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East Point Possums highlight of June celebration. Page 4 Legalize Gay returns to Atlanta. Page 6 Discussion series honors Bayard Rustin. Page 6 Evening for Equality lauds local leaders. Page 6 Pride Seder features no place like home theme. Page 11
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As JC Penney focuses on becoming Americas favorite store, we want to be a store for all Americans. In celebration of Fathers Day, were proud that our June book honors men from diverse backgrounds who all share the joy of fatherhood.
Hundreds expected for Pride Run in Piedmont Park. Page 11 Augusta Pride expands for third annual fest. Page 11 Atlanta Braves go Out in the Stands. Page 12 Sylvia Rivera event focuses on trans community. Page 12 Stonewall Month events calendar. Page 13
BOARD OF ADVISERS
Truth is our small chance to ask that you try and understand someone who lives their life in a way that is a little bit different from yours, even though all of our hearts are the same. We want to stop the hate and nd understanding.
Music star Janet Jackson on why she is serving as executive director for Truth, a documentary about transgender people and their ght for equality. (Advocate.com, June 4)
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Joey Thomas, JC Penney media relations manager, on the inclusion of two gay dads in the department stores new catalog. JC Penney previously outraged anti-gay groups by selecting Ellen DeGeneres as its new spokesperson and featuring a lesbian couple in its May catalog. (MyFox8.com, June 3)
NEWS
YouthPride mum on move; calls cops on reporter. Page 15 Gay candidates face challengers in State House races. Page 17 Local news in brief. Page 18 National news in brief. Page 19
A&E
Film: Lesbian directors Hysteria give good vibe. Page 21 Theater: One Minute Play Festival offers gay fare. Page 21 Food Porn: Grindr men, masc men, trans men at dinner. Page 23 Photos: MondoHomo queer fest. Page 25 Photos: Memorial Day without Dont Ask, Dont Tell. Page 27
Its not like a manly baseball pitch; its a queer British gay pitch.
Actor Jason Alexander, known for his work on Seinfeld, criticizing the sport of cricket in a recent interview. (Hufngton Post, June 4)
COMMUNITY
PFLAG Atlanta honors local leaders. Page 29 Business Spotlight: Delias Chicken Sausage Stand. Page 30 Personality Spotlight: Carl Blacks social network. Page 30
Ive never dealt with the question of my personal life in public. Its just not gonna happen.
Actor and singer Queen Latifah, explaining that it denitely wasnt the case that she came out when performing at Long Beach Gay Pride last month, while adding, To me, doing a gay pride show is one of the most fun things. (Entertainment Weekly, June 1)
My daily life is lled with gay men and women, both socially and professionally. I am profoundly aware of the challenges these friends of mine face and I have openly advocated on their behalf. So, I can only apologize and I do.
Jason Alexander, apologizing for his remarks in a statement distributed by GLAAD, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (Hufngton Post, June 4)
CALENDAR
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COLUMNISTS
Thats What She Said: Melissa Carter gets vaccinated. Page 37 Domestically Disturbed: Topher Payne on other peoples junk. Page 39
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Jaky Alba performs at the 2011 East Point Possums Show (Photo by Dyana Bagby)
Remembering Stonewall
The city of East Point has changed in that time, too, Westbrook said. When Westbrook and his partner rst moved to the city just south of Atlanta, they placed a sign in their yard supporting an openly gay candidate for City Council. The neighborhood association that we were living in at the time stopped by the house and said, I have to talk to yall Westbrook recalled, Look, I know yall are gay, but if you put that sign out there everybodys going to know that yall are gay. Westbrook didnt think there was any problem with his neighbors knowing he was gay then, and certainly not now. Weve actually gone to neighborhood association meetings and had people tell us, We were sort of iffy about East Point, but our Realtor told us to come to this little drag show and as soon as we saw that we knew we had to buy down here, he said. So not only is it a win for the gay community, but its a win for East Point. In the past weve had women who go, I want my husband in the show. Heres his wig, heres his dress, heres his show, heres his number, Westbrook added.
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U.K. rugby star Ben Cohen will be on hand for the Legalize Gay screening, which benets his Atlantabased StandUp Foundation. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)
FRIDAY, JUNE 22: Evening for Equality honors LGBT leaders, allies
Courtesy U.S. House
A crowd of more than 300 is expected for the eighth annual Evening for Equality, the biggest event of the year for Georgia Equality, the states largest LGBT rights advocacy organization. As part of the evening, Georgia Equality presents its Equality Awards to leaders in the local LGBT community. The awards recognize and celebrate the contributions of leaders in the movement to advance fairness, safety and opportunity for Georgias gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and allied communities. This year a special award, the Champion for Equality Award, will be given to U.S. Rep. John Lewis (D-Ga.), who is a recognized leader in the civil rights movement and a long time LGBT ally. Darlene Hudson and Craig Washington, cofounders of the Bayard Rustin-Audre Lorde Breakfast taking place on Martin Luther King holiday, will receive the Community Builder award. Larry Lehman, who serves as the executive director/CEO of AID Gwinnett, will receive the Guiding Star Award. Jerry Gonzalez, the founding and current executive director of Georgia Association of Latino Elected Ofcials, will receive the 2012 Allen Thornell Political Advancement Award. There will also be a silent auction. Washington is excited about the award and
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Bayard Rustin: Lessons Learned June 12 & 19, 7:30 p.m. Charis Books & More 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
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FRIDAY, JUNE 22
Pride Seder honors Jewish tradition with an LGBT twist
Atlantas LGBT Jewish community will host a Pride Seder service as part of Stonewall Month. Set for Friday, June 22 at the Central Congregational Church, the seder is being organized by Congregation Bet Haverim and the Atlanta Pride Committee. Seder in Hebrew means order or arrangement and is most commonly linked with the Jewish holiday of Passover. The Passover Seder is a family ritual which involves the retelling of the Israelites escape from bondage in ancient Egypt. This years Pride Seder service is entitled No Place Like Home and will place an emphasis on homelessness in the LGBT community, particularly among young people, according to Congregation Bet Haverim Rabbi Joshua Lesser. We want to educate ourselves and our community, Lesser said. This is a broader issue outside of the gay Jewish community. Lesser said he and other organizers were reaching out to local nonprots and advocacy groups that deal directly and indirectly with homelessness. Last years Pride Seder was the rst ofcially held as part of Stonewall festivities. Lesser said the increased exposure from partnering with the Atlanta Pride Committee helped the event reach a larger communal audience. Like last year, there will be a sing-a-long with a few special surprises, but Lesser said a song or two from The Wizard of Oz are in the mix to t with this years theme. Ryan Watkins
Last years Augusta Pride Festival brought nearly 8,000 visitors and more are expected this year. (Photo by Laura Douglas-Brown)
