The art of speaking

A Special Report By Sinn

Introduction
H y ust a I gi ttk bupa ig ma ee e gy, dy o goa aotS ekn Wo ns o m n l which is basically learning to decode the signals that women give. Wo e cm ui tvr d f et t n e oT e aoo m n o m n a e ie n yh w d. hr s l f c e y fr l a e t hidden meaning in what they say and what they do. But, once you get the hang of what they are really saying, life gets much easier. So it seot e lae c srok t w m nsh k g n nh r rw t a l e l aa o at ni ad i p l k o o i n behavior. I gi t tk bu t s d f ecsWhere they come o go a aoth e ie ne. m n l e fr from, why they come about and the general social applications that come about because of the different way women socialize. Plus, we are going to talk about the physical and mental aspects of t f a pyhl y H wa o am n l physical aspects h e l sco g. o w m ns et and e m e o a are a major driving for bh d ot f oa,f o ebhv r c ei m s intl o w m ns eai . e n , l o A dyulgt go i a f o w m n h k hnto e t n,o ea od d o hw o a t n w e icm so l e i sex and sexual relationships.

Logic VS Emotion
Wht r l i e sn aoth w y e ad o e a se l n r t g but a m n n w m n ay t e i e communicate is the different ways that we send signals. Men are generally going to be a little more logical; women are generally going to be a little more emotional Men are very, very logical. We are much more verbally direct and we are more physically direct too. We touch. We grope and we grab. We awkwardly state interest ... and we hit on girl T a s ai l s ht bs ay . cl how we communicate. Women on the other hand kind come equipped with a more sophisticated way of communicating. A lot of it comes from the fatht o e dnti sc l ct w m n ol e oi a k a discomfort. Most of the time they want to do what society thinks is right. What do I mean and what does it all boil down to?

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It comes down to the two basic drives that drive men and women have. Drives which are different. Once of which is the drive to have a f i tnr rad o rwsm t n o t io nt t t vr a l o ut e n t go o e i fh r w , a sh e my u hg e h e y feminine drive. Some guys have that drive very strongly later in life, but generally, men have more of a drive to achieve a passion or a purpose. ht T as something that drives men more. So now I gi to talk about where these differences come from, og m n how they kind of come about and what general social applications happen because of the different ways women socialize.

Social Awkwardness:
Why do women hate social awkwardness? Because, women have a bunch of very intricate social values and social hierarchies that feel they have to follow. When women are out socializing - especially when they are out at clubs with their friends or in other social situations - they play very intricate games because of these social values and hierarchies. Whto m a? m ns ad I en Wo esocializing depends on a very specific ed ol a sh ed olE e g l atted p i a od n ga Wht t n ga vr i w n o n u wt go . e ? y r s h emotional outcome. The end goal for every girl who goes out is to feel good ... to experience good emotions. N w yu a sy a o t s od m t n i o e sxWhn o ,o cn a pr fh e go e o on l s e. e t e i vv girls are out partying, sex is a big part of those good emotions they want. Women like being hit on, especially by the guys se ar ted h ta s tc to. Another part of these good emotions is being with her friends and experiencing a lot of fun, freedom and excitement. Again, all of these are good emotions. So when girls go out, they want to feel good, to have those good emotions. A lot of the time they might even want to get laid, but somehow these social values and hierarchies get in their way.

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How? Well, there are a couple of things that stop women from just bni eeyoyhy at u m syt t isc l ag g vrbd t w n B t ot ish roi n e . , l e a programming.

Social Programming:
Remember earlier I mentioned that women have a social hierarchy? We a isc l i a h hs en rga m d tn a y l g l oi h r cy a be por e aa er age. l rs a e r m l And women like to impose this social hierarchy on sH c t yv u. ekh e e done it all of their lives. You see; women have endured years of sexual brainwashing. From early on their parents teach them to say NO. Not to mention the dozens of organizations and various other bodies, such as the Christian Church, the Harems in ancient Egypt. They did the same. All of thes gop ad ep s pe u ad a dnt ae e. e rus n pol t pd p n si ohv sx ee d They told girls to wait. Said that it b to be monogamous and that est s sex is supposed to be special and shared; that sex should be amazing and this, that and the other. It goes on and on! So, at an early age, women think sex is taboo. T a s hrao o ht w e l f e t the anti-slut defense comes from. It comes because of the societal rules laid down by men. Society tells girls that they should stay virgins. That is for a girl to sleep around, etc. And, maybe for good reason! t bad It cr i y little more dangerous for girls to sleep around; e a la s tn primarily because girls can get pregnant. In theory, if there wantn say laws and societal stuff, guys could just go around impregnating every girl he slept with without any consequences. He could keep moving a ud n w u ntel l e nt n a l g s e i gtn r n ad ol r l o ay i so a h d nteay o d ay s hg n d STDs, right? The reputational value of having a kid out of wedlock is still bad. O cus is as horrible now. Single mothers have gotten a lot f or t not e m racp b r et ,uis tlo e i t t gi t ad oe cet l e n ybtt slsm t n h o go d ae c l i h g as n some baggage. Girls with kids usually have a story ... a bad guy ... a r aosi t ti w r ot t A dnwse r s gh k b e t nh h d nt ok u e . n,o h a i t i y li p a d ,c s in e d herself. Plus, girls with a kid can have consequences; not necessarily

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bad consequence, because some people like kids, but still consequences nonetheless. So this is the type of stuff that girls think about. Plus girls that have sex and flaunt it are looked down upon by other girls. They often get harassed, called sluts and thought of as skanky, etc.

Social Hierarchy:
A dia a w cnt l ehm E e s c w w rk s n, w y e ab m t . vr i e e e i n a e y n e d w e a gr e pol pthmi o ie ngop. popular e ct oi d ep ,ut v e z e e n d f etrusThe t fr kids are always picked first. They are picked first for sports teams, for homecoming king and queen, the prom king and queen ... and this, that and the other. In general, our social structure flows from the bottom up, kind of like a pyramid. With the wide part of the pyramid representing the not so cool people, because there are so many of them. The top represents a few, rare, really cool people. Get it? Cool guys want cool girls. But the coolest people are the rarest to find, so what happens when the coolest guys want to have virginal girls and the girls get all hung up with that social programming and say no. Well, a lot of the time guys get really mad at girls because they woho u. t n, k; ht y e ihsad hy e o i ntok pWeh kl eo, e b ce,n t hl n i i h r t er dg ot n t y e o g h , aadh other thing. u adh di t st t n t , er n i h e Tob i g lr l cnt i If girls fuck they get picked on, if rul s ise l awn e , r ay . t y ow t at ml e h . h dnt er th i si And, is ol e lof this sexual e e e k t t nti a k l r r s n so l a t g l f lehr e e i it ay l h i a ti e p so tl l e rs u t . Girls are just playing by a set of social rules and hierarchies that were predetermined years ago by men. S ,o cntel gt a ag l since we sort of created a lot of oyu ar l em d tis ay r, that sexual stuff. Probably becue e e o aoo sxai us as w gt l feuls e too v t s ... more than we let on anyway!

