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Impact of loss and abuse on the behaviour of children and young people Strategies for effectively managing challenging behaviour Preventing abuse in care
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Strategies the foster carer may use to deal with the behaviour
Use time-outs for younger children. Have realistic, age-appropriate goals and expectations. Help older children and young people to articulate what they want and how it can be achieved. Walk away from situations that are escalating. Dont get locked into a power struggle. Do not try to discuss situations in the middle of a crisis.
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Allegations of abuse
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Some children and young people are abused in foster care, and careful and swift action needs to be taken to ensure the abuse doesnt happen again. This is why all allegations of abuse are investigated.
Investigation of allegations
Under Romania law, any allegation of abuse by a foster carer must be investigated by the agency that has placed that child with that carer. When any allegation of abuse in care is made, foster carers can expect: the allegation to be taken seriously and investigated to be treated fairly while allegations are investigated to be allowed to have a support person with them in any conversations with the agency about the allegation.
Thoughts on fostering
He is someone elses child and nothing can alter that; but you and he may create together something unique that will stand him in good stead for the rest of his life. Your care may have helped him to cope with separation and return undamaged to his loving parents. Or it may have
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been that you have given him some sense of security and trust in the adult world that may keep him afloat in a sea of troubles Of one thing we can be sure; even if he appears to forget you in the top of his mind, he will never forget you within the deeper parts of his mind where his childhood memories are hidden yet continue to influence our lives. You are there, alive in him forever. This is your responsibility and your reward. From Olive Stevensons Someone elses child One hundred years from now, it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in or the kind of car I drive. But the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child. Anonymous