PATIENCE

Sabhr – meaning of patience; control our desire

Ability to accept things as they are until a certain point
_patience is a source of hope and happiness, becoming closer to
Allah, morethan u can imagine is immeasurable

3 kinds of patience:
1) patient upon obedient- finding it hard to obey Allah’s rules
2to be patient when a trouble befalls u- when something happens to u like u
had an accident or sm1 died
3)to be patient will find it hard to abstain from sins- do not drink wine

A^udhu billaahi minash-shaytaanir-rajeem

‫أعوذو بال من الشيطان الرجيم‬
dadi3e: 3:133-134
3:133 Be quick in the race for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Garden whose width
is that (of the whole) of the heavens and of the earth, prepared for the righteous,-

WasariAAoo ila maghfiratin min rabbikum wajannatin AAarduha alssamawatu waalardu

oAAiddat lilmuttaqeena

134 Those who spend (freely), whether in prosperity, or in adversity; who restrain anger,
and pardon (all) men;- for Allah loves those who do good;-

Allatheena yunfiqoona fee alssarrai waalddarrai waalkathimeena alghaytha

waalAAafeena AAani alnnasi waAllahu yuhibbu almuhsineena

u want to be loved by Allah, to be the Musinnin ( the righteous) , or the

Muminin ( believers) - -- > you need to be patient

how can we control our patient, how we control our temper, how can we
be relaxed: we should sit down or lay down then say I sek refuge in Allah
from Shaytan-evil

take a deep breath and remember Allah remember that nothing happened w/o
Allah’s permission

"Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance
of Allah. for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find
satisfaction.
Allatheena amanoo watatmainnu quloobuhum bithikri Allahi ala bithikri
Allahi tatmainnu alquloobu

Transliteration 28: Allatheena amanoo watatmainnu quloobuhum bithikri

Allahi ala bithikri Allahi tatmainnu alquloobu

Yusuf Ali 28: "Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the
remembrance of Allah. for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do
hearts find satisfaction.

Allah did that what he had ordained to do guard the gate of Shaytan

hadith:Umm Salamah wife of the Prophet

said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (saw) say: There is not one slave (of
Allah) who is put through a trial and says: "Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raaji'un
(to Allah we belong, and to Him is our return) Oh, Allah, help me through
my ordeal and grant me better than it after." except Allah helped him through
his ordeal and gave him better than it after. She said: So when Abu Salamah
(her husband) died, I said what I was told to say by the Messenger of Allah
(saw) and Allah (swt) granted me better than him…the Prophet of Allah
(saw)." [Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Al-Tirmidhi and Abu Da'ud].
(pbuh)

This is Duaa asking for Patience

which Prophet( pbuh) teach us to say when we need patience
when suffering hardship: oh Allah i am your servant, Son of your servant,
son of Your maid servant, my forlock is in your Hand, your command over
me is forever, executed and your decree over me is just, i ask you by every
name belonging to You, which you named yourself with, or revealed in your
book or You to any of your creation, or You have preservend in the
knowledge of unseen with You, that is You make departure for my sorrow
and release of my anxiety

alhamdulillah- when u have nothing or given something

in everything give thanks

hadith when Prophet (pbuh) teach his daughter and son in law
what is better than what they were asking?
subhan Allah x 33
Prophet said alhamdulillah x 33 Allahu akbar x 34
and that are better than what you were asking
b4 go to bed
94:5-6
5 ً‫ن مَعَ ا ْل ُعسْ ِر ُيسْرا‬
ّ ِ‫َفإ‬
Transliteration 5: Fainna maAAa alAAusri yusran

Yusuf Ali 5: So, verily, with every difficulty, there is relief:

‫س ِر ُيسْرًا‬
ْ ‫ن مَعَ ا ْل ُع‬
ّ ‫ِإ‬
Transliteration 6: Inna maAAa alAAusri yusran

Yusuf Ali 6: Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.

