By:

Aastha Bhargava (001) Abhishek Dev (002) Abhishek Singh (003)

Ajmal Mohamed (004) Akshay Bindroo (005) Akshay Kumar (006) A.V. Sri Harsha (007)

Introduction to Attitude Positive Attitude Peaceful Attitude Enthusiasm Courage Confidence Leadership Effecting change in Attitude Conclusion

 A favourable or unfavourable evaluative reaction toward something or someone, exhibited in ones beliefs, feelings, or intended behaviour In social psychology, attitude is the belief, perception and judgment that reflects the classification and evaluation of persons, objects, situations, with a like or dislike label.

Affective

Emotional or feeling segment of an attitude

Behavioural
Cognitive

An intention to behave in a certain way

Opinion or belief segment of an attitude Arises out of evaluation

Adjustment Function

Ego Defensive Function

Value Expressive Function

YOUR ATTITUDE DETERMINES YOUR ALTITUDE.

PosItive ATTITUDE - what

YOUR ATTITUDE DETERMINES YOUR ALTITUDE IN LIFE

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - WHAT

The Positive thinker sees the Invisible, feels the Intangible and achieves the Impossible. It is a mental attitude that expects positive results.

Ifyou youthink think you can, If you can, You are right. You are right. Ifyou youthink think you cant, If you cant, You are right. You are right. - Henry Ford - Henry Ford

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - WHY

No Problem is too Great to Solve.

Attitude are more important than facts.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - HOW

Steps to attain a positive attitude

Think, Dont react Dont panic in a difficult situation, Be emotionally conditioned. Discipline oneself to be calm in his thinking. Spread a SMILE around.

The chief purpose of the body is to carry the brain around Thomas Edison

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - HOW

Become a how thinker Dont be an IF thinker who broods over a difficulty or setback.

The HOW thinker looks for the best solution without wasting energy. The question should be How can I use this setback creatively?
Every

problem contains the seeds of its own solution Stanley Arnold

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - HOW

Believe YOU CAN and YOU CAN Believe and Can are linked together in a creative action unity. Expect the Best and get it. Start buttressing your weak faith with the powerful concepts of the Bible.

Believe you can and youre halfway there. - Theodore Roosevolt

POSITIVE ATTITUDE - HOW

Pay the price tag.

Dont complain of having a problem. For it is full of know-how for you. It is one of the fastest methods for teaching you. You will find everything in life exacts a PRICE, and you will have to decide whether the PRICE is worth the PRIZE.

Peaceful Attitude

Peaceful Attitude
Our physical mechanism is sensitive to whatever goes on in our mind. Since worry is located in our mind, it can have a devastating effect on our body. Worry deepens into a channel of fear and anxiety. This grows further and finally takes over dominating our whole life experience.

Henry Ford: Always add up the Best

When asked if worry had ever been a problem, Mr. Ford answered that he had become too busy to worry. Then he said Believe in the best. Think your best. Study your best. Have a goal for your best. Never be satisfied with less than your best. Try your best. And In the long run things will turn out for the best.

Ways to check your worry habit

1) Carefully practice listening to yourself. 2) Start being absolutely honest. 3) Adopt the practice of saying exactly the opposite of what you say and note how much better the new affirmations sound. 4) Keep track of everything that happens as you work this new procedure. 5) Practice putting the best construction on every person and action each day.

CONFLICT
Any situation in which your concerns or desires differ from those of another person i.e. a disagreement between two or more people. Conflict is neither good nor bad. It is a normal part of life. Conflict happens when your NEEDS are different from the NEEDS of somebody else.

VIOLENCE
When you force yourself over another person and cause harm to get your way. A violent act can be physical, verbal or emotional. Violence is NOT THE SAME as conflict. Violence is a negative way of dealing with conflict

Ways of dealing with conflict

Anger Win/lose attitude Maintain fixed positions Violence (physical, verbal or emotional) Accusations Blame

Empathetic listening Win/win attitude Consider needs of both parties Understanding another point of view Problem solving approach Looking at the options Using I statements

ENTHUSIASM- what
Oxford says :- It is feeling of great EXCITEMENT and eagerness. Enthusiasm -"En," + "theos," (in God).To be inspired or possessed by God is enthusiasm. It is the interest we show towards things around us. How we perceive things around us.

ENTHUSIASM
Enthusiasm spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment. Nothing is more Contagious than ENTHUSIASM
Carlos Santana

ENTHUSIASM- why

ENTHUSIASM- how
Steps to develop Enthusiasm Emotions are subject to action (physical or mental) & repetition of this action becomes habit & this habit leads to automatic reflex. As enthusiasm is philosophy of how you perceive things around you. Its just a matter of your attitude which makes the difference. Thus Continuous repetition of seeing things with positive attitude & appreciating the beauty & worth of everything around you will become a habit gradually. Thus develop ENTHUSIASM

Story :- Master Builder

 Last but not the least IF YOU ARE NOT ENTHUSIASTIC YOU ARE HALF DEAD .. By Abhishek Singh

COURAGEOUS ATTITUDE

I have nothing to fear.

->The attitude of facing and dealing with anything recognized as dangerous, difficult, or painful, instead of withdrawing from it.

The first step in overcoming any fear is to simply realize that it is removable.
You gain strength , courage and confidence by every experience by which you really stop to look fear in the face. - Eleanor Roosevelt

Its a fact that 92% of things we fear about in our lifetime never happens, rest 8% we can handle them and overcome them. All fears are controllable.

