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COMMUNICATION
If the words, the tone, and the body language are all in step, in
synchronization, then the communication is said to be congruent
55%
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38%
Reactions to an invasion
of your space
Feel troubled
Get defensive
Become aggressive
Hand Shake
An universal form of greeting and almost everyone does it...
If you meet a woman...
How to Handshake:
Palm Vertical to the ground and extending your arm forward as though you
were sawing wood with a hand saw. It sends a message of greetings, I am here
for you as you for me. We are equals.
Better Tilt your hand slightly so that your palm is pointing to the sky. This subtle
body language message is humility and that you are there to help and to serve.
Palm Up I am here to serve you. It can also indicate when first offered,
submission or take charge.
Palm Down This is the authoritative position. You are in charge or in authority.
You are there to take the lead, to take care of things, to get the job done.
However it can also indicate a controlling personality.
Hand in Hand Typically your greeter will offer a hand palm up and before
shaking starts the second hand sandwiches yours.
It is given when wanting to demonstrate concern or to convey that youre with a
caring individual. It conveys familiarity.
The Middle Five
Related to a high five, a mid five fanning of the hand will be offered from the
right side of your greeter and will wave in almost as if to clap your hand and
then ending in a traditional shake.
Only engage in it if you are familiar or have become known to the person
offering it
Eye Contact
Blushing
FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
The emotional face expressions are:
Happiness
Sadness
Fear
Disgust
Surprise
Anger
Are the same across cultures
Angry, Disapproving
Open
Honest, Accepting
Angry/annoyed or Defensive
Angry/annoyed
Amazement
Scratching Head
Puzzled , Confused
Rubbing Eyes
Tired
Tense
Pointing at you
Angry
OK Signal
Fine
V Sign
Peace, Victory
Voice - Paralanguage
Open Stance
Interested people always have an erect
posture, pay attention and lean forward
A firm handshake will give the impression of
assertiveness or honesty
People showing open hands, both feet planted
on the ground are accepting
A head tilted to the side indicates interest
NONVERBAL BEHAVIOR
INTERPRETATION
Confidence
Readiness, aggression
Boredom
Open, relaxed
Defensiveness
Dejection
Hand to cheek
Evaluation, thinking
Doubt, disbelief
Boredom
Rubbing hands
Anticipation
Confidence, superiority
Negative evaluation
Impatience
Steepling fingers
Authoritative
Patting/fondling hair
Tilted head
Interest
Stroking chin
Disbelief
Biting nails
Insecurity, nervousness
Nod once in a
while to signal that -Nodding the head
- Yes in most societies
you are listening.
- No in some parts of
But dont overdo it
Greece, Yugoslavia,
-Tossing the head backward
- yes in India, Thailand,
-Rocking head slowly, back and
forth
- yes, Im listening in most
Asian cultures
Use your hands to describe something or to add weight to a point you are
trying to make. But dont use them to much or it might become distracting.
And dont let your hands flail around, use them with some control.