tendees and that number nearly doubled in 2011. Jenkins goal is to hit 10,000 visitors this year. This years theme is Its Time. That refers to it being time to be unied, time to put up gay artists in front of the community, Jenkins said. The city of Augusta has been extremely helpful in launching the citys Pride event, he said. There were some hiccups originally, with some protests the rst year and a short wait for an ofcial proclamation. The mayor said he needed some advice to sign the proclamation, but gave us a proclamation a few months later, Jenkins said. This year has been all smooth sailing. Most visitors are from areas in a 100-mile radius, such as Atlanta, Columbus and Savannah. Jenkins feels both Atlanta Pride and Augusta Pride are great events but have their own individuality. Obviously we are more conservative and
SATURDAY, JUNE 23: Pride Run steps off from Piedmont Park
Formerly a stand-alone event, the annual Pride Run is now a full-edged part of Stonewall Month for the rst time in 2012. Its the 22nd year for the June 5K run, co-sponsored by Front Runners, Atlantas LGBT running group, and the Atlanta Pride Committee. Bernie Colligan of Front Runners describes the participants as a healthy mix of competitive runners eying victory and newcomers wanting to walk and support the event. We have a lot of our own members and then people who have never done this before, he said. The route will cover an area through and near Piedmont Park. In addition to the run is a Friday night pre-dinner taking place at Einsteins from 7-9 p.m. and a brunch at 5 Napkin Burger from 9:30-11 a.m. after the run. Colligan hopes for a crowd of 500 this year. A portion of the proceeds from this years event
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According to sponsorship documents, last years Pride run raised $10,000 and organizers hope raise even more, this year for Jerusalem House. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)
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The Atlanta Braves debuted Out in the Stands last year. The second annual LGBT fan night is coming up this month. (Photo by Ryan Watkins)
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after Braves pitching coach Roger McDowell was accused of hurling gay slurs toward fans at a game in San Francisco early in the season. McDowell allegedly shouted, Are you a homo couple or a threesome? at fans and imitated a sex act using a baseball bat. He was suspended and publicly apologized for the incident. The Braves went on to produce an antibullying PSA that aired throughout the year at Turner Field. To buy tickets these tickets, please contact
inclusive events that encompass the full spectrum of the LGBT community and our allies, so having programming to speak to the needs of the transgender community and to educate people about transgender issues is crucial to our mission as an organization, Freedman said. Atlanta Pride has worked with Transgender Individuals Living Their Truth (TILTT), Juxtaposed Center for Transformation, and community members to plan the 2012 event. Freedman expects about 50 participants this year, which is roughly what the event drew in 2011. Jim Farmer
Though details of this years Sylvia Rivera Community Event were not determined by press time, attendees can expect a panel discussion about issues facing the transgender community. (Photos by Dyana Bagby)
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REMEMBERING
Sinclair Sexsmith
June is national LGBT Pride Month President Obama even issued a proclamation for it. So why does Atlanta celebrate Stonewall Month instead? Pride festivals are traditionally held the last weekend in June to commemorate the 1969 Stonewall Riots, when patrons of the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in New York City, fought back against police harassment in what is widely seen as a turning point for gay rights. But after being celebrated the last weekend in June in Piedmont Park for most of its history, Atlanta Pride was forced to move in 2008 when city ofcials booted large festivals from the parched park due to a record drought. Held over July Fourth weekend at the Civic Center the next year, Pride attendance and nances suffered. The festival moved back to Piedmont Park for 2009, but over Halloween, to get around city policies that limited festivals in the summer season due to drought concerns. In 2010, Atlanta Pride Committee announced it would hold future festivals on the weekend closest to National Coming Out Day, which is Oct. 11. For 2012, that means Oct. 13-14. But the Atlanta Pride Committee still wants to honor the anniversary of the riots hence, Stonewall Month. Weve hosted Stonewall Week for several years and wanted to branch out to include more events ... which lead to the creation of our most extensive and diverse list of Stonewall offerings thus far, lasting far longer than just a week, said Pride Board Chair Glen Paul Freedman.
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Bayard Rustin
Monday, June 11
Legalize Gay screening Q&A with Ben Cohen to follow 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. at Midtown Art Cinema 391 Monroe Drive, Atlanta, GA 30308 http://bit.ly/JMv2p5
Saturday, June 23
Tuesday, June 12
I Must Resist: Bayard Rustins Life in Letters Book and history discussion Part two of three 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
Tuesday, June 19
22nd annual Pride Run/Walk 5k 8 a.m. Race starts at Piedmont Park near the Aquatic Center www.eteamz.com/frontrunnersatlanta Augusta Pride Parade: 10 a.m., Festival: 11 a.m. - 7 p.m. Augusta Common 836 Reynolds St., Augusta, GA 30901 www.augustapride.com
Wednesday, June 13
Dine with Pride at Osteria 832 Portion of bills donated to Atlanta Pride 5 - 10 p.m. 832 N. Highland Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306
I Must Resist: Bayard Rustins Life in Letters Book and history discussion Part three of three 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
THE RIOTS
Wednesday, June 20
Dine with Pride at Doc Cheys (Grant Park) Portion of bills donated to Atlanta Pride 5 - 10 p.m. 563 Memorial Drive, Atlanta, GA 30312 LGBT Health Insurance Seminar 7 p.m. at the Phillip Rush Center 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307
Wednesday, June 27
Dine with Pride at Doc Cheys (Morningside) Portion of bills donated to Atlanta Pride 5 - 10 p.m. 1424 N. Highland Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306
Saturday, June 30
Friday, June 15
Sylvia Rivera Community Event Trans community member panel 11:30 a.m. at the Phillip Rush Center 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 Author/blogger Sinclair Sexsmith Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books and More 1189 Euclud Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
Stonewall Uprising screening 7 p.m. at First Existentialist 470 Candler Park Drive NE Atlanta, GA 30307
Saturday, June 16
Friday, June 22
Examining What We Have & Where It Can Take Us Poetry Workshop w/ Dustin Brookshire Bring a poem to workshop and participate in generative exercise FreeRegister for free at dustinvbrookshire@gmail.com 2 - 4 p.m. at the Phillip Rush Center 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307
Pride Seder Presented by Congregation Bet Haverim 7 p.m. at Central Congregational 2676 Clairmont Road NE Atlanta, GA 30329 Georgia Equalitys 8th annual Evening for Equality 7 p.m. at Twelve Hotel 361 17th Street, Atlanta, GA 30363 www.georgiaequality.org
Out in the Stands LGBT Night at Turner Field Braves vs. Arizona Diamondbacks VIP meet-and-greet with Ben Cohen 7 p.m. at Turner Field 755 Hank Aaron Drive, Atlanta, GA 30315 Tickets: 404-614-1325 or stacey.nicely@braves.com
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Friday, June 29
Author/blogger Sinclair Sexsmith Discussion on body condence in queer masculine community 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books and More 1189 Euclud Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
KCCA Childrens Story Hour Kellis Childcare Collective of Atlanta celebrates queer families A Tale of Two Daddies Whos in a Family In our Mothers House 1 p.m. at Charis Books and More 1189 Euclud Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.charisbooksandmore.com
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A project of AID Atlanta, the Evolution Project is a drop-in community center for black gay/bisexual men and transgender individuals 18 - 28. Social events include movie nights, playing cards, parties, balls as well as community forums. Mental health services for individuals as well as relationship and group counseling are also provided. HIV and STD testing offered.
