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Interpersonal
Communication
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Defining Communication
Communication: the process of a sender transmitting a message to
a receiver with mutual understanding.
Questioning
Encouraging
Paraphrasing
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Step 2
Send the message
(transmission mediaoral, written, nonverbal)
Step 3
Message
received
(decode)
Step 4
Response to message
(not always requiredresponse may be a
role reversal)
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Transmission Media
Oral communications
Face-to-face
Telephone
Meetings
Presentations
Nonverbal
communications
Facial expressions
Vocal qualities
Gestures
Posture
Written communications
Memos
Letters
Reports
Bulletin boards
Posters
Computers/e-mail
Fax
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Sending Messages
Remember once you have uttered / written words, they can no longer be
taken back;
Always construct your messages with the receiver clearly in mind;
Put yourself in the shoe of the receiver.
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Sending Messages
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Develop rapport.
State the communication objective.
Transmit the message.
Check understanding.
Get a commitment and follow up.
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What is Listening?
Listening is a powerful yet neglected ingredient of communication. It is an
essential building block to achieving personal effectiveness, organizational
productivity and superior client service;
Listening is more than hearing;
Listening is the accurate perception of what is being communicated;
Listening is a skill that anyone can learn;
Listening is not a passive process.
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Levels of Listening
3. Projective
The receiver listens without evaluation to the full
message, attempting to understand the senders
viewpoint.
2. Evaluative
The receiver listens carefully until hearing
something that is not accepted.
Listening ends and the response to
the incomplete message is
developed.
1. Marginal
Empathic Listening:
The ability to understand
and relate to anothers
situation and feelings.
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Understanding feelings
Empathic listening
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Listening
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
Pay attention.
Avoid distractions.
Stay tuned in.
Do not assume and interrupt.
Watch for nonverbal cues.
Ask questions.
Take notes.
Convey meaning.
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Analyzing
9. Think.
10. Evaluate after listening.
11. Evaluate facts presented.
Speaking
12. Paraphrase first.
13. Watch for nonverbal cues.
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Responding to Employees
Feedback: the process of verifying messages.
Type of feedback:
360 degree feedback
Guidelines for obtaining feedback
Be open to feedback
Be aware of nonverbal communication
Ask questions
Paraphrasing
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Response Styles
Response
Description
Appropriate Situation
Evaluating
Accepts, rejects, passes judgment, When asked for advice, direction or
or offers advice. opinion; when autocratic supervisory
style is appropriate.
Confronting
the message.
Diverting
Changing the subject, redirect,
close, or limit flow of message.
to those of the sender.
Probing
Tries to get more information,
improve understanding with
what questions
Reassuring
Reflecting
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Personality Types
FACTORS:
EXPRESSER
DRIVER
RELATER
ANALYTICAL
How to
Recognize:
They get
excited
They like
positive
attention, to be
helpful & to be
regarded
warmly
Tends to
Ask:
Who?
(the personal
dominant
question)
What?
(the results
oriented
question)
Why?
(the personal
non-goal
question)
How?
(technical,
analytical
question)
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Personality Types
FACTORS:
EXPRESSER
DRIVER
What they
dislike:
Boring
explanations /
wasting time
with not much
facts
Someone
wasting their
time trying to
decide for
them
Reacts to
pressure &
tension by:
Selling their
ideas / being
argumentative
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RELATER
Rejection,
impersonal
treatment,
uncaring &
unfeeling
attitudes
ANALYTICAL
Committing an
error, being
unprepared,
spontaneity
Seeking more
data &
Information
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Personality Types
FACTORS:
Best way to
deal with
them is by:
EXPRESSER
Getting excited
Letting them be
with them and
in-charge
showing emotion
Likes to be
Applause,
measured by: feedback &
recognition
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DRIVER
RELATER
ANALYTICAL
Activities and
businesses leading
to results
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Personality Types
FACTORS:
EXPRESSER
DRIVER
RELATER
ANALYTICAL
Must be
allowed to:
Get ahead
Get into a
quickly and be competitive
challenged
situation and
win
Relax, feel,
Make decisions
care, and know at own pace, and
that you care
not be cornered
or pressured
Will
improve
with:
Recognition
and some
structure with
which o reach
the goal
A structure of
goals &
methods for
achieving each
goal
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A position that
requires
cooperation
with others
Interpersonal &
communication
skills
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Personality Types
FACTORS:
EXPRESSER
DRIVER
Like to
save:
Effort by relying
heavily on
hunches,
intuition &
feelings
Time. They
like to be
efficient and
get things
done now!
For best
results:
Inspire them to
Allow them
bigger & better
freedom o do
accomplishments things their
own way
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RELATER
ANALYTICAL
Relationships.
Friendship
means a lot to
them
Structure a
framework or a
track to
follow.
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Communication Styles
PASSIVE
ASSERTIVE
AGGRESSIVE
Definition
Communication style
in which you put the
rights of others before
your own self worth
Communication style
in which you stand up
for your rights while
maintaining respect
for the rights of others
Communication style
in which you stand
up for you rights but
you violate the rights
of others
Implication to
Others
We are both
important
I dont matter
We both matter
I think Im inferior
I think Im superior
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Communication Styles
PASSIVE
ASSERTIVE
AGGRESSIVE
Verbal Styles
Apologetic;
Overly soft or tentative
voice
I statements;
Firm Voice
You statements;
Loud Voice
Non-Verbal Styles
Looking directly;
Relaxed posture,
smooth and relaxed
movements
Potential
Consequences
Lowered self-esteem;
Anger at self;
False feelings of inferiority;
Disrespect from others;
Pitied by others
Higher self-stem;
Self respect;
Respect from others;
Respect of others
Guilt;
Anger from others;
Lowered self-esteem;
Disrespect from
others;
Feared by others
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