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Another summer has
come to a close and
autumn has officially
descended upon the
tri-states. For many of
us, this means festivals,
scenic drives through
the Mississippi River valley, thick knit-
ted sweaters and football.
In the Kloser household, falls approach
meant raking leaves into gargantuan
piles for (what else?) jumping into,
much to Dads exasperation. (Sorry
Dad!) In our defense, eventually my
siblings and I helped bundle them into
those giant jack-o-lantern plastic bags.
For others, however, the onset of
fall means the inevitable nearing of
another round of family-filled holidays
and the stress that accompanies them.
While children in the tri-states are also
aware of upcoming festivitieslikely
for entirely different reasonsparents
and guardians rush to take care of the
demands of Halloween and Thanks-
giving. Add to that the looming rush
of family time December promises
between Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christ-
mas and New Years celebrations, and
fall can seem anything but relaxing.
With all this preparation, who has
the time (or, maybe more accurately,
the luxury) to enjoy the fall? We at
parenting: TODAY & TOMORROW
believe that you do. This issue
features articles on eco-friendly,
unplugged toys offered by local
retailers to stock up on before the
snow flies, fun (and healthy!) reci-
pes for a childs Halloween party
that are sure to please even the
most persnickety eater, tips on get-
ting willful teens to enjoy family-
focused celebrations and ideas from
area dental professionals on keeping
Halloween cavities to a minimum.
Additionally, we tackle the holiday
blues that sometimes sidetrack par-
ents and guardians.
Fall can be a stressful time of year;
between finally settling into a
school-year routine, handling hec-
tic schedules and preparing for the
holidays, October and November
may leave many parents pining for
the lazy days of summer. While
autumn may be packed with things
to do, take time to remember what
makes impossibly massive orange
pumpkins, vibrantly hued sugar
maples, the crunch of a freshly
plucked apple and the percussion
of fallen leaves under your shoes so
magical: experiencing them with
family and seeing them through the
eyes of children. Go aheadjump in
a leaf pile. Happy fall, yall!
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CONTENTS
Unplugged Fun 3
The Fear Factor 6
Trick or Treat 9
Paying It Forward 12
Family Snapshot 16
Tune in to Your Teen 17
Wholesome Living 20
Daytripping 22
Holiday Blues 23
Media Moment 25
Family Functions 27
OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2011
2 October/November 2011
T
hirty years ago I would have
never dreamed of asking
my parents for a computer
for Christmas, mostly because they
wouldnt have known what a com-
puter was. I think my siblings and I
were all shocked when an Atari
game system appeared under the tree
one year.
Today most kids (even the adult ones)
have some kind of electronic device
on their list for Santa. Parents need
to buy stock in battery companies
to power all those electronic gadgets
opened on Christmas morning said
Dave Rokusek, owner of The Atomic
Toy Co. in Galena, Illinois. What is
so wrong with the simple toys we all
enjoyed as kids?
While the noise and lights of elec-
tronic games and toys are tantalizing,
plenty of other options are available
that are quieter, entertaining and
even educational. In addition to the
quiet, parents should also consider
the American Academy of Pediatrics
(AAP) recommendations on screen
time indicated Cathy Hubbard, owner
of Crickets Toys and More in down-
town Dubuque. The AAP recom-
mends no TV for children under two
years of age. The academy suggests
no more than 2 hours of media time
for older children. This includes TV,
computers and video games. Given
these recommendations, it is impor-
tant that parents provide
toys that take kids away
from screens, monitors
and hand-helds.
There are many
advantages to get-
ting children away
from the TV and
other electronic
devices. Hubbard
points out that
many creative toys
force children to be
active and burn calo-
ries, combatting child-
hood obesity. She adds that other
benefits include increased attention
spans, better problem solving skills
and improved creativity. In addition
to educational benefits, Hubbard said
these types of toys tend to be more
moderately priced, which may be an
attractive plus for many parents.
Another plus for non-electronic toys
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store specializes in nostalgic, time-
less toys that parents had as children.
I dont care if youre 88, 68, 38 or
8, you are all on the same playing
field, said Rokusek. He added that
nostalgic toys offer the older gen-
eration an opportunity to teach the
younger generation, instead of the
roles being reversed with technical
gadgets.
INFANTS
Crickets Toys and More offers edu-
cational toys for all ages. The ear-
lier they start with creative toys the
better, said Hubbard. Infants dont
interact as much with the toys, but
they can be visually stimulated.
Hubbard said she is not sure
if black-and-white
or brightly colored
toys are better
it depends on
which study you
read. Some toys
contain both, so
perhaps a mix
is good. At this
age safety is a top
concern, so be sure to read the rec-
ommended ages on the packaging.
For infants, Hubbard suggests chew
toys and items to grasp, to develop
fine motor control. Another good
choice is a play mat so the baby can
roll around on the floor and play
with toys that are placed nearby.
According to Hubbard, many
of her customers highly
recommend Sofia la Girafe. It is
a chew toy made with food color-
ing dye; therefore, it is safe for little
ones to chew on.
TODDLERS
Hubbard recommends push toys
that toddlers can walk behind. Any
type of plush toy is good, as long as
it has embroidered eyes to prevent
a choking hazard. Stacking toys and
others that continue to nurture fine
motor skills are also recommended.
Hubbards favorite item for this age
group is Rody Horse or Gyffy
Giraffe. Rody Horse is a soft
rubbery toy for toddlers to bounce
on, and it promotes balance. It is
like a fitness ball for little ones.
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PRESCHOOLERS
At this age pretend play starts to take
root, so kitchen sets and tool benches
are a good choice. Hubbard also rec-
ommends puzzles, blocks and simple
games. She added that dolls are good
for boys and girls because they have a
natural curiosity about babies and want
to nurture someone.
ELEMENTARY STUDENTS
Rokusek and Hubbard agree that
building blocks are a
great choice regardless
of gender or age.
One of every four
toys sold is a build-
ing toy, said Hubbard.
There are a wide vari-
ety of building toys on
the market. Rokusek
likes the Lincoln
Logs and basic
w o o d e n
b l o c k s .
Cr i cket s
offers Jaw
Bones,
which are colorful plastic pieces
that slide together to form any shape
imaginable.
Board games, puzzles, marbles, dolls,
magic sets, art kits, die-cast vehicles and
pop-up books are also recommended.
The choices made for this age group will
be based on your childs interest. Rokusek
likes non-electronic toys because they
are simple. Life is too complex already.
There are a wide vari-
ety of building toys on
the market. Rokusek
likes the Lincoln
Logs and basic
w o o d e n
b l o c k s .
Cr i cket s
offers Jaw
Bones,
which are colorful plastic pieces
that slide together to form any shape
imaginable.
Board games, puzzles, marbles, dolls,
magic sets, art kits, die-cast vehicles and
pop-up books are also recommended.
The choices made for this age group will
be based on your childs interest. Rokusek
likes non-electronic toys because they
are simple. Life is too complex already.
Simple toys are easier for everybody.
When you have children a few years
apart in age, these simple toys can
bring the entire
family together.
TEENS
Teens can be the
most difficult
group to
find simple
toys for.
R o k u s e k
suggests returning to classic
toy roots with puzzlers like
Rubics Cube and card
games. Hubbard offers
a game called Jishaku
for teens 14 years and
older that teaches sci-
ence while promoting
problem-solving skills.
Both proprietors like
auto bingo for all ages. Many
board games can entertain the entire
family, but for the more active clans,
dont forget Wiffle
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ball, baseball,
soccer, football or the sport of your
choice. Be sure to include sleds, skis
and ice skates as choices for when
we get our yearly foot of snow here
in the Midwest.
Rokusek believes a 10-year-old lives
inside all of us, so parents should
get in there and play with the kids.
Simpler toys may not require a lot of
skill, but they can provide plenty of
laughs for everyone.
Regardless of
the age of the
kids on your
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it simple. Pull
the family back
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least part of your holi-
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The Fear Factor
Weve all been there. For me, it was the bathroom
door at the local pizzeria I couldnt quite wrench open
at age five; convinced that I would simply be trapped
in the bathroom for eternity and that my family would
leave without me, I developed a mild case of claustro-
phobia. Ever since, root cellars, elevators and even
crowded hallways have caused my blood pressure to
rise. Dont even get me started on roller coasters.
