifetime.
Dyer walks the reader through Carl Jungs four archetypes. The first archetype is the athlete who is entranced with his own physical body and how it looks and functions. The second archetype is the warrior who is in charge of conquering the world through mental acuity and domineering prowess. The third archetype is the statesman who is interested in turning his life towards the service of others. The fourth archetype is one of pure spirit, who lives a spiritual life free of the fetters of this world. Dyer talks about how a life of spirit and a life of service can provide meaning for our lives and a purpose that is more grandiose than one of ambition, accumulation, prestige, respect, and all the trappings that we associate with our material existence. He talks about how we can achieve a greater good that can drive our happiness when we fill our cups so that we can in turn fill the cups of others.
provides a simple recipe to live ones life, and I am happy to record some of his thoughts comingled with my own. He disavows the success in this book not as one of how to get more money, get more respect in a job, how to get a person to love you but something much more substantive than any of these three. How to attain peace and happiness in our lifetime but through different channels. I hope you attain as much joy and happiness as I have done just reading his work and interpreting it.
First Secret: Have a Mind That Is Open to Everything and That Is Attached To Nothing
Arent we a product of our environment? If our parents were Republicans, we then to lean to the right. If our parents were Democrats, we may gain a favorable disposition to that party. If we were raised in a religious household, we may espouse certain beliefs. If we were raised in a Jewish household, we probably would not be devout Muslims. How often does our gender, race, age, country, etc. confine our beliefs and opinions so that when someone says something we are already offering a closed judgment. We do not sit to consider its merits because we are who we are. Dyer espouses that we should all be open-minded individuals who can think and accept ideas that are presented to us without early closure, prejudice, dismissal, and bias. By opening your mind and listening instead of shutting off the other person, we may gain valuable insight despite our color, creed, age, religion, politics, gender, orientation, and a whole host of other biases and self-imposed limitations. His second part of the first secret is not to be attached to anything. This can mean both in terms of physical objects but also preprogrammed thoughts. When the only way to think of a subject is as a Republican then we must shut out anyone and everything that collides with this belief. We simply cannot entertain another way. We are closed. When we are attached to physical pleasures and amenities we are slaves to them because we must have those creature comforts to be who we are. We are our car, our house, our clothes, etc. We cannot see that attachment to things, ideas, etc. makes us a closed off individual with barriers between us and our fellow humans. Today open yourself to new ideas, new thoughts, new adventures, new people, etc.