Sexual intimacy should be a place of rest. It can even become a "haven for me".  In this interview, Juli Slattery, of Authentic Intimacy, talks about the spiritual priority of sexual intimacy in marriage and the passion involved in covenant love. She also discusses which Sexual acts are ok? How do you know if it's a conscience thing or just a comfort thing?  Has God said no to this?  Is this loving and beneficial, is it good for us? Is it only us? We don't grow in anything unless we push past our comfort. Learn how to become great lovers. How to be able to lose control? Either a fear or a lie. ---  Check out Delight Your Husband: The Christian wife's manual for passion and confidence in intimacy