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T a When the Claws Come Out! ht s

L t l k to sc lrga m n ad i a h w r. e s e so ahw oi por i n h r cy ok L t o a m g er say there are two girls and both girls are pretty equal physically. They both look hot. F rh ea p , t ue Jersey theme and call one girl Vicky o t s xm l l s a i e es and the other Barbie. So Vicky and Barbie are like best friends, until one night they go to the club and end up liking the same super hot guy. They both compete over this hot guy and Vicky wins. Vicky gets laid and Barbie gets pissed off. So now they hate each other, but since they know the same people they still end up going to the same clubs. S hr sh qet n Wh hs oe oi pw r T e n w os o e t uso: o a m rsc l o e h oe h e e i a ? higher on the pyramid ... the one who got the guy, right? So since Vicky got the guy she has more social power... she won right? So what happens? Barbie says something like: Oh, well, you know she just a slut. She was cheating on him. I saw her suck this gys i it bt omto ek aoe . ud k nh a ro w w es g,t c e h c So no a o a udn hplaying the social game. She pulled w l f sde se l s out that social hierarchy card to raise her own social value and to lower her friendsocial value. s Identae o e l go i rot that sex is a powerful tost w m n o tf ue u k n g weapon; a weapon that can be used against another woman to lower their social power. Yet, if I was the guy who got my dick sucked in the club by Vicky, and she was in a relationship at the time, tht osnecessarily mean adent I look bad. It may make me look a little bit scummy, but scummy in a way that attracts girls, as opposed to hanging out in the Camaro in a parking lot at a high school. That would really make me look scummy.

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So what stops women from getting laid?

Female sex drives are very, very powerful, much more powerful than men; especially as women get older. Women tend to hit their sexual peak around thirty-two, whereas men hit their sexual peak around eighteen. This means that for us guys, when we are out clubbing, dating or enjoying the single scene, we get further and further away from our sexual peak whereas women get closer and closer to theirs. When it comes to sex most women are just like we are. The same as we walk down the street and get aroused by a hot girl; women check out guys too. They see a cute guy and they want him. Maybe he reminds them of some guy they used to like, or a guy they had a crush on when they were like ten or something, or a guy that fits the stereotype that they are attracted to. Who knows, but ee nwadhn o gtis h vr o n t yul eg lw o y e l r r l dnt i a uk busc lrga m ng or what others think. e l og e fc aotoi por i ay v a m The type that will pretty well fuck anyone and be proud of it. These types tend to be a little older. Mostly because thyv a ed ee l ay r gn t og t tt i td w asc t w n hase and now oeh uhh y go o htoiy at p r a rn e s t yra ib t about relationships and what society thinks. h b ie e e t tr Mab t w o m raeh gsfrhm T e dnt ath yeh hl a i t n i to t . hy ow nt e e rg i n e e w o m ngm t n,eas t yv be bre bfr Pu,s hl ooa yh gbcueh e en und e e l a e i e o. s they get older they get closer and closer to their sexual peak. Whatever the reason, just realize that women get attracted like we do. Women check out just as many guys, as we check out girls, maybe even more.

Women Get Aroused More Sensually!

So if women are just as horny as we are, especially as they age, what stops them from going out and just fucking every dude, they think is attractive?

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Is eas w m n ear t i a ie nw yMe a m r t bcue o e gtta e n d f et a. n r oe tc d fr e visually aroused. We see a hot ass or a nice pair of tits and sometimes t t a it e. h l ta s as l k Women get aroused more sensually. And, because of all the good e o oshyra e t isnul seems to touch all of their m t n t f r h resay i e e t, e l senses: hearing, seeing, tasting, smelling and touching -- all of that kind of blends into the overall process. So when girls go out, remember they want to feel good, to have those good emotions. And, in most cases they really want to get laid, but somehow all that social programming gets in their way. But getting them aroused sensually helps.

Club Competition!
Another thing about psychology that you have to remember is that is cm et nepc l ic b. a nto uhbut clubs t a o pti ,seil n l sB r o s m c, io ay u s competition is huge! And, thr s las h r cy f ol e a y a i a h o copeople and the girls who go e w er out them. When girls go out, especially in groups their goal is to be the coolest, funniest girl at the party and meet the coolest, hottest guys. S ,is r s ee t yltell you they know this person and that og lde btr h r s t, e l person, they know this, that or the other, just to stand out. For girls tht w am ks go n h (Now of course a good a s ht ae a od i t g. n hcn nl e e, t gy nw w ahdi . uot t i ta i u sxi h u ko s ht e o gB tf nh g cd fe s n e e guy never makes a move.) Y ulee se o e rus f ishtc ay i t m e e o vn e sm gop o g lt at l g eh sl s l r a ul v e v names and stuff. Like the Sex and the City girls were in their twenties. (They would have weird like The Lions or something.) These types of groups exist, and within them each girl usually has a different role. I know it sound crazy, because it is! Itr l w i t w yh se l e dh a t ay r e e club-culture works. But each girl will have a little role in helping them be the coolest girls in the club.

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Y ulhv a i t t r pni ethe driver; another will be the o ae g lh e os l l r as s b, flirt who gets all the drinks, then you have the girl who knows people, the girl who gets people in, etc. So when girls go out they have a big goal and a local goal. The big goal is to be the coolest girls and to meet the hottest guys and the local goal is to make sure that they are all following their individual role goals. T a s hy girls will police themselves. And, wh is c ay ht w yt at l ul easier to get same-night lays when t r s mixed group of guys and he a e girls. When groups are mixed, and at the end of the night there is a guy or two guys and another girl (or a couple) and the conversations goes something like: He, e going to go back to my place and hang out yw re for a bit, so w se o gy l e, w s i tm eyuand the e le yu usa ri a n eo eto; l t t c g l a going along with it, gy w nt say: No, wait, you said you i r rs e us o were coming home with us, and we made a pact... whereas the girls can. So, one of the reasons girls will do that is because they have that overall goal of trying to be the coolest, hottest girls. Heck, youlse e l girls cock-block each other, even when they are with guys who have a lot of values or guys who are really cool. Some girls will just cock-block each other, because it makes the whole group look bad as a whole. They may talk about a slutty looking group or girls. Say something like: Oh my gosh! Thy e uh l s e sc s t r u; t y ohv ay h dnt ae n values. So to avoid this from happening, girls e police each other: Remember a girlbehavior is influenced by: s Lack of social awkwardness Policing each other Maintaining social reputation, and Being a social climber

Yes, women are social climbers! They are attracted by social values. And, the more they seem to have, the better.