No matter how many times I have told myself that
my fears are irrational, it does not make them any less
real. Though the source of our fears may change over
time, the nagging anxiety does not completely dis-
sipate from our daily experiences. The same struggle
exists for area children of all ages.
THE FOUNDATION OF FEAR
Experiencing fear can begin at a young age and persist
throughout our lifetimes. Dr. Tim Boffeli, Associate Pro-
fessor of Psychology and Department Chair at Clarke
University, notes that all individuals experience innate
fears that can originate from early negative encoun-
ters. Typically, we have a memory
that sparks a fight or flight response
in our brains, Boffeli explained.
When kidsand adults, for that
matterconfront something that
scares them, the fear center kicks
in, causing those infamous physical
sensations of fear. Dr. Tim Boffeli
phobias (the fear of public scrutiny or
humiliation).
While children and adults can experi-
ence these types of phobias and more,
simple fears tend to be more preva-
lent in children. Sociologist Guy E.
Swanson noted in his article Phobias
and Some Related Symptoms that
. . . simple fears can be intense and
disruptive. For most people, however,
these fears are strong only in early
childhood, if then, and subsequently
diminish or disappear (Sociologi-
cal Forum, 1986). This explains how
even the boldest, friendliest five-year-
old may experience considerable anx-
iety when confronted with a spider as
opposed to a new babysitter.
WHEN FEARS BECOME PHOBIAS
Of course, children experience their
fears as individually as adults do.
While there are some common fears
many children experience as they
age (stranger danger in toddlers, for
example), the objects and issues that
trigger their fear and the degree to
which kids react can vary widely. Part
of helping children overcome their
fears is to encourage them to develop
a sense of acceptance of their unique-
ness and fears, Nemmers advised.
There are many ways fear can manifest
in a childs behavior, but a few cardinal
reactions usually indicate that a child
is experiencing fear. Typically, tummy
aches, sometimes headaches, said
Nemmers. The tummy is usually the
hallmark; kids are usually obviously and
outwardly ill with a virus, Nemmers
explained, while sudden, nonspecific
stomachaches can be indicative of fear
manifesting itself physically.
Fear often manifests itself in progres-
sive ways as kids age. According to
kidshealth.org, the following fears
are typical for their corresponding age
groups:
Infants: Fear of separation from par-
ents, being amongst strangers
Toddlers: (1018 months): Fear of one
or both parents leaving
Children ages 46 years: Fear of the
supernatural (i.e., ghosts, monsters,
the dark, etc.)
Children ages 712 years: Fear of nega-
tive life events (i.e., natural disasters,
bodily harm, etc.)
Kidshealth.org offers the following tips
for helping kids face and overcome their
fears:
See the fear through the childs eyes;
the fear is very real, regardless of how
silly it may seem to an adult. Be open to
discussing the fear with the child. Dis-
cussions about the fear itself can make
it less terrifying.
Avoid discounting the fear as ridicu-
lous; as an adult, you may know theres
nothing to fear about the dark, but
a child may be convinced otherwise.
Instead, invite comfort and discussion
to help the child overcome their fear.
While fears may be very real, avoid
catering to them. Rather, support your
child as they approach their fear to their
comfort level.
Develop a rating system for fear.
This will not only help adults relate to a
childs anxiety level, but help the child
visualize their own level of fear and
that it may not be as scary as they first
thought.
Implement strategies for facing fears.
Encourage the child to use positive
statements (I can do this, I will be
alright) when approaching a fear. Act
as a home base for comfort and support
for the child to return to after they have
interacted with the object of their fear.
Fear through
the Years
Judy Nemmers
Counselor Judy Nemmers also noted
there are basic human fears: aban-
donment, separation . . . trauma can
cause deeper fears requiring inter-
ventions that may need to be more
intense, adding that research shows
fear begins very early, possibly as
early as 8 or 9 months. Nemmers
explained that childrens brains are
impacted by not having their needs
met, which can
lead to physi-
ological changes
in a childs brain
chemistry and
the development
of insecurities
that can impact
them throughout
their lives.
As any parent knows, fear is just as
real for kids as it is for adults. Whether
it is bugs, thunderstorms, things that
go bump in the night or even clowns,
children certainly experience the
same types of anxieties adults do.
According to Nemmers some of the
most common are the dark, strang-
ers, separation and that a parent wont
return. As kids get older and become
more aware of the world, issues such
as natural disasters, political crises
or general fear of uncertainty can
become an older childs new monster
under the bed, Nemmers said.
However, the causes of fear in children
vary slightly from what makes an adults
skin crawl. Mental Health America
has broken down phobiaswhich are
extended, long-term fearsinto three
general categories: agoraphobia (the
fear of being alone in or unable to
escape public spaces); simple, specific
phobias (fear of objects and situations
that are relatively safe); and social
to] say I dont have to be afraid,
explained Boffeli.
Nemmers also suggests to consider
your childs level of coping with fear.
Be aware of the uniqueness of your
child, who they are, what they can
tolerate, what they cant. Respect
different needs [and] personality
traits, she explained. Parents should
learn the balance between provid-
ing security and comfort and help-
ing a child develop self-confidence
and an internal locus of control
a choice in how they think about
the world. Help [your] child not
see themselves as helpless and not
completely dependent on a parent.
She added kids need to understand
that parents will teach you how to
flyhelp you face your fears [with]
support.
The silver lining in fear situations for
kids is that they will learn the valu-
able lesson of coping with what they
cannot control. We develop ways of
coping with fear so that fears dont
negatively impact functioning, said
Nemmers. So, while many parents
may struggle with their childs fears
as much as their child does, bear in
mind that these are growing pains
for children. By making sure our kids
feel heard when they communicate
about their fears, kids learn to under-
stand that they can have control and
strength as they face their fears and
anxieties, Nemmers explained.
With these essential skills, kids can
learn to brave all kinds of monsters,
from those that lurk under the bed
and in closets to the kind that accom-
pany college entrance exams. And,
perhaps one day, roller coasters as
well.
Nemmers pointed out that in a childs
life, childhood fears are natural, but
go out of control with lack of struc-
ture and stability.
Fear is a part of the human condi-
tion, Nemmers explained. Anxiety
caused by phobias, however, can get
in the way of a persons functioning
in life, and indicate the onset of a
more serious disorder. School avoid-
ance, vomiting, inability to physically
get to school and being so terrified
that they cant function may all be
signs of anxiety that probably needs
to be addressed professionally, said
Nemmers.
FIGHTING THE FEAR
Of course, there are methods to learn-
ing how to cope with fear. Boffeli
suggested that the approach parents
should use is exposureput the child
in the presence of the phobiasys-
tematically, incrementally expose
the person to the feared object. The
exposure issue is very key, said Bof-
feli. Parents dont like to see kids cry
or suffer; however, exposing children
to their feared objects will help
them understand that they can cope
with their fear. The brain [learns
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One overlapping issue to bear in
mind, however, is the transformation
fears can make into phobias, which
can, if underestimated, lead to anxi-
ety issues for kids. Kidshealth.org, a
website dedicated to a wide range of
childrens health issues, notes that if
anxious feelings persist, they can take
a toll on a childs sense of wellbeing.
Kids unable to cope with their fears
can begin to suffer physical ailments
such as stomachaches, headaches,
nausea and sleep pattern disturbances.
The silver lining in fear
situations for kids is that
they will learn the
valuable lesson of
coping with what they
cannot control.
Its Halloweenthe dead are rising
and so are blood sugars. Of course, it
wouldnt be Halloween to your child
without some sweet indulgence, but
keep in mind there are healthier alter-
natives that still provide the visual
appeal and tastiness kids love and
nutrients parents can feel good about.
Fortunately, this is one holiday where
you can test your culinary creativity
and the end product doesnt have to
look pretty!