On Friday, June 1, movers removed the belongings inside YouthPrides former location at Inman Park United Methodist Church. No new location has been announced. (Photos by Dyana Bagby)
JustUsATL www.justusatl.org www.facebook.com/JustUsATL Hours: Tuesday, 7-9 p.m.: TransIt, Trans, Gender Non-Conforming Gender Questioning youth (13-28) Wednesday, 7-9 p.m.: JustTeen, JustYouth discussion groups These groups are peer-led and have a facilitator. They are being held at Positive Impact, 60 11th St., Atlanta, GA 30309.
JustUsATL is a youth-run group that provides a safe space for the metro Atlanta areas LGBTQQA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, and Asexual) youth. The fledgling organization offers weekly discussion groups, a peer-led mental health group, HIV/ STI testing, and social events.
don told the APD officer. Shes not allowed to be here. Hes asked her many times to not come here and she continues to come here. Were a youth center and we dont allow anyone over 24 here unless they are a parent. [Your boss] owns this property? the officer asked. Yes, said the YouthPride employee. The officer then learned that Inman Park UMC actually owned the property and YouthPride was located on the churchs property. The church owns the property but this is our center, Brandon told the officer. Basically, the church would have to tell her to leave, the officer explained. Since the church owns it and out here, this is the churchs property. Shortly after the officer left, a mother and her teen son walked around the large moving truck as items were being loaded into the truck and asked if this was where YouthPride was located. She said she was bringing her son to attend a discussion group for LGBT youth. YouthPrides website states Friday evenings there was a Words of Empowerment group for LGBTQQ people of color from 6:30-8 p.m. Brandon came out of the building and told the woman that the organization was closed and messages had been sent out via email, Facebook and Twitter as well as posted on the groups website. The mother told Brandon that this would have been her sons first meeting so they were not aware of the closing. Brandon then told her the facility would reopen Monday. When asked where, he told her it would be announced on Facebook and on the website on Monday. So we should just look up YouthPride on Facebook? the mother asked. Yes, he answered.
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CHRIS Kids 1017 Fayetteville Road, Suite B, Atlanta, GA 30316 404-486-9034 www.chriskids.org/strong-communities/lgbtq-youth
This non-profit provides services for LGBT youth via support services for parents of LGBTQ youth (including foster and adoptive parents); support services for LGBTQ parents (including foster and adoptive parents); transitional housing, support and psycho-educational groups for LGBTQ youth; outreach to LGBTQ youth; and training for residential/foster care agency personnel concerning the needs of LGBTQ youth.
Lost-n-Found Youth Inc. 470 Candler Park Drive, Atlanta, GA 30307 Non-Emergency Inquiries: 678-856-7824 Emergency Hotline: 678-8-LOST-25 www.lost-n-found.org www.facebook.com/LostNFoundYouth
Lost-n-Found provides emergency housing for homeless LGBT youth until they can find something more permanent. With a six-bedroom home, the non-profit organization helps LGBT youth including those with children find jobs, get drivers licenses and Social Security cards and other basic items they may not have.
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Gay candidates Ken Britt, a retired executive and longtime political activist; William Phelps, a Marine veteran; and Timothy Swiney, a former Republican, hope to help change the tide for out hopefuls seeking office in Georgia. (Courtesy photos)
people to know they are destined for greatness. Phelps knows he is in a special position as a black, gay veteran to make some unprecedented strides in Georgia politics. But he also wants to work on finding jobs for people, solving transportation issues and ensuring children receive a quality education. I am standing in your corner, especially for the LGBT community, he said. I want to try to bring a change to our legislature and I think I bring added value for people who want fair representation. Phelps and Swiney said they plan to seek endorsements from Georgia Equality and the national Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund, but both acknowledged they are new to the gay political machine that includes these organizations. Georgia Equality Executive Director Jeff Graham said he has not heard of Phelps or Swiney before and he and the GE board are currently reviewing surveys before announcing more endorsements at the beginning of July. Swiney, a former Republican, said he hopes those who live in the bubble of the city of Atlanta look outside the perimeter for gay candidates like him to support. It takes more than a handful of votes in the state legislature to make change. We need gay and pro-gay in the General Assembly and we cant do it without reaching out to the rest of the state, he said. What we vote for out here impacts everyone, he said. Its very frustrating for us in the community who are OTP because we are sort of forgotten. Im hoping that can change. Swiney also held a Rainbow Money Bomb that wrapped up Friday, June 8, asking specifically for gay dollars. Swiney came out in an interview with the Lawrenceville Patch website and said he did so because he did not want to hide anything about himself. He ran as a Republican for the state House in 2010 while his partner, Eric Reid, ran
for Lawrenceville City Council. But Swiney said he had a change of heart about his party affiliation after watching Georgia lag behind the nation in such areas as jobs. But also because, he said, Republicans do not believe in equality for LGBT people. Anybody who is gay and thinks they are Republican has got some issues they need to think about. You cant be Republican and gay, lesbian or transgender. They say such mean and vile things against our community, he said. For Phelps, who served in the Marines from 2002-2010 during Dont Ask, Dont Tell, the military provided a place for him to serve his country, family and God, he said. While he wasnt on the front lines in Afghanistan (he served in logistics for eight months), Phelps said that time abroad helped him realize he could do anything even run as an openly gay man for the Georgia legislature. It was an experience I will never forget and defined me as a man, he said. I knew people who didnt come back. And I realized if I can deal with this I can do anything else in life. Openly gay attorney and part-time Sandy Springs solicitor Jane Morrison also qualified to run in the July 31 general primary for the seat of Fulton County State Court Judge. Judge Brenda Cole told the Fulton Daily Report she decided to not seek election. Morrison, 48, whose partner is Fulton County Commissioner Joan Garner, will face Fulton County Magistrate Judge Melynee Leftridge. The judicial race is non-partisan. Morrison, who has a solo practice, served as a part-time Fulton County magistrate from 20032006 and also was appointed to serve as an Atlanta Municipal Court judge from 2000 to 2002. Leftridge, 45, has been serving as a Fulton Magistrate Judge since 2007 and full-time in the post since 2010.