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Does that mean that social value is the only thing thati pr n sm ot t a? Absolutely not! You are not in danger of some cooler guy just coming along any minute and stealing your girlfriend or wife because of it, but know that in every segment of life ht rt t P A aa w e e ish T ,t club, in a h e sororities, or a volunteer group - women have a tendency to try to climb to the top of the social hierarchy. Isj tht omen want to get as high socially as they possibly t u t w s a can. They want to have as much socializing control over events and activities as possible. Is a o t int e t pr fh r a r t e u. So, if a girl is in a club group, is oucm o fr ets ih t ntno m n o hro wt c groups, or start dating someone from another group, just to raise her social value. Is l i pr n tko t tee l g lwlnt t a o m ot to nw h gnr l is i o move down s a a ay r l social hierarchies in order to date, but they will move up social hierarchies to date. Espc l t r l ht isisel ul e eil h e l o g l t r l n kl ay e ay r, a y i y t thyldte people they think are beneath them socially. h t a a e l Iyu oati t t e f u,n yu ohv t i n t f o dntcl eh y o gyad o dntaeh d ty k e p e ei tke t t e f i t to w n yurnt o eph y o g lh yu at o ogoing to be able to e p r a , e magically swoop in their with a lot of game and pluck some girl w os h used to like partying with celebrities, and put her into some lifestyle w e se et g uh ad o eoy to e ed g o ibos hr h an ssi n sm bd ahm r i cm c ok e s i , an ad a h g V bcueht ntek d fem n ilead l n w t i T ; eas t ohr i o sg etni ,n a cn as n f l girls are different. S is e important that you know w at e f i yur ot vr y hty o g lo p r e looking for, for the type of relationship you want. I ea e about that tkd v l a lot, and I will continue to harp on it, bcue t n is n o t eas Ih kt oe fh i e most important points overall in dating. T a s i o a little of the thinking behind why women are going ht k d f n to act like they do, the anti-slut defense, theesn w y is o r os h g lw nt a r even flake. A lot of guys are very confused by flakes, but, he t r sh e e thing, if you make a girl feel uncomfortable every time you call her, shegi ted p tci a uc o uncomfortable emotions s o go n u aah g bnh f n t n with you. Women are very good at associating emotions with people.

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On the other hand, iyu ae getitm r s n hgi f o m k a r fsi pe i se o g a r so s n to be really, really happy to hear from you, you make a bad impression, se gi tb r l ,el usto errm yu n t t os h o go ee l r l petha f s n ay ay o oadh ge a back to the idea that women are more emotional than men. How she f lt m j i o t t e o t e ewlb t e sh a ry fh i yur o t r i eh e e ot em e gh l e emotional temperature that she remembers. Ise f l gi : Oh my fh e i l e s en k God, I really like this guy, I want to be around him all the time;ht t as go.fht ni , ntue bu t s u,e a ilw i ; odIse h k gI osr aoth gyh lt e d s i n m i s te r and you keep calling, and calling then you fall into ed e ney vr y quickly. So you want to be aware of what her emotional temperature is at all times. The idea is, she is emotionally experiencing something every t ead hgi t g e o c e a t w aii bcue o e i ,n se o g o i yu l s so htts eas w m n m s n v u , are not just going to come out and tell you these things. Girls will rarely say what they want; what women say they want, and what they actually respond to obviously are two very, very different things. But very few girls are going to come right out and say something like: I t n isel hot to get shoved during sex, and I like being h kt r l i ay thrown against things, and I like having my hair pulled, being bitten, being taken up the ass, and experimenting with weird-group scenarios. Tht just not going to happen most of the time. as Like I said before, because of the social consequences, they have to pay lip-service to those social rules. They dnt ato e epni e ow ntb r os l s b for sexual or the relationship's escalation, mainly because of that role that they play in society of being socially oppressed.

Pushing The Interaction Forward

Pushing the interaction forward is YOUR responsibility! It yu or s j td t ecli . o t oe h has to move thing o o o h sa t gY ur h n w o b e an e e forward. This mean that you have to take responsibility for every escalation, take responsibility for meeting her, approaching her, touching her,

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moving her, getting her phone number, trying to lead her back to your place, setting up a date, etc. etc. etc. Men lead ... w m n o so get over it. o e dnt ... If yu ol et dntnww attl o. o dnti i I oko hto e yuWomen are just k , l more attracted to guys who lead. Most women dont want to take on t tepni lys t y om l w nt h r os it o h nr ay o a s bi, e l . Of course, there can be plausible deniability. With women plausible deniability is huge. This means that a girl can explain away her behavi s t th dentae take responsibility for what o o h se oshv to r a happened or the escalations that have just happened. These are key when it comes to threesomes, which we are going to cover later in the year. But for now just remember that you always have to provide a reason for everything. Everything you do should have a good reason attached, but not the real reason. Yo cntuti cy o e uad a, H ycm over u aj d et cm otn sy e,o e s r l hr wt m f a eod and when the girl asks y... you ee i eo scn... h r Wh? say, Well, I know that I need to move you around in the venue a lot so yueli yuv ko n eogrplus I want to get you out of your o f le o nw m l e, e k e n friendso e ag s Ia t k iyo o T a s o gi to vi rne o cna d ttyu . ht nt o g c l r n work. Instead say something like, e, e e oing to go over here for a H yw g r scn, j tel w nts dw and then you sit down and you eodIu ra y ato i o n s l t put her on your lap. Or say something like, e! ra yra y H yI el,el m l l hungry. I have these great cookies at home and I really want one, why dnto cm bc wtad g e o oebto cntt oyu o e ak i n Il i yu n,uyu as y h l v a long. Just remember to never make it her fault! Even if she accuses you of bad stuff, you can turn it around on her and make it her fault, but in a playful way. Never seriously make it her fault. H r s hat I mean. e w e For example, if she says, oe oeh t aoo g lhvnt Y uv dn t so l f is ae i t r yuyu a sy oisutoralfr e g o u . o?;o cn a,N , j yu f to bi s ct .but t s u n e. r e br eptl flt never ever her fault. e m eke ip yuis m a