Whether youre hosting a childrens
party or just baking for fun this Hal-
loween, a simple swap of ingredients
like white flour to whole-wheat flour
adds a nutritious spin to an otherwise
regular recipe. Instead of pure sugar,
try using sugar alternatives like agave
nectar, honey or Truvia
TM
. These
products are sweeter than sugar and
thus require smaller amounts in reci-
pes. And because all of these are low
on the glycemic index, they wont
spike blood sugar levels. If you nor-
mally leave bowls of candy bars and
M&Ms out for the kids, try swap-
ping those out with goldfish crackers,
trail mix, or snack-pack puddings.
Toss some granola and pure fruit-juice
gummy worms in sugar-free choco-
late pudding and, ta-dah, youve got
worms in mud.
If easy and gross is what youre aim-
ing for, try taking an ordinary food
and altering a part of itfor exam-
ple, peeling the skins off of grapes
creates slimy eyeballs. Jell-O is
always a staple for gross texture, plus
its versatile for adding extra goodies
inside the gelatin like gummy worms
or fruit. If your children like veggies,
hollow out the insides of cherry
tomatoes and fill with flavored cream
cheese to simulate oozing pimples.
Create booger dip by adding green
food coloring to melted cheese (pairs
well with pretzel sticks for dipping).
Another option is to dye the cheese
a bloody red and pair with black tor-
tilla chips.
The gross foods of the holiday just
wouldnt be complete without a fes-
tive beverage of blood or swamp
juice. Instead of serving sodas and
corn syrup-filled juices, try color-
ful punches made with natural fruit
juices and club soda. If you want to
avoid sugar completely, simply drop
some green or red food coloring into
water. You could even toss some fake
bugs into the ice cubes (just make sure
the kids realize they are not edible!).
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Bugs and blood aside, a more normal drink not specific
to just Halloween is homemade apple cidersomething
both kids and parents can enjoy after a cool night of
trick-or-treating.
To be conscious of not only your own childrens nutrition
but also that of the trick-or-treaters knocking at your door,
try handing out some of these treats that are lower in fat
and sugar:
cereal bars
snack packets of dried fruit, baked pretzels, nuts, and
seeds
trail mix
packages of low-fat crackers with cheese or peanut butter
filling
animal crackers
100 calorie packs of various products
beef or turkey jerky
single serve boxes of ready-to-eat cereal
raisins and chocolate covered raisins
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1.5 million volunteers statewide in Wis-
consin. All together, these volunteers con-
tributed about $12.8 billion in service to
their home states.
HOW VOLUNTEERING SHAPES
OUR COMMUNITIES AND KIDS
To say this makes a huge impact would
be an understatement. Every year,
community members donate time,
money and skills in order to better
their surroundings, the quality of life
for others and, on a secondary level,
their roles as engaged civic members.
In order to better understand the
responsibilities and rewards of vol-
unteering, I spoke with some local
expertsmembers of YAPPERS,
or Youth Area Philanthropists.
Composed of high school
students from the Dubuque
community, YAPPERS is
an organization requiring its
members to dedicate their time to
community service, grant making and
philanthropy. These area teens also
serve as youth board members of the
Community Foundation of Greater
Dubuque. Five members of this highly
driven conglomerate of area teens sat
down to discuss the challenges and
benefits of philanthropic work with
YAPPERS and other organizations.
It was obvious that these young phi-
lanthropists were bitten by the vol-
unteer bug early in life. Wahlert
student Claire Wareham estimates
that she was about 8 years old when
she began volunteering, noting that
it was always easy to find something
to do at church. Fellow Wahlert stu-
dent Sarah Fricano was about 6 when
she started to volunteer at the food
pantry with her mother.
These young women recommend
starting volunteer work when you are
young. Fricano explained that volun-
teering at a young age influences the
way you grow up.
Senior High School student Jenna
Manders said the lessons you learn
volunteering are more informative
when youre young.
Wareham added that its much easier
to form [volun-
teering as] a habit
when youre young,
but you can teach
an old dog new
tricks! She also
pointed out that
volunteer oppor-
tunities are a great
way for adults to
set an example
for children. Despite their own early
starts, Wareham insisted that kids
and adults are never too old to start
volunteering.
As expected, some of the greatest
challenges volunteering poses for
these community-immersed stu-
dents is fitting the time into their
schedules. Fricano noted that its
hard finding time to do it when
balancing her schoolwork and
extracurricular activities. Manders
added that if youre taking on a
big project, getting enough people
involved and getting others moti-
vated can prove challenging.
Doing something oth-
ers wont, knowing you
could be doing other
things and volunteer-
ing for the right reasons
may pose conflicts for
young volunteers, added
Wareham.
Challenges aside, volunteer-
ing has clearly proved worth-
while for these YAPPERS.
Volunteering has brought with
it unexpected benefits, such as irre-
placeable life lessons. You dont
take anything for granted, Fricano
said, noting that many of the indi-
viduals she has helped through her
volunteer work are fighting to get
out of poverty. Wareham
added that
vol unt eer i ng
can be really humbling,
seeing people that work so hard for
things you feel like youve been handed
. . . you see things through someone
elses eyes. Manders concurred, add-
ing that volunteering makes you
want to make each moment of your
life worthwhileenjoyable.
Indeed, witnessing the effects of
poverty is a common thread in
what drives YAPPERS to volunteer.
Senior High School student Amber
Gulyash pointed out that could be
me in poverty; Im helping someone.
Once you know poverty is there, its
hard to ignore it, said Fricano. You
hope that someone would return the
favor if you were in that situation,
added Manders.
Along with fundamental life lessons,
YAPPERS are also
aware of the effect
their efforts have
had on the greater
Dubuque com-
munity. Vol-
unteering is
good for any
communi ty,
b e t t e r i n g
the place,
the atmo-
s p h e r e .
Helping out
is always good, Manders
concluded. Among their volunteering
accomplishments in Dubuque, YAP-
PERS have completed many local
service projects, such as post-flood
cleanup in downtown Dubuque, par-
ticipating in the Bridges Out of Pov-
erty program and working in Dubuque
school revitalization on National Ser-
vice DayMartin Luther King, Jr.s
birthday. Given their participation
in these programs, its easy to see why
Wareham feels volunteering has given
her a better sense of the community.
These YAPPERS recommend volun-
teering for those who are interested
or even curious about it. Manders
advised local kids to get involved,
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Its fun!
On a more serious
note, Wareham said
in order to be a
member of the
community, you
need to educate
yourself about the com-
munity, which she was able to do
through volunteerism.
Fricano considers volunteering a
good experience for everyone to
have. Her advice to local kids: If
theres something you really like,
focus your volunteering around
that.
Gathering a group of friends to vol-
unteer makes for a great shared expe-
rience. Blunk noted that many of her
friends volunteer at their respective
churches, the Dubuque Regional
Humane Society and the Dubuque
Rescue Mission. She noted that
while some friends think volunteer-
ing sounds boring at first, when she
tells them about the kinds of volun-
teer work she does, they often change
their minds. Wareham suggests inter-
ested kids and youth get someone
else involved that you enjoy being
aroundyoull leave with a sense of
accomplishment.
Given their first-hand experience
with the challenges and benefits of
volunteering, community service
and philanthropy, these YAPPERS
are sure to be volunteers for life.
Manders will definitely be vol-
unteering as an adult, stating that
her youth volunteering has taught
me to keep at it. I hope to do it a
lot more. Wareham agreed, noting
theres always people that are going
to need help. Theres always some-
one worse off. Fricano described her
volunteering as a habit now, con-
cluding that she sees volunteering as
a personal responsibility by exercis-
ing the popular idiom, Ignorance is
bliss, but not an excuse.
A final warning to parents: Being
bitten by the volunteer bug at
a young age may result in a lifelong
volunteering habit which includes
side effects such as a sense of accom-
plishment, increased awareness of
your community, acute empathy
and appreciation for what you have.
However, as Manders concludes,
theres no bad side to volunteering.
Spoken like a true victim of the vol-
unteer bug.