1- The meaning of pat ience

QS 32 :24 : ‫ّا‬
‫َا ل‬
َ ‫ِن‬‫ْر‬
‫ِأم‬
‫َب‬‫ُون‬
‫ْد‬
‫َه‬‫ًي‬‫ّة‬
‫ِم‬‫ْ أئ‬
‫ُم‬‫ْه‬
‫ِن‬‫َا م‬
‫ْن‬‫َل‬
‫َع‬‫َج‬
‫و‬
‫ُون‬
َ ‫ِن‬‫ُوق‬
‫َا ي‬
‫ِن‬‫َات‬
‫ِآي‬
‫ُوا ب‬‫َان‬
‫َك‬
‫ُوا و‬
‫َب‬
َ ‫ص‬

WajaAAalna minhum aimmatan yahdoona biamrina

lamma sabaroo wakanoo biayatina yooqinoona

And We appointed, from among them, leaders,

giving guidance under Our command, so long as
they persevered with patience and continued to
have faith in Our Signs.

Yusuf Ali 24: And We appointed, from among them,

leaders, giving guidance under Our command, so
long as they persevered with patience and
continued to have faith in Our Signs.
2 -Tests in l i fe and pat ience

QS : 29 : 2 - 3Yusu f A l i 2 : Do men th ink tha t they wi l l

be l e f t a lone on say ing , "We be l i eve" , and tha t they
wi l l not be t es ted?

Yusu f A l i 3 : We d id t es t those be fo re them, and

A l l ah wi l l ce r ta in l y know those who a re t rue f rom
those who a re f a l se .

Yusu f A l i 45 : Nay , seek (A l l ah ' s ) he lp wi th pat ien t

perseve rance and prayer : I t i s i ndeed hard , excep t
t o those who br ing a l ow ly sp i r i t , -

Qs : 2 :153

Yusu f A l i 153 : O ye who be l i eve ! seek he lp wi th

pat ien t perseve rance and prayer ; f o r A l l ah i s wi th
those who pat ien t l y
perseve re .

3 :200 200 ْ ‫ُوا‬‫ِر‬

‫َاب‬
‫َص‬‫ْو‬‫ُوا‬
‫ْب‬
ِ ‫ْ اص‬
‫ُوا‬‫َن‬
‫َ آم‬‫ِين‬
‫ّذ‬
‫َا ال‬
‫ّه‬‫َا أي‬
‫ي‬
‫ُون‬
َ ‫ِح‬
‫ْل‬‫ُف‬
‫ْت‬‫ُم‬
‫ّك‬‫َل‬
‫َع‬‫ّل‬
‫ْ ال‬
‫ُوا‬‫ّق‬
‫َات‬
‫ْو‬ ‫ُوا‬
‫ِط‬‫َاب‬
‫َر‬‫و‬

Yusuf Ali 200: O ye who believe! Persevere in

patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance;
strengthen each other; and fear Allah. that ye may
prosper.

QS : 11:115

Yusuf Ali 115: And be steadfast in patience; for

verily Allah will not suffer the reward of the
righteous to perish
 Yusu f A l i 55 : Pa t i en t l y , then , perseve re : f o r the
Promise o f A l l ah i s t rue : and ask f o rg iveness f o r thy
f au l t , and ce leb ra te the Pra i ses o f thy Lo rd i n the
even ing and i n the morn ing .

Qs : 41 :35

Yusu f A l i 35 : And no one wi l l be gran ted such

goodness excep t those who exe rc i se pat ience and
se l f - res t ra in t , - none but persons o f the grea tes t
good f o r tune .

QS : 103 :2 - 3

Yusu f A l i 2 : Ver i l y Man i s i n l o ss , Yusu f A l i 3 : Exce

such as have Fa i th , and do r i gh teous deeds , and
( j o in t oge ther ) i n the mutua l t each ing o f Tru th , and
o f Pa t i ence and Cons tancy.

QS : 94 :5 - 6

Yusu f A l i 5 : So , ver i l y , wi th every d i f f i cu l t y , the re

re l i e f :

Yusu f A l i 6 : Ver i l y , wi th every d i f f i cu l t y the re i

re l i e f .