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H r s nt rm ot ti B cue f g l sc l e ao ei pr nt . eas o a i oi e h a p rs a programming, if you want her to go home with you should always give her a reason she can tell her friends. Why? So when they ask her what happened the night before, where se et t.se ohv t syWow, I was really horny and h w n e . h w ntaeo a: , c. . wanted to get fucked so I just went with this guy because I knew he was going to fuck me. ht nvr good strategy. Instead help her have a T a s eea more planned out r pne R m m ese gi tpyisri e os. e e brh o go a l e c s s n p ve to that societal thinking, so help her come up with an acceptable story. One time, right in front of me, a girl thte l t i on the first aI s pwt v e h night told her friend that w d ntl p i ec o euntil the third e i s e wt ah t r d e h h or fourth date. Even though I was there, I know I had sex with her the first time we met, but the reason is, they want to look good socially. T a s h I this fact to my advantage. Il ht w y use bring a girl in on this l and say something l e ok o gi t gt i ,L o yur o go ecock-blocked, so k e n yuv gto i yu fed aesn o comi hm wt m oe o tg e orr ns r o yur v i a e n o e i e. g h O , sy okI c a y i ole o,o nt rIla. L o, at l k d fi yus I o telling my l ul n k m friends that I met you in a bar because t t ra yak. So where did h el t y as l c w m e A d g t og a role playing scenario to nail down the e et n Il o h uh ? l r details about where we met. Another thing I do is say, ok nt ai ot i yun L o I o m k g uwt o i a m n h bart t ra yra yt k. s uh s w ntk s o, nt h el,el, cyA m c a I ato i yuI o as l l a s m going to do it in a a,o ogtn i a ad at l w nt brs dnteayd s... n Ic ay o e ul do it. In fact, I actually wokiss girls in bars, mostly, because I found nt that I never get laid quite as often if you do. Instead while at the bar I maintain t sxat s nhogoth n h Il into dirty talk h eule i t uhut i t get e no r e g .l ise i ot n t s,n t s, tease, and when the kiss finally fh n i ad e eade eand s t , a a hpesis bu a ii t e more powerful,n yu ogt apn, aot b l ni s t lo m ad o dnt eas much cock-blocking. But I will draw societal attention to stuff like that. Basically, you dnt ae uwt sm bd you just met in a bar. om k ot i o eoy h Why? Because it shows people tht coadht nto g to aI oln t I ogi m a m n do anything weird to make a girl look like a slut. If I demonstrate concern about her social reputation, by talking about how discreet I am, when we get to stuff later it actually escalates

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a lot faster. Is I create space for it to start escalating, because she t like knows that nto go e her out or anything. Or to get I o gi tw i m n rd freaked out and tell people that I banged some slut. T a s kyh g respect is really big with girls in general. ht a e t n; i As long as you show the girl that her open sexuality is not something that affects your respect for her, yurigo cm ay o n od o pn. e I e a d lot of girls who are more o w aI a dt a v e f ht cl upper class l ... sophisticated like sorority debutants and stuff. Those types of girls are really wild and freaky when you get them into bed. But when these girls get into normal society situation they act super-proper. They often w nt oeven kiss you on the cheek. S isel i pr n t to so t g lhto r pchr ot r l m ot th yu hw h i t yu e ete ay a a e r a s no matter what, An t to t n se co n m tr ht h dh yuh k h ol o aew a S e a i s t . s got to know that the sex stuff is just fun stuff that will be kept between you and her. The guys who are really good at this understand that the sex is not a big, crazy deal. Girls want sex as much as guys do and that nobody needs to know about it. Because the more people that know about it the less people will want to have sex with you, because women dnt at ow n all those bad emotions from having sex. Now obviously, you woever say anything like that to them. But nt t t t overall kind of thinking that you need to do, and demonstrate, hh as e iyu el w nt udrad w m ns sco g ado at f o r l ato ne t a o apyhl y n t m s r ay sn o e this stuff. So, within those social levels, girls need to be fully respected even whnhyr r et g o. e t e cn yu Alot of the things that women do, have a e e j i way of being scooted a ud eas is os e d social violation. r n bcuet cni r a o de So, basically the idea is that girls have cognitive dissonance, right? No girl even the girls who go out and blow guys off super-hard want to think of themselves as bitches. Thy ow nt eethink: e dnt ato vr I t t e girl who is a bitch and blows guys off; so they have to h y of m e p rationalize it. Women are constantly looking for rationalizations.

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What do women really mean?

When girls met guys they have all sorts of comments and opinions. Some they will tell to your face, others only to their friends. This section will cover those comments and reveal what they really mean. Lame and boring is a good reason to blow someone off, but girls wlnvre a u t te l e n br gIs a, e g e i eetl gyh h a ad oi .nt dt yl i l l a sm n e h lv short answers, not elaborate on any point, not laugh at anything the pr n as T e g e i o g e e d ln v s is i t i e o sy. hyl i k d f i w i p i i m l wt h r s lv n v r a te e h e eyebrows a little bit raised, and basically just give him enough rope to hn h slut h sy sm t n rdo sm t n t tl w ag i e n le as o e i ue ro e i h ao s m f i hg hg a l t mtsuh ot o tyl e oyu us atoa t h o hti uple , k;D nt o gy w nttko e m il i l m ? Iyurbi t a dh w ym yet bcue o e f o e g r t t s a, ab is eas yur e n ee i e coming across lame and boring. So what do girls consider a guy Agys hj t nice ? uw osu s b t t ae g. e t e o oaeu a no t f ci , e la l vr eH h m t nlqi l tfh a h kt a ny a s e i ve e t c h average chick. Nothing good, nothing bad, just very vanilla, very blandnice, boring; polite, boring; friendly, should be good, but could be a little too much. Wi n e usg lpoalsy o e i l e lyu nw t i gy,is rbb a sm t n i ,We o ko , h c r y hgk l w j t ai a ovr t n e en r nsbto r l e eu hv g cne ao bt e fed,u yur e l r s n si w i e ay n eIs i m en yu. hn hyok i i .t n e et g oT e t l h c c i e c mout of the cne ao.t ple n t y ohv t b a ihMuh ee ovr t nIs o tadh dntaeo e b c. c btr si i e t t t n uew dnt atoa t yugtw y. sg la nt h ,D d, e ow nttko o,ea aMotis r o a l r e comfortable saying that. Iyurt t e f u w o is ec b a f o h y o gy h g ldsr e s really nicew a e e p r i , ht they r l sy g shto a a bit boring. No one that masters r e l ai it yu r e ay n a e t st f olb cld really nice However, being known as h s fw u e ae i u d l . really nice is okay too, but realize that most women may find you a bit boring. So, what does it mean when a girl says,He was creepy! and how does that translate into real life? Well, e was creepy!translates into H he either the guy did too much touching or he spooked her. Meaning he made her feel uncomfortable. eut ant H j w spaying enough s attention to her comfort levels.

