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Group agreement
Listen to each other
Respect each others comments and
opinions
Support each other and work together
Respectful relationships
What is a relationship?
What is respect?
Definition two
Violence against women is defined as any act of
gender-based violence that results in, or is likely to result
in, physical, sexual or mental harm or suffering to
women, including threats of such acts, coercion or
arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether occurring in
public or in private life (United Nations, 1993)
Forms of violence
Physical
Verbal
Emotional
Psychological
Financial
Social isolation and abuse
Harassment and stalking
What is consent?
Consent means free agreement of your
own free will, not because you're forced,
scared or threatened. Both people must
freely agree to engage in sexual activity for
there to be consent. Sex without the
consent is a crime (Victoria Legal Aid,
2014).
What is consent?
To give consent you must:
Be the right age. The law sets clear age limits for having
sex. The age limits are designed to protect young people
from being taken advantage of by older people
Be sober and awake. If someone is unconscious or
affected by alcohol or drugs, then they cannot freely
agree
Be mentally and physically able. A person has to have
the mental ability to make decisions and the physical
ability to communicate their desires (Victoria Legal Aid,
2014).
Consent questions
1. Are the people in this scenario acting
appropriately regarding consent? Why?
Why not?
2. If you saw your friend in this situation,
would you have a responsibility to act?
3. Name one way the people in the story
could improve their communication about
sex.
Mythbusting attitudes
Violence against women is not common in Australia
Violence against women is extremely common in Australia. One in three
women have experienced violence at least once in their lives (ABS, 2012).
If a woman is wearing revealing clothes, she is asking for it or she
deserved it
Rape or sexual assault is not caused by a woman choosing to wear certain
clothes. It happens because the perpetrator chooses to commit a crime. No
one asks to be raped and no one deserves it.
Violence is caused by alcohol and substance abuse
Violence is a choice. Alcohol and drugs are often used by perpetrators as an
excuse for their behaviour. Almost equal numbers of perpetrators are drunk or
sober.
Mythbusting attitudes
Men are naturally violent and sometimes just lose their temper and cant
control it
Violence is a choice. Being angry is an emotion, but people choose whether or not to be
violent. Men are not naturally violent. They are conditioned by our society to believe that
violence is normal and acceptable. Often perpetrators are not violent towards other men or
people in positions of power. Perpetrators choose to use violence to gain power and control.
Sexual assault occurs because men cant control their need for sex
Violence is a choice. Men can make choices not to assault someone. Perpetrators use
sexual assault to gain power and control.
Mythbusting attitudes
It is a mans right to have sex within a marriage or relationship
Rape is rape. Sex in marriage and relationships should always be consensual and
never forced.
Violence against women only occurs in certain groups
Violence against women occurs in every community.
Violence against women is mostly committed by strangers
More than two-thirds of women who have experienced violence have known the
person who committed the violence.
Some people deserve to be beaten because they provoke the violence.
No one deserves to be assaulted. The responsibility rests solely with the
perpetrator. There is no excuse for violence. Some women will defend themselves
in an abusive relationship but there is a difference between abusing someone and
defending yourself from being abused further.
Gender
What is the difference between sex and
gender?
What are some examples of gender
stereotypes?
Where do stereotypes come from?
What is a bystander?
A bystander is a person or persons, not directly
involved as a victim or perpetrator, who
observes an act of violence, discrimination or
other unacceptable behaviour (VicHealth, 2012).
Bystander scenario
Sexist comments on your friends
Facebook page
You log onto Facebook and notice that your
male friend has posted a sexist comment on
his page. How should you respond?
Bystander scenario
A woman getting hassled on the train
You are on a crowded train and you see a man standing
over a woman. You hear him make sexually suggestive
comments about her breasts and body. The woman is
trying to tell him to stop and looks very uncomfortable but
the man pays no attention to what she is saying. Everyone
else on the train is doing their best to ignore what is
happening. How should you respond?
cohealth
Victims assistance and counselling program
Phone: (03) 8398 4100
Counselling line
Phone: (03) 8398 4178
MensLine Australia
Professional telephone and online support, information and referral service, helping men to deal with relationship problems in a
practical and effective way
Phone: 1300 78 99 78
Thank you!
References
Australian Bureau of Statistics (2012) Personal safety survey, cat. no.
4906.0, Australian Bureau of Statistics, Canberra.
United Nations (1993) Declaration on the elimination of violence against
women, United Nations General Assembly, Geneva.