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no he did not, Banks said at the hearing. The sexual advance toward Cain led to Cain being offended. Cain got upset as Mr. White exited the store and struck him from behind. These two defendants [Moragne and Williams] began to hit, stomp and kick Mr. White, Banks added. Moragne was also identified as the person who threw a tire on White as he was on the ground trying to shield himself from the constant blows. It is important to note that was all being
Judge John Lee Parrott, who attempted to strip custody from a lesbian because he believed homosexuality is immoral, resigned from his post on May 19 citing an ethics probe. (Photo courtesy Jones County News)
ban on same-sex marriage to prop up his case that it was illegal for a gay person to adopt. Hadaway and her partner separated and Hadaway moved to Bibb County to try again to adopt Emma Rose. Parrott cited Hadaway and her attorney for contempt of court and sentenced them to jail. The ACLU became involved and on March 24, 2008, the Georgia Court of Appeals overturned Hadaways contempt of court conviction. Emma Rose and Hadaway were reunited in the spring of 2007 after Emma spent three months in foster care. Dyana Bagby
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Federal appeals court wont rehear Prop. 8 case; Supreme Court showdown likely
The Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals declined June 5 to grant en banc review to an earlier appeals court decision that declared Proposition 8, the ballot initiative that ended same-sex marriage in California, unconstitutional. A three-judge panel of the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals ruled Feb. 7 that the ban violates the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution. Noted the court, Proposition 8 serves no purpose, and has no effect, other than to lessen the status and human dignity of gays and lesbians in California. Supporters of Proposition 8 asked the Ninth Circuit for a hearing en banc, meaning a larger 11-judge panel would hear the case. On June 5, the court denied that hearing. The decision gives Proposition 8 supporters two options, according to the American Foundation for Equal Rights, which sued to overturn the anti-gay ballot measure. They could either let the three-judge panels decision stand, which means gay couples would be able to marry again in California, or they could appeal the case to the U.S. Supreme Court. Prop. 8 supporters have 90 days to file the appeal, and the Supreme Court can decide not to take the case. Should our case be heard by the United States Supreme Court, I am confident the Justices will stand on the side of fairness and equality, said Adam Umhoefer, AFER execuTed Olson is one of the lead attorneys in Perry v. Brown, the challenge to Californias Prop. 8 that won a significant victory June 5 when an appeals court refused to reconsider the case. (Photo via gibsondunn.com)
tive director, in a press release after the courts decision was announced. The California Supreme Court ruled in 2008 that banning same-sex couples from marriage violated the state constitution. More than 18,000 gay couples were married in California before voters repealed same-sex marriage rights in November 2008. The California Supreme Court upheld the amendment, but AFER filed a federal lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of Proposition 8, led by high-profile attorneys Ted Olson and David Boies. The gay marriage advocates won the first round, when U.S. District Chief Judge Vaughn R. Walker ruled in August 2010 that the states ban on same-sex marriage was unconstitutional. Prop. 8 supporters appealed, and in the Feb. 7 decision, the three-judge appeals court panel agreed that Walkers ruling should stand. Laura Douglas-Brown
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The Shed at Glenwood 475 Bill Kennedy Way, Atlanta, GA 30316 (In Glenwood Park) 404-835-4363 , www.theshedatglenwood.com Good choices: any of the numerous sliders on Wednesday night, chicken-liver bruschetta, any of the fresh vegetables. Anis 2974 Grandview Ave., Atlanta, GA 30305 404-233-9889, www.anisbistro.com Good choices: Salade Nicoise, steak frites and the three-course plate at lunch; octopus carpaccio, pan-roasted trout and roasted chicken at dinner. Sotto Sotto 313 N. Highland Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 404-523-6678, www.sottosottorestaurant.com Good choices: Any of the cured meats, any of the risottos, spaghetti with Sardinian mullet roe, wood-roasted whole fish. Campagnolo 980 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309 404-343-2446, www.peasantatl.com Good choices: fettucine with bacon, egg and chicken livers added; risotto; lemon chicken; lamb marsala; espresso bread pudding. Antico Pizza 1093 Hemphill Ave. Atlanta, GA 30318 404-724-2333, www.anticopizza. Good choices: Margherita with no meat, please! Also: San Gennaro, and the Diavola. Warning: Do not carry this pizza out; it will steam into mush. in a room noisier and more crowded than the dance floor at Jungle. The harried servers began clearing dishes and Robert urged everyone to order his favorite dessert in the city, a goblet full of Greek yogurt with honey, dates and walnuts. To his delight, the dessert caused the table to fall silent except for the clinking of spoons.
Many men spent weeks in advance dieting, roiding, lifting, running, tanning, refreshing tattoos and depilating Pensacoling. Im Brandon, he said, and Id like to suggest that you aim this club at masc men only. The last thing this city needs is another venue full of drama-loving stereotypes into the scene. The table fell momentarily silent. Robert marveled at Brandons stereotypical shoulder tattoo of a koi fish swimming through what looked like lily pads and Chinese ideograms tangled with blue swirls. You sound like a stereotypical Grindr profile yourself, somebody at the end of the table blurted. People laughed nervously. I was kiddin, Brandon said. Sort of Robert was grateful to see the sliders arriving. I hope yall enjoy them as much as I do. Lets not let em get cold, he said. These arent the usual mini-burgers, Robert reminded the group. Chef Lance Gummere is to sliders what Dr. Frank N Furter is to the Rocky Horror Picture Show: a mad scientist tampering with the natural form of things, creating something sensual that you can hold in your hand. Robert ordered a rarely appearing slider made with chicharrones slabs of pork fat stewed in
green sauce and a mini-panino made with cauliflower, dates and lardo. He couldnt resist a third made with pork belly and chimichurri sauce. The plain Angus burger was always good too. Another man spoke up. Im Jack and I dont like that the club name isnt more inclusive. Im a trans man, and I really think it should be the Atlanta Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Food Porn Supper Club. I mean, seriously, am I welcome here? Janet rolled her eyes. Suppose we just drop any specification of sexual orientation. I presume breeders are welcome too. Oh, Im loving this crab-cake slider. Three dollarsIncredible! Jack shrugged. I guess if the Human Rights Campaign doesnt mention sexual orientation, you dont need to either, he said sarcastically. Robert stepped in. What about actual restaurants? Any suggestions? Other diners began rapid-firing names, several of which Robert liked, including Anis, Sotto Sotto and Campagnolo. Someone also mentioned Antico Pizza. They have great pizza there, Robert said, but I cant see 20 of us trying to get to know one another while eating off cardboard boxes
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Clockwise from left: Jessica Maslanka will be honored with the Outstanding Work for a Student award, Jeff and Patti Ellis will be honored with the Outstanding Work as a Parent award, Em Elliot will be honored with the Outstanding Work as an Educator award and Dale and Lynn Merkle will receive a special honor of achievement from PFLAG Atlanta during the organizations rst Out with the Stars event. (Courtesy photos)
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ward to her parents attending the dinner. They have vague ideas of what I do, Elliot said. They know Im an activist. This will be a cool opportunity for them to see the fruits of my labor, so-to-speak. Jessica Maslanka, an organizer of the 2012 Georgia GSA Youth Summit and one of the youth behind JustUsATL, will receive the Outstanding Work as a Student award. Maslanka said the shes looking forward to meeting participants and hearing their stories. I love meeting new people and getting insight from them, Maslanka said. Im sure we can all take from each others experiences. Maslanka added that shes been working on creating a Gay/Straight Alliance at her school and helped coordinate her schools participation in this years Day of Silence. The Ben Marion Institute for Social Justice will receive the Outstanding Work as a Nonprot award for its work in promoting a culture of social justice in Atlanta. The organization works with local schools,
businesses, nonprots and other groups teaching conict resolution while raising awareness about issues like heterosexism and homophobia in the workplace. Dale and Mary Lynn Merkle will be honored with a special PFLAG achievement award. They are long-time supporters of the organization. In addition to a silent auction that features items ranging from two round-trip Southwest Airline tickets to rock climbing lessons, there will also be cocktails, hors doeuvres and a fully catered dinner provided by Rustic Gourmet. The awards presentation, speeches and rafe will follow the dinner. Participants are suggested to wear cocktail attire. Tickets to the gala are $45 before June 11 (use promo code EARLYBIRD) but will jump to $55 after. Anyone over age 13 is invited, but minors must be accompanied by an adult, Charles said. Organizers expect the event to draw around 150 guests.