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So, hcep, would mean too touchy, it could be leaning in, it e rey s could be not releasing your touching early enough, it could even be that you were talking with your hands too much, but creepy is generally going to go with touching, and leering; staring, getting caught looking at g l besao o cek g eoto m c,r hci ot th i r t l ,rhci hr u t uho cek g u e rs a t n o n other girls. D ay fhs t ns n g lwlt n yurcreepy! o n o t eh g ad is i h k o o i r li e Of course there are a several different levels of comfort, which the next section will explain. In the meantime, le sok to e t r o m n . e sut e t l asm o ecm et Lt j b o h s s friends. e sut e r nsrma i u cn xat l m asI L t j b fed f s i o p kp ot tc ay en, c e ul dnt atoa t yu nm r Pcu into polgnr l ow n ttk o o ay oe i p s ohw ep ee l l . k e ay become friends. Obviously there are exceptions to this. I have had sex with girls who have later said: lj ter ns n t t w re e su b fed adh okd t s i as out really well. But generally, if you s fr g l poe u bro ke ak g ak o a i hn nm e r ep si a rs , n girl out, or you take her out and then she says, t j ter ns Le su b fed. s i se r l sy gI ntn yu tl h e l ai , oi o o aa . s ay n m t l Remember, pep dntee l g tbrt f d r ns Is ol ognr l oo a o i fed. t e ay s n i m rl e t to dtpole you meet in bars, because friends oei l h yul a ep ky a l e are going to hang out for long a long period over l o t e.t a ao fi sIs t m b cm i et T e m rcm i eto fedh t n tso i o m t n hr s oe o m t nt a r nsi h iit g m . e m i p a g o a a oc,ot r l j t n e a o lt g o dw . o n dt nes ise l u a i w y fei yu o n e ay s c tn Now, if you actually wantb fed wtt s i ad o dnt to e r ns i h g ln yu o i h i r want to have sex with her, then agree and actually continue and pursue a friendship. Jscnt t r i hriser so l e r os utos n y e n e fh te tf k o dent al m d , i a w nthn ot ht o j t ato e r ns n yurntri ato ag u t yuu w ntb fed ad o ot n ,a s i e yg to get into her pants. A lot of girls will flake out o yuee w e yurj tri t n o,vn hn o u t n o e s yg be their friedbcuehyh k o j t sing some kind of a n,eas t t n yur u u e i e s pickup technique or something. T e ao o gy w o eo e r ns. h bcm ob e a hr s l f us h bcm fed .w o eo e rir s e t i . ts we call it in the community ... and they basically just hang out with hot girls as thyrfed as part of an eight-ya sdco p nT a s e r ns ei ereut n l . ht i a nto g o okS iyurdi t tt ir hnw ogi t w r. o f o o gh s p ti to . n e n a o g

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Be friends iyu el w ntb fed,u dnts lj te f o r l ato e r nsbt ouee su b ay i t s friends as a a o gtn g l bcuet j to g o r t w y f ei is eas isu gi t c a t g r, s n ee problems later on. Girls will remind you about it, then you look d hns adt nt odo ee p r aosifudt n n i oet n is o go tdvl a e t nh onao o s , o li p i that. O cus, t n is getdao c ay ae emale friends. I f or Ih kt a r i t at l hv f e i a e ul think you learn a whole lot about girls from girls. Il t n is r l go i ao a h hw l e and the a oh k t ae l odd t w t so si Sex s i ay e c k City, or if you can stomach them, even Soap Operas, because you get a real insight into both female fantasy and female reality in those types of shows. Plus, you also see the swell of emotions, the whole logic and general values and societal teachings that get tossed out the window w e t r hk d f u cm s l gS isel pey elt. hnh i ti o gy o e a n. ot r l r tr ii A eg n o ay t asc lot of the interactions between guys and girls are real, especially in Sex and the City.eere qi a if mt thw I l nd u e b r h so . v a t to a A o ecm eto m gtershave a boyfriend . I have nt ro m n yu i ha i I h h , a boyfriend, could mean a couple of things. I have a boyfriend could men o h t g n e n I ntn r t . ee l ,o gt a yur ii o m ad oi e s dG nr l yul e e tn m te e ay l that if you do a daytime approach; or you go really, really direct. For example, if you say: Hey, I noticed you from across the park, ad t n yurasl e aoal I at to come over here and n Ih k o bo ty dr e w n d i e ul b, e meet youI Jn,t .ad h r ls oe ..n see i :Sorry, I have a m c. pe by i d . Basically, tht en I ntn r t i yunht a. ofe rn am as o i e s dn o it w y m te e a It may or may not mean she actually does have a boyfriend. It may just be a polite way of blowing you off. Often girls say they have a boyfriend because is r l es w y t ae l ay a ay to get rid of a guy. Of course, she could have boyfriend and be telling you that she just wants you to know what the situation is. So o dnt yu o get too attached. I nt b blvrnh oa i eeei t every girl cheats school of thought. I m g i e dnth k ht prcl lt eIh k otis rpey oet ot n t a i a yr , t n m sg la r thns i a s tu r u i r e t adoaw e t yr iflln r aosi . n l l hnh n u ii e t nh s y e e fl g li p I just think most girls and guys settle to easily. So you have to be aware that most people that are settling or in a settled relationship

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usually means that all bets are off. They are just going with the status the relationship as it is at that time. So, sometimes girls will say they have a boyfriend because they wan yu o nwt to nt o g o e t mee w e,n to t ko h yur o gi t seh vr ekad a e n e y that this may just be a one-time thing. I t tae ht gi thpe it yr gi tdo ii nh cs w a s o go apnsh o go rptn a n e e n like: Oh, yeah my boyfriend. rhyre going to say something like, . t . e o go to the hw or me and my boyfriend do that, this, or the We so o e uiwlcm fr einto the conversation. t rbtt i o e ut r h l h The further into the conversation when the boyfriend thing comes up, the easier it is to get around it. If you get that line uf n yur m slikely stopped. Unless you pr t o ot o, e are a real confident guy, in which case you can openly state that you are gi tpr e e dsi t f thth hs byr n .t t o go us hr ep eh a t se a a ofed.h n u t e c a i . as what I do. B s ayIuta,O a t t co de h t ayu e? and ai l , j sy kyh ol os er to w l cl s as , e l se say assm t n l e eh e os. hn syI h uul sy,o e i i ,Y a h de T e Ia, l hgk w u nt . e I ep a i . n ise r g iu aa Ia, ol .t n ke tk gA dfh bi stp gi sy d .h ln n n e poalgi t b pey a t t o frn m . yu H rbb o g o e r t m dh yur lt g e. o s y n t a e ii . solpoals pyu nw I df ily trying to get into your hu rbb t ,o ko , e n e d y o m it pn ,ot poal a a i a at s is rbb bdd . s y e Because when I do that I create a little bit of a societal matrix. Normally, woman will continue flirting, because she wants to prove t thi eedn S wants to show you that she can flirt, and h se n pnet he a s d . that she has control over her own emotions. Wht di i aI o gs m n challenging her and usually the more she flirts and the better it feels, the more likely she is to hook up with me. Wht r l di isy g mr l ca i ad aI e l o g sai .I e l hr n n I m ay n n ay m g m definitely trying to get in your pants so you should run away, because you eeko . more than not she say, se nvr nw .So . l l We le! l I end up creating a little trap where I get really powerful emotions all stirred up. But it also plays up the fact that she has to keep objecting, which add sexual tension... good tension. Of course, I have to take