Right now, Davids on leave, so supper is usually
made and the laundry and dishes are done by the
time Cathie returns from work. It is the temporary
absence of my partner, that she greatly misses
when he is over seas or training, said Cathie. For
Nick, he misses having his Dad to talk to when-
ever he needs. While Alex feels his absence most
at sporting events and Ellie especially misses him
during family fishing, swimming and boating trips.
David struggles most with making sure everything is
okay at home from 6,000 miles away. He added
that, along with his service to his country, his kids
and wife have served too.
Nonetheless, the Tielbars are undoubtedly a tight-
knit tribe. They try to get at least four sit-down meals
a week as a family, Cathie explains, noting that they
can better share our daily bread spiritually when
they are able to break bread physically. The fellow-
ship is what supports a family, Cathie said. The
Tielbars have soughtand clearly foundthis fel-
lowship in other military families, their spirituality
and each other.
We at parenting: TODAY & TOMORROW extend
our deepest gratitude to the Tielbars and all military
families as they carry the greatest burdens and hon-
ors of armed service.
by Amanda Kloser
Nick came from Mommys tummy, and Alex came
from Mommys tummy. I came from Mommys . . .
Heart. Cathie Tielbar gently finishes her daugh-
ters sentence as 8-year-old Ellie explains her and
her brothers origins. By the time she celebrated her
third birthday, Ellie Tielbar joined her brothers and
parents in the United States after making a long trek
from South Korea, her birth country.
Sergeant and proud papa David Tielbar explained:
We are a German, Italian, Korean family.
Within the first few minutes spent with this family,
it becomes apparent that the whole Tielbar house-
hold is consumed in just that: Heart. After 22 years
of marriage, Cathie and David have weathered many
of the typical ups and downs of family life raising
18-year-old Nick, 15-year-old Alex, and Ellie. Add to
that the four deployments with the 133rd Division
Company A of the Iowa National Guard David has
experienced, and you begin to see how this clan
has become so tight-knit through their spirituality,
love of country and, of course, each other.
A typical week in the Tielbar house is filled with
plenty of extra-curricular activities. Nick, Alex and
Ellie are immersed in sports, choir, school produc-
tions and church activities. Cathie balances her
position as Operations Manager at the Guttenberg
Pharmacy with spending time with her family and
David is embarking on his first semester as a gradu-
ate student at Wartburg Seminary in Dubuque.
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has If you are or know a service member who h
ow- recently returned from active duty, the follo
nsi- ing organizations can help make the tran
tion to home life easier:
Your local company/battalions Family
Readiness Group (www.armyfrg.org)
Military OneSource
(www.militaryonesource.com)
Yellow Ribbon Program
(www.yellowribbon.mil)
rga- Even if you have no military ties, these or
ns nizations welcome volunteers. This Vetera
who Day, remember to give back to those w
have given so much!
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other events together. These parents
make family time mandatory and
instill this value in their children
from a young age. The second family
doesnt have planned time together,
but the parents volunteer at their
childrens events so they know who
their kids are with and what they are
doing, and the children know they
are being supported. Time is spent
with their kids, but it is less struc-
tured. Both types of families work; it
just depends on what works for you,
said Bryant.
As the children get older and become
involved in sports and other activi-
ties, maintaining that family time
can be difficult, but it can be done
with some forethought and flex-
ibility. Perhaps every evening meal
together isnt possible, but two meals
can be scheduled. Maybe the fam-
ily meal becomes breakfast instead
of dinner. The schedule needs to be
what works for your family, but this is
the time parents need to outlaw cell
phones, MP3 players, video games
and other electronic devices so fam-
ily members can talk to one another.
Bryant said this might only be 20
minutes a day, but it is the best way
to find out what is going on in your
kids lives and to maintain your fam-
ilys core values.
Setting limits on children, espe-
cially teens, can be difficult, but it
Hanging out with Mom and Dad is
not cool. For some parents, this is why
preparing for a family get-together
becomes a contentious process when
they have a teen who simply doesnt
want to participate.
This can become a huge argument
with both sides feeling they are not
being heard, or it can be an oppor-
tunity to show your teen how to be
respectful and negotiate. Casey Bry-
ant, professional counselor at West-
ern Dubuque High School, said it is
up to parents to keep the situation
from escalating.
The easiest way to do this is to set
your expectations for your children
at a young age. Respect for parents
needs to be built over time, explained
Bryant. If family meals or a family
night are established at a young age,
children become accustomed to it
and will argue less about it in the teen
years because that simply is the way
their family operates.
Bryant said he has seen two types of
family dynamics in his career as a
counselor. The first family is highly
organized and schedules meals and
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frees up time for family. All teen-
agers need limitsthey are not
very well-known for setting healthy
limits for themselves, said Bryant.
Establishing limits on cell phone
use, computer time, video games
and other preferred teen activities
on a daily basis will make it easier
when you have to deal with the
potential drama of going to a larger
family event.
If you have older children and
havent instilled the family first
mentality, dont lose hope. It
can be done, but it is going
to take work, said Bryant.
When the family reunion
rolls around, your hard work
when the kids were younger
will pay off, but it still may
not be easy. Teens want free-
dom and not your direct super-
vision, so a large family event
doesnt seem too inviting. Bryant
said the first step is to be clear that
missing the event is not an option.
Parents need to know they are going
to be manipulated by their teen.
You have to find a level of manipu-
lation you can live with and keep
your family values intact, said Bry-
ant. For parents, this is a delicate
balancing act.
Being a teen today is completely
different than when you were grow-
ing up. With todays hand-held
technology, teens are in touch with
their friends all day regardless of
where they are. When teens try to
guilt you into letting them skip the
family event because you will ruin
their weekend, parents need to use
the technology to their advantage,
said Bryant. At any family event the
teen is bound to spend at least part
of the time texting friends, and par-
ents should state that fact. Remind
teens they will never be far from
their friends even if they are miles
apart.
He also remarked that diplomati-
cally saying no takes skill. Being
the bad guy is a necessary evil if
you want your kids to grow up to be
decent human beings, said Bryant.
Parents can still be understanding
and compassionate. Bryant said it is
important to show your teen empa-
thy about missing out on an event
with their friends, but they also
need to know family is first.
Dont be afraid to negotiate,
advises Bryant. Most teenagers are
very understanding human beings.
Tell your teen that he or she needs
to make an appearance and spend
a specified amount of time talk-
ing to family members with the
phone turned off and the ear buds
unplugged. It is important to estab-
lish that family functions are more
than just a big meal with people you
see only a few times a year.
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friends. Teens need to be around peo-
ple their own age conveyed Bryant.
Functions can be difficult if there are
others attending who are not within
there own age group.
Another approach is to give your
teen a specific task when preparing
for the event. They can be respon-
sible for a dish to pass, decorating or
planning a game for everyone to play.
Ask your teen for ideas, because they
might think of something they find
more entertaining than anything you
would come up with.
Ive found at family events that if
theyre doing something, time goes
faster and they have fun, said Bry-
ant. He suggests letting the kids pack
games or other options that will keep
them occupied. Many times those
alternatives arent needed, but the
kids feel better knowing they have
possible alternatives. Keeping young-
sters busy means less stress for every-
one, remarked Bryant.
If your teen is one of the oldest chil-
dren at an event and ends up baby-
sitting the younger children, you
could pay them for helping out. Im
not suggesting that you pay your
kids to do things, said Bryant, but
everyones time is worth something.
Even a small gesture to show they are
appreciated can go a long way toward
keeping the peace.
Family gatherings you expect your teen
to attend are bound to be part of the
upcoming holiday season. One impor-
tant point to remember around the
holidays is that people often expect
everyone to be happy, but holiday time
is not always a happy time, said Bryant.
A family that is struggling now has to
spend a lot more time together because
kids are home from school. Bryant said
it is the parents responsibility to make
this a happy time regardless of family
tribulations. Be clear that it is family
time and let kids help with some of
the planning; doing so may make chil-
dren, especially teens, appreciate and
enjoy holiday get-togethers.