3 STEPS TO CANCEL YOUR FEAR:

1. Resolve to be a person of faith: First thing to do for cancelling out fear is to determinedly say I dont want to be motivated by anxiety and fear anymore. I now decide-I now determine-I now will- that my anxiety and fear be bought under control, even eliminated, and that I become a person of faith. 2. Work for one fear at a time: Take a piece of paper and prepare complete and honest list of all the things you are afraid of. Study your list carefully and determine your most pervasive feara) The one that may be present every day. b) That disturbs you the most. Decide to attack that particular fear alone. Dont try to attack two or more fears at one time.

3. Increase your faith: This is a method of increasing the faith quickly. To do this take large doses of faith into your mind. Work at it zealously and constantly, with the purpose of saturating your very consciousness. Search the passages that express the greater values people ever had and say them over and over until they completely dominate your thinking. It will not take a long time until these powerful thoughts begin replacing your fears.

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars - Les Brown

END YOUR FEAR OF PEOPLE

The main questions are: 1) What in this world is there to be afraid of? 2) Why should anyone go through life like a scared rabbit? 3) Why many individuals live miserable lives due to fear that other people affects their personal relationships? 4) Why some people give up participation in an event or group? Just because someone else makes them feel inferior? The only one in this world to fear is God, and that doesnt mean to be afraid of him. It means to esteem Him. Be strong and of good courage. There is nothing else to fear.

HELPING PEOPLE TO OVERCOME THEIR FEAR

Help other shy people: In every group there are shy people may be the loudest talker, trying to cover up his inferiority feelings. Single out that one person and show him attention. This will help both of you. Be yourself entirely: Remember that you are distinctive and that you are the only one of you in existence. This will free you from a slavish simulation of other people. Love others: The best way to overcome the fear of other people is to learn to love them. You will feel less inferior in their presence and more normal your relationships with them will be. Pray for them: With whom you feel backward or uncomfortable. Ask God to help them with their problems. In time they will sense your prayerful regard and will appreciate you for it.

END YOUR FEAR OF FAILURE

Dont fear failure. Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great Attempts it is glorious even to fail. Bruce Lee Many people are deeply troubled by the fear of failure. This is very dangerous and can cause the personality to freeze. Everyone is bound to fail at times. But the important question is how do you react to the failure? Whenever you experience a failure in your life: Ask yourself why you failed? Go back at it again more wiser and competent. Never entertain the fact that you will fail again. We can learn from our successes, too, how a thing is done right. If one permit failure to continue as failure then every time it will be failure in outcome.
"It never enters my mind that I can't do something I set out to doing. - Anne Stuart

Confident Attitude

Confident attitude is Something which links us to the world and Make us live as we wish. Confidence is the feeling or belief in the powers, trustworthiness svsdvsdv And full trust.

Confidence is needed to grow as a person and achieve something in your life.

Its lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believe in myself. Muhammad Ali
Self confidence is a character trait that is essential for success in any career. Believe you can succeed and you will.

 Let go of poor performances, just the outcomes not the failures. Replace unhealthy beliefs with healthy ones. Focus on the process, instead of an outcome.

 Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. So, wake up, speak up, work out and do important things which you feared earlier. Be confident , Be YOU.!!

Leadership Skill Development

Rome was not built over night

The key aspects of leadership are:

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Conviction Clarity of Thoughts Expectant Nature Providing Solutions Directing Intelligence Trusting the Divine Power

Conviction Believe you can do, by Gods grace, you will do.
What one thinks of oneself is very important for that is the first step towards moulding a successful leader Let problems come from anywhere, Solutions will come from me

Clarity of Thought Change in perception

On most occasions, the problems faced by an individual/organization can be summed up in 2 minutes.

Expectant Look out for Solutions all the way until the problem is solved
Mondays will be Mondays Thank God its Monday What do most of the Computer engineers do when all trouble shooting methods fail?
There is a way and the way is on the way

Losers spot a problem for every solution and Providing Solutions Marquee a leader Winners spot a solution for everyof problem Anyone can state what the problem is but only leaders can state what the solution is. Its very important to habituate the process of thinking solutions to problems in all walks of life.

Providing Direction
The most important aspect of Leadership is direction of intelligence rather than possessing raw intelligence Sir Ratan as such Tatas meeting Dr. Manmohan Singh and his cabinet of Eminent From No No to Nano Ministers Sir Ratan Tatas board meeting

God is NOW HERE

There is always a war between resources and reality. When you have unwavering faith and your abilities are stretched to the limits, miracles happen. Indeed theres a superpower working beyond our understanding and its important to trust it.

The Divine Power

God is nowhere

Qualities of successful leaders

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Passion for Excellence along with high moral values Team Building through people skills Mastery in Communication High Energy levels without tiring down Value based decision making rather than interest based decision making 6. Personalized Methodology 7. Unwavering Faith in their work with Patience and Persistence

CHANGE : AN ABSOLUTE NECESSITY !!

 Internal state that occurs when individuals notice inconsistencies among their attitudes or between their attitudes and their overt behaviour Such inconsistencies create unpleasant feeling, which produces pressures that may result in change in attitudes Dissonance is a motivational state-people who experience it want to reduce it

New information, especially coming from accurate source, may alter belief structure, subsequently leading to expected attitude change

 The greater the discrepancy between the individuals owns position and the position advocated by others, the more the individual will move towards the position held by others.

Attitude change can be brought about by involving the individual in the process by which decisions are made.