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responsibility for the escalation, which is something I talked about earlier. Another cm eto hai nt ai sx. nt o m n yul ers We e o hv g eWe e o l : r n r having sex means I a t ni aot ai sx n w a ot w sh k g buhv g e ad e e l s i n n r m certainly going to have sex. We e ohv g e il et so dw at O.K. Corral in ntai sx si , e hw o n th r n k h e one-night stands and in getting girls back to your house and stuff. Is n o t s t nsw e iyu opliotit h t oe fh eh g, hr f o dnt u tufs se o i e l r, s df ilgi t pliotn,o dnt ato ee bh d ht e n e o go u tuadyu ow ntb l tei t i ty n l f n a 8th ball. You might hear this one just as yurpln t g lu o t br o u i h i ot fh a e lg e r e o c bo w e yur t i tgtet cm bc t yu p c for rl ,r hn o r n o ehro o e ako or l e u eyg a a a . hl e okw ntei lds dnth k o dt S e i ,L o, e e ogtn a ,o ot n yur e sk r tg i i e gtn ld, k: nth kh im i in yu p o e t v w ei a l eDot n t ss en t g o u t seh i tg i i i i vi e e or something. What she really means is m k ot i yu . When a girl Il ae u wt o l h sy t ts ht ni aott h ko st gi w l s se ash ise h k g bui se nw is o g e,o h a s i n , n l ko s o a t ni aott o hgtn ii o h oe. h nw yu r h k g bui S se ei tn t pnS e e i n . s tg t e s r s g e oj t n,oht s rcni i hrht e hu a i hr b coss t Ilt tov c g et w sol in ei a l a nn a d hv sx T a s ai l w a s o g on in her head, she wants it, ae e. ht bs ay ht gi cl n but for social reasons has to play hard to get. You see, girls want sex too, bthy owant to feel any bad ut dnt e emotions about having sxT e dnt ato elhthyrbi a e. hy ow nt f t t e g e a e e n s t hy ow nt f lhthy rpr i yu that they are l . e dnt ato e t t a us n o or uT e a e e ug g i u t ipw ro so. hy ow ntf lhto dnt i n p h r o et onT e dnt ato e t yu o vg e o e a r pct madhy ow n tf li yurgi tgt e d e eth n t dnt ato e l e o o go ew i s e e e k e n r ad ed r ha ei O tf li yuv m n u t t mi o n ney i tf rt ro e l e oe ai le h n g t . e k p ad e t that decision. So therea hlbnh fhs lt l d i so vi B t f s w o uc o t eil a m n tao . u i e e te n e d , yu a ao t mad h w n tgta ,seiliyur o a o cn vi h n se at o eldepc l f o n d e s i ay e date ... and she came out, she took time out of her schedule to get to know you... she likes you... she wants you to make it happen and make hr atto apnt nt a go. use nto go oto ew nit hpe, e is l odB th ogi t d ifr h l s n yuS is e i pr nt rt to atsfh sxs e a ,u o. ot vr m ot th eh yu ca it e icr i bt y a e a e tn yurnt o g o uh o o gi t ps. e n

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One of the biggest things to change my game was when I started to tell girls what was going to happen. They used to call it selfcommentary. You want to tell them what to expect from you, because women are big on honesty, in most cases much bigger on honesty than men are, I think. Everyone knows that we all tell little white lies. Everyone does, and g la n ecp o. n,o e is oiaot hr t yr gi is r o xet nA dsm g ld l buw e h o g r e i r e e e e n ad h t yrs ei wt a d sm gy. uIh k n h n w oh l p g i ,s o o e usB t t n o t e ee n h i e whole women respect honesty a lot more than men do. So if you can be honeswta i ad e osa t to t i g ln dm nt t h yur h r re a e serious about your intentions, while being funny it works. Just say, gi tke h t g n o ut yuuk e .ad sog s I o go ep ii o yu n lo f m . n a l a m n tn i c . n yu aetun ad o so t mt thyr iflcn o t t o m k ifny n yu hw h h t n u ot l h e a e e l r , as really the sweet spot. One of the keys to my game is telling girls how really aggressive I am o I gi t b. l t mko t t nto go t r o go eIle h nw h I ogi ts p m n l te a m n o hitting on them and that I am trying to have sex with them, but I also let t mko t t never going to do anything to make them h nw h I e a m uncomfortable. I actually say, okI ra y tat tyuO L o, el a rc d o o. bviously, I like m l t e yu eas ot st tn t o e Ile hr ht like about o bcue fh , a adh t r. tlew aI i h e h l l her and why I want to have sex with her. Stuff like, mr l I el ay ar t t yuad gi t ke h t g n o ut I ae e ta e o o,n I o go ep ii o yu n l hv sx tc d m n tn i with you,ofht a rb mwe should probably just part ways right s it pol as e now and they usually respond with, hal syur hns and ... A ,te to oet a e I l e i ,Cool they lag,n nwt y nwk d f ht m k and uhad o h ko i o w aI e n m about. T e le I poalsy o e i l e hna r rbb a sm t n i ,Look, the most t, d y hgk unattractive thing in the world to me is feeling like I want someone m r t n hy at eira y rs s e u oeh t w nm , el gos m ot which is true, a e t l e ... because I used to get a lot of last-minute resistance and it really does gross me out. Iel dnti f l ght t i t sa p ead r l r r l ol e e i t I r n o cm hrn c w, ay k en a m y g a o tue n t e fr k o ei o g lpn . dnti t t o s ayy o tc tgtn a is at I ol eh . p i t r s k a

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I want the girl to really want me as badly as I want her, and so if I ever feel like I want a girl more than she wants me, then it grosses me otn Ilutt pr i hr uad j s p us n e l s o ug . Is laot ai a i f lo fr b ! t a bu m k g g le cm ot l l n r e ae

3 Levels of Comfort!
The strategy of the game is all about making the girl more and more comfortable, or at least making her a little bit less uncomfortable. You see the game is just making a woman feel more and more cm ot l i r s g ,n lhr d t b cm ot lia o fr b , c ai l ut se e yo e o fr b n aene n y i s a ae sexual way. The first level of comfort is what we call social comfort. ht T as when you are okay with giving a stranger the time of day when they stop you on the street. However, if you look like a bum and you are walking around on the city streets asking for money, people are probably not going to stop because t r i eog social comfort. h es tnuh e n Whereas, if a normally-desd e o,u o g las r e pr ngy r i sy,Hey, do s s r you know where the subway is ro e i l eht o gi o sm t n i t . ur o g hg k aY e n to be a lot more likely to look at them and answer. You see, people are nros hnhy oko w a s o g o apn n is e u w e t dntnw ht gi t hpe adt v e n normally something that they dnt ato el i . social ow nt dawt So, h comfort is the first level. Second level of comfort is rapport comfort, where people feel comfortable exchanging information with you. This is when they trust you or are comfortable enough to get to know you in person, etc. The third level of comfort is sexual comfort. T a s hen people ht w are comfortable getting physical with you and when they let you get sexual with them. The main thing to understand is that girls are always going to have a different way of saying things that allows them to act in a way that they want to act. Remember, they will preserve good emotions at all cost.