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deny it, teenagers love their parents,
and eventually they will appreciate
the memories of shared family time as
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desserts become their own food groups, wreak-
ing havoc on teeth and gums as well as waist-
lines. Especially during Halloween its important
to make sure your youngsters chompers are
protected after indulging in extra sugar. Nation-
ally, tooth decay in children ages 211 is on the
rise every year; dental caries (cavities) are the
most common chronic childhood disease in the
United States. With the help of a toothbrush,
floss and sensible eating habits, they are easily
prevented.
Amy Duehr, dental hygienist at Stoffel Family
Dentistry in Dubuque, said she sees a higher
instance of cavities in young children of this
generation, with some even requiring
anesthesia to repair a mouthful of
cavities. As a mother of two
young children who trick-or-
treat for Halloween, Duehr
said contrary to what might
seem like a healthier option,
its actually harder on the teeth
to space out the amount of time
between sugary treats. Its better
to eat or drink sugar in one sitting
rather than snack or sip for a long period
of time because when you introduce sugar into
the mouth, pH (acidity) level in the mouth drops,
and it takes a while to get that level back up to
a non-cavity-causing level, she said. Because
cavities are created from bacteria that feed
off sugar, the longer sugar sits in the mouth,
the more potential for fillings at your childs
next visit to the dentist.
A Halloween surplus of sugar (and ferment-
able carbohydrates in general) is never great
for oral health, but there are some candies
that are worse for teeth than others. Duehr
said the stickier the candy, the more damage
it causes to your teeth. Sticky candy has a
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on sodas, juices or sports drinks is
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Duehr stressed that even though a
child might still have his or her baby
teeth, its important to treat those
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Its unlikely that people will be
handing out toothbrushes and floss
to your trick-or-treaters, so remind
your child of the importance of
oral care not just on Halloween but
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teeth to make it amusing and informative at the same time. Toothbrushes nowadays come with bells and whistles
of all kindsanything from singing to flashing light-timed brushes are availableto enlighten the sensory experi-
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ith urban sprawl and many parents
working jobs far from Midwestern
agricultural roots, many children
never get the chance to visit a farm.
The Tri-State Market & Pumpkin Barn in rural
East Dubuque, Illinois, allows families a glimpse
of farm fun, an up-close encounter with animals
and the opportunity to see the origins of the veg-
etables they find on their dinner plates.
The market has been a family business since
the 1900s when the family pulled a wagon into
downtown Dubuque and sold fresh vegetables
at the farmers market. In the 1960s the family
built their current roadside stand and opened the
pumpkin barn in 1965. Mary Jo May and her hus-
band Fred took over the farm from her parents,
and now their son Terry May runs the market.
You will discover an old country market feeling at
the roadside stand along Illinois Route 35. Fresh,
seasonal fruits and vegetables are available
spring through fall. In addition, Mary Jo also sells
her freshly baked and canned goods, including a
variety of breads and cookies, jams and salsa. If
you prefer to spend time in the kitchen yourself,
ask Mary Jo for some of her recipes for your favor-
ite vegetables or fruits. Even some local chefs
have picked up her recipes when they purchased
fresh produce from the market.
The kids will especially love the pumpkin barn,
which is brimming with pumpkins of all colors,
shapes and sizes. You can find the perfect pump-
kin to turn into a jack-o-lantern or the ideal gourd
for your pies. The theme of the barn is Its the
Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown, and you might
even discover several of the characters among
the hay bales.
Behind the barn are
more attractions
sure to keep your
young ones smil-
ing. A variety of
farm animals will
happily greet
small hands
with their warm
licks. Aspiring
farmers can
climb atop
an antique
tractor and pretend
to plant the fields.
If your brood includes some rambunctious young
ones, the bounce house and inflatable slide will
be sure to burn extra energy. The explorers in your
clan can lead the family through the corn maze
while the haunted barn welcomes any brave souls
who make their way through the basement of the
barn. On Sunday afternoons a pair of horses get
in on the action by providing wagon rides through
a field near the barn. Ride bracelets can be pur-
chased for all attractions.
As the May family has grown, the children, and
now grandchildren, have added their own touches
to the fall fun, making lasting memories for any
family visiting the market.
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September 1October 1, from 9 A.M. to 6 P.M. It is
located at 1887 Highway 35 North, East Dubuque,
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efore you can even pack away the kids Halloween cos-
tumes for the year, fixings for pumpkin pies, dressing
and cornucopias are all over the stores. And before you
can even baste the Thanksgiving turkey, your kids are scream-
ing I want that! to the Black Friday ads on TV. The period of
back-to-back holidays from Halloween through New Years can
leave parents stressed out, but what about your kids? Holidays are
generally perceived as constant elation for children but in reality
those few months can leave them moody and overstimulated.
Joe Nemmers, lead therapist and licensed clini-
cal social worker at Hillcrest Family Services
in Dubuque, says much of the holiday stress is
media-driven. Theres a lot of hype culturally
about what holidays should be like, and when
yours doesnt live up to that, you wonder whats
wrong with you and your family, Nemmers
said. I think the media blitz has gotten worse over the years; its
hard to keep up with those expectations. It seems like an attempt
to mask whats really going on in reality.
The reality this holiday season is that many people are sitting
financially and emotionally drained. Holidays like Thanksgiv-
ing and Christmas generally mean family get-togethers, and that
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Aside from family issues during the holi-
days, another cause of holiday glum in
children is due to a break in routine and
just plain overstimulation. For kids, the
holidays are all about sensory overload
and anticipation and it can be especially
difficult for little ones to be thrown off
schedule. Children thrive on routine
because it gives them a sense of security
and stability. Limit-setting is part of a
routine and behavior problems increase
when that routine is not there, Nem-
mers said.
If you travel with small children for the
holidays, Nemmers said keeping them
informed is good for maintaining a sense
of stability. Tell them whats coming up,
where youre going, and what youre going
to be doing when you get there, he said.
The holidays and winter climate in gen-
eral can also disrupt a childs activity level
and diettwo factors that can make a
world of difference in your childs mood.
Try to keep them physically active and
limit their fat and sugar intake.
Children will commonly experience
behavioral ups and downs during the
holiday season that should pass as the
hoopla is over and things go back to real-
ity. Justmann said setbacks and repressed
aggression in kids often come out during
the holidays, but if it doesnt recess after
the holidays are over, seek the help of a
counselor for your child. Approach the
holidays not as a time to buy things and
force family cheeriness but as a time to
give thanks for what your family has and
to create fun memories regardless of how
your family compares with the media
norm.
can rile up reminders of whats been
severed within a familythrough
divorce, death, military leave, or the
loss of financial stability. These sound
like adult issues, but children tend to
mirror the stresses their parents are
feeling. Nemmers said parents should
relay the emotions they wish their chil-
dren to follow. Keep yourself together, be
emotionally strong, and show that you are
moving forward, he said.
Unfortunately, out of all the holiday
stressors, divorce is a common one that
can shake up a childs holiday. Regard-
less of the new family structure following
a divorce, its important to listen to your
children and let them feel their emotions,
but focus on moving on and creating
new traditions. Nemmers advises parents
not to force their childrenespecially
teensto attend an event where one
parent is introducing a new companion
because children will feel a loss of con-
trol in the situation. Instead, if they are
having a difficult time with it, Nemmers
suggests maybe allowing them to bring
a friend along to give back that sense of
control. While it is normal for children
to feel a grief response to the loss of fam-
ily as they knew it, Nemmers said parents
should affirm to them that youre not los-
ing your family, youre just changing.
Sarah Justmann, advanced registered
nurse practitioner at Hillcrest Family Ser-
vices, said the best thing divorced or feud-
ing parents can do during the holidays
is be civil toward each other. Primarily
with small children,
impressions stick lon-
ger and harder. Youre
the one helping them
form opinions about
the other respective
parent so its important
to get along and main-
tain consistent discipline of the child
from both parents so the child doesnt
take sides, Justmann said.