3-Bel ievers and pat ience

QS 2 :45
Yusu f A l i 45 : Nay , seek (A l l ah ' s ) he lp wi th pat ien t
perseve rance and prayer : I t i s i ndeed hard , excep t t o
those who br ing a l ow ly sp i r i t , -

4-Pat ience i s a source of hope and happiness

QS : 13:22 ْ ‫ُوا‬‫َام‬‫َأق‬
‫ْو‬ ‫ِم‬
‫َب‬
ّ ‫ِر‬‫ْه‬
‫َج‬‫َاء و‬
‫ِغ‬‫ْت‬
‫ْ اب‬
‫ُوا‬
‫َب‬
َ ‫َص‬
‫ِين‬‫ّذ‬
‫َال‬
‫و‬
‫ُون‬
َ ‫َؤ‬‫ْر‬
‫َد‬‫َي‬
‫ًو‬ ‫َة‬
‫ِي‬‫َن‬
‫َل‬‫َع‬
‫ّا و‬‫ِر‬
‫ْس‬‫ُم‬‫َاه‬
‫ْن‬‫َق‬
‫َز‬‫ّا ر‬
‫ْم‬
ِ ‫ُوا‬‫َق‬
‫َأنف‬
‫َو‬‫َة‬
‫ّل‬‫الص‬
‫ّار‬
ِ ‫َ الد‬ ‫ْب‬
‫ُق‬‫ْع‬‫ُم‬‫َل‬
َ ‫ِك‬
‫َئ‬‫ْل‬
‫َ أو‬‫َة‬
‫ّئ‬‫ّي‬
‫ِ الس‬‫َة‬
‫َن‬‫َس‬
‫ِال‬
ْ ‫ب‬

Yusuf Ali 22: Those who patiently persevere, seeking

the countenance of their Lord; Establish regular
prayers; spend, out of (the gifts) We have bestowed
for their sustenance, secretly and openly; and turn
off Evil with good: for such there is the final
attainment of the (eternal) home,-

hadith: the propet (pbuh) said

( Wondrous are the believer's affairs . For hin there is
good in all his affairs, and this is so only for the
believer , when something pleasing happens to him ,
he is grateful, and that is good for him , and when
something displeading happens to him he is patient ,
and that is good for him ( sahih Muslim)

5-Lessons f rom the hol ly prophet l i fe

hadith:Ibn Abbas (radhiallahu anhu) narrated that

according to 'Umar bin Al-Khattab(radhiallahu anhu)
… “Underneath his (Prophet’s) head there was a
leather pillow stuffed with palm fibers, and leaves of
a saut tree were piled at his feet, and above his head
hung a few water skins. On seeing the marks of the
mat imprinted on his side, I wept. He said, 'Why are
you weep ing? ’ I rep l i ed , 'O A l l ah ’ s Messenger ! Caesa r
and Khos rau a re l ead ing the l i f e ( i . e . l uxu r ious l i f e )
whi le you , A l l ah ’ s Messenger though you a re , i s l i v i ng
i n des t i tu te . ’ The Prophet ( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa
sa l l am) then rep l i ed , 'Won ’ t you be sa t i s f i ed tha t they
en joy th i s wor ld and we the Herea f te r ? ( Bukhar i )

Abdu l l ah B in Mas ’ud ( radh ia l l ahu anhu) nar ra ted tha t

once the Prophet ( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa sa l l am) was
o f fe r ing prayers a t the Ka ’ba . Abu J ah l was s i t t i ng
wi th some o f h i s compan ions . One o f them sa id t o
the o thers , “Who amongs t you wi l l br ing the
abdomina l conten ts ( i n tes t ines , etc . ) o f a came l o f
Ban i so and so and put i t on the back o f Muhammad,
when he pros t ra tes?” The most un fo r tuna te o f them
got up and brought i t . He wa i ted t i l l the Prophet
( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa sa l l am) pros t ra ted and then
p laced i t on h i s back between h i s shou lde rs . I was
watch ing but cou ld not do any th ing . I wish I had
some peop le wi th me t o ho ld out aga ins t them. They
s ta r ted l augh ing and f a l l i ng one anothe r . A l l ah ’ s
Messenger ( sa l l a l l ahu he)did not lift
his head up till Fatimah (Prohet's daughter) came and
threw that( camel's abdomina contents ) away from
his back....( Bukhari)