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D nt es rud n t ttrap a girl for leo. nto g om s a n ad r o o y a r nI ogi t m n to keep trying to get in her pants over and over and over again if she dent att neither should you. osw ni and , I mean, if a girl says no to me I l im ty ol et e t a l dnti i I gi e k . legitimatel blv t tfhgi t b ucm ot lI owant y eeeh ise o go e no fr b dnt i a s n ae her to associate being uncomfortable with me, especially if I like her. II f mtrying to get a girl into bed, for the most part I really do like them. I ow n t mt b di sm t n that t yr gi t dnt ath o e o g o e i e n hg h o go e e n regread dnt athmtd sm t n t thy ofl , fully tn I ow n t e o o o e i h t dntu y hg a e l want to do, bcueht j to co eas t u ntol as s . Gr hv t ko t thyrin full control. It a e d is aeo nw h t l a e e wi s r juxtaposition in the r pni lybcuehy ohv ay e os it eas t dntae n s bi, e responsibility for the making of the moves, but they want to feel like they are in full control. Wh h en Ilae epni ly o aggressively pursue them, i m as t r os itfr c l k s bi but they have to take responsibility for accepting my moves. If they dnt oshow me that they are acceptable, thn nto go ep e I ogi tke m n going. Ifhy ol e ht hpei , I gi ts p t dnti w a s apn g o g o t completely. e k n m n o So even if they like it a little bit, when they say, no, no, nono more kissing, is kissing; and I guess it k d fi iro f ee or t no i o s l ta r z-out s n ma e w a vrbtht t fspr The second part is linking it with ht e ut h ita . e , as e r t actually knowi w ayurdi sxayand in bed and the dirty n hto o g eul , g e n l talk. This is the ultimate idea of where the balance should between pushing and letting a girl know that se c h omfortable, because you s need both halves of those in order for her to get comfortable enough for sex. Whn h sy,We ntai sxoi tinormally means e se as r ohv g e t g t e n nh that she feels l et getting a little too obvious that I want sex. For i is k example, say w bc am place alone, the candles lit e e e e ak t y r , w r cdl g nh cuh n se as ud n o t oc ad h sy,Okay, we e ohv g e i e ntai sx r n tonightIs rbb because she wants to slow it down until she feels .t poal y more comfortable.

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S e r l sr m n, nto f t lbeing this sexual yet, h e l c a i I ocmo a e s ay e g m rb but I want to be;hbs ay ai m k m m rcm ot l se ai l sy g ae e oe o fr b s cl n ae sexually or make me more turned on. So when you hear that, so one of those two things. ht df il T as ene i ty sm t n Il o e i do. hg l At nt e Iuk lravl fc around with what I call my really, really e i y overconfident game. With t t j tae vrt n that they say h Ilu t ee h g a l s k yi like an indicator of interest. Everything they say, Ilutun n t mt i tgt en j t i oh r n o em i o l s r t e yg t bed. so if a girls says, w nt ai sxIlei ; e e ohv g e, b l e Believe it or r n l k nt hadht e r f mg lt t then ended up doing o I e er t bf er ish I ,v a o o r a hr b ,iyh g t s w l v t t n u it a T a s or l d tt nso o e le eh oe pnh i . ht ie r i , l a a e r j t fnyill ef o hv t bl frt t ael fny one, u a un lt i iyu aeh aso i Is r l un s te n e l . ay bttosa as well; so, use at your own risk. uidentl y go w T e etn t t w nttk bui dnto X until the first h nxoeh I atoa aots I od a l date C m etl edntl p i sm oe n h fsn h I . o m n i ,I os e wt o en o t i t i t sk e h er g m et m I os e wtsm oe n h fsdt I ok s n eth , dntl p i o en o t i ta , dnti o e e h er e s th fsdt I ohv sx n lh t r date,e . e yu er ei ta , dnt ae e ut t h d r e i e i t Whn o ha c those kind of numbers, or arbitrary rules what girls are really saying is, l e o,uI want you to respect me because I want a relationship. Ii yubt k Anytime a girl starts to say something like, dntoh tlh I od t si t i l e t r dt I od t ti t scn dt t en t th h d a , dnt oh tlh eod a i e a l e eim ash se a s already put you very clearly into a relationship track, bthptn u se u i s tg you into a relationship track whr se ot lt si sIs o e h cn o h tn .t nt e rs e rg so e i se doing consciously, obviously, btt t w y h sees m t n h hg s uish a se e you. She sees you as a courtship guy. As the guy that is kind of boring but dependable, like the Toyota Corolla of men. It gets you where you need to be...gs osm t nsbd entae n m j a cnu p o i ta...doshv ay a r i n o problems... not too expensive to take care of ... but, dentxi yu osece o! t S ay m yur gtn sm t n l eht tai l m as o nt e o ei o e i i t , bs ay en i e tg h g k a i cl you just are not sexually attractive enough t hr e S e ntei o e yt h ose g . s n you in that way where she wants to rip your clothes off, she sees you as the type she can have two kids, a family and a white picket fence with. C m etl ehtapn hn o bi too nice, not being o m n i t hpe w e yur e g sk a e n

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dismissive enough, not having enough jealousy, not seeming like enough of a guy who would satisfy her in bed. Generally is t those emotional things that look good-on-paper. You ko , gy ht r -five, a lawyer, never been married, tall and nw a u w osh t iy athletic, but j toi a si adtosd ay i t u br g sh ,n ident o nt n o s n t hg emotionally stimulate a woman in any way whatsoever; the type of guy who dentne t d o ttko is r osudra hw oa tg lo how to read their body sn l r language, etc. Like I said, a guy that looks good on paper, but is horrible in real life. So dnteht u, yure getting stuff like that yuv f l ob t gyi o a f oe ae ln into that category. Another good one is, mnthti o g l Y will get that a I ot k d f i ou a n r. lot. B s aytut en se cek go e it r s n r ai l ij m as h hci tsefh e ay espect. cl s s n e The whole key to diffusing that one is actually deconstructing it. So a l o t e w e g lsy mnth g lht i hv sx i yu o fi s hn is a,I ot i t wl ae e wt o t m r e r a l h in a public bathroomo, nth g l h wlhv sx i yu rI o t i w o i ae e wt o m e r l h down by the river, or wherever, the lakee . sy ,t Ila,Look, t r c l he e s no such thing as that kind of girl. Ih k o a eo eIh kh t n yur w sm , t n t s i e i i ira y o btfo ucmot l co w j th l. Then sel ht uiyur no f a e ol e lu ci l , e rb , , l s l Il actually start moving back into the venue. I wait until we get a l d little bit further and closer, thn face her and push her against the e Il l wall and make out with her again. This usually turns that one around and it works pretty well. The main thing is to show her that you woj g hr So when ntu e e d . she says, nthti og l I o t k d fiand you reply, T a si clous, m a n r ht r i du t rn sc thing as not that kind of girlbut this is really weird h e o uh e s and I do f lel i es wtyu i t o ,n is o ad dnt e ra yn ne i o r h nw adt ht n I o e l t h g , really knwbt j to g i i. ut, yur r h w should o uI u gi wt t b o i t e m s n h. . eg stop, and we should go in, in ther.S e r l trying to regulate e . h e l . s ay her body temperature, because se osw n yuo h k ha h dent ato tt n se i s slut. Sh dent at efed tt n se a l ad h dent e osw n hrr nsoh k h s tn se os i i s u want tf li se lost control. Sh w n t f lhthm k g o e l e h e k s e at o e t se ai s e a s n this dc i . o sayh cm etel m assonvince me eio S uul t s o m nr l en i c sn l i ay , that this is the right decision to make.

