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PART I
A NORTH INDIAN HINDU WEDDING
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When Dimples male relatives got called for errands or were caught in the crowd leaving Vishal alone with sufficient escorts, he refused to move ahead.
Wedding Wows
Bride says: I will be your companion all my life.
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Concluding sacrament
Pouring of red powder on wifes hair parting with the engagement ring (this rite is considered sufficient in itself) Symbolizes that the husband will ensure his wifes well-being even with his own life
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PART II
The Philosophical Background of Hindu Marriages
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Of all religious communities, rate of divorce is lowest among Hindu Americans (~5%) Hindu Americans have the highest proportion of same religion spouses (90%) Rate of retention of religion from birth by children is highest amongst Hindus (~84%) Proportion of adults who are married is highest amongst Hindus (~65%)
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Wedding as a Samskara
Through the sacred 40 (or 16) rites of passage, a humans body becomes the abode of Vedas. But there are 8 other samskaras of soul which are more important and which alone lead to the Supreme Goal - compassion on all creatures, forbearance, freedom from anger, purity, peaceful disposition, performance of virtuous acts, freedom from avarice, and freedom from covetousness. - The law-book of Sage Gautama **************************************** Marriage is the main sacrament of the body which is open to ALL Hindus. It is a Sacred Rite witnessed by God, gods and Sages. It must not be defiled through divorce or marital discord.
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Importance of Marriage: Householders are the corner-stone of any society and it is parents duty to pay for the wedding of children. Families are the bedrock of Hindu society. Just as all rivers merge into the ocean, all the four ashramas find refuge in householders because they support the entire society (The Laws of Sage Manu, Chapter VI)
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According to Hindu scriptures, till we do not repay these debts, we cannot attain Salvation. 20
Vegetarianism
Pure Meal of Wedding
Very ancient tradition in Hindu societies. Most temples do not permit meat, Hindu/Sikh priests avoid meat. Not mandatory for Hindus, but strongly recommended 25% Hindus avoid meat, others eat very little meat. Jains are almost all vegetarians. Hindu belief: Animals and plants also have souls and can feel pain. Love must be extended to animals and plants Sacred animals, part of human family Hindu belief: Meat promotes violent instincts, hindrance in practice of Yoga, incompatible with Ahimsa. Bad karma to eat meat. Prayers for welfare include plants and animals also. Rigveda recitation ends with a prayer for animals along with humans. 23 Major source of Western vegetarian movements.
Brahma Creation
Saraswati Education
Vishnu Protection
Laxmi Wealth
Shiva Destruction
Durga Power
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There are, no doubt, two forms of Brahman- one having a form and the other formless. The mortal and the immortal. The stationary and the moving. The discernible and the indiscernible. [Brihadaranyaka Upanishad 2.3.1] In whatever form my worshipper chooses to worship Me, in that very form I accept his worship, and make his faith steady in that very form. [Gita 7.12]
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BRAHMAN
Dharma
GOD
Monotheistic God God can have emotions Preferred way to worship God
ISHVARA
Ultimately all is one all is Brahman (monism) Divinity is unitary, but can have many manifestations People have freedom to worship Brahman in a way that suits them
Trinity
Saguna Brahman
Brahma
Saguna Brahman
Vishnu
Saguna Brahman
Shiva
Divine Beings
DEVATAs
The Abrahamic definition of God is generally defined as male with human attributes, whereas the Dharmic definition of Brahman is broad (neither male/female, beyond human, the Ultimate or Absolute Truth). Ishwar (the personal God) represents the conditioned aspect of Brahman. Epithets of Ishvar include Bhagwan and Nath (Lord). Ishta Devata also means Personal God. The Dharmic concept of Atma (jiva-atma, atma, param-atma) is31 very developed there is no one word for soul.
PART III
Hindu Doctrines of Karma, Rebirth and Moksha (Salvation or Liberation)
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Is it Fair? Is God unjust? Is it just Fate or Luck? Hinduism answers these questions through the doctrines of Karma, Rebirth and Moksha (Liberation or Salvation)
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Karma Doctrine
Definition: The doctrine says As you sow, so shall you reap. Who Implements it?: It assumes that God is just, He gives us the fruits of our actions, He is not arbitrary, He is not vindictive or capricious. Types of Karma: Actions can be in thought, in speech or they are physical action. They can be done directly by oneself, or instigated through others or assisted by others. They can be completely wrong, completely right, or partially wrong and right. Their wrongness or rightness is determined by the temporal and situational context in which they are done (subject to some general principles of Dharma such as love, charity, truth etc.). Effects of Karma (Karmaphala): Good Karma yield good results, bad Karma yield bad results. Reaping the Fruits of Our Karma (Karmavipaaka): Fruits of our past actions are reaped only at the right time, whether in this life or in the next. This is called ripening of karma. Free Will and Action (Purushaartha): The doctrine states that in general, we are free to act the way we want (free will). Residual Karma or Fate (Daiva or Praarabdha or Karmaashaya): We all have residual good karma, and bad karma as a result of actions done in the past. This is called Fate. Conflict between Free Will-Action and Fate: At any given moment, one has the option to exercise our free will (effort), but one is also bound by the effects of ones past actions (fate). The net result of effort and fate (and whether our karma has ripened determine the outcome of all our efforts.
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Mechanism of Rebirth
When we die, it is only our body that perishes. We all have a soul which transmigrates with our mind and life forces into a new body to take rebirth. Just as our body passes through infancy, youth and old-age, so also our soul passes from one body to another. Just as we discard old clothes and wear new ones, the soul discards an old body to take birth in a new body. Weapons cannot cleave this soul, fire cannot burn it. Water cannot wet it and wind cannot dry it. - Bhagavad Gita, chapter II 38
2. Bhakti Yoga (Path of Devotion and Faith) For emotional and gentle people Involves doing ones duty and offering the fruits to God Emphasis on acts of faith worship, piety, reading scriptures, surrendering oneself to Gods will etc.
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ENDING THOUGHTS..
May we receive noble thoughts from all directions. Rigveda Truth is One, the wise merely describe it in many different ways. Rigveda May all be happy, may all be free of sickness, may all see good times, may no one ever experience any kind of sorrow. Mahopanishad These are mine, and these are strangers such are the thoughts of lowly people. For him who has a great heart, this whole world is one family. Mahopanishad
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