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Delias Chicken Sausage Stand deliciously simple
Former Flying Biscuit owner marks one year in new venture
Delia Champion burst onto the Atlanta food scene in 1993 when she opened the rst Flying Biscuit in Candler Park. For the next 13 years, she owned and operated one of Atlantas most trendy breakfast joints while expanding to new locations across the city, like Midtowns Flying Biscuit at 10th and Piedmont. Champion, a lesbian, sold her stake in the Flying Biscuit to a franchise company in 2006, but worked behind-the-scenes with the restaurants new ownership and new franchises for three years as a consultant. In 2011, Champion was called back to the restaurant world. Ive been making chicken sausage for years, Champion said. When I sold the Flying Biscuit, I kept my sausage business. Im just going to do something with my chicken sausage. It is my second career, after all. Opening a restaurant is never an easy venture, but Champion said that her experiences with the Flying Biscuit helped when she decided to open Delias Chicken Sausage Stand. When I rst opened the Flying Biscuit in Candler Park, I had to borrow money from anyone who would lend me money. Emily Saliers from the Indigo Girls was an investor. I had the pressure to make sure I paid everyone back. I didnt really know how I was going to do it. This time, I was able to do it on my own, she said. Champion employees some 15 workers at her chicken sausage stand, a far cry from the 80 that she managed while at the Flying Biscuit. Employees, Champion said, are the reason shes been successful. Thats why I get to come to work everyday, my employees are successful, she said. Thats it in a nutshell. People in the restaurant indus-
Delia Champion focuses on simple foods made from scratch, like this Meatball Grinder, all centered around her homemade chicken sausage. (Courtesy photos)
try who dont realize that arent too successful. For the menu, Champion said that she wanted to keep things simple and fresh. The sausage, whether a patty or link, is the focus of all the menu items, Champion said. The menu has about 15 things on it. Were just trying to do something thats fun and high quality. Everything is made in house from scratch. On the weekends, Delias Chicken Sausage Stand is open 24 hours. Im right down the road from McDonalds on Moreland Ave. When I opened it, I just thought, If I could get one person from McDonalds every
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day to eat with me instead, she said. Champion and her partner, Wendy, have been together some 17 years, after rst meeting while Champion owned the Flying Biscuit. Her partner is a graphic artist and helped concept the restaurants look and feel, Champion said. She did all the graphics here, Champion noted. Ryan Watkins
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sibly hundreds, as some of the communities are fairly specialized now. Social media has always seemed more efcient to me than many of the more traditional forms of communication. I like having access to the most current information and the ability to easily connect with others. I believe my rst modern social networking (as it was called then, as if networking had been antisocial prior to this era) experience was with the original Friendster (RIP) in perhaps 2004. I held out there a long time, thinking it was the adult version of MySpace, where I didnt
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really venture until a neighbor (who happened to be a grandmother) convinced me that I really wasnt too old for it. That was in late 2006. By the middle of the next year, I actually had business cards with my MySpace URL. That seems hilarious now. In retrospect, though, I was involved with electronic Bulletin Board Systems (BBSs) back in the 80s. I even had my own board (The Blackboard) when I was in middle school in Mississippi, which meant people from around the country could be dialing into my old Apple desktop computer. Do you have a day job? What do you do as a full-time gig? Im a petsitter/dog walker and do freelance writing and social media/computer consulting. I also do background (extra) work in various lm and TV productions. You may have even seen me in the trailer for The Blind Side as a Child & Family Pro-
tective Services slacker (er, worker) or as an attorney in Drop Dead Diva. Whats the best social network app? I rarely quantify anything as best. Its a hard call, and it really depends upon ones individual interests and needs. Im still pretty hooked on the Instagram community. Synchronicity really abounds there, and people are always likely to post cool, happy stuff. Dyana Bagby
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Friday, June 8
The ladies of Fourth Tuesday, Atlantas lesbian social networking group, host happy hour on the second Friday of every month. 6 - 8 p.m. at Mixx Atlanta, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30324, www.thehealthinitiative.org, http://bit.ly/N4t58F There are sure to be lesbian fans in the stands as the WNBAs Atlanta Dream takes on the San Antonio Silver Stars. 7:30 p.m. at Philips Arena, 1 Philips Drive, Atlanta, GA 30303, www.wnba.com/dream/ Got Leche presents El Papi del Ano 2012, Atlantas only competition made especially for the citys Latin hotties, with a whopping $2,000 cash prize. 10 p.m. at Club Rush, 2715 Buford Highway, Atlanta, GA 30324
GA Boy Productions and Keith Young present Peach Party Atlanta, two days of non-stop beats at four of Atlantas biggest dance venues. Friday night, DJ Sin Morera takes over the Heretic. Saturday afternoon, DJ Corey D. and Micky Friedmann spin at Opera. Saturday night, DJ Paulo spins Jungle and in the wee hours of Sunday morning, DJ Abel takes over Xion. www.peachpartyatl.com
Saturday, June 9
Hotlantas Cadets Softball team presents their third annual Bats-N-Rouge fundraiser for an afternoon of drag softball and breast cancer awareness. Theres an after party at Burkharts with jell-o shots and more. 12 - 5 p.m. at the elds in Piedmont Park, Atlanta, GA 30309, http://on.fb.me/L4Kf3G
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Sunset Garden is a two-day celebration and fundraiser featuring DJ Christopher Kind and benetting M.I.S.T.E.R. on Friday, then DJ Bryan Craft on Saturday, benetting Lost-N-Found Youth. 7 p.m. both nights at Burkharts, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com, http://on.fb.me/KExvBE ... and Nature Smiled is OurSongs spring concert and the beginning of the gay and lesbian mixed chorus 10th anniversary season. June 8: 8 p.m. at St. Barts Episcopal Church, 1790 Lavista Road NE, Atlanta, GA 30329, June 9: 8:15 p.m. at Spivey Hall, on the campus of Clayton State University, 2000 Clayton State Boulevard, Morrow, GA 30260, www.oursongatlanta.com
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One of the summers hottest non-prot events, the CHRIS Kids Premiere Party is a fundraiser for the CHRIS Kids Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Fund, which provides transitional housing to homeless LGBT youth. 6 - 10 p.m. at Mason Murer Fine Art, 199 Armour Dr. NE, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.chriskids.org
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The Atlanta Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present the Novice Project of Novice Sister Konnie Chiwaa Absolutely Fabulous Funky Town Car Wash. The valetstyle carwash means you can drop your car off and grab a drink while you (and a sober friend?) wait. 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. at the Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com, www.atlsister.org Be prepared for pandemonium on 10th Street in Midtown as the Red Bull Soapbox Race descends on Piedmont Park. Pits open at 10 a.m., rst race at noon. http://bit.ly/z3zLkk SAGE Atlanta, an advocacy and services organization for LGBT elders, hosts its rst Coffee, Bagels and... event featuring a reading and signing by gay author and AJC food critic Elliott Mackle. 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.sageatl.org Lesbian social networking group Fourth Tuesday hosts a singles brunch for ladies ready to mingle. 11:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. at Radial, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.thehealthinitiative.org, http://bit.ly/N4t58F