Sarah Justmann
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Real Steel 10/7 PG-13
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Skin I Live In 10/7 R
Martha Marcy May Marlene 10/7 R
Dirty Girl 10/7 R
Footloose 10/14 Not
Released
The Thing 10/14 R
The Big Year 10/14 Not
Released
Take Shelter 10/14 R
The Three Musketeers 10/21 PG-13
Paranormal Activity 3 10/21 Not
Released
Anonymous 10/28 Not
Released
In Time 10/28 Not
Released
Safe 10/28 R
Like Crazy 10/28 PG-13
Puss in Boots 11/4 Not
Released
Tower Heist 11/4 Not
Released
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DATE RATING
Very Harold and Kumar 3D
Christmas
11/4 R
My Week with Marilyn 11/4 Not
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J. Edgar 11/11 NR
Immortals 11/11 Not
Released
Jack and Jill 11/11 PG
The Bully Project 11/11 Not
Released
Happy Feet 2 11/18 Not
Released
The Twilight Saga:
Breaking Dawn
11/18 Not
Released
Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy 11/18 R
Carnage 11/18 Not
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Arthur Christmas 11/23 Not
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Hugo Cabret 11/23 Not
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Piranha 11/23 Not
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MOVIE RELEASE DATES
Courtesy of www.boxofficeessentials.com
Sniffles for Bear, the third and
newest picture book featuring
the endearing Bear and Mouse,
is finally here. This time around
Bear is sick and grumpy and
his friend Mouse does everything he can think of
to speed Bears recovery; he reads him a story,
plucks him a tune on his banjo, and serves him
soupall to no avail. When Bear wakes up from
a long nap finally feeling refreshed, he discovers
his buddy Mouse now has the sniffles and it is his
turn to nurse him back to health. Find out if this
old curmudgeon is up to the task! This comical
BOOKS SNIFFLES FOR BEAR
Bonnie Becker (author) and Kady MacDonald
Denton (illustrator) Candlewick: 2011
by Stormy Mochal
story about selflessness and friendship begs to be
read aloud and discussed.
If you havent discovered this beautifully written and
tenderly illustrated series start with Visitor for Bear
followed by Bedtime for Bear. Birthday for Bear is also
available for beginning readers.
MUSIC Teenage Dream
Katy Perry, 2010 Capitol Records
by Amanda Kloser
In her latest release, pop superstar Katy Perry
stretches the limits between bubblegum and hard-
core. Though certainly packaged in the melodies
and dance-club worthy beats that have defined
successful pop music as of late, Perrys latest effort
sometimes appears as R-rated content presented in
PG-13 clothing.
The Bad News: Loaded
with catchy beats
and addicting hooks,
Perrys latest album
is radio play list gold.
The content, however,
does not always prove
so appealing. Often
featuring not-so-veiled
innuendo and the occasional unsavory four-letter
word (Peacock, Circle the Drain), Perry illus-
trates that she has irreverently and unapologeti-
cally broken the bonds that kept Britneys Oops . . .
I Did It Again days in check. Though never overtly
obscene, Perry often flirts with inappropriate, par-
ticularly for younger listeners. Her dance-inspiring
grooves tend to promote copious alcohol consump-
tion and partying, which may send the wrong mes-
sage to teenage fans (Last Friday Night). Sexual
exploitation also maintains a presence (California
Gurls, Hummingbird Heartbeat).
The Good News: There are heartfelt and redemp-
tive pieces to this album. Perry takes this opportu-
nity to reflect on loves won and lost (The One That
Got Away, Not Like the Movies) and, most poi-
gnantly, the importance of love for self (Firework).
Particularly appealing to young female listeners,
these tracks show that who you are is not depen-
dent on relationships (Pearl), and that you are
even brighter than the moon just the way you are
(Firework).
The Bottom Line: Suffice it to say that this album
is branded with the parental advisory label for a
reason. Though it would be unfair to categorize the
entire album as music industry smut, much of the
content leans toward adult issues and should be
handled with care, particularly for younger listen-
ers. Kids are going to love the dance-heavy beats
and catchy hooks, but parents and guardians will
find some lyrical content objectionable. Listening
to this album together and discussing the impor-
tance of self-respect can make Perrys latest effort
a teaching moment by discussing the ways of the
music industry and making positive choices.
Amanda Kloser graduated from Luther College
with degrees in English, Anthropology and Gender
Studies. She plans to further study the intersection
between culture and music.
WONDERSTRUCK
Chapter Book, Brian Selznick,
(Scholastic Press: 2011)
by Stormy Mochal
Following the Caldecott Medal win-
ning The Invention of Hugo Cabret
(2007), Selznick is back with his newest master-
piece Wonderstruck. Within these 600 pages are
two characters stories: Roses told through Sel-
znicks impeccable charcoal drawings and Bens
told through Selznicks straightforward text. Set 50
years apart, Roses story begins in 1927 and even-
tually collides with Bens in New York City in 1977.
Both are searching for love and are willing to risk
everything to find it. Literally watch their stories
unfold in this rich, complex, and stunning novel.
Readers may want to read this title on their own
or aloud. (It is also recommended for the reluctant
reader because the large number of illustrations will
hold their attention.)
Stormy Mochal holds a degree in painting and history
from Loras College in Dubuque, IA. She has worked
at St. Marks Community Center, the Carnegie-Stout
Public Library and currently is a book seller at River
Lights Bookstore and co-owner of Outside the Lines Art
Gallery.
Stormy is also a childrens book illustrator. Her first
book, The Juggler, will be released in September 2011
by Ice Cube Press. Stormy lives with her husband Tony,
who is an artist and their two cats, one who wishes she
was an artist.
OCTOBER
Galena Oktoberfest, Eastside Riverfront, GalenaOctober 1,
noon10 P.M. Annual German celebration featuring live music,
wiener dog races and food and beverage. Adults/teens $5, chil-
dren free.
Dubuque Symphony Opening Weekend: 53rd Season, Five Flags
Theater, DubuqueOctober 1, 7:30 P.M. and October 2, 2 P.M.
The orchestras 53rd season kicks off with an all-Russian pro-
gram. Tickets available at the Five Flags box office and through
Ticketmaster, $12$46. For more information, visit http://www
.dubuquesymphony.org.
Bellevue Fire Department Breakfast, Bellevue Fire Department,
BellevueOctober 2. Call 563-872-4949 for more information.
Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOctober
3, 10, 17, 24, 31, 9:15 and 10:30 A.M. This 20-minute program
features short stories, songs and movement activities for chil-
dren ages 1835 months with a favorite adult. No registration is
required; parental participation is a must.
Mother Goose Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque
October 4, 11, 18, 25, 10:30 A.M. Children ages birth18 months
and a favorite adult will learn songs and action rhymes during
this interactive program. A 15-minute social time will follow the
sessions. No registration is required; parental participation is a
must.
Kennedy Mall Story Time, Kennedy Mall, DubuqueOctober 6,
10:30 A.M. Take a break from your shopping or plan a trip to join
library staff in this unique setting. On the first Thursday of the
month, in partnership with Kennedy Mall and Finley Hospital, we
offer wellness themed stories and songs at the Finley Play Area
between Sears and Younkers. Story times are free and open to
the public.
Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOctober
6, 13, 20, 27, 6:30 P.M. This 20-minute program features short
stories, songs and movement activities for children ages 1835
months with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental
participation is a must.
Teen Caf, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOctober 6,
3:305 P.M. The Teen Zone area will transform into the Teen Caf
for you to drop in after school for some fun and refreshments.
Look at books, work on a simple craft project, surf the Internet
or hang out with friends. Ages 12High School. No registration
required.
Read-Aloud Crowd, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque
October 7, 14, 21, 28, 10:30 A.M. Stories, sing-alongs, movement
activities, circle games and lots of funrecommended for chil-
dren ages 36 with a favorite adult. No registration is required;
parental participation is a must.
Driftless Film Festival, the Avalon Cinema, PlattevilleOcto-
ber 79. Check out independent films during this festival. Visit
driftlessfilmfestival.com for more information.
One Act Play Festival Winners, Grand Opera House, Dubuque
October 78. The Dubuque Fine Arts Players one-act play con-
test receives entries from around the country and the world. The
top 3 will be staged. Admission charged. For more information,
visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.
Beckman Catholic High School Gala, DyersvilleOctober 8.
Please call the school for more information, 563-875-7188.
