By Prof. Ramneek Kapoor Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program A step in direction of reducing gaps between the *faculty and the student *bringing cohesive thinking *sense of belonging *A common approach to a better career path *A sense of pride towards the teacher-institute-student Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Maintain informal cordiality Be available always Listen from the heart Speak from the heart Respect their view points Refer to the management Help us-them-yourself to solve their/our issues Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Better understand the academic, personal, career and other environmental issues that affect our students Better understand the role, responsibility and commitment of the vidyaarthi mitra the mentor To understand and demonstrate practices of effective counseling, menting and advising as a good well wishing friend the vidyaarthi mitra Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program
How do we begin Receive provide Orientation to the program Complete mentorship Application form Analyze different aspirations, career plans Analyze language , stream background Students are interviewed In groups-individually Correct mentorship forms
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program What is the mentors job Develop faith and understanding amongst the new students if they have been able to: Settle down in their college atmosphere Understand What has been taught till date Do they have a language problem Do they have settled their career goal Do they have identified their SWOT Do they need your direction/guidance . Help as a friend in doing all the above
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Why our students need mentors Change of atmosphere New study stream Peer Pressure Absenteeism Goal Setting Social Skills Anger Management Pressure At Home Part-time Work Failing Grades Depression/ Suicide Substance Abuse
For our students a Mentor can become A role model
A friend Easy to talk to One who shows us new things Not a parent One who does not judge us Understanding Knowledgeable
One who encourages us One who listens to us Open-minded Empathetic Trustworthy One who gives guidance One who respects us One who doesnt get angry
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Role of the student- Mentor Academic Help Goal Setting Emotional Support Exposure to new things Career Exploration Assistance
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Practices of an Effective student Mentor Builds a friendship Has Fun Keeps Relationships Alive Involves students in Decisions Respects students Viewpoints Is Committed Separate Goals Easily available- approachable Allows students to Make Mistakes An Effective Mentor Focus on the positive Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Pitfalls of student Mentoring Imposing past Values Authoritative attitude Demand performance without guidance Not Seeking Support of students Lack of interest Criticism
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Stages in student- mentor Relationship Testing Goal Trust Celebrating together Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Guidelines for creating favorable Situations Discuss the current situation vis a vis future expectations Reinforce positivity about your mentee. Settle what you want to accomplish. Discuss the milestones- strategies Stay seriously supportive Discuss fears, concerns sensitive issues in a private place and healthy atmosphere Consider relating something personal Meet almost three times a week Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Our students Culture Our students are from extremely socially diverse background . They have different customs and values. We need to amalgamate all these into one-Kothari culture That can happen when we develop our culture and exhibit Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Goals Goal of mentoring is to create inclusion. You feel valued and respected by me. I feel valued and respected by you. We create our common goal that lead to respects for both Generate activity and spirit of higher achievements Generate a better way of dealing with difficult situations Build confidence and pride Accelerate the sense of pride each time a higher is achieved Practicing mentorship Devote your self to your mentoring time, fully prepared with background of the mentee Make use of a game, a book or any other activity to start a conversation not kill it. Ask High Quality career oriented Questions Be Careful Not To Use Yes And No Questions Encourage personal discussions and encourage openness Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program Mentor activities Organize special career, academic, social and cultural seminars Create a culture of debate and discussion Develop a logo , slogan and idea Develop a face book personal page Develop a whatsap group Develop a twitter group Name your group
Vidyaarthi Mitra Students Mentorship Program keeping it alive
4-6 hours each week Weekly telephone contact activities/hours Keep contact with parents Develop wisdom classes Encourage participation in all college activities