The lesbian-inclusive alterna-grass band Roxie Watson plays two shows at Decaturs famous acoustic hot spot. 7 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B N. McDonough St., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com
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San Franciscos DJ Phil B. mans the turntables at Heretic. 10 p.m. at Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com Brent Star and DJ Christopher Kind host Spark, a reunion of sorts, recalling the days in the mid 2000s when the pair hosted events at the Masquerade. Doors at 10 p.m., show at 11 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com Alvion Arnell Davenport joins the Burkharts Extravaganza drag show. 11 p.m. at Burkharts, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com
Monday, June 11
Part of Atlantas Stonewall Month celebration, the Atlanta-based Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation hosts a screening of Legalize Gay. A Q&A with Cohen and other guests will follow. 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. at Midtown Art Cinema, 931 Monroe Drive, Atlanta, GA 30308, http://bit.ly/JMv2p5
Train to become a volunteer for Lost-N-Found, the LGBT homeless youth advocacy and transtitional housing organization. 2 - 5 p.m. at Postitive Impact, 60 11th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.lost-n-found.org Unmasked: The Phantom of the Flopera is a send up of the Broadway classic with original music. Performance benets the First MCC outreach programs that include a food bank, weekly hot meals for the homeless and a clothing closet. The event also includes a silent auction. $20 or two for $30, 8 p.m. at First MCC, 1379 Tullie Road NE, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.thespiritofbroadway.com
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series of festivals, offers arts and crafts and a 5k. Saturday 10 a.m. - 7 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m. - 6 p.m. in Peachtree Hills, 285 Peachtree Hills Road, Atlanta, GA 30305, www.peachtreehillsfestival.com
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Interesting in joining Atlantas gay outdoorsmen? Check out the Wilderness Network of Georgias quarterly membership meeting and potluck. Bring a dish for sharing. 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. at Mason Mill Park, 1340 McConnell Drive, Decatur, GA 30033, www.wildnetga.org Traxx Girls hosts a Gemini Zodiac Bash at their usual Showtime Sunday spot with Cadillac Red and Ms. Sophia on the mic. Show starts at 12 a.m. at Scores, 2425 Wesley Chapel Road, Decatur, GA 30035, www.traxxgirls.com
Friday, June 15
See one-minute plays by more than 30 established and emerging Atlanta playwrights, including Johnny Drago and GA Voices own Topher Payne at The First Atlanta One-Minute Play Festival. 8 p.m. both nights at Actors Express, 887 West Marietta St., NW, Atlanta, GA 30318, www.oneminuteplayfestival. com, www.actors-express.com, http://on.fb.me/Lm4FDh
Lesbian rocker Michelle Malone plays two shows at Eddies Attic, rst playing solo, then joining her band later in the evening. 7 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B N. McDonough Road, Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com
Its Pool Party Bingo for this months PALS Bingo, hosted by Bubba D. Licious and Brent Star. Doors at 6:30 p.m., program at 7:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.palsatlanta.org The Myth and Meaning of Adrienne Rich: An Evening of Poetry and Prose celebrates the feminist and lesbian icons life and work featuring Jessica Handler, Azi Golshan and more. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1198 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Singer/songwriters Colbie Caillat and Gavin DeGraw play a show with Andy Grammar. 8 p.m. at Chastain Park Amphitheater, 4469 Stella Drive., Atlanta, GA 30327, www.classicchastain.com The Men of Cuffs and Collars former Chippendales Dancers, return to LeBuzz Marietta for another show of skin and sin. $5. 10 p.m. at LeBuzz, 585, Marietta, GA 30067, www.thenewlebuzz.com Drag legend Charlie Brown hosts a benet show to raise funds for Gigi Monroes bid to be crowned All-America Goddess. Performances by Nicole Paige Books, Heather Daniels, Ashley Kruiz, Savnnah Leigh, Brent Star and more. 11 p.m. at Blakes on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com
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Writing With Intent is open to writers of ction and creative non-ction; group offers motivational exercises, constructive criticism and more to keep you on track. 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Tracy Wilson hosts a planning meeting for this years Black Gay Pride festivities, where community members are also invited to submit abstracts to facilitate workshops on Sept. 1 - 2 during the event. 7 - 9 p.m. at First MCC, 1379 Tullie Road, Atlanta, GA 30329, http://on.fb.me/M1VydE
Co-sponsored by Atlanta Pride, the Third Friday Film Series presents Stonewall Uprising, the 2010 documentary about the riots that sparked the modern gay rights movement. $1-$10 sliding scale donations. Doors at 7 p.m., movie at 7:30 p.m. at First Existentialist Congregation of Atlanta, 470 Candler Park Dr., NE, Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/Il753W Whats in the Cards is a fundraiser for SAGE Atlanta, an organization dedicated to services and advocacy for LGBT elders. $10 gets cards and two drink tickets for Poker, Texas Holdem, Canasta, Hand and Foot, and Bridge. 7 - 10:30 p.m. at the Philip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.sageatl.org The Atlanta Dream takes on the Los Angeles Sparks. 7:30 p.m. at Philips Arena, 1 Philips Drive, Atlanta, GA 30303, www.wnba.com/dream/ Part of Atlanta Stonewall Week, Examining What We Have & Where It Can Take Us is a poetry workshop led by Dustin Brookshire. Participants should bring one nished or a poem-in-program for a semi-traditional workshop experience, then poets will participate in a generative exercise. Register with Brookshire: dustinvbrookshire@gmail.com. 2 - 4 p.m. at the Philip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.atlantapride.org The Atlanta Rollergirls play two roller derby bouts starting at 5 p.m. at Yaarab Shrine Center, 400 Ponce de Leon Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantarollergirls.com
The Atlanta Lesbian & Gay Chamber of Commerce hosts a Business Builder Lunch. 11:50 a.m. at Brio Tusrk, a can Grille. 2964 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, GA 30306, 00s www.atlantagaychamber.org Doors Road, Co-sponsored by Atlanta Pride, Charis Books and More hosts part two of the discussion of I Must Resist: Bayard Rustins Life in Letters. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave. NE, Atlanta, 492 GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com .com
Wednesday, June 20
The Big Gay Game Show brings together Atlanta celebs and classic TV game shows for a night of fun and fundraising for Lost-n-Found Youth, a service organization committed to Atlantas homeless LGBT youth. 7:30 - 10:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.lost-n-found.org
Dine-in or take-out at Osteria 832 in VirginaHighland between 5 and 10 p.m. and a portion of your ned bill will be donated to Atlanta Pride. 832 N. Highland ces Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.atlantapride.org
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Thursday, June 14
Atlantic Stations Movies in Central Park offers a free, outdoor screening of The Help. Film starts at sundown in Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.atlanticstation.com, http://bit.ly/HQxNjT