Donkey Love and Chili Supper Day, Joyful Acres, GalenaOcto-
ber 8, 26 P.M. Adoptable, sweet, affectionate donkeys waiting
for love, treats and petting. Chili supper and fixings. Games, fun,
hot cider and more.
Galena Country Fair, GalenaOctober 89. Annual country fair and
craft show with more than 150 vendors. Fair food, live entertainment,
childrens games, farmers markets. Suggested donation: $2
Senior High Orchestra Concert, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryOcto-
ber 8, 1010:30 A.M. Join us for an entertaining and educational con-
cert for children and families. We will listen to spooky music such as
The Evil Eye and the Hideous Heart and hear quotes from Edgar
Allen Poes work. The concert will be held in Aigler auditorium on the
3rd floor. All ages welcome.
Reading with Rover, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryOctober 8,
10:3011:15 A.M. Kids will get the opportunity to read to a pet, or they
can just listen to a pet story along with some canine companions.
Please do not bring your own dog. For kids grades K3. No registra-
tion is required.
Galena Mystery Series Book Signing: Sandra Principe, Hello,
Galena!, GalenaOctober 8, 15 P.M. Author Sandra Principe will sign
copies of her five Galena Mystery Books at Hello, Galena!
Dia de las Americas, Colts Building, DubuqueOctober 8, 58 P.M.
Traditionally celebrated in Central and South America, The Day of
the Americas celebrates the rich culture of indigenous people and
todays multicultural society. Event will include Hispanic and Latin
American musical performances, dance performance and lessons,
food and displays. Free event.
Story Time at Comiskey Park, Comiskey Park, DubuqueOctober 10,
10:3011 A.M. This 2030 minute story time is for ages 35.
Picture This at Your Library!, Carnegie-Stout Public Library,
DubuqueOctober 1622. Watch for our Teen Advisory Board You-
Tube video on Facebook featuring everything you can picture at your
library. During Teen Read Week, book covers will be displayed in the
Teen Zone areawhich is your favorite? Cast your vote and pick up a
Teen Read Week gift.
Teen Collage Contest, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOcto-
ber 1622. We can be very random thinkers, so what better way to
express this than by throwing a conglomeration of things together!
Collages will be accepted from October 1October 14. Collages are
on display through Teen Read Week in the Teen Zone area. Put your
thoughts together and show us how you Picture This at Your Library.
For ages 12high school. Collages should be no larger than 12x12.
Teens R Reading Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library,
DubuqueOctober 17, 44:45 P.M. Area teens: check out this book
club designed for you! This months reading: Excalibur: The Legend
of Arthur by Tony Lee (graphic novel). Please register at the Youth Ser-
vices Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.
Kids Flick: Yogi Bear, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOcto-
ber 19, 23:30 P.M. Join us for popcorn and a showing of these feature
films in the story time room. For ages 612. This activity is free, but
seating is limited. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-
4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.
BTween the Pages Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library,
DubuqueOctober 20, 44:45 P.M. A book club just for ages 912.
This months reading: Smile by Raina Telgemeir (graphic novel).
Please register at the Youth Services Help Desk and pick up a copy
of the book.
Meet the IllustratorStormy Mochal, Carnegie-Stout Public Library
October 22, 1011 A.M. Meet local artist and childrens book illustrator
Stormy Mochal. Stormy will read her first childrens book that she has
illustrated, The Juggler. For ages 4 and up. Please register by calling
the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk
at extension 2228.
LEGO
Club, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryOctober 22, 12 P.M.

LEGO
fans ages 712 are invited to come to the library to build, cre-
ate and have fun. LEGO
creations will be exhibited in the library.

The program will be held in the Aigler Auditorium on the 3rd floor.
NOVEMBER
Space is limited and registration is required. Please register by calling the
library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at exten-
sion 2228. Donations of LEGOs
are appreciated.
The Music Men Barbershop Chorus, Grand Opera House, DubuqueOcto-
ber 22. Their annual show is always a crowd pleaser. Admission charged.
For more information, visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.
Museum & Aquarium Trick-or-Treat, National Mississippi River & Aquarium,
DubuqueOctober 23. Frightfully fun, family-friendly sights and sounds of
Halloween will fill the air as you venture through the Museum & Aquarium
campus and collect treats from the many costumed volunteers. Admission
charged. For preschoolelementary aged children. For more information,
visit http://www.rivermuseum.com.
Kids Night, Culvers Frozen Custard, GalenaOctober 25, 4:307:30 P.M.
Coloring contest, prizes, balloons and balloon sculptures. Free admission.
Live Performance of Leroy Satchel Page: Long Rifle, Five Flags Theater,
DubuqueOctober 25, 67:30 P.M. This is a 90 minute one-man solo per-
formance narrative based on the life of baseball legend Satchel Paige
(19061982), who was the first Negro League player elected to the Baseball
Hall of Fame in 1971. This event for ages 7 and up is free but please register
by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help
Desk at extension 2228.
Teen Advisory Board, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOctober 27,
4 P.M. What programs would you like to see for teens at the Library? What
music titles and graphic novels should we add to our collection? If you are
ages 12high school you can help make these decisions and become a part
of the Teen Advisory Board. This is a lot of fun and a great opportunity to
earn volunteer credit for school. Call Sharon at 563-589-4225 x 2237.
Galena Halloween Balloon Glow, Galena River Levee, GalenaOctober 28,
79 P.M. Balloons lit from within make a spectacular site at dusk as they are
lined up along the Galena River. Weather permitting.
Paint a Pumpkin, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueOctober 29,
1011 A.M. Show us your artistic painting skills when you get creative and
paint your very own pumpkin to take home. For ages 8 and up. Please reg-
ister by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services
Help Desk at extension 2228.
33rd Annual Halloween Parade, GalenaOctober 29, 6:30 P.M. Galenas
33rd Annual Halloween Parade takes off down Main Street with ghouls,
ghosts and floats galore. Join the fun and see why thousands line the
streets every year. Treats for the kids and lots of spooky surprises!
Pancake, Egg & Ham Breakfast, Oxus Grotto, AsburyOctober 30. Pan-
cake, Egg & Ham Breakfast from 8 A.M.12:30 P.M. Cost: adults $6.00,
children $3.00. The Oxus Grotto supports children with cerebral palsy and
dentistry for the handicapped. For further information call James McGov-
ern, 563-451-2812.
Halloween Trick-or-Treat with Spooky Stories, Carnegie-Stout Public
Library, DubuqueOctober 30, 23 P.M. Join us in ghoulish fashion for
our Trick-or-Treat event. Wear your favorite costume and parade through
the library to collect treats and enjoy a spooky story time. For ages 10 and
under. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for
the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.
Bellevue Rotary Halloween Parade, BellevueOctober 30, 34 P.M. For
more information, please call 563-872-3413 or 563-872-5830.
Halloween Event, Multicultural Family Center, DubuqueOctober 31, 5:30
6:30 P.M. Childrens activities including face painting, pumpkin decorating,
coloring contest and other games for prizes. Drop in for this fun, family-
friendly event. Parents are encouraged to attend this event, which is open
to youth 410 years old. Free event; call to register.
Mother Goose Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 1,
8, 15, 29, 10:30 A.M. Children ages birth18 months and a favorite adult will
learn songs and action rhymes during this interactive program. A 15-minute
social time will follow the sessions. No registration is required; parental
participation is a must.
Kennedy Mall Story Time, Kennedy Mall, DubuqueNovember 3, 10:30 A.M.
Take a break from your shopping or plan a trip to join library staff in this
unique setting. On the first Thursday of the month, in partnership with Ken-
nedy Mall and Finley Hospital, we offer wellness themed stories and songs
at the Finley Play Area between Sears and Younkers. Story times are free
and open to the public.
Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 3, 10, 17,
6:30 P.M. This 20-minute program features short stories, songs, and move-
ment activities for children ages 1835 months with a favorite adult. No
registration is required; parental participation is a must.
Teen Caf, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 3, 3:30
5 P.M. The Teen Zone area will transform into the Teen Caf for you to drop
in after school for some fun and refreshments. Look at books, work on a
simple craft project, surf the Internet or hang out with friends. Ages 12
high school. No registration required.
