Interpersonal communication I. ORAL COMMUNICATION: 1. Definition 2. Reasons for communicating 3. Some diseases in communication 4. Tips for successful communication 5. A combination of both face to face and online communication II. BODY TALKS: 1. Gesture & body language 2. The face & the eyes
WHAT DOES COMMUNICATION MEAN? An accomplishment: talking together, discussing, consulting, telling. An interaction: a knowing look, a gentle touch, a hard push, a shaking hand, a wave, WHY DOES PEOPLE COMMUNICATE? In order to: Inform Request Persuade Create understanding between people Build trusting relationship
DO YOU THINK THAT COMMUNICATING MEANS OPENING DOORS B/W PEOPLE ? YES! Opening doors give people the tool to: Be closer. Understand deeply about their partner. Share feelings, opinions, thoughts. Improve the partnerships.
6 DISEASES IN COMMON COMMUNICATION 1. Inferiority diseases: Be shy, regardless themselves. Lose their unique personality. 2. Fear disease: Not dare to express their thoughts and feelings. Make them become passive. 3. Suspicion disease: Be suspected about what partners say. Make the relationships become worse & worse.
4. Resistance disease: Like to argue with others. Force other people to follow them. 5. Calculation disease: Be selfish, superficial. Only know their own benefits and interests. 6. Haughty disease: Look down on the others. Take advantage of the relationships. HOW CAN WE MAKE SUCCESSFUL CONVERSATIONS? SOME TIPS/ USEFUL HABITS: Sincerely listen Pay complements Remember names Maintain eye contact Remember common interests Use body languages Always update hot news Dont interrupt the conversation Follow up 8 tips above
WOULD YOU PREFER FACE TO FACE OR ONLINE COMMUNICATION? FACE TO FACE Be direct & traditional Reduce misunderstanding
Feel more friendly
Be more confident & active Waste much time
Long distance Can be delayed/interrupted Be difficult to control the angry
ONLINE Be indirect & modern Be easy to give misunderstanding Feel more suspicious & more strange Be more passive Save time with very fast speech Shorten the distance Maybe it doesnt happen,
THEREFORE:
Combining of both ways: face to face and online communication. Using the suitable communicating method at the right time & depending on each case.
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN? TRY TO GUESS WHAT IS BODY LANGUAGE? A form of non-verbal communication. Using the parts of a body (arms, hands, legs) Expressing the feelings and emotions that words sometimes cant do. DO YOU THINK THE BODY LANGUAGE CAN MEAN MUCH MORE THAN WORDS? YES! In life: Especial formula for deaf-mute Can guess peoples mind and emotions Distinguish b/w the trust & a lie In presentation: Be a masterful/ successful communicator Clarify meanings and emphasize important messages Attract the attention of audiences NO! Be misunderstood Lack of knowledge Abuse or use incorrectly in communicative situation People from different cultures can interpret body language in different ways
THE FACE The key to understand your innate abilities, talents, communication style, careers and relationship. Send many non- verbal body language Give clues about the character What does a face really tell us about someones personality? Forehead, lips, eyes, nose, mouth The first impression , do you trust? Not always correct THE EYES The lamp of the body The most direct contact we make with people & express our feelings most sincerely. Reveal the most about someone see the kind of person that person is
Means that you an figure out a persons thoughts, feelings just by looking at how their eyes respond to your questions. Why are the eyes called the windows of the soul? Show the true emotions: fear, pain, sadness, gladness, danger or sometimes sexy, enticing and full in love. Show who really who are in the inside and what you are really thinking.