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UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, June 22
Georgia Equalitys Evening for Equality celebrates its 8th annual event with awardees U.S. Rep. John Lewis (D-Georgia), Larry Lehman of AID Gwinnett, Jerry Gonzalez of the Georgia Association of Latino Elected Ofcials, and founders of the annual Bayard Rustin/Audre Lorde Breakfast Craig Washington and Darlene Hudson. Host/ Sponsor cocktail reception at 6 p.m., dinner and general program at 7 p.m. at the Twelve Hotel Atlantic Station, 361 17th Street, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.georgiaequality.org Join Rabbi Josh Lesser and Congregation Bet Haverim for the 2012 Pride Seder blessing, a part of Atlanta Stonewall Week. 7 p.m. at Central Congregational Church, 2676 Clairmont Road, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.atlantapride.org Music of the Night: The Best of Londons West End Musical Theater bring the best in stage song from across the pond. Hint: Andrew Lloyd Webber much? 8 p.m. at Chastain Park Amphitheater, 4469 Stella Drive., Atlanta, GA 30327, www.classicchastain.com
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Friday, June 22
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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 33 Singer/songwriter Dar Williams celebrates the release of her ninth studio album, In The Time Of Gods, with two shows at Eddies Attic. 7 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B N. McDonough St., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com The unstoppable Kathy Grifn brings her celebrity trash talk to Atlanta for two shows. 7 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. at the Fox Theatre, 660 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.foxtheatre.org Find out why the East Point Possums Show was voted the Best Charity Event by GA Voice readers with the 15th annual production, this year a fundraiser for the Phillip Rush Center, which houses Georgia Equality, Atlanta Pride and the Health Initiative, and also offers meeting space to a number of LGBT groups. 7 - 11 p.m. at the Commons of Downtown East Point, 2727 East Point St., East Point GA 30344, www.eastpointpossums.com Special guest Miss Atlanta Devine Continental Elite Celeste Holmes joins the girls at Burkharts Extravaganza drag show. 11 p.m. at Burkharts, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com Bedlam presents H2(h)o(2), an anniversary celebration with guest hosts Steve Wang, Will Ramseur, Edie Cheezburger, Marcus Hazzard, Spencer Luster and more. 9 p.m. at Wetbar, W Atlanta Downtown, 45 Ivan Allen Jr. Boulevard., Atlanta, GA 30308, http://on.fb.me/L9LVIX
Augusta Pride says Its Time with its 2012 Pride Festival featuring headliners Tom Goss, Dee Hemingway, She N She and Josh Zuckerman. Festival location: Augusta Common, 836 Reynolds St., Augusta, GA 30901, www.augustapride.com
Broadway legend and actress Kristin Chenoweth dees gravity with an Atlanta show. 8 p.m. at the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre, 2800 Cobb Galleria Parkway, Atlanta, GA 30339, www.cobbenergycentre.com
Wednesday, June 27
Sunday, June 17
PFLAG Atlanta hosts its monthly support group. 2:45 p.m. at the First Metropolitan Community Church, 1379 Tullie Road, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.pagatl.org
Saturday, June 23
The Atlanta Braves welcome LGBT fans with the second annual Out in the Stands event, a game against the Arizona Diamondbacks. Celebrity rugby player and anti-bullying advocate Ben Cohen hosts VIP meet-and-greet. 7 p.m. at Turner Field, 755 Hank Aaron Drive, Atlanta, GA 30315. Tickets: 404614-1325 or e-mail stacey.nicely@braves.com.
Monday, June 18
T&F Transitionz: a Project of the Feminist Outlawz is an open forum to discuss gender and facilitating dialogue and activism around social issues led by social justice minded feminists Buttonz and SJ. 7 - 9:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com
The hot men of the Hotlanta Softball League strut their stuff at the Mr. Hotlanta Softball Hunk Pageant, a benet for the citys largest gay softball league. 6 - 10 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road NE, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hotlantasoftball.org Out with the Stars is the rst annual PFLAG Atlanta fundraiser and awards dinner honoring several local parents, teachers, students and straight allies working toward a better LGBT Atlanta. 7:30 10:30 p.m. at Labella at Lambert Place, 800 Lamber Dr. NE, Atlanta, GA, 30324, www.pagatl.org Lesbian singer/songwriter Jen Foster plays Eddies Attic. 8 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B N. McDonough St., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com Part of Atlanta Stonewall Month, the Health Initiative and Atlanta pride host an LGBT Health Insurance information seminar. 7 p.m .at the Phillip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.atlantapride.org Lesbian singer/songwriters SONiA (of Disappear Fear) and Rachel Sage play a show at Eddies Attic. 8 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B N. McDonough St., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com
Tuesday, July 3
Sarah McLachlan plays a rare Atlanta show, this time in concert with the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra as part of the Chastain Series. 7:30 p.m. at Chastain Park Amphitheater, 4469 Stella Drive., Atlanta, GA 30327, www.chastainseries.com
Saturday, July 21
Tuesday, June 19
Co-sponsored by Atlanta Pride, Charis Books and More hosts part three of the discussion of I Must Resist: Bayard Rustins Life in Letters. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Part of Atlanta Stonewall Month, Atlanta Pride and Refugee Resettlement and Immigration Services of Atlanta host an LGBT Refugee/Asylee Awareness event with LGBT refugee testimonies, documentary screening, food/drink and multicultural performances. 7 - 9 p.m. at the Phillip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.atlantapride.org, www.rrisa.org The Atlanta Dream takes on the New York Liberty. 7:00 p.m. at Philips Arena, 1 Philips Drive, Atlanta, GA 30303, www.wnba.com/dream/
DJ Don Bishop sets the mood for DJ/Producer Roland Belmares to take the stage at Joining Hearts 25 Pool Party. The super-popular (and usually sold out) annual event raises funds for AID Atlanta and Jerusalem House. Open bar. 4 - 11 p.m. at the Greystone and Aquatic Center in Piedmont Park, Atlanta, GA 30309, www.joininghearts.org The law rm of Kitchens New Cleghorn, LLC hosts a Marriage Equality Forum to answer basic questions about gay marriage laws, adoptions and gay separation/divorce. Free, but RSVP on Facebook. 6:30 p.m. at the Piedmont Ballroom of the Georgian Terrace Hotel, 659 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, http://on.fb.me/LjWaai Every third Thursday, Charis Books and More and Cliterati team up for an Open No-Mic, this month featuring all-stars Gabe, Hillary and Malika of the Art Amok Slam Team. This months event also serves as a warm-up to the groups Cafe Medusa performance at 7 Stages. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com
Wednesday, June 20
Dine-in or take-out at Doc Cheys in Grant Park between 5 and 10 p.m. and a portion of your bill will be donated to Atlanta Pride. 563 Memorial Drive, Atlanta, GA 30312, www.atlantapride.org
Thursday, June 21
The Atlanta Executive Network hosts its monthly Third Thursday LGBT business networking event. 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. at Hudson Grille, 942 Peachtree St. Atlanta, GA 30309, www.aen.org
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THATS WHAT
SHE SAID
Vaccine trials
A little pain is worth the gain, for all of us