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Th l tn t t e la aot ea oeh w tk bu before we talk about some facial s a l l , expressions ad o e t rh g g lsy ur aek l e n sm o et ns is a;Yo j p yr h i r e r a asshole . Usually when girls go, o a l e Yo j kYo a Y ur p yr. e a ur e . ur n e r e aso it just basically means they are attracted and they are testing s l he to see if you actually are cool. They are at least interested in getting to ko yu n t y edo e iyuractually going to be able to nw o adh ne tsef o e e stand up for yourself and set personal boundaries o iyurgi t rf o o g o e n bend and start qualifying yourself. Basically anytime a i cl yu htn se nte angry g las o t ad h ovr r l a s y ad oe ot know the difference between really angry n yuv gto you want to think it in terms of the technicality of the game. That would be a qualification hoopl e nt e g lasyur , k ay m a i sy,o i i r e a player, yourae ,o a aso ,tse bs j kyur n s l e h aically throwing e r e he c s out her hoop to see if you are going to jump through i Iyurgi t f o o g . e n tao g e n sy o ntht i o gyo iyu rgi t o pl i ad a yur ot k d f u,rf o a o g o oz e a n e n d ay i e e S e t t go e it gys chump w os o nt n l . h e i t sefh u ia hg s s sn e h going to do whatever she wants. I e eer l hd htapn n sI isomething over and nvre l a t hpe ul s d v ay a e d over and over again that created that result. Now, you are a player, is actually what we call a double-bind bcuet oe fhs t nshto dntnw ryuutgoe eas is n o t eh g t yu oas e o j i r o i a , s n it. There are three basic prequalification hoops that girls throw at you. You can agree and exaggerate and say something like, Actually, I olhv e hg li d,uiyur ra yn rs d n yu n ae i tife sbtfo el i eet ad or y g rr n e l t e application completely checks ouI wln t ad o a t n t t ii o d yu sh i h m lg e n or Actually, you know, I e udw thaving sex with girls only on cto no v days that end wt Y . i h You can say anything that exaggerates and agrees sog st a l a is n fnyIyu am k t ml g o eagr e ornw r un.f o cnt aeh a h rxge tyu as eto e u a absurdity, then it just l k l e o t i tqalify yourself by o si yur r n o u o k eyg cut g o m n g lyuv gt on n hw ay is oe o i r .

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It ge t o ew yo,u yu a sri iiisun. osh t r a t bto cn uv etft fny e h o v Whereas if you syo nt p yr t n o t i t qaf a,n I oa l eh yur r n o uly m a e eyg i yourself as a nice guy and they win. So again, agree, exaggerate and nvr i ge. ht l eh fs eed ar T a si t it s e k er t n,oever try to disagree with any stuff that the girls throw at h gdnt i you and always agree. Tht k d fh way to deal with that as i o t n e comment.

Facial Expressions
Next I want to talk to you about facial expressions, because reading female facial expressions is huge! I want you to put a big focus on facial expressions and being able to read them, so I want you to start looking to identify what facial expressions girls use. If they are listening you should see a smile or at least an openness of both body posture and a loose, relaxed face. It y rbr ,o sehieyes start to dart around. You fh a oe yul e t r e e d l e l l start seeing facial their expression will melt away into like nothingness. Arms will be crossed. They start to look around, maybe their necks l l even turn and their body tension will start to shift. If a girl is upset,o se straigt i o ps r S e lei d yul e a l h n g f ot e h b r i en u. l g and her facial and hand expressions will point. Y ulse o e furling of the l brow ad h enunciate each word. n se l l The more the girls are focusing on the enunciation of their words, the more pissed off they probably are. Start paying attention and start cataloging all the facial expressions that you notice. When you say something insulting, look at the facial expression. It will look a little like a pull back. When you compliment a girl and they light up you will see it in her eyes. Her cheek bones wlreS e l i i . h smile, etc. ls l

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S o yulb altread all of those things, because those on o e b o l e expressions are going to become really helpful later on. Down the line, you b altr d xr s n esy n r d ptl oe eto. l e b o e epe i s ai ad e saam vm nt l e a so l a i o Little hints like is the girl moving towards you or away from you will tell you how receptive she is. You constantly want to condition girls to move towards you and not away from you, getting her conditioned and used to your touch. Because the more you touch, the more you pull her into you, the more comfortable she will be with it. You want to be aware when a girl moves a a f m yu f o w y r o iyur o e t ci hrn t r s ucl t s nt t sm t n tl k o. o h g e adh e m su re i , a so e i oo fr u n e a no h hg o For the next few months try studying muscular tension. For example: If you pull a girl towards you a little bit, does she come easily or is she very hesitant? When you take a girls hand, does it come palm up or palm down? Is her hand very rigid and tight? Does it look like shethinking, a s s Wht this guy going to do to me? she leaning in towards you to listen to Is what you have to say, or is she leaning away? Does she lean toward her friend? Do they move towards their friends? The universal sign that girls are uncomfortable, is they will hug each other, not like when they first see other, and they go, Oh my God; when a girl first re-et s gop ht nr aadht osm a n ra ru t om ln t dent en e as a anything; btf o tk go g l i to n n,r n o oe uiyur a i ta i, k w o oeo oe n n e ln r le and one of her friends comes over and just hugs and puts her arms around her, a i t thnto fr b with you talking to her is s n h se ocm ot l t g a s ae friend. That yo di sm t n t t creeping the friends out and ur o g o e i h e n h g as t yrailw re. course, it could mean t to di t h lt or d Of e e te i h yur o go a e n o well. So be aware of that too. See if she moving into her friend... if she is putting distance between the two of you, or to show you that she s taken. Eye contact is another key thing to look out for. Eye contact is huge! Is a girl keeping eye contact with you most of the time? Is she looking down at you? Does she ever check you out physically? Is she looking at other people? Is she looking around the room? What are her eyes doing? Is she girl-coding her friend?

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Eye contact is what girls will do when they eye-code or when they girl-code. Basically, se l h flash looks at her friends, looks that say, l should go! ... or she may even look where she wants to go. Be We aware of that one. Pay attention when girl-coding is happening. Study what it looks like. Get an idea and a picture it in your mind. If a girl is really into you her face will start getting closer to your face. Try cutting into her facial space, slowly. Put your face side by side and then judge the results. Does she get uncomfortable and move away? Does she move closer? Is she comfortable? These are all things to be looking for. Leaning in or out, touching, whether sherelaxed s etc. Will help you determine how into you she is. Hope you enjoyed reading about Art of Womanese ve The . Learning to read women is a key to mastering this stuff. This report covered: Where the kind of behavior comes from The social awkwardness The social hierarchies The no-responsibility role How they have to pay lip service to societal thinking How women are more sexual but they have to hide it because of rules imposed by men. How women take social awkwardness and want to constantly stream up social hierarchies How all of that relatesoh g t ylsyo o t t nsh a t yu i e l Ways women act and ways that you can have them comfortable enough to have sex.

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