Read-Aloud Crowd, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 4,
18, 10:30 A.M. Stories, sing-alongs, movement activities, circle games and
lots of funrecommended for children ages 36 with a favorite adult. No
registration is required; parental participation is a must.
National Farm Toy Show, DyersvilleNovember 46. Hundreds of farm
toys for sale, trade and show. Toy auction; mini pull; kids pull; displays;
dioramas, and more. Admission charged. For more information, visit www
.toyfarmer.com.
Once Upon a (Blank)Fairy Tale Improv, Bell Tower Theater, Dubuque
November 5. The talented improv actors from the Quad Cities Comedy-
Sportz have a brand new show that the whole family is sure to love. Using
suggestions from the audience they will replay popular fairy tales the way
the kids want to see them. Admission charged. For more information, visit
http://www.belltowertheater.net.
Card Making, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 5,
10:3011:30 A.M. Join local artist Justina Reisch for a card making workshop.
Learn tips and techniques to make a perfect happy birthday, thank you or
Christmas card. For ages 712. Please register by calling the library at 563-
589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.
Tween Holiday Scrapbook Workshop, Carnegie-Stout Public Library
November 5, 23:30 P.M. Have you ever made a scrapbook using paper
bags? Register for this workshop and be ready to have a place to put your
holiday memories or give as a gift. For ages 912. Please register by calling
the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at
extension 2228.
Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 7, 14,
21, 28, 9:15 and 10:30 A.M. This 20-minute program features short sto-
ries, songs and movement activities for children ages 1835 months with
a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a
must.
Veterans Day Program at Bellevue High School, BellevueNovember 11,
1011 A.M. Bellevue recognizes its veterans. For more information, please
call 563-872-4639.
Beckman Catholic High School Trivia Fun Night, DyersvilleNovember 11.
Contact the school for more information, 563-875-7188.
Festival of Trees, Great River Gallery, BellevueNovember 1127. Wednes-
day through Sunday, 10 A.M.8 P.M. For more information, please call 563-
872-5830 or 563-872-3388.
Reading with Rover, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryNovember 12, 10:30
11:15 A.M. Kids will get the opportunity to read to a pet, or they can just listen
to a pet story along with some canine companions. Please do not bring
your own dog. For kids grades K3. No registration is required.
Cha Cha with the Chamber, Season 6, Marquette Education Center, Bel-
levueNovember 12. Watch Bellevues own stars in this elegant dance
competition. For more information, call 563-872-5830.
Native American History Month Event, Five Flags Theater, Dubuque
November 12. Native American culture is full of colorful traditions in music,
dance, dress and storytelling. Join us for an interactive, family-friendly pre-
sentation and exploration of Native American culture and traditions. Free
event.
Holiday Crafts, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, DubuqueNovember 12,
1011:30 A.M. Members of the Fleur-de-Lis chapter of the Embroiderers
Guild of America will teach how to stitch and assemble two felt ornaments
for the holidays. We will make a Thanksgiving turkey refrigerator magnet
and a Christmas tree ornament. For ages 9 and up. Please register by call-
ing the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at
extension 2228.
Bell Tower Follies, Bell Tower Theater, DubuqueNovember 1213. Enjoy
some of Dubuques most talented performers and help support the Bell
Tower Theater. This unique fundraising event features more than 15 indi-
viduals and groups performing a wide variety of acts. Admission charged.
For more information, visit http://www.belltowertheater.net.
Story Time at Comiskey Park, Comiskey Park, DubuqueNovember 14,
10:3011 A.M. This 2030 minute story time is for ages 35.
Hillcrest Italian Dinner, Westminster Presbyterian Church, Dubuque
November 16, 4:308 P.M. Co-sponsored by Marios Italian Restaurant and
Westminster Presbyterian Church in Dubuque, Marios Hillcrest Italian Din-
ner has been an annual event since 1985. Funds raised through ticket sales
to the dinner are used to purchase Christmas presents for clients in the
Hillcrest residential treatment programs and the emergency shelter. Tick-
ets: $7.00 adults; $4.00 children (12 and under). For more information, visit
http://www.hillcrest-fs.org/specialevents/dinner/.
BTween the Pages Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque
November 17, 44:45 P.M. A book club just for ages 912. This months
reading: The Birchbark House by Louise Elrich. Please register at the Youth
Services Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.
Irving Berlins White Christmas, Grand Opera House, DubuqueNovem-
ber 18November 27. The stage version of the popular 1954 musical fea-
tures familiar songs like Sisters, Count Your Blessings, Snow and
the title number Let Yourself Go, Blue Skies, I Love a Piano and other
Berlin songs that werent in the film. Admission charged. For more informa-
tion, visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.
LEGO
Club, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryNovember 19, 12 P.M. LEGO

fans ages 712 are invited to come to the library to build, create and have
fun. LEGO
creations will be exhibited in the library. The program will be held

in the Aigler Auditorium on the 3rd floor. Space is limited and registration is
required. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for
the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228. Donations of LEGOs
are
appreciated.
Galena Mystery Series Book Signing: Sandra Principe, Hello Galena!,
GalenaNovember 19, 15 P.M. Author Sandra Principe will sign copies of her
five Galena Mystery Books at Hello Galena.
Dubuque Symphony Orchestra: A Musical Journey Around the World, Five
Flags Theater, DubuqueNovember 19, 7:30 P.M. and November 20, 2 P.M. The
program features composers from England, America, Haiti, Czech Republic
and Mexico. Tickets available at the Five Flags box office and through Ticket-
master, $12$46. For more information, visit http://www.dubuquesymphony
.org.
Teens R Reading Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque
November 21, 44:45 P.M. Area teens: check out this book club designed for
you. This months reading: Ship Breaker by Paolo Bacigalupi. Please register
at the Youth Services Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.
Kids Flick: Mars Needs Moms, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque
November 23, 23:30 P.M. Join us for popcorn and a film in the story time
room. For ages 612. This activity is free, but seating is limited. Please register
by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk
at extension 2228.
Reflections in the Park, Louis Murphy Park, DubuqueNovember 24January
1, 510 P.M. nightly. The hills of Louis Murphy Park will be alive with glitter and
glitz as the glow of thousands of Christmas bulbs and animated displays light
up the park. Cost: $8.00 per car. For more information, call 563-583-7357 or
visit Hillcrest Family Services.
Thanksgiving Weekend and Holiday Kick-Off, Eagle Ridge Resort and Spa,
GalenaNovember 2526. Kick off the holidays on Thanksgiving Weekend
with Santas arrival, breakfast with Santa and tons of other holiday activities.
Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.eagleridge.com.
Unwrap the Magic of Christmas, BellevueNovember 26. Join the city of
Bellevue for a plethora of Christmas activities! For more information, call
563-872-5830.
Pancake, Egg & Ham Breakfast, Oxus Grotto, AsburyNovember 27. Pancake,
Egg & Ham Breakfast from 8:00 A.M.12:30 P.M. Cost: adults $6.00, children
$3.00. The Oxus Grotto supports children with cerebral palsy and dentistry for
the handicapped. For further information call James McGovern, 563-451-2812.
Admission charged.
Cookies and Cocoa with Santa, East Dubuque Fire Station, East Dubuque
November 27, 14 P.M. East Dubuque Business & Tourism Council presents:
Meet & Greet Santa & Mrs. Claus! FREE cookies and cocoa for all! For more
information, visit splinters_flowers@frontiernet.net.
Unwrap the Magic of ChristmasTour of Homes, BellevueNovember 27,
15 P.M. Tour five beautiful homes throughout Bellevue, followed by hors
doeuvres and wine at Great River Gallery for raffle of trees. Admission: $10.
For more information, call 563-872-5830.
Kids Night, Culvers Frozen Custard, GalenaNovember 29, 4:307:30 P.M.
Coloring contest, prizes, balloons and balloon sculptures. Free admission.

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Club, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryOctober 22, 12 P.M.

creations will be exhibited in the library.

Club, Carnegie-Stout Public LibraryNovember 19, 12 P.M. LEGO

creations will be exhibited in the library. The program will be held

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