I wince in pain as I lift my left arm, forgetting about the vaccine I just received a few days ago. Since the pain of such a shot doesnt emerge for a day or two, the fact that you got stuck by a needle easily slips your mind. I was recently contacted by Childrens Healthcare of Atlanta about helping out at The Voice, the radio station located at Egleston that broadcasts to all the hospitals within the CHOA system. You may remember its launch last year, since Atlanta native Ryan Seacrest began the station as part of his Ryan Seacrest Foundation. My job will be as back-up anytime they need an extra hand at the mic or during big events. Since the station is located within the hospital, I had to get whats called the Tdap vaccine, which stands for tetanus, diphtheria and pertussis (or whooping cough). To prepare for my health screening, I even had to dig through my booster shot records from 1975 to show I was already protected against other childhood diseases. But all this precaution wasnt simply because I will be within a childrens hospital lled with sick kids. It also has to do with certain childhood diseases, like whooping cough and TB, which are on the rise due to parents fear of vaccinating their own children. Within the LGBT community, we talk a lot about the search for an HIV vaccine, and many gay and transgender people in Atlanta even volunteer to join vaccine trials though success is far from certain. With this emphasis on the positive impact of vaccines, we might forget that some parents, straight and gay, are opting out of vaccinating their children against common contagious diseases. This, in turn, impacts not only their kids, but our entire country. Take whooping cough for example. It has been 60 years since our country has seen an epidemic of this highly contagious disease, yet communities around the U.S. are having to deal with it today. There have been nearly 500 cases so far this year, recently taking the life of a child in Dallas. Experts believe the rise in cases stem from par-
Melissa Carter is also a writer for Hufngton Post. She broke ground as the rst out lesbian radio personality on a major station in Atlanta and was one of the few out morning show personalities in the country. Follow her on Twitter @MelissaCarter
ents decision to opt out of all vaccines. Because of this, both children and adults are having to get the shot, like me. Exactly why are parents opting out? I know Jenny McCarthys name gets mentioned often as part of the controversy, but it began across the pond. In 1998, a paper by Dr. Andrew Wakeeld presented evidence that the vaccine for measles, mumps and rubella was linked to autism. However, replications of his experiment did not support a link between the two. Ends up the source of the researchs funding caused a conict of interest and would have prevented the paper from ever being published. Co-authors of the study retracted the ndings within a decade. Mr. Wakeeld can no longer practice medicine in the United Kingdom. I think history might be the most important subject we teach, since when used properly it serves as a guidepost of how to move forward. Why repeat a mistake, when we have records of how something was handled in the past? In the 18th century, pioneering work in the eld of microbiology led to vaccinations against smallpox. Another famous breakthrough was the polio vaccine, rst tested in 1952. At the time each of these vaccines came into play, the world was desperate to prevent these horric illnesses. Today, we dont see the devastating effects of widespread childhood diseases, and that privilege affords us the ability to analyze these immunizations. But privilege should not equate to selsh behavior. Not getting your children vaccinated based on an argument that has been deemed non-credible is subjecting kids and adults to diseases that in our time have only appeared in history books. I understand parents want what is best for their kids, but we must also consider what is best for the human race as a whole. Research these diseases and see if their re-emergence is really worth the risk to us all.
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DOMESTICALLY
Other peoples junk
Shopping second-hand, nding things never meant for me
When I started buying my own clothes in my teens, grunge was at its peak. A wifebeater, annel shirt, and a pair of Dickies were considered appropriate apparel for any occasion, which was super handy because you could buy that whole outt for less than 10 bucks. In retrospect I see that the fashion trend was started by poor people who had to shop at thrift stores because they were spending all their money on drugs. Then the look was adopted by prep school kids like myself, who went on shopping sprees at thrift stores and still had mad cash left over to spend on drugs. Wed all end up at the same concerts, and the only way you could tell the difference between the real thing and the posers was by snifng us. The prep school guys all smelled like CK One. So I was trained to shop thrift, and shop it well. As fashions changed, my shopping habits didnt, and I grew to take pride in being an excellent excavator of treasures. My husband has a corporate-level position at a clothing retailer, so this offends him on a few different levels. First, theres the fact that he can get me pretty much any item of apparel at a great price. But where, I ask you, is the victory in that? The second thing is that Preppy just cant comprehend that I have no issue with wearing someones old shoes. Its not like I buy them indiscriminately. Theres an art to incorporating other peoples junk into your existence. One must be particular. At the Last-Chance Thrift Store on North Decatur, everything is half-price on Mondays. I hesitate to share that information, because its already a nightmare in there hundreds of people pushing, shoving, snatching, behaving like extras angling for camera time in a disaster movie. Its kind of awesome, and kind of a nightmare. Thats where I was last Monday, thick in the gumbo of bargain hunters and yielding no results, when the surprise penis arrived. I only see two penises with any regularity one is literally attached to my body, the other is meta-
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Topher Payne is an Atlanta-based playwright, and the author of the book Necessary Luxuries: Notes on a Semi-Fabulous Life. Find out more at topherpayne.com
phorically attached via a wedding ring so the sudden appearance of a new one is startling. It came via a text message, from a guy Id known through work years ago. I hadnt thought of him in ages. He, however, had obviously been thinking about me. The photo had been offered without comment, so I didnt have a social cue to guide me. I would have been ne with something as simple as, Look out, here comes a penis, which at least would have allowed me to brace myself. Its a curious experience, standing in a sea of gently used half-price trousers, staring at an unexpected wang. My brain told me to stop looking at it, but just try not to gawk at a picture of someones junk when its right there in front of you. Even more alarming was the realization that I would need to formulate a response. I considered reviewing it in some fashion: there were a couple of points of interest I could discuss. An expression of gratitude wasnt really appropriate, but I wasnt exactly angry about it. In the end, I went with, Well, look at that. And then I stared at my phone, unmoving, for about three minutes. Itd been so long since Id had to rebuff someones advances, I was getting a charge out of deciding exactly how Id do it. Lightly bemused, but rm. Thats what Id decided. Behave as though this sort of thing happens all the time, because Im so dangerously desirable. OH MY GOD IM SO SORRY THAT WAS FOR ANOTHER TOPHER was his eventual response. As much sense as that explanation made, I had not considered the possibility. I felt a little let down. For a moment, Id been the sort of person who gets forbidden photos at four in the afternoon. But that was some other Topher. I decided to let the text exchange end there, deleted the photo, and gave up on that particular days hunt. Not everybodys junk is meant for you.