Group III

Desty Andriani
Moh. Akib Wibiyan
Poppy Jessy Mayuri
Rahmat Tri Febrian
Having an Unsuccessful
Conversation
&
Having a Successful
Conversation
 DEFINITION OF SUCCESFUL
CONVERSATION
Successful conversation means the
process of exchanging information
(communication) between two parties
or more runs effectively indicated
by the acceptance of ideas,
interest, necessity, etc which end
in mutual gain by the parties
involved.
 Factors Influencing successful
conversation
Successful
conversation

Effective use of verbal The awareness

communication Non-verbal Communication

Interest
 Successful
Conversation

Effective use of Verbal

communication

1. The use of level language (formal / informal)

2. The use of effective clictions that suit both parties
 Successful
Conversation

The awareness of
Non-Verbal
communication

1. Body gesture
2. Mimic
3. Body signals
4. Eye contact
 Successful
Conversation

Interest

Consider that our conversation partner has the

competence or not toward what we are going to say or
discuss information
 Fact about successful
information

“ Some research have proven that

almost 90% of successful
conversation / communication is
supported by non-verbal
communication”.
 Tips for making successful
conversation
When and to
whom we start
a conversation

Someone we have
just seen Someone we have known
(foreigner)
Tips for making successful
conversation to someone we have
known

1. Prepare
 Necessity goals / priorities
 Self performance
 Timing
a. When to start
b. How long
c. When to end

2. Focus on interest
3. Use firm/correct language, easy to
be understood
5. Don’t monopolize the conversation
6. Give meaningful feedback
7. Oriented to win-win strategy
 Definition of unsuccessful
conversation

Unsuccessful conversation means the

process of exchanging information
(communication) between two parties or
more runs ineffectively indicated by
refusal of ideas, interest, necessity,
etc which later on the conversation will
end in win-lose position, lose-lose
position, or no lost – no solution.
 Things cause failure in
conversation
1. Ineffectively use verbal communication
2. Unawareness to non-verbal communication
3. Selfishness
 Monopoly the conversation
 Regard the conversation partner’s competence
is below self competence.
4. Bad listeners
5. Incapability to give meaningful feedback
6. Oriented to win-lose strategy
 Dialogues
Condition : we are asking for tips to improve our weight to a fat
man.
Dialogues 1
Manap : How are you Kelik ?
Kelik : I’m great and how are you ?
Manap : Not good this recently
Kelik : Why is that so…?
Manap : Actually I want to improve my weight and I’ve tried many
ways but always unsuccess.
Kelik : Oh, that’s to bad. Wish I could do something
Manap : Yes, you could. You are fat, aren’t you ? What did you do
to make you over weight ?
Kelik : …………………………….
Dialogues 2

Manap : How are you Kelik ?

Kelik : I’m great and how are you ?
Manap : Not good this recently
Kelik : Why is that so…?
Manap : Actually I want to improve my weight and I’ve tried many
ways but always unsuccess.
Kelik : Oh, that’s to bad. Wish I could do something
Manap : You look a little heavy, what did you do to make your
body look helthy ?
Kelik : …………………………….
 Tips How to have a successful
conversation with any woman
1. Her Name

2. A common denominator

3. Her phone number

 Group III

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