How to expressing EMBARASSMENT and ANGER

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Group 2 Rizka Nurhasanah Abiyu Dhiya Elly Nofianti M. Fadli Dwicahyo (33) (02) (12) (23)

What is the meaning?

Embarrassment is an expressing feeling of being worries end ashamed or emotional state experienced upon having a socially or professionally unacceptable act. Anger is an expressing a strong feeling which makes you want to hurt someone or be unpleasant because of something unfair or hurtful that has happened.

Expressions of Embarrassment
What an embarrassment! I must say that its an embarrassment! Thats a real embarrassment! I feel awkward Im shy to say so It really makes me ashamed!

I was very embarrassed!

How embarrassing! Tell me it didnt happen!

Expressing Anger
Oh dear! Oh, bother! Well, Ive never been so insulted in my life! Who are you to say such a thing to me? Youre getting me angry! You burn me up!

What a nuisance!
What displeasure! You are pathetic

Calming someone down:

Relax Take it slow Take it easy Maybe youre a little too sensitive about Dont let it bother you Getting angry wont help

Calm down
Control your self Dont be such a worrywart Dont trouble yourself

Dont be so touchy
Dont be angry with me Lets try to hold our temper Dont get hot under the collar

Asking if someone is angry

Whats the matter? What happened? What do you look so insulted about? Why are you acting so insulted? Did I insult you? Are you angry about something?

Are you angry with me?

What are you so angry about? What is make you mad?

There several possible ways to express anger.

1. Blowing off steam (expressing ones own grudges) 2. Mild rebuke (grumbling and complaining softly) 3. Extreme politeness (expressing anger by using a very polite greeting) 4. Silence (being angry without words but showing emotion) 5. Sarcasm (being angry with nice words in a very painful way) 6. Screaming and yelling (being angry with a loud voice) 7. Threatening (saying you will do harm) 8. Swearing (being angry using rude words)

1st Conversation
A : Today is my bad day B : Why? What's wrong? A : I feel down from motorcycle in front of Campus B : Really? Are you Ok? A : I am fine, but I feel so embarrassed because my shoes were flying over me and my skirt was torn. B : You must be very ashamed. A : You bet. I felt so ashamed to know that. I don't feel convenient because there were some boys hanging out.

2nd Conversation
Andy : Mom, have you seen my tie? I couldnt find it. : Its on your desk. You put it last night, dont you remember that? : No, I was busy last night. And Mom, did you see my presentation essay? : Oh, dear! You cant find your essay? Dont be careless! You are not a kid any more!

Mother
Andy Mother

Andy

Mother Andy Mother

: Of course I am a man now. But please help me, Mom! Ill be late for works. : Check your black bag! : Ok. Aah, I found it. Thank you, Mom. Bye. : All right, take care of yourself, honey.

Evaluation
1. Rani Emma : Whats going on? : I called someone I know, near the bookstore. Rani : So, whats wrong with that? Emma : The truth, hes not the guy I know. And he looked at me. _______ . Rani : Haha, Its not strange, because you didnt see his face, did you? a. Im sorry to hear that! c. Im not agree with that! b. That makes me angry! d. I feel so embarrassed!

2. Mrs. Bi Ijah Mother Bi Ijah Mother Bi Ijah

: Oh, God, what is this? What did you do with my skirt, Bi Ijah?? : Sorry, Ma'am, I burned it. : Again! It has been four times you did it. : I said sorry, Ma' am. But your son, exhausted me. He runs here and there. : Don't blame it on my son. ______ Don't do it again or I will send you back home. : No, Ma'am. I promise I will not do it again. c. Please take it. d. I like that.

a. Thats sound great. b. I am really upset now.

YOU RIGHT!!!

Evaluation 2nd
1. Grumbling and complaining softly . . . a. Silence b. Blowing of steam c. Mild rebuke 2. Being angry without words but showing emotion is meaning as . . . a. Hit something b. Threatening c. Silence 3. Being angry using rude words is the same as . . . a. Extreme Politeness b. Swearing c. Screaming 4. Being angry with nice words in a very painful way . . . a. Sarcasm b. Yelling c. Swearing 5. Expressing ones own grudges means . . . a. Threatening b. Mild Rebuke c. Blowing of steam

YOU WRONG!!!