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UNIVERSITI TEKNOLOGI MALAYSIA

PRINCIPLE OF COUNSELLING
CHELMI MUAMAR ROSYADI MANULANG SATRIADI

PRINCIPLE OF COUNSELLING

EMPATHY
Definition of Empathy
Empathy is a

multidimensional and complex social phenomenon consisting of cognitive, relational 2006). affective, processes and (Smith,

Carl
conditions counseling, counseling empathy

Rogers
of and a for

introduced
successful humanistic places value core

empathy as one of the necessary

practice as

(Association

Humanistic

Counseling, 2012).

RELATION EMPATHY BETWEEN CONSELLING

As a consellor, you must to build the relationship with the client through all the skills you need. Yet all these skills will be hindered without the use of empathy.

Rothschild

(Campbell

&

Simmonds,

2011)

describes empathy as the connective tissue of good therapy which hones the tools of insight and intuition, but also points out that the neurological, psychological and somatic mechanisms of empathy can lead to compassion fatigue or vicarious traumatisation

SYMPATHY AND EMPATHY ???

TRUST
Definition of Trust
Rousseau et al. (1988),

defined trust as a psychological state that comprises the intention to accept vulnerability due to

positive expectations about the

intentions or behavior of

another.

Cook and

Wall (1980)

suggested two main factors

of trust : faith in the good

intentions of the other party and the degree of confidence in their capabilities and reliability.

McAllister (1995), on the other hand, explained the phenomenon using a cognitive dimension based on objective reasons to trust someone in certain

circumstances, as well as an emotional dimension,

which is motivated by an interpersonal relationship.

RELATION TRUST BETWEEN CONSELLING

Trust in counseling is achieved through
compassionate and mindful communication that is

relationship focused. Trust happen when a counselor

fosters emotional intimacy, letting the client know that he or she has actually been heard. This process creates a positive feedback loop confirming understanding between counselor with client (Coulehan, 2009, p. 598).

CONGRUENCE
Definition of Congruence
According to Lietaer (1993) congruence define as awareness, the ability to be aware of ones own internal experience and the transparency, the willingness to communicate to the other person what is going on within.

According to Gillon (2007) defined congruence :

That the therapist is his actual self during his encounter with his client. Without facade, he openly has the feelings and attitudes that are flowing in him at the moment. This involves self-awareness; that is, the therapists feeling are available to him to his awareness and he is able to live them, to experience them, in the relationship, and to communicate them if they persist

RELATION CONGRUENCE BETWEEN CONSELLING

The condition of therapist congruence is the least understood of all the core conditions and has been open to considerable misunderstanding and misinterpretation over the years. Being congruent, a counselor seen as a process of awareness and openness in the moment, escapes the problem of claiming some greater ontological validity for certain aspects of self.

When I am being congruent, as well as being open to my experience, I am also doing different things at different times depending on the person I am with, the situation and the specific in-therapy context in which I am being congruent (Wyatt, 2000). The counselor must be congruent which involves being aware of : Feelings of the client Awareness of client Expressions of the client

UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARD

Definition of Unconditional Positive Regard Rogers (Sommers; 2014) defined unconditional positive regards as follows: To the extent that the therapist find himself (herself) experiencing a warm acceptance of each aspect the clients experience he is experiencing unconditional positive regards its means there are no condition of acceptance no feeling of I like you only if you thus and so. It means a prizing of the person, as Dewey has used that term. It means a caring for the client as a separate person

RELATION UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARD BETWEEN CONSELLING

Offering unconditional positive regard often relies on listening and responding non-judgmentally to whatever a client is experiencing at a given moment. Although this may imply a passive quality,

unconditional positive regard is more active, openly

warm, valuing process (Gillon, 2007).

For Roger, unconditional positive regard was based on an underlying belief that consistent warmth, acceptance and prizing of clients were needed to facilitate client growth toward their potential. Here, Roger describing how positive or accepting feeling toward clients are what allow clients to feel safe enough to explore their self-doubts, insecurities, and weaknesses.

NON JUDGEMENTAL
Definition of Non Judgmental
Non Judgmental means that of, relating to, or indicating an attitude and approach that is open and not integrating whatsoever. a judgment

Carl Rogers strongly believed that each person is unique, that each person should be responsible for the conduct and direction of his or her own life, and

especially that one person should not impose beliefs and

values on another. (Don Baucum, 1999)

RELATION NON JUDGEMENTAL BETWEEN CONSELLING

The counselor need to provide an environment in which the client does not feel under threat or judgment. This enables the client to experience and accept more of who they are as a person, and

reconnect with their own values and sense of selfworth.

CONFIDENTIALITY
Definition of Confidentiality
Confidentiality is the state of being secret. It is mainly associated with professions such as law, medicine, and counseling. Confidentiality ensures that information is only accessible only to those authorized to have access.

Confidentiality is a central aspect of counseling. The counseling process depends on the client feeling sufficiently safe to be able to talk openly and honestly about whatever it is that is bothering them. (McLeod & McLeod, 2011)

RELATION CONFIDENTIALITY BETWEEN CONSELLING

There are 2 main practical ways in which counselors can ensure that confidentiality is dealt with in an appropriately ethical manner : 1. Being a counselor involves developing a capacity to store client information in separate boxes in ones mind, and only to open each of these boxes when required to do so. 2. The client is informed about the limits of confidentiality, then they are in position to decide about whether or not to disclose certain areas of information.

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