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Friendship
Enjoyment Acceptance Trust Respect Mutual Assistance Confiding in each other Understanding Spontaneity
Love
Passion Caring
Factors that increase friendship: Ben Franklin Effect after helping another person we
like them more. Contact Hypothesis bringing enemies together leads towards friendship. Dilution Effect information about others reduce stereotyping Empathy-Altruism Hypothesis if we feel empathy we are likely to help. Law of Attraction similar attitudes lead to friendship Mere Exposure theory exposure to people increases liking. Pratfall Effect being clumsy makes you likeable. Propinquity Effect meeting and interacting increase chance of friendship Repulsion Hypothesis we prefer those with similar attitudes (and vice versa).
SOCIAL-PENETRATION THEORY
Orientation Stage
Depenetration
Affective Stage
Stable Stage
Ending
Stimulus-value-role model
Sharing of activities to build a working relationship
Role Stage
Value Stage
Comparison in values happen; If compatible with each other, we continue.
Stimulus Stage
Evaluation of a person in terms of physical attributes
Terminating friendships
Positive Tone
Verbal
deescalation
Justification
Social Phase
Behavioral
de-escalation
Erotic love - deceptive love because it is soon exhausted D. He popularized the idea of self-love - you have to love yourself in order to love others - i.e. think yourself worthy.
Eros Romance Ludos Conquest Storge Friendship Pragma Practicality Mania Obsession Agape Selflessness
I finally understood what true love meant... love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.